5 Ways to Get a Younger Woman's Attention (Tips for "Older Guys" Over 40)

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  • @craigzeigler124
    @craigzeigler124 2 роки тому +73

    Perfect. I learned many of these things after my wife died 3 years ago. Being alone for the past 3 years has allowed me to go inward and discover and accept myself.
    I have done a 180 on who I used to be. Extremely satisfying and built my confidence. A woman has to earn me.

  • @anthonyvasquez5128
    @anthonyvasquez5128 2 роки тому +55

    When I was 39 my gf was 21. At 47 I dated a woman who was 29. These relationships lasted a few years. Now I'm 54 and getting to know someone who's about 20 years younger than I. That's how I like it and that's how they like it. And I will continue to get together with younger women. I never plan to be tied down nor do I want to tie anyone down. I never needed dating apps and never plan to use them. I'm not a rich guy, don't have any bling bling. I'm excited and it's awesome knowing I'm going to be getting to know another young lady. What makes this time even better than the others is she's only two doors down.
    Bobby, your tips are right on.

    • @YellowBrailleMeditation
      @YellowBrailleMeditation Рік тому +3

      Hey brother, thanks for sharing and also all the other guys. I lost some of my confidence as I got older. I'm 42, 43 soon and had some doubt about dating younger women. Some told me you can be my dad, we're not on the same age group, you're too old... But its all stories.
      You guys opened up my eyes and there is hope. I don't use dating apps too. I prefer approached women in real life.

    • @anthonyvasquez5128
      @anthonyvasquez5128 Рік тому +2

      @@YellowBrailleMeditation don't lose confidence. not all younger women like older guys but many of them do. lots of them fantasize about an older guy. they are out there. ive even had one straight out come on to me.

    • @Cousinbiddy1
      @Cousinbiddy1 Рік тому +1

      @@anthonyvasquez5128all younger women like older guys

    • @crazyoldbiker938
      @crazyoldbiker938 Рік тому +1

      I am 54 and I plan to pursue a beautiful 30 year old woman who I admire at work. I don't know what to do. I have not been with a woman for 21 years. She is aware of me, and has expressed interest in me, but we have not even talked with each other. She is everything I have ever wanted in a woman and I cannot stop thinking about her. The things that hold me back are related to my concerns about getting in the way of her future and her dreams. I want her very much and I want her to be happy. Overthinking it. 😢

    • @benmartin3351
      @benmartin3351 Рік тому +4

      I'm 46 she's 26. She's my fountain of youth. Pure energy and happiness and isn't all screwed up from 30 years of being in bad relationships. I never looked. She literally approached me and I thought she was kidding. I was looking for the phone in the background taking a video of our interaction. It was real! The experience and the security we give the younger woman is a set of qualities that can never be taken away by a younger man.

  • @Informant_is_back
    @Informant_is_back 11 місяців тому +4

    5:00 The problem with me is that I've always been too good for most women, which has led to my isolation for most of my life.

  • @murphsviews
    @murphsviews 2 роки тому +44

    Top tips Bobby. Especially like the masculinity one.
    Guys who aren’t used to projecting this will be blown away at how powerful it is towards women in the 18-21yo age range in particular.
    They’re apparently 3 times more ‘susceptible’ to it/affected by it than older women and that’s definitely been my experience since I started learning all this stuff in the last 3-4 years (I’m now 43yo).
    I’ve been shocked at the chemistry/connection I’ve been able to create with the young ones who serve me at checkouts and counters and reception desks and so-on in as little as a few seconds.
    Just holding strong eye contact alone with them is incredibly powerful.

  • @pradeepanandraj7985
    @pradeepanandraj7985 2 роки тому +92

    1. I am the prize
    2. Avoid nice guy mistakes
    3. Get on dating apps
    4. Act youthful (not young)
    5. Project masculinity

    • @anhumblemessengerofthelawo3858
      @anhumblemessengerofthelawo3858 2 роки тому +6

      _the map is not the territory_

    • @trw4war322
      @trw4war322 2 роки тому +2

      @@anhumblemessengerofthelawo3858 Yep! Truth has been spoken. There is a difference.

    • @kylewilkinson6975
      @kylewilkinson6975 2 роки тому +2

      Right, I watched the video. Don't need an echo box

    • @MarkDillof
      @MarkDillof 2 роки тому +1

      @@kylewilkinson6975 Yeah, we don't need an echo box!

    • @vishnujk
      @vishnujk 2 роки тому

      Point 4 is very true to be noted ✅️

  • @Steffenwolff
    @Steffenwolff 2 роки тому +13

    I agree with everything except for the dating apps.. I find it very very hard to match with younger women on Tinder while I can attract them in real life

  • @clarkramos2374
    @clarkramos2374 2 роки тому +18

    I do agree very much about youthful and being spontanious ..it's showing positive and confident energy and it works!!lm 54 lm working out alot to keep in shape and to look great and lm seeing a 24 year old girl and l use a great of humour and she s shows how delightful she feels when we meet l treat like a real gentleman and l feel great !!thanks for the advise !!good channel!!

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  2 роки тому +4

      Thanks for sharing!! And glad you enjoy the advice. Have fun with the 24 year old!

    • @scottstone1475
      @scottstone1475 2 роки тому

      Sounds good I'm 56 in good shape but feel totally out of place now. I use to have no problem getting a beautiful girl always much younger. My x of 23 years was 13 years younger. Just ended it. House kids. She's with a younger guy..i feel totally out of place..

    • @denisdowling3971
      @denisdowling3971 2 роки тому +4

      @@scottstone1475 You will get your game back bro. Trust me. If you could get younger women before you can do it again. You just need to get your confidence back.

    • @clarkramos2374
      @clarkramos2374 2 роки тому +2

      @@scottstone1475 don't ever give up there's. Plenty of fish out there just looking and waiting for someone to just look at them ..never lose confidence !!!

    • @clarkramos2374
      @clarkramos2374 2 роки тому +1

      Older guys out there a word of advice never lose confidence there's plenty of fish out there just waiting for some loving guy to ask them out ...believe me and you'll be surprised just believe in your self be happy smile and give it all ya got !!

  • @agedefyingfitness
    @agedefyingfitness 2 роки тому +6

    You’re the best Bobby. I’m 52 and am seeing a beautiful 24 year old woman. No way without people like you educating me. Thank you 🙏 so much Brother!

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  2 роки тому +2

      awesome to hear. Thanks for the comment

  • @BTFives
    @BTFives 2 роки тому +58

    I'm 33 and I've learned something after a year of online dating I wanted to share. After two or three days of texting... don't be afraid to start leaning towards something sexual. Most modern women will go for it and it brings an element of excitement to the conversation. Instead of "how's your day?" Ask them "what's your wildest sexual fantasy?" Usually they are shy and won't tell but that'll spark their interest to ask you the same and this where you shine. Always lean into their pleasure instead of yours when thinking about this answer.

    • @murphsviews
      @murphsviews 2 роки тому +3

      Good tip Travis. 💪👍

    • @bigneiltoo
      @bigneiltoo 2 роки тому +1

      Be a little more implicit but yes.

    • @rambultruesdell3412
      @rambultruesdell3412 2 роки тому +1

      Nice 👍. We date to sooner or later try to breed. As for friend zoned he is preoccupied with the uncertainties.

    • @oceanhedonist265
      @oceanhedonist265 2 роки тому +1

      Don't quit your day job to give dating advice, lol! 🤣

    • @su2sa1li4
      @su2sa1li4 Рік тому

      You can do it in the first day if she like you and if you do the right time when the convo asks for it... Do nofap your energy will tell you.

  • @hectorpla9322
    @hectorpla9322 2 роки тому +15

    I like meeting women personally than on dating apps!...its free, and its alot of fun its good to meet women with groups of firends, and family.

  • @Mr.BigNate
    @Mr.BigNate 2 роки тому +26

    Breh, people need to stop thinking that the advice needs to match their situation exactly. If you can't extract the core content of the info presented, and then apply it to your specific scenario, position, monetary backround, lifestyle. Don't even bother, you've already lost. Stop worrying so damn much. Get out there and shoot your shot. If you need to take your time, then go slow. Move at your own pace regardless of how everyone else moves. That is your power.

    • @alvinlewis5818
      @alvinlewis5818 2 роки тому

      Perfect, advice!🥂

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  2 роки тому +8

      Great point. If something is working for you that is opposite of what I teach, well, keep doing what is working. But if a guy is struggling, and can't figure out why, then try some of these tips.

    • @htetmyakhtun6914
      @htetmyakhtun6914 2 роки тому

      @@BobbyRio please reply me

    • @michaelguinn5736
      @michaelguinn5736 8 місяців тому

      21:00 Bobby, my Wife of 25 years passed away 13 months ago, I'm 66 years old & the thought of dying alone freaked me out so I was on a mad search, my buddies warned me that dating isn't the same, I figured I would wing it. I needed to turn in my lease vehicle & ended up dating the woman that leased me my new pickup, I did everything wrong, she was a control freak. It lasted a few months, but that's ok, I've been watching your videos for the past three weeks(this is how I determined I did everything wrong). Maybe you could do a widower video for men in their 50's & 60's. I was told that you should wait to date after a divorce or becoming a widow, I think that was good advice, thank you for your advice! I have learned a lot!!.

  • @TVsez
    @TVsez 2 роки тому +24

    Appearance: dress to the occasion, keep on top of your trim, workout, smell nice. All of this will get you compliments which will same you feel more confident

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 2 місяці тому +1

    *Younger women often find confidence attractive, so embracing who you are and showcasing your experiences can make a huge difference. Additionally, showing genuine interest in her thoughts and passions creates a strong connection - it's all about engaging in meaningful conversations!*

  • @MartinBurton
    @MartinBurton 2 роки тому +5

    After a lifetime of military experience/law enforcement and extensive travel across Europe as a truck driver...I find that while delivering at places I find that office girls often make a point of making conversation and and on countless occasions I've been asked out...I don't chase anyone...I am 61 and told by girls in their 20s & 30s that I come across as hard as nails...recently I get asked a lot about " Prepping " ...I am married and never allow it to go any further

  • @easternwoods4378
    @easternwoods4378 2 роки тому +212

    Dating apps are a waste of time. Women are on them for the validation. The more matches they get gives them validation. They really have zero interest in actually meeting you, unless you will supply the dinner and flowers.

    • @TheWMBWLife
      @TheWMBWLife 2 роки тому +18

      Couldn't agree more. Just imagine if that's all you had to live for. Yet, paradoxically they admire when guys have a "purpose." No matter what the purpose in life, it's certainly more fulfilling than validation seeking and attention seeking.

    • @carlcutts8535
      @carlcutts8535 2 роки тому +5

      Right

    • @srum4966
      @srum4966 2 роки тому +14

      I'd say that a lot of women are in that category, but there are still some out there who are genuine. However, I took this point as a way to realise that women are not a scarce commodity - thus it makes you feel less needy when you chat and meet them. If she is only after a free meal it's easier for you to make the decision to walk away and find another date another day. It is also a way to just practice texting and chatting even if you don't end up on a date.

    • @TheWMBWLife
      @TheWMBWLife 2 роки тому +1

      @@srum4966 👏👏👏

    • @barriewright6727
      @barriewright6727 2 роки тому +1

      They play games. Youll never meet them. And apps use good looking asian girls which are just models.forget it. Just get yourself an escort for the night.

  • @gilbertcondeza6960
    @gilbertcondeza6960 2 роки тому +3

    I've made a mistakes so many times but u came into my life. then so many things that I learned from you you are my hero.

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  2 роки тому +1

      very glad you're putting stuff to use and seeing success!

  • @Ephesians-xt4xc
    @Ephesians-xt4xc 2 роки тому +2

    Good practical information. Not sure about the dating apps, but the other points are spot on.

  • @sollasollew3208
    @sollasollew3208 2 роки тому +11

    Nice guy mistakes, that's exactly what I did. After a 34 year marriage my wife left me which was crushing, over a period of time I meet a nice lady and completely messed it up as I totally went full on "nice guy" thinking I was doing the right thing. All I did was push her away, at first it was confusing but after watching Bobby Rio video's I understood how I had messed up. Onward and upward with this new understanding.

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  2 роки тому +4

      yea the key is to learn from the mistakes and not make them again.

    • @darkmatterx
      @darkmatterx Рік тому

      i made the same mistake

  • @jeanpaul4100
    @jeanpaul4100 2 роки тому +7

    1. go where the fish are
    2. get in great shape
    3. dress like a boss.

  • @pleni78
    @pleni78 2 роки тому +1

    Hello, I usually don´t write any comments but I have to say your videos are the best of this type I´ve ever seen. I encourage you to keep that good work up. You explain the themes in a way I think everyone can understand. It´s helping me a lot! Congratulations from Spain ;)

  • @rlh125
    @rlh125 2 роки тому +43

    Great video. I’m 57 and generally considered to be a good-looking guy (although I can pick my looks to pieces). I do okay when it comes to getting dates, but I can always learn more and I occasionally need to be reminded of things - which is why I watch Bobby’s excellent videos. A lot of the women I’ve dated were several years younger than I am. My ex-wife was 12 years younger. Here’s something I’ve observed about how being older hurts a guy’s chances when he gets, say, over 55: Many attractive women in their 40s don’t want to think THEY are getting old and slipping in value in the dating marketplace. So, even though they might think the guy is hot, they are reluctant to date someone who is “almost 60! What does that say about me??” I have had that conversation about another guy with a hot 43-year-old woman. The strange thing was, he was a couple of years younger than me and better looking - but she and I were making out not long after she was telling me how she was reluctant to date him because he was so much older. Women. They’re crazy. And I’ve been ruled out by one woman in her early 40s for this same reason, I think.
    Anyway, the point is there comes a time when women start worrying about getting older and losing their options and they become more reluctant to date a man who is very much older than they are. A guy in his mid-40s has a much better chance with women 15 years younger than a guy in his mid-50s does, from what I’ve observed. It’s not an insurmountable problem, but it isn’t a small one either. A guy who is about to turn 50 is “mature and distinguished.” A guy who is about to turn 60 is “a senior citizen.”

    • @Kodwo1
      @Kodwo1 2 роки тому

      Can I have your email address so I can pick your brain by way of a survey(7 questions) for my Psychology degree work? I promise I won't spam you.

    • @Kodwo1
      @Kodwo1 2 роки тому

      I'm wondering why UA-camrs of today are so rigid and complicated.You won't allow URLs in the comments sections at all cost.
      You are you because of viewership and so what happens to your numbers if we decide not to watch?
      Have you considered that?
      What's the point if I can no longer engage like minds freely in the comments section.Then maybe you simply turn off the comments sections and you talk down to us!!!
      Super annoying!

    • @scottstone1475
      @scottstone1475 2 роки тому +5

      That's depressing..im 56 just getting into the dating science. X was 13 years younger. Was together 23 years 4 kids. Now what. I'm not attracted to woman in there 50s at all..thinking of getting a face lift

    • @Kodwo1
      @Kodwo1 2 роки тому

      @@scottstone1475 No intrusive questions.

    • @suzyrokits3993
      @suzyrokits3993 2 роки тому +12

      @@scottstone1475 Don’ t get a face lift. Start doing facial exercises and forget about your age. Why so many guys make such a big deal about this I’ ll never know. Go for the women you want, age non withstanding. Some will like you, some won’t … no big deal. It’ s not a life or death issue, for Godssake.

  • @gilbertcondeza6960
    @gilbertcondeza6960 2 роки тому +7

    To all who wants to learn here, remember every one single wrong move you do there is a chance that she will not date you again... You can't learn in just a single video... Go to the basic first... Moves, mode, time, eye contact, practice flirting, meet 10 girls and observe, they have a different characteristic learn from a single one of them.... Practice practice practice

  • @DanStratocaster1
    @DanStratocaster1 Рік тому +3

    I went on a couple dates with a girl that’s a LOT younger than I. It’s fabulously fun. I felt 30 years younger. Nothing is better than a fresh young face.

  • @jolly7728
    @jolly7728 Рік тому +4

    It's a revolving door, no matter how old or young a man might be. Precious few of these relationships will last, and this is because neither the guy nor the gal can maintain the facade for more than a few weeks, if that long. Once people go back to being who they really are, they just don't seem very special any more. If there isn't a profound reason for two people to be together, such as survival, then folks will substitute that depth with one superficial dopamine fling after another.

  • @djay6651
    @djay6651 2 роки тому +16

    As an older guy, I can say first hand, if you're nit already in the gym, get your ass in there. Start pushing that iron. Once you start to feel physically powerful, that WILL cross over into how you carry and project yourself. People will see you as powerful.

    • @ColonelFredPuntridge
      @ColonelFredPuntridge Рік тому

      But don't press _too_ much iron, or you'll injure your back, or pop a hernia.

    • @antoniobrown1616
      @antoniobrown1616 Рік тому

      This is 100% true.... when you body looks amazing it raises your confidence and now you can offer a younger woman the best of both worlds.... young man's body older man's experience

  • @michaels5166
    @michaels5166 2 роки тому +11

    First of all, you need to make sure men stop explaining themselves to women, and that alone covers 99% of our issues. I like to skate, I like to ride bikes, I like to spin records, so I do, and there's NOTHING anyone needs to say about it. Whatever I have been doing, it's about ME and what makes ME happy. If you need head, need a lot of women, be honest and go for it, because you're not lying nor exploiting anyone. NEVER listen to any woman's take on being a man and your morality, unless it's your wise Momma or grandma, who lived a great life as a WIFE.NEVER have conversations about your money, career, wealth with any woman you are not married to. Then it's her business as far as the family goes. NEVER let he dominate your remote, your fun time, your friendships, unless your friends are doing her some harm. Let her know I am courting you or I am just seeing you and I decide where we go, when ,and how much money I spend. Tell her your company is validation, tell her your word is bond, and then show her you mean what you say. NEVER let any woman threaten you with veiled threats, direct threats, ultimatums, nor be rude , talking over you nor being dismissive. The situations i am in now took some time to cultivate, yet when people see your actions match your words, they have no choice but to stick with you or leave. Over 40???Grow up and stop with the 'sneaker game' or fanboy BS. Get your azz in shape, get yourself well read, get yourself a great timepiece or two, get some nice suits, get some basic shoes with laces, get yourself on LinkedIn, and get yourself aligned with professionals in your chosen field..THEN you're a MAN..Oh and please no shacking up with women. Get a damn house and some land..

    • @michaels5166
      @michaels5166 2 роки тому

      in other words..Pu00y is a dime a dozen, yet women who have your back and will promote your vision are not.

  • @bobross1829
    @bobross1829 Рік тому +1

    Some of mine as an older guy talking to other women:
    1. Yes to act the prize, too many older guys just assume younger good looking women would not like them (unless they spend all kinds of money on them). If you are older, you should think you deserve it and she deserves you. Too many older guys fall all over and simp for them, and then you reap what you sow, as the girls just think you are a chump.
    2. Try to get caught up as possible with some music, computers, internet, social media, movies and pop culture things going on now. That is what you did when you were young, and if single you need to get up to speed. It makes you seem youthful and not some old fogie. However, some ignorance with things younger people do is okay. It can be cute IF you are self deprecating about it.
    3. The main thing you have going for you is experience, so you should be confident and display competence when talking about your life and job (especially if she works in your field). Younger guys freak out and have no confidence. You should be unaffected by things. It displays strength.
    4.Be worldly. You probably traveled and seen things, been to cool concerts, restaurants and such. Do not be afraid to show that. With older guys, you can get away with talking about that without being a humblebrag like it would with younger guys. Also shows you have value.
    5. Avoid- "Get off my lawn" type rants, saying things "were better when I was young", excessively talking about "cool" things when you were young. If she asks specific things then answer but many older people do this all the time and it dates you terribly and reinforces that you are older than her. No one wants to hear how much you liked "Cheers" when you were young and they do not make shows like that anymore. Unless younger people ask "what did you watch when young", try not to be Mr. Nostalgia guy.
    6. Love the be youthful. Lot of younger people will think being with you is boring. You do not need to be going to clubs like you re 21, but travel, show you are up for going out to restaurants, concerts and doing cool things. Plus, you should have the money to do them too, so it is attractive to women. If she thinks your day is going home staring at the TV watching Law & Order reruns, she will not be attracted at all unless she is some super homebody type, and no, do not think she is.

  • @jamesokeeffe3216
    @jamesokeeffe3216 7 місяців тому

    This is good stuff. Thank you ☘️❤️🙏

  • @SFbayArea94121
    @SFbayArea94121 2 роки тому +8

    Just whip it out, works for me everytime

    • @jessecolter9085
      @jessecolter9085 Рік тому

      lolol.. hey girls be careful.. there's a pervert in our midsts

  • @Soletcsa
    @Soletcsa 2 роки тому

    Thanks Bobby, this is very clarifying for me. Abrazo.

  • @USSEnterprise123
    @USSEnterprise123 2 роки тому +1

    I'm studying the scrambler. Lots to learn I'm going to go through it again probably need to go through this course 10 times to get it. I'll let you know if it works there's this one girl I like. She's not the only girl in my arena though when she goes cold I talked to a different girl.

  • @ransomemckissick8184
    @ransomemckissick8184 2 роки тому +1

    Excellent video, Bro!

  • @douglash.1268
    @douglash.1268 2 роки тому

    This guy nailed it. Best video "out the scene for a while" older guys.

  • @gilbertcondeza6960
    @gilbertcondeza6960 2 роки тому +1

    I had a teacher in my personal life, and u are my third teacher. I dated girls for 10 years... Please teach me more....

  • @Fortyball
    @Fortyball Рік тому

    Fair play to you Bobby man, great stuff.

  • @thomasng5020
    @thomasng5020 2 роки тому +2

    Crazy, this is right on point

  • @terrytorres5026
    @terrytorres5026 Рік тому +22

    Stay off dating apps. Focus on growing yourself financially, and physically and growing relationships. Women will automatically come to you, like moths to a light. Walking into a coffee shop, casual bar, book store, grocery store, or at meet-up groups. Dating apps are for women that need validation. Only ten percent of men, usually younger, get 80 percent of the 'hits' on dating apps. If you want emotionally damaged women, then join dating apps.

    • @assassin7250
      @assassin7250 Рік тому

      Or date a pool of ex wife 😂

    • @MikeNewland
      @MikeNewland Рік тому +1

      Yup dating ads are using men for validation. Best you can say it's communication practice.

    • @assassin7250
      @assassin7250 Рік тому +1

      @@MikeNewland it is I can confirm.. It's doesn't work out a lot of time everytime I end with "Are you free by any chance for a hangout or setting up a date", immediately they dodge or ghost. Ye iit's only for validation tbh.. the best place is going in person and meeting at events such as nightclubs, bars, lab, raves, concerts, school, but everything gotta be in person tbh

  • @marcelotoniolo4434
    @marcelotoniolo4434 7 місяців тому

    I agree with 90% on what you said. The only thing I absolutely disagree is with dating apps.
    It works if you are good looking, on your 20s or 30s, have a gym body, does sport.
    Otherwise you will be always rejected.

  • @TennisLegends-ebay
    @TennisLegends-ebay 2 роки тому +3

    I feel like a ‘prize’ in day to day life, but online dating just destroys you.
    It’s like I’m two different people…

  • @scampishfoxx3138
    @scampishfoxx3138 2 роки тому +2

    I made the mistake of telling a “ girl” that she is cute, I told her that I find her to be very beautiful the very first time that I saw her, I wasn’t being a “ nice guy” I was being honest. She ran the opposite direction a day later. She still wasn’t to hang out with me and have deep conversations.
    I am an older man,that was my signal that she has absentee daddy issues and she is looking for someone to replace what she never had and play that daddy role Bobby call “ leader”.
    I’m a leader not a chaser.
    I miss her smile but I’m not chasing her or settling. I’m also aware that she has many men who feels the same as I do about her… yes, she’s that cute and sexy. It won’t be hard for her to get a man and she likes to talk to older men/“people “.

    • @su2sa1li4
      @su2sa1li4 Рік тому +1

      When she pull back you do the same. Wait 20 days. And try one more time...

  • @quaidoralious4181
    @quaidoralious4181 2 роки тому

    This is your best point. Younger or older

  • @dickybyrd6865
    @dickybyrd6865 10 місяців тому +1

    Hey Bobby, I’m 70, I’m the f…ing prize as well. Today’s 70,s is yesterday’s 50.

  • @narendrashenoy2865
    @narendrashenoy2865 2 роки тому +1

    Very good insights

  • @tomsullivan8435
    @tomsullivan8435 Рік тому +1

    1) A male lion doesn't have to tell or convince anyone he is the king of the jungle; he just is, and everyone knows it.
    2) The king of the jungle isn't nice, being nice could get him killed or dethroned by a younger male lion.
    3) The king of the jungle puts himself where the game or action is.
    4) The king of the jungle hunts and plays with the energy and vigor of youth.
    5) The king of the jungle projects strength, confidence, and experience.

  • @Larry-hy5rm
    @Larry-hy5rm 2 роки тому +8

    I will be 52 soon and have been single for 23 years. I have been on dating apps for a year and a half and have had no luck whats so ever. All I have met are women that only ask for money and when you say no they disappear. Dating apps are a joke and waste of time. I have even been on Our Time which is a dating app for people 50+ and there are women in their 20s asking for money there to. I can never find a serious mature woman that actually wants something out of life. This makes it almost impossible for me to meet someone because I live in a smaller city that don't have many opportunities for me to go and meet people. We have bars here but I don't drink and I'm diabetic so I can't drink pop either. You can't go sit in a bar and drink water all night, they frown on that. I'm lost on how to meet people and have no idea on what to do about it since I have already tried the dating apps. It's all been a waste of time and money! So list and confused ....

    • @precisionmatters6758
      @precisionmatters6758 2 роки тому +1

      Try a gym or yoga walk at a dog park. Lots of women there.

    • @Larry-hy5rm
      @Larry-hy5rm 2 роки тому +1

      @@precisionmatters6758 I work out 4 to 5 days a week. I don't drink or smoke anymore and I eat healthy. No fast food or greasy food at all and my cholesterol and blood pressure are very good

    • @precisionmatters6758
      @precisionmatters6758 2 роки тому

      @@Larry-hy5rm Hey brother, That's great! Life will fall into place one day or for you. Don't be scared to make any risk.

    • @jorgecordero4528
      @jorgecordero4528 Рік тому

      Agree. It's nothing there but hackers

    • @MikeNewland
      @MikeNewland Рік тому

      Don't aggravate yourself trying the impossible. Hardly anyone over 50 forms a relationship in reality and hardly any women want to. No one tells you that.

  • @elmertabal7717
    @elmertabal7717 2 роки тому +1

    Very timely. Thank you.

  • @michalministr9848
    @michalministr9848 2 роки тому

    Great talk! So much true, except for the dating apps - that doesn't help unless you already know what you are doing, otherwise it just enlarge frustrations... And when you know what you are doing, you don't need any apps...

  • @tonycee
    @tonycee 2 роки тому

    great stuff man!!

  • @sanj1412
    @sanj1412 Рік тому

    🎉🎉🎉very well..From India! All women have same psyche!

  • @TurnipPower110
    @TurnipPower110 11 місяців тому

    What about 36? This was the year I started getting "Woow" type remarks when they ask my age. Does the same apply to me?
    Ppl say I look a few years younger. Is it ok to fudge the numbers?

  • @JOE181-i2x
    @JOE181-i2x Рік тому

    What I got from your viedo is .. I'm Bingo on all points.. 😎👍

  • @htetmyakhtun6914
    @htetmyakhtun6914 2 роки тому +1

    Bobby ! I have a question about $72 thing ? Is that an online book or physical book ? Can you deliver physical book too ?

  • @kakalee5881
    @kakalee5881 Рік тому

    It is true - I am 44 finding myself start to attract 20-40women range much more than before.however I wish I learned your lessons earlier otherwise I would have made those mistakes

  • @garyknapp832
    @garyknapp832 Рік тому +1

    Bobby Rio you are the man WHOOOO

  • @Informant_is_back
    @Informant_is_back 11 місяців тому +1

    9:45 Get _OFF_ dating apps. Don't dignify that superficial bullsh*t. Don't give them the opportunity to swip away your face when they don't even know your virtue.

  • @jasonisjasondoes
    @jasonisjasondoes Рік тому

    As someone who always fails in text, dating apps have done nothing to help after a certain age.

  • @barriewright6727
    @barriewright6727 2 роки тому

    Yo! Hey man. Do you think i look like george clooney? That chat up line wont work either.

  • @bravoniner7367
    @bravoniner7367 2 роки тому

    Nice work.

  • @charleskellymoneytipspodca9121
    @charleskellymoneytipspodca9121 2 роки тому

    Great tips!

  • @Ali-uf5du
    @Ali-uf5du 2 роки тому +1

    Can you do this at work? I work as a security officer at the front desk of an office building. I am constantly trying to determine who is into me and who isn't. It's good practice and helps you find out who to put your energy into but it's so hard when there's so many girls you like in and out constantly .

    • @matthew4694
      @matthew4694 2 роки тому +1

      In my experience it is never a good idea to mix your workplace and personal/dating lives. The risks and complications are never worth the reward.

    • @Ali-uf5du
      @Ali-uf5du 2 роки тому

      @@matthew4694 I know. It sucks, too much pressure. Thanks

  • @eddieroyal2020
    @eddieroyal2020 2 роки тому +1

    I am from India, and I really wanted the whole course "unlock the scrambler", but I don't have credit card, I only have debit card or it would be really helpful if I could make the payment through UPI. Please provide other modes of payment.

  • @bilbobaggins4403
    @bilbobaggins4403 2 роки тому +28

    #6) be rich
    #7) get a good night's sleep
    #8) have a hobby/passion you enjoy more than women
    #9) spend all your time on that hobby
    #10) forget about women and be happy 😊

    • @klopossa2
      @klopossa2 2 роки тому +1

      Kinda..Sept I love women in the right doses...

    • @klopossa2
      @klopossa2 2 роки тому

      Maybe detaching like Aaron Doughty offers might be the key to living with these creatures..

    • @bilbobaggins4403
      @bilbobaggins4403 2 роки тому

      @@klopossa2 remember the Sirens in the Odyssey by Homer.

    • @klopossa2
      @klopossa2 2 роки тому

      @@bilbobaggins4403 no

    • @bilbobaggins4403
      @bilbobaggins4403 2 роки тому +2

      @@klopossa2 watch oh brother where art thou.

  • @crazyoldbiker938
    @crazyoldbiker938 Рік тому +1

    I am 54 and I plan to pursue a beautiful 30 year old woman who I admire at work. I don't know what to do. I have not been with a woman for 21 years. She is aware of me, and has expressed interest in me, but we have not even talked with each other. She is everything I have ever wanted in a woman and I cannot stop thinking about her. ❤❤❤❤❤The things that hold me back are related to my concerns about getting in the way of her future and her dreams. I want her very much and I want her to be happy. Overthinking it. 😢

    • @su2sa1li4
      @su2sa1li4 Рік тому

      Dude, you cant seduce being that atached. You simply cant. You need to let go of this needyness. Talk to her dude. Talk anything

    • @su2sa1li4
      @su2sa1li4 Рік тому +1

      You are wasting time. Show intent fast, or she gonna Friendzone you, and you gonna suffer a lot. I promisse you.

  • @paulcolin9071
    @paulcolin9071 2 роки тому +1

    Good advice

  • @donmccown6645
    @donmccown6645 2 роки тому

    Good stuff!

  • @ColonelFredPuntridge
    @ColonelFredPuntridge Рік тому +1

    When I was in my early 20s, a co-worker and friend, who had gotten more women in college and immediately after than he was able to count, told me the secret of how to get ski-bunnies into bed when going on a skiing trip. He said: find a female friend who is married, and borrow her wedding ring. If any of the ski bunnies where your wife is, say that she had to go on a business trip at the last minute.

  • @clintonking819
    @clintonking819 Рік тому +1

    I'm an older guy " n there's 40 years difference between me n the object of my affection, which is a colleague for 3 maybe 4 years, all I need his her friendship, ( non sexual) but then I got ghosted n first attempt to communicate ( via text) is this a hint she's not interested n any interaction with me outside of the workplace!? Coz that's what my got's telling me.

  • @pete98146
    @pete98146 Рік тому

    Tip number one...go to Philippines!

  • @GUITARTIME2024
    @GUITARTIME2024 2 роки тому +11

    Rule 1: Get your testosterone checked. Low T is rampant in older guys.

  • @knightwalker317
    @knightwalker317 2 роки тому +1

    How to avoid gas lighting ?

  • @7dldrm
    @7dldrm 2 роки тому

    Great job man 👍

  • @andrewoshea5944
    @andrewoshea5944 2 роки тому +1

    Can I use your advice to make the move as my defense when I get charged with sexual assault.

  • @banginghats2
    @banginghats2 2 роки тому +4

    The problem with dating apps is, if you are under 6ft, most women will just automatically swipe left.

    • @alexlaw1892
      @alexlaw1892 11 місяців тому

      Then put your height as 6'1.. 🤔

    • @banginghats2
      @banginghats2 11 місяців тому

      That might work until you actually meet them.@@alexlaw1892

  • @ProfWho-ut5he
    @ProfWho-ut5he 2 роки тому +42

    No, getting on dating apps if older is very bad advice! Bobby, it doesn't work and is a massive waste of time. First, there are no attractive older women on dating apps. Leaves only the significantly younger women, however, they will never ever match you because they can't. They do not see your profile. You can have the most awesome profile, it is utterly useless as the age restrictions ruins everything. You can have the best photos, you can be a multi-millionaire, good looks, and you will still get ZERO matches.

    • @abc2662
      @abc2662 2 роки тому +6

      Not exactly… a lot of beautiful sugar babies target older men. Not really a problem if you are a multimillionaire 😅

    • @ProfWho-ut5he
      @ProfWho-ut5he 2 роки тому +1

      @@abc2662 Yes, but those women are low value and high quality men (multi millionaires are usually high quality) do not want to date such women. I would never ever date such a woman. 'Beautiful' shallow women are still extremely unattractive.

    • @JamesGreenier
      @JamesGreenier 2 роки тому +4

      So true. It’s better meeting women offline. They are everywhere. Plus, you don’t want a woman who’s been on 100 dates and is fools by the illusion of choice. I met my gf 5 years ago at her work. Been happy ever since.

    • @uofuby5
      @uofuby5 2 роки тому +2

      @@abc2662 they're all sugar babies whether they identify as one or not.

    • @naturalhealthrevolution1518
      @naturalhealthrevolution1518 2 роки тому +1

      @@abc2662 🤣🤣🤣

  • @dedeborya9015
    @dedeborya9015 2 роки тому +1

    The move is - a french kiss in public for hello. If she resist - those are her true feelings about you. You cannot negotiate interest & attraction. If she ain't into you - wtf are you doing to waste your time, energy, attention and money on her. Opt out - Walk Away - Cancel future engagements.
    I have dumped several girls this way....and they tell their friends .... and guess who calls me - who thinks its romantic - yep, that's the girl I want.

  • @francisotu9458
    @francisotu9458 2 роки тому

    Thanks for that

  • @puravida5683
    @puravida5683 Рік тому +1

    For older guys living in Central America, South America and Asia. The younger women compete for a mature older man. You literally have the pick of beautiful, sexy and nurturing women.

    • @Danz4251
      @Danz4251 Рік тому

      Yes. I live in Ecuador. And it's a totally different ball game. Older men are viewed as ATM,s. And young girls are a dime a dozen.

  • @claycampbell957
    @claycampbell957 2 роки тому +1

    Confidence and Acting Youthful by far most important. I am not handsome or tall or dress impeccable and as long as you have these 2 beautiful younger women will line up. Oh have fun with the process from the initial contact till the end. You dont need an pile of money or an expensive car. No woman will consider a man who has more money than God if they come off as a creep or some aging relic. They want a mature, take charge, fun and confident man over money. Also, always try and create some sexual energy even on first date. If you do this there is nothing better than dating younger women.

  • @pankah2034
    @pankah2034 Рік тому +2

    What about these many ‘WhatsApp’ commenter out there with fake photos? Is this the new form of scamming?

  • @jessecolter9085
    @jessecolter9085 Рік тому

    Wowie! I've read all the comments and if i was a woman I wouldn't want to kno any of you

  • @msme2400
    @msme2400 2 роки тому +3

    how about staying within 5-6 years of your age? I am in my 40s and prefer men my own age having to be single after a lousy partner pick in my 20s.

  • @RobertJones-gs1vx
    @RobertJones-gs1vx 2 роки тому

    Booby great video how do I get you to coach me

  • @ROCKIN-AL
    @ROCKIN-AL 2 роки тому +3

    I so lost out by not making a move quickly enough, she was a widow, I was respecting her

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  2 роки тому +4

      yes a lot of times we look at it like we are 'respectful' but she looks at it like "there must not be chemistry"

    • @ROCKIN-AL
      @ROCKIN-AL 2 роки тому +1

      @@BobbyRio I was respecting an adequate period of mourning, I didn't expect her to jump in so soon, the thing that hurt is that she said she was waiting for me to ask her out, but she gave me no clues, I dropped hints about my intentions

    • @Sagefrakrobatik
      @Sagefrakrobatik 2 роки тому

      @@BobbyRio throughout my 20s I realize it would've been better to escalate sooner than later. I was always under the impression that women appreciate a man who is patient is willing to wait. Now I realize that is not the case. It's like you are given this window of opportunity when flirting and if you wait she will move on instantly.

    • @learnpianofastonline
      @learnpianofastonline 2 роки тому

      @@ROCKIN-AL I'm working on being the best version of myself. If a woman does not give me any indication that she likes me I am not going to put my ego on the line because she doesn't deserve it. I just don't feel the need to be be vulnerable to a woman who does not show interest in me.

  • @leojim1
    @leojim1 2 роки тому

    Bobby, your own stuff works for older guys? Is the Scrambler suitable for an older guy interested in younger girls?

  • @CraigLewis
    @CraigLewis 2 роки тому +2

    He had me until he mentioned dating apps, most average men get swiped left and Chad & Tyrone get swiped to the right. I’m not 6ft no 6 pack however I’m 6 figures.

  • @mohsenfa7397
    @mohsenfa7397 2 роки тому

    Having a virtual background an talking about high mindset :)

  • @malik-hw8bk
    @malik-hw8bk 2 роки тому

    Good

  • @menorcaventura3442
    @menorcaventura3442 Рік тому +1

    Here is my problem with dating apps: most of the women are mediocre, and at 50, while I have no difficulty pulling matches if I put in a little effort, the juice is not worth the squeeze, even if they are younger, and they all act super entitled to a perfect man. Meanwhile, I can go out to a bar or club, and hot, college age women fawn over me. Just like in sales, there is no substitute for IRL.

  • @tommynikon2283
    @tommynikon2283 2 роки тому

    At 66, my #1 "go to" attention grabber is this: I go to a bar, any bar, and seek out a table of women. I yell...."Who wants FREE Jello shots?!"- and somebody always does. Ok, ALL of them- it's free, right? After a few ice cube trays worth....SOMEBODY will be interested in you. Besides, at 66- I could school Bobby.

  • @gerald828
    @gerald828 2 роки тому +2

    Tom Brady is handsome,rich, and famous. That helps a lot.

  • @snakeeyez8955
    @snakeeyez8955 2 роки тому +1

    I agree with everything except for the dating apps tip. 90% of women on dating apps only swipe on the top %10 of men.

  • @my_tube9405
    @my_tube9405 Рік тому

    Hah. I'm glad the thumbnail image for an age gap relationship wasn't a different Jeremy Irons movie. (Lolita)

  • @diegotejera2742
    @diegotejera2742 10 місяців тому

    Lmao don't bring the ungrateful exes playbook onto the freshly groomed, new field 😂

  • @markpommett5712
    @markpommett5712 2 роки тому

    Gold

  • @jncyj
    @jncyj 2 роки тому +2

    I was walking on the street i see two pretty girls walking towards me as they're about to pass me by I say "hi, ladies" 1 of them smiled the other one gave me a dirty look. It works about 50% of the time....kept on walking

  • @onany851
    @onany851 2 роки тому +4

    More older 50s, 60ish vids be helpful

  • @paddlefaster
    @paddlefaster 2 роки тому +8

    Insult her, ignore her, play head games....same story every time.

    • @BobbyRio
      @BobbyRio  2 роки тому +4

      i don't think any of the 5 tips recommend any of that.

    • @paddlefaster
      @paddlefaster 2 роки тому

      @@BobbyRio no not in this one but all your others are carbon copies. It's more like how not to date a girl. Do the exact opposite of what you suggest and you'll be getting laid every night. Only my opinion and a few others in the comments.

    • @learnpianofastonline
      @learnpianofastonline 2 роки тому

      Barroom grabassyoung douchebag stupidity is always very difficult for me. I am well educated and thoughtful and I just can't relate to dumbing myself down to the level that most younger women want you to. It's very hard for any sensible thinking man to dummy themselves down to the level that most of these younger women will appreciate.

  • @Nshandles88
    @Nshandles88 Рік тому +1

    Show them a American Express card 😊

  • @ROCKIN-AL
    @ROCKIN-AL 2 роки тому +1

    Stuff here I can relate to

  • @ronniecochran9623
    @ronniecochran9623 2 роки тому +2

    I have met to many scamers on dating apps