THE BIGGEST I CAN HANDLE, MAYBE I CAN'T WALK AFTER!

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  • @bruceschmidt758
    @bruceschmidt758 11 місяців тому +5

    I understood that you cared enough to go to a bad place to talk to the young women who are in the sex trade. This was a stunning piece of journalism. I never thought you went there to become one! Keep up the great work!

  • @ShowseeTravels
    @ShowseeTravels 11 місяців тому +19

    You’re an exceptional woman. My family earns a small fraction of what I do. We don’t get along because of this. They took some money from me not long ago and didn’t return it. My feelings on that matter are “I work 2-3 times more”, they could too. I don’t live where they live because the opportunities aren’t there. I work in the oil fields of Texas, it’s dusty, dirty, dangerous, and isolated, I hate it here, but I do what I have to because being poor sucks. It’s all a matter of perspective I suppose, the older I get the less I want to help. Giving too much without expectations can hurt more than it helps. It’s really cool to see you doing so well, but it’s because you work your butt off.

  • @haylspa
    @haylspa 11 місяців тому +3

    This Woman is a Gem

  • @craigbarrett2278
    @craigbarrett2278 11 місяців тому +2

    A good soul.

  • @richbrewer8121
    @richbrewer8121 11 місяців тому +4

    Much respect to you for helping your family. You set a GREAT EXAMPLE of how people should help their families.
    I also appreciate how open and honest you are about your Life. It takes a lot of courage for anyone to be honest, much less to be so honest in front of millions of people.
    Wishing you health, happiness and continued success!

  • @btedon
    @btedon 4 місяці тому

    You are a wonderful young lady. Never listen to negative messages

  • @lnbb21
    @lnbb21 11 місяців тому +2

    Don't let what other people say get you down, people are just that way, you are gorgeous, you work to make your way through life and are doing great.I would love to have a woman like you as my significant other.

  • @sting1111
    @sting1111 10 місяців тому +1

    You have great courage and are driven to help others. Anyone who would bash you is a very small person. keep going!

  • @Michail-z7p
    @Michail-z7p 11 місяців тому +1

    i have been wondering countless times why people are prone to evil acts and words rather than the opposite! Therefore you have to be very carful in this messy, cruel world. I appreciate your honesty.

  • @frankmosses9121
    @frankmosses9121 11 місяців тому +10

    If a baby can come out..... you would be surprised what can go in. Just take your time, lots of foreplay

  • @johntoulmin-gf1zy
    @johntoulmin-gf1zy 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Gelsy - sending love and respect ❤️

  • @biggerlonely7242
    @biggerlonely7242 11 місяців тому +2

    Super good and super honest video. I love when you open up.

  • @pedals1960
    @pedals1960 11 місяців тому +2

    Happy Holidays wishing you the strength to get through the tuff times . Your so good 👏

  • @digme
    @digme 11 місяців тому +1

    Gelay, what matters most in life is the size of your heart. You have a big heart filled with kindness and curiosity. Keep up the good work.

  • @danelionheart5881
    @danelionheart5881 11 місяців тому +22

    No matter what you do in life there will always be people to bash you put you down and try to say things to hurt you. People do this because they can't have what you have, or they don't try to make something for themselves. I young girl plays the Violin Beautifully, yet people pick on her telling her she should play something different because she is not good. Now many others will say she was wonderful but the 2 people that bash her are what hurts her most. I have learned at a young age that most of the time you just can't give a F what others think. If you are happy then do what makes you happy and keeps you happy. Do not worry what others think. You will always find people that will say and do anything to kill a dream. But if you let them bother you it isn't just them at fault. Online it is simple to mute or ignore people with bad intentions. They will make new names and try harder to hurt you and upset you. Just keep muting them blocking them and ignoring them. The funny thing is that tells you just what kind of life they have if they are willing to keep making new names just to attack you. A lesson is always there to be learned. A person can act nice and make you feel that is a wonderful person but over time you learn that person was just acting the part to try and get you to trust them or make them a special person in your life. When they do not get their way, their true colors start showing through.

  • @Irishluck528
    @Irishluck528 11 місяців тому +3

    Haters will hate- They are just jealous. Keep your head up, just scroll over the haters and keep reading the positives. Thank you for your work on your channel.

  • @DanielPFigueroa
    @DanielPFigueroa 7 місяців тому +1

    You take care of yourself and make sure that you're doing good for you and your channel take care with everything you're doing and make sure that everything is good for yourself don't believe what other people have told you on your channel and just do what you have to do to take care of you and don't go so crazy on your family of supporting them you need to support yourself too make sure you take care of yourself and make sure you support yourself to I don't understand you have a family but you have to take care of you too I like your channel so please continue as best you know how thank you for doing your channel

  • @loyal4theway159
    @loyal4theway159 11 місяців тому +1

    respect for you to help your family

  • @covinaca5312
    @covinaca5312 10 місяців тому +1

    You are amazing!

  • @lifestyleunleashed8046
    @lifestyleunleashed8046 10 місяців тому +1

    Ignore bashers and haters. They are jealous of your beauty and success

  • @trayjordan8090
    @trayjordan8090 11 місяців тому +1

    You're doing a great job Gelay keep it up 👍💐👌❤️❤️😇😇🙏

  • @carlscorner4316
    @carlscorner4316 11 місяців тому +1

    i enjoy your channel ...I have Filipina fiance.... your information is very helpful

  • @rfshortwaves
    @rfshortwaves 11 місяців тому +1

    Happy Christmas and New Year to you.

  • @robertotero7155
    @robertotero7155 11 місяців тому +1

    GELAY YOU Are a beautiful sweet girl! God bless you always!

  • @bishdizzle67
    @bishdizzle67 11 місяців тому +1

    Stay true to your values and you will be blessed.

  • @thekoshertourist
    @thekoshertourist 11 місяців тому +1

    Don't worry about the bashers, they have nothing better to do then to try and bring others down. That said, having bashers (negative comments) is a good sign, it means you're growing and some people just can't handle that...Do you and don't worry about what everyone (besides me ofc, lol) says...

  • @VENEMPASTOR
    @VENEMPASTOR 11 місяців тому +1

    Don't let people bring you down.
    You're smart!
    People are hateful and you need to outwork them.
    F*ck them!
    Let the results be your motivation!
    Keep working, enjoy yourself and have a good time!❤

  • @mikesample6104
    @mikesample6104 11 місяців тому +1

    I Sam sending Prayers you are beautiful inside and out 😊

  • @alexanderraganit539
    @alexanderraganit539 8 місяців тому

    Been watching your videos for quite a while... to be honest, your a funny person, and i guess your amazing.
    And regarding your bashes. o Wow, minding them would only bring sadness. Just do what you wanna do and what makes you Happy.
    I admired your passion on what your doing.
    Keep it up. 🙂

  • @twanncanady6413
    @twanncanady6413 11 місяців тому +1

    Keep pushing queen ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @williamgrant8723
    @williamgrant8723 10 місяців тому +1

    Sounds like you have a cold or something, take care of yourself babygirl! ❤️🥂

  • @Adair9800
    @Adair9800 11 місяців тому +1

    Merry Christmas Gelay, I think you will be happy to be in your home town. Sorry I missed you in Thailand😢

  • @waavyfm
    @waavyfm 8 місяців тому

    @2:30 🎯 Respect 💪🏼

  • @michaelmereday6791
    @michaelmereday6791 11 місяців тому +1

    It's even harder when people don't appreciate what you do

  • @whittakerwinstanleyiii4051
    @whittakerwinstanleyiii4051 11 місяців тому +1

    Im happy to help you out with a view and a like to grow your channel. You’re very honest and pretty too.

  • @johncoffman2703
    @johncoffman2703 8 місяців тому

    Stay positive and follow your dreams. Hard work will be its own reward. Helping family is always a good thing,

  • @MegaLnichols
    @MegaLnichols 9 місяців тому

    I hope the best for you Gelay

  • @Halibuttman99
    @Halibuttman99 10 місяців тому +1

    I can tell after watching your videos you’re a good person with good intentions. You have enough followers there will always be a rotten apple in the bunch. Keep smiling and you deserve a hug from a big guy with green eyes like me! I’m 6’1” from Los Angeles, and I think you’re beautiful 😊

  • @bruceschmidt758
    @bruceschmidt758 11 місяців тому +1

    I understood that you was strong enough to go to a bad place and to give a voice

  • @JMgmkh
    @JMgmkh 11 місяців тому +4

    Your a nice girl with a good heart Gelay. I think you could benefit having a conversation with the Pea.

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti3286 11 місяців тому +1

    Life learning and maturity is a process and doesn't happen overnight !!! I tell people that I am a very patient person because I don't want to miss seeing or learning some because moving too hard and fast !!! Sometimes it can be easier moving at a slower and steady pace and not getting too far ahead of myself !!! 😊 !!!

  • @TerrenceErasmus
    @TerrenceErasmus 9 місяців тому

    Hi Gelay I am proud of you for the bonding with your family members❤ I do appreciate the effort and dedication that you show to family ❤ I do know that you are warm tender hearted person ❤ whatever you do is for a good cause ❤ I am sorry to hear about your sister in law my sister too had a stroke on 19th is January and I do know how it feels❤ may the Divine grant you and family members the grace and strength to endure the pain and suffering🙏🙏🌹🌹with love

  • @Chermakdaddy
    @Chermakdaddy 11 місяців тому +1

    I'm so sorry about sis in law. I survived 4 strokes. If u have any questions don't hesitate to ask me hun. I'm so sorry, I'm praying for a speedy recovery, it's a long horrible process, but it does get better ok. ❤

  • @riccholland585
    @riccholland585 11 місяців тому +4

    Gelay you're right, don't pay attention to the bashers. People who think negative of you they really don't have People knowledge. You are a sweet innocent girl with a good heart. Mahal kita Gelay

  • @JeffreyKyleDin
    @JeffreyKyleDin 11 місяців тому +1

    I feel you Gelay. I too am the youngest and make the most money in my family. My parents even gave birth to me, the third son, because she thought of me as her 401K plan if my older son fails and she still thinks of me as someone who will take care of her when they get old and don't need to pay for my services and charge me rent. I renegotiated the deal with my mom and told her that I will not come home unless she forefeits the rent because I could be staying in the apartment I rent in Manhattan and my landlord doesn't require me to assist her physically. My mom understood and let me stay for free. However this did not come without sacrifice as Western women expect not to live with anyone's parents for any reason even if it is to take care of parents. This kept me away from dating or marrying Western women and after seeing the train wreck of my older brothers' divorces from Western women, I thank my parents for keeping me away from dating Western women. Instead I travel and meet foreign women for one week. My late dad even advised me to find a traditional women instead of dating the riff raff in America. This is another reason I seek a woman from the East whether it is Eastern Asia or Europe because traditional women understand my situation.

  • @FlemmingDP
    @FlemmingDP 11 місяців тому +1

    I wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. Wish you get well soon Gelay 🙂

  • @RobertL388
    @RobertL388 11 місяців тому +2

    So good. Keeping it real Gelay😅

  • @JackLoyd-b6f
    @JackLoyd-b6f 11 місяців тому +1

    Love the Philippines, will be coming back to the Philippines at the end of February for a month

  • @Luterstar-mp5
    @Luterstar-mp5 11 місяців тому

    Very Good So Cute I Like U Full support Sis.❤❤❤

  • @db-law1230
    @db-law1230 11 місяців тому +1

    Just remember who you are, and you will always be OK. Ignore the bashers - they are the ones who are to be pitied. They have nothing positive going in their lives, so they try and bring others down. The more successful you become, the more bashers will try and take shots. Take it as a sign that you are succeeding! Take care, and Merry Christmas to you and your family.

  • @wally6615
    @wally6615 11 місяців тому +2

    Do. a video on the house renovation, those video usually do really well.

  • @mister_5165
    @mister_5165 5 місяців тому

    You are a very pretty woman❤

  • @Craius78
    @Craius78 11 місяців тому +2

    You are an amazing woman. Don't let anyone tell you differently. I and many men in this world would be happy to have a woman like you in their lives. I move to Manila next year and I would be lucky to find such a good woman. Though that's not why I'm moving. I'm just fed up with the US for awhile and need a break from the social, political, and economic mess that is here.

    • @seanbeliakoi4430
      @seanbeliakoi4430 11 місяців тому

      I want to do the same thing my friend! hope you a happy life in Manila!

  • @glennwardup8418
    @glennwardup8418 11 місяців тому +4

    Gelay you are an amazing person don't let the basher get you down because there are just jealous that you are doing better than them in life ..Do what makes you happy is the main thing I'm proud of you for helping your family family is important..You will make some lucky man a good wife when the timing is right ..Just a suggestion try to get more rest because if you don't you will get burnt out on what you are trying to achieve in life.. merry Christmas to you and your family and God bless....

  • @jerrymccall4385
    @jerrymccall4385 4 місяці тому

    Gelay....After many years in the US, I move here to Metro Manila. You are right about the wages paid here being tiny. 3 of my wife's 5 children work and although they have benefits included now, their salaries are still pretty small. They do multiple things to earn extra, more than American companies pay now. As you gain more experience, things probably WILL get better. The plus of live streaming daily is you can better and better front of the camera.
    Stay strong, cry when you need to and God Bless.

  • @brienmurray5510
    @brienmurray5510 11 місяців тому +1

    Gelay you are a beauty and Merry Christmas to you and your family, please don't waste your time caring what others who maybe bashers or people with a difference of opinion, but without them people there isn't a world and maybe you won't have a channel, just like looking for a decent guy you know who you enjoy here making comments but even the bad still build your algorithm and that from what l know gives you the funds. Take it easy Gelay and keep smiling and do your thing whatever it maybe & feast on the support you get here, not all are perfect, but we live on, God Bless 🙏

  • @bobbyvenable9944
    @bobbyvenable9944 11 місяців тому

    WE GET PUT IN SITUATIONS THAT TESTS WHAT WE CAN HANDLE AS A PERSON AND YES THEY ARE HARD AND IT MAY HURT EMOTIONALLY BUT IT IS BUILDING CHARACTER AND INNER STRENGTH THAT WE DIDN'T KNOW WE HAD .......I KNOW ALOT IS ON YOUR SHOULDERS RIGHT NOW BUT JUST REMEMBER IT'S PART OF YOUR JOURNEY AND EVERY JOURNEY HAS BUMPS IN THE ROAD AND OBSTACLES TO CONQUER.......JUST KNOW WE ARE ON YOUR JOURNEY WITH YOU AND WE ARE YOUR UMBRELLA IN THE RAIN

  • @michaelmereday6791
    @michaelmereday6791 11 місяців тому

    That's rough hang in there in will get better

  • @WrikSen
    @WrikSen 6 місяців тому

    And remember, where your character is in question to another person, that person should not be there in your life ever, under any circumstance..

  • @AronPaluba
    @AronPaluba 9 місяців тому

    Yes, you can walk! You will get used to it and want bigger!😊

  • @robpage7125
    @robpage7125 8 місяців тому

    What needs to happen, is to help family members to move to more productive areas of the Philippines and get training/education to pitch in and help....I know lots of province girls, and the men are laying around sleeping and/or doing freelance repair work, tree cutting, construction or whatever "turns a buck !" But the earned money is sporadic...and closer to major cities...
    "Easy for me to say/or give advice from a distance, obviously !"

  • @ricknylund3189
    @ricknylund3189 5 місяців тому

    😂 Jet lag from one island to another?

  • @cocoingham3992
    @cocoingham3992 11 місяців тому

    never listen to negative comments .always smile be happy

  • @djmattvierra
    @djmattvierra 11 місяців тому

    Yes your one of the most beautiful Filipina I ever seen making Controversial videos I love it

  • @patricksnow5326
    @patricksnow5326 11 місяців тому

    Gelay. Please do not listen to the bad comments. You are a wonderful, hard working young lady. ❤. I hope you feel better soon. I hope you have a very Merry Christmas!❤️

  • @stephenr6913
    @stephenr6913 6 місяців тому

    For a young lady, a babaye, to go to the dark places of Thailand as an observer takes courage. There is an old cowboy expression here in Canada. "That takes more guts than you can hang on a fence".....

  • @chadr4013
    @chadr4013 8 місяців тому

    That’s a problem I don’t have to deal with. 😢

  • @bradfordrobertson552
    @bradfordrobertson552 11 місяців тому

    Yes, you need to get your rest before you get sick

  • @AshleyHester
    @AshleyHester 11 місяців тому

    There will always be bashers no matter what so u haft to ignore the few and be yourself

  • @timschannel910
    @timschannel910 11 місяців тому

    Just be happy

  • @warrpedd
    @warrpedd 11 місяців тому +2

    Can you make a video on crab mentality in Filipino culture?

  • @rorybellamy2533
    @rorybellamy2533 11 місяців тому

    Gelay is a Big you tube Star.

  • @ClaytonWood-z8g
    @ClaytonWood-z8g 5 місяців тому

    Lovely lady

  • @ช่างหมึกคนเกษตร

    เป็นเอกลักษณ์ไม่เหมือนใครครับ FC Thailand

  • @TheRmoroni
    @TheRmoroni 11 місяців тому

    respect yourself!

  • @Romeo9933
    @Romeo9933 11 місяців тому

    You women can handle having a whole baby! We are much smaller than a baby! No need to fear, but be careful! ;)

  • @R.S.407
    @R.S.407 11 місяців тому

    Did I hear you correct that your sister-in-law had a stroke? if that's the case I wish her a fast and complete recovery.

  • @hraser3rd
    @hraser3rd 11 місяців тому

    Ignore the bad comments and be grateful that life is good (and you are not angry about life like them). Sounds like your intentions are pure; doing better for yourself and your family. The only person that stops you in life is you.

  • @richardhayden6705
    @richardhayden6705 11 місяців тому

    You always do what you have to do. That's why I do and I don't care what anybody else think

  • @MrLynch-ei4dc
    @MrLynch-ei4dc 11 місяців тому

    I like the inuendos she uses about size and how much she can handle. That's good.

  • @Lawrencerice
    @Lawrencerice 11 місяців тому +2

    Filipinas are only used to 4". Easy solution: I'll just fold it in half!😂

    • @bigjohnson7415
      @bigjohnson7415 11 місяців тому

      I'd have to fold it in Third's!😜😜😜

  • @EddyMaverick
    @EddyMaverick 11 місяців тому

    Don't let these hateful persons come into your shining heart! I think most of them do nothing and they are jealous about your channel and your good work.
    Keep on going and look not so at dumb comments from dumb people. It is not worth crying about it.

  • @colemanwolfe7015
    @colemanwolfe7015 11 місяців тому

    Would you ever move to another country if you met the right man to settle down with?

  • @juanquinones221
    @juanquinones221 11 місяців тому +1

    Gelay bigger isn't always better,you might get disappointed,they put pressure on the subject,especially black men,because not all are big.the novelty wears off.but don't anticipate go with the flow and find someone with character and decent size who'll make you happy,some men marry certain race and find out there's not much difference.its all in the character.black and white men are given the task to put out and it isn't fair to them to live up to certain expectation,being married for 35 years to a black woman and family is great for me and still with them after my wife passed away,but in love choose right , wisely.if that's what you want ask first for size.

  • @shakkkk100
    @shakkkk100 11 місяців тому

    I believe in you gelay

  • @robpage7125
    @robpage7125 8 місяців тому

    One of my friends sacrifices time as an OFW..She and her sisters are building a spacious , cinder block one-story building to house four to five families...It will take another 4 years at least to complete their project...But it will take them AWAY from their flimsy wood and bamboo home to a weather-resistant home..OFW workers do $300-$600 USD monthly, mom,dad and kids eat and attend school, and they "squirrel away" $100-$200 USD to put into the ambitious project ! They will have space for one or two "Sari-Sari stores" connected to the "street side" of their home...All family members can support the whole family..! If my OFW friend chooses to do so, she can come home from the middle east and be with family...!!

  • @raspopatrick
    @raspopatrick 11 місяців тому

    Hi, I bought Philippino condoms and they were to small and hurt😁.So i suggest foreigns take them from home.

  • @albertkhane5087
    @albertkhane5087 11 місяців тому

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @dmpi483
    @dmpi483 11 місяців тому +1

    I respect people that help their family. However be leery that people's needs are essentially unlimited and no matter how much money you make it won't be enough. You're going to have to decide a cut-off point in which you stop giving. There's going to be people grateful for what you've done and there's going to be people that are unhappy that you didn't do more. That's how life is. You can't make all the people happy all of the time. Just make sure that you keep enough resources to take care yourself.

  • @NoComplience
    @NoComplience 11 місяців тому +1

    10inches is no problem for most.

  • @paoxley
    @paoxley 11 місяців тому

    If I can make you scream 'MAMMA MIA!' Merry Christmas then you're good.❤🥰🥰🤪❤️‍🔥 live for today and remember tomorrow will take care of itself. Forget yesterday. ❤❤❤

  • @rafaelvalenzuela7690
    @rafaelvalenzuela7690 10 місяців тому

  • @Jerry-ey9gu
    @Jerry-ey9gu 11 місяців тому

    Very nice video…but that best that u can do in your life is study …read book and get good education will open many door …so don’t wait that !

  • @goatman3828
    @goatman3828 11 місяців тому

    These people that say you can't walk afterwards...how many foreigners have they slep with? Ask them that. There are guys that are far above average, but (according to so-called experts) most every woman can accept it. Maybe not everything at first, but after a few times. And most guys take this into consideration. So it really isn't a big issue. But if those telling you you can't walk they must have a lot of experience on tje subject.

  • @aimhighpinay
    @aimhighpinay 8 місяців тому

    Keep looking for that foreigner who will take care of you and love you. I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, living in Manila.

  • @johndeo5951
    @johndeo5951 11 місяців тому

    😍😍😍😍😍

  • @ChochiT0-ddd7fd
    @ChochiT0-ddd7fd 11 місяців тому

    Imagine the bashers being babies throwing a tantrum. They are just babies. All those people are carrying a bag full of personal problems on their backs. They are going through a tough spot in life and feel good by making you feel just like they are A happy person is not a basher. Just feel sorry for them and move on.

  • @sylvainlafreniere
    @sylvainlafreniere 11 місяців тому

    No pimps, you keep your integrity. The system in Pettaya is clear, the money you could do is complex. And Xmas creates a necessity, Had fun, enjoyed, Great,

  • @jay-ee3ek
    @jay-ee3ek 11 місяців тому

    hello girl have you think at having an e-commerce on the side, that doesn't need a big investment to start
    I started to follow you, I have another pinay vlogger as friend and I've been there 3 times also, good luck to you keep the faith stay strong

  • @rogermoore27
    @rogermoore27 11 місяців тому

    How about if you disappear from the family so you don't have to help anyone?