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I'm confused? At the 11:00 min mark? You talking about how parents don't really like the daughters to date foreigners? Worried about being played? Etc. I'm confused. Do foreign men do that to local women nearly as much as local men do? Are foreigners making babies and running away to start new families? Like many local men do? As a foreign man? We are often said to be good partners because we are more likely to accept a Pinay w kids Usually..from the locals. So? Parents are less bothered by a broke, halfway don't want to work, halfway always drunk, cheating local men? But it's not? A worse embarrassment than a relationship not working out w a foreigner? Huh? In confused
Why should anyone have to spend 200 plus dollars to meet someone on line. When you can just wait until you get to the Philippines. The worst experience I have had with the same dating app is most of the women don't really read the man profile, and the majority of the women want to leave the Philippines. So, what is true or a lie?. Some of them don't even fill out the profile to provide any information about themselves. What is the main goal?
@@wolf30324Facts you are either a Green Card Visa run or a Gringo 🏧 in The Philippines if you have the misfortune of meeting the wring type and trust there a lot of them over there ready to take advantage and use foreign men. 15 years going back and forth from the UK to The Philippines I have seen it all and heard lots of disaster failed relationships with foreigners. It was all about your foreign currencies lol. That's why I don't bother.
I have been following you for some time now. Your well educated and very wise. Where did you get your ethics. English is excellent and your extremely beautiful. I love they way your express yourself.
100% of the Filipina’s I’ve chatted with lately have hit me up for money within the first 2 days of chatting. It’s discouraging. I love the Philippines. I’ve been there 6 times. My ex is Filipina. I brought here here on a K1. She changed the minute she got her papers. I really thought she was the one. I courted her for 6 years. I went there 4 times to get to know her. Now I’m divorced after 3 years and 8 months of marriage and now I’m paying her every month while she’s here. My advice, move there, date around until you find the right one but don’t get married right away unless you really want to. Good advise in this video Geylay good job!
@@chrisamick6350lucky, you must have married her before Trump was president? Before people were responsible for the person for ten years but now you're on the hook for life, right?!?
Nope not at all. We actually got married during trump. Whoever was president really didn’t have anything to do with the laws. We went by California laws and the laws here say that you pay alimony (if she/he qualifies for it) for half the time you were married. If a couple is married for 10 years or more, then it COULD be for life but it usually isn’t. I haven’t seen any cases where a man or woman had to pay for life unless there was a lot of assets, children or a lot of money involved. Immigration laws however are a little different. According to the affidavit of support, the spouse of the foreign person has to pay for up to 10 years, or until the foreign person becomes a US citizen or up to when the foreign person works up to 5000 hours at a job. Either way I’m almost done paying. I only have a few months left. But lesson learned. No way am I going down this road again.
I love it when a Filipina is honest about what really goes on in her country. Some Filipinas think misrepresenting the toxic ambience in their country is patriotic. I'm very pleased with this video!
Not just the Filipina of interest to you but importantly her family's actions towards you. You will eventually know if they are genuine or fake towards you. Some many foreign men lost a lot in The Philippines and some other Asian countries.
I married a Filipina from the province. I used to think you should find one from the province if you wish to marry a Filipina. But several years ago we recommended my wife's niece, also from the province, to an American Filipino guy. My wife's niece ended up lying about the American Filipino guy, saying he was drinking a lot and getting drunk (he wasn't). She actually found someone else and didn't want to go through the trouble of breaking up. She turned me and my wife into liars.
A friend of mine who spent many years in the Philippines told me to hire a private investigator in the Philippines to investigate a girl I'm interested in when I get to the Philippines. I've lived here in the Philippines for 4 months and I totally agree with what he said. I've personally seen many Filipina wives of foreigners cheat on their husbands with a secret Filipino lover. It's worth the money to hire a private investigator.
Not the 1st time I heard this. Also a PI will be able to tell if she's married in the Philipines. There's no such thing as divorce in the Philipines and infidelity is a CRIME.
its the same shit in Thailand just play around have fun when you get retired and you stay in Philly or Thailand you can have a girlfriend its my opinion little sad but everybody different .The most imported thing is show respect 🥰🥰
I've spoke with several Filipino women & most have asked for money right away. I just tell them that I won't give them any money until after we've met in person. Thats usually the end of the conversation.
I'm in Angeles city Phillipines....so many beautiful women. I'm sitting in tequila reef waiting to meet 2 girls. Never fall in love with a bar girl. NOTE : anytime they talk about need phone or money should be warning. They are wonderful people
That's why I have a 6 month Policy.❤❤❤❤ You can't trust her then don't stay with her. Any kind of feeling like she's doing something wrong And you're probably right.😂😂😂😂
Find a Filipina. Date. Move in together. But never ever ever marry her. Live and enjoy but always leave yourself with a way out. I have been with 5 diff girls in 2 years. This last one now for 4 mos and all is good. Maybe ❤ this time but even still I will not marry her.
A scam that happens all the time in LDR. A girl will get as many men she can and tell them they are the only one. Sometimes they already have a Philippines husband or boyfriend. Jetes what they do if the foreigner comes on vacation for a few weeks she makes excuses to the other foreigner why she cant talk to them for a few weeks and the Philippines husband will leave till the foreigner returns back to states. I lived in calahocan for 6 months andany of the girls did that. Sometimes 4 or 5 foreigner boyfriend's all sending her money. Be careful and dont send them money.
I could never go through someone else's social media. It would feel like snooping around someone's home without their knowledge. But I am very observant of people's behaviour like body language. If she's up to no good, I will find out quickly.
@@stedye There are an almost infinite amount of them. What they do with their hands. The parts of their body they touch. How they sit and walk (or anything). What they look at and for how long. The tone of their voice. The gaps before and between words. Body language is basically what is in someone's mind. If you read it you basically read their mind. But you have to know your own mind otherwise you'll get caught up in your own projections. There's a thin line between perception and reality.
this is very good advice.. by now with all of the information on the Internet, a man would only have himself to blame if he were to get taken in a scam.. I met a beautiful girl there in 18’ she was gorgeous and stayed with me for two weeks.. anything went.. it was fabulous.. she left for a couple of days and I had her followed, turned out. She was married, and he put her up to it… I admit, I was brokenhearted.. But it was absolutely crazy to think he was willing to let his wife do those things.. I didn’t let on that I knew when she returned.. I had a great remaining three days with her, and when I left, I never spoke to her again.. I gave her 1000 the day I left.. and I have absolutely no regrets. It was worth every penny… I still shake my head every time I think about it though.
Haha yes we should protect her 😊. I know all these lies she is talking about. Seen it , heard it many times , all kinds of crazy stories of scam sham relationships or marriages since my 1st trip from the UK to The Philippines in April 2008.
I often tell my wife we should open a private investigation company... But she reminds me of what I always say... "Never mess with another man's money" ... Or a woman's. But if serious... I got a guy .. let me know.
Thank You for Your insights and honesty I have had a online relationship for over a year now and its very difficult for sure what I gathered from Your video is trust but confirm I belive there would be a nitch for a buisness not to spy on a girlfriend but to ease a persons doubts by hireing someone there in the PI to not to investigate but gust do alittle confirmation do you know of any options
Real you"re storys my maganda madam Thanks dear i"m from Europe....Salamat po !Happy Christmas you and you"re beauty famaly and clousers friends ! Salamat po
When I’m with someone in a relationship, and we’re actually living in the same country/city etc, I don’t have a problem with spending money on them. I have everything I need in terms of possessions/luxuries, but it’s not ever going to happen as far as bankrolling someone living thousands of miles away from me.
You would be the best wife I know I want to be the lucky man to have A beautiful Smart loving caring kind, considered family oriented Honest Lady. And I know I wouldn't have a worrying in the world. With a wife like you I would love you to the day I die.❤❤❤❤
If a genuine man loves a fillipino wome any women you accept there life and past build bright future.... if not red flags maybe not good man..... provience girls beautiful.... build friendship with family
THIS MOUNTAIN resort or village ......which u show in the opening of this video ,where is this place and what kind of temperature is it year around ......my problem in coming to the Philippines is heat , can't stand it ,and I prefer mountains higher up to beaches ?
I'm living in the Philippines, native New Yorker the weather here is brutal its very hot I rarely go outside during the day just walking I'm sweating, daily temp is 93+ degrees. I had enough of this hot weather in April 2024 I'm going home to New York.
If a guy chooses to send money to an imaginary girl friend the he meets online but has never met in person it just goes to show how desperate or delusional the guy is. These women have been trained to do this because they know that there are a lot of lonely desperate guys looking for the girl of their dreams. You really can't blame the women.
Also, even if she shows you documentation on deaths, or other matters the Vlogger says for her to show proof on is still no guarantee. There are well-known areas where you can get fake documents on almost anything.
I would think that most of the guys coming into the Philippians have a problem adapting to life there and the people. It requires understanding from both sides but i would guess those coming to Philippians require to adapt more.
First of all do you have money?? Because Filipina ladies wants foreigners because of money, its a ticket out of poverty and she wants her green card, my advise never look for a lady on the internet your playing with fire. If you want a girlfriend go out and find one, ask friends but on line dating is like facing the firing squad, kaput.
@@eddiesaninocencio6635 I'm a CPA in the states and so I do alright. I met a massage girl at one of the bigger spas in panglao, bohol this summer and we've been dating almost two months. we have talked about money but she hasn't asked me for any yet. Yeah I believe it's expected that dating someone from the states is automatic financial stability in their minds plus a potential green card. I'm in my mid 30s and she's in her mid 20s.
@@eddiesaninocencio6635 Well 3 of my buddies met their wives that way here in the USA with dating apps.... The problem is, unless you are a churchgoer or visit bars, the opportunities of meeting women are very limited.
Guys more better to go to the Philippines find an aria you love and want to live their get your permanent residency. Sale all your stuff in the states move to the Philippines and live there. Make sure the girl has never been married. Much better to be in the Philippines to find a Filipina. Don’t ever get her to your home country then she will see more attractive guys and leave you. If you’re not willing to live in the Philippines don’t bother with Filipina’s .
Divorce has now been legalized in the Philippines. I have lived here as an American ex-pat businessman for 11.5 years now, but my wife is Russian. All of the other things she talks about is very true, and common.
Divorce is illegal in PH. It is possible it may become legal in 2024. Is so probably in late 2024. A divorve granted in the U.S. is regonized in PH but must be I believe regisyered with governmrnt.
It doesn't take 2 days sometime when I be chatting with some of them. Online was in the first 20 minutes. They started talking about someone is sick how they don't have money for food and all these kinds of things. It's really kind of sad. But when that happens, I just stop talking to them. I'm not a walking a t m
I have been a little discouraged from one sided conversations. I would not give money away for a sob story. The woman i have been talking to for the last 7 months has never asked for a dime. I am still talking with her today. I believe she is hiding nothing at all. .
Hello my name is Cedric I love your video today I love all your videos I want to tell you about my story can you set in a video and there's been some foreigners killing Filipinos that breaks my heart I would never harm anybody I have been talking to this Filipino for about 5 months when I first met her father on the phone hey look me in my eyes and told me he trust me and if I wanted his daughter that I can go anywhere I want to take her and trust me and that meant a whole lot to me and on top of that the kids love me all her nieces and nephews love me she doesn't have any kids she has nieces and nephews and they all want to meet me and all of them two on the phone thank you for the video to seeing you again hope you have a good night and a good morning and a good evening❤
I don't drink smoke a do drugs I don't hang out in bars and nothing like that dad knows I don't do it I don't hang out in bars and things either don't have to worry about that
I find it weird. One guy on here has been 'talking with one for 7 months' - that's ridiculous. He obviously has either not the money or the time to even visit, so he's wasting his time anyway.
Try not to fall into the Dream paradise inside your heart , look at the reality of a western culture in comparison of a filipina that most time sees you as a saviour from poverty" a different mindset" altogether " is better to date and care for her in her own country ,by elevating her lifestyle to 25% of the previous one , she had, is better than thousands upon thousands of lost later of regret,
Well that’s a lot of bad. I got lucky I didn’t find a bad girl I found a women I had age limitations when I found who is now my wife. She is what they called left overs never married no kids only had 2 boyfriends in her entire life. Ask 1 day why no husband or children she says I was waiting for you to find me. We now married and have the best relationship and she changed a lot she more confident more sure of herself and she very strong person that loves deeply fiercely loyal and devoted wife and loves her family deeply. She don’t want come to America she don’t like leaving her family and I respect that and I spend half my time there being with her and that’s my home we have built a great life soon I can leave America and never look back.
Gelay, what think about you the bad Philippines girls with Philippines boyfriends? Do you think they will boycott your site? Because soon they will be unemployed 😢
Weak tips. Smart women have multiple social media accounts and just serve you the one they want you to see. It is also possible to block individual users from seeing certain aspects of the social media account. Also not helpful is to ask for papers to prove the woman is not married, those papers can easily be falsified. The only thing you can do is hire a PI and have them get the copies of proof that she is not married. Overall very weak advice, i am sorry, you are luring your viewers in a false sense of safety
Do you really think her viewers are here for advice... I watched a video of her cleaning her room and talking about her cashflow. These men will all be fleeced one way or another... And I don't fault her.
Here is a $64,000 Important hint. Trust but verify. Set up a false id (with picture, etc) ... and contact the girl under an assumed name. If she responds, she is playing you. Also, this is a serious life decision. consider hiring a private eye in the PI
The girl I live with I give 7000 piso a month, i dont support her family. If she eants to give her family money from the 7000 she can. I buy the food and pay the bills. Told her if shes not happy find someone else. The girl im with has no kids and single. She could vare less about sex. The girlfriend i had before wanted it always the one now could care less about it.
Yes somen men jot want kids but i think if love a women kids no issue learn love all anyone say not like dark skin.... run dont put up woth them to me bad men....
Gelay, I have to make a note; you speak too fast and we Europeans are not Americans,😂 so we need to listen to the English language a little slower. Thank you
Click on the ☸cog wheel. Check video speed, reduce to where it is comfortable. Also you can click on CC. and read the English. I have to do this because I have hearing impairment. Good luck if you go to Asian Country for a wife.
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Who is going to pay $ 241.00-500.00 to chat with women from the Philippines. Must be crazy.
I'm confused? At the 11:00 min mark?
You talking about how parents don't really like the daughters to date foreigners? Worried about being played? Etc. I'm confused.
Do foreign men do that to local women nearly as much as local men do?
Are foreigners making babies and running away to start new families?
Like many local men do?
As a foreign man? We are often said to be good partners because we are more likely to accept a Pinay w kids
Usually..from the locals.
So? Parents are less bothered by a broke, halfway don't want to work, halfway always drunk, cheating local men? But it's not? A worse embarrassment than a relationship not working out w a foreigner? Huh?
In confused
Why should anyone have to spend 200 plus dollars to meet someone on line. When you can just wait until you get to the Philippines. The worst experience I have had with the same dating app is most of the women don't really read the man profile, and the majority of the women want to leave the Philippines. So, what is true or a lie?. Some of them don't even fill out the profile to provide any information about themselves. What is the main goal?
@@wolf30324Facts you are either a Green Card Visa run or a Gringo 🏧 in The Philippines if you have the misfortune of meeting the wring type and trust there a lot of them over there ready to take advantage and use foreign men. 15 years going back and forth from the UK to The Philippines I have seen it all and heard lots of disaster failed relationships with foreigners. It was all about your foreign currencies lol. That's why I don't bother.
I have been following you for some time now. Your well educated and very wise. Where did you get your ethics. English is excellent and your extremely beautiful. I love they way your express yourself.
100% of the Filipina’s I’ve chatted with lately have hit me up for money within the first 2 days of chatting. It’s discouraging. I love the Philippines. I’ve been there 6 times. My ex is Filipina. I brought here here on a K1. She changed the minute she got her papers. I really thought she was the one. I courted her for 6 years. I went there 4 times to get to know her. Now I’m divorced after 3 years and 8 months of marriage and now I’m paying her every month while she’s here. My advice, move there, date around until you find the right one but don’t get married right away unless you really want to. Good advise in this video Geylay good job!
How much are you paying her a month?
Only $1100 per month. I only have to pay her for another few more months then I’m done. It could have been a lot worse. I had a great lawyer.
@@chrisamick6350lucky, you must have married her before Trump was president? Before people were responsible for the person for ten years but now you're on the hook for life, right?!?
Nope not at all. We actually got married during trump. Whoever was president really didn’t have anything to do with the laws. We went by California laws and the laws here say that you pay alimony (if she/he qualifies for it) for half the time you were married. If a couple is married for 10 years or more, then it COULD be for life but it usually isn’t. I haven’t seen any cases where a man or woman had to pay for life unless there was a lot of assets, children or a lot of money involved. Immigration laws however are a little different. According to the affidavit of support, the spouse of the foreign person has to pay for up to 10 years, or until the foreign person becomes a US citizen or up to when the foreign person works up to 5000 hours at a job. Either way I’m almost done paying. I only have a few months left. But lesson learned. No way am I going down this road again.
Thank you for sharing this expirience...
I love it when a Filipina is honest about what really goes on in her country.
Some Filipinas think misrepresenting the toxic ambience in their country is patriotic.
I'm very pleased with this video!
I really liked this video. You give great advice. I wish I would have seen this video a year ago now I'm paying for it...
Great vid Gelay, you are confirming that not all Pinay are "good girls", and not all are "bad girls". 👍🌹😎
Yes because the scammers or GOLD-DIGGERs in The Philippines have ruined many foreign men. Facts 👍.
Your thumbnails are really great. I always click on your videos when I see them. Congrats on growing your channel so much in a short time!
Great advice Ms Gelay, Thanks for the video. U look Beautiful.
Every woman is different and an individual but it's good to be aware of all possible situations !!!
Not just the Filipina of interest to you but importantly her family's actions towards you. You will eventually know if they are genuine or fake towards you. Some many foreign men lost a lot in The Philippines and some other Asian countries.
Thanks for confirming that human behavior is uniform in all the world.
Thank you for the information Gelay. I hope you are having a wonderful day. You look lovely.❤
I love Gelay, she just have an entertaining and cute way to present things lol
Great video Ms Gelay and Advice for anyone who date in the Philippines 🇵🇭 ❤😊
I married a Filipina from the province. I used to think you should find one from the province if you wish to marry a Filipina. But several years ago we recommended my wife's niece, also from the province, to an American Filipino guy. My wife's niece ended up lying about the American Filipino guy, saying he was drinking a lot and getting drunk (he wasn't). She actually found someone else and didn't want to go through the trouble of breaking up. She turned me and my wife into liars.
It has nothing to do with the location where the person came from whether from province, city , asian or western ladies
But your own wife from the province worked out. Which province?
The best is a life alone and very happy.😮
I Had a Beautiful Experience Both Times That I Went to the Philippines 🇵🇭 but My Next Destination to Visit is Jamaica 🇯🇲
You look gorgeous in a blue dress. I appreciate the info you give us.
A friend of mine who spent many years in the Philippines told me to hire a private investigator in the Philippines to investigate a girl I'm interested in when I get to the Philippines. I've lived here in the Philippines for 4 months and I totally agree with what he said. I've personally seen many Filipina wives of foreigners cheat on their husbands with a secret Filipino lover. It's worth the money to hire a private investigator.
Not the 1st time I heard this. Also a PI will be able to tell if she's married in the Philipines. There's no such thing as divorce in the Philipines and infidelity is a CRIME.
Guys, a lot of times if you spell her name backwards you'll see she has another account, also know her mother name, maybe 3 accounts. Be careful
Blue is definitely one of your colors!
its the same shit in Thailand just play around have fun when you get retired and you stay in Philly or Thailand you can have a girlfriend its my opinion little sad but everybody different .The most imported thing is show respect 🥰🥰
So nice music sister
Gelay🌹..Great content!👏👏👏
Gelay all these things again show the different girls in the Philippines 😊
You are a winner, Gelay.
Very good video and information Lady G😊
I've spoke with several Filipino women & most have asked for money right away. I just tell them that I won't give them any money until after we've met in person. Thats usually the end of the conversation.
Enjoyed the video take care of yourself sweetheart 😘
Easy don’t send money to be sure and be safe!Protect yourself.
Lots of good advice here 👍🏼
Love your advice. You are a great woman in UA-cam world who can speak the truth.
Agreed without prejudice
I don't have to worry about that I know Gelay only has me for a Boyfriend I trust her with all my heart.
Really me too! Lol
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I'm in Angeles city Phillipines....so many beautiful women. I'm sitting in tequila reef waiting to meet 2 girls. Never fall in love with a bar girl. NOTE : anytime they talk about need phone or money should be warning. They are wonderful people
Having "Boom Boom! Wow!
That's why I have a 6 month Policy.❤❤❤❤ You can't trust her then don't stay with her. Any kind of feeling like she's doing something wrong And you're probably right.😂😂😂😂
Thank you for the information I'm from New York United States I want to come and visit your country
Dire Straits-money for nothing (Song)
And cheques for free...
Don't leave the microwave oven! 😂
No money no honey you atke the Filipina you take her whole family no way out of that, then she wants a house and lot.
@@eddiesaninocencio6635 Of course! This is only biological. 🤷♂ Men do understand logic, don't they?
Look a good honest cute Filipina 😉
In short, if she lies to you, you probably won't know until it is too late,
Find a Filipina. Date. Move in together. But never ever ever marry her. Live and enjoy but always leave yourself with a way out. I have been with 5 diff girls in 2 years. This last one now for 4 mos and all is good. Maybe ❤ this time but even still I will not marry her.
A scam that happens all the time in LDR. A girl will get as many men she can and tell them they are the only one. Sometimes they already have a Philippines husband or boyfriend. Jetes what they do if the foreigner comes on vacation for a few weeks she makes excuses to the other foreigner why she cant talk to them for a few weeks and the Philippines husband will leave till the foreigner returns back to states. I lived in calahocan for 6 months andany of the girls did that. Sometimes 4 or 5 foreigner boyfriend's all sending her money. Be careful and dont send them money.
I could never go through someone else's social media. It would feel like snooping around someone's home without their knowledge. But I am very observant of people's behaviour like body language. If she's up to no good, I will find out quickly.
Enlighten us Aaron . What are body language clues that are a giveaway on a lady not truly into a relationship?
@@stedye There are an almost infinite amount of them. What they do with their hands. The parts of their body they touch. How they sit and walk (or anything). What they look at and for how long. The tone of their voice. The gaps before and between words. Body language is basically what is in someone's mind. If you read it you basically read their mind. But you have to know your own mind otherwise you'll get caught up in your own projections. There's a thin line between perception and reality.
You’ll end up loosing a lot.
@@Juice17408 Better to lose your money than your dignity. 🤷♂
Ur beautiful thanks for sharing... successful American
Very honest words.
this is very good advice.. by now with all of the information on the Internet, a man would only have himself to blame if he were to get taken in a scam.. I met a beautiful girl there in 18’ she was gorgeous and stayed with me for two weeks.. anything went.. it was fabulous.. she left for a couple of days and I had her followed, turned out. She was married, and he put her up to it… I admit, I was brokenhearted.. But it was absolutely crazy to think he was willing to let his wife do those things.. I didn’t let on that I knew when she returned.. I had a great remaining three days with her, and when I left, I never spoke to her again.. I gave her 1000 the day I left.. and I have absolutely no regrets. It was worth every penny… I still shake my head every time I think about it though.
Gelay you will get into trouble giving away all the trade secrets😂
Haha yes we should protect her 😊. I know all these lies she is talking about. Seen it , heard it many times , all kinds of crazy stories of scam sham relationships or marriages since my 1st trip from the UK to The Philippines in April 2008.
She is speaking the truth guys, pay attention.
🙏🙂👋 looking adorable Gelay 😊❤
Gelay I also think "trust but verify" is an good way to be sure, but I dont use any kind of social Media. Can you help me?
I often tell my wife we should open a private investigation company... But she reminds me of what I always say... "Never mess with another man's money" ... Or a woman's.
But if serious... I got a guy .. let me know.
all true I have experienced most of the points Gelay makes.Of course some of it my fault because of poor choice.Are all like that no but some are
Thank You for Your insights and honesty I have had a online relationship for over a year now and its very difficult for sure what I gathered from Your video is trust but confirm I belive there would be a nitch for a buisness not to spy on a girlfriend but to ease a persons doubts by hireing someone there in the PI to not to investigate but gust do alittle confirmation do you know of any options
You are so sweet! I hope you find a good man that will love you forever!
Very much true
Real you"re storys my maganda madam Thanks dear i"m from Europe....Salamat po !Happy Christmas you and you"re beauty famaly and clousers friends ! Salamat po
Nice voice
I will be the best I can be with the right woman at my side.
Amen brother. Hello from Phillipines
When I’m with someone in a relationship, and we’re actually living in the same country/city etc, I don’t have a problem with spending money on them. I have everything I need in terms of possessions/luxuries, but it’s not ever going to happen as far as bankrolling someone living thousands of miles away from me.
You would be the best wife I know I want to be the lucky man to have A beautiful Smart loving caring kind, considered family oriented Honest Lady. And I know I wouldn't have a worrying in the world. With a wife like you
I would love you to the day I die.❤❤❤❤
If a genuine man loves a fillipino wome any women you accept there life and past build bright future.... if not red flags maybe not good man..... provience girls beautiful.... build friendship with family
THIS MOUNTAIN resort or village ......which u show in the opening of this video ,where is this place and what kind of temperature is it year around ......my problem in coming to the Philippines is heat , can't stand it ,and I prefer mountains higher up to beaches ?
Baguio is about 65 to 75 all year round…..
I'm living in the Philippines, native New Yorker the weather here is brutal its very hot I rarely go outside during the day just walking I'm sweating, daily temp is 93+ degrees. I had enough of this hot weather in April 2024 I'm going home to New York.
Baguio is in the northern part of Luzon island
@@patrickclark9156looks very crowded from photos.
If a guy chooses to send money to an imaginary girl friend the he meets online but has never met in person it just goes to show how desperate or delusional the guy is. These women have been trained to do this because they know that there are a lot of lonely desperate guys looking for the girl of their dreams. You really can't blame the women.
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Hello my beautiful girl your English is perfect (nice) ❤
Also, even if she shows you documentation on deaths, or other matters the Vlogger says for her to show proof on is still no guarantee. There are well-known areas where you can get fake documents on almost anything.
I'm technically single, but my heart ❤ is taken by someone I can't call my own i like you the most Princess
I would think that most of the guys coming into the Philippians have a problem adapting to life there and the people. It requires understanding from both sides but i would guess those coming to Philippians require to adapt more.
hi! i'm filipino american and looking to date filipinas. what is the best dating app to find the right one? are you single? lol
First of all do you have money?? Because Filipina ladies wants foreigners because of money, its a ticket out of poverty and she wants her green card, my advise never look for a lady on the internet your playing with fire. If you want a girlfriend go out and find one, ask friends but on line dating is like facing the firing squad, kaput.
@@eddiesaninocencio6635 I'm a CPA in the states and so I do alright. I met a massage girl at one of the bigger spas in panglao, bohol this summer and we've been dating almost two months. we have talked about money but she hasn't asked me for any yet. Yeah I believe it's expected that dating someone from the states is automatic financial stability in their minds plus a potential green card. I'm in my mid 30s and she's in her mid 20s.
@@eddiesaninocencio6635 Well 3 of my buddies met their wives that way here in the USA with dating apps.... The problem is, unless you are a churchgoer or visit bars, the opportunities of meeting women are very limited.
Wow you are beautiful.
Guys more better to go to the Philippines find an aria you love and want to live their get your permanent residency. Sale all your stuff in the states move to the Philippines and live there. Make sure the girl has never been married. Much better to be in the Philippines to find a Filipina. Don’t ever get her to your home country then she will see more attractive guys and leave you. If you’re not willing to live in the Philippines don’t bother with Filipina’s .
Agree 100%
Nice room. Why are you there? And who's with you? Lol 😂😂😜😜
Divorce has now been legalized in the Philippines. I have lived here as an American ex-pat businessman for 11.5 years now, but my wife is Russian. All of the other things she talks about is very true, and common.
Divorce is illegal in PH. It is possible it may become legal in 2024. Is so probably in late 2024. A divorve granted in the U.S. is regonized in PH but must be I believe regisyered with governmrnt.
It doesn't take 2 days sometime when I be chatting with some of them. Online was in the first 20 minutes. They started talking about someone is sick how they don't have money for food and all these kinds of things. It's really kind of sad. But when that happens, I just stop talking to them. I'm not a walking a t m
I have been a little discouraged from one sided conversations. I would not give money away for a sob story. The woman i have been talking to for the last 7 months has never asked for a dime. I am still talking with her today. I believe she is hiding nothing at all.
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👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Good info. Welcome to planet Earth. 2 sides to every coin 😔
Hi, you're gorgeous.
Hello my name is Cedric I love your video today I love all your videos I want to tell you about my story can you set in a video and there's been some foreigners killing Filipinos that breaks my heart I would never harm anybody I have been talking to this Filipino for about 5 months when I first met her father on the phone hey look me in my eyes and told me he trust me and if I wanted his daughter that I can go anywhere I want to take her and trust me and that meant a whole lot to me and on top of that the kids love me all her nieces and nephews love me she doesn't have any kids she has nieces and nephews and they all want to meet me and all of them two on the phone thank you for the video to seeing you again hope you have a good night and a good morning and a good evening❤
I don't drink smoke a do drugs I don't hang out in bars and nothing like that dad knows I don't do it I don't hang out in bars and things either don't have to worry about that
I think a hot pink dress would look better on you Gelay🤔👍
Or no dress.
I thnk I love you.
I'll like to get knowing you I'm in Germany please
You look cute.
I love to see meet girl Ang Ganda
How do people get hurt chatting online? Why do people think it's real dating?
I find it weird. One guy on here has been 'talking with one for 7 months' - that's ridiculous. He obviously has either not the money or the time to even visit, so he's wasting his time anyway.
Try not to fall into the Dream paradise inside your heart , look at the reality of a western culture in comparison of a filipina that most time sees you as a saviour from poverty" a different mindset" altogether " is better to date and care for her in her own country ,by elevating her lifestyle to 25% of the previous one , she had, is better than thousands upon thousands of lost later of regret,
It’s not low dress , it’s nice dress
It,s not only the Philippines, add most of S.E.Asian ladies.
The list is endless, and the excuses are the same.
Well that’s a lot of bad. I got lucky I didn’t find a bad girl I found a women I had age limitations when I found who is now my wife. She is what they called left overs never married no kids only had 2 boyfriends in her entire life. Ask 1 day why no husband or children she says I was waiting for you to find me. We now married and have the best relationship and she changed a lot she more confident more sure of herself and she very strong person that loves deeply fiercely loyal and devoted wife and loves her family deeply. She don’t want come to America she don’t like leaving her family and I respect that and I spend half my time there being with her and that’s my home we have built a great life soon I can leave America and never look back.
Gelay, what think about you the bad Philippines girls with Philippines boyfriends? Do you think they will boycott your site? Because soon they will be unemployed 😢
😂 They won't be unemployed 😂😂 not the really hot one's.
No just send me money please.
used/19+ practice only, avoid 20+ anywhere, to keep it simple.
I like you in white dress ❤️🌹
Weak tips. Smart women have multiple social media accounts and just serve you the one they want you to see. It is also possible to block individual users from seeing certain aspects of
the social media account.
Also not helpful is to ask for papers to prove the woman is not married, those papers can easily be falsified.
The only thing you can do is hire a PI and have them get the copies of proof that she is not married.
Overall very weak advice, i am sorry, you are luring your viewers in a false sense of safety
Do you really think her viewers are here for advice... I watched a video of her cleaning her room and talking about her cashflow. These men will all be fleeced one way or another... And I don't fault her.
I never married anyone and I'm glad very happy filapina or not 😂😂😂
I love women with braces.
You do look good in blue honey but you’d probably look good in a rice sack 😂 (we say potato sack here).
It's probably a good idea to just stay away from the pinay that goes to a bar
Agree...hello from Angeles city Phillipines
Here is a $64,000 Important hint. Trust but verify. Set up a false id (with picture, etc) ... and contact the girl under an assumed name. If she responds, she is playing you. Also, this is a serious life decision. consider hiring a private eye in the PI
Wait a minute... I thought all Philippina were nice and sweet! 😅
Trust, but VERIFY.
The girl I live with I give 7000 piso a month, i dont support her family. If she eants to give her family money from the 7000 she can. I buy the food and pay the bills. Told her if shes not happy find someone else. The girl im with has no kids and single. She could vare less about sex. The girlfriend i had before wanted it always the one now could care less about it.
Yes somen men jot want kids but i think if love a women kids no issue learn love all anyone say not like dark skin.... run dont put up woth them to me bad men....
Gelay, I have to make a note; you speak too fast and we Europeans are not Americans,😂 so we need to listen to the English language a little slower. Thank you
Click on the ☸cog wheel. Check video speed, reduce to where it is comfortable.
Also you can click on CC. and read the English.
I have to do this because I have hearing impairment.
Good luck if you go to Asian Country for a wife.
@@davidcadman4468 thank you so much. I put 0,75 and I understand very well
The longer the story the less I believe the story.