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If He DOES THIS, It's A Sign He's SERIOUS About You
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Nope. The elders aren’t around to teach it to the young bucks…
They do, but even those are the ones who do you dirty.
Nope. There are men who do so initially just to get laid. When they realized you’re not easy to get laid in first 2 dates, he will pull away and said he doesn’t care about your issues.
Yes, absolutely. I'm not inherently beautiful, def not thin, or overtly feminine, but I am kind and accepting. I see men as good and a gift, not in a delusional way. My experience is that men behave as gentlemen towards me. They open doors, grab chairs for me, give up their seat, offer their hand if I walk on unsteady ground. Some men I've know a long time, others are new friends and some are just kind strangers. I've had men young and old run to doors to open them for me. In my heart of hearts I believe in giving, serving and honoring others so maybe on some level that comes across? Certainly the men I know longer term see the honor and respect I give to all people. Men don't try to date me or use me. They dont even ask anything of me, but they do become protective. On many occasions men have expressed they felt free to be men in front of me. That I draw out their masculinity. It's sweet of them to say, but they truly possessed that ability all along. Yes, men are chivalrous!
@@itsRudeGal all a part of their game to get you to put your guard down.
And there are men who were just raised right. They open doors for everyone.
Yeah, Exactly
Yes, there still are😁
My fiancé is VERY chivalrous, he opens doors for absolutely everyone, helps ANYone that he sees in need and is always on the lookout for my safety... he is the absolute sweetest and most kind hearted man that I've ever met in my entire 40 years and I feel that I'm the most blessed woman alive every day that i get to spemd with him!!!🥰
We've been together now going on 6 years & counting💞👩❤️👨💖
Thank you God, for sending me a real gentle-MAN!!!🙌😊🙏
@@angelamendoza590 Nice!!! I Love This!
ABSOLUTELY ACTUAL AND FACTUAL MESSAGE..💯✌
Wow I said the SAME EXACT THING before I even read this comment. Mama could have just raised him that way!!
I didn't know opening doors meant a guy like me. I thought it was just common courtesy because most guys open or hold doors for me.
My ex did all of that. He opened doors, pulled out chairs, walked on the outside all that. We held hands even just riding in the car. We spent almost all of our free time together. He called daily &texted all the time. He also lied lies like it was a second language. The accusations of cheating, the verbal abuse, the constant competition along with a wandering eye made it impossible for me to stay. I did 4yrs like that but eventually his lack of the desire for personal growth made me have to end it. I loved that man😥💪🏿
😞
Love yourself more
Sounds just like my ex except he wasn’t chivalrous at all. I was just realizing not too long ago that I’m pretty sure he’s never opened a car door for me.
wow...great post!
Omg this describes my ex!!!
It's all about communication with honesty, and without games....
A lot of men don’t know how to do this today. Unfortunately
It’s a really sad world we live in 😢
I was ready to say the same thing. Most of them are immature.
I feel that none of that matters. What matters to me is are you happy with how he/she makes you feel. Opening doors and chivalry is a bonus if you want that.
I believe there are men out there of all ages who want to be chivalrous but have been yelled at or criticized. Anytime a man holds a door for me, or picks something up off the floor or whatever, I always flash a big smile and say “thank you…how nice to have a big strong guy (doing what he did)”. And if he’s with a woman, I look at her and say, you’re a lucky woman. I would bet that guy had a much better day after that…
This is my intake. Many don't have to agree. But I really don't like men to open doors for me or pull out a chair. Because many does it to impress on the first 2 or 3 dates. And if by chance you have decided to be together . All of that demishes. So if they do I will not stop them from doing what they does cause it may be an unhealthy pattern. So I rather leave a man to be themselves than to pretend. They could be into you or not I don't think pulling out a chair or opening doors matters. It's being real from the get go.
Exactly 💯 💯 💯
You are too smart, please my love language is a wedding ceremony romantic charts and money
I agree, however, it’s good when women are able to express their thoughts and feelings as well !
BossMan: Chivalrous Man
Married men have been more chivalrous than the available ones…
Yup
Eh they're probably similar, and for some of them it's because they're trying to find a side
That's why they're married. They were chivalrous. Which is attractive.
It should be extremely reassuring for women to know that wide awake evolved and considerate men like this exist.
Met a man that did all that he was a 🤡 clown.
😂😂😂
To me, if you love somebody, why would you marry someone else that you don't love without even trying to see how the other person feels!!! Regardless of who or what!! Marriage is taken too lightly. IJM
Thanks Stephan great video... always enjoy your take on things.
I told my ex that I appreciate chivalry and so he always opened the car door and brought flowers etc and we dated for 3 years. And the day I married him, he changed. He was like a complete stranger! It was such a shock and he turned out to be a very nasty narcissist.
So now there's the genuine chivalry and the fake chivalry.
Do you think you could maybe do a video explaining how women don't get deceived by that ?
I'm SO wary of guys now!
Thank you for giving me the courage and motivation to tell my best friend/the man I love how I feel about him. I’m nervous but excited as well. No matter the outcome ❤ Bless!
How did it go?
Don’t do it! He should speak first
@@Gpeidav he has. It was unexpected and indirect. I didn’t know how to respond being shy and thinking I wasn’t his type.
Out of fear I maintained our friendship because I was nervous, scared and waiting for him to say it plainly.
Dont ever let anyone, man or woman, get behind you. Its a dangerous position to be in. Open your own doors.
He can pay the bills.
Not always. It’s some narcs out here that do all of these in the love bombing phase. Be careful
My 4 year old son comes out the car and opens my door for me to come out ❤
This past weekend at a restaurant i work at...this regular looking dude came to the door with his bad looking shorty. He walked behind her. She literally stayed in front of the door for 10 seconds. Idk if he thought she was looking at something...and maybe she was a little. But dude didnt even attempt to try to get the door for her. Im like Really?? She stayed there for lie 10/15 seconds.
Idk if they are together...but i hope that was his Last Date and time with her. FR. SMH 🤦♂️
My ex did exactly this. I waited for him to open the door and he just stopped and looked at me mad confused… one of the many reasons he’s my ex. Agreed she needs better lol.
@@veronicaluquis748 Exactly. Mann
BEING RAISED RITE SHOWS THROUGH A MANS ACTIONS ❤💙🙏😊
He asked me to take him more serious today which is why I’m here 👉🏾👈🏾
African and Caribbean Hispanic men are more chivalrous already but they have their own bag of other issues
The man who opens the door at work loves me❤
He did this but still didnt want to commit to me, ended yesterday. I feel awful
I am I the same situation
I always feel enlightened by your amazing relationship videos, keep on empowering more people out there. 😊
"Chivalry", a long gone dinosaur😂
🖐🏾😊Hi Stephan!🏆
But, i must say that the men I've dated have all had very good manners..
They went above and beyond and were consistent!
👊🏾Thanks Stephan❤
A beautiful pigeon was at my bedroom window right before your video popped up on my notifications. I don't know what it means. They've been coming to see me a lot lately.
GOD bless your heart, Stephan.🙏🏽❤️
Oh that's sweet 😅
They probably just like your window sill lol
A friend of mine said while her husband and she were walking on a country road, a car veered towards them. Instead of pushing my friend into the safety zone her husband pushed her in front of him so the car would hit her instead. Luckily no one was hit, but it was definitely a wake up call for my friend. Thank goodness most husbands would do the opposite.
Oh my goodness! 😳She needs to leave him NOW!
Was that a setup?
@@iwrist313yeah, kinda sounds like the intro to an episode on “Forensic Files”!
Huh? Lord Jesus! Did she leave him?
Thank you Stephan 🙏🏽🙌🏽♥️
I agree with everything you say at 100% . Thank you.!
This was very very helpful. The last part was gold for me. Thank you
Thanks for the uploads Stephan❤
My nephew used to pull out chair, open doors, walk on the street side for all his girlfriends.
His dad taught him to do this and he learned women were not used to this so he got more women with this tactics.
It's crazy, I'm awake because I am attached to a man I loved in my past. And I saw him and was shocked by how he opened up to me and felt the need to explain a situation to me that made me guarded in the past! However I don't have anyone to ask advice from. But #Thishelps#
Omg I love shivers things so much
So Sweet.❤
When I was younger, I got a lot jerks 20'-30's not opening doors, be courteous or do any nice gentlemanly things to me. They are really not trained or worthy to me actually and turn out to be jerks.
Only in my 30's now, I got very chivalry guy, but he didn't open up to me and then bolted out after he told me he want to be my bf. He bounced out next day due to 'man trauma' & then same time date other women alot. Block me all suddenly and then expect me be good naaahh ahhhh. I am not waiting around for such 'fake gentleman' guy.
Don't chase for anyone's love or affection if someone is meant to be, they will stay in your life! There are 100 countries and 8 billion people on this earth but it doesn't mean everyone is right for us. READ THAT AGAIN!
Unfortunately that's not my experience. Men who are seemingly chivalrous are just trying to impress and, ultimately, to get some... So for me it's actually a red flag.
Wow you really are a gentleman opening the car door. I am for real. That is so sweet! ❤
My fear would be that I'd be sitting there waiting, then see him walking up to the restaurant without me, lol.
Amen brother ❤
What about grabbing the women's coat and purse to help her put it on.
Thank you all, for the feedback ❤️
I LOVE ❤️ the fact THAT You are A VERY CHIVALROUS MAN & EXPLAINED that aspect HERE.
IT SHOWS, your masculine energy & YOU understand HOW A QUEEN deserves be treated.
I think if they can't say it then they were not really into each other
So true❤❤❤❤
Hey Stephan…I’d like to have your opinion on a situation where I have a boyfriend who is serious about me and wants us to get married but my parents don’t approve because of where he’s from…what do I do?
What if he is a narcissist?
Yeah, narcissists can do the same. In time they'll show their true colors though. It's up to us to have discernment and see if his general behavior lines up with his initial good deeds.
What if the guy does all this but he's married. What does that mean?
Are y’all dating or friends?
He just want a side piece. He ain't got no love for you especially if the ink on the divorce papers hasn't even dried...
He may just be a nice guy that treats all females with respect. It shouldn't matter to you though....he's married.
I just met this older guy im 40 he is almost 59 and we met 2 weeks ago and he calls and texts everyday and texts he misses me😅 its scary to me and also i have a business that i work on weekends and he always act like he wants to go with me to an event im working which to me is to soon. We have only been on 1 date and when he texts me and i could say im home watching a movie its like he is waiting on me to invite him and i feel its to soon to invite this man into my home. I feel he is a bit Smothering because i just met him again 2 weeks ago!. Help am i looking at this situation all wrong because today he messaged me that he thinks about me all day 😅and he misses me but he doesn't even know me to miss me. So i responded saying we just met!. And he didn't text or call anymore today
He could be really interested or he could be lovebombing you. He sounds like he's lovebombing you consciously or unconsciously. Tell him you would like to take things slow and want to get to know each other. You should also focus on vetting him. How are things with him now?
This should come natural for a real man
Is there a such thing as sharing too much tho?
Some men can be introverted. 🤷🏻♀️
There are plenty of introverted men who know how to be chivalrous, though. Sometimes they can be more so than the extreme extroverts.
He will still show up if he really wants you.
So I have a delima I'm still in love with my ex we Stull talk and I really believe that we was meant to be together what the heck do I do
If he loved you he would not let you go and he would be doing everything for you to be together. If he isn’t, then he’s just keeping you as a back up. I apologize but that’s how I see it
@@dolores2022 so he says that he misses me but doesn't elaborate
@@alexislewis9080 I can’t say I know for 100 % because only God knows, but I do know if he loves and misses you as you say, you wouldn’t be questioning anything. You would know he does. Wish you well and pray you see your worth. God Bless
@@dolores2022 so true
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U dont have no woman
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I just recently had a man from taliland message me on Instagram and never asked anything sexually and seemed like a genuine person but then when he said he was Roman Catholic I hesitated he only wanted to be friends which was cool with me cause I'm not ready for a relationship anyway but when I ask if he might wanna talk on the phone he said he worked on oil rig and was not able to talk on the phone all the time but asked me to sign up for Google chat lol so then I was like I wonder do I went online researching scammers and found a lot of people were saying they were scammers out here pretending to be someone they were not but then this person has not asked me for money but I feel like something is off I don't know maybe there fine but to me it's just a little skeptically but then I have been praying for God to show me what I need to work on to meet the right person later in life and this man said he doesn't like it when people get angry pretty much everything Stephan speaks about and I'm just like I wonder if this person is legit I don't honestly wanna jump to the wrong conclusions but w serious of events have happened to me in the last week and it's overwhelming to understand sometimes now this person said they have a home in Thailand and that they are currently in Canada on oil rig but said he was an engineer I don't know honestly I don't wanna jump to conclusions but someone I have never meant it's hard to believe everything someone says. But if it is true that would be wonderful but I'm pentecostal I believe in the holy spirit and his roman Catholic and I don't know much about Catholics but I do not think they believe in the true way to salvation so I don't know that that aligns with me.
@realwords realmeaning, hey sis. I would suggest you heed caution. This person hasn't yet asked you for money or anything. But he will soon be doing that.
It isn't strange to have men portraying a stable self, while on the other hand they sketch a scenario contrary to what they first told you.
Not only are they scammers... sometimes they might be prisoners as well.
Look at the chat history. If you notice there is a shift in the grammar then you are dealing with scammers. If they are consistent in grammar and storyline, but some parts are missing, they might be prisoners.
That aside... if you are Pentecostal and you are well aware of the differences between Pentecostals and Catholics, why bother yourself forming a relationship that's unequally joked?
Don't go looking for headaches.
Run!!
I'm not doing nothing with this person God awnsered my prayer it was not sent from him
If your intuition is telling you something is off then something IS off. And yes Scammers dont ask for money right off the bat, they gotta build you up for manipulation before doing that. Also I don't see any reason to socialize with someone far off who says they want fo be friends but only text, no voice calls/video chat. Seems like a p boring waste of time situation to me. (Side note: I have a friend whos husband works in oil rigs yes they call each other when they get stable service so its doable)
It's a scam ...promise you ...