Men Need A Rite Of Passage
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WHAT'S UP, BROTHERS
So.cringe 😂
Hope everybody’s doin well out there
@@Cakeboy99 😂🤘
Retention is a Rite of Passage!
I tell men all the time online. If you are struggling mentally and physically you need to get to the gym and eat organic food. The higher testosterone is going to guide you to do the right things. Life will become natural. You will be able to spot choosing signals, you will be confident in job interviews about management positions, you will not be scared to go out in public and talk with people. You become magnetic to people that are also on the right path, and you quickly weed out the people that want to use you.
I would say my biggest moment for me is when I posted a two year transformation picture on my social media and I started having people tell me how big I really was and how happy I look. I started having my friends that were woman tell me how much better I looked and they told me that I was making her friends shy to talk to me.
That's when I put two and two together I am going to be all good.
Nice bro
Appreciate the comment and you have a nice day.@@nikhil8892
Very onesided advice
That is kind of the point. You start doing this you get more attention and feel better. If you do not do these things, then you are going to be banging your head against a wall for years. I am not sugar coating it. Healthy woman that do not play games want these guys. Insecure woman go for guys they can control.@@YZFMANIAC08
a steak a day keeps the mind sane
Even tho i am gay, i still use most of the advice here or rather listen and kind of appreciate the discussion you put out
Homosexuality is peak degeneracy and most minds can't comprehend how some minority engage in it since it's completely against nature of life. It is not a sin to have homosexual thoughts but it is a sin to act upon it. May God guide you brother
Some people make self-improvement into a huge hassle. I remember a quote a heard a while back which goes something like "True hell is the person you are meeting the person you could've become." I don't know who said it but it rains true. I think people rob themselves of genuine change. Both the fear of missing out & making it paralyzes them. Set yourself little goals so it becomes less of a hassle & more of a process you enjoy. That way you're not going to hate yourself because life isn't as "dramatic".
Anyways, thoughtful video. Keep it up.
I say this sincerely - I feel bad for any man who did not play team sports (football in particular, but I know not everyone was built for that). I've had my share of struggles in life, but I can't imagine how much worse and greater in number they would have been had I not gone through the forging process that team sports make available.
I was not big enough at 15 and I got hurt when I was at practice. It was such a shame for me. I did play baseball when I was a little kid though.
I went swimming and at basketball. Swimming is kinda competitive only when you want it to be, but I hated basketball, oh goodness...
Congrats for your 100k subscribers !
LFA, you're one of the few people I watch on UA-cam that can tell a story that's honestly quite simple but is still incredibly real and profound. Keep doing what you're doing man you're pushing us all to be better men out here
Hey bro, you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! We men instinctively respect a man that is ripped and shredded, that clearly gives evidence of his mental fortitude, self-discipline and strength of character. When the evidence is right in front of you, words are unnecessary.
LFA, you’re doing the Lord’s work man. Only person on UA-cam who keeps it real. Some of the things you say piss me off at first, but after contemplating, I realize I’ve been wrong, and I think that’s real growth. Thanks for all that you’re doing and congrats on the 100,000 subs
Good stuff brother!
Cheers dude!
Appreciate your videos man!
This one really made sense LFA🙏🏾
Thanks for another great video. You saved my life.
Looking For Answers!
Keep up the great work, Brother.
That's a solid bench brother!!
These kind of videos are the best brother
Congrats on the 100k!
Appreciate you lfa
I really needed to hear this man. I'm starting as an electrician apprentice in 2 weeks and this is something I didn't think of.
Yaaaa dawg, keep talking bro!!!!!!💪
I am from Europe, the Western society that’s falling apart as the speed of ray. Female, single, playing all the sports available at University at that time, educated and so on… You cannot imagine how wise you are and how much light you share with all of us. You are SO right in your words. Integrity, honesty, masculinity, real love, friendship and trust are so rare to encounter these dark days. Keep on working that line my friend🤓💛💐
Are you from Spain by any chance ?
congrats with 100k, brother!
BEST. VIDEO. EVERRRR!!!!
Great insights and very true. I used to pump iron like crazy and that was part of my success.
Glad to hear you arent gonna stop the driveway vids LFA
I love this mindset.🎉 This is how the world should be!!! Awww the end of the video is 🤗
Nice bro congratulation for 100k you deserve that
These videos are superb
Reflecting on your biker gang story, I hate it how it's all about how others perceive you first and foremost. I have fairly feminine facial features with a vampire pale skin and small eyes, could probably pass as an 18 year old too even though I'm closer to your age. Somehow this makes people feel they can take shots at me and disrespect me. Having to be consciously hyper aggressive to the smallest of provocations and ready to bust somebody's lips open is really f'ing tiring. I don't think if I'll ever be able to transition because nobody would pass responsibility on someone who looks like a kid. Feels like my only options are to get on gear and faceplant a clothes iron lol.
100k subs well deserved bro congrats 🎉🎉 keep up the good vids as always 👍🏼
Thanks man!
You don’t have to be ‘jacked’ to be someone. Slender healthy is cool too. Love the outdoor shots can we get the brick holes patched:) maybe you should address all the people that drink pop smoke E cigarettes, drink monster drinks how unhealthy that is. It’s like a baby with a pacifier, not attractive at all. You are what you eat and drink. ⬅️
True
BIG BRO!
Brick wall videos for life 💪
My dawg got those matrix bro shades 😎
Brother you do this until you're old and Grey and I will watch this until I'm old and grey
Yet again, your video really resonated with me. As a man with a similar temperament and attitude as you, that has stupidly engaged in street fights in my youth. I will answer as to why the biker let you pass. He can tell how you carried yourself, you weren't the one that would be an easy cherry to pop. You showed no fear in your eyes, and the fact you looked in good shape and had balls to say what's up. All that combined, let him know what the deal was.
I'm LFA's age, and I can tell you young guys from experience. People judge by how you look, stand, talk, and act. And determine in seconds if you're a predator or prey. No different that in the wild/animal kingdom. Most of the time, a bear won't fight lion and vice versa. Even if one feels they can beat the other. What's the point? Why injury yourself or die, when you can just easily find a gazelle or zebra a mile down the path to attack. People are no different. They attack the weak and vulnerable. So at the very least, lose the victim mindset that's popular to have today, get the gym, join a boxing or MMA gym, and become the man others don't wanna F with.
Wonderful advice for a young man. I can only hope this would be something my own son is told as he enters into his manhood. ❤️🍅❤️🍅
Talk to his daddy 😅
The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek
I don't know man. I am 44 and gay and I dig this channel. It's interesting and inspiring. And this guy gives me chest goals. I hope I am allowed to be here! :)
My rite of passage of was with a job I worked where I showed up every single day for 2 years more often that not 12 hours a day for half the pay that everyone else was making; you called off once you probably were fired. Now I reap the best benefits and had a 5 figure bonus recently
What I noticed being about 6ft tall and 220lbs and jacked is that you get nods from other men in public as you walk past them. Almost as a sign of respect. It’s strange. I’m sure this happens to you too LFA. This is why maximizing your physique potential is a life hack.
Facts! I’m not quite on your level yet though.
Hi LFA! I know you're videos are for guys but I like listening to your videos. Hope you don't think I'm odd. 😊
number 1 I just don't need to go into places like that any more. Bikers pretty regulary carry. weapons and run meth and do jail time. Not worth it. Nimber 2 , You gave him the Sociopath Death stare so he felt you were Ok.
Others respect is fleeting too bro.......better be in good health and work on your fitness and money....
Will there be a live stream tonight brother?
I am the most jacked 5’4 guy I know. TRT FTW
Name a more iconic line than "What's up brothers 😎✊. Hope everyone's doing well out there ✌️"
I am an older guy that has been through a lot of passages in my life by your standards of passage. I hung around a rough crowd of people through much of my young life, jocks, Hells Angels (HA), surfers, long haired whisky drinking country boys, you name it. I am not the biggest guy in the world, but for some reason I always make friends with big dudes that definitely can handle themselves, which one reason I never got picked on in High School, yet after my wife of 20-years divorced me I cannot gat a new girl friend to save my life even though I am a damn good looking guy that works out, dresses nice, and is always having chicks staring at me.
Good stuff, LFA.
However, I think its the energy you gave off in the interaction. You gave off tough man vibes, other guy probably emanated weakness.
Scrawny has little to do with it. I know Brazilian Jiu Jitsu black belts who are no more than a buck 60 who could kill a man who's 6 foot, 250 lbs benching 365, and not even break a sweat.
And you'd never even know.
That’s the point (btw, all men are jujitsu black belts now) so the tougher ones have the edge.
@@LFA True. Regardless, love your content brother
Ya that’s the thing man, you’re 6ft tall bench 350. Let’s put me in that situation. 5’6 can bench 225 for 8 that’s my PR. I’m in good shape, I take kickboxing classes and I’ve always had confidence.
Why do I feel like some random scumbag always stares me down while I’m out with my girl ? Most people are respectful but dayum there’s always that one guy.
Sometimes I wonder if my height plays a huge factor that unfortunately, I can’t control.
It does. Some of my friends who are 5'5 and 5'6' experience the same. Also, it's the face. Some men have a more serious/mean/angry look in the face.
Hey,
Life is a game,
and you need to improve,
constantly,
brother.
- A friend
"Smooth Seas never made a Skilled Sailor"- F.D.R.
I want your weather.
Tulsa it is like the Paris of the Southwest
@@alex14111 I'm happy for them cause Montreal be feelin' like Siberia tonight 😂
W driveway
Are you on SR? Hows that going? Just wondering...
Brothers
Hey LFA, what do you think of women who can handle guns better than men. While I find it impressive I don’t it attractive. I think one trained at a basic level is helpful and adequate while still keeping her feminine and not competing you. Your thoughts? A vid on women who are skilled in USEFUL skills traditional to men would be cool. Some argue it’s fine because it contributes to the safety of the family, but when she’s just as good as you or better does it actually preserve the relationship or put at risk when she’s manlier in that regard. Because when it comes to anything to retain life preservation men seem to encourage women to excel at skills contributing to it from Jui jitsu, kick boxing, guns, self defense, etc. Again at a basic level she can still maintain femininity but good enough to be useful and not kicking down doors, clearing rooms like a navy seal. Is there a trade off? Thoughts?
A Rite of Passage is a song by Dream Theater
Its cause you look like a decent man bro
16:55🎉
Lfa it seems as though you are at this point in your lofe where you would like a family. How would you do that?
12:40 Chances are that biker would've talked down to you if you were 5'4. Even if you were jacked. You are greatly underestimating what it's like to be a significantly shorter guy; life is more difficult. Also, the guy ahead of you actually played it smart. Let's suppose you chose to fight those guys. You will lose 100% and potentially lose your life, this has happened before.
Yeah but what happens to old people¿?????
Realizes mid video that he's just talking about looks being the thing that decide your fate haha
Not at all. I also included things like motherhood, fatherhood, skills, education, mental strength, physical strength….
@@LFA Fair enough, true. I just like when we can honestly appreciate what is the 80%, not the 20. (Maybe 60% least, but looks still make or break.. strength is part of it, mental strength comes of it, which bleeds into fatherhood...)
We acknowledged that looks matter many many years ago. Then we moved on to more important topics.
@@LFA you mean looks didn't matter many many years ago ?
As male my life feels like shit and women I see is even shiter
Its your energy. It has little to do with your size, or how jacked you are. You cant hide or fake your energy.
350? Damn brother.
The biker knew you could hold your own and he didn't wanna tempt you to find out. And it's just a mutual respect thing man to man. Something the pretty boy won't get.
men need rite of passage but there are no longer male spaces where this would naturally occur so men must seek this out and force themselves to grow and become a man
It’s the aura/energy you’re giving off to other people… everyone gives off energy.. that’s why the first guy got tested .. the biker saw in ur eyes that you were a take no shit dude…
100% agree with this one
How much money do you make on UA-cam from having a 100000 followers?
I don’t think he was warning him. He was being a classic bully. He met somebody his own size with you and backed off.
That’s not the point. The universe was just being honest.
@@LFA Yes, you could look at it that way. My point is that weak men go after what they perceive at other weak men. Ultimately, they are cowards. It may be the universe, but that guy was not doing anything noble in warning him.
That wasn’t the point of this video.
@@LFA Roger that! Keep it up! LOL
My rite of passage has been the courage to come back driving after an accident where a school mate of mine died. I went through a 12-year period of uncertainty, and when I found the right motivation to drive again (I wasn't anymore willing to walk half an hour to go to work) I came back to the DMV and I practiced until I felt comfortable to drive again. I've been feeling invincible since then, I've found myself a girlfriend and I feel more energetic and self-confident than ever
😅I was really si ck of those Manosphere coaches. Here's a guy who is much more realistic
I've watched a few of your previous videos and You seem like a nice decent guy. You care. I came across your channel from Rich Cooper and I like you both a lot. Keep it up. Btw, you are secretly Wolverine with that fist in the beginning of the video. Them sharp claws coming out :D
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