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  • Опубліковано 19 чер 2024
  • My Husbands Best Friend is Getting Married, and I’m Completely Refusing to Go. Am I Wrong for This?
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  • @PatrickDodd-go9nq
    @PatrickDodd-go9nq 9 днів тому +285

    Is it just me or am I the only one getting confused with the names

    • @minecraft-qf2si
      @minecraft-qf2si 9 днів тому +9

      Yes me too

    • @zjebixx
      @zjebixx 9 днів тому +3

      same

    • @Darklait
      @Darklait 9 днів тому +10

      So is Gail a man or woman. I thought Gail was the gun guy and Dan is the fiancee from Bonnie the lyer ? And the rock is the man of op correct ?

    • @Baba_Yaga_123
      @Baba_Yaga_123 9 днів тому +4

      I had to rewind a bunch of times 😂

    • @Baba_Yaga_123
      @Baba_Yaga_123 9 днів тому

      @@DarklaitGail is a female who is Bi and is about 2-3 years younger than OP and OP’s husband, Wayne. Bonnie is the liar and her fiancé is Dan who doesn’t like guns and was manipulated by Gail to dislike OP and her husband Wayne. Gail has mental health issues.

  • @claytonthomas1980
    @claytonthomas1980 9 днів тому +93

    Don't attend the wedding because it's not worth it and never will be.

  • @dollyl5596
    @dollyl5596 7 днів тому +23

    Don’t go, since they saved up for the supposed trip for Bonnie’s wedding, they can use that to go on vacation as a family of 3…both Bonnie and Gail can’t be trusted after what happened

  • @MaxCharles-bn8qz
    @MaxCharles-bn8qz 9 днів тому +91

    Clarity for those confused, as far as I'm aware.
    Bonnie is marrying Dan. Bonnie, Gale and Wayne (OP's husband) all studied together and are friends from the nursing thing. Gale is the one bitching about OP (wayne's wife). Dan hated OP and Wayne from what Gale told him. Bonnie never corrected any of this

    • @Baba_Yaga_123
      @Baba_Yaga_123 9 днів тому +11

      I get the feeling that Wayne accidentally rizzed up both Gale and Bonnie. Gale was just the one with mental issues and Bonnie was constantly lying or omitting things which is almost as bad.
      I would just make sure Dan knows what is up but not go since it was a big financial decision for them to go due to all of the drama.
      Wayne must be a catch if he was able to drive one girl insane and the other into being a liar 😂

    • @Bonk171
      @Bonk171 9 днів тому +5

      @@Baba_Yaga_123fr. At this point, might as well complete the look and run into Gotham city with a bat costume

    • @Baba_Yaga_123
      @Baba_Yaga_123 9 днів тому +5

      @@Bonk171 so Gale is the Joker and Bonnie is Two Face? 😂

  • @neutechnica
    @neutechnica 9 днів тому +56

    They all sound like a bunch of petty drama llamas that can't communicate their way out of a paper bag.

  • @trinijay4256
    @trinijay4256 7 днів тому +8

    It’s possible that Bonnie is responsible for all the mess she seems untrust worthy if she new the things Gail was saying why didn’t she say something? Why was Gail comfortable trashing op and her husband with Bonnie and Dan…

  • @Arkryal
    @Arkryal 9 днів тому +22

    What the fuck did I just hear?
    This is so stupid. There's nothing about this situation that isn't resolved with an eye-roll and a shrug of indifference. Friend and Foe alike will be revealed by their own actions, just sit back and let them, then everyone can see all parties for who and what they actually are. You don't need to probe for truth, find reason or rationalize anything. Just kick back, order a pizza, and don't even pretend to give a shit. The crazies, when left alone, always self-destruct. Just stand back and let them, and whoever is left standing at the end can be your friend. This takes no effort, no thought, just apathy.

  • @ritarevell7195
    @ritarevell7195 7 днів тому +4

    I’d just stay home. I would send a nice gift and card and wish them well. Don’t go, don’t hold your breath expecting an apology from them. It’s just all too weird.

  • @Nonsensegaming0
    @Nonsensegaming0 9 днів тому +18

    You don't have to go anywhere

    • @CalmEditss
      @CalmEditss 9 днів тому

      No I’m so confused aswell

  • @chessieray1465
    @chessieray1465 7 днів тому +3

    An instigator and enabler? Buh bye.

  • @amaristhecrow7084
    @amaristhecrow7084 4 дні тому

    I NEVER pass hurtful gossip. It always ends with me whenever I can end it. I stand up for the people I know, etc. But I don’t pass it on. I don’t consider it lying by omission. I feel like telling is worse and adding unnecessary drama. I would definitely check Gail and talk to Wayne about dealing with Gail in this situation. And I would check Dan. But I probably wouldn’t have told the wife. It’s an unnecessary burden and unnecessary drama.

  • @silky0439
    @silky0439 6 днів тому

    The Ending was the Best, absolute BEST Conclusion Ever! WELL DONE!🤩👊🏽🤩 this is worth a multiple video repeat for that Alone! So Well Written! 🏆

  • @Corbify
    @Corbify 9 днів тому +14

    0:57

  • @aprilmiller4413
    @aprilmiller4413 2 дні тому

    Definitely do NOT go!!!

  • @loyaltyisroyalty5616
    @loyaltyisroyalty5616 8 днів тому +1

    People commenting “go” “don’t go” like this caliber of dramatics is normal daily life?

  • @YAMOTHAS
    @YAMOTHAS 9 днів тому +7

    COMMUNICATION IS KEY in EVERY relationship… instead of gossiping like children with Bonnie, Wayne should’ve called Dan and also called gail WAY sooner… instead of listening to Bonnie like children… everybody could’ve gotten a three-way call Dan and Bonnie, Gail, and Wayne and his wife and could’ve easily smashed all the rumors and handled everything instead this was drawn out way too long…

  • @beeeeeeeeeeeeeans
    @beeeeeeeeeeeeeans 8 днів тому +1

    I heard Bonnie and gale immediately thought hunger games

  • @Is_Gold_Slay2
    @Is_Gold_Slay2 9 днів тому +20

    The confusion isn’t the timeline it’s the names because everyone in the story is incredibly childish. Including OP but husband seems like the most mature here , you haven’t done anything wrong but step out of this for your own sake and respect ; don’t go. NTA
    Edit : for those who don’t know why I called everyone childish even the OP truthfully admitted it to being high school. This doesn’t happen in a group of grown adults , the OP is childish by continuing the situation instead of easily have stepped away from it from the beginning , she had the choice to leave the situation ( an easier choice ) but kept it going

  • @YaoixYaoi
    @YaoixYaoi 9 днів тому

    Love the Letterkenny references with the names 🩷

  • @kymdagnall8344
    @kymdagnall8344 5 днів тому

    If you don’t go It could give Gayle ideas

  • @suncatcher87
    @suncatcher87 8 днів тому

    OP's logical. Wayne is a lucky man.

  • @FOXcakepro
    @FOXcakepro 9 днів тому +5

    Wait who tf is getting married gale or boonie?

  • @daveo1808
    @daveo1808 8 днів тому +1

    Nurses man lol

  • @cheyennepuerner4563
    @cheyennepuerner4563 9 днів тому +1

    Sounds like a mess of twenty somethings that haven’t figured out life yet lol. They’ll all be fine. The woman telling the story seems to have it all figured out and is just freakin over it lol

  • @Imreallyjusthim971
    @Imreallyjusthim971 8 днів тому

    For everyone looking for the full story, it’s linked under the subscribe button on this video. I have also decided to step up and become paragraph-man:
    The rest of the story is this:
    Bonnie and Gayle were each in relationships already, and spent a lot of time at OPs house with her husband, and they all became friends and had dinner together all the time with Bonnie and Gayle and their significant others. After the program Wayne and Bonnie got jobs in the same ER and saw a lot of trauma there because it was in a rough part of town. Gail however had the night shift and Wayne lost contact with her but Bonnie didn’t. Bonnie’s boyfriend proposed to her around this time, but the wedding was very far away, 13 hours by driving. OP then found out she was pregnant and that the baby boy would be 9 months old and the time of the wedding, allowing her to leave him with the parents
    Last week, Wayne found out Bonnie had a very bad fight with her fiancée, Dan, because Wayne and OP were invited to the wedding. This was because Gail was apparently under the delusion that Wayne was in love with her. Gail spoke regularly with Dan and Bonnie, making up stories of encounters thay happened that really didn’t.

  • @MsMookalate
    @MsMookalate 9 днів тому +5

    OP (F/30)
    Wayne (M/30/ OP's Husband/ ER Nurse)
    Bonnie (F/27/ ER Nurse/ Drama Queen?)
    Dan (M/27/ Bonnie's Fiancé)
    Gayle (F/28/ the Delulu? Nurse)
    Tannis (F/28/ Gayle's ex-GF)

  • @Emily-mv6fi
    @Emily-mv6fi 8 днів тому +1

    I’m so confused like you don’t have to go but why are you all acting so childish like just talk to them

  • @codyjones8153
    @codyjones8153 9 днів тому +4

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  • @THEFRAUD-ip7no
    @THEFRAUD-ip7no 9 днів тому +7

    OI OI BAKA shakes my dreads*

  • @sohamshah6789
    @sohamshah6789 7 днів тому

    next time use ABCD much easier to understand

  • @BlessedBowlcut13
    @BlessedBowlcut13 9 днів тому +2

    Yo

  • @dollyl5596
    @dollyl5596 7 днів тому +2

    Don’t go, since they saved up for the supposed trip for Bonnie’s wedding, they can use that to go on vacation as a family of 3…both Bonnie and Gail can’t be trusted after what happened