25 Things I Realized After I Turned 25

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  • Опубліковано 11 лип 2024
  • Timestamps
    0:00 Intro
    0:11 A crush is just a lack of info
    1:03 Nobody cares
    1:48 Staying power is a superpower
    2:45 Nobody has it all figured out
    3:34 Get going, then get good
    4:33 Life is too short to live on someone else's terms
    5:14 Get clear on your values
    5:48 Prestige matters, but don't let it consume you
    6:49 It's harder to make friends as an adult
    7:50 Don't pedestalize older people
    8:59 Move your body
    9:35 Hug your mom
    10:16 Too much structure is mundane, but too much spontaneity is chaos
    11:02 The joy is in the journey, not the destination
    12:11 Don't try to change people
    13:12 Happiness shouldn't be your goal
    14:01 The people who matter won't care what your job is
    14:56 Confidence is just a stack of evidence
    15:46 It's okay to change
    16:20 Life doesn't get any easier
    16:52 Successful people fail more than they succeed
    17:37 You underestimate what you can accomplish in 6 months
    18:22 You are your own niche
    19:23 Delayed gratification = pain now vs pain later
    19:49 Life is suffering
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 41

  • @matthuang21
    @matthuang21  3 місяці тому +1

    Hey friends, let me know which realization you resonate the most with - can't wait to hear from you all!

  • @manuelgiudici1937
    @manuelgiudici1937 3 місяці тому +4

    Great video Matt, there's not so many people able to make 20 minutes pass like they were nothing. Greetings from Italy

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому +1

      Hey Manuel, really appreciate the thoughts! Hope all is well

  • @SylvanaPoon
    @SylvanaPoon 2 місяці тому

    Rising junior looking to recruit consulting. Came to the channel for recruiting advice but really enjoying the life advice on top of that. Keep up the good work and thanks for starting your channel

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  2 місяці тому

      Hey Sylvana! Glad you like the life advice content as well

  • @Orooj
    @Orooj 3 місяці тому +1

    this was an amazing video! I really resonated with a lot of what you said and this video was just jam-packed with such good advice! keep it up!

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому +1

      Hey Orooj! I really appreciate it, and glad you found the video relatable! Keep going 💪🏻

  • @bonitaho
    @bonitaho 3 місяці тому

    Loved this video 🙌

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому

      Thanks Bonita, hope you’re doing well! 🙏

  • @tanmaydaga7869
    @tanmaydaga7869 3 місяці тому

    Great stuff Matt, keep going!

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому

      Thanks Tanmay! Glad to hear you resonated with the video 🙏

  • @zhiyichen9432
    @zhiyichen9432 3 місяці тому

    Hi Matt, I’m 20 and during this last year I thought a lot about the majority of the topics that you talked about. Thank you so much for sharing your point of view.🙏🫶

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому

      Hey Zhiyi! I’m so glad you resonated with the video. Hope you are having a great weekend!

  • @Qingtongjumen
    @Qingtongjumen 3 місяці тому +1

    most people don't know what they want, the know what others want and then decided they can't live without it .I like it , thanks Matt many realization I too find very relatable

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому

      Glad you found it relatable!

  • @julie9136
    @julie9136 3 місяці тому

    Recently just discovered your channel and just wanted to pop in and say that I love your content-excited to see your channel evolve and grow!

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому

      Hey Julie! Thanks so much for the kind words - hope you had a nice weekend!

  • @SeanTechStories
    @SeanTechStories 3 місяці тому

    This is awesome!

  • @angeloargento1445
    @angeloargento1445 2 місяці тому

    Hi Matt, great video!
    Keep on going with this YT channel cause it’s amazing 👍🏻👍🏻

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  2 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Angelo! I really appreciate it 🙏

  • @katsuosamu5275
    @katsuosamu5275 3 місяці тому

    Really like your vids ! I'm grateful I get to be here so early

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому

      Hey Katsu! I appreciate you being here 🙂

  • @matthewvasquez2421
    @matthewvasquez2421 3 місяці тому +1

    Hey Matt,
    First off, I want to say great video. As I am about to turn 20, I tend to get caught up in my own ambition, pursuing investment banking, getting good grades, etc. hearing your insight helps me realize what’s really important.
    I think as ambitious beings we all bear the residual effects of challenging ourselves (we tend to neglect the present moment or the bigger picture) but there’s more to life than pure ambition, we need to make sure we really enjoy what we do.
    I personally love the saying “be where your feet are”. It reminds me to truly be conscious of the present moment. Life is too short for us to pursue something that we don’t truly enjoy. Hearing this reminds me to take it all in.
    Keep up the great content!

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому +1

      Hey Matt! I love that - “be where your feet are” is such a great way to put it. Gonna keep this quote in mind as I remind myself that though it’s healthy to want to achieve more, it’s just as important to be mindful and appreciate the present.

  • @krishnanatarajan4953
    @krishnanatarajan4953 3 місяці тому

    Hi Matt,
    Thanks for your great videos! Since finding your channel, I've been impressed by the quality and content. As a former consultant and current MBA student who just turned 25, I really relate to them. Your point on confidence has motivated me to push my limits - thanks for that!
    Your emphasis on celebrating small victories to build confidence, and finding balance between structure and chaos resonated with me. Meditation has helped me focus amidst a distraction-filled world.
    Regarding values, they will evolve over time, although staying true to them is key, one must always revisit them to check for changes and accomodate/reject them. We do have to work harder for our relationships, but I feel that now is the time we make our careers, and relationships will sort themselves out soon.
    On your final point, I see life as about finding joy in challenges and learning. Resilience allows us to enjoy life more.
    Just my perspective, and keep the videos coming!

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому

      Hey Krishna! Love to hear from a fellow consultant - I’m glad you resonated with a lot of the ideas and I appreciate your level of introspection. Best of luck as you navigate your MBA!

    • @krishnanatarajan4953
      @krishnanatarajan4953 3 місяці тому

      @@matthuang21 Thank you Matt, and best of luck to you too!

  • @99evan76
    @99evan76 3 місяці тому +1

    Gold!!

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому

      Hey Evan! Appreciate the kind words

  • @vmoonlight4962
    @vmoonlight4962 3 місяці тому

    this is really good content 🎉❤

  • @nickgilliganskates
    @nickgilliganskates 3 місяці тому

    dam.... you are spitting!

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому

      Hey Nick! Thanks brother 🙏

  • @kotadiyachaitanya7957
    @kotadiyachaitanya7957 3 місяці тому +1

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    I can help you to save your Crucial time throughout my editing skills

  • @TheCryptoOptimist
    @TheCryptoOptimist 3 місяці тому

    Brother is Asian and I'm Indian. Almost everything he said makes so much sense. Like thing of respecting elders, parents, life philosophy. Though these are truths but we Asians are quite similar in many ways.

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому

      Agree that Indian and East Asian values tend to be very similar

  • @biboba9976
    @biboba9976 3 місяці тому

    What is your linkedin??

    • @matthuang21
      @matthuang21  3 місяці тому

      Check my bio - it’s just my name

  • @randylin1871
    @randylin1871 3 місяці тому

    Yessir last one spoken like a BUDDHA