why marry any girl under 21 silly she no college not even rdy for marry. she can,t get his ss . only the child can get his ss for 18 years he die she on the street. he dies before have any kids she back to nothing if going a teen women at lest pay her a college are start a business for her future are just using her.
Im 52 filipina my American hubby 82 we're good together 20 years now..he got a stroke in 2010 took good care of him too❤ God bless you both more years to come❣️
I also met my wife when she was 18 and I was 59. Stayed with her 1 week, then a month later we stayed together for 1 month. Then 4 months later she came to Australia while pregnant and has stayed the last 7 years. I had major surgery for Liver cancer when we had 2 kids and she was pregnant with our third child. She took care of us all without complaining. Now I am a retired father taking care of our 3 children while my wife is studying to be a nurse (6 months to go) and she also works part time to support the family.
I’m American, and a rare breed. I’m far from perfect, but I’m a take care of my man type of girl. I would have never left you either!! I’m so happy you found true love!
I am a pilipino , married to a pilipina , we been together for 35 years , I can say that she truly love me and I love Her more than I love my self , true love is the most precious thing in the world one can find
@@TonyRule It seems odd to me. Every other ethnic group seems to encourage marriage between people of their own ethnicity. Not so much in the last generation, but parents prefer that.
I am a Filipina . I married to a Filipino man , also . We separated ways when he went abroad as a seaman. That is how he changes his character and everything . He becomes bad. He becomes more a cheater. Then that is how my life becomes so miserable. Sometimes our own ambitions will only kill us and that is if we have more money. Money changes everything . So , be it, if we married our own race and color or we married a foreigner , i can conclude that it is the man who is the culprit of everything because he carries the decisions to leave his family. .We didnt discussed anything because he refused to talk to me. When he went abroad again , he didn't go home to us anymore. We have two children.I carry the burden. Unluckily for me , i choose the wrong man...Until now , i dont have the desire to have another man in my life.He left me when i was 35 years old. I am now 62 . Life is pretty tough though but we survived against all the sufferings with my 2 children. So , it doesnt matter whom you marry . But for me i blamed it all to my husband' s fault. We don' t communicate well during our marriage . Because he thinks he is always right and he didn't give me a chance to settle our marriage and voice out my own side. It was very unfair. Money rules, maybe because he earned much than me. Thank you for reading my old sentiments. I already moved on .
Sorry to hear of your bad experience and having to raise 2 kids single handedly on your own. This is what happen when men are given free reign or having some spare changes while their wife work and toil to support the family. Money changes everything in every form and is indeed the root of all evils when not managed or used carefully. I wish you well...minus your ex because you are worthy of more. Good luck.
As a divorced woman who raised a daughter. I married a man 14 years older than ,myself. He was rich, I was a young struggling acto/writer. I thought I was in love with him. He was abusive, cheap and mean. Without discussing it with me, right after I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, he had a vasectomy, thus denying my child of full siblings (he had one grown older son) and a woman of 25 more children. A few months after giving birth he hit me hard on the mouth. He was an evil man who plotted and did end up destroying my life. It was a long time ago. You cant carry around hatred and disappointment. You just find little pleasures and are thankful for small joys. I have so much and yet old and poor....I send you love and a soothing balm for your heart aches and disappointent....Please lovely lady...let it go....let God, love and laughter in....remember if you have a roof over your head, a meal to eat and one good meal to enjoy....you are rich....and it doesnt hurt to have a companion like a dog or cat....they will love you always unconditionally....go save and animal....the life you save may be your own.
I am proud as Filipina im married to american man too,,he loves me so much, and thats the reason why i love him more myself, i respect him more than anyone coz he loves and accepts my family and most my children he love them...Hope GOD WILL BLESS US HEALTHY HEALTH so that we can stay together long.
I am Canadian. I wish our women were like you. Although some would say they ARE like you, they definitely are not. Canadian men trust them to add. That is disturbing. All my friends and most of my family are divorced and have kids with different partners.
@@hazylmcknight9098 happy for you hazel.im american in malasiqui with my gal built house here on 356sq meter plot.we are 8yrs together her 3boys are with her mom&dad right up the road 2minutes and her brother next door.i like my privacy she always seems to know my moods.i don't say anything cause it's her family...but she knows..I cannot complain.have a very good life with her.she never demands anything from me.
“ Do not squander your pearls before swine, unless they trample on them and kill you.” The swine is you in this biblical prophecy. Unless you are the pearls though..
This is a good guy who got what he deserves - a good wife and a family that will be there with him thru thick and thin. The young wife is what a true Filipina is - trustworthy, loyal, faithful. Great story. Thank you for sharing.
I am a Filipina. If a Filipino girl asks money, leave her. There are a lot of good Filipino women out there. If you offer money, and she does not accept it, she's a good one.
What if she lives in the slums of Davao. Has two teenagers, and she never asked for anything. Doesn’t work. Doesn’t disclose her pre diabetes and thyroid issues until the 3rd week when I’ve told her about my health issues from day one. I sent her 5000 pesos and she accepted. She uses her money For her phone communication with me. She bought food for her family with what I sent.
you're right to say that, sir, not everyone. u'll find rotten tomatoes in a basket (goes w/ the others), but there are a great number of fresh ones in there. one only has to be keen on spotting the rots from not.
Great interview, I’m a FilAm and reside in Beaumont CA, and have investment the Philippines, so I travel in the Philippines a lot stories like this makes me proud of my Kababayan. I’m a 76 years old, so sometimes I feel like a 76 years old. #AbePagtamaActor
I'm a filipina and also married to an English guy. I look after my husband the same way. It has something to do with how we were raised by our parents. That love, care, and respect is deeply rooted to how we were looked after by our parents.
Kultura na Kasi ntin ang mas pinapahalagahan ang pamilya. Asawa mo means pamilya mo n Yun. Nasa moral values n natin ang mentalidad ng buo ang pamilya. Nag hihiwalay lng kung may sakitan n. Di rin Tayo mpghangad ng super yaman. Yung sapat ay ok n.
@@AngieLina-ou3grtotoo yan , mas mahalaga sa atin yung saan ka maligaya, age doesn't matter sa atin kahit mahirapan pa tayo sa buhay ang mahalaga mahal matin yung tao❤
thank you so much for doing this video 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️☮️👍🏻May I 🙏🏻 pray for you that GOD will heal and bless you every day to be fully recovered to enjoy your times with your loving wife and little girl 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️☮️👍🏻 I feel for you Mr. Monte because I had a major heart valve surgery 3 years ago and suffered a mild stroke already 3 times and struggled to walk on my own with a walking stick daily. I can say it’s terrible when I used to be very active physically but now can’t walk normally on my own. I Prayed that as time goes on I can be normal again with medications, right diet and walking exercises. I’m not married and don’t have any kids but I have to keep on going and hopefully meet a woman kind and loving to accept me. When I’m already 64 years old 🙏🏻🙏🏻 do take good care Mr. Monte❤☮️🙏🏻🙏🏻
I met my man here in Florida by coincidence after 5 years steady we get married in Las Vegas and now we been 23 years together ♥️even we don’t have children but Love and care communicate to each other is important to us! We retired early @60 years old, now we are happy here in the Philippines 🇵🇭 more fun and traveling, we drive all the way to Boracay, Gigantes island, Palawan, Siargao and enjoy life! Happy to hear your Love story
He must be white then. Because you guys go for white priviledge. You guys think it's a priviledge to have a white husband regardless of his background. Even if he is a truck driver. Shame on you guys.😂
In my town I’ve seen lots of happy families over the years where the husband was an older Australian man and his wife was a lot younger from the Phillipines and they all lasted, had kids, grandkids etc
My wife is 38 phillipino, I'm 66 we have been married for 5 years she has no kids or past boyfriends ,she now lives in the UK and has full time employment as a chef ,remarkable lady doesn't smoke or drink swear or take the Lords name in vain ,the best addition to my life ever , I dont deserve her but she is here with me in the UK and the pure love we have is undiscribable.
@@gregtucker2892no matter if she has a child just learned her first before your gonna fall on her.Sorry of my English😆Anyways goodluck n hope u will find a good one no matter what in Gods wilß
I'm married to a Filipina I met during our graduate studies at the University of British Columbia for 35 years now. The marriage is not perfect, but we get along amazingly well!
important is you.get along well. there is no perfect marriage.. in the philippines what matters most are the children.. yes even grown up children .. why? when a filipina or filipino die... who will fix the burial ? the children. and on Nov. 1.. children will visit the cementary.. your wife? if still living and can walk ...
Really an incredible story. I was not sure if I wanted to watch just because of the age differences but I listened, tried not to judge and I'm glad I did. I hope and pray that Monte is able to maintain if not improve his health and enjoy seeing his daughter grow and experience the love he gets from his wife. The big take away is really how wonderful his wife is... He for sure found a one in a million match I think. I also respect him for seeking out her family as well as his own kid's feelings and approvals.
Excellent story. I was 70 and married a 35-year-old Filipina. We are doing great. So far I'm in very good shape. No major medical issues. Most 18 and 19- year old girls are unstable and unpredictable. You are lucky. I was NOT wanting or looking for a 18-19 year old girl, but was introduced to one. A true genuine connection never formed. She was too immature and it did not work out -- thankfully. I made the right decision for me.
Her father said as long as you don't hurt her or abuse her... I told one girls father I do not beat women. If they are bad I will lock them in the CR after I used it. He laughed and said his wife should be locked in there. She was saying No No No and I was saying yes yes yes... Im going to the police store for the handcuffs LOL Mama laughed and said I was bad ha ha
Monte my man , From the depths of my heart I wish you and your wife and daughter all the very best for the future. As you would be aware, we hear so many stories...many conflicting. But your story my friend touched me deeply. The trials and tribulations , the clinging to life by a mere thread and to recover with you wife and daughter still by your side providing every reason to fight on and cope with the obstacles that remain. Bless you and you family Monte. Kind regards Nick
Whitney Anders- What a negative, terrible, critical, unthoughtful, disrespectful comment about my friend Monty Crew. You should be ashamed of yourself. God has blessed Aragel and He with a beautiful little daughter. Little Faith has a promising future and parents who love her. I cannot believe an individual could with a clear conscience make such a terrible comment.
@@whitneyanders5945 Indeed! Not very considerate towards the child. If he was able to leave at minimum $100,000 USD and SSA child survivors benefits then at least it gives the child a fighting chance to have a better future and existence.
I have always liked Monty and his wife from the first time I have seen them.. first time I saw him he had a yellow house he was renting in Valencia and his wife gave us a tour of the place and it was cheap and beautiful.. I was sold on the Philippines when I saw that video of a house that cheap in the mountains of Valencia and such a nice and beautiful wife.I think it was 200 or 250 dollars a month.. great guy great girl and now they have a wonderful and beautiful little girl..😊😊
I’m from the Philippines I met my husband Year 1997 his American and we got married Year 2001 And I came to the U.S.A Year 2002 We had a child 2003 The married couples are not always perfect.especially we have a lot of differences and culture. But the most important thing is genuine Love, Respect and honestly.the gaps of our age 22 Years. But we’re happy couples. We’re been married for 22 Years our daughter she in college now. And I been taking care of my husband for almost 4 Year because of health issues.And My husband just Passed away Dec.21,2023 It’s not that easy for us this holidays season I missed him soo much..😢
Chad this is a great interview with Monty and inspiring to hear his story The thing is his wife is what we all hope we find in a wife and she must be a genuinely amazing person 😊
@@ormlongman266The woman will do anything marry anyone to get a foot in here It amazes me how gullible you Men are also my friends Dad was taken to the cleaners by one of And they are not the most attractive woman by far
As a Filipino, our culture is family-oriented. We prefer to live with our family. The parents take care of their children. And when the parents get old, their children and grandchildren will take care of them. We are selfless specially to our family. That is just the way it is and I personally love it. Cheers!
Just like anywhere else, there are those who take commitment seriously and an equal number who do not. The "culture" promoted about the Philippines is fading fast and will soon be a thing of the past. It's a sad reality we all need to accept.
Sadly NOT ALL Filipinos and Filipinas are that way! My ex MIL is Filipino from the Philippines. She & her husband moved to Alaska for a few years then settled in Honolulu HI in the 70s maybe late 60s. Anyway, they worked there a$$e$ off! Rain or shine sick and all they worked worked worked! Im a part Hawaiian/Asian Local girl born n raised here in HI and to me it was a bit MUCH! I just didnt see where they’d find the time to ENJOY anything! Just LIFE! U know? Anyway, long story short. They had 5 children the youngest son is my ex (father of my sons) they absolutely LOVED their father. He was a very hard working man and a loving one at that! The mom was a hard working woman but she cracked the whip! NONE of her kids help her with almost anything. The father passed away many years ago from cancer, but she had to do ALOT of things on her own as none had there own lives and just didn’t help her. It’s very sad how they treated her and still do today. Yes they love her, however idk if they will “take care of her” when she’s unable to care for herself. All they want is what they can get from her after she passes. Im afraid it’ll be a real shit show when that happens. So my 2 cents is this. Not all Filipinos are the same. Don’t label a gender or a nationality. Unconditional love is found EVERYWHERE and all over the world.
Monty has overcome a lot. Good for him and his wife for sticking together thru the ups and downs. Also a reminder to get yearly checkups with a full blood work, especially as we get older.
We Filipina really takes care of our partner because what are parents treats us and we've seen from them. I love my parents and to my future husband your lucky😊❤🇵🇭💚
Hey Chad, nice interview, Monty has had both an interesting and at times, a hard life as many of us minus the medical issues. I like others wish him well in his future endeavors in maintaining or improving his health as with completing his current home and being happy with his family.
That's why I love Monte, he's just plain honest. He admits that he did everything wrong and knows that he's lucky as the year is long. Knowing the long version of his story (from his channel and other interviews he's done) really shows how lucky he got. Could another guy get as lucky, maybe but I wouldn't bet my farm on it. The quality of character of his wife is a true gem. She stayed with him during his major health issues, current health issues and money worries from when Monte had his business arrangements (US business income) hit a rough patch. But when you see them together as a family it all just connects, and it's easy to see they love each other. I wish Monte and family all the best both now and many years to come. Stay blessed my friend, as it's easy to see that even though life has dealt you a tough hand, you still have a true Ace of a wife that comes through regardless of the circumstances. 👍👍
why marry any girl under 21 silly she no college not even rdy for marry. she can,t get his ss . only the child can get his ss for 18 years he die she on the street. he dies before have any kids she back to nothing if going a teen women at lest pay her a college are start a business for her future are just using her.
@@hillbillyintheasia6122stop projecting your inner issues on others… death has non age .. same when it comes to love… how many younger people who are widows or widowers… divorced or married their fellow age for money 🤦♂️😡
@@hillbillyintheasia6122 @hillbillyintheasia6122 Simple, once someone turns 18 its none of anyone's business who they love. Everyone can have am opinion sure but once they legally become "consenting adults" then it's up to them. Also just as you said his child can get his SS for 18 years. That alone brings up the quality of life substantially from a regular person on the street. You talk about college, but it's just as possible college wasn't an option for her in the first place. You are making a lot of assumptions based upon a western mindset, and your assuming capability when it's possible her options weren't that broad. Even if his life comes to a close a woman with her quality of character is in demand, and their UA-cam videos act as a testament to the quality of her character as well. Most men would give their right kidney to have a woman so dedicated even if she was a widow with a child. Her future isn't even close to as bleak as you assume. She's got a path to income through their UA-cam channel and there could even be more things Monte has put in place to make sure her and her child are taken care of, we just don't know. But all that said I wish you all the best 👍
She’s one of a kind. I’m happy for people who found true love and happiness. Experience how to be loved and know how to love others genuinely, then you’ll see the good side of the story.
A real good woman he is married to. I was in the Philippines in August and my neighbours cousin 19 years old living with an 62 year old American. I saw so many very young girls with older men. I heard them talk together and it was good conversations, not superficial at all
You made me cry, reminds me of my husband. I just love him that I treat him like a king as he always said to people. But God took him away from me, I guess He loves him too and He don't want him to suffer a lot . Get well sir.
U are one of the few that found a single young woman and she fell in love with u stayed with you after all these years I beenmarried 40 years to filipino changed so much the last 24 years it's been hard to live withher.
Great video guys... i too got very LUCKY with my Beautiful filipina wife.. we now have a 2 year old daughter and we're living our best life. Cheers Monty
I found your video most interesting. I am married to a filipina for 23 years and we reside in Siquijor. Thank you for sharing your information and knowledge with us. We travel to Dumaguete at least once a month primarily for my health issues. Would love to know who your cardiologist is. At present, I have none.
I've been married to an American.Now we are 7years and doing good in our relationship.I promise to my husband i will take care of him.Now his turning 73 yrs.old.
@@bozicayanc1932 American woman marries a rich man for money too. It happens all of the world. Every relationship is different and if the two parts of the couple are benefiting, that seems to be good enough right?
You're blessed, Sir, to have this Filipina wife, my kababayan! She's an amazing woman! I know you love her too as to give her freedom if she wishes to be freed...but her love for is not a skin-deep thing. It's real love! Congratulations!
So nice to hear your story, honesty true not everybody is the same, majority Filipinos if you respect them they will RESPECT you. Filipino values are Our no. One that we carry wherever you go. Thank you for sharing your story.👍
Wow what a story, so many of these stories dont turn out well. This story shows that if you put a good man and a good woman together you can have success
Awesome story . You are so blessed to have a beautiful in and out good and godly woman who loves you till the end. God bless you and your family 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
Your story is amazing..I salute your wife..She is kind hearted and very responsible..I hope she will not change her attitude and you are also understanding..I wish you all the best..
I have been following Monty's channel for quite a while now and I must say he has won a lottery with his wife. The way she treats him and takes care of him is one in a million. Don't make the mistake of thinking that all Filipinas are like that! If I had been in his condition, my ex-Filipina-wife would have dumped me with a caregiver while painting the town with other guys using my money. I'm pretty sure of that. So if you have a wife like Monty's, hold on to her with both your hands, because you will never find another one like her!
True, I'm Filipino. It isn't about the race, color of skin, status. It's only either you're able to get your sh!ts straight or you're a piece of crap. Although, women who are raised conservatively are more likely to get it, I think..
Most Filipino women are caring and loving as long as you are the same. Perhaps you were just unlucky to find the wrong one. I was married to Canadian and we got along well and loved each other. Unfortunately he passed away in 2020. All my married female Filipino friends are very loving to their Canadian husbands.
i can relate with his story same happen to my late husband except that i dont want to have children cos i have 2 lovely children from past relationship my husband adopted my 2 kids legally and send them to school and here we are having and living in American independently dream My late husband is our Angel from heaven above thanks to him.
I am very touch with your story you got a wife that is a gem. God bless you both…be happy and thankful for each day that you got a very blessed family that God is the head.
I was at dinner in Quezon City with an expat friend. We were talking about this channel and others and we both agreed, "St. Luke's" -- we are 8 km from St. Luke's... Just another view of living in the Philippines. AND WE TALKED ABOUT ASYMETRIC FILIPINO STEPS. You guys read our minds!!!!
Monty, 11yrs ago I found out I had had 12 strokes. I had 10 minutes of mobility ability at that time. Here 11 yrs later I can work up to 2 hrs with breaks and the improvements I take as a blessing. I'm your age and feel confident that with time you will only improve more and more my friend. Take care and Salamat Chad for the sit down. Amping!
My friend’s worry is the toxic utang ( borrow culture, without paying) in the Philippines. All of his wife ( at the beginning of their marriage) relatives and friends are borrowing money left and center without paying because they all think that all foreigners has unlimited money to giveaway. If you don’t give, they can call every names they want. Parents and siblings thought that they’re entitled to everything their sister has😅. Anyway, great fun friendly culture, until you stop handing out free money. So, be cautious , be careful! It’s ok to be kind, but don’t overdo it.
I have worn a shirt that said on it Proud KuriPot. They get the idea real quick. One of the first lessons I teach is that I am not the bank. GET A JOB. SO the gravy train does not stop. It takes a while but I teach them that we are not rich. THe numbers are just may times larger than theirs but we have all the same problems.
@@khenglim - You just have to let them enjoy the fruits of their inaction and forkery. I have said before, I do not care who is whining crying or dying... Tell St Peter at the gate I said hello. Don't delay, Be on your way... Says Mr KuriPot.
@@KlodFather Agree... But what if they view and expect these men to be their ATMs? Quick run, I suppose. Haha....Fact is....many of my country men (especially the older folks) have fallen prey to these love scams and robbed of their life long pensions (in tens and hundreds of thousand) to women not just from the Philippines but also Indonesia, Malaysia, Vietnam, China etc. It's sad but the reality is that money matters and everything comes down to dollars and cents. Of course, there are success cases of marital bliss and I truly applaud these unions and wish them well.
@@khenglim - Agreed. If she is gold digging, then you need to set the boundry. If they don't let up, replace them like a burned out light bulb. You cannot fix that problem. Tampo is another big problem. I tell them No Chismosa No Tampo No BS No crazy relatives etc... They get that speech so they know I know what is up and its off limits. One girl did tampo and I said, OK. Time to go. Headed to the Jeep station and was talking to another... Oh my did that situation get turned around quick. But if they do it once they will do it again when they are comfortable. Just get out and find a peaceful one who does not engage in that shit. So much better that way. Its OK to trade some looks for a good woman who does what is right. ITs a No Brainer.
Peoud to be a Filipina with the right moral values. Love cannot be bought with money. A good friend, wife, husband or family friend will stay with you whether you are sick, poor or down. That is how you know how good or evil a person is. They do good things for others for charity.
@@alice_agogo hndi nmn po cguro. sinabi nmn po nya na "w/ the right moral values". entitled po cia sa opinion nya tulad ng entitled ka pong i-state sna opinion nu rn kumba't me opposing views kau w/o attacking her comment directly or concluding na nagbubuhat bangko cia. that way, magiging constructive po ang labas ng criticism nla w/o offending the other. my 2 cents po. L❤️ve & pe💚ce, kabayan.
I still don't believe that money doesn't count. If this same man had no money, probably was living on the streets, do you think she will still love him or even look at him? Common people, they still love them because of his money,
@@phil-amvlogsi8359 That's what happens if you grow up with that kind of culture. You think it's normal to leave your elderly and sick relatives in homes and hospices. It is very common in our culture to take care of a spouse during illnesses. My grandfather had a stroke ang my granma took care of him. When my grandma was terminally sick, my aunt took care of her. Now we take care of our elderly aunts whenever they get sick. He is attracted to her because she is young and probably sexy and pretty, she is attracted to him because he can provide and lead a family. Do you expect a guy can be both ugly and irresponsible and get the perfect girl who would take care of him? LOL. What a mindset. Of course there is a trade off, girls would also want to feel secure.
My prayeris that you will be here for your wife and daughter for years. God bless you and family for many, many years to come. Always in my prayers, Atlanta, GA
A young girl with a old man. Ask any young girl they laugh at you. Yuk Sorry . Very obvious. Like a old Woman with a young boy . Blah blah . Wake up people. The World lost there marbles.
Chad, thank you for this interview. I love the Crew Family, Monty is a great honest man and so is Aragel. And their lovely doughter Faith. I contacted them, they always replied. Now, I am soon getting married to a wonderful Pinay babae. God Bless
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I always appreciate interviews with Monte and would love to see a part 2. Excellent video good sir, and I look forward to more of your videos 😁👍👍
Monte, an his wife, are very loving and devoted couple. Love their channel, and follow them. Great story of true love😊
If you do make a Part 2 include his Wife in the video i would love to hear her insight and thoughts Chad.
why marry any girl under 21 silly she no college not even rdy for marry. she can,t get his ss . only the child can get his ss for 18 years he die she on the street. he dies before have any kids she back to nothing if going a teen women at lest pay her a college are start a business for her future are just using her.
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Im 52 filipina my American hubby 82 we're good together 20 years now..he got a stroke in 2010 took good care of him too❤ God bless you both more years to come❣️
Poor you...!!! Giving your body to touch, an OLD donkey...!!!
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Kiss to you, Ms. cook. (You know what's up. When he pass's, he'll take care of you.)
and the REST of the Family...!!!@@tymesho
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I also met my wife when she was 18 and I was 59. Stayed with her 1 week, then a month later we stayed together for 1 month. Then 4 months later she came to Australia while pregnant and has stayed the last 7 years. I had major surgery for Liver cancer when we had 2 kids and she was pregnant with our third child. She took care of us all without complaining. Now I am a retired father taking care of our 3 children while my wife is studying to be a nurse (6 months to go) and she also works part time to support the family.
Good Fortune to you and your family.
That's nice family building. She probably will have no problem becoming a nurse.
God bless your Family ❤❤
you are wealthy and/or she is having her fun on the side. No other explanation, I am afraid.
Not all women are like you@@suepari
I’m American, and a rare breed. I’m far from perfect, but I’m a take care of my man type of girl. I would have never left you either!! I’m so happy you found true love!
Real Filipina woman quality. I am married to my husband 15 yrs older than me and we doing ok.
Hopefully, by ok, you mean good. Ok sounds like it's working but not ideal.
@chris2489001 ur a negative person! Should of kept ur opinion off of here! Tooo much negatively!
@@chris2489001 many marriages are "ok" & it may be sad to many, however who knows other than the couple in question. Peace be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
@@chris2489001 That's a pessimistic interpretation of the word "okay".
I am a pilipino , married to a pilipina , we been together for 35 years , I can say that she truly love me and I love Her more than I love my self , true love is the most precious thing in the world one can find
Woww,,, 😊😊😊
What do you think of women marrying old white men? How many do? Half? Less or more?
@@vitalucas9452 *_"Half?"_* Really? It's very much a minority.
@@TonyRule It seems odd to me. Every other ethnic group seems to encourage marriage between people of their own ethnicity. Not so much in the last generation, but parents prefer that.
You must be white.
Monte is very lucky for finding true love..glad he found a home in the Philippines. So happy for him 💗💓💞
Are you from Philippines aswell?
I am a Filipina . I married to a Filipino man , also . We separated ways when he went abroad as a seaman. That is how he changes his character and everything . He becomes bad. He becomes more a cheater. Then that is how my life becomes so miserable. Sometimes our own ambitions will only kill us and that is if we have more money. Money changes everything . So , be it, if we married our own race and color or we married a foreigner , i can conclude that it is the man who is the culprit of everything because he carries the decisions to leave his family. .We didnt discussed anything because he refused to talk to me. When he went abroad again , he didn't go home to us anymore. We have two children.I carry the burden. Unluckily for me , i choose the wrong man...Until now , i dont have the desire to have another man in my life.He left me when i was 35 years old. I am now 62 . Life is pretty tough though but we survived against all the sufferings with my 2 children. So , it doesnt matter whom you marry . But for me i blamed it all to my husband' s fault. We don' t communicate well during our marriage . Because he thinks he is always right and he didn't give me a chance to settle our marriage and voice out my own side. It was very unfair. Money rules, maybe because he earned much than me. Thank you for reading my old sentiments. I already moved on .
Sorry to hear of your bad experience and having to raise 2 kids single handedly on your own. This is what happen when men are given free reign or having some spare changes while their wife work and toil to support the family. Money changes everything in every form and is indeed the root of all evils when not managed or used carefully.
I wish you well...minus your ex because you are worthy of more. Good luck.
It sure doesn't sound like you've 'moved on', just that time has passed.
I feel your pain. Many Filipino men are babaero and lasingero.
As a divorced woman who raised a daughter. I married a man 14 years older than ,myself. He was rich, I was a young struggling acto/writer. I thought I was in love with him. He was abusive, cheap and mean. Without discussing it with me, right after I gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, he had a vasectomy, thus denying my child of full siblings (he had one grown older son) and a woman of 25 more children. A few months after giving birth he hit me hard on the mouth. He was an evil man who plotted and did end up destroying my life. It was a long time ago. You cant carry around hatred and disappointment. You just find little pleasures and are thankful for small joys. I have so much and yet old and poor....I send you love and a soothing balm for your heart aches and disappointent....Please lovely lady...let it go....let God, love and laughter in....remember if you have a roof over your head, a meal to eat and one good meal to enjoy....you are rich....and it doesnt hurt to have a companion like a dog or cat....they will love you always unconditionally....go save and animal....the life you save may be your own.
Bless you for trying to make it work. I'm glad you were able to raise those children alone. I hope they understand how hard it was for you.
I am proud as Filipina im married to american man too,,he loves me so much, and thats the reason why i love him more myself, i respect him more than anyone coz he loves and accepts my family and most my children he love them...Hope GOD WILL BLESS US HEALTHY HEALTH so that we can stay together long.
kindness of heart surely goes a long way for people who are born with one thank the heavens by practicing charity i n words n in deeds
I am Canadian. I wish our women were like you. Although some would say they ARE like you, they definitely are not.
Canadian men trust them to add. That is disturbing. All my friends and most of my family are divorced and have kids with different partners.
Only for his money that the truth
God bless Amen and Amen.
@@hazylmcknight9098 happy for you hazel.im american in malasiqui with my gal built house here on 356sq meter plot.we are 8yrs together her 3boys are with her mom&dad right up the road 2minutes and her brother next door.i like my privacy she always seems to know my moods.i don't say anything cause it's her family...but she knows..I cannot complain.have a very good life with her.she never demands anything from me.
What a beautiful story, ❤, I love the Filipino people, they are intelligent, witty, loyal and great companions.
and 'LOVE' rich, all for fist of $$$
“ Do not squander your pearls before swine, unless they trample on them and kill you.” The swine is you in this biblical prophecy. Unless you are the pearls though..
just a like a golden retriever - intelligent, loyal, and great companion. Thanks, but I'll stick with a golden retriever and marry someone my own age.
@@bozicayanc1932 don't talk in general that filipina like that . And advantage of dollars.. thats ridiculous .. if you think that
This is a good guy who got what he deserves - a good wife and a family that will be there with him thru thick and thin. The young wife is what a true Filipina is - trustworthy, loyal, faithful. Great story. Thank you for sharing.
Privy to an old man
Lots of women are trustworthy, loyal and faithful. Even women of your own age.
This story is heartening and so beautiful.
I'm also from dumaguete and my husband is from USA Wichita. We've been married for 21 yrs and we are living here for good. They love it here.
Married to an angel....what a heartwarming story....
@@prebensvensson3078 imagine
Filipinas, when treated right and with love, they will return the same, ten folds. God bless you both.🎉
Absolutely.
True
True!
Completely true in every respect!
this is i have found, very kind & careing ladies, i have many filipinas ladies who i dearly care about.
I am a Filipina. If a Filipino girl asks money, leave her. There are a lot of good Filipino women out there. If you offer money, and she does not accept it, she's a good one.
Are you a good one?
I believe you. Had a wife who God took because of a terrible cancer. She was awesome, supportive, and a good wife. Now I'm a widower at 54
Good morning from Europe and how are you doing?
They all ask for money from day 1
What if she lives in the slums of Davao. Has two teenagers, and she never asked for anything. Doesn’t work. Doesn’t disclose her pre diabetes and thyroid issues until the 3rd week when I’ve told her about my health issues from day one.
I sent her 5000 pesos and she accepted.
She uses her money For her phone communication with me. She bought food for her family with what I sent.
Fantastic story, it's nice to see that Filipinas are not all money diggers.
Best of luck with your health Sir.
you're right to say that, sir, not everyone. u'll find rotten tomatoes in a basket (goes w/ the others), but there are a great number of fresh ones in there. one only has to be keen on spotting the rots from not.
Money diggers Filipinos are usually those that are engaging in flesh trade.
If all Filipinas are gold diggers then the Philippines won't have poor people, just keep that in mind.
Great interview, I’m a FilAm and reside in Beaumont CA, and have investment the Philippines, so I travel in the Philippines a lot stories like this makes me proud of my Kababayan. I’m a 76 years old, so sometimes I feel like a 76 years old. #AbePagtamaActor
You're so lucky sir to your wife❤ love is everywhere 🙏❤️❤️❤️
I'm a filipina and also married to an English guy. I look after my husband the same way. It has something to do with how we were raised by our parents. That love, care, and respect is deeply rooted to how we were looked after by our parents.
Kultura na Kasi ntin ang mas pinapahalagahan ang pamilya. Asawa mo means pamilya mo n Yun. Nasa moral values n natin ang mentalidad ng buo ang pamilya. Nag hihiwalay lng kung may sakitan n. Di rin Tayo mpghangad ng super yaman. Yung sapat ay ok n.
@@AngieLina-ou3grtotoo yan , mas mahalaga sa atin yung saan ka maligaya, age doesn't matter sa atin kahit mahirapan pa tayo sa buhay ang mahalaga mahal matin yung tao❤
Bless you 🙏
thank you so much for doing this video 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️☮️👍🏻May I 🙏🏻 pray for you that GOD will heal and bless you every day to be fully recovered to enjoy your times with your loving wife and little girl 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️☮️👍🏻 I feel for you Mr. Monte because I had a major heart valve surgery 3 years ago and suffered a mild stroke already 3 times and struggled to walk on my own with a walking stick daily. I can say it’s terrible when I used to be very active physically but now can’t walk normally on my own. I Prayed that as time goes on I can be normal again with medications, right diet and walking exercises. I’m not married and don’t have any kids but I have to keep on going and hopefully meet a woman kind and loving to accept me. When I’m already 64 years old 🙏🏻🙏🏻 do take good care Mr. Monte❤☮️🙏🏻🙏🏻
So you are more of a caretaker than a wife then?
I met my man here in Florida by coincidence after 5 years steady we get married in Las Vegas and now we been 23 years together ♥️even we don’t have children but Love and care communicate to each other is important to us! We retired early @60 years old, now we are happy here in the Philippines 🇵🇭 more fun and traveling, we drive all the way to Boracay, Gigantes island, Palawan, Siargao and enjoy life! Happy to hear your Love story
Maybe having no children is a blessing for you as you are more free to do what you want.
@@thinkie12no
He must be white then. Because you guys go for white priviledge. You guys think it's a priviledge to have a white husband regardless of his background. Even if he is a truck driver. Shame on you guys.😂
God bless her amazing woman God blessings to you family healing prayers
So many horror stories about Filipinas have all been offset by this one story. Thank you for that possibility existing.
In my town I’ve seen lots of happy families over the years where the husband was an older Australian man and his wife was a lot younger from the Phillipines and they all lasted, had kids, grandkids etc
My wife is 38 phillipino, I'm 66 we have been married for 5 years she has no kids or past boyfriends ,she now lives in the UK and has full time employment as a chef ,remarkable lady doesn't smoke or drink swear or take the Lords name in vain ,the best addition to my life ever , I dont deserve her but she is here with me in the UK and the pure love we have is undiscribable.
A1a
If you dont deserve her then you are a dirtbag for manipulating her to be with you
@@perrykomick9478You totally misconstrued his humble statement
What a shame.
Every Filipina I chat with has kids
@@gregtucker2892no matter if she has a child just learned her first before your gonna fall on her.Sorry of my English😆Anyways goodluck n hope u will find a good one no matter what in Gods wilß
You are blessed with a real Filipina , I hope she will not change. God bless your family ❣️
Poorness is main reason of such bond.
I'm married to a Filipina I met during our graduate studies at the University of British Columbia for 35 years now. The marriage is not perfect, but we get along amazingly well!
There's no such thing like perfect marriage...
Its a miracle
@@megancentro3878obviously
important is you.get along well. there is no perfect marriage.. in the philippines what matters most are the children.. yes even grown up children .. why? when a filipina or filipino die... who will fix the burial ? the children. and on Nov. 1.. children will visit the cementary.. your wife? if still living and can walk ...
@@dellcruz2818l
Monte? You struck a diamond Squire😊
All the best to you and your family. Try to see if you can do anything to extend a life of happiness Brother. 😊🎉
Wow! This woman deserves respect!
Wow! INSPIRING STORY, GOD BLESS YOU SIR & TO YOUR WHOLE FAMILY... PRAYING FOR YOUR FULL RECOVERY. SHE'S ONE IN A MILLION❤ ...
PROUD FILIPINA HERE.
Really an incredible story. I was not sure if I wanted to watch just because of the age differences but I listened, tried not to judge and I'm glad I did. I hope and pray that Monte is able to maintain if not improve his health and enjoy seeing his daughter grow and experience the love he gets from his wife. The big take away is really how wonderful his wife is... He for sure found a one in a million match I think. I also respect him for seeking out her family as well as his own kid's feelings and approvals.
Excellent story. I was 70 and married a 35-year-old Filipina. We are doing great. So far I'm in very good shape. No major medical issues. Most 18 and 19- year old girls are unstable and unpredictable. You are lucky. I was NOT wanting or looking for a 18-19 year old girl, but was introduced to one. A true genuine connection never formed. She was too immature and it did not work out -- thankfully. I made the right decision for me.
Proud to be a Filipina. That's what we are and you're very lucky sir. Congratulations and God bless you and your family
Her father said as long as you don't hurt her or abuse her... I told one girls father I do not beat women. If they are bad I will lock them in the CR after I used it. He laughed and said his wife should be locked in there. She was saying No No No and I was saying yes yes yes... Im going to the police store for the handcuffs LOL Mama laughed and said I was bad ha ha
CR?@@KlodFather
@@regnorse - Comfort Room. CR is short for the toilet or the Comfort Room. A Philippine term.
Haha not all are like this 😂. Most marry an old man for his money
not for bigger bananas?@@ptyh27
Monte my man , From the depths of my heart I wish you and your wife and daughter all the very best for the future.
As you would be aware, we hear so many stories...many conflicting.
But your story my friend touched me deeply. The trials and tribulations , the clinging to life by a mere thread and to recover with you wife and daughter still by your side providing every reason to fight on and cope with the obstacles that remain.
Bless you and you family Monte.
Kind regards
Nick
I agree and wish Monty and family the best!
Monty is a great guy with a miraculous story!!!
He looks great in the video and is healing...Thank God!
He's a lucky man
The poor kid though. Will only know a sick and old father. That’s quite anxiety inducing for the child.
Whitney Anders- What a negative, terrible, critical, unthoughtful, disrespectful comment about my friend Monty Crew. You should be ashamed of yourself.
God has blessed Aragel and He with a beautiful little daughter. Little Faith has a promising future and parents who love her. I cannot believe an individual could with a clear conscience make such a terrible comment.
@@whitneyanders5945 Indeed! Not very considerate towards the child. If he was able to leave at minimum $100,000 USD and SSA child survivors benefits then at least it gives the child a fighting chance to have a better future and existence.
Blessings to you both! 🙏🏼
Praying for a full recovery. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
You're a lucky guy!that's it!you find a very special gem here in the Philippines,I pray for your full recovery and live your life to the fullest❤
I have always liked Monty and his wife from the first time I have seen them.. first time I saw him he had a yellow house he was renting in Valencia and his wife gave us a tour of the place and it was cheap and beautiful.. I was sold on the Philippines when I saw that video of a house that cheap in the mountains of Valencia and such a nice and beautiful wife.I think it was 200 or 250 dollars a month.. great guy great girl and now they have a wonderful and beautiful little girl..😊😊
I’m from the Philippines I met my husband Year 1997 his American and we got married Year 2001 And I came to the U.S.A Year 2002 We had a child 2003
The married couples are not always perfect.especially we have a lot of differences and culture. But the most important thing is genuine Love, Respect and honestly.the gaps of our age 22 Years. But we’re happy couples.
We’re been married for 22 Years our daughter she in college now. And I been taking care of my husband for almost 4 Year because of health issues.And
My husband just Passed away Dec.21,2023
It’s not that easy for us this holidays season I missed him soo much..😢
I'm very sorry for your loss.
Hope you're well ❤
Chad this is a great interview with Monty and inspiring to hear his story
The thing is his wife is what we all hope we find in a wife and she must be a genuinely amazing person 😊
As someone also married to a beautiful Filipina who is the most beautiful woman in the world i truly relate to every single word. God bless
good for you, i love filipenia ladies, they are special, & i only wish for a caring one could be mine, i lost my dear wife to cancer.
Filipinas aren’t rated the world’s most beautiful Asians. Koreans are.
@@Landis_Grantthat’s Forsure !
@@ormlongman266The woman will do anything marry anyone to get a foot in here It amazes me how gullible you Men are also my friends Dad was taken to the cleaners by one of
And they are not the most attractive woman by far
@@Landis_Grant There's beauty in every group.
May Monte's days continue to blessed with Good Health, God speed to Monte's healthy recovery,
Excellent video. I appreciate you both for your honesty.
As a Filipino, our culture is family-oriented. We prefer to live with our family. The parents take care of their children. And when the parents get old, their children and grandchildren will take care of them. We are selfless specially to our family. That is just the way it is and I personally love it. Cheers!
Same with Naga Tribes from Nagaland Northeast India
@@charlieneks4534 Filipinos even look like Naga. Very similar culture, including indigenous dress code. There's a genetic and cultural link someplace.
Just like anywhere else, there are those who take commitment seriously and an equal number who do not. The "culture" promoted about the Philippines is fading fast and will soon be a thing of the past. It's a sad reality we all need to accept.
Hi Guys
Sadly NOT ALL Filipinos and Filipinas are that way! My ex MIL is Filipino from the Philippines. She & her husband moved to Alaska for a few years then settled in Honolulu HI in the 70s maybe late 60s. Anyway, they worked there a$$e$ off! Rain or shine sick and all they worked worked worked! Im a part Hawaiian/Asian Local girl born n raised here in HI and to me it was a bit MUCH! I just didnt see where they’d find the time to ENJOY anything! Just LIFE! U know? Anyway, long story short. They had 5 children the youngest son is my ex (father of my sons) they absolutely LOVED their father. He was a very hard working man and a loving one at that! The mom was a hard working woman but she cracked the whip! NONE of her kids help her with almost anything. The father passed away many years ago from cancer, but she had to do ALOT of things on her own as none had there own lives and just didn’t help her. It’s very sad how they treated her and still do today. Yes they love her, however idk if they will “take care of her” when she’s unable to care for herself. All they want is what they can get from her after she passes. Im afraid it’ll be a real shit show when that happens. So my 2 cents is this. Not all Filipinos are the same. Don’t label a gender or a nationality. Unconditional love is found EVERYWHERE and all over the world.
The guy was just lonely I can understand that as long as you're respectful and care about the person I think God will be okay with that
Monty has overcome a lot. Good for him and his wife for sticking together thru the ups and downs. Also a reminder to get yearly checkups with a full blood work, especially as we get older.
Good advice
To watch what you eat and keep active physically are the key to be healthy in any age.
We Filipina really takes care of our partner because what are parents treats us and we've seen from them. I love my parents and to my future husband your lucky😊❤🇵🇭💚
Das the most important thing in life 🎉🎉❤
She is a special woman you have there love her with all your heart as she loves you with all her
Hey Chad, nice interview, Monty has had both an interesting and at times, a hard life as many of us minus the medical issues. I like others wish him well in his future endeavors in maintaining or improving his health as with completing his current home and being happy with his family.
That's why I love Monte, he's just plain honest. He admits that he did everything wrong and knows that he's lucky as the year is long. Knowing the long version of his story (from his channel and other interviews he's done) really shows how lucky he got. Could another guy get as lucky, maybe but I wouldn't bet my farm on it. The quality of character of his wife is a true gem. She stayed with him during his major health issues, current health issues and money worries from when Monte had his business arrangements (US business income) hit a rough patch. But when you see them together as a family it all just connects, and it's easy to see they love each other. I wish Monte and family all the best both now and many years to come. Stay blessed my friend, as it's easy to see that even though life has dealt you a tough hand, you still have a true Ace of a wife that comes through regardless of the circumstances. 👍👍
He is ugly, he has a child bride (at that time), he has a helper, he has a personal Nurse, yes, he is very lucky.
why marry any girl under 21 silly she no college not even rdy for marry. she can,t get his ss . only the child can get his ss for 18 years he die she on the street. he dies before have any kids she back to nothing if going a teen women at lest pay her a college are start a business for her future are just using her.
@@hillbillyintheasia6122college is not important, many educated got professionals but they're jobless,
@@hillbillyintheasia6122stop projecting your inner issues on others… death has non age .. same when it comes to love… how many younger people who are widows or widowers… divorced or married their fellow age for money 🤦♂️😡
@@hillbillyintheasia6122 @hillbillyintheasia6122 Simple, once someone turns 18 its none of anyone's business who they love. Everyone can have am opinion sure but once they legally become "consenting adults" then it's up to them. Also just as you said his child can get his SS for 18 years. That alone brings up the quality of life substantially from a regular person on the street. You talk about college, but it's just as possible college wasn't an option for her in the first place. You are making a lot of assumptions based upon a western mindset, and your assuming capability when it's possible her options weren't that broad. Even if his life comes to a close a woman with her quality of character is in demand, and their UA-cam videos act as a testament to the quality of her character as well. Most men would give their right kidney to have a woman so dedicated even if she was a widow with a child. Her future isn't even close to as bleak as you assume. She's got a path to income through their UA-cam channel and there could even be more things Monte has put in place to make sure her and her child are taken care of, we just don't know. But all that said I wish you all the best 👍
She’s one of a kind. I’m happy for people who found true love and happiness. Experience how to be loved and know how to love others genuinely, then you’ll see the good side of the story.
A real good woman he is married to. I was in the Philippines in August and my neighbours cousin 19 years old living with an 62 year old American. I saw so many very young girls with older men. I heard them talk together and it was good conversations, not superficial at all
What city was that?
@@rgasta7765 The island of Bohol
Out of all the stories I’ve heard from the Philippines, that was the most inspirational😳
You made me cry, reminds me of my husband. I just love him that I treat him like a king as he always said to people. But God took him away from me, I guess He loves him too and He don't want him to suffer a lot . Get well sir.
18 to 80 nothing over 300lbs blind cripple or crazy all is ok hes a good man let him rock in roll in the good life
Your filipina wife have a pure love to you and get well soon
You are a good husband and I wish all foreigners wishing to marry Filipinas are like you.
U are one of the few that found a single young woman and she fell in love with u stayed with you after all these years I beenmarried 40 years to filipino changed so much the last 24 years it's been hard to live withher.
I heard facial exercises help with stroke patients. Lovely story!
Great video guys... i too got very LUCKY with my Beautiful filipina wife.. we now have a 2 year old daughter and we're living our best life. Cheers Monty
SMH
I found your video most interesting. I am married to a filipina for 23 years and we reside in Siquijor. Thank you for sharing your information and knowledge with us. We travel to Dumaguete at least once a month primarily for my health issues. Would love to know who your cardiologist is. At present, I have none.
We are a pilipina not materialistic,we are happy in a small things and simple life as long as sincere a man with us🫰
Stay well! God bless you always!
Wow. Thank you for sharing this beautiful story. May God bless you, your beautiful wife and your daughter
Excellent information Chad! This guy Monte is very honest and inspiring! Thank you
I've been married to an American.Now we are 7years and doing good in our relationship.I promise to my husband i will take care of him.Now his turning 73 yrs.old.
all for $$$...!!! Sold your Body and Soul...!!!
@@bozicayanc1932 American woman marries a rich man for money too. It happens all of the world. Every relationship is different and if the two parts of the couple are benefiting, that seems to be good enough right?
but, those 'ones' are so OBVIOUS...!!! @@andysnyder4603
Why are you burning. You can't marry your own country girl ?@@bozicayanc1932
@bozicayanc1932-- those of us who work for a living sell our bodies and soul.
Very nice story,,thanks for sharing Chad😊
You're blessed, Sir, to have this Filipina wife, my kababayan! She's an amazing woman! I know you love her too as to give her freedom if she wishes to be freed...but her love for is not a skin-deep thing. It's real love! Congratulations!
Totally informative video content. Thank you for sharing it.
A beautiful story that many don’t get to experience. True love is very powerful 🙏
Have a speedy recovery sir, sure you're lucky enough for some other guys out there. God bless always and your family.
So nice to hear your story, honesty true not everybody is the same, majority Filipinos if you respect them they will RESPECT you. Filipino values are Our no. One that we carry wherever you go. Thank you for sharing your story.👍
Wow what a story, so many of these stories dont turn out well. This story shows that if you put a good man and a good woman together you can have success
Chad, you are great at this youtube gig! I have watched you on other channels as well. Keep up the great work and I hope to visit there soon.
Very touching story..made me cry. I’m from Dgte as well and I salute you and your wife. God bless your family 🙏
Awesome story . You are so blessed to have a beautiful in and out good and godly woman who loves you till the end. God bless you and your family 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
Chad nice line-up of questions.
Very good flow to the interview 👍👍
Outstanding Video, God Bless him. Thank you for this. Perhaps someday I will meet a beautiful Filipina woman myself.
Hey Chad, nice interview with Monty. I salute Monty for his honesty. He’s a very down to earth guy. God bless him more!
It sounds like this guy got really lucky. His wife sounds very responsible and caring.
Big red flags! What a mess.
yep before his time lucky Filipina
@@witchking008 Yep his money
She is stuck with no other option. If she divorces him, she will not get half his Social Security. Look behind the curtain.
@@iluvmoney6767Foreigners be winning in the Philippines. xD
Sucks in certain countries.
What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing.
Such a great story. If only I can share this with all the single men I know
Great interview,I have seen other interviews on this subject and you handled it well congrats.
Your story is amazing..I salute your wife..She is kind hearted and very responsible..I hope she will not change her attitude and you are also understanding..I wish you all the best..
I have been following Monty's channel for quite a while now and I must say he has won a lottery with his wife. The way she treats him and takes care of him is one in a million. Don't make the mistake of thinking that all Filipinas are like that! If I had been in his condition, my ex-Filipina-wife would have dumped me with a caregiver while painting the town with other guys using my money. I'm pretty sure of that. So if you have a wife like Monty's, hold on to her with both your hands, because you will never find another one like her!
True, I'm Filipino. It isn't about the race, color of skin, status. It's only either you're able to get your sh!ts straight or you're a piece of crap. Although, women who are raised conservatively are more likely to get it, I think..
they already pointed out in the video... not all, but it'e common in the philippines because of the culture
Most Filipino women are caring and loving as long as you are the same. Perhaps you were just unlucky to find the wrong one. I was married to Canadian and we got along well and loved each other. Unfortunately he passed away in 2020. All my married female Filipino friends are very loving to their Canadian husbands.
Absolutely pilipina so caring, understanding and most down to earth.
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i can relate with his story same happen to my late husband except that i dont want to have children cos i have 2 lovely children from past relationship my husband adopted my 2 kids legally and send them to school and here we are having and living in American independently dream My late husband is our Angel from heaven above thanks to him.
I am very touch with your story you got a wife that is a gem. God bless you both…be happy and thankful for each day that you got a very blessed family that God is the head.
I was at dinner in Quezon City with an expat friend. We were talking about this channel and others and we both agreed, "St. Luke's" -- we are 8 km from St. Luke's... Just another view of living in the Philippines. AND WE TALKED ABOUT ASYMETRIC FILIPINO STEPS. You guys read our minds!!!!
Monty, 11yrs ago I found out I had had 12 strokes. I had 10 minutes of mobility ability at that time. Here 11 yrs later I can work up to 2 hrs with breaks and the improvements I take as a blessing. I'm your age and feel confident that with time you will only improve more and more my friend. Take care and Salamat Chad for the sit down. Amping!
What a wonderful wonderful love story
My friend’s worry is the toxic utang ( borrow culture, without paying) in the Philippines. All of his wife ( at the beginning of their marriage) relatives and friends are borrowing money left and center without paying because they all think that all foreigners has unlimited money to giveaway. If you don’t give, they can call every names they want. Parents and siblings thought that they’re entitled to everything their sister has😅. Anyway, great fun friendly culture, until you stop handing out free money. So, be cautious , be careful! It’s ok to be kind, but don’t overdo it.
Yes, most of the time it's about dollars and cents and having a support system.
I have worn a shirt that said on it Proud KuriPot. They get the idea real quick. One of the first lessons I teach is that I am not the bank. GET A JOB. SO the gravy train does not stop. It takes a while but I teach them that we are not rich. THe numbers are just may times larger than theirs but we have all the same problems.
@@khenglim - You just have to let them enjoy the fruits of their inaction and forkery. I have said before, I do not care who is whining crying or dying... Tell St Peter at the gate I said hello. Don't delay, Be on your way... Says Mr KuriPot.
@@KlodFather
Agree... But what if they view and expect these men to be their ATMs? Quick run, I suppose. Haha....Fact is....many of my country men (especially the older folks) have fallen prey to these love scams and robbed of their life long pensions (in tens and hundreds of thousand) to women not just from the Philippines but also Indonesia, Malaysia, Vietnam, China etc. It's sad but the reality is that money matters and everything comes down to dollars and cents. Of course, there are success cases of marital bliss and I truly applaud these unions and wish them well.
@@khenglim - Agreed. If she is gold digging, then you need to set the boundry. If they don't let up, replace them like a burned out light bulb. You cannot fix that problem. Tampo is another big problem. I tell them No Chismosa No Tampo No BS No crazy relatives etc... They get that speech so they know I know what is up and its off limits. One girl did tampo and I said, OK. Time to go. Headed to the Jeep station and was talking to another... Oh my did that situation get turned around quick. But if they do it once they will do it again when they are comfortable. Just get out and find a peaceful one who does not engage in that shit. So much better that way. Its OK to trade some looks for a good woman who does what is right. ITs a No Brainer.
Peoud to be a Filipina with the right moral values. Love cannot be bought with money. A good friend, wife, husband or family friend will stay with you whether you are sick, poor or down. That is how you know how good or evil a person is. They do good things for others for charity.
buhat ng sariling bangko pa more
@@alice_agogo
hndi nmn po cguro. sinabi nmn po nya na "w/ the right moral values". entitled po cia sa opinion nya tulad ng entitled ka pong i-state sna opinion nu rn kumba't me opposing views kau w/o attacking her comment directly or concluding na nagbubuhat bangko cia. that way, magiging constructive po ang labas ng criticism nla w/o offending the other. my 2 cents po.
L❤️ve & pe💚ce, kabayan.
I still don't believe that money doesn't count. If this same man had no money, probably was living on the streets, do you think she will still love him or even look at him? Common people, they still love them because of his money,
@@jbcelis okay gandhi
@@phil-amvlogsi8359 That's what happens if you grow up with that kind of culture. You think it's normal to leave your elderly and sick relatives in homes and hospices. It is very common in our culture to take care of a spouse during illnesses. My grandfather had a stroke ang my granma took care of him. When my grandma was terminally sick, my aunt took care of her. Now we take care of our elderly aunts whenever they get sick.
He is attracted to her because she is young and probably sexy and pretty, she is attracted to him because he can provide and lead a family.
Do you expect a guy can be both ugly and irresponsible and get the perfect girl who would take care of him? LOL. What a mindset. Of course there is a trade off, girls would also want to feel secure.
My prayeris that you will be here for your wife and daughter for years. God bless you and family for many, many years to come. Always in my prayers, Atlanta, GA
Thanks again sir chad and sir monty for sharing this episode of life 🙋♀️salute you guys and Godbless u more!🙏🏼
Wow similar name to my daughter - Julienne 😊
@juliusjuispais7926 😍oh that's cool, sir🙋♀️but I'm from the northern part of the Philippines 👍
@@julieann2546 In the West, we do not treat these loser men with respect.
You deserved to be take care, you're blessed by God with good and kind hearted woman.
Great content! I am proud of your wife!
The Philippines has a lot of good doctors, specially in a big cities that's why we have medical tourism a lot more cheaper than other country
Love this interview. You describe my Filipino wife to a tee and I consider myself very blessed
A young girl with a old man. Ask any young girl they laugh at you. Yuk
Sorry . Very obvious. Like a old Woman with a young boy . Blah blah . Wake up people. The World lost there marbles.
This brought tears to my Eye's, Dreams and Love can come True in this Lifetime! Thank U 4 this Wonderful Life inspiring Video!🥰🙏🏼💪🏾
She’s definitely a treasure worth keeping, one in a million
Chad, thank you for this interview. I love the Crew Family, Monty is a great honest man and so is Aragel. And their lovely doughter Faith. I contacted them, they always replied. Now, I am soon getting married to a wonderful Pinay babae. God Bless
Amazing story, God bless you and your family.
Hi Monty, I’ve been following your videos! Loved it!!! Pls continue to do more !! Always pray for you in your journey of good health & enjoife!!