Girl, you are so right! I have friends ages 24-45 and ALL these women are having the same exact issues. Men get old but they don’t change at all! These rules are 💯 what I noticed as well.
100% on the mixed signals. THERE WONT BE ANY! During the years my hubby and I were dating, we were long distance and he never once made me feel like I was second to anything. There were time though he did say "I need some space to think about it. Please give me a couple hours to cool down". A couple hours later he would atleast give me an update on how he is feeling whether he needs a little more time or we can talk now. Girls, there are good men out there. You just need to stop wasting time on losers and find those good men. Even if they arent making 6 figures. I don't think I can date multiple men at the same time though.
7:35 no label 8:15 mixed signal 8:34 love bombing 9:40 dont focus only 1 10:15 no unplanned hanging out 10:29 no talk abot past 13:00 no "i can change you" 13:09 dont exposed ur standard
This doesn’t apply to me, but I love your videos and wanted to chime in. I was really lucky to find someone perfect, who is now my fiancé, during my unhinged dating era. But I have some WILD stories of my unsuccessful dating experience. I even tried dating “older” to see if I was just attracting immature boys my age…only to attract even more immature older “men”. Didn’t realize that I was the issue, instead I cried every time when I realized I was being used yet again asking the universe “why does this keep happening to me?!” I wish I had the self awareness back then to LOVE MYSELF FIRST. Because it took me 3 years after dating my fiancé to actually start to love and get to know myself. My life had to happen that way but I wouldn’t have given any of the type men I was attracting the time of day had I known this information. So please y’all, PLEASE 🥺 work on cultivating a positive self concept!!!!! Please don’t allow yourself to waste your 20s away by dating horrible people who don’t respect you or take you seriously. I’m being dramatic, but I’m literally BEGGING y’all. Respect yourself by showing up for yourself and the right people will literally fall in place. Learn the red flags, do everything you need to do to protect yourself. You’re a fcking gem!!! It might take some time but it’s so worth it!!! This even applies to friendships.
I 100% percent second this, as i am 29 years old and did just that, wasting my time and putting myself in harms way by getting into/staying in abusive situations. now I can see it is because I was never validated or allowed to have my own feelings as a child, and lived with an agressive narc mother. and my relationships PERFECTLY mirrorred what I believed I deserve.
before i was dating such a toxic people because i just wanted love so bad and i hated myself but after watching your videos i start loving myself and i know how to give and take love , i'm so thankful for you because you helped me alot
Love the point about not talking about exes to your date. Used to think I had retroactive jealousy but really it’s these guys casually mentioning their past girlfriends. Such a turn off.
dating is fun but it gets old after awhile. its the same old nonsense, people date for shallow, materialistic and social status related reasons. ive never been into that fake stuff which is why im waiting until the day comes where i meet someone whos actually different and isnt all talk
I want to go on a mission with someone caring and determined and fall in love with him, this was always my dream. No marriage, breeding, selfy-posting bullshit. Just him and I supporting each other, saving the day and go on adventures meeting interesting people.
Omg your videos are life saving i swear, i have been watching you since i was 16yo and you helped me A LOOOOT LOT ! im 18yo now and im starting to take dating more seriously so this video is perfect and is helping me so much, you're the older sister i have always wanted to have THANK YOU SO MUCH SIMONE
I noticed how u said no hanging out and even me being in early college it’s a no for me. They gotta plan a real date if want me no low effort allowed 💅
@@kayahardin1640 personally I'd describe "low effort" as: someone who plays safe. they want to pursue you but is scared of rejection so they just play it off as a friendly hangout even though the whole point was to get you. this kind of people would usually ask YOU if you had feelings for them instead of THEM confessing to you. It's annoying cause it's like you're the one taking the whole risk here. I may be wrong though
@@imkeplerandgaybut9381 This could be true as well in some scenarios but to me I see low effort as someone who isn’t really that interested in you to give you the kind of date that they put effort into
My best tip is, decide what you want or else people (men, women, anyone who hears you’re dating) will tell you what you should want. It’s not that these people are bad, but you need to know what you actually need in a partner and no one can give you that accurate level of detail but yourself
Hey simone, i would like to hear you speak about: Regret and revenge Emotionally unavailable people Having consistency in mental and emotional wellbeing so we wont go through all these experiences again..
You were so real for this ❤ I also learned these in my “collecting data” era. Currently taking a break from dating though. Good luck to everyone who’s still trying to date. Please remember what Simone says because they really do help keep the dusties away. You want a high value partner!! 😤
It’s crazy I just can’t to these realizations yesterday literally especially the talking phase like people need to earn your time. The more they put in is the more they get out simple. This is confirmation
i agree with so much of her point, some things give me the ick though, we cant assume for other people about their intentions. feelings of needing to lie come from within, so this might be something one would constantly run into before resolving it with oneself
I AGREE WITH ALMOST EVERYTHING. YES YES YES. I think especially the date multiple people thing, I as a person have always done this subconciously , be it talking stages or sexual relationships. I hate how having multiple exes is frowned upon. I've had horrible choices in a lot of the people I've dated but I don't regret them because I was growing and i still didn't know what or who I wanted. I don't really care much for that opinion it gets to me sometimes. And yes if you get to know yourself, and become comfortable with being by yourself you'll find what you need and want from a person and it helps so much. I love this video. I came into it mostly because I enjoy your content and resonate with a lot if not all of it but by the time the video was done I just felt stronger about my opinions and setting the standard . I never really comment much on YT but because I've started doing these things on my own very recently I guess I just had to leave this comment.
If women were good at picking men, they would corner the gambling market in fantasy sports. Dating isn't hard for women. Choosing is their biggest challenge.
NO HATE, everyone is different and have different personality. Who fell in love quick don't everytime go away. People do change but they will change for only one in their lifetime. Yeah, ghosting is the worst and they don't deserve you. I think we should respect if someone is taking efforts and truly want to change for us. And the most important is loving yourself first!!
Even a month ago I would of thought this was absurd. But now I’m pickier than ever. At the moment in lot dating anyone but I may try the date multiple guys when I do get back out there. But the main thing with me is I actually have a literal dream guy 😂😂 but I’m not pressed about finding him right now
He isn't going to want you. If you want to know where all of he 'nice guys are, you left them in your 20's, or got bored with them in your 30's once you 'fixed' them.
when it comes to ghosting sometimes people dont deserve replies imo. If i ghost someone which i have before its just they weren't worth even the time to reply but when i ghost its forever so maybe its different.
I think a lot of men need to realise that going on lots of dates does not mean sex (well for some women it does) but not me. It is just me getting to know them and when I really like one then I will politely break it off with the others. It’s like modern day job searching. You need to apply for loads and then maybe one will actually be decent.
I think that most of the men you chase can bang whoever they want and don't care how you feel about it. ...kind of like the 50 DM's in your Tinder inbox, and how you feel about them. If you think that this is a good strategy for finding someone who cares about you, you should try your luck at Draft Kings, and see just how good you are at picking from a field of men.
ty so much for this ♡ i’ve been obsessing for a boy (he’s definitely not behaving like the man he should be) for a while now even though deep down i know it wouldn’t work out and i deserve way better. i also know i can’t control my feelings but i can protect them at least!
COLLECTING DATA ERA 2023
u ate and left no crumbs as always
love you bestieeee✨
Simone can you do subtitles like the other channel please?
Yessss!!! 😂😂😂❤
Lurve this! ❤❤👍 advise taken
"Someone ghosts you? You respect the dead and move on" =)))
...it's the 'hint' that women only think that they 'get'.
LMAO, I love this comment so much 😂
omg
LMFAO I DIEDDD
Girl, you are so right! I have friends ages 24-45 and ALL these women are having the same exact issues. Men get old but they don’t change at all! These rules are 💯 what I noticed as well.
agreeeeee getting older doesn't equate growth
lot's of people, but men esp esp their bodies age, but emotionally and mentally they stay between 2- 16 years old.
Your comment made the vedio more interesting ❤
You find out how much you matter when you hit the wall.
@@lethalmatcha
The daughters of the vacuous boomers appear to have learned nothing.
100% on the mixed signals. THERE WONT BE ANY! During the years my hubby and I were dating, we were long distance and he never once made me feel like I was second to anything. There were time though he did say "I need some space to think about it. Please give me a couple hours to cool down". A couple hours later he would atleast give me an update on how he is feeling whether he needs a little more time or we can talk now. Girls, there are good men out there. You just need to stop wasting time on losers and find those good men. Even if they arent making 6 figures. I don't think I can date multiple men at the same time though.
I doubt there are
@@user-nu3ih7ih4f
If you're still telling yourself that 'there are good men out there', then you left them all in your 20's.
@@MidnightMark12 There ain't
i love simone she's like a slap in the face
Lmao.hahahahaha
Wh-
yeaaah for real
2:50 no talking stage
3:52 no plans
6:10 ghosting
6:50 no games
7:35 no label
8:15 mixed signal
8:34 love bombing
9:40 dont focus only 1
10:15 no unplanned hanging out
10:29 no talk abot past
13:00 no "i can change you"
13:09 dont exposed ur standard
@@arsycj9174her 4th point is kind of a contradiction with what she says in her other videos
I love her being so straightforward😭💗big sister energy frr
i love you
This doesn’t apply to me, but I love your videos and wanted to chime in. I was really lucky to find someone perfect, who is now my fiancé, during my unhinged dating era. But I have some WILD stories of my unsuccessful dating experience. I even tried dating “older” to see if I was just attracting immature boys my age…only to attract even more immature older “men”. Didn’t realize that I was the issue, instead I cried every time when I realized I was being used yet again asking the universe “why does this keep happening to me?!” I wish I had the self awareness back then to LOVE MYSELF FIRST. Because it took me 3 years after dating my fiancé to actually start to love and get to know myself. My life had to happen that way but I wouldn’t have given any of the type men I was attracting the time of day had I known this information.
So please y’all, PLEASE 🥺 work on cultivating a positive self concept!!!!! Please don’t allow yourself to waste your 20s away by dating horrible people who don’t respect you or take you seriously. I’m being dramatic, but I’m literally BEGGING y’all. Respect yourself by showing up for yourself and the right people will literally fall in place. Learn the red flags, do everything you need to do to protect yourself. You’re a fcking gem!!! It might take some time but it’s so worth it!!! This even applies to friendships.
Facts.
So you’re ran thru?
I 100% percent second this, as i am 29 years old and did just that, wasting my time and putting myself in harms way by getting into/staying in abusive situations. now I can see it is because I was never validated or allowed to have my own feelings as a child, and lived with an agressive narc mother. and my relationships PERFECTLY mirrorred what I believed I deserve.
Can you give more details on what you actually did 3 years in that you felt gave you confidence? Was it routines? Specific thinking habits? Thanks!
Trollipping around with men who don't want you is the express lane to the wall.
"the trash literally took itself out" 😂
This video made me feel great. Thank you Simone!
before i was dating such a toxic people because i just wanted love so bad and i hated myself but after watching your videos i start loving myself and i know how to give and take love , i'm so thankful for you because you helped me alot
lol that’s been me recently, praying i’ll love myself soon
“The trash took itself out.” 👏💀
HAHAAH
I love her mindset she is definately a very elegant person
awwww ilyyyyyy
How are you feeling after getting ran through by dudes who pump and dump you?
@@562mjohnson lol what?
@@rosemarry49 you're not married right?
@@562mjohnson yep but y r u asking that?
Love the point about not talking about exes to your date. Used to think I had retroactive jealousy but really it’s these guys casually mentioning their past girlfriends. Such a turn off.
That’s means either he’s not over her or still in love with her ❤
dating is fun but it gets old after awhile. its the same old nonsense, people date for shallow, materialistic and social status related reasons. ive never been into that fake stuff which is why im waiting until the day comes where i meet someone whos actually different and isnt all talk
What makes a person different
@@JJ-vp3bd
The ability to start a sentence with something other than 'I' or end one with something other than 'me', for starters.
I want to go on a mission with someone caring and determined and fall in love with him, this was always my dream. No marriage, breeding, selfy-posting bullshit. Just him and I supporting each other, saving the day and go on adventures meeting interesting people.
@@Apricot90
Oh, well those would be 'nice men', and you left them all in your 20's.
@@MidnightMark12 shut up, you incel. No one is talking to you.
i needed this. ending my situationship rn
Simone should be the standard periodt.💅
Omg your videos are life saving i swear, i have been watching you since i was 16yo and you helped me A LOOOOT LOT ! im 18yo now and im starting to take dating more seriously so this video is perfect and is helping me so much, you're the older sister i have always wanted to have THANK YOU SO MUCH SIMONE
I'm so glad!
I know right, she changed my life😊
Good luck girl. Its wild out there. Its so easy to get swept away just to be swept into the trashcan from guys.
I noticed how u said no hanging out and even me being in early college it’s a no for me. They gotta plan a real date if want me no low effort allowed 💅
@@kayahardin1640 personally I'd describe "low effort" as: someone who plays safe. they want to pursue you but is scared of rejection so they just play it off as a friendly hangout even though the whole point was to get you. this kind of people would usually ask YOU if you had feelings for them instead of THEM confessing to you. It's annoying cause it's like you're the one taking the whole risk here.
I may be wrong though
@@imkeplerandgaybut9381 This could be true as well in some scenarios but to me I see low effort as someone who isn’t really that interested in you to give you the kind of date that they put effort into
@@kayahardin1640 I’m new to this too lol but I mean someone who can’t properly plan a date because it shows he lacks initiative or even interest
@@nadineh4767 wait you're right LMAO I understood it too deeply when it's actually so simple
Maybe he wants you to offer to cook to show your impressive skills.
She can sit and talk the whole day and I would still listen 😃 another day queen again slayyyy💅
My best tip is, decide what you want or else people (men, women, anyone who hears you’re dating) will tell you what you should want.
It’s not that these people are bad, but you need to know what you actually need in a partner and no one can give you that accurate level of detail but yourself
Hey simone, i would like to hear you speak about:
Regret and revenge
Emotionally unavailable people
Having consistency in mental and emotional wellbeing so we wont go through all these experiences again..
You were so real for this ❤ I also learned these in my “collecting data” era. Currently taking a break from dating though. Good luck to everyone who’s still trying to date. Please remember what Simone says because they really do help keep the dusties away. You want a high value partner!! 😤
queen simone! i ordered your journal today yeheeey >
Yay! Thank you!
i just love the way simone talking, very sarcastic and arrogant. But i love it sm
You are bang on right, ghosting is disrespectful, and best to find someone new!💔
She is speaking FACTS 👏🏻
simone created my whole personality
It’s crazy I just can’t to these realizations yesterday literally especially the talking phase like people need to earn your time. The more they put in is the more they get out simple. This is confirmation
"Omg she is a red flag for having a list of red flags" W business woman ,I just subscribed
you’re like an older sister thank u sm for this video i love it
no but what would i do without simone aaaa you’re like a mentor to me i love it
simone literally i'm in love with ur mindset ✨
I never plan to date but I'm just here to hear simone talk 😳💓
i agree with so much of her point, some things give me the ick though, we cant assume for other people about their intentions. feelings of needing to lie come from within, so this might be something one would constantly run into before resolving it with oneself
You exactly know how to explain anything, you make it so clear Wow
another life changing vid from the queen herself xoxo
"2023 is the year of collecting data" let our response be? in simone we trust
Love this! You snapped with these rules
I actually relate so much with your mindset, it's amazing
ON MEEEEEEE i do too
The reason why am single all my life is prob because i watch simone and ngl i am happy nonetheless.
thank you so much! I learned from my experiences. it is important to give love to myself first. so I can reject harmful people.
I AGREE WITH ALMOST EVERYTHING. YES YES YES. I think especially the date multiple people thing, I as a person have always done this subconciously , be it talking stages or sexual relationships. I hate how having multiple exes is frowned upon. I've had horrible choices in a lot of the people I've dated but I don't regret them because I was growing and i still didn't know what or who I wanted. I don't really care much for that opinion it gets to me sometimes. And yes if you get to know yourself, and become comfortable with being by yourself you'll find what you need and want from a person and it helps so much. I love this video. I came into it mostly because I enjoy your content and resonate with a lot if not all of it but by the time the video was done I just felt stronger about my opinions and setting the standard . I never really comment much on YT but because I've started doing these things on my own very recently I guess I just had to leave this comment.
If women were good at picking men, they would corner the gambling market in fantasy sports.
Dating isn't hard for women.
Choosing is their biggest challenge.
Isn't it horrifying to think some man is gonn get a used up woman like her?
Hows it working out for you getting pumped and dumped by Chads?
I'm so glad I found your channel, I love your vibe!!!
It'll keep you single and chasing me who are out of your league. Prove me wrong.
NO HATE, everyone is different and have different personality. Who fell in love quick don't everytime go away. People do change but they will change for only one in their lifetime. Yeah, ghosting is the worst and they don't deserve you. I think we should respect if someone is taking efforts and truly want to change for us. And the most important is loving yourself first!!
ur changing my life in ways i cant explain thanks
Thanks bestie, you opened my eyess.. i am wasting my time on people dating people who just want to have fun.. i am so tired..❤️ but no more..
also a lil vid suggestion but can u make a vid about friendship, and how to make your friends more attracted to you? 😅
Even a month ago I would of thought this was absurd. But now I’m pickier than ever. At the moment in lot dating anyone but I may try the date multiple guys when I do get back out there. But the main thing with me is I actually have a literal dream guy 😂😂 but I’m not pressed about finding him right now
He isn't going to want you.
If you want to know where all of he 'nice guys are, you left them in your 20's, or got bored with them in your 30's once you 'fixed' them.
You give me everything I need when I need it
The Jordan Peterson for girls has arrived 👏
SIMONE POSTED🤭Just Made my day! ❣
nono, im manifesting having your energy by watching your videos, its definitely not an addiction
ahhhh YOU UPLOADED you're literally my favorite UA-camr 💓
You're the best!
Well done Simone on raising the Red Flags!!! ❤️
You are giving rockstar vibes & I’m living for it 😂😎
me while watching this : she’s got a point, she’s a legend, she’s the moment
Giirl those are mostly hypergamie rules , i love seeing you going in that direction after all the crap we're seeing in the dating pool
whats hypergamie
Is hypergamie like polygamy?
@@simonesquared it’s the act or practice of a person marrying a spouse of higher caste or social status than themselves.. that’s what google said
what has this got to do w marrying up lmfao
@@daangergaming8300 no it means marrying someone in a higher social and financial status than you , like marrying up
"this is why I don't date guys that know about my channel" LMMAAOOO
Hii Simone I'm from Thailand!!!! I love ur videos sm. Hope you're having a great time here🥰
Thank you so much!!
The lovebombing thing, I needed that ily xx
Wow you just made it sound so easy!!💞💞
Jumping in to say hiiii to my fave 💌 hope you're faring well wherever you are Simone!
when it comes to ghosting sometimes people dont deserve replies imo. If i ghost someone which i have before its just they weren't worth even the time to reply but when i ghost its forever so maybe its different.
I love this video. please upload some more xx
I love your energy. It’s so inspiring.
I hear Mac DeMarco! Love him.
Great tips, to keep in mind!
clicked right when uploaded!!
She luks ✨ luxurious ✨
This is facts people are different irl I’ve collected so much data iwl after a while it gets draining
I need more content like this. 🎯💯
Omg i just came across your channel. Love how you talk straight and to the point ❤ thanks for all the tips
LOOOL The trash took itself out - took me out 😂😂😂😂😂
i have been needing thiss, thanks simone
Love this and you💖
Happy weekend, Simone!
unhinged simone is an icon
god girl, i just love your vibe ❤
I think a lot of men need to realise that going on lots of dates does not mean sex (well for some women it does) but not me. It is just me getting to know them and when I really like one then I will politely break it off with the others.
It’s like modern day job searching. You need to apply for loads and then maybe one will actually be decent.
I think that most of the men you chase can bang whoever they want and don't care how you feel about it.
...kind of like the 50 DM's in your Tinder inbox, and how you feel about them.
If you think that this is a good strategy for finding someone who cares about you, you should try your luck at Draft Kings, and see just how good you are at picking from a field of men.
@@MidnightMark12 women and men aren’t the same. We have to be guarded. We have too much to loose fooling around with y’all
@@tiredoftheworld4834
What, are you afraid of losing everything that you own in divorce, or something?
Oh, wait...
Have a good time with the cats.
Thanks for the new upload ❤
12:50 "Bob the Builder"💀💀
I love you Simone thank you for your videos
I am a guy and I only follow up ON THE SAME DAY, talking in between normally gets me ghosted.
nah follow up a few days before and then night before
Perfect timing bc im going on a date tonight haha :o. First date I've been on in a long time 💫
Love your video simone.
Thank you Internet mother for keeping me safe ❤
thank you simone!! ily
Love your vibe ❤❤❤
Am I selfish for not sharing your channel with others so that I can be the only one in my social circle to know these data collected?
Yes
"the trash took itself out" 😭😭😭
THE QUEEN HAS POSTED 💅💅💅
stevie wonder era with these sunglasses on indoors 😭😭
ALSDMLAKDMSKLSMDLKSDMLKSKDSMD
ty so much for this ♡ i’ve been obsessing for a boy (he’s definitely not behaving like the man he should be) for a while now even though deep down i know it wouldn’t work out and i deserve way better. i also know i can’t control my feelings but i can protect them at least!
love your new lifestyle vlog!
SIMONE U R GLOWINGG✨
SIMONE YOU'RE SO ICONIC I LOVE YOU
she’s such a boss 😩😝
I love her energyyyyy😍
I’m queer and I’m just starting to date men so this is so helpful!! Dating women and trans folks is much easier because we’re similar
yeah 😭😭 i’ve dated one woman and 3 men and it’s night and day. girls being the day 😂. i hate boys lol i really hope the next one is a girl
You're wise for such a young woman. Respect.
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