2017 Honda (CR-V/Civic) shifter/cable replacement

if you're reading this, chances are you're replacing the cable that you broke and there's just no info on it, or maybe you're reading this first, good!
1) do NOT put the impact gun on that shifter nut or you WILL break that ever so sensitive cable, 100%!
2) use 2 wrenches to SLOWLY remove the nut while holding the back of the bolt on the shifter cable. That's it, no expensive cable or extensive instructions.
3) but if you did break it, its not so hard with the info.