Find out how to become a high value man pretty much overnight, just by shifting the way that you think, so you can think a little bit differently than low value men.
*My Number One Way to Be High Value* Do good deeds, and dont talk about it. When you perform good acts and don't tell anyone about it, you will naturally have way higher self esteem. This self esteem in turn, will make people like you more and soon you'll have social influence.
Half of the video is your RANT about oil change. Get over it! High value men do not fret about little things. They don't get mad, they get even. Thank you for showing us the low-value men in you.
isn't this the same shit as your videos listed below: HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE LIKE ZEUS, HAILED FROM MOUNT OLYMPUS The True Cost of NOT Having Confidence 5 Things HIGH VALUE Men NEVER Do. 5 TYPES-OF-GUYS-GIRLS-CANT-GET-ENOUGH-OF How to be Assertive Like The Alpha. NICE Guys VS Alpha Males. etc etc.. errr, FarFromAverage, I HATE YOU!!!
*_Don't pursue wealth, you have to attract wealth. I'm not talking about that hocus pocus stuff, when i say attract I mean make yourself more attracting (build skills, social skills, personality). If you try to chase wealth without making yourself better than don't expect to achieve GREAT results_*
Half of the video is your RANT about oil change. Get over it! High value men do not fret about little things. They don't get mad, they get even. Thank you for showing us the low-value men in you.
Life Progress - Health, Wealth, & Happiness Channel Preach man, we’re taught to pursue wealth, but not the things giving us wealth. You should be passionate about your work providing you wealth, as the people who know most about a subject take the most interest in it. Your emotions, conscious, and subconscious work hand in hand. Without the passion, a job is just slavery plus money.
Exactly my thought. Of course anyone realizes that it is better to be high value than low value. It is much more to it than just not accepting things and believe you always deserve better. That by itself does not make you high value in any way. But of course people who already are high value can be more picky due to their status.
i agree if you want respect from your peers work on being a man of strong character not a whineing woman dude needs to change his own oil if he worships his car
Ujjayant Goswami Finally! A woman who thinks it’s okay for a man to be a man (without being an abusive douchebag of course..) Thank you for saying that! ❤️
@@nafishrahim6946 They may but if they do, they knock it out of the ball park where the person is left to respond with dumb arguments. Or the opponent is left speechless.
When he says "be willing to walk away" it actually means be so good of a man that you have a lot of choices so you don't become desperate and are capable of walking away
Video Summary: - High value men think and behave differently. - Women seek high value men. - High value men get most of the rewards in life. - Life is unfair, so we need to adapt - A low value behaviour is the inability to walk away like lousy friends, a poor job and when it comes to women. - Perceived value vs actual value - Includes tangible (wealth etc.) and intangible (ambition etc.) aspects - Speak up for yourself for the value that you believe you're worth - Accountability and responsibility
*There are two domains to master, in order to become a high value MAN: Internal and External* - Internal: Master your mind, understand your human worth and that nothing can take that away from you (Become Stoic) - External: Master a skill, a craft and create value for your community, to the world as a whole (Explore your potential - finances)
Dude probably wasted MORE Valuable time, watching the dash cam video, filing a complaint, taking the shop to court if the shop didn't take responsibility, than if he'd learn to change his own oil on the $70k car. Or he'd have the dealership change the car oil for free since it would be under warranty.
Thank you for this. I have been noticing a change in my values/standards recently and I like the direction my life is going. More opportunities are abundant and I feel better as I’m not giving into things like I used to. At the end of the day when I give more I get more and that applies to all of us!!
Knowing your worth is just the tip of the iceberg you have to be a good man with character and morals who treats people right but yet doesn’t let others walk all over him
Becoming a high value men 1. Walk away (turn something down) Pick a girl that’s about the same value as yours.. take care of yourself first... Speak u for yourself
No WAY! High value men are often RESENTED by low value women and low value men. No one is respected and admired by everyone. That is a myth. But the key is to be respected and admired by the KEY people or by enough people despite the haters.
Agreed. I keep noticing it with my eyes, there are high value men who are there, and are resented by low value people. Sad though. It's like they get the luck to get near those, but they get ignored or just are resented. :/
saintquinn007 go on social media, it is full of low value people hating on the successful. not everyone on social media is like that but the majority are low value people that are filled with envy.
Lol. Let me tell you all a story. This occurred back in Jr High for me. There was this girl who I liked and I had a friend who also liked that girl. What ended up happening is, several other guys also ended up liking her alot. Now, the conflict that occurred is, my former friend got cocky, reckless and even racist towards Asians particularly just to be with that girl. I wanted to beat the hell out of him to a pulp but I knew that wasn't right. He even challenged me to a childish sword fight out of mockery as a way to provoke me into fighting him physically. I ended up walking away because I am a high value man. While he revealed himself to be of low value through his actions, therefore not many people liked him honestly, especially how he slandered about me, causing people to look upon me with pity even when I am not one to be pitied, it is quite the opposite. That is how I survived. Throughout the years, I've had my ups and downs in life, up until now, I have finally reawakened my confident self, my true self as a man worthy of any woman. Most recently, I saw my ex girlfriend show up at the very summer camp we had met at. Again, I walked away without saying anything to her in order to not give her any ideas because I will simply not settle for that, not after the way she betrayed me, not after the way she used me, and surely not after the way she lied about everything. Thank you for reading my TED talk. One more thing, I don't expect anything in return for this, it is just a story of a life lesson that I am willing to share with you all.
We've been taught and programmed to RUN AWAY from resistance because it’s an uncomfortable feeling. But as men, if we can learn to be comfortable with the uncomfortable, then we'll be unstoppable in every aspect of life
People get so confused when I m able to walk away from something or someone easily. I just value myself and I’m confused as to why they don’t value themselves.
When you feel your enough and good inside .. even a low paying job , It’s what you feel you are as a person .. and not be negative about those that have more or less. About me having to see and reach my capacity in all aspects. Feel good and work to progress.
Sure, it is. The point is i guess, whether we have worked hard to achieve that entitlement. And to be realistic during our interaction with others in life.
*Help people without expecting anything back.* That's it. No fancy words of wisdom or mumbo jumbo. Just be kind and don't expect everyone to repay you anything. Do it for yourself.
Let me tell you about humans for a bit. You need to moderate yourself in order to see certain aspects of your life in a new light in order to change your character. The reason why you might be afraid of certain social encounters is because you’re uncertain, it could have been a fear of the dark emerging when you were 2 because you don’t know if monsters use it as cover and you were uncertain of travel at those times so you tried to hide from things that didn’t exist because you were none the wiser, or another inhibition could have been created by yourself. Like in middle school, you were afraid to talk to the pretty girls and the fear kept on building itself up, now you feel almost pained to talk to pretty girls when things get awkward, which would further the fear even more. You need to look over everything you do and everything you feel and think as your current thoughts may become your destiny. You need to look at and create memories and see if they might be causing these inhibitions and regard them as only memories that create false perception and a false reality that you aren’t living in. You could have an infinite amount of bravery and confidence if you moderate yourself and look at what is clouding parts of your emotional conscious. This means undoing what makes you feel shameful and replacing it with a drive to do better and be better than you were the day before. Perhaps you feel scared around girls, the remedy is easy. Remind yourself of the game of hypergamy and stop playing it. The good looks multiply the ego by 10. If you are able to turn a good looking woman down, it shows her that you value yourself and you have expectations and wouldn’t let her take control over you with her vagina. Wanna hang out with your friends? Tough, you’ll have to go with her to the mall to help her buy clothes. Don’t take no shit from females, and realize that this is a lifestyle, and not a method of getting girls, but it will still garner you respect and affection from them. Look yourself over, nit pick over bad things in your meantime and allow your character to finally come out once you forgive yourself for doing it, and then learn to respect yourself. You might be lacking in certain aspects of your character so you can piggy back off of a person you like or admire in order to do this as well as you’ll start to think like them and disregard the uncertainties and bad memories. You’ll be more personal, you’ll see it all for how it is.
These vids are kinda disappointing, any ‘low value’ person already knows these things, it’s just a matter of acting on it. This just seemed like an excuse to rant about your car problems
I think the whole story is made up. I don't think he owns a zo6. I don't even think he really knows what he's talking about. For example, value is largely subjective because it's based on individual priority. What's high value to one person is low value to another and vice versa. I don't even know why I watch some of these videos.
Ricky Thomas, value changes, but since women have been looking for the same kind of thing for thousands of years (but in diferente ways), so its not subjective. It’s always going to be this way, those who can’t do something will try to low the deeds of those who did.
in my opioion to becoming a high value man is to 1. stack up your money and invest it into things that will make you more money(very important) 2. get in shape 3. keep up with your high gene 4. get your smile fix(get your teeth right) 5. do give off attention where they dont deserve it
Bro i remember when some girl looked at me. she kept glancing at me and after the third look she gave me a smile and held eye contact a bit longer than i anticipated holding the smile. Fucking flipped her off. that'll show her. thanks far from average.
Respect yourself so others will also respect you. Don't settle for anything less. You have the right to be the BEST you can be even if you have to fight for it. Only the STRONG survive.
I'm a FedEx courier driver. I love what I do. Im not a high earner. Not everyone can be a doctor, lawyer, director, or engineer. How can I become a high value man?
Flaw here. Value isnt what YOU think your value is. Its what others place on you. Sellers dont set prices, buyers do...(real estate, good example).....as much as we want to believe it to be the opposite. True story btw
Speaking of this, my big question to you is: Is Loyalty or Status more important? You may get both but that is rarely the case and you know high status people will judge you by your value before they want to befriend you. I have a friend in his 30s, has a negative outlook in life, earns a low wage but loyal AF and almost always be there for me. Do you think he should be ditched for higher status people or he should be kept because his first and foremost value is loyalty?
I disagree on one thing, it's not "going for things at the level of value that you think you have". it's trying to get better, even if you don't believe you deserve. A lot of people get just to accept "their level" when they can improve. Deserving is an illusion most of the time. Sometimes you can get something that you don't think you deserve, and deserve it afterwards.
Analyze the character Jamie Fraser from Outlander (the movies) - -Even though he and Claire are "from different places", he doesn't allow the peer pressure of his village or kin influence how much he respects HER perspectives and reach compromises between them to keep them BOTH happy (willing to grow, to understand her) -He is brave. This is a big one biologically for women, I think that if you are scared and do something any way that is honorable or protective, that means the world to her. If you do not do this in her moment of need, she will not be able to forget it. She will think you arent a good man. -He admits his mistakes, but he also has strong boundaries and self-respect. DO NOT LET A WOMAN PUSH YOU AROUND. She will lose respect for you. Kindness and niceness aren't the same. -He cares about his (and my) appearance. I don't mean he's vain or cruel when I gain 10 pounds. I mean that he actually knows what colors/styles look best on him, chooses a signature cologne. He cares that I keep my hair and nails and exfoliate and floss and get my check ups, and care about diet and movement and play.
if the spy camera is visible, located at the rear view mirror. Then that guy who wanted to test drive his car will NOT going to do it because seeing that camera in the first place will make him scared to NOT even think about play drive his car.
I think he imagined it all and made a video about it. The story about oil change and the 1000$ bumper repair sounds like a 5 year old came up with it. Maybe is true but i highly doubt it.
A lot of things are repetitive. Example high value. But there's no concrete foundation explaining how to take steps towards being a high value person. But it's a step towards positivity I can appreciate that.
I find it good practice to sit in the car while getting the oil changed, let the guy go through all the unnecessary upsells, and calmly reject everything.
every pic of a 'high value man' in this piece is model material. The guy that makes these vids is pedaling hopium and nothing more. learn contentment and don't let narcissism disguised as self help rob you of mental peace and clarity.
lol, i had learned how to oil change my car before I even run into FarFromAverages multiple videos.. Therefore, back then I'm a BETA.. NOW I'M AN ALPHA, WHO CAN ALSO DO OIL CHANGE.
Jeffrey JeffreyFLF I’ve been to a few lube places, and they do a thorough job, they usually top off, and check everything, some guys take real pride in their jobs, and they are usually the guys that get overlooked, simply because they show up every day with a great attitude, and some managers don’t like it, because they have to promote the guy, which means long term workers are gonna accumulate more money, they rather keep hiring new guys which is cheaper, the American system is fucked.
@@claeswelinder2014 yup, O B just owned FarFromAverage on that one... It's a big turn off when you see a dude who drives a Lamborghini Huracan or any other EXOTIC cars and don't know how to oil change them. And spending about $4000 for an oil change.
I agree with everything he said. Don't settle, be willing to walk away, don't look back and stand up for yourself. The person at the lube shop deserves to be fired. I'm sure he wanted for the damaged not to be noticed so that he could say it didn't happen there it must of happened elsewhere.
When a man shares a car story like yours is a signal of a low value man with a high value car thinking its the same thing. I think you did this video just to get recognition for your car.
The high value men also often show their true self facts through the high meaningful purpose of every simply kind and truthful words that they're speaking out in the public to everyone coming around .....,
I don't think this video is a rant, but rather a profile of someone who possesses high self esteem. The details are not an example of a rant, but rather a focusing on details to which high value individuals must pay attention. He is emotionally involved in something that happens to him and, believe me, women pay a large amount of attention to this.
Love your videos man, but on a slightly unrelated note you should take your car to a trusted mechanic! Never to someone random, especially with such a nice car.
This guy was talking big about "Intangible" things. His demo is as tangible as an oil change and his car. His next post would be his clothes, his house, etc, etc... ranting on trivial things like a woman.
Don’t think you depend on a Woman. That’s the feeling they want to have, to feel superior. You are brilliant on your own and those who are able to see that, will value you for who you are. Don’t try to get someone back into your life, who clearly doesn’t care for you. Just let her go and focus on yourself.
Half of the video is your RANT about oil change. Get over it! High value men do not fret about little things. They don't get mad, they get even. Thank you for showing us the low-value men in you.
Please can you not always show the loser guy as wearing glasses? It's a very shallow stereotype. Women don't care if you wear glasses or not as long as you have rock-solid confidence.
Yeah some stereotypes just never die. If you wear glasses and are not 6'5 and ripped that must automatically mean you're an insecure beta loser according to these kinds of videos...
I just have to tell you that I enjoy your videos very much! I like how you get straight to the point, and then stay on point, rather than rambling in an opposite direction ultimately wasting time ! You also set the tone perfectly, what I mean by this is you use big words when you need to, but not so much that people can’t understand you, or that you come off pretentious. .... :) lastly I know women would benefit from the information you have in these videos, I was wondering do you direct any of them at women? You would reach a wider audience base and I feel like women would listen to you because you are so on point! Anyhow thanks for the video! I’m not normally a person who comments on videos but on yours I just felt drawn to for some reason.
That is certainly true...we have become a generation that has no regard for fellow humans, and only being caught up in our own world, and our own interests that surround our own world...sad.
*My Number One Way to Be High Value*
Do good deeds, and dont talk about it. When you perform good acts and don't tell anyone about it, you will naturally have way higher self esteem. This self esteem in turn, will make people like you more and soon you'll have social influence.
Half of the video is your RANT about oil change. Get over it! High value men do not fret about little things. They don't get mad, they get even. Thank you for showing us the low-value men in you.
*Do good deeds* in an economy like capitalism where money means more than character
lol
isn't this the same shit as your videos listed below:
HOW TO BUILD CONFIDENCE LIKE ZEUS, HAILED FROM MOUNT OLYMPUS
The True Cost of NOT Having Confidence
5 Things HIGH VALUE Men NEVER Do.
5 TYPES-OF-GUYS-GIRLS-CANT-GET-ENOUGH-OF
How to be Assertive Like The Alpha.
NICE Guys VS Alpha Males.
etc
etc..
errr, FarFromAverage, I HATE YOU!!!
@@nealtran6844 he was just give am example of a situation when you don't need to be weak .Listen closely
*_Don't pursue wealth, you have to attract wealth. I'm not talking about that hocus pocus stuff, when i say attract I mean make yourself more attracting (build skills, social skills, personality). If you try to chase wealth without making yourself better than don't expect to achieve GREAT results_*
"Work makes free!"
Life Progress - Health, Wealth, & Happiness Channel: Shoutout for the advice 🙌🏾🔥
Half of the video is your RANT about oil change. Get over it! High value men do not fret about little things. They don't get mad, they get even. Thank you for showing us the low-value men in you.
Life Progress - Health, Wealth, & Happiness Channel
Preach man, we’re taught to pursue wealth, but not the things giving us wealth. You should be passionate about your work providing you wealth, as the people who know most about a subject take the most interest in it. Your emotions, conscious, and subconscious work hand in hand. Without the passion, a job is just slavery plus money.
What do u mean by hocus pocus stuff.. Is it the law of attraction? If yes then know that ur just a random idiot.
So in summary...
WALK AWAY - STOP SETTLING.
Seek quality for yourself whether in a relationship, job, and life in general.
KNOW YOUR SELF-WORTH.
This video is more a rant and less an explanation of what ‘high value’ is.
Exactly my thought. Of course anyone realizes that it is better to be high value than low value.
It is much more to it than just not accepting things and believe you always deserve better. That by itself does not make you high value in any way.
But of course people who already are high value can be more picky due to their status.
He makes it seem like the only reason to become high value is to get women. WOMEN would not be your priority.
i agree if you want respect from your peers work on being a man of strong character not a whineing woman dude needs to change his own oil if he worships his car
Because you already know what it is. You know when you deserve better than you're settling for.
I don't think anyone, even a low value man, would have just said oh well in this situation... Seriously what the hell?
*Masculinity Is WONDERFUL*
not a thing to be ashamed of ❣️
Bless you. 🙂
Of coarse not!
...shut up meg..
Ujjayant Goswami Finally! A woman who thinks it’s okay for a man to be a man (without being an abusive douchebag of course..) Thank you for saying that! ❤️
@@lendumore that's an Indian Guy. Not a woman;)
High value man don't watch UA-cam, UA-cam watch high value man
High value men wouldn't care about your response
High value men don't argue 😂😂
Ik im late but this comment is cold 🥶🔥
@@nafishrahim6946 They may but if they do, they knock it out of the ball park where the person is left to respond with dumb arguments. Or the opponent is left speechless.
@@terryrocks2j yes ...when someone really pisses them off they argue like a wild hippo
When he says "be willing to walk away" it actually means be so good of a man that you have a lot of choices so you don't become desperate and are capable of walking away
Video Summary:
- High value men think and behave differently.
- Women seek high value men.
- High value men get most of the rewards in life.
- Life is unfair, so we need to adapt
- A low value behaviour is the inability to walk away like lousy friends, a poor job and when it comes to women.
- Perceived value vs actual value
- Includes tangible (wealth etc.) and intangible (ambition etc.) aspects
- Speak up for yourself for the value that you believe you're worth
- Accountability and responsibility
Thank you for the summary
Duh!
Doh!
RAE ME FASO LATI DOHHHH!
Thank you
The transition from low value to high is the most painful process of a man's life.
yes i have done in my past life but now i am again here to become again
Just costly
True
rather most enjoyable one
But also the only one most praiseworthy
*There are two domains to master, in order to become a high value MAN: Internal and External*
- Internal: Master your mind, understand your human worth and that nothing can take that away from you (Become Stoic)
- External: Master a skill, a craft and create value for your community, to the world as a whole (Explore your potential - finances)
Why are you everywhere ??
Everytime I see your comment I'm laughing 😂
Brilliant analysis!
Stoicism is unfortunately frowned upon these days
bravo!
Correct
You become a high-value men by being on your purpose. Work on your health, wealth.
The service guys would be dead had it been John Wick's car.
For real 😂
Or Jack Reacher
No you're all wrong. John Wick does his own oil change 💯
You would be even more high value if you changed your own oil on your Corvette
pencil death
Moral of the story, change your own oil yourself and don't trust no one with your baby, I mean your car.
Mauro Villarreal Like uncle Rob!
Facts
Dude probably wasted MORE Valuable time, watching the dash cam video, filing a complaint, taking the shop to court if the shop didn't take responsibility, than if he'd learn to change his own oil on the $70k car.
Or he'd have the dealership change the car oil for free since it would be under warranty.
**truck**
Lmaoooooo
Great content! Standing up for yourself and for others who can't, makes myself a leader. Leaders are high valued men.
🎯
Thank you for this. I have been noticing a change in my values/standards recently and I like the direction my life is going. More opportunities are abundant and I feel better as I’m not giving into things like I used to. At the end of the day when I give more I get more and that applies to all of us!!
Knowing your worth is just the tip of the iceberg you have to be a good man with character and morals who treats people right but yet doesn’t let others walk all over him
This channel just keeps getting better. You’ve got skills Julien, you could write a book & inspire more people one day
Becoming a high value men
1. Walk away (turn something down) Pick a girl that’s about the same value as yours.. take care of yourself first... Speak u for yourself
I'm sorry about your car bud. For all that you do for people. Thanks again for the content. It's changing my life
No WAY! High value men are often RESENTED by low value women and low value men. No one is respected and admired by everyone. That is a myth. But the key is to be respected and admired by the KEY people or by enough people despite the haters.
High value people from both genders doesn't care if low value people are jealous about them.
Shows what you know 😂 you should use some of these as reference, I think you should try this before you knock it.
absolutely agree!!
Agreed. I keep noticing it with my eyes, there are high value men who are there, and are resented by low value people. Sad though.
It's like they get the luck to get near those, but they get ignored or just are resented. :/
saintquinn007 go on social media, it is full of low value people hating on the successful. not everyone on social media is like that but the majority are low value people that are filled with envy.
Lol. Let me tell you all a story. This occurred back in Jr High for me. There was this girl who I liked and I had a friend who also liked that girl. What ended up happening is, several other guys also ended up liking her alot. Now, the conflict that occurred is, my former friend got cocky, reckless and even racist towards Asians particularly just to be with that girl. I wanted to beat the hell out of him to a pulp but I knew that wasn't right. He even challenged me to a childish sword fight out of mockery as a way to provoke me into fighting him physically. I ended up walking away because I am a high value man. While he revealed himself to be of low value through his actions, therefore not many people liked him honestly, especially how he slandered about me, causing people to look upon me with pity even when I am not one to be pitied, it is quite the opposite. That is how I survived. Throughout the years, I've had my ups and downs in life, up until now, I have finally reawakened my confident self, my true self as a man worthy of any woman. Most recently, I saw my ex girlfriend show up at the very summer camp we had met at. Again, I walked away without saying anything to her in order to not give her any ideas because I will simply not settle for that, not after the way she betrayed me, not after the way she used me, and surely not after the way she lied about everything. Thank you for reading my TED talk. One more thing, I don't expect anything in return for this, it is just a story of a life lesson that I am willing to share with you all.
Dude no one will read u'r story
Nice content
Thank you
Yeah this is definitely real...
I love how the video turns into bitching about the z06 damage
We've been taught and programmed to RUN AWAY from resistance because it’s an uncomfortable feeling. But as men, if we can learn to be comfortable with the uncomfortable, then we'll be unstoppable in every aspect of life
KNOW YOUR VALUE!
LET THE WORLD RESPECT YOUR VALUE!
🔥
So basically this video is about staying true to yourself and never settle for less
Real car guys don't take their car to express oil change places lol
People get so confused when I m able to walk away from something or someone easily. I just value myself and I’m confused as to why they don’t value themselves.
When you feel your enough and good inside .. even a low paying job , It’s what you feel you are as a person .. and not be negative about those that have more or less. About me having to see and reach my capacity in all aspects. Feel good and work to progress.
“I deserve better”.... that’s entitlement mentality. Merit should prove a persons worth.
Yes, it should be merit based.
Sure, it is. The point is i guess, whether we have worked hard to achieve that entitlement. And to be realistic during our interaction with others in life.
🙏 Yes 💯
Oh man... You got me thinking... I wish I could talk to you about life
God bless everyone man who strive to elevate don’t let no one hold you back be the king you are
you are really good at making simple things sound like quantum physics
I really want to walk away from this video, but I can't.
*Help people without expecting anything back.*
That's it. No fancy words of wisdom or mumbo jumbo. Just be kind and don't expect everyone to repay you anything. Do it for yourself.
That's how you get used by people
I just walked away today from tons of shit and this high value video comes my way. Yes!!!!
How to become a high-value man. It's simple focus on making money and everything else will fall in place.
🙌🏼🙏🏼
I love this channel! Love everything you said makes so much sense. Always speak up for yourself! Good on you!
Your voice here is clearer
Way to go bro I love your channel
Let me tell you about humans for a bit. You need to moderate yourself in order to see certain aspects of your life in a new light in order to change your character. The reason why you might be afraid of certain social encounters is because you’re uncertain, it could have been a fear of the dark emerging when you were 2 because you don’t know if monsters use it as cover and you were uncertain of travel at those times so you tried to hide from things that didn’t exist because you were none the wiser, or another inhibition could have been created by yourself. Like in middle school, you were afraid to talk to the pretty girls and the fear kept on building itself up, now you feel almost pained to talk to pretty girls when things get awkward, which would further the fear even more. You need to look over everything you do and everything you feel and think as your current thoughts may become your destiny. You need to look at and create memories and see if they might be causing these inhibitions and regard them as only memories that create false perception and a false reality that you aren’t living in. You could have an infinite amount of bravery and confidence if you moderate yourself and look at what is clouding parts of your emotional conscious. This means undoing what makes you feel shameful and replacing it with a drive to do better and be better than you were the day before. Perhaps you feel scared around girls, the remedy is easy. Remind yourself of the game of hypergamy and stop playing it. The good looks multiply the ego by 10. If you are able to turn a good looking woman down, it shows her that you value yourself and you have expectations and wouldn’t let her take control over you with her vagina. Wanna hang out with your friends? Tough, you’ll have to go with her to the mall to help her buy clothes. Don’t take no shit from females, and realize that this is a lifestyle, and not a method of getting girls, but it will still garner you respect and affection from them. Look yourself over, nit pick over bad things in your meantime and allow your character to finally come out once you forgive yourself for doing it, and then learn to respect yourself. You might be lacking in certain aspects of your character so you can piggy back off of a person you like or admire in order to do this as well as you’ll start to think like them and disregard the uncertainties and bad memories. You’ll be more personal, you’ll see it all for how it is.
Get a haircut every week work out work hard and don’t kiss they ass and don’t compliment them duh
Haha. Good advice.
These vids are kinda disappointing, any ‘low value’ person already knows these things, it’s just a matter of acting on it. This just seemed like an excuse to rant about your car problems
It couldve been anyones car story think about it
Or an excuse to tell everyone that he "totally owns a Z06"
I think the whole story is made up. I don't think he owns a zo6. I don't even think he really knows what he's talking about. For example, value is largely subjective because it's based on individual priority. What's high value to one person is low value to another and vice versa. I don't even know why I watch some of these videos.
Ricky Thomas, value changes, but since women have been looking for the same kind of thing for thousands of years (but in diferente ways), so its not subjective. It’s always going to be this way, those who can’t do something will try to low the deeds of those who did.
Increase your looks, money, status. That's how you become high value
This video is really true....I'd ponder into it over and over again....Its really cool.
in my opioion to becoming a high value man is to
1. stack up your money and invest it into things that will make you more money(very important)
2. get in shape
3. keep up with your high gene
4. get your smile fix(get your teeth right)
5. do give off attention where they dont deserve it
Right on J! You kick ass broski!
7:44. High value guy doesn’t tell anyone how much his car costs. He either lets people find out on their own or wonder in amazement.
Bro i remember when some girl looked at me. she kept glancing at me and after the third look she gave me a smile and held eye contact a bit longer than i anticipated holding the smile. Fucking flipped her off. that'll show her. thanks far from average.
Respect yourself so others will also respect you. Don't settle for anything less. You have the right to be the BEST you can be even if you have to fight for it. Only the STRONG survive.
This might’ve just changed my life....🙏🏾
I'm a FedEx courier driver. I love what I do. Im not a high earner. Not everyone can be a doctor, lawyer, director, or engineer. How can I become a high value man?
start an online business
When you meet women, it's good to tell them that your Mom says that you are a catch.
*1 word: self-improvement*
Albeit that is so vague as to be almost meaningless😀
@Karan i see you're so full of crap that you dump the excess under comments. Go do your homework kid and keep your shit under your pillow.
@KC true!
@Karan 1 word: BETA
@Karan cuz when you do your homework your mom will let you do her
1 word: never settle for less
Flaw here. Value isnt what YOU think your value is. Its what others place on you. Sellers dont set prices, buyers do...(real estate, good example).....as much as we want to believe it to be the opposite. True story btw
Titled: *Why I work on my own car*
'Am I settling?' Man,that's a damn good question!
🚶 walking away show you. you have high value .
Have value as a man 101.
Speaking of this, my big question to you is: Is Loyalty or Status more important? You may get both but that is rarely the case and you know high status people will judge you by your value before they want to befriend you. I have a friend in his 30s, has a negative outlook in life, earns a low wage but loyal AF and almost always be there for me. Do you think he should be ditched for higher status people or he should be kept because his first and foremost value is loyalty?
Never ditch someone who shows loyalty
It really depends. Does he hurt you? Does he take you to places, which are Bad for your mental Health?
Never settle
Should a high-value man go after a low-value woman if she has the potential to be a high-value woman?
I just lost my girlfriend because I walked away from her. ... thanks a lot
Why u walked away from her she yo girl !!
El Buki why u no stay in school & learn good grammar?
Controgs lol 😂 practice what you preach 🤔
If she treat u good u value alot You dumb
Are you being facetious?
I disagree on one thing, it's not "going for things at the level of value that you think you have". it's trying to get better, even if you don't believe you deserve. A lot of people get just to accept "their level" when they can improve. Deserving is an illusion most of the time. Sometimes you can get something that you don't think you deserve, and deserve it afterwards.
Being arrogant and self entitled isn’t high value, but society tends to favor these people.
Analyze the character Jamie Fraser from Outlander (the movies) -
-Even though he and Claire are "from different places", he doesn't allow the peer pressure of his village or kin influence how much he respects HER perspectives and reach compromises between them to keep them BOTH happy (willing to grow, to understand her)
-He is brave. This is a big one biologically for women, I think that if you are scared and do something any way that is honorable or protective, that means the world to her. If you do not do this in her moment of need, she will not be able to forget it. She will think you arent a good man.
-He admits his mistakes, but he also has strong boundaries and self-respect. DO NOT LET A WOMAN PUSH YOU AROUND. She will lose respect for you. Kindness and niceness aren't the same.
-He cares about his (and my) appearance. I don't mean he's vain or cruel when I gain 10 pounds. I mean that he actually knows what colors/styles look best on him, chooses a signature cologne. He cares that I keep my hair and nails and exfoliate and floss and get my check ups, and care about diet and movement and play.
Thanks for your content, It’s a daily remedy for me.
Incredible how they tried to F* up your car. Good thing you set a camera.
if the spy camera is visible, located at the rear view mirror. Then that guy who wanted to test drive his car will NOT going to do it because seeing that camera in the first place will make him scared to NOT even think about play drive his car.
I think he imagined it all and made a video about it. The story about oil change and the 1000$ bumper repair sounds like a 5 year old came up with it. Maybe is true but i highly doubt it.
A lot of things are repetitive. Example high value. But there's no concrete foundation explaining how to take steps towards being a high value person. But it's a step towards positivity I can appreciate that.
I felt like a high value man when a girl that was hit in by 8 guys chose me over them
This Video is just a Rant about his Car.
Not so High Value.
Yep, and about how he might have gotten someone fired. Oh wow, there's an achievement to be proud of.
You do have a point.
Thanks for this.
Thank you, I am so grateful and so thankful for you
I find it good practice to sit in the car while getting the oil changed, let the guy go through all the unnecessary upsells, and calmly reject everything.
He should talk about the two Main mindsets: the fixed mindset and the open mindset. Search it up on yt, it's worth it.
Thank you.......uve really helped me😁😁😁i had some problem when it comes to walking away😊😊😊
every pic of a 'high value man' in this piece is model material. The guy that makes these vids is pedaling hopium and nothing more.
learn contentment and don't let narcissism disguised as self help rob you of mental peace and clarity.
Number 1 to be a higher value man is learn to change your own oil in your car. I can do it and now i am higher then all of you :) val-u-e
lol, i had learned how to oil change my car before I even run into FarFromAverages multiple videos.. Therefore, back then I'm a BETA.. NOW I'M AN ALPHA, WHO CAN ALSO DO OIL CHANGE.
O B lol🤣🤣facts💯👍
Jeffrey JeffreyFLF I’ve been to a few lube places, and they do a thorough job, they usually top off, and check everything, some guys take real pride in their jobs, and they are usually the guys that get overlooked, simply because they show up every day with a great attitude, and some managers don’t like it, because they have to promote the guy, which means long term workers are gonna accumulate more money, they rather keep hiring new guys which is cheaper, the American system is fucked.
You are so very right on that one!
@@claeswelinder2014 yup, O B just owned FarFromAverage on that one... It's a big turn off when you see a dude who drives a Lamborghini Huracan or any other EXOTIC cars and don't know how to oil change them.
And spending about $4000 for an oil change.
I agree with everything he said. Don't settle, be willing to walk away, don't look back and stand up for yourself. The person at the lube shop deserves to be fired. I'm sure he wanted for the damaged not to be noticed so that he could say it didn't happen there it must of happened elsewhere.
When a man shares a car story like yours is a signal of a low value man with a high value car thinking its the same thing. I think you did this video just to get recognition for your car.
I wonder how tru this story is... or iz it just an example
Love yourself first focus on your health and wealth.. meaning more self improvement!!! So women attract the man who have a highest value
AMS will agree with this video:)!
A high value man services his own car.
The high value men also often show their true self facts through the high meaningful purpose of every simply kind and truthful words that they're speaking out in the public to everyone coming around .....,
Video is great - agree 100%.
Please stop saying ‘like’ all the time though!
I don't think this video is a rant, but rather a profile of someone who possesses high self esteem. The details are not an example of a rant, but rather a focusing on details to which high value individuals must pay attention. He is emotionally involved in something that happens to him and, believe me, women pay a large amount of attention to this.
Bless you Dude
Become a value man dont drunk,dont smoke, ba matured, ignore girls, workouts, dont lie,doing with no talks, help the weak
Change value to integrity. It is more holistic.
Thank you so much for the very useful information and your advice! Keep it up!
A really appreciate your videos, thank you so much for making these for us!
Love your videos man, but on a slightly unrelated note you should take your car to a trusted mechanic! Never to someone random, especially with such a nice car.
This guy was talking big about "Intangible" things. His demo is as tangible as an oil change and his car. His next post would be his clothes, his house, etc, etc... ranting on trivial things like a woman.
Don’t think you depend on a Woman. That’s the feeling they want to have, to feel superior. You are brilliant on your own and those who are able to see that, will value you for who you are.
Don’t try to get someone back into your life, who clearly doesn’t care for you. Just let her go and focus on yourself.
Step one: be rich.
Half of the video is your RANT about oil change. Get over it! High value men do not fret about little things. They don't get mad, they get even. Thank you for showing us the low-value men in you.
@@nealtran6844 I think you accidentally replied to my comment when you meant to make your own comment.
Doesn’t hurt being tall, well endowed, good hair.
Please can you not always show the loser guy as wearing glasses? It's a very shallow stereotype. Women don't care if you wear glasses or not as long as you have rock-solid confidence.
Yeah some stereotypes just never die. If you wear glasses and are not 6'5 and ripped that must automatically mean you're an insecure beta loser according to these kinds of videos...
Just get over it. You’ll definitely complain about any image used for the loser guy.
Who has watched to the end? Kindly summarize it for me. Thanks
I just have to tell you that I enjoy your videos very much! I like how you get straight to the point, and then stay on point, rather than rambling in an opposite direction ultimately wasting time ! You also set the tone perfectly, what I mean by this is you use big words when you need to, but not so much that people can’t understand you, or that you come off pretentious.
.... :) lastly I know women would benefit from the information you have in these videos, I was wondering do you direct any of them at women? You would reach a wider audience base and I feel like women would listen to you because you are so on point!
Anyhow thanks for the video!
I’m not normally a person who comments on videos but on yours I just felt drawn to for some reason.
I like your video dude .. makes sense .. I'm starting to change the way I think
I gave up on relationships long time ago. Everyone is more worried about their phones.
That is certainly true...we have become a generation that has no regard for fellow humans, and only being caught up in our own world, and our own interests that surround our own world...sad.
He said superficial things like money .. My friend it's all about money my friend ..and you know it..I love a masculine
Bro, I’m a Car Guy.
I’m Pissed hearing What Happened to Your Car. I Hate hearing Stuff like That. I feel for You on that.
Value isn’t a dichotomy, it’s a spectrum.
My friends are good, but it’s easy to tell who the high and low value people are.