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  • @m.etezadidds.mscd.endodo-ze5mw
    @m.etezadidds.mscd.endodo-ze5mw 24 дні тому +57

    How to Out Smart their Games:
    1- Detach Emotionally, “they are testing you” Stay Calm, & Composed.
    2- Recognizing behavioral patterns, “Hot & Cold Behavior, push/ pull”.
    3- Set Boundaries Early, “Show Self Respect”. Calmly tell her you don’t accept bad behaviors.
    4- Stay Calm under Pressure, “Don’t get Provoked & Refuse to React”.
    5- Focus on Long Term Goals, “don’t let her petty mind games consume you”.
    6- Avoid Emotional Retaliation, “Don’t React, Don’t take the Bait”. Stay Calm.
    7- Communicate Clearly and Firmly without drama, “ I’ve noticed you’re acting differently, I’m not sure what’s going on but I’d like to know if we need to talk about it”.
    8- Priorities your own Mental Peace, “know your own Values”. U R #1
    9- Practice Patience, “don’t Crack under Pressure = Confidence.
    10- Choose When to Walk Away & Mean it. You don’t need her Validations.

    • @josephharderman747
      @josephharderman747 9 днів тому +2

      Thank you friend you're awesome for the timestamp great job

    • @sam-r8m8w
      @sam-r8m8w 5 днів тому +1

      Awesome. Thank you

    • @StoicMindStudio
      @StoicMindStudio 4 дні тому +1

      Thank you for sharing this detailed list! These strategies are truly practical and align well with principles of emotional intelligence and self-respect. Staying calm, composed, and focusing on long-term goals are especially valuable reminders. I appreciate the emphasis on clear communication and setting boundaries-it’s a balanced approach that avoids unnecessary drama while maintaining self-worth. A great guide for navigating challenging dynamics!

  • @thembaclarence6821
    @thembaclarence6821 9 днів тому +21

    This is what we do easily to women we don't love in other words women are drawn to men who don't love them, because its very hard to behave like this if you're inlove

  • @PhilosophicStoic
    @PhilosophicStoic 4 дні тому +2

    True value lies not in winning emotional games, but in self-mastery, self-respect, and the courage to walk away when necessary.

  • @chrishillsmediatv
    @chrishillsmediatv 13 днів тому +8

    You're just helping Chris Hills right. This information is in fact timely and I'm super appreciative of these powerful bullet proofs. Frankly speaking, I've been naturally applying almost all these strategies in my relationship but with doubts of whether I'm on the right track or not but you've just validated them and thwarted my doubts.

  • @apreds
    @apreds Місяць тому +19

    why wasn't I exposed to this information 20 years ago?? this is so on point.

  • @stunna4946
    @stunna4946 7 днів тому +2

    This is perfect, im doing this already and can tell you this works everytime

    • @StephanieStucker-c8m
      @StephanieStucker-c8m 6 днів тому

      This is all a bunch of b******* just be a good f****** humans treat the other ways you want to be treated. Period.

  • @BenjieRodriguez-p5x
    @BenjieRodriguez-p5x Місяць тому +50

    On other words that’s just the very nature of women. Detach and stay that way detached , detached, a pointless test is never ever ever worth taking ..😮❤

    • @StoicQuotes365
      @StoicQuotes365 Місяць тому +10

      Setting boundaries early on is a game changer. Not only does it command respect, but it sets the tone for healthy relationships. The power of walking away with confidence is something I think more people need to realize. Who's ready to reclaim their self-respect?

    • @TheStoicBeacon-TGG
      @TheStoicBeacon-TGG 13 днів тому +1

      Detachment can be important for protecting your peace, but it’s also essential to approach relationships with empathy and communication. Not everything is a test-sometimes, real connections require openness.

    • @mikigoddess5531
      @mikigoddess5531 6 днів тому

      If one is going to set a boundary they must first set a healthy boundary and not a toxic boundary and second, they must not be displaying a breach of such boundary themselves as if it's ok for them to do something but not in for me to do the same. It's hypocritical and mean and toxic in the first place. Boundary settings are for the person who sets them to change their behavior not to control another person's actions.people these days have no clue how to properly set healthy boundaries for themselves.

    • @velipojaview
      @velipojaview 4 дні тому

      😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @berizdrav942
    @berizdrav942 15 днів тому +13

    It's peek when you can function alone. Ultimate freedom.

    • @jonathancousins1121
      @jonathancousins1121 12 днів тому +2

      Peek is like taking a look.
      Peak is the summit of a mountain. It's peak.

  • @JacksonJohnpet
    @JacksonJohnpet 2 дні тому

    In all; I think for these stoic instructions to manifest in one's life, one must be intentional about it. Not just doing this for her, but, yourself.

  • @nur-gf6qg
    @nur-gf6qg День тому

    Watching this as a bi woman so I can also outsmart other women thanks man I appreciate it 💗

  • @TheStoicGoddess-i3l
    @TheStoicGoddess-i3l 27 днів тому +7

    In my opinion! To navigate a woman playing games with your heart, focus on self-awareness and emotional resilience. Recognize that no one enjoys mind games; prioritize your well-being by blocking negatives. Understand the complexities of women, valuing emotional sensitivity. Faithfulness is rare; seek genuine connections. Remember, life is too short for unnecessary drama.

  • @StoicQuotes365
    @StoicQuotes365 Місяць тому +11

    The concept of emotional detachment really resonated with me-mastering your own emotions is the ultimate game-changer. Stoicism isn’t just about dealing with relationships, it's about building inner peace and control over life’s chaos. Who else is applying these principles beyond dating?

  • @winstoic_offical
    @winstoic_offical День тому

    "It is not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters." - Epictetus

  • @lazatinfamilyvlogs957
    @lazatinfamilyvlogs957 Місяць тому +7

    I love my self and my family so much , I love you so so so much my saiz family . I’m letting the universe know about this! I love you forever and ever my saiz family amen 🙏 God is with us always and God will never leave our side, Amen 🙏 ❤

    • @IamStoicMindset
      @IamStoicMindset  Місяць тому

      Love it

    • @StoicQuotes365
      @StoicQuotes365 Місяць тому

      Patience is such an underrated quality, especially when handling games. Staying calm, composed, and focused on long-term goals can flip the entire dynamic. Anyone else notice how much stronger they feel when they practice this?

  • @OluwadamilareBabalola-sn8ts
    @OluwadamilareBabalola-sn8ts 9 днів тому

    This has been the video i listen to without ,forwarding it.
    Thanks.

  • @CaptainVelveeta
    @CaptainVelveeta 5 днів тому

    Kind of a double edge sword here. It's nice to hear situations that are so accurate and solutions that are so simple and logical but I'm the example of what not to do in all these situations.. The good news: It's NEVER to late to learn.

  • @timothyopthof7734
    @timothyopthof7734 4 дні тому

    I must always remain calm.

  • @StoicCorner-g8z
    @StoicCorner-g8z 21 день тому +4

    "The Stoic Formula for Winning the Game of Love: Don't chase, don't run, and absolutely don't play games for the 'push-pull' game!

  • @aqeelabbas868
    @aqeelabbas868 3 дні тому

    You are saving lives , very Weldon

  • @jeizero
    @jeizero 14 днів тому +4

    The best thing to do is dump someone who plays any games in the first place . Dont waste your time with someone who is trying to control you and you beat the whole game.

    • @IamStoicMindset
      @IamStoicMindset  14 днів тому +3

      Absolutely, you're so right! Thanks for sharing this solid advice-no one should settle for less than respect and honesty! 🙌😊

  • @kingrich1464
    @kingrich1464 Місяць тому +4

    I trust I agree I believe and I received I decree and declare by fire and by force in the mighty name of Jesus thank you and amen Richard Robert Simmons jr

  • @mahadiademnur
    @mahadiademnur 10 днів тому +1

    Very helpful. Thanks for sharing this wisdom !

  • @RobertSolensky
    @RobertSolensky 10 днів тому +4

    All true..i became tired of this woman thinking she was smarter than i was..i straight up told her,babe,icant be manipulated,u cant make me do what u want..she didnt say a word,got up &went to neighbors house '4aride to her already manipulated friend..

    • @IamStoicMindset
      @IamStoicMindset  10 днів тому +1

      It sounds like you set some firm boundaries and made it clear you’re not easily swayed-good on you for standing your ground! Sometimes, being straightforward is the only way to keep things honest. How did it feel to speak your mind like that?

  • @matthewsumma
    @matthewsumma Місяць тому +8

    Good stuff thank you

  • @mrpushrod9279
    @mrpushrod9279 Місяць тому +13

    This is helpful. I've had to deal with at least half of the things on this list which has just made me generally disinterested in forming meaningful serious relationships with women. It's just not worth the aggravation. I wish I would have known this kind of thing about 10 or heck even 20 years ago.

  • @OscarRobert-x1m
    @OscarRobert-x1m Місяць тому +10

    Thank you very much for the impact

  • @Steve-i5295
    @Steve-i5295 13 днів тому +3

    Interesting discussion, I don't agree with it 100%, but I will certainly remember to keep these things in mind.
    What bothers me is I know some women will hear these things, attempt to replicate them, and self sabotage.
    Once they self sabotage, it is a lot easier to get played by players, because they are the ones that gave the advice in the first place?

    • @CaptainVelveeta
      @CaptainVelveeta 5 днів тому

      My friend, male or female, we ALL run the risk of being played by players.

  • @DiegoRomalo
    @DiegoRomalo 6 днів тому

    this is the real words thank U verry much 🤜🤛

  • @TaoAkavong
    @TaoAkavong 10 днів тому

    Thank you for the video's " i have learn all those thing or been listen to it before, everything's in this video's is the truth words of storic " if you no all of this words from storic " you will achive all of those thing in life " thank you very much " storic " ❤ it "

  • @stoicismmotivation_official
    @stoicismmotivation_official 3 дні тому

    When she plays games, play none. A Stoic knows the greatest move is stepping away with dignity. Let actions-not emotions-speak for you.

  • @jp574
    @jp574 7 днів тому +1

    Take this with a grain of salt. If you tell an indecisive woman, “I’m not going to wait around for you.” She won’t be indecisive anymore. But she won’t be with you either.
    Being controlling like this AI postulates you should, will not win you any points with women. Be compassionate and understanding. Let that be the source of your calm.

  • @normal-dude411
    @normal-dude411 17 днів тому

    Great video.

  • @His_Name_Was_King
    @His_Name_Was_King 2 дні тому

    You don't have to worry about asking why if you never play the game in the first place. 100% success rate-

  • @chrisjohnson5363
    @chrisjohnson5363 15 днів тому +3

    The first words of this video were exactly my little ordeal

  • @mattnazari7439
    @mattnazari7439 5 днів тому +1

    Thx

  • @mumiagodfrey6280
    @mumiagodfrey6280 Місяць тому +2

    Great ❤

  • @superstar38
    @superstar38 5 днів тому +1

    facts!!!!

  • @RochParent-e9v
    @RochParent-e9v 5 днів тому

    Every 😊so. TRUE ZTHANKS Roch❤😊🎉

  • @humbledon9700
    @humbledon9700 5 днів тому

    Leave women alone. Stay by yourself. It helps

  • @FrancisYohannan-hx9cp
    @FrancisYohannan-hx9cp 14 днів тому +1

    In mind games there are no winners, both will lose in the end. The world is predesigned as such..😌 this is just creating the assumption of winning. 😌

    • @IamStoicMindset
      @IamStoicMindset  14 днів тому +1

      Focusing on honest communication and understanding is definitely the way to go! Thanks for sharing your perspective-it’s always refreshing to hear such thoughtful reflections! 😊✨

    • @FrancisYohannan-hx9cp
      @FrancisYohannan-hx9cp 14 днів тому

      Thank you for the suggestions 😌

  • @TwansiShemy
    @TwansiShemy 7 днів тому

    Ive been doing this the opposite way omg ive lost already !! What should i do 😢

  • @NdaMesachAzah
    @NdaMesachAzah 10 днів тому

    Great

  • @masalachaimasta
    @masalachaimasta 10 днів тому +1

    A+ 10/10

  • @MrAdumitrescu
    @MrAdumitrescu 4 дні тому

    If she wants to test me like this then she can be single forever.😂

  • @bruneilange4161
    @bruneilange4161 12 днів тому

    Men and women plays mind games with each other.Men holds the Key and she holds the Door.So play on as maybe you are holding the wrong Key unable to open that Door.Guys also plays the same game with women and trying to Checkmate each other.

  • @000Freefall
    @000Freefall Місяць тому +3

    omg please never release a spam video again. please send me your phone number. your emotional distress is yours and you shouldn’t push it on other people through UA-cam

  • @sabitieto2696
    @sabitieto2696 13 днів тому

    It's funny how I''ve made all these mistakes acting emotionally with the woman that I most wanted to stay in my life. I wonder if there are same type of videos which women watch to learn to play these games.

  • @donnagreear173
    @donnagreear173 Місяць тому +1

    You walk,not run,after her, there's a difference , if there's good reason then show some kindness, if not then walk away,

  • @ChrisGroggyCreaser
    @ChrisGroggyCreaser 28 днів тому +5

    Thanks for This news!!... :)

  • @TwansiShemy
    @TwansiShemy 7 днів тому

    Ive been doing what shes been doing to get back at her 😢...what should i do now

  • @awalabo4376
    @awalabo4376 Місяць тому +3

    Good stuff

  • @mikigoddess5531
    @mikigoddess5531 6 днів тому

    The same goes the other way around when they guy is playing games if that's what you want to call it when they are being mean and provoking you into an emotional response then ask why your crying. And why can't i text other guys? My insurance person is a guy i gotta keep in touch with to keep my car insurance, my life insurance policy., my company business running. So i have to text guys. what's the big deal? They are on the other side if the country anyways so what's the problem? He already scared away all our male friends so I do not see them around any more and i think that's SO wrong. He even thinks i shouldn't be in contact with those who visit my house just because they are guys. Well so is the discount guy from PG& E. It's ridiculous to require his permission before i give my number to someone simply because he is insecure or jealous for NO reason. And how do you show respect to someone when they are being completely cruel and unreasonable?

  • @Pearse-u8i
    @Pearse-u8i Місяць тому +2

    🤚

  • @cozart2241
    @cozart2241 27 днів тому +1

    I need your help bro this breakup is fresh this month & my head is so fucked rn I can explain more please get to this comment when you can

    • @MichaelPipinias
      @MichaelPipinias 19 днів тому

      I'm in the same boat. Do not chase her. Let her know u don't want the break up and respectfully step away. If you were nasty towards her when she broke up with u, acknowledge that and apologise for it. Then u must step away. Use the time on yourself, better yourself while u give her space. Spend time with people who genuinely love u like your family and friends. Improve yourself and when you feel strong enough emotionally re attract her and guide her back into a relationship. Be confident but keep in the back of your mind how you will react if it doesn't go your way.

  • @blkmask2
    @blkmask2 День тому

    Why did it say "position" like that?😂 25:00

  • @texasmuscle6294
    @texasmuscle6294 День тому

  • @edwinhunnet2666
    @edwinhunnet2666 2 дні тому

    if you’re truly valuable(with real assets and money making knowledge) then you will be to get positive results from these lesson. If you’re broke and lazy a girl will disrespect you and leave your ass with zero remorse. It takes a long time and effort to get to this level. Accept that you’re a loser and start grinding. Girls like winners.

  • @wolfman9642
    @wolfman9642 2 дні тому

    It is a sad era, sad that men need to be taught to respect themselves and value their lives more than they do women. You are not teaching, you are helping men unlearn destructive behavior taught by subversive propaganda.

  • @abcloft302
    @abcloft302 11 днів тому

    Great 👍 stuff and shit is REAL

  • @CharlesOsi
    @CharlesOsi 6 днів тому

    I m no one empty net

  • @JessicaMesi
    @JessicaMesi Місяць тому +1

    1

  • @jacobdilmaghani
    @jacobdilmaghani 18 годин тому

    ❤💯

  • @typim
    @typim 6 днів тому

    All is good, Iagree. But I have a question : that is been said that most men will fall in women's traps and start please them unconditionally, etc. How to compete with those? It's impossible to get laid with a beautiful woman when she has so many ordinary men around who are playing her game!!

  • @manuelcervantes5866
    @manuelcervantes5866 День тому

    Pay attention my brother, im still playing stupid until I get the rest of my shit out of the garage, a cheeseburger meal and waiting 5days till she reappears after ghosting and just pretend like it's nothing, get your shit out and play cool..trust me eat shit till your things are out then fkem

  • @FrancisYohannan-hx9cp
    @FrancisYohannan-hx9cp 14 днів тому +2

    It is a good pointers, unfortunately it will not work as both sides of the gender watches these videos..and you might end up still being played.😌

  • @Fiqh-tk3oc
    @Fiqh-tk3oc Місяць тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @juniortj9428
    @juniortj9428 17 днів тому +2

    Women are watching this too.

  • @odionuwadiale12346
    @odionuwadiale12346 Місяць тому +2

    Wow
    Mindset.......

  • @landspeed2015
    @landspeed2015 3 дні тому

    Any WOMAN. How do people take these videos seriously, when proper words aren't even used in the title? 🤦🏼‍♂️

  • @jamesjones7798
    @jamesjones7798 5 днів тому

    Its over for real men.

  • @lamontemckinney9724
    @lamontemckinney9724 20 днів тому

    Bars

  • @mikigoddess5531
    @mikigoddess5531 6 днів тому

    Walking away mid sentance simply because you don't like the content or subject is just rude and makes you a chicken shit who wabts to theow away everyhing good that was built and gice up too soon because of their own bad behaviors being called on then is something they can't handle is not boundary setting or knowing your worth or self respect, or self confidence, or anything like what this video is saying. That's an avoident running away from his own horrible mess fhat he made himself and doesn't want to clean it up himself. And then he asks why I'm sad. Because when i get the safe enough circumstances to leave him, I'll miss him terribly. There's gotta be a better way to handle this besides breaking up.

  • @000Freefall
    @000Freefall Місяць тому +2

    If this is your woman: run!
    and if this is your emotional advice? run from yourself
    worst advice ever
    please shut down this channel

  • @mr.v6088
    @mr.v6088 19 днів тому +1

    👍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @StoicToolkit1
    @StoicToolkit1 День тому

    Women are meant to understand, right?😅

  • @StephanieStucker-c8m
    @StephanieStucker-c8m 6 днів тому

    Not true

  • @elementcreator1
    @elementcreator1 14 днів тому

    Lol… Most people are not even in any type of human anything…

  • @stevemoshermarketing9641
    @stevemoshermarketing9641 22 дні тому

    100

  • @StephanieStucker-c8m
    @StephanieStucker-c8m 6 днів тому

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @SidMohammedIbrahimIV3313
    @SidMohammedIbrahimIV3313 Місяць тому +1

    60%\40% TF-BS 13:10 13:11 13:14

  • @jt.8144
    @jt.8144 20 днів тому

    RECOG - NEEZE.

  • @matthewsumma
    @matthewsumma Місяць тому +3

    Good stuff thank you