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    A Man STRUGGLES With Admitting THIS To A Woman... In this dating, love, and relationship advice video, I will give you one of the seven things a man struggles with admitting to a woman you need not overlook. Men can struggle with admitting these things on first dates, on online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips, and ensure you watch the entire video.
    I don't want you to get hurt, frustrated, or confused when a man struggles to admit certain things to you. I want you to understand men better, communicate with men better, and know that there are times when men struggle to open up about specific things. If you can know that and understand what men want and what to do precisely at such times, your relationships and dating experiences will improve.
    I want to bring to your attention how to be aware of men's struggles and how to handle men's struggles. I will also explain what you can do to reduce the effects of the things a man struggles with admitting. I want you to know how to communicate with men to make your relationships healthier and better.
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  • @StephanSpeaksClips
    @StephanSpeaksClips  Рік тому +5

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  • @Jacqxzdiva1
    @Jacqxzdiva1 Рік тому +128

    I have a lot of empathy for men who have love in their hearts but for whatever reason, can’t or won’t express it. But I can only send them well wishes and prayers and love from a far/energetically. I will NEVER subject myself to a man who is emotionally closed off. Biggest lesson from teenage love. I’m also doing a MUCH better job at hearing men when they say/do something the first time, because alot of men will tell you what you are in their life if you’re listening & paying close attention & not seeing it as a challenge to “fix” him. I found myself ignoring very obvious clues because I convinced myself that the love I carried for him would create the environment in which he would be his best self. How naive I was…

    • @amyitis
      @amyitis Рік тому +6

      Love this!!!! What a great way to set those healthy boundaries and standards. I've only just recently learned this too so it's such a relief when you can wish them well from afar and pay attention before it gets too serious.

    • @softandsupplecosmetics
      @softandsupplecosmetics Рік тому +1

      💯💯Couldn’t agree more‼️👏🏽👏🏽

    • @ryanbarker3978
      @ryanbarker3978 Рік тому +4

      This is what hurt does which is also why healing is so paramount. Whether you're male or female, when you get emotionally manipulated, you start closing off your heart and ignoring your feelings. Women like this tend to hop relationship from relationship but never find happiness without chaos. Men like this tend to stay single because of the societal expectation for them to make the first move which they never act on. I was that guy for years and I also watched several women I knew go down "the wrong" path in this regard including a few of the ladies who hurt me.
      Like Stephan said in the video, people like this just aren't ready to have healthy relationships. The uncomfortable truth is that some of us are handed more emotional trauma than others but what's also very positive about it all is that there's so much growth potential in the healing process if you have the strength to walk down that road. As a guy, I often tell my male friends who are struggling emotionally:
      "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger... and what almost kills you? That my friend, makes you an absolute beast."

    • @saraht8474
      @saraht8474 Рік тому +1

      We all learn, we are all student of life to better ourselves, to evolve.❤

    • @increasingyou9843
      @increasingyou9843 Рік тому +1

      Mannnnnn

  • @ronkomro7759
    @ronkomro7759 Рік тому +32

    He will open up to the right person, not the person telling him that he has to open up!

    • @ersheri
      @ersheri Рік тому

      Not always

    • @ronkomro7759
      @ronkomro7759 Рік тому +1

      Obviously a few have proven my point!

  • @autism_mommy_3t
    @autism_mommy_3t Рік тому +85

    Men will express they feel neglected in subtle ways. Most of the time women are very busy, we miss it. I hear my guy tell me that I started out looking amazing, but once we got serious, I stopped doing all the things that attracted him....He understands that I am busy, but once he told me, I had to self reflect and he was absolutely right. I got comfortable and slacked a little. I respect the honesty and the tact he showed when expressing himself and my shortcomings. Stephan is like that brother you have who gives you game in order to maintain healthy relationships.

    • @autism_mommy_3t
      @autism_mommy_3t Рік тому +9

      @AliSand It's a mystery. Sometimes I wonder if anything is enough?
      You can cook, clean, be a great mother, handle business, pray with them, take care of them when they're sit, run your household, never nag or complain,completely trust them and there will always be something.
      I had someone cheat on me. The reason he gave me was.. I was too dark and too short. He dated me 7 years before he married me. He had to know my height wasn't going to change and the color of my skin wasn't either.
      When I have time, I read some comments as and it's truly heartbreaking to see what our fellow women have gone through.

    • @Cwesade
      @Cwesade Рік тому +1

      @@autism_mommy_3t that sucks

    • @autism_mommy_3t
      @autism_mommy_3t Рік тому +6

      @@Cwesade Yes. It did. I left and never went back. Got therapy through a life coach and now I'm in a wonderful relationship with a person who treats me amazing.

  • @amandaforrester7636
    @amandaforrester7636 Рік тому +43

    Last one left me BECAUSE He was opening up to me. He admitted that was why, that opening up scared him. I held him and he told me things and cried. I was accepting. I was supportive. I was gentle and compassionate and loving. I didn't throw it back at him later. And I was still fucking abandoned.

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 Рік тому +50

    It’s crazy you made this video because GOD has me role playing how to speak to my future kingdom husband, to listen, and be patient for the response. I’m smiling from ear to ear. GOD IS ALWAYS GOOD.❤️

  • @ilacampeau4863
    @ilacampeau4863 Рік тому +22

    I'm literally crying because this is exactly what I am dealing with in my relationship. But I'm the woman, and he is the one struggling to communicate with me.

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 Рік тому +19

    I’m always been concerned for my partners in every way though I didn’t receive it from them. Long story short I was with the wrong men. I’ve learned and grown. I thank GOD for forgiveness and growth!🔥🙏🏽

  • @cathrinegoslet2542
    @cathrinegoslet2542 Рік тому +8

    What if it is the woman being neglected and wanting more affection, physical touch, how was your day and not receiving it.

  • @Riri-dg2vv
    @Riri-dg2vv Рік тому +12

    Thank you for all the advice and all u do for us God bless you

  • @RhondaR4
    @RhondaR4 Рік тому +22

    I cannot stand a closed man. I did everything I could to try and open him up. He didn’t want me to have any friends.🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @FriskyTendervittles
      @FriskyTendervittles Рік тому +5

      The fact that he didn’t want you to have friends tells you everything you need to know. The not opening up part is bullshit. Trust me, you dodged a bullet

    • @RhondaR4
      @RhondaR4 Рік тому

      ​@@FriskyTendervittles, Thank you!❤️

  • @Rose-nw9mg
    @Rose-nw9mg Рік тому +3

    Wow; thank you for this. We had a discussion about this and I had no idea. He said exactly what you said and I really took it as if he was turning it on me. 🤦🏻‍♀️😞

  • @roseoliver7179
    @roseoliver7179 Рік тому

    Keep praying asking almighty God for understanding and loving myself no matter what.

  • @lindaperson382
    @lindaperson382 Рік тому +5

    In other word both is better than one in a relationship.

  • @musiclover865
    @musiclover865 Рік тому +7

    I get it, although, to be completely honest, some men, when younger(35 and younger)marry for consistent/convenient s*x, relationship second. Women marry for it all. Men who have an issue with intimacy from their wives, aren’t putting in the daily effort to help, because if he did, it wouldn’t be an issue, as they’d both be exhausted but eagerly await each other. These men, after many years of marriage become increasingly angry, due to their immense selfishness, and entitlement as a “ husband”, with “needs”, but only “ help”, in order to get their needs met. The marriage breaks down, due to HIS lack of interest in anything but THAT, so no she isn’t interested now that its clear to her. Fast forward 20-30yr. His libido, by nature is not where it used to be and he’s panicking and wants to desperately get to know his wife/kids for the first time in their lives, and guess what? No one’s interested. It’s over!

    • @staywellandstrong4199
      @staywellandstrong4199 Рік тому +1

      I had a friend who took it upon himself to go to counseling for his own accountability in exactly the scenario of no interest until Much Later - and the great part he added to it - I'm going, and if you All (wife, kids, inlaws...) need to join in after my first few sessions - come, if you want: with me there hearing how I failed you, too ~ because it's time to turn this ship around...

    • @gianelogan9841
      @gianelogan9841 Рік тому +1

      I get it but how many husbands are carrying a fair share of the load at home raising the kids. Exhausted wives don’t feel sexy.

  • @danielleemch8991
    @danielleemch8991 Рік тому

    You have to create space in a relationship to where you both can be vulnerable and feel safe ❤

  • @alisagrant1134
    @alisagrant1134 Рік тому +1

    Men who won’t open up have trust issues, don’t or won’t communicate, or just hasn’t learned how to communicate. If a man can and will communicate with everyone else and not me, he’s letting me know that he absolutely does not want to even leave room to get anything twisted by me. That’s fine. In marriage, both partners need to realize that their minds can’t be read and be willing to express themselves; no good respectful communication, no marriage. There is no need to try to pull a hen’s teeth. She has none. If two people won’t communicate openly and truthfully, don’t get married. Save the other person the headaches.

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 Рік тому +7

    @Stephen Speaks what happens biologically to a man whose needs aren't being met?

  • @roseoliver7179
    @roseoliver7179 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing keep up the good work everyday in your life really appreciate your style of video

  • @roseoliver7179
    @roseoliver7179 Рік тому

    Everything you said it is true the hope

  • @cynthiagomes2979
    @cynthiagomes2979 Рік тому +14

    For sex to be just a thang, e.t.c., it's very important to men!!! Some try to say it's not THAT important, I say, they can't do without, period!!

  • @abigalestoll
    @abigalestoll Рік тому +2

    Thanks for sharing, I agree 💯%.

  • @steeenab2306
    @steeenab2306 Рік тому

    Very very. We’ll said. Many blessings Stephan. N. Thank U ❤

  • @ShayBoogie44
    @ShayBoogie44 Рік тому +6

    Lol awww poor neglected man

    • @forgivenesstrulyofficial
      @forgivenesstrulyofficial Рік тому +3

      Congratulations. U ruined the seriousness of this video for me

    • @ShayBoogie44
      @ShayBoogie44 Рік тому +1

      @@forgivenesstrulyofficial That says more about you than it does my comment.

  • @lifeisbeautiful9455
    @lifeisbeautiful9455 Рік тому +1

    I find that men want me to neglect myself. And they neglect me. I’m very consistent in my life and in a relationship. I was neglected sexually. I’m very self aware and men in conversation, even before a first date, they want so much from me. Extremely needy. This one married guy got mad because I wouldn’t sleep with him. He felt rejected. I don’t sleep with married men. How are you married and still wanting a woman you barely know to fulfill your needs. I’m always doing everything you’re doing and men run or get attached. I’m too thoughtful. I’m too kind and supportive and then men run and get scared when they find themselves being open with me.

  • @chipashazulu1729
    @chipashazulu1729 Рік тому

    I dated a man once who only opened up that his mother passed away when he was still young after my mother passed away.

  • @jenniferarzadon2525
    @jenniferarzadon2525 Рік тому

    Great advice now i know neglect i do always chat intinacy to my man but our schedule did not match he did chat me im not around or im busy its just he will chat he gonna open honest communication with me i try to communicare with him but he always leave me i appreciate couch stephan for your advice peace and blessings❤✌️🙏🏽

  • @mealea98
    @mealea98 Рік тому +2

    Hi Stephan! Do you have any recommendations for podcasts or UA-cam channels that help men understand themselves and relationships? Just like your content ( but because yours is more focused for women). Thank you!!

    • @mirelarajic579
      @mirelarajic579 Рік тому

      He has chanel, Stephan Speaks for Men

    • @mealea98
      @mealea98 Рік тому +2

      @@mirelarajic579 oooh great thank you!! I didn't know

    • @mirelarajic579
      @mirelarajic579 Рік тому

      @@mealea98 you're welcome 🤗

  • @cleopatrawilliam5758
    @cleopatrawilliam5758 Рік тому

    Sorry I have to go now.

  • @dalmaingrant4228
    @dalmaingrant4228 Рік тому

    20 years of neglect not easy especially when you realize the cause of neglect was infidelity and adultery and your kids were lied to and brainwashed to think you was the cause of family destruction. This is a perfect case for God he sees and knows everything

  • @orarichman9948
    @orarichman9948 Рік тому

    He is resistant to have another baby because for one, he may not be financially stable or his age difference between his age bracket compared to a younger man's age bracket. Don't try to convince him to get you pregnant or give him a baby if he is not ready.

  • @lynettenorwood2864
    @lynettenorwood2864 Рік тому

    Absolutely a must 💙❤🙏😊

  • @rockin3933
    @rockin3933 Рік тому

    Maybe if they don’t take care of her to and she did the work that’s not a turn on . I did want to make love all the time but maybe she didn’t feel he loved her enough

  • @lilliankillian7366
    @lilliankillian7366 Рік тому

    What if she is nit getting her needs
    I give loven and huging and kisses. But he does not able to give.but does alt in actions ty😊

  • @miaford2519
    @miaford2519 Рік тому

    So what if this scenario you talking about was not the man is the woman? How would you come with it then?

  • @danielleemch8991
    @danielleemch8991 Рік тому

    Sex is very important my love language is touch so because of that I feel Love on such a deep level I am a very passionate person I feel like it builds the connection and it's very healthy I feel like that's a form of how you can express Your Love to someone it's just so natural so real so vulnerable I can totally relate to the man in past relationships it really sucks when your partner doesn't want you intimately ❤

  • @blackpeach5
    @blackpeach5 Рік тому

    Wow. This me😞 damn

  • @chrisnellemarcelin7725
    @chrisnellemarcelin7725 Рік тому

    Wow yeas kids does take a lot of time and for sure with more than 1 kid you will neglect ur man a lot because u will be tired

  • @nataliec54
    @nataliec54 Рік тому

    Men do the same thing to women.

  • @lisajones-franklin5452
    @lisajones-franklin5452 Рік тому

    🙏🙌🏽♥️

  • @mikyl-fo8rh
    @mikyl-fo8rh Рік тому

    Never EVER cry before a woman; you will lose ALL respectability in her eyes.

  • @rockin3933
    @rockin3933 Рік тому

    Maybe if they don’t take care of her to and she did the work that’s not a turn on . I did want to make love all the time but maybe she didn’t feel he loved her enough