The fact this woman said that OP ruined her life by not taking her back after she was "having a little bit of fun" shows she's a true narcissist. No you didn't have a bit of fun. You cheated on him, left him, showed no remorse and was condescending as he was begging you not to leave then got what you deserve when your AP called you an old woman who was only good for a good time. And somehow it's OPs fault? Karma is a bitch
I love how she basically called their marriage loveless but wanted to return to it when she's now alone and got cheated on. If I was OP, I would save the clown honking noise as her ringtone for her contact.
I don't know why she thought op would want her back and why would she think that child would want to stay with a old woman, her children is almost his age.. WOW and why would OP take her back audacity 😂😂
Stepping on someone’s foot in the movie theater is a mistake, putting sugar is something, thinking it’s salt is a mistake, saying “hey, when’s the baby due?” And it turns out the person is just fat is a mistake! Cheating is in a league of its own
The audacity to cheat on someone, get cheated on/dumped, beg to come back, and then gaslight the person you cheated on because they won't take you back is unreal.
She said it was a loveless marriage. By her own words, she didn’t love him, she wanted a financial safety net. Hell, she probably figured she could force the kids to forgive her by saying their father had. It’s all just emotional manipulation when she doesn’t actually care about these people, she’s treating them like a backup family when she was ready to run off and abandon them for her younger boyfriend who didn’t even see them as a couple
In the end, Matt actually saved OP from a toxic marriage, while ruining that narcissist's life in the process. Ahhh, I never get tired of stories where the cheaters get cheated on by their own AP. Karmic justice at its best.
@Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing lol sometimes these stories are almost unbelievable, how can a 50 year old be so naive to think a 27 year old actually wants to be in a long term relationship with her? But then again, I know how self centered and stupid people are even at that age so it wouldn't surprise me if this story is completely true
Would do this for mine in a heartbeat. Its just what you do when you grow up with someone and love them to pieces. May not be good at saying it or expressing it, but you let them know by being there when it matters.
You know it was the funny thing about this story she damn near in her grandma stage why did she think somebody is so young and want to spend the rest of their life with her
TBH thats one of the most healthy responses towards an AP I've heard in those stories in a while. If you're in a monogamous relationship, its **you** and **your partners** responsibility not to cheat on each other. It's NOT some stranger 3rd parties responsibility to respect your relationship and not flirt with you or your partner. If you and your partner are loyal people it literally doesn't matter if the most charming, rich, famous, perfect 10/10 tries to flirt with them, they WILL reject that 3rd party and cut contact the moment they realize what's going on, otherwise they aren't loyal.
I agree but I also know so few couples actually talk about this. Normally in a marriage after a bit, the husband and wife start building their careers and working more. They both trust each other and if they have children their focus is on work, keeping the home clean and updated, children and children's activities and then each other. Life gets mundane but for those that stay together these are the awesome times. However, outside dudes who know how to prey on women like this and are experts at getting women to sleep with them are real. I know of a dude who has slept with over 50 married women. He targets women in the 4-7 years of marriage timeframe. Dude has a template and says how easy it is to get so many women to sleep with him. He is scum and I hope bad things happen to him but one would be a fool to ignore that there is a pattern here. Yes there are some women that turn this dude down, he says he can tell quickly, but a dude who works with another woman? That dude can take his time and he gets to spend 8 hours a day with her if not more. 8 hours where he doesn't have to take the garbage out, there are no kids, etc. He can be the perfect dude in her eyes, all while he will be figuring out cracks in the marriage and saying crap like "I would never do what your husband did." when she complains. In short husbands and wives need to talk about these tactics being used by other men and learn how to defend against it. Also so few understand how God awful divorce is and what their life would be after it.
One thing stands out here: The sheer stupidity. Even if the AP wasn't leading her on does not mean that he was automatically ready to have her in his house. I mean, you can be in love with someone, but that is not a quarantee that you are instantly ready to take your relationship to the next level. What did she expect? That she could blindside him like this without any previous serious convertation?? How stupid can someone be ffs?
You know why she asked to be taken back? Because she considered you a weak man. When you cried and begged for her, you confirmed that fact and she did that to you because she wanted to see you suffer, glad he grew a back bone in the end and told her to f off.
All women it's the same thing, they are of manual, all they have the same excuses the same behavior etc, and they are always victims and men is always the villain haha, they all have the same speech
So she cheated on Op, realized the adulterer didn’t want to have a real relationship, and decided to come back to Op thinking he’ll take her in? That’s laughable. 😂
She thought he looked his age at 50 compared to her boy toy 27 . I would have like to be a fly on the wall when Matt told her she is 48 and too old for him 😅.
The only thing this channel was missing was that medium-length format, I really like listening to these stories before sleep, but half an hour always seemed like a bit of a stretch, now I can enjoy these to the fullest, thanks!
It’s actually hilarious how the cheating wife has the audacity to be upset that Op isnt taking her back with open arms after she threw away her marriage to hook up with a guy at work😂
She didn't even check to make sure that little boy would take her in beforehand?!? Lmao For someone so conniving as to be able to hide a multi-year relationship, that just seems sloppy on her part 😂😂😂😂 Enjoy the curb x2, lady
Again sue the company and her office lover for alienation and infidelity 2 years and the office didn't see anything that's a huge pay out the guys gonna get fired and blacklisted
So, wife basically put all her eggs in one basket, not realizing that there wasn't even a basket to put them in. Probably should have conferred with her AP to make sure that they were both on the same page before she nuked her marriage.
He is such a pathetic guy. Only has a spine when he feels like he has the control. Couldn’t let her go when he was he was the loser but once she was the loser he was a big man.
This literally how emotional abuse affects a person 12:08 -12:39 that’s how it feels. If your in an emotionally abuse relationship weather it’s platonic or romantic it’s not ok. It’s extremely difficult to leave because part of you sees it as normal especially if no one has said anything or if you grew up with it. But TURST me you will always become a stranger person for not only recognizing but also trying to get out. I’m trying to distance myself from certain family members right now because the emotional abuse I have gotten all my life is unbelievable and unbearable to me. To believe that even happened is EXTREMELY HARD! You think if your fault got it yet. You think they will change. They never do. Narcissists don’t learn. Well very rarely like 0.000000001% that they will. Also the best thing you can do if your in an escape goat relationship. Is realize in fact it’s not your fault. But also it’s not your job to change the other person.
“i’m the one ruining her life” what a complete hypocrite…….she’s the one who went out of her marriage to be with another man and destroyed FOUR PEOPLE; her now ex husband and her three kids
If cheating is supposed to be a mistake you don't keep doing it for two years. By then she did it because she wanted to keep doing it and she already had a bag packed showed she didn't want to give the marriage another try. Only after her decisions backfired on her does she want to. And if he had actually let her back in how long before she did it again because she never apologized for her behavior before.
"It's kind of pathetic that she's still trying to shift the blame onto me and make it look like what she did was fine, and I should've been the one to fix myself, but that's just how she is." That's how like 90% of them are.
Utterly hilarious that AP told Amy to get lost. Women need to get it through their heads that whatever men find attractive in mistresses, they don't find attractive in wives. She gets on OP for his natural ageing when that's exactly why her 20-something AP told her she was delulu.
My ex, 42 f, still blames me for turning the kids (16, 12 and 6) against her. She had a 3-4 yrs long affair with a 30m alpinist and a marathon runner boy. I just told the kids what happened and why we divorced. And she still blames me ad if it's me who destroyed the family.
I dont get why people cheat. Like if you arent in love anymore even if you have kids just say it. Because not only was she cheating on him she was cheating on those kids. As a kid who had parents who eventually split up it's hard when you find out the reason for it is because they cheated. It would have been easier if my mother left my father because she didnt love him anymore, instead of her side piece who ruined my life even more the few years she was with him.
Hey, word to the wise. If you're going through a divorce with someone, especially an ugly divorce, do not block them until after it's done. If they send you vile things, make sure you share them with your lawyer. If they threaten you, report them to the cops. Additionally, keep as much communication as possible in writing. It may not make a difference in court, but it never hurts to have proof of vitriol from someone you're in a legal battle with.
It always happens to men who put every ounce of being into loving a woman and basically worship the ground she walks on. Dude must have been raised by hollywood movies and romance novels.
Not true it goes both ways . If you gonna base this on the storys from Reddit , Is just the guys who post on Reddit are normally more soft emotional guys who need outlet for they are feelings and problems . especially if they have focused on they are wifes for X amount of years . The reality there is no base for this things . Men cheat as much as women and but one thing i gotta say is that there is one personality trait of most cheaters and thats the narcissistic one and is always about them and what they want . Like in this case his wife was so sure of herself about how Matt was gonna take her , because she is her and thats how should be .
Yeh that's what Hollywood and Disney did to all us, sold us a fake fantasy, sadly many bought it, few did realize it was fake before it was too late, others still keep and hols it with a false hope it be real, others realize it's fake when it's too late, and some many ones even after realizing it's fake they still hold it hopping sometime it turn real
Matt was able to sleep with all the women in the office because he knows how to play to women’s emotions and tell them what they want to hear. He probably told OP’s wife a pack of lies about how he wanted a future with her and that he could make her happier than her husband ever could…he probably just didn’t expect her to actually leave him and show up at his door with her bags packed lol
Pretty much the same thing that happend to my buddy in the service. His wife cheated, literally abandoned him and took everything in thier appartment to live with a younger man. He filed for divorce and she didn't contest it at all. Later his now X wife found out she was being cheated on and the dude kicked her to the curb. She called my buddy looking for a " second chance " but he had already moved on and found someone new. So get this It was his x wife younger sister or step sister. Anyways last I heard they were happy and he left the military and is doing well with his own business. Family reunions must be awkward.
Classic Women and accountability kryptonite... It never fails to amuse me when they get caught how they just cannot admit the blame and then have the audacity to try to gaslight you into thinking that you are the one to blame lmao
Trust me, the path of immorality leads only to pain, suffering, regret, self hatred, and disgust. Use your energy and time to do things that ACTUALLY matter, like reading a book or getting outside. Maybe hit the gym or try socializing.
Amy, a 48 yr old woman: I’m gonna marry a 27 year old Me: I’m sorry you were 21 when he was born. Is that even legal? Edit: Also, isn’t there like a weekly thing where people can technically live for a while in a hotel? Or was the book I read just spitting nonsense?
You even questioning and second guessing if you should take her back or not is part of the reason why you got cheated for 2 years without realizing it. Never completely trust anyone.
It's not your fault, she CHEATED she LEFT. It's not your fault that she was too stupid to make sure that her ap wanted to move forward. This is less than what she deserves.
This is unrelated but I've watched so many of these reddit stories but I dont play minecraft so I'm so confuse of what this exact gameplay's goal is? All the vids I watched are just them walking around, no getting coins or anything, no finish line (as far as i know), so whats the goal?
Exactly my question. My brother is 6 and he absolutely LOVES Minecraft. And when I asked him "So, what's the goal of the game ?" "It's fun" "... What happiness do you get from just jumping around building stuff ?" "...." (*Ignores me*) Like bro 😃🔫. WHYYYYYYYYYYY
I play Minecraft with my kids and niblings, he is playing a parkour game with an end game and there are also maps(different user made game) that has goals but usually outside of beating the ender dragon, you just let your creative juices flow and make of the game what you want.
The fact that she tried to move in with her AP, shows it wasn’t a fling. Nobody would sabotage their own marriage for a fling. Don’t get me wrong, infidelity is a deal-breaker, fling or relationship, but she took it way more serious than her AP, Matt. So it wasn’t about having “a little bit of fun”
I'm going to say this much... A twenty something year old guy or girl, should never be going after someone 20 years older than them. Even if its just for a "good time," because in sad truth, there is nothing to gain from it. That age gap is real, and it's not just something to throw to the side when someone is just looking for a "good time." Actual feelings or lives can be ruined. Maturity levels are completely different due to life expericences or lack of. That is why you should never involve yourself with someone with that kind of age gap. She made her bed, now she can lay in it. There is no coming back after two years of cheating on your significant other. Heck not even after one time. Cheating is cheating and it necer ends good for either party.
Not condoning cheating at all... but I am baffled at how many of them don't secure the AP before burning bridges. Like, wouldn't that be the first logical step?
The fact this woman said that OP ruined her life by not taking her back after she was "having a little bit of fun" shows she's a true narcissist. No you didn't have a bit of fun. You cheated on him, left him, showed no remorse and was condescending as he was begging you not to leave then got what you deserve when your AP called you an old woman who was only good for a good time. And somehow it's OPs fault?
Karma is a bitch
I love how she basically called their marriage loveless but wanted to return to it when she's now alone and got cheated on. If I was OP, I would save the clown honking noise as her ringtone for her contact.
@@calico_queen8976 Ooooh, we like petty queen!
If that was me I would’ve done something worse because I don’t have the control of my anger like this guy here. He is not the ass hole
She should've known better, if she had a wished she would never messed around.
Besides, having a "little bit of fun" usually only works if you're a man!
If you burn your bridges, don’t be surprised when you can’t go back and cross them
Well goddamn said dude
Well said..
deep
“But that burnt bridge needs to be the bigger person!” 😉
@@princessmarlena1359crazy
He's articulate
"little bit of fun"
Lady threw away twenty three years of marriage for nothing, and that little bit of fun cost her _big time_
@@Nameless82284 Cheating at any age is pointless. Only thing it does is destroy you.
And her boy toy gave her a reality check. Oh well!
Wow a 27 year old didn't want a 52 year old? Who would have thunk?
I don't know why she thought op would want her back and why would she think that child would want to stay with a old woman, her children is almost his age.. WOW and why would OP take her back audacity 😂😂
She proved to Matt that sex was all she cared about, and she is willing to dump a man who is faithful and loved her. This woman is trash!
Ur right but incase ur learning english its thought not thunk @jamessanders8895
He wanted to smash she was in lala land
thought*
She sounds like a narcissist.
She is
That's cuz she is lmao
ohhh really?
Sounds like the average woman
@@SlugSage *average NARCISSIST woman
Cheating is a choice not a mistake.
Super mega very much right
Stepping on someone’s foot in the movie theater is a mistake, putting sugar is something, thinking it’s salt is a mistake, saying “hey, when’s the baby due?” And it turns out the person is just fat is a mistake!
Cheating is in a league of its own
For real. What goes around, comes around!
SAY IT LOUDER FOR EVERYONE IN THE BACK 🗣🗣
The audacity to cheat on someone, get cheated on/dumped, beg to come back, and then gaslight the person you cheated on because they won't take you back is unreal.
She said it was a loveless marriage. By her own words, she didn’t love him, she wanted a financial safety net. Hell, she probably figured she could force the kids to forgive her by saying their father had. It’s all just emotional manipulation when she doesn’t actually care about these people, she’s treating them like a backup family when she was ready to run off and abandon them for her younger boyfriend who didn’t even see them as a couple
Karmas a bitch.
Karma is his boyfriend actually
@@friskybaCON his?
@@lelo8744🤔
@@lelo8744🏳️🌈
In the end, Matt actually saved OP from a toxic marriage, while ruining that narcissist's life in the process.
Ahhh, I never get tired of stories where the cheaters get cheated on by their own AP. Karmic justice at its best.
Yeah, cant really blame the dude. He had some easy pussy and took his chance
Not Amy coming for OP’s looks cause he’s aging like a normal human being 😭.
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Yeah, but I bet a house mortgage she sure as hell don't look as good as she did when she was in her 20s
@@TheKnightofAwesomenessYeah her affair partner even mocked her for being 50💀 the projection was crazy
@Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing lol sometimes these stories are almost unbelievable, how can a 50 year old be so naive to think a 27 year old actually wants to be in a long term relationship with her? But then again, I know how self centered and stupid people are even at that age so it wouldn't surprise me if this story is completely true
"I always loved her more than she loved me" and now she dun goofed big because he got snapped out of his relationship fog.
The brother is so sweet and caring.
Would do this for mine in a heartbeat. Its just what you do when you grow up with someone and love them to pieces. May not be good at saying it or expressing it, but you let them know by being there when it matters.
literal chad right here.
Nothing like the selfish mentally of a cheater going "I know I burned the bridge but could you please let me back across?"
She REALLY thought some rando was gonna commit to a 50y/o wife and mother!!?? Lmaoooo she’s absolutely delusional 😂😂😂
She thought she was hot!
When the grass looked greener, but it was actually a field of thistles . 🤣🤣🤣
You know it was the funny thing about this story she damn near in her grandma stage why did she think somebody is so young and want to spend the rest of their life with her
TBH thats one of the most healthy responses towards an AP I've heard in those stories in a while.
If you're in a monogamous relationship, its **you** and **your partners** responsibility not to cheat on each other.
It's NOT some stranger 3rd parties responsibility to respect your relationship and not flirt with you or your partner. If you and your partner are loyal people it literally doesn't matter if the most charming, rich, famous, perfect 10/10 tries to flirt with them, they WILL reject that 3rd party and cut contact the moment they realize what's going on, otherwise they aren't loyal.
I agree but I also know so few couples actually talk about this. Normally in a marriage after a bit, the husband and wife start building their careers and working more. They both trust each other and if they have children their focus is on work, keeping the home clean and updated, children and children's activities and then each other. Life gets mundane but for those that stay together these are the awesome times. However, outside dudes who know how to prey on women like this and are experts at getting women to sleep with them are real. I know of a dude who has slept with over 50 married women. He targets women in the 4-7 years of marriage timeframe. Dude has a template and says how easy it is to get so many women to sleep with him. He is scum and I hope bad things happen to him but one would be a fool to ignore that there is a pattern here. Yes there are some women that turn this dude down, he says he can tell quickly, but a dude who works with another woman? That dude can take his time and he gets to spend 8 hours a day with her if not more. 8 hours where he doesn't have to take the garbage out, there are no kids, etc. He can be the perfect dude in her eyes, all while he will be figuring out cracks in the marriage and saying crap like "I would never do what your husband did." when she complains. In short husbands and wives need to talk about these tactics being used by other men and learn how to defend against it. Also so few understand how God awful divorce is and what their life would be after it.
he should have said 'we truly are made for one each other, beacouse you didn't give the marriage a second chance, and neither am i" and block her
One thing stands out here: The sheer stupidity. Even if the AP wasn't leading her on does not mean that he was automatically ready to have her in his house. I mean, you can be in love with someone, but that is not a quarantee that you are instantly ready to take your relationship to the next level. What did she expect? That she could blindside him like this without any previous serious convertation?? How stupid can someone be ffs?
You know why she asked to be taken back? Because she considered you a weak man. When you cried and begged for her, you confirmed that fact and she did that to you because she wanted to see you suffer, glad he grew a back bone in the end and told her to f off.
Man hearing her blame him for the consequences of her own actions reminds me so much of my ex
All women it's the same thing, they are of manual, all they have the same excuses the same behavior etc, and they are always victims and men is always the villain haha, they all have the same speech
Nta thinking about it with dispassion is best, she cheated and hurt you and now she's getting what she's earned...nothing
Know your self worth people.
A classic story of "am I the asshole for saving a puppy that was about to burn alive?"
My birth giver did this and destroyed my family. I moved so far away she has no idea where i am ánd she will never see me again.
So she cheated on Op, realized the adulterer didn’t want to have a real relationship, and decided to come back to Op thinking he’ll take her in? That’s laughable. 😂
Moral of the story, never put women on pedestals and have frame.
She thought he looked his age at 50 compared to her boy toy 27 . I would have like to be a fly on the wall when Matt told her she is 48 and too old for him 😅.
Thats hilarious. Im 5 minutes in but the husband has a perfect chance to drag her through the mud for this.
The only thing this channel was missing was that medium-length format, I really like listening to these stories before sleep, but half an hour always seemed like a bit of a stretch, now I can enjoy these to the fullest, thanks!
It’s actually hilarious how the cheating wife has the audacity to be upset that Op isnt taking her back with open arms after she threw away her marriage to hook up with a guy at work😂
She didn't even check to make sure that little boy would take her in beforehand?!? Lmao For someone so conniving as to be able to hide a multi-year relationship, that just seems sloppy on her part 😂😂😂😂 Enjoy the curb x2, lady
Again sue the company and her office lover for alienation and infidelity 2 years and the office didn't see anything that's a huge pay out the guys gonna get fired and blacklisted
damn bro thats wild😢
The usual
So, wife basically put all her eggs in one basket, not realizing that there wasn't even a basket to put them in. Probably should have conferred with her AP to make sure that they were both on the same page before she nuked her marriage.
That dude at the office is a king he smashed all the holes in that company 😂
Became the office mattress!! Funniest expression here by OP lol.
Cheaters are like shit. You flushed it down the toilet, you don’t care where it goes or what happens to it and you certainly don’t try to get it back
The entire way that your wife or better said ex-wife treats you already says how little she thinks of you 😂
You don’t have anywhere to go? Hell always has vacancies.
Yea she most definitely cheated before and he should get dna test
“…the woman I loved more than life itself…” OP, that was the root of your marital problems.
Your ex is a disgrace! My heart breaks that you went through that but I’m happy you are free of her. You’re way better than what she gave.
Amy was a legend in her own mind. I'm laughing at the old fool thinking some young guy wanted a serious relationship with her.
The brother and kids are true mvps
Tell her to have fun then just not on your money or your house she can have fun on her own
OPs wife took the pin out of a grenade and is surprised her arm blew off 🙄
It’s so funny how they always think they found something better and then realize they blew their life up for nothing, enjoy living with cats lady.
Great storie!
He is such a pathetic guy. Only has a spine when he feels like he has the control. Couldn’t let her go when he was he was the loser but once she was the loser he was a big man.
This literally how emotional abuse affects a person 12:08 -12:39 that’s how it feels. If your in an emotionally abuse relationship weather it’s platonic or romantic it’s not ok. It’s extremely difficult to leave because part of you sees it as normal especially if no one has said anything or if you grew up with it. But TURST me you will always become a stranger person for not only recognizing but also trying to get out. I’m trying to distance myself from certain family members right now because the emotional abuse I have gotten all my life is unbelievable and unbearable to me. To believe that even happened is EXTREMELY HARD! You think if your fault got it yet. You think they will change. They never do. Narcissists don’t learn. Well very rarely like 0.000000001% that they will. Also the best thing you can do if your in an escape goat relationship. Is realize in fact it’s not your fault. But also it’s not your job to change the other person.
Why does everybody in these stories always need therapy? I've gone through two divorces and never felt the need to talk to a damn therapist.
“i’m the one ruining her life” what a complete hypocrite…….she’s the one who went out of her marriage to be with another man and destroyed FOUR PEOPLE; her now ex husband and her three kids
If cheating is supposed to be a mistake you don't keep doing it for two years. By then she did it because she wanted to keep doing it and she already had a bag packed showed she didn't want to give the marriage another try. Only after her decisions backfired on her does she want to. And if he had actually let her back in how long before she did it again because she never apologized for her behavior before.
"It's kind of pathetic that she's still trying to shift the blame onto me and make it look like what she did was fine, and I should've been the one to fix myself, but that's just how she is."
That's how like 90% of them are.
Utterly hilarious that AP told Amy to get lost. Women need to get it through their heads that whatever men find attractive in mistresses, they don't find attractive in wives. She gets on OP for his natural ageing when that's exactly why her 20-something AP told her she was delulu.
My ex, 42 f, still blames me for turning the kids (16, 12 and 6) against her. She had a 3-4 yrs long affair with a 30m alpinist and a marathon runner boy.
I just told the kids what happened and why we divorced. And she still blames me ad if it's me who destroyed the family.
Women are allergic to accountability 😂
just glad u divorced her and the kids know better of the reality of it all 😂
I dont get why people cheat. Like if you arent in love anymore even if you have kids just say it. Because not only was she cheating on him she was cheating on those kids. As a kid who had parents who eventually split up it's hard when you find out the reason for it is because they cheated. It would have been easier if my mother left my father because she didnt love him anymore, instead of her side piece who ruined my life even more the few years she was with him.
Grammas showin signs of early dementia😂😂😂
Honestly, even if Matt hadn’t come along she would of still cheated
Hey, word to the wise. If you're going through a divorce with someone, especially an ugly divorce, do not block them until after it's done. If they send you vile things, make sure you share them with your lawyer. If they threaten you, report them to the cops.
Additionally, keep as much communication as possible in writing. It may not make a difference in court, but it never hurts to have proof of vitriol from someone you're in a legal battle with.
The most Mature thing to do Is to act like u don't care so they can't watch in Ur weakest moment
Amy liked doing laundry because it was a means of covering up her affair.
"And my hairline is receding" he said calmly
She is so dumb to think a 27 year-old kid is gonna want her forever
Women & accountability: a Venn diagram of two circles that never converge
It always happens to men who put every ounce of being into loving a woman and basically worship the ground she walks on. Dude must have been raised by hollywood movies and romance novels.
No we're just naturally more romantic than women
Not true it goes both ways . If you gonna base this on the storys from Reddit , Is just the guys who post on Reddit are normally more soft emotional guys who need outlet for they are feelings and problems . especially if they have focused on they are wifes for X amount of years . The reality there is no base for this things . Men cheat as much as women and but one thing i gotta say is that there is one personality trait of most cheaters and thats the narcissistic one and is always about them and what they want . Like in this case his wife was so sure of herself about how Matt was gonna take her , because she is her and thats how should be .
Yeh that's what Hollywood and Disney did to all us, sold us a fake fantasy, sadly many bought it, few did realize it was fake before it was too late, others still keep and hols it with a false hope it be real, others realize it's fake when it's too late, and some many ones even after realizing it's fake they still hold it hopping sometime it turn real
Matt was able to sleep with all the women in the office because he knows how to play to women’s emotions and tell them what they want to hear. He probably told OP’s wife a pack of lies about how he wanted a future with her and that he could make her happier than her husband ever could…he probably just didn’t expect her to actually leave him and show up at his door with her bags packed lol
Cheating should be illegal
Pretty much the same thing that happend to my buddy in the service.
His wife cheated, literally abandoned him and took everything in thier appartment to live with a younger man. He filed for divorce and she didn't contest it at all. Later his now X wife found out she was being cheated on and the dude kicked her to the curb. She called my buddy looking for a " second chance " but he had already moved on and found someone new. So get this It was his x wife younger sister or step sister.
Anyways last I heard they were happy and he left the military and is doing well with his own business.
Family reunions must be awkward.
OP haven't heard about "let bygone be bygone"
Ur brother is a real one
Classic Women and accountability kryptonite... It never fails to amuse me when they get caught how they just cannot admit the blame and then have the audacity to try to gaslight you into thinking that you are the one to blame lmao
Trust me, the path of immorality leads only to pain, suffering, regret, self hatred, and disgust. Use your energy and time to do things that ACTUALLY matter, like reading a book or getting outside. Maybe hit the gym or try socializing.
Amy, a 48 yr old woman: I’m gonna marry a 27 year old
Me: I’m sorry you were 21 when he was born. Is that even legal?
Edit: Also, isn’t there like a weekly thing where people can technically live for a while in a hotel? Or was the book I read just spitting nonsense?
Single by choice but is a good guy?? So what are you saying single people are bad? At least we don’t go this this drama
Not only is karma a bitch, karma is this man's new girl.
(Yes, a reference to Taylor Swift's song "Karma.")
I aspire to be an Eric, "solid dependable guy"
She Cheated and she's the victim 😂😂😂
11:11 All cheaters typical Gaslighting comeback. Call it a lil bit of fun and normalised it. When their AP wont accept it.
You even questioning and second guessing if you should take her back or not is part of the reason why you got cheated for 2 years without realizing it.
Never completely trust anyone.
It's not your fault, she CHEATED she LEFT. It's not your fault that she was too stupid to make sure that her ap wanted to move forward. This is less than what she deserves.
This is unrelated but I've watched so many of these reddit stories but I dont play minecraft so I'm so confuse of what this exact gameplay's goal is? All the vids I watched are just them walking around, no getting coins or anything, no finish line (as far as i know), so whats the goal?
Exactly my question. My brother is 6 and he absolutely LOVES Minecraft. And when I asked him
"So, what's the goal of the game ?"
"It's fun"
"... What happiness do you get from just jumping around building stuff ?"
"...." (*Ignores me*)
Like bro 😃🔫. WHYYYYYYYYYYY
I play Minecraft with my kids and niblings, he is playing a parkour game with an end game and there are also maps(different user made game) that has goals but usually outside of beating the ender dragon, you just let your creative juices flow and make of the game what you want.
Salute to matt 👏
You know these stories would seem a lot more plausible with such over-explanations.
The fact that she tried to move in with her AP, shows it wasn’t a fling. Nobody would sabotage their own marriage for a fling. Don’t get me wrong, infidelity is a deal-breaker, fling or relationship, but she took it way more serious than her AP, Matt. So it wasn’t about having “a little bit of fun”
He has a great brother
I love happy endings
Office mattress haha
I'm going to say this much... A twenty something year old guy or girl, should never be going after someone 20 years older than them. Even if its just for a "good time," because in sad truth, there is nothing to gain from it.
That age gap is real, and it's not just something to throw to the side when someone is just looking for a "good time." Actual feelings or lives can be ruined. Maturity levels are completely different due to life expericences or lack of. That is why you should never involve yourself with someone with that kind of age gap.
She made her bed, now she can lay in it. There is no coming back after two years of cheating on your significant other. Heck not even after one time. Cheating is cheating and it necer ends good for either party.
Crying ? So embarrassing !
Another one bites the dust 🎶🎶🎸
I really want to live in this video world. It’s wonderful and weird and magical !
Not condoning cheating at all... but I am baffled at how many of them don't secure the AP before burning bridges. Like, wouldn't that be the first logical step?
Narcissism , there is no way someone will decline them because IS THEM , they are the light of the universe and everyone must bow down to them .
@@Lorexbg good point.
Also because she was deep in the affair fog.
i know most of these are fake cause what 47 yr old n 52 yr old use words like gas light but still good for home boy
Wow amazing
Why would he take her call ?
Don't you just love how karma works?
Story sounds so fake. Why would the older woman dump her husband if the younger guy wasn't ready? It just doesn't make sense.