Yes to not settling for mediocre relationships!!! I have stayed in situations for a lot longer than I should because the person was great on paper and was overall a standup guy, BUT our relationship was lukewarm and did not progress so I had to ultimately cut it off
Great point, "time away ". It is a bit difficult to evaluate the relationship when he promised things that do not happen and still have hope. Thank you very much for your support,.
I respect you mike for being honest. I’ve met many in these relationships. I rather be single than be in an mediocre relationship and try to make it work.
Being engaged is not the same as a marriage. Ending an engagement before you become a family is not a remotely similar situation to a divorce. It hurts & is life changing, but you are not breaking vows.
I’m so glad you listened to your gut feeling. I think we need to listen to our intuition more... If your not satisfied you will never be happy. yes 🙌🏻 I agree!
I left my husband 14 years ago because of a sh!tty marriage I didn't think I'd be single this long 😂 but I refuse to settle life is too short 🦏 !! On to the next video 😁
You can’t maintain the exciting beginning of a relationship indefinitely. If you’re living together before marriage, you’re just playing house and life has become more normal/routine. Don’t have sex before marriage, then make a lifelong commitment before God.
You know what? Feelings can come and go. There's no logic to it. Maybe hormones. You might have a spell where you get disillusioned or unsettled and though there's really nothing wrong at all, you've been together a long time, you feel like breaking up, even though you've mentioned marriage. I met a person who told me this and it was his biggest regret. He broke up with her. Of course she got on with other guys. Couldn't forgive her. After some time he tried to get back with her. He tried. She tried. It was never the same again. 7 year relationship. Can you imagine, that's the length of some marriages! Now she's married to someone else. She was his best friend, love of his life. She will always be "the one that got away". One man said his life was the same as always, wonderful wife who is his best friend. With kids, car, house. But something didn't feel right. He looked into his life and saw nothing in lack. He could not understand the feelings. He consciously CHOSE to stick it out. Miraculously it PASSED. Life was great again. He remains super committed and happy with his wife and is determined to do so. Been married 30+ years. Moral of the story is this. There may be periods where you may not be satisfied with yourself and your partner. These can come and go as cycles. Your feelings aren't reliable. They are changeable and can be unpredictable. Expecting your relationship to be "incredible" all the time, is it even realistic? This is pure fantasy. Please stop. If you Base all your decisions on emotions alone, l think you will most likely regret it later. There's a relationship expert who talks about the ebbs and flows in a relationship. It's quite normal. Don't take your relationship or your partner for granted (calling it 'mediocre'). Everything you do has consequences. Hopping from partner to partner, is that what you really want? Is that really the best way? I believe there are many people we can be compatible and happy with, there are some 7 or 8 billion people on earth after all. If this was a test, it's a test on your commitment and values. If l were your girl, I would think, this guy doesn't have what it takes to go the distance! I thought what we had was great. I did everything l could to please you, to make this work, and you turn around and say it's not enough. I'm not enough. Wow. How can that be when you proposed to me? Doesn't that mean something? I am wife material and you saw a future with me. I know I am not mediocre. I know l am right for you. And you just push me away. I can't believe this. You think you can do better than me? Go ahead because I know you will simply end up with a different version of me. That's the best you can do. I am going for that HAPPILY EVER AFTER on my own
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Yes to not settling for mediocre relationships!!! I have stayed in situations for a lot longer than I should because the person was great on paper and was overall a standup guy, BUT our relationship was lukewarm and did not progress so I had to ultimately cut it off
Great point, "time away ". It is a bit difficult to evaluate the relationship when he promised things that do not happen and still have hope. Thank you very much for your support,.
I respect you mike for being honest. I’ve met many in these relationships. I rather be single than be in an mediocre relationship and try to make it work.
Settling is never satisfying
Hanging on to mediocre, luke warm, dissatisfying relationships is settling for what you don’t want.
Settling is never satisfying
You are 💯% right:
MUST get away for a few DAYS in order to get perspective.
👍
Being engaged is not the same as a marriage. Ending an engagement before you become a family is not a remotely similar situation to a divorce. It hurts & is life changing, but you are not breaking vows.
Thank you. 🦏 love what you said Mike! Assess the relationship not the person! so so important.🔥Life is too short!
🦏🦏🦏🦏🦏
It also removes the personal blame/ shame finger pointing and puts the focus on the relationship dynamics 👍
I’m so glad you listened to your gut feeling. I think we need to listen to our intuition more... If your not satisfied you will never be happy. yes 🙌🏻 I agree!
Don’t evaluate the people person evaluate the relationship do not stay in mediocre relationships don’t settle for it. Bad behavior.
Not only the pain but also the sin, unlrss its Gid's plsn. Ty.❤
Ur a wonderful man my coach!!!!!!!!!!!!
May our heavenly father keep u safe and ur lovedones!!!!!!! Muah!👍🤗💋
Thank you!! And you as well!
Ty.❤
Ty. Something to think about. . Ifthis is His plan, God will guide me to it. 💏❤
I left my husband 14 years ago because of a sh!tty marriage I didn't think I'd be single this long 😂 but I refuse to settle life is too short 🦏 !! On to the next video 😁
💜💜💜🙌🙌🙌🦏🦏🦏🦏
Ty. ❤God bless me🙏
That's what I needed to do almost a year ago. Best decision! Thank you Mike for sharing your stories and for helping us out ❤️🤗
Thank You Mike. Loved this video💕
Question: Do men get over a breakup easier than women?
Trust yourself!
You can’t maintain the exciting beginning of a relationship indefinitely. If you’re living together before marriage, you’re just playing house and life has become more normal/routine. Don’t have sex before marriage, then make a lifelong commitment before God.
Hola! Ty.❤
You're welcome
Yes, it would hurt, but you know Mike, l get over real quick, and go on with life.
Beautiful!!!
@@EZDatingCoach My life is more important then just to shed tears for a sorry man. When l am done, I'm done.
@@luztorres3243 🙌🙌🙌
On the stress test..... Lockdowns are 100 lol
You know what? Feelings can come and go. There's no logic to it. Maybe hormones. You might have a spell where you get disillusioned or unsettled and though there's really nothing wrong at all, you've been together a long time, you feel like breaking up, even though you've mentioned marriage. I met a person who told me this and it was his biggest regret. He broke up with her. Of course she got on with other guys. Couldn't forgive her. After some time he tried to get back with her. He tried. She tried. It was never the same again. 7 year relationship. Can you imagine, that's the length of some marriages! Now she's married to someone else. She was his best friend, love of his life. She will always be "the one that got away".
One man said his life was the same as always, wonderful wife who is his best friend. With kids, car, house. But something didn't feel right. He looked into his life and saw nothing in lack. He could not understand the feelings. He consciously CHOSE to stick it out. Miraculously it PASSED. Life was great again. He remains super committed and happy with his wife and is determined to do so. Been married 30+ years.
Moral of the story is this. There may be periods where you may not be satisfied with yourself and your partner. These can come and go as cycles. Your feelings aren't reliable. They are changeable and can be unpredictable. Expecting your relationship to be "incredible" all the time, is it even realistic? This is pure fantasy. Please stop. If you Base all your decisions on emotions alone, l think you will most likely regret it later.
There's a relationship expert who talks about the ebbs and flows in a relationship. It's quite normal. Don't take your relationship or your partner for granted (calling it 'mediocre'). Everything you do has consequences. Hopping from partner to partner, is that what you really want? Is that really the best way? I believe there are many people we can be compatible and happy with, there are some 7 or 8 billion people on earth after all.
If this was a test, it's a test on your commitment and values. If l were your girl, I would think, this guy doesn't have what it takes to go the distance! I thought what we had was great. I did everything l could to please you, to make this work, and you turn around and say it's not enough. I'm not enough. Wow. How can that be when you proposed to me? Doesn't that mean something? I am wife material and you saw a future with me. I know I am not mediocre. I know l am right for you. And you just push me away. I can't believe this. You think you can do better than me? Go ahead because I know you will simply end up with a different version of me. That's the best you can do. I am going for that HAPPILY EVER AFTER on my own
Tru dat!
💥🎯😎👌
Ty.❤