I rooted for you way back when you were on American Idol(The war of the Davids!) and I will still root for you just as you are. You are loved by many people. Keep bringing us your beautiful music.
I remember watching him on Star Search! When he first appeared on Idol, he seemed vaguely familiar, but I couldn't figure out why....I couldn't remember his name from Star Search, but a haunting familiarity pervaded until AI did a bit of a bio, and mentioned SS! Then, the light bulb went off, and I was rooting for him all over again!
some are heartwarming others ..NOT so much I Was confronted by a real genuine right wing evangelical Hellfire and brimstone "Christian" named Billy Moss (i think)you should read our exchange... I stand up to him for David and myself and all of my LGBTQ+ brothers and sisters it's pretty good
@@markgrange7786 Well I don't introduce myself as "hi, I'm x and I'm gay"... No one should care more than me. That is why I say that labels are superfluous.
He's such a cutie! Let him be who he is. And I hate when they said girls and older women wanted him, as if they where the only ones. I think it's fair to say both girls and boys wanted him. I can relate so much to David when it comes to being gay and religious.
Amen to that. I remember looking at a friend's son's picture, who happened to be very good looking and telling him "he's gonna break some guy's heart one day" to which he replied "he's not Gay". Duh!?!?!?!?!?!
Heartfelt. Great interview I can still see the hurt and pain in David's eyes and they way he speaks about himself. He needs not to be ashamed for who he is.
Always easier said than done!! He struggled for years but it appears that he is finally beginning to accept himself. I’m happy he doesn’t have that weight on his shoulders anymore!!!
@@stacia2719 I think David struggled for so long because he didn't think his faith would accept him sometimes the church puts to much pressure on people
@@johnleonard6878 The LDS faith instills toxic perfectionism, and they are NOT accepting of LGBTQ people. I have personal experience with this, as my entire ward was under the impression that I was a lesbian, due to my preference for male typical clothing, activities and employment. I just didn't fit in to their pre-conceived notion of how females should dress and behave.
@@johnleonard6878 And his FAITH WON'T accept him when he is no longer staying Celibate as long as these are Feelings he is "Struggling with" he can stay But they will EXCOMMUNICATE the MINUTE they know find out he has engaged in SEX with a MAN... Come ON he is 30 years old and ADORABLE as FU(K does ANYBODY think for ONE MINUTE he hasn't hooked up with a SINGLE HOT BOY or SeXXy Daddy....????
I suspected that when he deleted gay men from his Facebook way back when he was starting out. This breaks my heart to hear of his struggle. This very struggle is what activists have been working to overcome. Today is a new day. Love yourself David as much as everyone else does. Including God and your church.
I am a Christian man. And I felt I let God down. And finally broke down and no answers prayed to God and said I am at the end and have no answers and my hand come to my mouth and in my voice said. I’ve been waiting for you to come to me. You are my child you are not alone and this gave me great peace. Since that moment a lot of people sent to me through God to say ai am truly a child of God. And God is who I serve 1000 %
Dude, I am thankful for your gifts to us all. Be you, be real, be true and be the wonder you are. Our Lord made you and he dosent make mistakes. As a gay man myself I know what your trials have been. Best thoughts, Jon Ross
David is totally adorable. It has nothing to do with whatever sex is involved. I love him as a person and will continue to love him. If I had a son , I would wish him to be as beautiful and talented as David.
Thank you for not giving up David Arch, and for courageously sharing your story. You are loved tremendously, just the way you are. Keep growing and shining.
I can relate to him so much. I remember when I first knew that I was gay, but as I gotten older, I finally came to terms with it. I grew up in such a religious house hold. I use to hide my sexuality from everyone. Once I moved out at age 22, I was free, I started to come to terms with who I was. I like that David keeps his relationship with god. So many gays are afraid of the churches. I still have a relationship with god now at age 42, I pray everyday. I know god loves us all regardless of our sexuality. 🙏😇
I knew you were struggling with your sexuality since you were on American Idol. Your eyes speak volumes about the pain you're carrying. Be proud of who you are no matter what . I know someday you're eyes will radiate peace, acceptance, and happiness.
This interview tore my heart out. No human being should feel as low as he felt about their sexuality. I'm thankful that he is slowly starting to accept how he is, but man, no one knew what a struggle it's been for him. I want to give him a hug. The next tour he goes on, I'm gonna. lol
As difficult as it is to hear and accept, God does not condone homosexuality. It is clear in His Word. He loves everyone and will grant forgiveness if/ when we repent. God provides what is necessary to resist temptation. Whether it be premarital sex between a man and a woman or sex with the same gender, God offers a way out EVERY TIME we feel tempted in ANY WAY.
I hope he surrounds himself with people who genuinely love him as he is. I escaped the madness of man made religion. It's hard to undo all those years of brainwashing but worth every tear. It's completely possible to live authentically and have a relationship with your creator, whatever you believe that to be. Blessings on his journey💓
I get that! I actually found a very small church group that accepts everyone…I just haven’t been able to go…and take that leap I guess. Not all Christians are the same. I accept everyone. God just tells me to love everyone that’s it. No questions asked.
@@JCAdolphson and that 'true self' would be what, exactly? Confused, frightened, unsure, and/or not be confident enough to tell others to go jump in the lake? Sorry, but at his age he should be a lot further along on his journey through this life. But it seems he is unable to free himself to do just that. Unfortunately!!! And, for anyone else< in similar situations. But he alone is in control of his life. Or should be. But from what he says, he is still not in the drivers seat, steering! I wonder why not? I wonder when he will have the confidence to do so? I wonder when he will allow himself to be who/what he is and be able to accept what gives him unique pleasure? I wonder if he will ever stand on his own two feet and say " This is who I am. Take it or leave it! I do NOT care what you think. But I do need to live my own life; I need to make myself happy---- so all the rest of you---- just stay in your own lanes!!! In the meantime he is burning daylight! Which is not replaceable! And this is true for anyone who is not living their true, unique truth. Whether him, or any Afghan not allowed to be themselves, et al, etc, etc, etc. Sad. Tragic. Such a waste of unique, human potential.
@@paulortiz2035 okay, I couldn’t tell your stance in the first comment, but now I see where you are coming from. I agreed, though we all are on a scale, proclaiming bi if you’re only 10 percent straight is more about appeasement. Labels didn’t even exist in the old natural world when sexual fluidity went without question.
Aww, I loved David Archuleta SO MUCH when he was on American Idol, and though I lost track of his career somewhere around his second album, I've always had a soft spot in my heart for him... and now hearing him talk about his struggle to accept his sexuality and his confusion over it resonates with me, having experienced a lot of the same questioning and confusion myself, so I'm very proud of him for taking this important step in coming to terms with his true self. Much love to him, I'm glad I'm seeing him next year in concert (if it doesn't get rescheduled again).
Courage personified . . My daughter interviewed David many, many years ago after a show in NY. She said he was wonderful , kind, fun, spirited and that the show was wonderful . She encouraged him to do a Christmas album as I’m sure many others did also ! Bless you, David. There is no shame in being exactly who you are. ❤️❤️
Im also in the same situation with him having that religious belief that being attracted to same sex is evil especially to have an intimate relationship with a man we already disobeying the will of god we always think about that we dont have salvation.This is root cause of all anxiety leading to depression, If you r in that situation i saw myself broken and not worth living for.In church they teach us not to dwell immorality what the world can offer to us or our own desire we have the power of self control. Im a closeted gay ,im ashamed of myself revealing to reveal my true identity.everyday of my life is a struggle
I'm so glad he realized that his presence on this earth is so important to all people!! You are a gift and I can bet that you will help so many young people who are feeling the same struggles, their faith and sexuality. We can't lose one more young person to feeling like they are less than just because of who they love!! ♥
I really don't care if David is gay, straight, or bi. He is a very beautiful person. I am gay and the really big regret that I have is not coming out to my parents before they died. David, I support you in your journey. Questions are welcome if you want to talk.
Sorry, but why would I EVER want to come out to my parents??? Really isn't anything for them to be concerned about. And I certainly don't need any help with my private life! Esp not from 'the folks'!!! I surely don't want to know how I was conceived, where or even why! It just isn't my business, is it? Nor is it anyone's business who I'm poking it to, either, nor why, when, how often, etc, etc! I absolutely don't understand this over sharing of non-essential information with people who are not involved in any way, shape or form! Can't anyone keep a secret these days??? Seems not!
I've known David personally for many years since he was a teen. He's a wonderful man, and I would that most of us could be as kind and sweet, as he is. He is a true believer.
This has been a tremendous boost to many Christians who struggle with their faith and the fear of acceptance by their worship family in the church. We are all created by God in his image and should not live in pain for something we truly cannot control. Thank you… God is using your message… blessing to you as you have blessed many in His name.
@@jaygordon7613 Yea but they also believe Climate change isn't man made and that Donald Trump was a good choice for president.. and that God will protect them from Covid19 so they don't need to wear a mask... And I say they should hold to their faith in fact they should PACK the CHURCH every Sunday and Wednesday for prayer meeting... and Hugs and Kisses to every person attending , and SING at the top of their lungs EVERY HYMN, and STAY for the potluck and share bites and DANCE and then HUG and KISS EVERYBODY goodbye and do it ALL again NEXT WEEK ... God Bless
Thanks for posting MJ. David has given so much to so many it's heartbreaking to know how much he's been through and still, he has a long way to go. Bless him.
Still loving david. After many years, youre still the best kid we know and love. And coming out makes you one step for feeling better, youve been in many battles
Omg.. watching this interview reminds me of myself. I saw myself on him. I too struggled for being bisexual and I tried to ignored the feeling but I can't because I've been in love with my best friend for 8 years now. I'm too afraid to admit it to myself that I like both gender. I am a religious person and I prayed to God to change me so many times and today I finally admitted to myself that I'm bisexual. It's was a big step for me to accept myself .
@@jaygordon7613 It is God who does not accept sin from anyone. Luckily we have a Savior who died for us giving us the opportunity to repent for our sins. It would be easier on all of us if we would avoid the barbershop all together if we dont want to get our hair cut, than hang around it all day. It is the same with any sin.
@@LANDAWG15 WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT Barber shop BS what is MORE BS is you suggesting that David being Gay is a sin... Jesus doesn't say one word about being GAY and We are BORN the WAY we are BORN. and God doesn't create us the way we are just to send us to hell ..
Sending him lots of love and good vibes ..we live in a world that’s obsessed with labels .. fuck that be you love you and love whoever you want ..to me what’s the most important in this crazy difficult world we live in is to be the best you could be and focus on being a good person that is kind to yourself and others !!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hi David . Thank you for your honesty & courage . You are not alone . Speaking from my personal experience as a gay man God's love, mercy & grace is GREATER than our sexuality . There are spiritual gay people who have accepted Jesus as their saviour . I believe God has a special purpose for our lives as gay people . Faith, Hope & Charity but the greatest of these is LOVE . Mark (Toronto) 💔🧡💛💚💙💜
So many gay Mormons! I had a dinner with a gorgeous LDS man this week! He is dating a woman but struggling to accept his self which I found obviously gay. Whatever that means. He said he could see himself being either one. I was from a non-denominational family myself and it took a toll on me trying to accept my sexuality. I feel for David. I hope he can reconcile his feelings. I’ve always had major feelings for David Archuletta since his American Idol days. I could feel his sexuality was an issue. I’ve also wish I could protect and care for David. His stress or anxiety felt palpable to me. I wanted to take him in. I’ve been waiting for this day to come. I wish I could hug David and be his friend and take him under my wing. God bless this sweetheart.
@@2004cyrus The difference is, you craftily worded your mile long comments with subtle hints of where you were going with it, when you could have simply said, "I have strong feelings for David and wished we were in a relationship." That's it, 13 words directly stating your mind, rather than a mile long comment which ends up essentially saying the same thing. Maybe the question should be, why did you feel a need to be subtle instead of a simple direct to the point comment?
It breaks my heart to see him still struggling coming to terms with who his is genuinely. He’s still caught up in admitting he’s gay, and in his mind, I feel he thinks being bi is the lesser of two evils. There’s a religious aspect that is preventing him living his life authentically. What other people will think, and how it will affect my life. As a gay man myself, I know what I’m hearing and watching. As LGBTQ+ people, we know. This is his journey, and he needs to know he owes no one a explanation. He needs to know God loves him just the way he is, just as God would a straight man or woman. When you accept yourself for who you are, living your truth, honestly and genuinely, no one can ever take that from you. You’ve set yourself free from the bonds of oppression; religion.
This is the same reason of what happened to Colton Underwood with his erratic behavior and his social media haters need to look at themselves in the mirror.
You stated how I've felt about this for the past few weeks perfectly. This is not the case of someone comfortable in their sexuality coming out and living their truth. Bisexual men absolutely exist and can live out and proud lives, but this is not it. Growing up gay and repressing those thoughts because of your religion is one of the most life altering experiences anyone can have. It's hard to describe to others just how much it can affect our own sense of self and sexual being. "Lesser of two evils" in his case is right, as this allows him a way to acknowledge his feelings for men while behaving in a way his church deems acceptable.
You are absolutely right about this and honestly he probably should've waited before trying to come out. I'm afraid the scrutiny won't be healthy for him.
David has to be himself. Even though I didn’t know him personally , I can remember feeling he was gay back during his American Idol performances. You can’t pray it away! I tried that for many years and it does not work. I’m still not out to family who are hundreds of Miles away , but I am out to myself , all friends , clients and my work family! It’s a journey ! I wish David some peace. God does not desire that we struggle in our personal life. I just hope he doesn’t wake up at 70 and he’s still alone because of non-acceptance of what is!
Hi James, what a warm and open guy you are, bless you, you will find that right person. I like you have not come out to my family and I'm 59, lol crazy I know. But I know one thing, my heavenly Father made me and we are all perfectly made in His Eyes. You truly inspired me to leave your good self a message. God Bless you as well. XX
Hi, James I fully respect your good self, it has taken 50 years to accept who I am. I pray you do not follow my example and throw away all the good years I spent pretending to be someone I'm not. I wish you love and true happiness
@@2users828 I don't think it's available... david just mentioned on his IG live that they did a long interview but only aired 3mins (GMA) and 7mins (night line).. not sure if there's any other!
He's a good man. I always liked him. Hopefully he can figure himself out on his own terms, make peace with wherever he falls on the spectrum of sexuality, and live a happy life where he can be true to himself and love himself. It's pretty scary to navigate, and I was lucky enough to not be raised in a strictly religious environment (though I grew up in the south, so homophobia was still a constant presence... except from my parents, who are both very accepting people). I can't imagine how tough it's been for him to work through this with the upbringing he's had in the Mormon church.
It's very brave of him to finally come out. He's such a gentle guy with one of the best and unique voices ever. Congrats for daring to be your true self David
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints does NOT believe LGBTQ's are corrupt, evil, bad or wicked. We love ALL people. We follow Jesus Christ and we strive to follow his commandments. We join many other Christians around the world in the belief that the same gender sex (NOT same gender attraction) is sinful (Romans 1:26-27). But just because we believe that, it doesn't mean that we think the person who participates in that lifestyle is any less than anyone else. As other Christians, we also believe that sex before marriage (fornication) is sinful. It doesn't mean that person is any less than anyone else. We believe that emotionally abusing your spouse, stealing and cheating is sinful. That doesn't mean the person who participates in those activities is any less of a person. We ALL sin and fall short of the glory of God and we all must repent of all our sins. This is how we become more like Jesus Christ. We love David Archuleta. He has been a bright light for thousands of youth and young adults in our church. I wish him well through this difficult journey ahead. My hope is that he will cling to Jesus Christ and stay faithful to the promises he has made to him.
Wow. Such a wonderful, honest interview. I went through a lot of the same feelings and experiences. I've never heard anyone interviewed who spoke about such things honestly and openly. You're a wonderful person David and I'm glad you decided to stay in this world. The world needs many more kind, sensitive people like you.
I had the exact same experience being brought up in a Christian family and I think he's gonna break free even more in the coming years just like me. Now I'm agnostic and just believes in the religion of love and kindness.
You are amazing just for being you and being so honest and genuine and putting God first with whatever you face. Thank you for being so brave and making it easier for others struggling with the same thing. 💗🙏
I always felt like there was something there with him since he first started, glad to see he is figuring it out. It is not an easy journey, been there myself.
I never thought that there would be any G-d that would demand that someone go through a life of misery and unhappiness, plus lying to themselves. Any truly loving G-d would want each person to be the best "them" that they could be and find love and happiness. I am so glad that David Archuleta is discovering that happiness. He is so talented! He was from the start. Unfortunately, I think his religion held him back in so many ways. Not only as being true to himself but also as an entertainer. May he have a very long career. I hope he has found or will find his true love, no matter who it is. Blessings upon him!!!
Totally relate! It is like a grieving process, when you realise you're not who you wanted yourself to be. I'm so glad he's found the courage to accept the way he is which is perfect. Bless you ❤️
Loved you from the first time I saw you on American Idle and im sorry that you have had to fight such a battle within your self and your faith. I know how hard it can be as I had to go down the same path myself! Breath, relax and remember GOD made you and will always love you! I hope the gentleman in your church that you came out to knows that he help bring peace to you and may of saved your life just by the way he responded to you :) David you are a gift your your family, yourself and the world! Thank you, James Faurentino
I am 63 years old so I was Gay before the title Gay was even given. As I watched and listened totally identifying with his pain. Over the years the bashing although less still continues to tear at my soul. I hope that people can see and feel the damage that all youth has to endure from the judgment of institutions that are unable to practice what they preach. I would like to tell David that my husband saw him as a star from the very first audition. LOL He would say "he has to be Gay just looking into his eyes you can see the compassion and hear the intensity in his voice" Scott passed away four years ago but not before following David's success and struggle along the way. His strong belief was that God knows what he is doing. Funny how there are those who say they speak for God... I for one don't feel he needs help after all with the title of "Creator of all Things" I'm sure he has a plan for all of us HATERS included. To David I say stay strong, stay safe, and be well may the years bring you comfort and happiness, and accept in your heart that you deserve it.
I hope David gets to see this. I’m sorry for what you had to go through by yourself. I hope god restores for all the lost time and missed experiences. I hope you find happiness and get to be yourself. I’m also from SLC.
Bless you David. You have my support. It’s not easy. I have family members who have been where you are. They have left the church. However, my sister defends the church, even though she no longer attends. She is finally at peace with herself, and her life. I’m glad you are comfortable talking about your struggles.
I was very impressed and kept voting for that magnificent voice of yours during Idol. I cannot be more proud and so happy for you making in discovering who you really are! You are a fantastic person with skills beyond many and I hope and pray you are at peace with yourself and God!
He said he was on the asexual spectrum too, so I wouldn't say it like that... it's not necessarily about who we sleep with, but about people we are attracted to - sexually or not
David!!! Loved your music and your voice since the beginning!! Forget what other people think.. Be YOU! You can have your faith its a part of you. But your feelings matter too.. find that balance.
Your Excellent the way you are bro. God loves you and everyone unconditionally. God see’s you as your perfect self just the way you are. Thanks for being open and sharing your feelings. You will help many guys know they are loved by God unconditionally also.
David Cook, who won American Idol over Archuleta, is my favorite "Idol" ever. I still remember how mad Cook would get when interviewers would ask him about Archuleta's sexuality. He was just like "The kid is 17, leave him alone." I also remember hearing that Archuleta had taken a hiatus from music for missionary work and thinking that was probably a good move. At least the getting away from the limelight at that age.
I know some17 year olds who no they are gay and happy with that, also no some 14 year olds who have figured out that they like boys , so age is not a question , the confusion comes from being excepted by parents and straight people. God has nothing to do with acceptance. Check coming out stories on face Book.
@@Mcfreddo What part of thinking it's good to get out of the limelight is toxic? Y'all need to learn how to read. Just because I didn't specifically say anything bad about religion doesn't mean I'm at all *about* religion and I sure the hell didn't say I was, either. Take it down a notch.
Go David. We are your fans through and through. You are a beautiful soul with a beautiful heart and voice. Thanks for sharing your self with us. We love you!!!
David, oddly God's Beloved, I am a mirror of your heart for God, only at 71 have spent my life. I would like to give you a gift. Romans 11:32 For God has bound everyone over to disobedience so that he may have mercy on them all. I have exactly the same struggles sexually that you do. On my 30th anniversary as a Christian, I begged God for an answer as to why I would still have desires for men. I realized that I was given this burden so that God could show me his mercy. I vowed to give him my best even in the many times of failure and his mercies have continued till today. Jotta A another beautiful Gospel singer just came out and his church slew him. Some of God's greatest gifts are hidden in very difficult places. Your voice and just who you are has blessed me so much. I listen to your music all the time. I love your gentle beautiful spirit. Try not to get into the debate as to whether it is right or wrong, but rather know that it comes along with sin that is imposed on everyone. At the foot of the cross the ground is level. Never forget how new God's mercy are everyone morning! Also, without something in your life that seemingly brings you down, it is hard to understand how profound God's mercy is. As you journey on your life, know that God has a plan for your life and will protect you and guide you. Stay near to God. In the end, my sexuality lead me down some dark paths. For the past 20 years, I have been counseling sexual offenders, offering them their life back. I would give anything to encourage you and share the insights I have learned. Be Blessed Always, and thank you for Silent Night, my all time favorite..
In 2014 he performed for all of us on a deployment in UAE. I met him and got a picture (lost it) but he was so cool & kind I'm wishing him all the peace & love on his journey
I’m LDS and my son is gay. My son knows how much I love him for who he is. I do not wish for him to be anything other than happy, productive and authentic to himself. I know this is a journey for you, but know you are completely loved……..including by your Heavenly Father….as well as so many of us who have watched you grow and who so enjoy your talents.
David Archuleta is one of the nicest, sweetest, and down-to-earth artists I know. I wish him to be happy always.😍
I wish him nothing but happiness and acceptance. He shouldn’t hold any shame or regret for who he is. ❤️
I rooted for you way back when you were on American Idol(The war of the Davids!) and I will still root for you just as you are. You are loved by many people. Keep bringing us your beautiful music.
I remember watching him on Star Search! When he first appeared on Idol, he seemed vaguely familiar, but I couldn't figure out why....I couldn't remember his name from Star Search, but a haunting familiarity pervaded until AI did a bit of a bio, and mentioned SS! Then, the light bulb went off, and I was rooting for him all over again!
Amen me too!
Beautifully said!
David, whoever whatever you are, you're enough.
The comments in this video is just heartwarming.
some are heartwarming others ..NOT so much I Was confronted by a real genuine right wing evangelical Hellfire and brimstone "Christian" named Billy Moss (i think)you should read our exchange... I stand up to him for David and myself and all of my LGBTQ+ brothers and sisters it's pretty good
I read the replies under those heartwarming comments... quite self-righteous actually.
Never apologise for who you are. Celebrate you, you are a unique and individual creation.
This is why I hate labels. We are human beings, just that!
Exactly!!!
Without "labels" you refuse to be true to yourself. Yes we are all human and noone should be forced to hide or deny who they are.
@@markgrange7786 Well I don't introduce myself as "hi, I'm x and I'm gay"... No one should care more than me. That is why I say that labels are superfluous.
@@r.m.2737 agree man!
RM: When David was a big hit on American Idol that never said he was Gay. People were talking about Clay Aiken, & Adam Lambert being Gay!
He's very strong. This is a very humble story.
You are a Child of God. He created you. You have a purpose in this crazy world we live in. May God continue to bless you on this wonderful journey.
@@lutzaby1997 God bless you!!!
@@lutzaby1997 I’ll pray God blesses you
@@lutzaby1997 Lost soul.
@@rickcamp7807 Dude, not everybody believes in God, just let people be.
I appreciate his honesty. He is a good person inside out.
He's such a cutie! Let him be who he is. And I hate when they said girls and older women wanted him, as if they where the only ones. I think it's fair to say both girls and boys wanted him. I can relate so much to David when it comes to being gay and religious.
Amen to that. I remember looking at a friend's son's picture, who happened to be very good looking and telling him "he's gonna break some guy's heart one day" to which he replied "he's not Gay". Duh!?!?!?!?!?!
Its not who he is
@@MeadeSkeltonMusic and how would you know that?
Heartfelt. Great interview I can still see the hurt and pain in David's eyes and they way he speaks about himself. He needs not to be ashamed for who he is.
Always easier said than done!! He struggled for years but it appears that he is finally beginning to accept himself. I’m happy he doesn’t have that weight on his shoulders anymore!!!
@@stacia2719 I think David struggled for so long because he didn't think his faith would accept him sometimes the church puts to much pressure on people
@@johnleonard6878 The LDS faith instills toxic perfectionism, and they are NOT accepting of LGBTQ people. I have personal experience with this, as my entire ward was under the impression that I was a lesbian, due to my preference for male typical clothing, activities and employment. I just didn't fit in to their pre-conceived notion of how females should dress and behave.
@@johnleonard6878 And his FAITH WON'T accept him when he is no longer staying Celibate as long as these are Feelings he is "Struggling with" he can stay But they will EXCOMMUNICATE the MINUTE they know find out he has engaged in SEX with a MAN... Come ON he is 30 years old and ADORABLE as FU(K does ANYBODY think for ONE MINUTE he hasn't hooked up with a SINGLE HOT BOY or SeXXy Daddy....????
I just love him. The silver lining in all this, he is saving lives ❤️
I suspected that when he deleted gay men from his Facebook way back when he was starting out. This breaks my heart to hear of his struggle. This very struggle is what activists have been working to overcome. Today is a new day. Love yourself David as much as everyone else does. Including God and your church.
He is such a sweet angel. Kind hearted human being, he and his mom are amazing. I wish him all the best in life.
I am a Christian man. And I felt I let God down. And finally broke down and no answers prayed to God and said I am at the end and have no answers and my hand come to my mouth and in my voice said. I’ve been waiting for you to come to me. You are my child you are not alone and this gave me great peace. Since that moment a lot of people sent to me through God to say ai am truly a child of God. And God is who I serve 1000 %
Dude, I am thankful for your gifts to us all. Be you, be real, be true and be the wonder you are. Our Lord made you and he dosent make mistakes. As a gay man myself I know what your trials have been. Best thoughts, Jon Ross
David is totally adorable. It has nothing to do with whatever sex is involved. I love him as a person and will continue to love him. If I had a son , I would wish him to be as beautiful and talented as David.
Beautifully said, brother!
Thank you for not giving up David Arch, and for courageously sharing your story. You are loved tremendously, just the way you are. Keep growing and shining.
I can relate to him so much. I remember when I first knew that I was gay, but as I gotten older, I finally came to terms with it. I grew up in such a religious house hold. I use to hide my sexuality from everyone. Once I moved out at age 22, I was free, I started to come to terms with who I was. I like that David keeps his relationship with god. So many gays are afraid of the churches. I still have a relationship with god now at age 42, I pray everyday. I know god loves us all regardless of our sexuality. 🙏😇
Same story here! I’m gay and I pray to God daily. I’m great too! God bless you.
What a beautiful person you are ... Thank you for sharing your story with us all!!!
@@2004cyrus God bless you!😇😇😇
@@TnT24u God Bless! 😇😇😇
Thanks for sharing your story.
IAM so proud and happy for him that now he's accepting himself .thank you now you are helping many people and don't forget that God loves everyone.
I knew you were struggling with your sexuality since you were on American Idol. Your eyes speak volumes about the pain you're carrying. Be proud of who you are no matter what . I know someday you're eyes will radiate peace, acceptance, and happiness.
No matter your sexuality, you are loved for who you are.
Not in America sweetie
This interview tore my heart out. No human being should feel as low as he felt about their sexuality. I'm thankful that he is slowly starting to accept how he is, but man, no one knew what a struggle it's been for him. I want to give him a hug. The next tour he goes on, I'm gonna. lol
I agree wholeheartedly. I was in tears feeling his pain and suffering. God is love to all people.
As difficult as it is to hear and accept, God does not condone homosexuality.
It is clear in His Word.
He loves everyone and will grant forgiveness if/ when we repent.
God provides what is necessary to resist temptation.
Whether it be premarital sex between a man and a woman or sex with the same gender,
God offers a way out EVERY TIME we feel tempted in ANY WAY.
@@marymoeller8144 Sadly, not according to the bible.
@@Julie-kb3mo When did you choose your sexual orientation? Because this isn't a conscious choice.
@@jaygordon7613
I understand this.
That's why it's such a struggle ~ knowing that it's against God's will.
I hope he surrounds himself with people who genuinely love him as he is. I escaped the madness of man made religion. It's hard to undo all those years of brainwashing but worth every tear. It's completely possible to live authentically and have a relationship with your creator, whatever you believe that to be.
Blessings on his journey💓
I get that! I actually found a very small church group that accepts everyone…I just haven’t been able to go…and take that leap I guess. Not all Christians are the same. I accept everyone. God just tells me to love everyone that’s it. No questions asked.
Live your best life be true to yourself…. God doesn’t make mistakes …. He lives in you !
He’s a beautiful human.
Albeit a tortured human. Because of who he wants to love???
Tragic!
@@paulortiz2035 sounds like you’re talking about yourself. He seems relatively healthy by acknowledging his true self.
@@JCAdolphson and that 'true self' would be what, exactly?
Confused, frightened, unsure, and/or not be confident enough to tell others to go jump in the lake? Sorry, but at his age he should be a lot further along on his journey through this life. But it seems he is unable to free himself to do just that. Unfortunately!!! And, for anyone else< in similar situations.
But he alone is in control of his life.
Or should be.
But from what he says, he is still not in the drivers seat, steering!
I wonder why not? I wonder when he will have the confidence to do so? I wonder when he will allow himself to be who/what he is and be able to accept what gives him unique pleasure? I wonder if he will ever stand on his own two feet and say " This is who I am. Take it or leave it! I do NOT care what you think. But I do need to live my own life; I need to make myself happy---- so all the rest of you---- just stay in your own lanes!!!
In the meantime he is burning daylight! Which is not replaceable!
And this is true for anyone who is not living their true, unique truth. Whether him, or any Afghan not allowed to be themselves, et al, etc, etc, etc.
Sad. Tragic.
Such a waste of unique, human potential.
@@paulortiz2035 okay, I couldn’t tell your stance in the first comment, but now I see where you are coming from. I agreed, though we all are on a scale, proclaiming bi if you’re only 10 percent straight is more about appeasement. Labels didn’t even exist in the old natural world when sexual fluidity went without question.
Aww, I loved David Archuleta SO MUCH when he was on American Idol, and though I lost track of his career somewhere around his second album, I've always had a soft spot in my heart for him... and now hearing him talk about his struggle to accept his sexuality and his confusion over it resonates with me, having experienced a lot of the same questioning and confusion myself, so I'm very proud of him for taking this important step in coming to terms with his true self. Much love to him, I'm glad I'm seeing him next year in concert (if it doesn't get rescheduled again).
There is nothing to be ashamed of. No matter if he likes girls or boys, we will still love him exactly the same.
That's not true. Now I love him more. 🤗
@@RamiroBejaranoR Very true! I love him more now as well.
Courage personified . . My daughter interviewed David many, many years ago after a show in NY. She said he was wonderful , kind, fun, spirited and that the show was wonderful . She encouraged him to do a Christmas album as I’m sure many others did also ! Bless you, David. There is no shame in being exactly who you are. ❤️❤️
So heartbreaking that he had to go thru this. I really hope he finds happiness & acceptance.
Im also in the same situation with him having that religious belief that being attracted to same sex is evil especially to have an intimate relationship with a man we already disobeying the will of god we always think about that we dont have salvation.This is root cause of all anxiety leading to depression, If you r in that situation i saw myself broken and not worth living for.In church they teach us not to dwell immorality what the world can offer to us or our own desire we have the power of self control. Im a closeted gay ,im ashamed of myself revealing to reveal my true identity.everyday of my life is a struggle
I agree, everyone deserves to be happy.
I'm so glad he realized that his presence on this earth is so important to all people!! You are a gift and I can bet that you will help so many young people who are feeling the same struggles, their faith and sexuality. We can't lose one more young person to feeling like they are less than just because of who they love!! ♥
I really don't care if David is gay, straight, or bi. He is a very beautiful person. I am gay and the really big regret that I have is not coming out to my parents before they died. David, I support you in your journey. Questions are welcome if you want to talk.
Same here. Well said. He is a sweetheart.
Sorry, but why would I EVER want to come out to my parents???
Really isn't anything for them to be concerned about. And I certainly don't need any help with my private life! Esp not from 'the folks'!!!
I surely don't want to know how I was conceived, where or even why! It just isn't my business, is it? Nor is it anyone's business who I'm poking it to, either, nor why, when, how often, etc, etc!
I absolutely don't understand this over sharing of non-essential information with people who are not involved in any way, shape or form!
Can't anyone keep a secret these days??? Seems not!
He’s Bi
@@Jwdude123 that’s what people claim to be when they are warming to the idea. And want to ease the pain, it’s like lubricant to ease the issue.
@@paulortiz2035 i agree with this, society is obsessed with other people’s bed its stupid
So proud of you David. You have a beautiful soul and are an inspiration in so many ways. Thank you for sharing your true self to set an example.
What a genuine honest human being and great example for us ALL!! 💛🙏🌎
Be who you are, David. Amazingly articulate about an isolating and difficult process.
I've known David personally for many years since he was a teen. He's a wonderful man, and I would that most of us could be as kind and sweet, as he is. He is a true believer.
A true believer, just not in himself you mean?
@@paulortiz2035 David lives a truly Christlike life. And his faith is sealed to his heart.
Yeah sure 😂
This has been a tremendous boost to many Christians who struggle with their faith and the fear of acceptance by their worship family in the church. We are all created by God in his image and should not live in pain for something we truly cannot control. Thank you… God is using your message… blessing to you as you have blessed many in His name.
The problem is, many who believe in God and Christ believe that sexual orientation is a conscious choice.
@@jaygordon7613 Yea but they also believe Climate change isn't man made and that Donald Trump was a good choice for president.. and that God will protect them from Covid19 so they don't need to wear a mask...
And I say they should hold to their faith in fact they should PACK the CHURCH every Sunday and Wednesday for prayer meeting... and Hugs and Kisses to every person attending , and SING at the top of their lungs EVERY HYMN, and STAY for the potluck and share bites and DANCE and then HUG and KISS EVERYBODY goodbye and do it ALL again NEXT WEEK ... God Bless
He has a good heart and that's what matters
David I am so happy for you that you shared this about yourself and want you to know you absolutely have helped many many others by doing so. Hugs
Thanks for posting MJ. David has given so much to so many it's heartbreaking to know how much he's been through and still, he has a long way to go. Bless him.
This is my life story. Thank you, David, for coming out!!!
I’m proud of you David, it’s not about who you love it’s about your character, and you’re a great guy! Love is love, we’re all rooting for you!
You shouldn't bash someone's character based on their sexual orientation.
He should just be himself God will love him regardless.
God loves him as he was designed, not necessarily what he does.
@@millenniumman75 Lol exactly God loves him regardless.
@@bicknell67 Wrong - his sin is keeping him from Heaven - I Corinthians 6:9-11. Read it again. Do not be deceived.
@@millenniumman75 Remember humans wrote the bible and I don't think God looks down on people he created.
before I admire you now I admired you more.. be yourself.. God bless !
He is so talented and seems to be such a sweet and kind person. I am glad he is now living his truth.
David just stay at Jesus feet always you doing His work blessings always Shalom
Still loving david. After many years, youre still the best kid we know and love. And coming out makes you one step for feeling better, youve been in many battles
Omg.. watching this interview reminds me of myself. I saw myself on him. I too struggled for being bisexual and I tried to ignored the feeling but I can't because I've been in love with my best friend for 8 years now. I'm too afraid to admit it to myself that I like both gender. I am a religious person and I prayed to God to change me so many times and today I finally admitted to myself that I'm bisexual. It's was a big step for me to accept myself .
Love how he keeps God first in his life. He is always just trying to be a good person
And it's a pity his own church will never accept him as he is.
@@jaygordon7613 It is God who does not accept sin from anyone. Luckily we have a Savior who died for us giving us the opportunity to repent for our sins. It would be easier on all of us if we would avoid the barbershop all together if we dont want to get our hair cut, than hang around it all day. It is the same with any sin.
One does not need to believe or keep a god in their life to be a good person. Religious people don't hold a monopoly on morality.
@@jaygordon7613 Bruh
@@LANDAWG15 WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT Barber shop BS what is MORE BS is you suggesting that David being Gay is a sin... Jesus doesn't say one word about being GAY and We are BORN the WAY we are BORN. and God doesn't create us the way we are just to send us to hell ..
Sending him lots of love and good vibes ..we live in a world that’s obsessed with labels .. fuck that be you love you and love whoever you want ..to me what’s the most important in this crazy difficult world we live in is to be the best you could be and focus on being a good person that is kind to yourself and others !!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hi David . Thank you for your honesty & courage . You are not alone . Speaking from my personal experience as a gay man God's love, mercy & grace is GREATER than our sexuality . There are spiritual gay people who have accepted Jesus as their saviour . I believe God has a special purpose for our lives as gay people . Faith, Hope & Charity but the greatest of these is LOVE . Mark (Toronto) 💔🧡💛💚💙💜
Charity is the pure love of Christ.
@@RitsychServare thank you Shierra . I am lost without God's unconditional love
So many gay Mormons! I had a dinner with a gorgeous LDS man this week! He is dating a woman but struggling to accept his self which I found obviously gay. Whatever that means. He said he could see himself being either one. I was from a non-denominational family myself and it took a toll on me trying to accept my sexuality. I feel for David. I hope he can reconcile his feelings. I’ve always had major feelings for David Archuletta since his American Idol days. I could feel his sexuality was an issue. I’ve also wish I could protect and care for David. His stress or anxiety felt palpable to me. I wanted to take him in. I’ve been waiting for this day to come. I wish I could hug David and be his friend and take him under my wing. God bless this sweetheart.
Really how palpable? Take him in from? Just curious 😉 smile?
@@jameszred3062 too palpable. I wanted to have him move in with me and escape the madness while I do my best to care love and comfort him
Why not just says you have intimate feelings for the guy and wish he could be with you? For that's what all you said sums up to.
@@f.marshall8268 what’s the difference ?
@@2004cyrus The difference is, you craftily worded your mile long comments with subtle hints of where you were going with it, when you could have simply said, "I have strong feelings for David and wished we were in a relationship."
That's it, 13 words directly stating your mind, rather than a mile long comment which ends up essentially saying the same thing. Maybe the question should be, why did you feel a need to be subtle instead of a simple direct to the point comment?
He just loves all types and kinds of people. I think that is lovely and should be celebrated. Love is always good
Amen
Yes I love Latino and Hawaiian man and Caribbean and Italian and Greek andRussian
To be gay is a blessing,people who claim to have faith but don't love unconditionally aren't worth the time of day
@@lorenzobianchini4415 ABSOLUTELY Speak the TRUTH to all the religious Bigots
It breaks my heart to see him still struggling coming to terms with who his is genuinely. He’s still caught up in admitting he’s gay, and in his mind, I feel he thinks being bi is the lesser of two evils. There’s a religious aspect that is preventing him living his life authentically. What other people will think, and how it will affect my life. As a gay man myself, I know what I’m hearing and watching. As LGBTQ+ people, we know. This is his journey, and he needs to know he owes no one a explanation. He needs to know God loves him just the way he is, just as God would a straight man or woman. When you accept yourself for who you are, living your truth, honestly and genuinely, no one can ever take that from you. You’ve set yourself free from the bonds of oppression; religion.
Amen 🙏
This is the same reason of what happened to Colton Underwood with his erratic behavior and his social media haters need to look at themselves in the mirror.
You stated how I've felt about this for the past few weeks perfectly. This is not the case of someone comfortable in their sexuality coming out and living their truth. Bisexual men absolutely exist and can live out and proud lives, but this is not it. Growing up gay and repressing those thoughts because of your religion is one of the most life altering experiences anyone can have. It's hard to describe to others just how much it can affect our own sense of self and sexual being. "Lesser of two evils" in his case is right, as this allows him a way to acknowledge his feelings for men while behaving in a way his church deems acceptable.
Don't be biphobic bro...
You are absolutely right about this and honestly he probably should've waited before trying to come out. I'm afraid the scrutiny won't be healthy for him.
David has to be himself. Even though I didn’t know him personally , I can remember feeling he was gay back during his American Idol performances. You can’t pray it away! I tried that for many years and it does not work. I’m still not out to family who are hundreds of Miles away , but I am out to myself , all friends , clients and my work family! It’s a journey ! I wish David some peace. God does not desire that we struggle in our personal life. I just hope he doesn’t wake up at 70 and he’s still alone because of non-acceptance of what is!
Hi James, what a warm and open guy you are, bless you, you will find that right person. I like you have not come out to my family and I'm 59, lol crazy I know. But I know one thing, my heavenly Father made me and we are all perfectly made in His Eyes. You truly inspired me to leave your good self a message. God Bless you as well. XX
Hi, James I fully respect your good self, it has taken 50 years to accept who I am. I pray you do not follow my example and throw away all the good years I spent pretending to be someone I'm not. I wish you love and true happiness
Producers tried to sell him as a straight idol but it wasn't credible at all.
It works. Just because you're gay doesn't me you have to act on your FEELINGS / perversion. We are not animals.
Wait your family disowned for being gay?
thanks for sharing this!! I really wish they'd show the whole hour & a half interview..
Where can we watch the hour and a half interview?
I think it's on Night line.
@@2users828 I don't think it's available... david just mentioned on his IG live that they did a long interview but only aired 3mins (GMA) and 7mins (night line).. not sure if there's any other!
He's a good man. I always liked him. Hopefully he can figure himself out on his own terms, make peace with wherever he falls on the spectrum of sexuality, and live a happy life where he can be true to himself and love himself. It's pretty scary to navigate, and I was lucky enough to not be raised in a strictly religious environment (though I grew up in the south, so homophobia was still a constant presence... except from my parents, who are both very accepting people). I can't imagine how tough it's been for him to work through this with the upbringing he's had in the Mormon church.
Love yourself and accept yourself for who you are. Never change for others.
It's very brave of him to finally come out. He's such a gentle guy with one of the best and unique voices ever. Congrats for daring to be your true self David
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints does NOT believe LGBTQ's are corrupt, evil, bad or wicked. We love ALL people. We follow Jesus Christ and we strive to follow his commandments. We join many other Christians around the world in the belief that the same gender sex (NOT same gender attraction) is sinful (Romans 1:26-27). But just because we believe that, it doesn't mean that we think the person who participates in that lifestyle is any less than anyone else. As other Christians, we also believe that sex before marriage (fornication) is sinful. It doesn't mean that person is any less than anyone else. We believe that emotionally abusing your spouse, stealing and cheating is sinful. That doesn't mean the person who participates in those activities is any less of a person.
We ALL sin and fall short of the glory of God and we all must repent of all our sins. This is how we become more like Jesus Christ. We love David Archuleta. He has been a bright light for thousands of youth and young adults in our church. I wish him well through this difficult journey ahead. My hope is that he will cling to Jesus Christ and stay faithful to the promises he has made to him.
Wow. Such a wonderful, honest interview. I went through a lot of the same feelings and experiences. I've never heard anyone interviewed who spoke about such things honestly and openly. You're a wonderful person David and I'm glad you decided to stay in this world. The world needs many more kind, sensitive people like you.
I had the exact same experience being brought up in a Christian family and I think he's gonna break free even more in the coming years just like me. Now I'm agnostic and just believes in the religion of love and kindness.
You are amazing just for being you and being so honest and genuine and putting God first with whatever you face. Thank you for being so brave and making it easier for others struggling with the same thing. 💗🙏
I’m so glad David finally found who he is, and chose to share it with the world. Thank you David. Good luck on your continuing road of discovery.
I always felt like there was something there with him since he first started, glad to see he is figuring it out. It is not an easy journey, been there myself.
I never thought that there would be any G-d that would demand that someone go through a life of misery and unhappiness, plus lying to themselves.
Any truly loving G-d would want each person to be the best "them" that they could be and find love and happiness.
I am so glad that David Archuleta is discovering that happiness.
He is so talented! He was from the start. Unfortunately, I think his religion held him back in so many ways. Not only as being true to himself but also as an entertainer.
May he have a very long career.
I hope he has found or will find his true love, no matter who it is.
Blessings upon him!!!
Totally relate! It is like a grieving process, when you realise you're not who you wanted yourself to be. I'm so glad he's found the courage to accept the way he is which is perfect. Bless you ❤️
Loved you from the first time I saw you on American Idle and im sorry that you have had to fight such a battle within your self and your faith. I know how hard it can be as I had to go down the same path myself! Breath, relax and remember GOD made you and will always love you! I hope the gentleman in your church that you came out to knows that he help bring peace to you and may of saved your life just by the way he responded to you :) David you are a gift your your family, yourself and the world!
Thank you,
James Faurentino
It should never be, i am who I think others want me to be. Be who you want to be. We are all special and unique in our own ways.
I am 63 years old so I was Gay before the title Gay was even given. As I watched and listened totally identifying with his pain. Over the years the bashing although less still continues to tear at my soul. I hope that people can see and feel the damage that all youth has to endure from the judgment of institutions that are unable to practice what they preach. I would like to tell David that my husband saw him as a star from the very first audition. LOL He would say "he has to be Gay just looking into his eyes you can see the compassion and hear the intensity in his voice" Scott passed away four years ago but not before following David's success and struggle along the way. His strong belief was that God knows what he is doing. Funny how there are those who say they speak for God... I for one don't feel he needs help after all with the title of "Creator of all Things" I'm sure he has a plan for all of us HATERS included. To David I say stay strong, stay safe, and be well may the years bring you comfort and happiness, and accept in your heart that you deserve it.
You are forever wonderful David! Sending love and light your way! 🌈
I hope David gets to see this. I’m sorry for what you had to go through by yourself. I hope god restores for all the lost time and missed experiences. I hope you find happiness and get to be yourself. I’m also from SLC.
God loves him and so do I.
Love is always the key above all things. Never will that ever change.
Bless you David. You have my support. It’s not easy. I have family members who have been where you are. They have left the church. However, my sister defends the church, even though she no longer attends. She is finally at peace with herself, and her life. I’m glad you are comfortable talking about your struggles.
I was very impressed and kept voting for that magnificent voice of yours during Idol. I cannot be more proud and so happy for you making in discovering who you really are! You are a fantastic person with skills beyond many and I hope and pray you are at peace with yourself and God!
People are simply sexual beings. We should not define ourselves by who we sleep with. No more labels.
so very true, wise words.
He said he was on the asexual spectrum too, so I wouldn't say it like that... it's not necessarily about who we sleep with, but about people we are attracted to - sexually or not
Agreed a million percent
I’ve had the biggest crush on him, well, I still do.
David!!! Loved your music and your voice since the beginning!! Forget what other people think.. Be YOU! You can have your faith its a part of you. But your feelings matter too.. find that balance.
I agree Brian, no more labels. Love is Love. Thanks David for sharing your experience, but I knew way back when you were on American Idol...lol!
May he find someone who loves him for who he is and not what he has become......
David you have to be true to yourself and true to your heart. What truly makes you happy.
Congratulations on coming out you are not alone. Many blessings 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 I love you ❤️❤️❤️
Your Excellent the way you are bro. God loves you and everyone unconditionally. God see’s you as your perfect self just the way you are. Thanks for being open and sharing your feelings. You will help many guys know they are loved by God unconditionally also.
Love yourself, and do not live with other expectation. We live once and we must live the best we can be.
Aww David, I completely understand. So proud of you. Welcome to freedom love.
Love this story. David your so brave. Live your life honestly and have FUN. You only live once. A fan from Sydney Australia.
He is loved for being him, an amazing and talented young man... don't be ashamed of anything, you are perfect in every way ❤
It's Ok, David whatever you are, God will always love you. I had the same life experiences as you.
David Cook, who won American Idol over Archuleta, is my favorite "Idol" ever. I still remember how mad Cook would get when interviewers would ask him about Archuleta's sexuality. He was just like "The kid is 17, leave him alone."
I also remember hearing that Archuleta had taken a hiatus from music for missionary work and thinking that was probably a good move. At least the getting away from the limelight at that age.
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I know some17 year olds who no they are gay and happy with that, also no some 14 year olds who have figured out that they like boys , so age is not a question , the confusion comes from being excepted by parents and straight people. God has nothing to do with acceptance. Check coming out stories on face Book.
@@garryconley Not the point at all.
Believing that shit and spreading it further? To even more young gay people, potentially? That's not a good thing.
@@Mcfreddo What part of thinking it's good to get out of the limelight is toxic? Y'all need to learn how to read. Just because I didn't specifically say anything bad about religion doesn't mean I'm at all *about* religion and I sure the hell didn't say I was, either. Take it down a notch.
Go David. We are your fans through and through. You are a beautiful soul with a beautiful heart and voice. Thanks for sharing your self with us. We love you!!!
God bless you David for being so honest and courageous!!! God loves you, no matter what your sexual orientation!!!
God will always guide you to the truth.
May the blessings of Zeus be upon you.
What, the same god that put Trump in the White House according to the Christian Right?
David, oddly God's Beloved, I am a mirror of your heart for God, only at 71 have spent my life. I would like to give you a gift. Romans 11:32 For God has bound everyone over to disobedience so that he may have mercy on them all. I have exactly the same struggles sexually that you do. On my 30th anniversary as a Christian, I begged God for an answer as to why I would still have desires for men. I realized that I was given this burden so that God could show me his mercy. I vowed to give him my best even in the many times of failure and his mercies have continued till today. Jotta A another beautiful Gospel singer just came out and his church slew him. Some of God's greatest gifts are hidden in very difficult places. Your voice and just who you are has blessed me so much. I listen to your music all the time. I love your gentle beautiful spirit. Try not to get into the debate as to whether it is right or wrong, but rather know that it comes along with sin that is imposed on everyone. At the foot of the cross the ground is level. Never forget how new God's mercy are everyone morning! Also, without something in your life that seemingly brings you down, it is hard to understand how profound God's mercy is. As you journey on your life, know that God has a plan for your life and will protect you and guide you. Stay near to God. In the end, my sexuality lead me down some dark paths. For the past 20 years, I have been counseling sexual offenders, offering them their life back. I would give anything to encourage you and share the insights I have learned. Be Blessed Always, and thank you for Silent Night, my all time favorite..
Brother, most of us have all been there. Never, ever, lose your faith. No matter who you end up being, never lose your faith.
In 2014 he performed for all of us on a deployment in UAE. I met him and got a picture (lost it) but he was so cool & kind I'm wishing him all the peace & love on his journey
i knew it , acceptance makes you free , david Arch idol
Big Step... BRAVO!
I’m LDS and my son is gay. My son knows how much I love him for who he is. I do not wish for him to be anything other than happy, productive and authentic to himself. I know this is a journey for you, but know you are completely loved……..including by your Heavenly Father….as well as so many of us who have watched you grow and who so enjoy your talents.
David, you are a lovely person. Be you. I will always remember the video of you and Nathan singing The Prayer.