There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Years later, and ever once in awhile, it's good to revisit these videos, to remind ourselves of what we're forgetting. It's easy to get overly comfortable and slip into bad habits.
I stumbled across your channel. Now, I am way past all this in my early life. Until 1984, which was an amazing year for me! I met and married the most stunning, loving, supportive women I have ever laid eyes on. She was 21 with the maturity of 40. Never being influenced by her emotions! She helped me through that pitfall! We married late that year. Since then, we have had 7 children in our first 11 years of marriage! Our first came in 85, then 86, 88, 90, 92, 94, & 96. Again, she never and I mean never has operated by emotions! She is WONDER WOMAN, and more beautiful too! After 7 births and natural deliveries, she only gained 3 lbs since our wedding day! She looks much younger than her actual age and is a real head turner. She is humble about it, which is another virtual I love about her. We also have 5 grandchildren now, and they are priceless. I tell her she is the hottest mother/grandmother on the planet and still looks amazing in a bikini! Another peak for both of us. With all this, we still like each other too, and are best friends! So, I just surprised my wife recently for her birthday with a 2023 Ferrari F488 Pista! Was she shocked as she didn't see it coming, as I surprised her with a 2022 C8 Corvette the previous year. What can I say, we enjoy nice cars and have many. After she gained her composure, she asked why did I do it, I said simply because I like you and more so appreciate you! I am the most blessed man alive!!!!😊
I just started dating a Brazilian model & it's incredible how opposite their dating philosophy is... Zero games - all love, passion & compassion... How refreshing 😁
the control thing is a big thing. specially the kiss thing... if a woman doesnt want to kiss you, specially after 1-2 dates. you should just tell her, ok. let finish this here. we are not in medieval europe or something. we all know if a woman likes a man, she kiss him inmediatly. so dont humilliate yourself buying drinks, food etc to a woman that in her mind is disgusted by you. there are no middle spots, a woman likes you or dont like you simple as that
@@theevil6252 I assume you're joking. But even so, saying that he's good at what he does and one of the best doesn't make any of us put him on a pedestal.
My jaw has dropped more times than I care to pick it back up!! As a woman, I've learned more about myself watching your videos than through any other book / channel / etc. THANK YOU!!!!!!!
"as a woman" is a toxic statement, meaning "i have a vagina listen to me!" blah blah it's like chickens clucking ...all you know is that you bleed every month, and that somehow gives you specific insight on how things work...ok...sure.
"Emotional quick sand". Powerful statement. This is weak mens kryptonite. These men are in their feminine frame. Excellent coaching. These lessons can save a mans life.
You should be proud. Hes literally saving me from myself and bring my ex back who is doing exactly this. Testing me. I am learning.. very intriguing to see the perspectives.
That is basically what happened to me. I wasn't looking for a partner, so I was simply being myself, but "she who must be obeyed" was looking. In the Garfield comic strip, Jon's girlfriend says "I wore high heels for this!" "Cosi fan tutte" (They all do it.)
@@Eden_M meaning my last girlfriend. I was afraid to lose her because there's no one else available, at least perceivably, which is unrealistic but there is a scarcity in the area I live, for the type of women that I am interested in.
You definitely exposed one of my weaknesses. Desire and respect. I won't make that mistake again. The old me intuitively knew this. The older single guy forgot what used to work.
Bobby, you are the MAN! You should teach this class to 7th graders and maybe, just maybe it will help stop school shootings because these kids will learn to deal with their emotions and not act out on frustration or hatred, especially towards women. Cheers!
At the end of the day it comes down to compatibility. You can try to be something your not but eventually people will be who they really are. Find a woman that has genuine desire for you and be the best male version of yourself.
@@The_alpha_kingno he didn’t. The OP lost the mark. OP says you can’t change. It’s unnatural to be a leader if you’re weak. Except it’s a trainable skill. practice and it will eventually become easier. Get in the reps. Don’t approach 5 girls a week approach 10 or more per day with zero desire. Simple hi hellos. Build off that. Ironic to name yourself alpha king when you just supported an incredibly beta perspective.
@@lastnamefirst650 this comment reflects your immaturity....you seems like a school going kid....do your homework first instead of keeping last name first
Man I Started watching you back in 2016 when I was 23, spent my last couple dollars and signed up for you course. The door you help open in my thought process Will forever be appreciated 🙏🏾 I turned 30 in March And I can’t believe how accurate you were all the way back then cause I’ve blossomed Into a beast ✊🏾 Definitely help me for the better I’m glad you’re still doing this!! the knowledge you’ve been gathering over all this time is needed now more then EVER! All these fake coaches have popped over the years polluting the space. You were truly red pill before it became cringe. You definitely have an O.G Badge. And no homo or disrespect But bro you’re Glowing You even look better 😂😂😂 The years have been kind
@@redpillpharmacy6877 🤷🏾♂️Maybe to you, but Last I checked a MAN can spend his money on whatever He pleases And THE INFORMATION was worth it to me. Real Madness was me being so attractive and not knowing I was self sabotaging Myself with women. Money comes and goes bro. What you INVEST it in IS WHAT MATTERS. And looking back it was a Great Investment.
I was taught some of these things really young… About 22 or so, had a first date with a very hot ex-model/dancer who was 36. She basically had to remind me to open doors for her and things of that nature. When I asked her where she wanted to go for dinner, she said "you're the man. Surprise me." And yes, just like most women, she thought she was too fat even though I thought she was quite fine.
Watching old movies, you'll see how the men acted towards women. It was very masculine which compliments the feminine nature so well. A gentleman who is always in control of the situation including his emotions. A man amused by a womans distress over trivialities is also very effective, it shows you're immovable and confident and not afraid of losing her.
This is actually great advice. The prolbrem is if a women is doin all this garbage on the regular indefinitely she isn't worth your time and most today arnt and have very lil to offer this really don't matter on modern women ..... And the only way a man will act this sturdy 24-7 is if he flat out doesn't care about her. And is banging other chicks. Or he's a simp. That she steam rolls over. Men have emotions actually I'm a firm believer men develop feelings far faster and deeper then a women do. So by the time she does have a feelings his our prolly double what hers is. So why the hell would a guy put him self in that position. And put up with this garbage. When more often then not she will leave him anyway. For a dozen reasons. Because he reacted. Jealousy is a game. If a man is head over heels over a girl. The reaction isn't goin to be good. At best he will jus shut down and ignore her. It's not my job to be taking that kind of crap 24-7. If a women truly is into you. This should be very limited. ...the prolbrem is men should never react negatively..this isn't natural nor should be expected. All the time. I get reacting passively and calmly is good. But sometimes u have no choice....and in today's world ur attention means very lil. When she got 200 dudes a day given her attention and valadation on fb and Instagram etc ...this all goes down the drain. If they slept with 100 dudes sex goes out the window too...witch is the norm ...no dating coach today explains or mentions what modern women are. And what and have much it changed it jus the last 10 years. This advice would have been good like 20 -25 years ago....women are goin to like all these traits. But if her attention is on you. And she doesn't get time to think about you when your away. And instead is messaging other hot men. What do u think is gonna happen or how will anything progress. Il tell you it won't. The phone is a constant distraction. And you as a man. Need to narrow your choices of women down to a select few.
Yeah, do the opposite of what every woman tells you, develop a backbone. It's rare these days, so you will be interesting to most women. If you don't challenge them they grow bored, it's the same the other way around. Despite what we might think or care to admit. The friction we all fear paves the way for the glue. If you can't handle the fuss you are better off alone.
Just a thought - with the stigma of men and "control", I think "take charge" really is a better way to describe it. Getting her drink refilled is taking charge. You can't control the environment. Too many variables that are always beyond you're control, but you CAN take charge of making sure her environment is as comfortable and enjoyable as possible.
Life doesn't have kind Rewards for political correctness. Control is control, regardless of the interpretations of the politics of the day. The fear of stigma when being natural is for little boys.
Bobby, thank you for your content. I've been watching you and on your e-mail list for a while. My only regret is learning valuable information like this in my late 40s. But I'm keeping my head up and look forward to a brighter future in my dealings with all women whatever our relationship, because I learned from you or someone else that the truth is we have a pre-existing relationship with all women. My main desire is to project more pronounced masculinity than in the past, because I have broken each one of those five rules (desire and respect in both directions). No more
its never too late to change aspects that need to be improved.... Some of the guys i know having the most fun right now with women are guys in their 40s 50s and 60s...
More spot on advice Bobby and I feel so much better after watching this video, the De-idolization of women tip is absolutely spot on as i'm one of those 'nice guys' who hasn't had many girlfriends and putting women on pedestals is something i've been very guilty of in the past and now after watching this you are so right, from now on i'm going to try and relax more and just treat them like any other person.
Hahaha! My ex passed away. He use to make jokes like this! He was actually the most amazing supportive man I’ve known. People have no sense of humour now days!
I am the 1% of the population that your experiments will not work on Mr B but it’s great that you are helping others to attain the unobtainable ! Everyone seems to be fueled by wanting love and finding it like it’s the holy grail of life itself ! Not me though because I got bigger and better things to do and I’ve got the best love of all loves… the love of myself ! No other love can beat that ! Cheers Bobby Rio
Well, I enjoy that energy. Getting excited when you meet a girl. It’s fun to watch my friends get into character. When they are excited when a new girl comes around and you make that connection. Don’t suck the fun out of it. You’re making it way too regimental.
True. I’ve been talking to females I knew from highschool since my wife recently passed. Theres one in particular that was a real slut back then. Shes very attractive and shes single. Shes really into me and I know shes just dying for me to start communicating with her again but I just don’t really want to set myself up as her next ex fling. Im better than that and Im gonna hold out for someone more wholesome. I’m even not opposed to dating a chunky but cute country girl or farm girl that can appreciate a good man. I just cant stand fake women, fake boobs, fake lips, fake eyelashes , fake nails, etc. Its just such a turn off……Ill take a flat chested natural beauty any day as long as she has the values Im looking for. My problem is Im just still too raw from my wife’s passing to put myself in the dating pool and I doubt Ill be actively looking but if it happens it happens but this loneliness thing is no joke but Im still young and I have a strong desire for companionship so Im hoping the universe sends another special lady my way.
Is "chasing" the best you can achieve? Actually, it is well known that all you need to do is stand there, and let the girls decide. My wife had been dumped by a two-timer, and had gone on a cruise to forget him. Not a very promising start, but from the moment we met, we were a recognised item. I was born with lifetime depression, and didn't want any girl to have to live with that, but I couldn't dissuade her. Between our eldest daughter and her then boyfriend, much the same thing happened. I always remember the girl who posted: "There are no boys in my town worth chasing."
Been following your work since I was in my mid teens all the way in South Africa (2010/2011) then I fell out and recently I stumbled on one of your UA-cam videos. Your growth and consistency is out of this world. Thank you for your work!
I was born with 0 sex drive so I never went on a date or had a relationship, It used to bother me when I was younger man,but now I consider it a blessing since the stress and worry are non existent
You probably have low T (aka testosterone) you should get that checked by a doctor, not just for “sex drive” but other issues that can come up from low levels of testosterone. Balanced hormones (for both sexes) are key.
@@Pault3788 “acceptable” doesn’t sound very good tho. That’s basically like saying “well it’s not the lowest we’ve seen so it’s not *that* bad”. I bet if you took a hormone replacement you’d feel completely different. My uncle actually did that when he started getting older and losing T, he had his doctor prescribe some testosterone replacement and he said it was the best thing he ever did. He got more energy, was more active and confident, and I’m sure his sexual health was better but ewww lol he obviously wouldn’t tell me about that part 😂
@@Pault3788 There are also health risks for men with too low testosterone....could cause heart problems, bone & muscle issues, etc. Key is to be in the "sweet spot" - not too low but not too high. And seeing a regular doctor is useless. You need to see a specialist - an endocrinologist who will do a full work up. It's not just about the main number of testosterone level on a test. There are sub categories like free testosterone, estrogen level (yes, men have it too and if it's out of range it can cause issues), etc.
Your videos are helpful… I’ve always been able to attract women, and exactly what you’re saying is exactly why I attract them. Then I get into a relationship and I try too hard when I should just be myself. It’s kind of a weird one now that she lives with me so some of things are a little tricky. Do you have any videos you recommend when you live with your partner? The thing is, when i do your principles, I get every girl attracted to me. When I actually love a girl, I drop my logic, act on emotions and sometimes in the past it would drive me to cheat to validate my own market value. Living with my partner complicates everything in terms of these key points and then learning from past mistakes and recognizing exactly what you’re taking about makes it like a very difficult situation to navigate. Appreciate your work. I recognize my faults, what you’re saying isn’t the first time I’m hearing it or recognizing it, but videos like this helps inventory my emotions and actions to handle situations better. Now that I’ve had the experience, I know to look for videos like this. Niche market, but very appreciated.
@JoshGiarratano31 -The advice given by Bobby Rio is only to show how to impress a woman and get her as your partner or wife, and not to cheat women and have sex with them and discard them, breaking their hearts. Men must be gentlemen
When you get past 50 and your single, my advice is focus on the important parts of your life, and finding a mate should be farther down on the list. Be true to yourself, know what your goals are, and realize its not a bad thing if your alone at the moment. Have a great personality, treat ALL women with respect,, take care of your health, exercise, eat well. Women will notice.
What I don't undertand is number 3. Showing desire to a woman is attractive for them you say. But isn't that exactly what turns women off? She doesn't want it to be too easy, she wants this mental challenge. If she knows you want her, won't she lose that desire? I myself have had the experience that every time I told a woman that I was interested in her or that I had feelings for her, she was suddenly no longer interested. And if I then ignored them and was more in "I'm not interested" mode, then they were interested again.
"Oh, she's not that type of girl." Uh, in my experience, THEY ARE ALL that type of girl. The mental block is in your head, and if you aren't the one 'hitting it' someone else will be. Bobby Rio is spot on with that point about Desire + Respect (and note that he puts desire first) - if you want it, you want it, but if you wuss out, you will let a false sense of respect get ahead of your desire. See also Bobby's next point about De-Idolization of Women.
Don't misunderstand, guys! ...be 'there', make her feel safe with you. But its not done by being a rock! Be responsive, understanding, steady, but stay human. Also you, you are allowed to be moved sometimes - so a/the woman can hold you and support you. And experience herself 'for' you.
The way you explain these Knowledge Gems-Simple and Palatable! After watching this video a FEW times, I realized, I was violating a few, and important, Core standards! Thank you for the Knowledge share; SUBSCRIBED!
Absolutely superb content! I used to fall victim to all five of these points. Lately I've been growing and doing better. This video is validation that I'm on the right track. Thank you!
That is what I have been doing lately...pertaining to de-idolizing women...is not going along with what they say or agreeing to do what they say all of the time It turns some of them off and I get strange looks, but I am not going to SIMP out say, "Sure, whatever you want."
This is the first one of these videos I've seen that I actually agree with. It's taken a lot of self work to embody these principles and they all work. We reconnected after years apart, both of us divorced from our exes for around the same amount of time. We clicked, it was intense, and things moved at breakneck speed. She told me she wasn't ready for it, and we needed to let time pass and stay friends. We tried, struggled, then she put the breaks on hard. I respected her, told her I'd become more emotionally invested than I realized and needed some time to adjust, held up my boundaries when she still tried to contact me, and last time we hung out I behaved my damn self and the next day she sent me a video message in a bikini😂.
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND YOU WILL FIND THE PERSON WITH YOUR VALUES AND MORALS = YOU WILL FIND YOUR TYPE... Dont look for or hang out with people that dont share your morals or values just because you lonely....you will end up with a drinker if your not, a smoker if your not etc...
Thank you very much Bobby. I’m a single father and I got many issues with women, hopefully I’ll get better with this content you are making and sometimes I understand what I did wrong to my dates. Now I’m dating with my girlfriend and she is amazing. Sometimes my emotions fly away and I’ll say something wrong!
I love all the advice! I can definitely try to implement these things again. So much work for these things! I don't even want a relationship at this point but I definitely want to learn how to be sexier to women. I don't think I have enough emotional stability or endurance to deal with someone needing me to look after their happiness 24/7 and "be in control" while not being too in control and letting her be free. Being dominant and making plans for things just to be shot down. That's probably the biggest thing. Why not have any ideas and then shoot down everything I say?
This guy lost me when he talked about taking control. I'm having the same concerns as you. Giving her choices, coming to a decision together or simply lead. I don't certainly want to decide everything for her in the relationship.
Did you wear a mask? Well that’s how much in “control” you were/are. I don’t know why I watched this video but saw it and was curious of another’s opinion.
Very good stuff, however it will be still difficult for me being out of the dating scene for 2 years. Meeting a very attractive woman sometimes gets me flustered, because honestly like most men, it's hard to not be. But at my age, 62, I don't have a lot of time so it doesn't make sense to be overly careful about who I take a chance talking to.
You have great knowledge about the subject. Everything you talked about, I said yes. Specially, the Non-Reactive subject. Men being a solid ground, rather than reacting with feminine energy. When we women complain, is not beacause we want to fight,.but we want for him to show with actions that he cares, rather than arguing back to us. Masculinity is very very sexy. Thank you for this video.
@@BobbyRio For standard situations it is enormously helpful, I can confirm some points by my own experiences, they work in practice! But... I am searching for material like "Does she reject you although she has feelings for you?" Have you ever heard about a case, when a girl almost aggressively (usually unprovoced) rejects you in words, every time you meet (she usually suggests meetings), but seems to be in love you in her actions, subliminal behavior, permanently looking to be closer to you, touches you permanently, looks for close physical contact, reacts panically, when she fears your rejection? I have my experiences, a lot of them, a number of women are interested in me, right now, but this girl - sorry for this expression - f*cks my brain. I really love her, I have enjoyed her friendship, I want to keep her in any way close to me, also as friend, for me it's really OK. But if she loves me, too, I need to know it.. How can I figure out, what she's feeling?
@@BobbyRio OK, look, I can offer you something interesting, if you help me understand this strange girl. I can tell you, how I turned myself from a shy, clumsy, boring guy into a women magnet. Without being regarded as an a...le by my environment, by the way. Right now some girls literally freak out, behave shamelessly, even almost in front of their boyfriends or husbands. But the feelings of a girl, which I love, which know, so well, that I often can predict her behavior in special situations and always know, what she needs to feel better, are staying a mystery to me.
Great but I also feel like there are times that reactions also works cuz trust me, you can’t keep this up throughout your married life. Even Jesus got angry in the Bible and reacted. Trust me it’s good to reacts once in a while but watch what you do. ❤
23 years now she has no touch Desire , she found jet ski ever since that we been going down hill , beimg physically broken doesn't help , I do show my emotions and after this viedo gonna try to lock in place
#2 Is on point. I went on a first date with a woman about a year ago. She took one look at me and said "Aw hell no, are those sweat pants?". I looked right at her and said, "I love my Vuoris. AMAZING comfort." and smiled. Completely ignored the test, and it worked! On the "Accountants are so boring." I'd reply, "Well, guess what? You're in luck because I'm going to bore you out of your MIND." ;-)
This is great list to use and would work for majority of us. I have listened to this content 2 times and would be happy to share with my mates who are in the same situation as me. 1. Emotional Autonomy 2. Non Reactive 3. Desire and Respect 4. De-Idolisation of Women 5. Be in control (control the situation). Thank you Mr Bobby Rio, you have a purpose and you definitely fit the description as high value man. Looking forward to listening to your other contents. Regards Belay Yim
Having 2 sons, this is what I've been looking for. How to be masculine, in a positive way, without having to 'feminise' ourselves or be a dick 🙂. Thank you. This is excellent advice for young men.
You've actually got some good advice that checks out Kudos! The YT genre of attracting women is mostly redundant garbage that oversimplifies the psychology
6:02 "They don't want to have control over you." I used to think they did want control over me...I'm open minded about what you are teaching and reasoning out what you are saying.
Dude, I’m going to be honest. I am a bit of a nice guy, I do however have a backbone, problem is that when I first meet women I project a kind caring guy and from the get go they are turned off and don’t want to stick around to see the other side of my personality. Anyway, for the first time I decided to try something different and just started being loud, not caring, comedic, cussing, bad boy. Let me tell you something, I already have some women interested in me. I treated one like I just didn’t care about her opinions and did things my way and she’s been sticking around and legitimately wants to already have sex.
Facts!! When I am nice to my wife, she bitches and nags. I treat my wife the same way with asshole and do things only my way and she is all over this John😂😎
Great video. My main question and comment about this video as follows: is it appropriate to generalize what a specific gender (in this case all women) want in a partner? Considered conversely the question becomes: why it is appropriate to understand a specific individual female human being simply as a set of gender characteristics? Perhaps a video explaining that?
Maybe you can clarify something because it seems I have a different view of emotions than you I believe we are in control of how we behave, but not in control of how we feel. Meaning, in spite of how we feel, we can choose our reaction. But we can not choose what we feel. So this seems to contradict what you say about emotional autonomy. I don't think anyone truly has this. But we can choose to behave differently from how our emotions compel us to behave.
Masculine energy and feminine energy---neither is "weaker" or "stronger." Each of the two forms of personal energy can serve as a source of great strength. Each is unique. Each has ways in which it is superior; indeed, there are times and places in which one or the other will prove to be indispensable and irreplaceable.
Thank you. Older guy and I learned a lot from this something I should have known.. kind of embarrassing something I should have known a long time ago but better late than never 👍👍
😂 Same for me.... where was youtube when we were young and dumb? Most of the time I didn't initiate anything either, because I found the men rather embarrassing from overhearing conversations in clubs and bars. I didn't want to belong there. Thanks Bobby, i learn a lot👌
I've been able to pull a lot of Girls for short term. But the biggest Difficulty when it comes to Long term Is Juggling Between Respect + Desire But Also De-Idolizing. These two Points Conflict With Each other Please Explain more. You want to Pull a Wife out of her but she Still Just Wants the Short term Excitement from the first Month that isn't realistic for most men to be able to do for Years. How to do Both Throughout the Relationship to where on date 1,000 she still See's you as A Prize.
I think the word you're looking for at 22:21. nurturing energy, I like to apply both because it's shows women that I'm not just a "tough guy" but a man who has compassion and understands people all have feelings and they all matter.
Good sir, you can still achieve a more masculine voice and lower your relatively high tone of voice. See Nancy Daniels, The Voice Lady. She has a good course for this.
What about when you kinda give away a situation because you treat them (female) like grown-ups (be in control) and instead they react like kids? I think this part is a bit overlooked because dealing with kid like behavior sometimes could turn into like parenting dynamics and stuff. My point is... i just got tired of having to deal with kid minded woman. Id appreciate any feedback 🙏
zesty experienced men have a wisdom of masculnity than your everday blue collar joe isnt aware of. great job Bobby Rio, you keep doing you man. i pased on this video and i got recomennded again and im thankful. you know your shit brother
I’ve never had much issues getting women but I was in a long term relationship and we broke up and then I was dating around for a while with no girls that were really exciting me. Finally after a while I met an amazing girl that snowboarded also and we hit it off and it was so good in the beginning. The sex as some of the best ever and I could tell she was super into me. After a while I started to overthink things and worried about losing her and now watching this video I realized I started doing some of things I shouldn’t have. Well needless to say she ended up saying we were on different pages, I was moving too fast and everything else. It hurt me and I overreacted, unfortunately now I think it’s too late to fix. I’m slowly working on it and we are on good terms again but I think she lost that attraction to me and it sucks. I wish I would’ve seen some of these videos sooner and I think it could’ve been different. She really was the dream girl, I wish I had a Time Machine 😢. At this point I’ve met another great girl but if I could choose I really would want the last one, I just cringe watching these video realizing I was doing so many things that were slowly turning her off to me. I guess lesson learned and we move on. Maybe one day I’ll have a shot with her again but it’s unlikely and it really hurts to think about what maybe could’ve been if I had just handled some small things differently. Don’t be like me guys!
Bobby is the real deal! I've learned so much about myself from him. Cannot thank the dude enough. He's been like a personal Dan Marino like dating coach, and I've been airing it up and going deep!!
Well presented and absolutely usable for a better interaction with women in general... To get passed their innate tendency to second guess and "rock the boat" with their feminine and somewhat strange and weird-looking ways. Probably a survival mechanism thing from the early time of men's interaction with them in tribal and primitive settings from 1000s of years back......
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There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Years later, and ever once in awhile, it's good to revisit these videos, to remind ourselves of what we're forgetting.
It's easy to get overly comfortable and slip into bad habits.
Nah bro once I got red pilled I realized I can never get too excited around women I like I can never forget that 💯
@@NenUser12_ Good for you, bro.
Way to maintain your discipline.
I stumbled across your channel. Now, I am way past all this in my early life. Until 1984, which was an amazing year for me! I met and married the most stunning, loving, supportive women I have ever laid eyes on. She was 21 with the maturity of 40. Never being influenced by her emotions! She helped me through that pitfall! We married late that year. Since then, we have had 7 children in our first 11 years of marriage! Our first came in 85, then 86, 88, 90, 92, 94, & 96. Again, she never and I mean never has operated by emotions!
She is WONDER WOMAN, and more beautiful too! After 7 births and natural deliveries, she only gained 3 lbs since our wedding day! She looks much younger than her actual age and is a real head turner. She is humble about it, which is another virtual I love about her.
We also have 5 grandchildren now, and they are priceless. I tell her she is the hottest mother/grandmother on the planet and still looks amazing in a bikini! Another peak for both of us.
With all this, we still like each other too, and are best friends!
So, I just surprised my wife recently for her birthday with a 2023 Ferrari F488 Pista! Was she shocked as she didn't see it coming, as I surprised her with a 2022 C8 Corvette the previous year. What can I say, we enjoy nice cars and have many. After she gained her composure, she asked why did I do it, I said simply because I like you and more so appreciate you!
I am the most blessed man alive!!!!😊
FACTZ
Very true
I just started dating a Brazilian model & it's incredible how opposite their dating philosophy is... Zero games - all love, passion & compassion... How refreshing 😁
Emotional Autonomy
Non-Reactive
Desire + Respect
De-Idolization of Women
Be in Control
Your left brain can copy and list items.
Can your right synthesize the parts into a living actuality, an art form?
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wow, tell us more, plz
Own your heart. If she's worth. Show some.
the control thing is a big thing.
specially the kiss thing...
if a woman doesnt want to kiss you, specially after 1-2 dates.
you should just tell her, ok. let finish this here.
we are not in medieval europe or something.
we all know if a woman likes a man, she kiss him inmediatly.
so dont humilliate yourself buying drinks, food etc to a woman that in her mind is disgusted by you.
there are no middle spots, a woman likes you or dont like you simple as that
Don't let your emotions get in the way. Be yourself. Be solid And live The dream. Thanks, Bobby...
I can't say it enough times, the way Bobby explains things makes them so easy to understand. He really is the best!
glad you find the videos helpful!
Yeah; bern watching him.for the past decade & he does know his craft.
Absolutely 💯
Don't put him on pedestal. 😅
@@theevil6252 I assume you're joking. But even so, saying that he's good at what he does and one of the best doesn't make any of us put him on a pedestal.
As a woman, I completely agree with everything you said👌🏽
That's nice
ur wet for howdie doodie
Lol. Do you yell at your husband to take out the garbage too ???
@@mikemaryniuk571 Lol why no sir I do not yell 😊 and there’s never a need❣️🙌🏽
@@AngelsCiti 💩💩💩
My jaw has dropped more times than I care to pick it back up!! As a woman, I've learned more about myself watching your videos than through any other book / channel / etc. THANK YOU!!!!!!!
That's because all your books/vids are probably written by woman😂
"as a woman" is a toxic statement, meaning "i have a vagina listen to me!" blah blah it's like chickens clucking ...all you know is that you bleed every month, and that somehow gives you specific insight on how things work...ok...sure.
So nice
This says you're a smart high value woman. Too rare these days Bravo.
@@dionysiosdionou9243 saying a woman is "high value" means you are a "low value" type of guy.
So don't do that, we call that objectification.
"Emotional quick sand". Powerful statement. This is weak mens kryptonite. These men are in their feminine frame. Excellent coaching. These lessons can save a mans life.
That's my boy Bobby. He got an "A" as a student in my psychology class and now is the professor himself ! Keep up the good teachings !!
That's so cool! Student becomes the teacher. Fantastic.
😮
You should be proud. Hes literally saving me from myself and bring my ex back who is doing exactly this. Testing me. I am learning.. very intriguing to see the perspectives.
As long as you're not afraid to lose a woman, you can be yourself without all those strategies.
That is basically what happened to me. I wasn't looking for a partner, so I was simply being myself, but "she who must be obeyed" was looking. In the Garfield comic strip, Jon's girlfriend says "I wore high heels for this!" "Cosi fan tutte" (They all do it.)
You should never be afraid of losing a woman yet here I am...
@@Bluntobject What do you mean?
@@Eden_M meaning my last girlfriend. I was afraid to lose her because there's no one else available, at least perceivably, which is unrealistic but there is a scarcity in the area I live, for the type of women that I am interested in.
@@Bluntobject are u a reactive man?
71 years old and still learning. Really great stuff !
You definitely exposed one of my weaknesses. Desire and respect. I won't make that mistake again. The old me intuitively knew this. The older single guy forgot what used to work.
nice, yea took me awhile to figure that one out too. I blew a lot of good opportutnies by. being too respectful.
@@BobbyRio respectful?
Bobby, you are the MAN! You should teach this class to 7th graders and maybe, just maybe it will help stop school shootings because these kids will learn to deal with their emotions and not act out on frustration or hatred, especially towards women. Cheers!
I have mastered all 5
Good Video!! And I've been Happily Married for 23 years this year 🎉.
You know you are the first person who makes a lot of sense. Not only that it's simple technique to use and interact with women. Thank you for sharing.
As a woman who has dated other women and have seen my nice guy brother’s girlfriends lose interest or respect…I agree with everything Bobby says.
At the end of the day it comes down to compatibility. You can try to be something your not but eventually people will be who they really are. Find a woman that has genuine desire for you and be the best male version of yourself.
why not be the best version of you though?
@@BobbyRioyou lost the point completely....
@@The_alpha_king so what's the point
@@The_alpha_kingno he didn’t. The OP lost the mark.
OP says you can’t change. It’s unnatural to be a leader if you’re weak. Except it’s a trainable skill.
practice and it will eventually become easier. Get in the reps. Don’t approach 5 girls a week approach 10 or more per day with zero desire. Simple hi hellos. Build off that.
Ironic to name yourself alpha king when you just supported an incredibly beta perspective.
@@lastnamefirst650 this comment reflects your immaturity....you seems like a school going kid....do your homework first instead of keeping last name first
The clasic saying "you are what you say you are" comes to mind.
Demonstrating sexual interest in a girl is THE KEY.
The difficult part is THE HOW. (Ha! Ha!)
Ken, Toronto, CANADA
Man I Started watching you back in 2016 when I was 23, spent my last couple dollars and signed up for you course. The door you help open in my thought process
Will forever be appreciated 🙏🏾
I turned 30 in March
And I can’t believe how accurate you were all the way back then cause I’ve blossomed
Into a beast ✊🏾
Definitely help me for the better
I’m glad you’re still doing this!!
the knowledge you’ve been gathering over all this time is needed now more then EVER!
All these fake coaches have popped over the years polluting the space. You were truly red pill before it became cringe.
You definitely have an O.G Badge.
And no homo or disrespect
But bro you’re Glowing
You even look better 😂😂😂
The years have been kind
You spent your last couple of dollars on his course? Madness.
thanks man! I appreciate the comment. So glad to hear that the program has helped out.
I first got exposed to his content in 2010/2011 when I was 15 or 16. He's truly an OG.
@@redpillpharmacy6877 🤷🏾♂️Maybe to you,
but Last I checked a MAN can spend his money on whatever He pleases
And THE INFORMATION was worth it to me.
Real Madness was me being so attractive and not knowing I was self sabotaging
Myself with women.
Money comes and goes bro.
What you INVEST it in IS WHAT MATTERS.
And looking back it was a Great Investment.
@@jahbless3220 Lol man I wish, it’s always better to start early in life 💪🏾
I was taught some of these things really young… About 22 or so, had a first date with a very hot ex-model/dancer who was 36. She basically had to remind me to open doors for her and things of that nature. When I asked her where she wanted to go for dinner, she said "you're the man. Surprise me."
And yes, just like most women, she thought she was too fat even though I thought she was quite fine.
I wish I saw this video 20 years ago, but grateful I can see it now. On point for sure.
Watching old movies, you'll see how the men acted towards women. It was very masculine which compliments the feminine nature so well. A gentleman who is always in control of the situation including his emotions. A man amused by a womans distress over trivialities is also very effective, it shows you're immovable and confident and not afraid of losing her.
This is actually great advice. The prolbrem is if a women is doin all this garbage on the regular indefinitely she isn't worth your time and most today arnt and have very lil to offer this really don't matter on modern women ..... And the only way a man will act this sturdy 24-7 is if he flat out doesn't care about her. And is banging other chicks. Or he's a simp. That she steam rolls over. Men have emotions actually I'm a firm believer men develop feelings far faster and deeper then a women do. So by the time she does have a feelings his our prolly double what hers is. So why the hell would a guy put him self in that position. And put up with this garbage. When more often then not she will leave him anyway. For a dozen reasons. Because he reacted. Jealousy is a game. If a man is head over heels over a girl. The reaction isn't goin to be good. At best he will jus shut down and ignore her. It's not my job to be taking that kind of crap 24-7. If a women truly is into you. This should be very limited. ...the prolbrem is men should never react negatively..this isn't natural nor should be expected. All the time. I get reacting passively and calmly is good. But sometimes u have no choice....and in today's world ur attention means very lil. When she got 200 dudes a day given her attention and valadation on fb and Instagram etc ...this all goes down the drain. If they slept with 100 dudes sex goes out the window too...witch is the norm ...no dating coach today explains or mentions what modern women are. And what and have much it changed it jus the last 10 years. This advice would have been good like 20 -25 years ago....women are goin to like all these traits. But if her attention is on you. And she doesn't get time to think about you when your away. And instead is messaging other hot men. What do u think is gonna happen or how will anything progress. Il tell you it won't. The phone is a constant distraction. And you as a man. Need to narrow your choices of women down to a select few.
Couldn’t agree more. My wife recently emotionally cheated on me and I think being addicted and sitting all night on Facebook didn’t help
This all can be boiled down to just one word: self-confidence.
Maturity
Yeah, do the opposite of what every woman tells you, develop a backbone. It's rare these days, so you will be interesting to most women. If you don't challenge them they grow bored, it's the same the other way around. Despite what we might think or care to admit. The friction we all fear paves the way for the glue. If you can't handle the fuss you are better off alone.
Boom 💯 straight to the fooking point
Just a thought - with the stigma of men and "control", I think "take charge" really is a better way to describe it. Getting her drink refilled is taking charge. You can't control the environment. Too many variables that are always beyond you're control, but you CAN take charge of making sure her environment is as comfortable and enjoyable as possible.
I agree it’s a better way to describe it but not for your reasoning of stigma. Men don’t care about stigma!!! Ha Ha.
I agree with you. It’s simple when you think about it 😂 it goes to show you how many people are not aware
Life doesn't have kind Rewards for political correctness.
Control is control, regardless of the interpretations of the politics of the day.
The fear of stigma when being natural is for little boys.
Bobby is a master at his craft. I don't how many men simp around these girls.
Damn I'm doing this and it has been working 💯 %. I noticed that it works with the women I'm not interested in or like so much. Woww this dose was
Bobby, thank you for your content. I've been watching you and on your e-mail list for a while. My only regret is learning valuable information like this in my late 40s. But I'm keeping my head up and look forward to a brighter future in my dealings with all women whatever our relationship, because I learned from you or someone else that the truth is we have a pre-existing relationship with all women. My main desire is to project more pronounced masculinity than in the past, because I have broken each one of those five rules (desire and respect in both directions). No more
its never too late to change aspects that need to be improved.... Some of the guys i know having the most fun right now with women are guys in their 40s 50s and 60s...
@BobbyRio do you find older men are being more successful with younger women?
@@cnote4897he has videos on how successful you can be when you get older. His stuff works
Mate, take antinaging seriously, and have a great diet and life style you'll be better than most 20 and 30 yo
@@cnote4897 yes they do very well.
More spot on advice Bobby and I feel so much better after watching this video, the De-idolization of women tip is absolutely spot on as i'm one of those 'nice guys' who hasn't had many girlfriends and putting women on pedestals is something i've been very guilty of in the past and now after watching this you are so right, from now on i'm going to try and relax more and just treat them like any other person.
Repent and straighten up your ways!
Wow im the same as you but i havnt experienced anything yet and im glad im watching these videos before i do start talking to my hopefully soulmate 🥲
Really makes me realize again how there is a difference between a boring nice guy and a fun good guy.
Bobby, you're very good, man!
It's like a boy who'd been abandoned by his mother at 3 years old. He knows how to perceive women. He knows respect.
So when she said you never take the garbage out and I said that's a lie, I took you out last week, that wasn't the proper thing to say? 🤔
😂
Hahaha! My ex passed away. He use to make jokes like this! He was actually the most amazing supportive man I’ve known. People have no sense of humour now days!
😂
I am the 1% of the population that your experiments will not work on Mr B but it’s great that you are helping others to attain the unobtainable !
Everyone seems to be fueled by wanting love and finding it like it’s the holy grail of life itself ! Not me though because I got bigger and better things to do and I’ve got the best love of all loves… the love of myself ! No other love can beat that ! Cheers Bobby Rio
Well, I enjoy that energy. Getting excited when you meet a girl. It’s fun to watch my friends get into character. When they are excited when a new girl comes around and you make that connection. Don’t suck the fun out of it. You’re making it way too regimental.
This is such useful and practical information. Thanks a lot Bobby!
Sex actually is a huge deal. Pair bond, marriage. Once these girls are slutted out they can't bond anymore. That's why marriages don't last
Excellent insights
True.
I’ve been talking to females I knew from highschool since my wife recently passed.
Theres one in particular that was a real slut back then.
Shes very attractive and shes single.
Shes really into me and I know shes just dying for me to start communicating with her again but I just don’t really want to set myself up as her next ex fling.
Im better than that and Im gonna hold out for someone more wholesome.
I’m even not opposed to dating a chunky but cute country girl or farm girl that can appreciate a good man.
I just cant stand fake women, fake boobs, fake lips, fake eyelashes , fake nails, etc.
Its just such a turn off……Ill take a flat chested natural beauty any day as long as she has the values Im looking for.
My problem is Im just still too raw from my wife’s passing to put myself in the dating pool and I doubt Ill be actively looking but if it happens it happens but this loneliness thing is no joke but Im still young and I have a strong desire for companionship so Im hoping the universe sends another special lady my way.
Absolutely 💯 right
So true
Absolutely
Is "chasing" the best you can achieve? Actually, it is well known that all you need to do is stand there, and let the girls decide. My wife had been dumped by a two-timer, and had gone on a cruise to forget him. Not a very promising start, but from the moment we met, we were a recognised item. I was born with lifetime depression, and didn't want any girl to have to live with that, but I couldn't dissuade her. Between our eldest daughter and her then boyfriend, much the same thing happened. I always remember the girl who posted: "There are no boys in my town worth chasing."
Been following your work since I was in my mid teens all the way in South Africa (2010/2011) then I fell out and recently I stumbled on one of your UA-cam videos.
Your growth and consistency is out of this world. Thank you for your work!
I was born with 0 sex drive so I never went on a date or had a relationship, It used to bother me when I was younger man,but now I consider it a blessing since the stress and worry are non existent
You probably have low T (aka testosterone) you should get that checked by a doctor, not just for “sex drive” but other issues that can come up from low levels of testosterone. Balanced hormones (for both sexes) are key.
@@whitneyangelie3682 I have,the doctors say it's acceptable
@@Pault3788 “acceptable” doesn’t sound very good tho. That’s basically like saying “well it’s not the lowest we’ve seen so it’s not *that* bad”. I bet if you took a hormone replacement you’d feel completely different. My uncle actually did that when he started getting older and losing T, he had his doctor prescribe some testosterone replacement and he said it was the best thing he ever did. He got more energy, was more active and confident, and I’m sure his sexual health was better but ewww lol he obviously wouldn’t tell me about that part 😂
@@whitneyangelie3682 I've talked to several doctors about this and was told they stopped doing this because of the cancer risk
@@Pault3788 There are also health risks for men with too low testosterone....could cause heart problems, bone & muscle issues, etc. Key is to be in the "sweet spot" - not too low but not too high. And seeing a regular doctor is useless. You need to see a specialist - an endocrinologist who will do a full work up. It's not just about the main number of testosterone level on a test. There are sub categories like free testosterone, estrogen level (yes, men have it too and if it's out of range it can cause issues), etc.
Your videos are helpful… I’ve always been able to attract women, and exactly what you’re saying is exactly why I attract them. Then I get into a relationship and I try too hard when I should just be myself. It’s kind of a weird one now that she lives with me so some of things are a little tricky. Do you have any videos you recommend when you live with your partner? The thing is, when i do your principles, I get every girl attracted to me. When I actually love a girl, I drop my logic, act on emotions and sometimes in the past it would drive me to cheat to validate my own market value. Living with my partner complicates everything in terms of these key points and then learning from past mistakes and recognizing exactly what you’re taking about makes it like a very difficult situation to navigate. Appreciate your work. I recognize my faults, what you’re saying isn’t the first time I’m hearing it or recognizing it, but videos like this helps inventory my emotions and actions to handle situations better. Now that I’ve had the experience, I know to look for videos like this. Niche market, but very appreciated.
@JoshGiarratano31 -The advice
given by Bobby Rio is only to show how to impress a woman and get her as your partner or wife, and not to cheat women and have sex with them and discard them, breaking their hearts. Men must be gentlemen
When you get past 50 and your single, my advice is focus on the important parts of your life, and finding a mate should be farther down on the list. Be true to yourself, know what your goals are, and realize its not a bad thing if your alone at the moment. Have a great personality, treat ALL women with respect,, take care of your health, exercise, eat well. Women will notice.
I’ve recently started a new relationship with a woman I have immense feelings about. This clip is a nice compliment . Thank you 🙏🏼
Best of luck!
What I don't undertand is number 3. Showing desire to a woman is attractive for them you say.
But isn't that exactly what turns women off?
She doesn't want it to be too easy, she wants this mental challenge. If she knows you want her, won't she lose that desire?
I myself have had the experience that every time I told a woman that I was interested in her or that I had feelings for her, she was suddenly no longer interested.
And if I then ignored them and was more in "I'm not interested" mode, then they were interested again.
Bro, you're just the one I've been looking for all this while😢❤
"Oh, she's not that type of girl." Uh, in my experience, THEY ARE ALL that type of girl. The mental block is in your head, and if you aren't the one 'hitting it' someone else will be. Bobby Rio is spot on with that point about Desire + Respect (and note that he puts desire first) - if you want it, you want it, but if you wuss out, you will let a false sense of respect get ahead of your desire. See also Bobby's next point about De-Idolization of Women.
Don't misunderstand, guys! ...be 'there', make her feel safe with you. But its not done by being a rock! Be responsive, understanding, steady, but stay human. Also you, you are allowed to be moved sometimes - so a/the woman can hold you and support you. And experience herself 'for' you.
The way you explain these Knowledge Gems-Simple and Palatable! After watching this video a FEW times, I realized, I was violating a few, and important, Core standards!
Thank you for the Knowledge share; SUBSCRIBED!
Glad it was helpful!
@@BobbyRio Thank you Brother!
Absolutely superb content! I used to fall victim to all five of these points. Lately I've been growing and doing better. This video is validation that I'm on the right track. Thank you!
glad it resonated!
That is what I have been doing lately...pertaining to de-idolizing women...is not going along with what they say or agreeing to do what they say all of the time
It turns some of them off and I get strange looks, but I am not going to SIMP out say, "Sure, whatever you want."
Real talk
The best advice ever. Be the solid rock in her sea of emotions. ❤
This is definitely one of your best videos, Bobby. Thank you!
This is the first one of these videos I've seen that I actually agree with. It's taken a lot of self work to embody these principles and they all work. We reconnected after years apart, both of us divorced from our exes for around the same amount of time. We clicked, it was intense, and things moved at breakneck speed. She told me she wasn't ready for it, and we needed to let time pass and stay friends. We tried, struggled, then she put the breaks on hard. I respected her, told her I'd become more emotionally invested than I realized and needed some time to adjust, held up my boundaries when she still tried to contact me, and last time we hung out I behaved my damn self and the next day she sent me a video message in a bikini😂.
This is very informative. You are definitely the best dating coach.
glad you found it helpful!
"You like something u get it, u don't like something u say it".
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND YOU WILL FIND THE PERSON WITH YOUR VALUES AND MORALS = YOU WILL FIND YOUR TYPE...
Dont look for or hang out with people that dont share your morals or values just because you lonely....you will end up with a drinker if your not, a smoker if your not etc...
Bobby is a genius! Lots of praise and applause 👏
Thank you very much Bobby. I’m a single father and I got many issues with women, hopefully I’ll get better with this content you are making and sometimes I understand what I did wrong to my dates. Now I’m dating with my girlfriend and she is amazing. Sometimes my emotions fly away and I’ll say something wrong!
thanks for the comment, best of luck with your girlfriend!
Keep your inner feminine emotional side locked away in that box😂. I walk the same path as you my friend at 45.
Stay strong 💪
Bobby is a "game" OG, after all these yyearshis very sound advice is still very appreciated and highly relevant and THAT for a reason!
I love all the advice! I can definitely try to implement these things again. So much work for these things! I don't even want a relationship at this point but I definitely want to learn how to be sexier to women. I don't think I have enough emotional stability or endurance to deal with someone needing me to look after their happiness 24/7 and "be in control" while not being too in control and letting her be free. Being dominant and making plans for things just to be shot down. That's probably the biggest thing. Why not have any ideas and then shoot down everything I say?
This guy lost me when he talked about taking control. I'm having the same concerns as you. Giving her choices, coming to a decision together or simply lead. I don't certainly want to decide everything for her in the relationship.
Did you wear a mask? Well that’s how much in “control” you were/are. I don’t know why I watched this video but saw it and was curious of another’s opinion.
Very good stuff, however it will be still difficult for me being out of the dating scene for 2 years. Meeting a very attractive woman sometimes gets me flustered, because honestly like most men, it's hard to not be. But at my age, 62, I don't have a lot of time so it doesn't make sense to be overly careful about who I take a chance talking to.
Some good insight here, especially with respect to “Emotional Control”…Thanks Bobby!
Good to know!
Don t show to anybody that you are conffident, just be🤩
Hey Bobby, thank you what you're doing. After break up last Wednesday I feel your videos helps me to holding on 💪
glad its helping. Every breakup made me stronger over the years.
You have great knowledge about the subject. Everything you talked about, I said yes. Specially, the Non-Reactive subject. Men being a solid ground, rather than reacting with feminine energy. When we women complain, is not beacause we want to fight,.but we want for him to show with actions that he cares, rather than arguing back to us. Masculinity is very very sexy. Thank you for this video.
Another term for 'controlling the date' is to "manage" the date so you're not overexplaining it every time you say 'control'
Simply great! One of best videos on this topic, I've ever seen.
glad you found it helpful.
@@BobbyRio For standard situations it is enormously helpful, I can confirm some points by my own experiences, they work in practice! But... I am searching for material like "Does she reject you although she has feelings for you?" Have you ever heard about a case, when a girl almost aggressively (usually unprovoced) rejects you in words, every time you meet (she usually suggests meetings), but seems to be in love you in her actions, subliminal behavior, permanently looking to be closer to you, touches you permanently, looks for close physical contact, reacts panically, when she fears your rejection?
I have my experiences, a lot of them, a number of women are interested in me, right now, but this girl - sorry for this expression - f*cks my brain. I really love her, I have enjoyed her friendship, I want to keep her in any way close to me, also as friend, for me it's really OK. But if she loves me, too, I need to know it.. How can I figure out, what she's feeling?
@@BobbyRio OK, look, I can offer you something interesting, if you help me understand this strange girl. I can tell you, how I turned myself from a shy, clumsy, boring guy into a women magnet. Without being regarded as an a...le by my environment, by the way. Right now some girls literally freak out, behave shamelessly, even almost in front of their boyfriends or husbands. But the feelings of a girl, which I love, which know, so well, that I often can predict her behavior in special situations and always know, what she needs to feel better, are staying a mystery to me.
Great but I also feel like there are times that reactions also works cuz trust me, you can’t keep this up throughout your married life. Even Jesus got angry in the Bible and reacted. Trust me it’s good to reacts once in a while but watch what you do. ❤
23 years now she has no touch Desire , she found jet ski ever since that we been going down hill , beimg physically broken doesn't help , I do show my emotions and after this viedo gonna try to lock in place
Respect goes a long way
#2 Is on point. I went on a first date with a woman about a year ago. She took one look at me and said "Aw hell no, are those sweat pants?". I looked right at her and said, "I love my Vuoris. AMAZING comfort." and smiled. Completely ignored the test, and it worked! On the "Accountants are so boring." I'd reply, "Well, guess what? You're in luck because I'm going to bore you out of your MIND." ;-)
love it!
This is great list to use and would work for majority of us. I have listened to this content 2 times and would be happy to share with my mates who are in the same situation as me.
1. Emotional Autonomy
2. Non Reactive
3. Desire and Respect
4. De-Idolisation of Women
5. Be in control (control the situation).
Thank you Mr Bobby Rio, you have a purpose and you definitely fit the description as high value man. Looking forward to listening to your other contents.
Regards Belay Yim
Thanks!!!!! this is so good. and I think is not only for dating. This is normal respect for another people.
THIS is the most important datingvideo on YT.
thanks, yes, i believe if a man takes control of these things, everything else comes naturally.
Having 2 sons, this is what I've been looking for. How to be masculine, in a positive way, without having to 'feminise' ourselves or be a dick 🙂.
Thank you. This is excellent advice for young men.
You're a great father. Your sons are very lucky to have a strong father figure
You've actually got some good advice that checks out
Kudos!
The YT genre of attracting women is mostly redundant garbage that oversimplifies the psychology
glad you found helpful.
6:02 "They don't want to have control over you." I used to think they did want control over me...I'm open minded about what you are teaching and reasoning out what you are saying.
These Are The Rules. Write them down, memorize them, BUY the Scrambler course (it WORKS). Thank you Bobby & Rob!
Dude, I’m going to be honest. I am a bit of a nice guy, I do however have a backbone, problem is that when I first meet women I project a kind caring guy and from the get go they are turned off and don’t want to stick around to see the other side of my personality. Anyway, for the first time I decided to try something different and just started being loud, not caring, comedic, cussing, bad boy. Let me tell you something, I already have some women interested in me. I treated one like I just didn’t care about her opinions and did things my way and she’s been sticking around and legitimately wants to already have sex.
Facts!! When I am nice to my wife, she bitches and nags. I treat my wife the same way with asshole and do things only my way and she is all over this John😂😎
Legitimately wants to have sex....
Baaahahaha damn homie, you legitimately really need to get laid!!!
Great video. My main question and comment about this video as follows: is it appropriate to generalize what a specific gender (in this case all women) want in a partner? Considered conversely the question becomes: why it is appropriate to understand a specific individual female human being simply as a set of gender characteristics? Perhaps a video explaining that?
Maybe you can clarify something because it seems I have a different view of emotions than you
I believe we are in control of how we behave, but not in control of how we feel. Meaning, in spite of how we feel, we can choose our reaction. But we can not choose what we feel.
So this seems to contradict what you say about emotional autonomy. I don't think anyone truly has this. But we can choose to behave differently from how our emotions compel us to behave.
Masculine energy and feminine energy---neither is "weaker" or "stronger." Each of the two forms of personal energy can serve as a source of great strength. Each is unique. Each has ways in which it is superior; indeed, there are times and places in which one or the other will prove to be indispensable and irreplaceable.
I really needed the second section, thanks
Thank you. Older guy and I learned a lot from this something I should have known.. kind of embarrassing something I should have known a long time ago but better late than never 👍👍
never too late to learn!
😂 Same for me.... where was youtube when we were young and dumb?
Most of the time I didn't initiate anything either, because I found the men rather embarrassing from overhearing conversations in clubs and bars. I didn't want to belong there.
Thanks Bobby, i learn a lot👌
I began learning this after my divorce. My suggestion...to learn...put urself in uncomfortable situations. Good fortunes to u
I've been able to pull a lot of Girls for short term. But the biggest Difficulty when it comes to Long term Is Juggling Between Respect + Desire But Also De-Idolizing. These two Points Conflict With Each other Please Explain more.
You want to Pull a Wife out of her but she Still Just Wants the Short term Excitement from the first Month that isn't realistic for most men to be able to do for Years. How to do Both Throughout the Relationship to where on date 1,000 she still See's you as A Prize.
I think the word you're looking for at 22:21. nurturing energy, I like to apply both because it's shows women that I'm not just a "tough guy" but a man who has compassion and understands people all have feelings and they all matter.
Good sir, you can still achieve a more masculine voice and lower your relatively high tone of voice. See Nancy Daniels, The Voice Lady. She has a good course for this.
What about when you kinda give away a situation because you treat them (female) like grown-ups (be in control) and instead they react like kids? I think this part is a bit overlooked because dealing with kid like behavior sometimes could turn into like parenting dynamics and stuff. My point is... i just got tired of having to deal with kid minded woman. Id appreciate any feedback 🙏
zesty experienced men have a wisdom of masculnity than your everday blue collar joe isnt aware of. great job Bobby Rio, you keep doing you man. i pased on this video and i got recomennded again and im thankful. you know your shit brother
thanks for commenting, glad you gave it a chance.
This message is approved.. Top tier advice sir 👏👏
I’ve never had much issues getting women but I was in a long term relationship and we broke up and then I was dating around for a while with no girls that were really exciting me. Finally after a while I met an amazing girl that snowboarded also and we hit it off and it was so good in the beginning. The sex as some of the best ever and I could tell she was super into me. After a while I started to overthink things and worried about losing her and now watching this video I realized I started doing some of things I shouldn’t have. Well needless to say she ended up saying we were on different pages, I was moving too fast and everything else. It hurt me and I overreacted, unfortunately now I think it’s too late to fix. I’m slowly working on it and we are on good terms again but I think she lost that attraction to me and it sucks. I wish I would’ve seen some of these videos sooner and I think it could’ve been different. She really was the dream girl, I wish I had a Time Machine 😢. At this point I’ve met another great girl but if I could choose I really would want the last one, I just cringe watching these video realizing I was doing so many things that were slowly turning her off to me. I guess lesson learned and we move on. Maybe one day I’ll have a shot with her again but it’s unlikely and it really hurts to think about what maybe could’ve been if I had just handled some small things differently. Don’t be like me guys!
That idolization of women comes from childhood.
Thank you for putting this info into a video
Bobby is the real deal! I've learned so much about myself from him. Cannot thank the dude enough. He's been like a personal Dan Marino like dating coach, and I've been airing it up and going deep!!
I once told a girl i put the plastic thing on the ends of shoe laces. I also have never heard from her again.
That's called am aglet.
WWE has Bobby Lashley & WE have Bobby Rio
Well presented and absolutely usable for a better interaction with women in general... To get passed their innate tendency to second guess and "rock the boat" with their feminine and somewhat strange and weird-looking ways. Probably a survival mechanism thing from the early time of men's interaction with them in tribal and primitive settings from 1000s of years back......
Thank you so much ❤❤ love from INDIA🇮🇳
Sadly The “Masculine” energy gets you behind bars nowadays . But good points.