Without consent. Without consent. Without selfreflection on his lack of bond with his stepbaby. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. You and your baby must get away now. GO
Exactly, step parents are more likely to "delete" unrelated children out of jealousy, and that's a major red flag. Her first question should be "why do you want a kid with me if you don't like my child now?" And leave regardless of his answer.
came here just to say this! The lunacy on display on his part is almost outdone by the negligence to her son that she put on display. I would NEVER leave my baby around someone who said they were angry at and/or hated them, let alone for something they literally CANNOT CONTROL! Complete insanity.
I feel like op is his first victim. After this, he may hide and start again, but this time he learned to pretend nice and loving longer, to cut his victim from their family and friends firstly, to manipulate better, to use stronger pills... Now i'm scared for the next one he date. He failed once, he'll win next time.😢😢😢
I wouldn't forgive him after he said that he has no connection to your child and that it makes him angry just to look at him and then he tried to cut your arm open with a box cutter take your stuff and go before he hurts you or your kid
@@Ilove_Skzoos right?! When it got to the box cutter part my arms tightened so much 😖 the thought of something being cut out of you like that is just disturbed. And the fact he thought it was ok/a sane thing to do is wild
@@QueenMizuat that part I could literally feel my arm tightening...🤮 this whole story was so uncomfortable, especially since he thought it was fine because he "researched" how to take it out, which most likely just means he saw a 5 minute UA-cam video of how to cut skin. Also from the sounds of it, he's doing it horribly. (not sterile, a blunt blade, severely undertrained, etc.) This is a huge break of trust, and an even bigger risk, what would he have done if he pulled it off, but she got an infection? Try to explain he cut her implant out? Nope, he'd make up some bs excuse.
The convo was done when he expressed his feelings about my son. He'd not be a fiance after that and call the police when he tried removing the birth control. Creep!
See ladies, I believe this is what we call "attempted baby trapping." He only wanted that kid to tie her down and always have her with him one way or another.
why is OP even considering staying with the BF? .. you did "see his side" .. you were going to let the birth control run its course and have a child with BF then. he was the one who chose to perform amateur surgery in order to get his way
What was his plan? Like even if she didn’t wake up when he was trying to cut it out and somehow she slept through him cutting it out she would still wake up the next morning with a cut in her arm, and she would probably figure out the birth control was missing while messing with the wound. Plus it would be suspicious how intentional a sudden wound like that would be since if she never woke up it would seem like it just happened out of nowhere. Did he think that she would suddenly be ecstatic to have a child? Did he just think that if he got rid of the birth control then she would just agree and not even question the sudden wound and missing birth control.
I fear that he might have tried to SA her while she was asleep after taking the implant, to get her pregnant ASAP and baby-trap her? As to impose his own beliefs upon hers and there was nothing left to do. He just saw tutorials on how to remove it and went ahead with a box cutter (that might not even be clean, to begin with), he wasn't thinking at all.
I have a feeling that this guy is a Narcsisst and her family has already realized he's bad news and he was still in the live bombing phase. Or two he's already dropped a bunch of little red flags and she didn't think they were serious at the time. Either way I'm glad she got out and I'm hoping that the restraining order will show his roll a bit. Also ladies if he says his ex was crazy but she successfully got a restraining order. You need to take a step back. Do some mire serious looking into and soul searching because 99% of the time you have to have something very very serious to get a restraining order.
@@BrotherBozemanyes and it's lucky they aren't he's gotten to the point where he's the fiance I'm glad he wasn't able to get her to marry him before he tried that stunt
I feel so bad for this girl who rlly loved this man and she is so confused and im scared that this man will hurt other girls also great job to her family for helping her and protecting her
Yeah, so… anyone out there …. If he’s willing to take a box cuter to you to change something this time, what about next time? What if one of the kids has something he doesn’t like, will he take a box cutter to him?
omfg. I really hope she gets a restraining order and that she never has any further contact with him again, at least not where she is alone and vulnerable with him. This guy is a danger to her and her child.
You can tell buy the fact he gets made looking at his stepson he is gonna favor the youngest or his child more then prioritizing both of them equally all kids deserve parents but not all adults deserve kids
I completely understand why a woman would just assume that she should just go to bed and try to work it out tomorrow. There’s the shock factor and the assumption that sleeping on it will make cooler heads prevail. Plus there’s the fact that the fiancé has probably been ratcheting up the pressure on her without her even being aware that things have been getting worse and that she needs to get out, and when she’s noticed that things are wrong, she has almost certainly just dismissed her own thoughts & feelings because her boyfriend has been making her question herself for so long that it wasn’t even something that she was actually aware of in the moment. This kind of thing is insidious.
I think they could’ve looked at the box cutter at it touched her skin and would probably have her dna/ skin cells (idk how that works) to show how it was touched to her skin
I feel bad for the kid he saw that guy is his dad and he will likely never see him again. Yes, he’ll eventually forget about it but it could Subconsciously affect him as he grows up or emotionally affect him when he’s older, even if he doesn’t remember it
One thing that I will never understand about people that get legit issues as adults, like schizophrenia, or like a brain tumor that makes them aggressive and want to do bad things is how they don’t realize something is wrong. Idk if it’s just their brain that makes them think everything is normal, but I feel like if I was all the sudden thinking or doing something horrible like cutting into my fiancé (also she would literally find out the next day anyway even if she didn’t wake up and get back on birth control at the very least, and they you would have caused pain, risked infection, also could have easily hit a vein/artery and made her bleed out, so how would you not realize something is wrong with you and go talk to a doctor. I feel I would know okay I’ve never had these thoughts and this is not something that is okay to do, I really need to talk to someone.
Yeah idk. If this happened to me with the man I love I understand her going to stay with her mom and even breaking it off. But idk if I could just ignore then and not talk to them at all. I would have met with him somewhere very public the next day and talked about his behavior and tell him that I no longer feel safe with him and that he isn’t the man I thought. 8 months goes by so fast. He could have literally just waited 8 months. I would have told him I want him to see a doctor and if it turned out something like people suggested was going on I would have tried to help him through it. I would just need to know if he had been hiding his true self from me or if something else was going on. I feel like going no contact is good in situations or straight up abuse that been going on for a while. But something like this if he was having a mental break shutting him out would just make it worse and make him more dangerous. If I love someone I’m going to try and help them and get to the root of the problem. I wouldn’t let me child around them or be alone with them but I also wouldn’t try to anger him even more before knowing for sure what’s going on with him. Him wanting to cut that out isn’t at all normal behavior and if he had always been very level headed and then all the sudden saw nothing wrong with that I would know either something isn’t right or he was always faking how he acted before.
Another horrible story where the “perfect” love partner (almost always a man) suddenly relieves his true self & almost end the other person’s life… And yet everyone of these stories makes me so sad for the a*used partner, essentially when children are involved too 😭💔 I’m just happy that they actually survived & then also being able to write these stories, completely bodily ok (mentally & emotionally are much more difficult… I can’t even imagine how they feel afterwards, but their courage & the strong will to both be able to continue to live & fight & also being able to share their stories with us that are reading/listening ❤️❤️❤️ The AI-voice didn’t seem to be able to say the correct name of her sleeping med? Since I also have had very severe (& several different parts of) insomnia for about 25 years now, I really would want to know which medication she uses? Can anyone kindly help me? I’d really appreciate that ❤️
@@daniellemitchell3118I don't think it's sympathy, I think they mean going through it as in possibly going into a psychotic state and brain is doing something very very very very very extremely wrong that it shouldn't be. (Either that or they're saying he's getting possessed)
The OP needs BC, needs drugs for sleeping, stays with another guy without the benefit of marriage. The OP is all kinds of dependent and is shocked by her bad decision making skills regarding the ex after her ex. The BF is a bad guy and it’s a guarantee that the signs were always there and the OP just needed her sleeping pills and BC. It’s all about choices and people need to choose wisely.
Yes she doesn't have a father in her life. Her brothers aren't messed up they are doing a great job protecting her. And for all we know her father has passed.
Did we listen to the same story? You are defended a potential abuser who wanted to use a knife to get what they want from their partner. This does not have anything to do with her family or parentage.
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Without consent. Without consent. Without selfreflection on his lack of bond with his stepbaby. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. Run. You and your baby must get away now. GO
She did. And she's covering all her bases.
The fact he wasnt accepting and said he gets angry by just looking at her other son should be enough for her to leave him...
Exactly, step parents are more likely to "delete" unrelated children out of jealousy, and that's a major red flag. Her first question should be "why do you want a kid with me if you don't like my child now?" And leave regardless of his answer.
She only has one son.
came here just to say this! The lunacy on display on his part is almost outdone by the negligence to her son that she put on display. I would NEVER leave my baby around someone who said they were angry at and/or hated them, let alone for something they literally CANNOT CONTROL! Complete insanity.
@@WaryJester100 times more likely to delete.
Bro thinks having babies is like collecting Monopoly money💀💀
I think op’s husband voted for maga
0:57 for everyone who came from the short
Thanks, man! I was a little confused in where I was in the video 😅
Thx man
Thx
Thanks
You're so sweet!
thank you!
The way he views OPs son is enough for her to run for the hills. Who wants to have a baby with someone who sees their child that way??
im scared this man will find me, let me publicly say where i am to strangers online on a site that gets its posts shared everywhere online.
🤣
she is using a different account so no one knows
You'd think this was written yesterday??
@@moaicheese yes, but if her fiance comes across this post or any of this friends they would immediately know its her.
@@ShadowBladee1 true but like yea you got a point
I'm just happy that she has a supportive family who cares and protects one another. Also you don't need to apologize for the rambling.
I feel like op is his first victim. After this, he may hide and start again, but this time he learned to pretend nice and loving longer, to cut his victim from their family and friends firstly, to manipulate better, to use stronger pills... Now i'm scared for the next one he date. He failed once, he'll win next time.😢😢😢
I wouldn't forgive him after he said that he has no connection to your child and that it makes him angry just to look at him and then he tried to cut your arm open with a box cutter take your stuff and go before he hurts you or your kid
She did. You should listen to the full story instead of just the short.
I'm only 25 seconds in and I feel so uncomfortable already. My arms are starting to hurt just thinking about what he's going to do 😅
im rn 7 minutes and smth in this, and its giving me chills
@@Ilove_Skzoos right?! When it got to the box cutter part my arms tightened so much 😖 the thought of something being cut out of you like that is just disturbed. And the fact he thought it was ok/a sane thing to do is wild
@@QueenMizuat that part I could literally feel my arm tightening...🤮 this whole story was so uncomfortable, especially since he thought it was fine because he "researched" how to take it out, which most likely just means he saw a 5 minute UA-cam video of how to cut skin. Also from the sounds of it, he's doing it horribly. (not sterile, a blunt blade, severely undertrained, etc.) This is a huge break of trust, and an even bigger risk, what would he have done if he pulled it off, but she got an infection? Try to explain he cut her implant out? Nope, he'd make up some bs excuse.
The convo was done when he expressed his feelings about my son. He'd not be a fiance after that and call the police when he tried removing the birth control. Creep!
See ladies, I believe this is what we call "attempted baby trapping." He only wanted that kid to tie her down and always have her with him one way or another.
why is OP even considering staying with the BF?
.. you did "see his side" .. you were going to let the birth control run its course and have a child with BF then. he was the one who chose to perform amateur surgery in order to get his way
she dodged a huge bullet... i hope OP and her son are safe and well
What was his plan? Like even if she didn’t wake up when he was trying to cut it out and somehow she slept through him cutting it out she would still wake up the next morning with a cut in her arm, and she would probably figure out the birth control was missing while messing with the wound. Plus it would be suspicious how intentional a sudden wound like that would be since if she never woke up it would seem like it just happened out of nowhere. Did he think that she would suddenly be ecstatic to have a child? Did he just think that if he got rid of the birth control then she would just agree and not even question the sudden wound and missing birth control.
I fear that he might have tried to SA her while she was asleep after taking the implant, to get her pregnant ASAP and baby-trap her? As to impose his own beliefs upon hers and there was nothing left to do.
He just saw tutorials on how to remove it and went ahead with a box cutter (that might not even be clean, to begin with), he wasn't thinking at all.
Stay safe and far away from your ex fiance because that is totally messed up big time and be a good mom to your son.
Beyoncé was mad😮
Beyonce?? What dous she have to do with this lmao
Beyoncé 😭
@@Mawpawz 0:42
That is unbelievably scary. I'm glad that she got out of there.
Girl, don’t walk, FUCKING RUN
I have a feeling that this guy is a Narcsisst and her family has already realized he's bad news and he was still in the live bombing phase. Or two he's already dropped a bunch of little red flags and she didn't think they were serious at the time. Either way I'm glad she got out and I'm hoping that the restraining order will show his roll a bit.
Also ladies if he says his ex was crazy but she successfully got a restraining order. You need to take a step back. Do some mire serious looking into and soul searching because 99% of the time you have to have something very very serious to get a restraining order.
Divorce him run away from him with your son op!
1MIN?!
@@Googilymoogily69 ???
They aren’t married
@@BrotherBozemanyes and it's lucky they aren't he's gotten to the point where he's the fiance I'm glad he wasn't able to get her to marry him before he tried that stunt
see, this is what we commonly call a "red flag"... actually lots of them
No at this point that not a red flag it worse
I feel so bad for this girl who rlly loved this man and she is so confused and im scared that this man will hurt other girls also great job to her family for helping her and protecting her
1:07 relationship would have been over the moment he said that.
101%
This!! She should never have even wanted to have a child with a man who speaks about her son that way.
Say it with me 😃
Jesus Christ wth 😟
Jesus Christ WTH 😳
*jesus* _christ_ -wth-
I'm not religious if there is a god that man is going to hell
@@Sera-tv7xy I’m not religious either, but I %100 agree. That man is a monster
Yeah, so… anyone out there …. If he’s willing to take a box cuter to you to change something this time, what about next time? What if one of the kids has something he doesn’t like, will he take a box cutter to him?
So like, was he gonna try to stitch her back up after also?
Div-vorce
Divorce
You don't divorce a fiance???? You just break up
You can't divorce someone you're not married too
marry him then divorce him? sounds like a plan!
@@IdrisLehuyeah and get literally nothing
Its a little worrying how lifelike AI voices are becoming
omfg. I really hope she gets a restraining order and that she never has any further contact with him again, at least not where she is alone and vulnerable with him. This guy is a danger to her and her child.
You can tell buy the fact he gets made looking at his stepson he is gonna favor the youngest or his child more then prioritizing both of them equally all kids deserve parents but not all adults deserve kids
“I’m not ready for a baby”
“Oh ok let me force one on you”
I completely understand why a woman would just assume that she should just go to bed and try to work it out tomorrow. There’s the shock factor and the assumption that sleeping on it will make cooler heads prevail. Plus there’s the fact that the fiancé has probably been ratcheting up the pressure on her without her even being aware that things have been getting worse and that she needs to get out, and when she’s noticed that things are wrong, she has almost certainly just dismissed her own thoughts & feelings because her boyfriend has been making her question herself for so long that it wasn’t even something that she was actually aware of in the moment. This kind of thing is insidious.
4:49
Speech: At 7 in the morning
Text: At 11 in the morning
CALL THE COPS !
I think they could’ve looked at the box cutter at it touched her skin and would probably have her dna/ skin cells (idk how that works) to show how it was touched to her skin
It didnt his fingers was touching her he was feeling for the thing he wanted to cut out
5:04 huh?
EXACTLY BRO I WAS LIKE WHAT WAS THAT LOLLLLLLL
I just learned you have to renew restrain orders with the person it is against being able to appeal and i am enraged
Call the cops on that man!!!
If he tries to hurt you once, who says he won’t do it again?
holy shit💀💀
Run
I feel bad for the kid he saw that guy is his dad and he will likely never see him again. Yes, he’ll eventually forget about it but it could Subconsciously affect him as he grows up or emotionally affect him when he’s older, even if he doesn’t remember it
Cut the implant out is insanity💀
Girl…. RUN!!!!!
The moment he said he that shhit about my kid ID be gone that night without a notice!!!!
Im so sorry girl
The pauses at 2:56 😭
One thing that I will never understand about people that get legit issues as adults, like schizophrenia, or like a brain tumor that makes them aggressive and want to do bad things is how they don’t realize something is wrong. Idk if it’s just their brain that makes them think everything is normal, but I feel like if I was all the sudden thinking or doing something horrible like cutting into my fiancé (also she would literally find out the next day anyway even if she didn’t wake up and get back on birth control at the very least, and they you would have caused pain, risked infection, also could have easily hit a vein/artery and made her bleed out, so how would you not realize something is wrong with you and go talk to a doctor. I feel I would know okay I’ve never had these thoughts and this is not something that is okay to do, I really need to talk to someone.
Bruh he tried to cut into u
I.
Am.
~Livid.~
Beyoncé was mad😂
Yeah idk. If this happened to me with the man I love I understand her going to stay with her mom and even breaking it off. But idk if I could just ignore then and not talk to them at all. I would have met with him somewhere very public the next day and talked about his behavior and tell him that I no longer feel safe with him and that he isn’t the man I thought. 8 months goes by so fast. He could have literally just waited 8 months. I would have told him I want him to see a doctor and if it turned out something like people suggested was going on I would have tried to help him through it. I would just need to know if he had been hiding his true self from me or if something else was going on. I feel like going no contact is good in situations or straight up abuse that been going on for a while. But something like this if he was having a mental break shutting him out would just make it worse and make him more dangerous. If I love someone I’m going to try and help them and get to the root of the problem. I wouldn’t let me child around them or be alone with them but I also wouldn’t try to anger him even more before knowing for sure what’s going on with him. Him wanting to cut that out isn’t at all normal behavior and if he had always been very level headed and then all the sudden saw nothing wrong with that I would know either something isn’t right or he was always faking how he acted before.
Girl time stamp everything buy cameras and don’t look back
He needs to get an mri this could be a sign of a brain tumour
wtf you mean you don’t want to leave
he tried to cup you open in your sleep and you want to stay what about you kid
Another horrible story where the “perfect” love partner (almost always a man) suddenly relieves his true self & almost end the other person’s life…
And yet everyone of these stories makes me so sad for the a*used partner, essentially when children are involved too 😭💔
I’m just happy that they actually survived & then also being able to write these stories, completely bodily ok (mentally & emotionally are much more difficult…
I can’t even imagine how they feel afterwards, but their courage & the strong will to both be able to continue to live & fight & also being able to share their stories with us that are reading/listening ❤️❤️❤️
The AI-voice didn’t seem to be able to say the correct name of her sleeping med?
Since I also have had very severe (& several different parts of) insomnia for about 25 years now, I really would want to know which medication she uses?
Can anyone kindly help me?
I’d really appreciate that ❤️
Message the parents your son pulled a boxcutter on me while i was asleep get him help
He tried to cut into your arm with a box cutter because he couldn't wait 8 MONTHS!!!
5:04 wtf happened with the audio lmao
"stibile"
Police
I
Am
Livid😡
I’m sorry I had to it was funny-
Dude must be going through it to be ready with a damn box cutter.
Sympathy for attempted murder, or at assault with a deadly weapon?
@@daniellemitchell3118I don't think it's sympathy, I think they mean going through it as in possibly going into a psychotic state and brain is doing something very very very very very extremely wrong that it shouldn't be. (Either that or they're saying he's getting possessed)
Damn still one comment now two tho
The OP needs BC, needs drugs for sleeping, stays with another guy without the benefit of marriage. The OP is all kinds of dependent and is shocked by her bad decision making skills regarding the ex after her ex. The BF is a bad guy and it’s a guarantee that the signs were always there and the OP just needed her sleeping pills and BC. It’s all about choices and people need to choose wisely.
Half of her story is yap about something else entirely
No its not.... get lost
Womp Womp
???
So very clear that there is no dad in her life She is messed up and her brothers are embarrassing.
How is she messed up and her brothers embarrassing
Yes she doesn't have a father in her life. Her brothers aren't messed up they are doing a great job protecting her. And for all we know her father has passed.
Did we listen to the same story? You are defended a potential abuser who wanted to use a knife to get what they want from their partner. This does not have anything to do with her family or parentage.
And this is why you don't marry single moms
And this is why you get no bi**es.
Because…that’s what makes you a psycho with a box cutter?
It wasn’t her fault she made a line and he crossed it
@@nemanjajankovic5772 wtf ? XD
@@nemanjajankovic5772 and its a reason to cut out her implant. Your a genius.
"Father figure"
Say it with me boys: STAY AWAY FROM SINGLE MOTHERS
The guy literally tried to slice her arm open while she was asleep and you think shes the problem? Incel pos.
this is such an incel response jesus christ
Ah yes been dating a single mother automatically makes you a phsyco willing to mutualate your gf to get your way faster. SMH WTF
@@arfbarkbarkamen!
R u slow do u not know what father figure means 💀