How We Honestly Feel About Caring For Our Brother With Special Needs

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  • @mohdfahmy3814
    @mohdfahmy3814 Рік тому +208

    Excellent job Daddy and Mummy for instilling good family values to your children!

    • @bobafett5757
      @bobafett5757 Рік тому +12

      Dont forget about the maid

    • @NazriB
      @NazriB Рік тому +1

      Lies again? Special Agent National Service

  • @elaineclaire7063
    @elaineclaire7063 Рік тому +142

    Love the inclusiveness in this family ❤️
    The maturity of each sister really showcases empathy and love in acceptance of the brother.

  • @stephaniemuse
    @stephaniemuse Рік тому +118

    If the parents had done a terrible job, their daughters wouldn't be this kind, intelligent, and eloquent. It is clear that they have their own goals and dreams, whilst still also understanding that their parents will grow older and so, eventually, the responsibility of taking care of Jaden would fall on them. There is a balance to be had - and these three girls all seem to have good heads on their shoulders and would definitely be able to make the best choices for their lives. May they be granted many days of happiness and fulfilment.

  • @opheliajadefeldt9123
    @opheliajadefeldt9123 11 місяців тому +12

    These are very, very, special girls and their parents must be so proud of them. Just think, we are only watching about 10 ten minutes of THEIR day, they have done this for 24 hours 7 days a week. That is true dedication and sincere care. I hope all their dreams come true because they, more than anyone, deserve them to.

  • @limtimothy846
    @limtimothy846 Рік тому +70

    You three girls have taken family ties & bonding to a new height with so much genuine care, concern, commitment & love for your brother. These days there're some who are so self centred with no time for parents or siblings let alone sibling with special needs. My respect & admiration to you girls. Keep up the good work !!

  • @ownthegame3
    @ownthegame3 Рік тому +35

    Jayden knows he has great sisters and parents.
    It is not easy but the circumstances bring about the love, the bonds, the humility and empathy that are extraordinary.

  • @patt5085
    @patt5085 Рік тому +53

    Growing up wishing my parents would divorce I never really had a moment like this. You guys have each other. Real loving family.

    • @elaineclaire7063
      @elaineclaire7063 Рік тому +3

      naww, sending some love your way, chin up, sometimes our family are not from our DNA. 🫶🏽

  • @MrOngJohn
    @MrOngJohn 23 дні тому +1

    I also have 3 beautiful girls. So sweet to see that these siblings are so loving towards each other.

  • @sunnygarden4948
    @sunnygarden4948 Рік тому +7

    Wow the 3 sisters are tight! Ive never see before, they are physically close, holding hands & hugging. And mentally supportive.

  • @david94134
    @david94134 2 місяці тому +1

    These girls are so sweet.

  • @vincentchanbiz
    @vincentchanbiz Рік тому +7

    The true meaning of love, from parents and siblings.
    So heartwarming and a great lesson for all of us, staying positive.
    I wish your family well! ❤

  • @qianliow4421
    @qianliow4421 Рік тому +13

    i watched the entire documentary of the family since the previous ones. respect,admiration to the entire family. it's never ever easy to raise children with special needs. love and light and blessings to the family ❤

  • @dchew5552
    @dchew5552 Рік тому +16

    love that the sisters showed so much empathy.
    I have brain dysfunction, hypothyroidism and pituitary gland issue,
    brain dysfunction was due to the head injuries I sustained when I was in sec4, which was nine years ago as classmates always like to kick soccer which always hit my head but there's once, one of the classmates kicked soccer ball into the sky while at the field gate into the field, which I got head shot and nose bleed, since then I couldn't cope with studies and been at home ever since, as back then after head injuries I had trouble finding way home after school as I couldn't remember my way home and started having trouble walking normally as my leg would jerk, I usually walk to school within 15minutes but after the head injury it took me an hour. school shows no empathy especially the student council and teacher in charge of the latecomers, even when my teacher request consent from the principal to allow me to enter school after morning assembly and before lesson starts, along with class bullying me as one shouted that im fat and entire classmates laughed along, there bullying got worse as not fat shamed, they even moved my table and chair to somewhere else in the school, stole my textbook and followed me home all the way to my doorsteps. I stopped going school and only attended n level English papers only. principal only advised me to get tested for thyroid which I got hypothyroidism. and since my sis is an adult, my mom ever asked her if she could take care of me in the future when they're not around since I have brain dysfunction im incapable of getting a job as I tried before and had brain fog which impossible to remember the task given, her response shocked my mom as she said "dont ever rely on me, I dont have money" my mom was dishearten by such heartless respond as she earned more than $5k. I was dishearten by her response as for me, if the role were to change, I would definitely take up the role to take care.

  • @pinsongorga8466
    @pinsongorga8466 Рік тому +46

    Solid Sisterhood ❤

  • @melts7781
    @melts7781 Рік тому

    The family cohesiveness is heartwarming. And the maturity of the sisters at this age is impressive. When some windows close, other doors open.

  • @huilin0708
    @huilin0708 Рік тому +24

    this is so heartwarming! lovely to see the sisters so united and grounded in their identity. i watched the previous series, and some people can be so judgemental. as they said, we are just seeing snap shot of what is happening in their lives, we don't have a big picture. kudos to them! tough journey none the less, much salutations to them!

  • @izzabinteismail1566
    @izzabinteismail1566 Рік тому +5

    amazing and beautiful sisters. just beautiful. brought tears to my eyes to see how optimistic they are, and just how much empathy they have.

  • @tsesheng2641
    @tsesheng2641 3 місяці тому

    You sisters are so empathetic and understanding! You are definitely someone I look up to and you are a mature and strong role model to all of us.

  • @Athenaforever2308
    @Athenaforever2308 10 місяців тому +1

    You can see the sisterhood is strong!! You girls are beautiful and inspiring, Thank you!!!! And your brother and your parents are very lucky to have you!!! I am sure you will all go very far in life! Hello to Jayden all the way from Tanzania!

  • @myeongwol
    @myeongwol Рік тому +3

    So nice to have so much sibling love.
    Wish the sisters all the best ☺️

  • @Ruth-lo3qh
    @Ruth-lo3qh Місяць тому +1

    Jayden does have very High IQ even if he has disabilities. I can tell he is a very playful and kind brother to his loving sisters. 🥰😃

  • @AMoKDuke
    @AMoKDuke Рік тому +18

    Watching this video, I'm filled with immense respect and admiration for all three of you. It's truly heartwarming to see how you embrace the role of caregivers for your brother, Jayden, with such patience, grace, and unwavering love. Remember that it's perfectly okay to have moments of struggle - they don't make you any less incredible. Continue to support one another as you have been, because the unity in your family is truly something special. In a world that often seems lacking in empathy, your unwavering love and dedication to Jayden's well-being is a beacon of hope. Your story serves as an invaluable lesson for us all on the importance of love, resilience, and understanding.
    Keep shining and inspiring! You're making a difference not just in Jayden's life, but in the lives of all who hear your story.
    Stay strong! 💪❤

  • @jasminetan736
    @jasminetan736 Рік тому +7

    Well brought up kids and well spoken and mature in their thinking. They will ride out well in life

  • @shumlulu6605
    @shumlulu6605 Рік тому +1

    I also have two siblings with special needs, but I totally understand this is not easy. These three sisters show how much they love & care for their brother, and treat him like a normal kid. This is not everyone can do the same thing as them. Hope your family is happy forever. U guys have done a good job.

  • @Lemonkisss
    @Lemonkisss Рік тому +4

    Really strong family made of rock. The wonderful girls are so mature, sweet and awe inspiring at the same time. Jayden definitely feel very cherished every day to be part of this loving family. ❤😊

  • @WheeledHamster
    @WheeledHamster Рік тому +12

    This is what family is all about. My family dropped me when I got into a car accident in 2011 and was paralyzed.

  • @ethantay4630
    @ethantay4630 7 місяців тому

    im glad that you are his sisters, you understand the role but still wantto help.
    not all of us can have such a happy family

  • @Ruth-lo3qh
    @Ruth-lo3qh Місяць тому +1

    The sisters are very hard working 😊😃

  • @danicafong-shoji6052
    @danicafong-shoji6052 Рік тому +12

    You girls are awesome! So much respect for your family of taking care of each other ❤

  • @dessy982
    @dessy982 Рік тому +1

    You really know these girls has quality like a diamond. Hope they could become successful people in world especially Singapore.🙏🏻

  • @ngenxiadelenbss1849
    @ngenxiadelenbss1849 Рік тому +6

    the three sisters are so mature !!

  • @dorothyew7156
    @dorothyew7156 5 місяців тому

    Wonderful sisters !
    This brings back bittersweet memories of my sisters and I loving our late brother who had special needs.

  • @SGrailadventure2004
    @SGrailadventure2004 Рік тому +1

    A great 'sisterhood' of staying strong despite the struggles in helping their special need brother. Seeing fights or arguments within a family is something I won't want to see.

  • @Bird34115
    @Bird34115 4 місяці тому

    Thank you y’all for responding to some of the comments and going deep into some questions as well. I really think y’all are so wholesome and are doing the best u can to support Jayden. Good stuff guys and ignore the hate comments as they don’t have the whole story anyways. And Jeslyn, it’s gna be ok. Stay strong and hope y’all doing ok❤

  • @Ruth-lo3qh
    @Ruth-lo3qh Місяць тому +2

    Theese girls are very great sisters to Jayden and very helpful. 😊😃

  • @jimw8615
    @jimw8615 Рік тому +9

    Taking up responsibility is wat I see here. Rather then shy away. U can’t calculate and draw line in a family or in life in general. It loses its meaning after a while. J has somehow become the glue in the family

  • @jxc168
    @jxc168 Рік тому +1

    Amazing sisters. You all are the epitome of sisterhood

  • @metallooily7606
    @metallooily7606 Рік тому +1

    Take care of each other too, we are proud of all, Parent too

  • @P53eud0nym05
    @P53eud0nym05 Рік тому +32

    What resulted in those comments was the mum saying the plan was to have more kids so when they are gone there are siblings to look after Jayden.
    Whether it was edited to make it seem like she said that, or if she legit said that the audience will not know.
    But since the sisters say they don’t feel that way, good for them.

    • @berryspinelsun
      @berryspinelsun Рік тому +7

      In the previous documentary, the mother did say that they (I assume she and her husband) told the girls that Jayden was part of the girls' responsibility when they are no longer around. That set off a lot of comments in that video saying that that sounds unfair for the girls.

  • @paulinewong5906
    @paulinewong5906 Рік тому +1

    These parents are lucky to hv such 3 wonderful girls..
    Ya no matter what he is your brother n family stays together or cares for each other

  • @jennieloh6312
    @jennieloh6312 Рік тому +1

    Proud parents! All of you are so wholesome.

  • @priyavicky3401
    @priyavicky3401 Рік тому +1

    jayden is so lucky to have such loving sisters. One day , when the parents r not around I am sure his sisters would take care of him. Jayden is also good looking .

    • @moonstarsun633
      @moonstarsun633 Рік тому

      Wait till the sisters are married and have kids.

  • @nicklee7002
    @nicklee7002 Рік тому +6

    CNA should revisit this family for an update 30 years later.

  • @marionsmith4728
    @marionsmith4728 Рік тому +1

    What a wonderful family,so loving and accepting ❤

  • @suhaimielibra478
    @suhaimielibra478 Рік тому +3

    im really understand how your feeling when have 1 bro or sis who special, just like me have 2 sisters that Thallasemia,, taking care of them is a happiness for me cause thats my destiny ,,what an inspirations family

  • @Ruth-lo3qh
    @Ruth-lo3qh Місяць тому

    These sister are doing an excellent job taking care of their brother Jayden.
    🎉👏😃😍🤩🎊

  • @cheewanng6138
    @cheewanng6138 Рік тому +1

    All I see is love from every pixel of this video.

  • @SsugarNSpice
    @SsugarNSpice 9 місяців тому

    I would look after him he is so sweet he is a gem

  • @JenniferKim-kv8rx
    @JenniferKim-kv8rx Рік тому +1

    Amazing family! If only every family was like this…

  • @cherylang4108
    @cherylang4108 Рік тому

    stay strong rooting for your family❤❤

  • @JaneJohnson-vg3xi
    @JaneJohnson-vg3xi Рік тому

    god bless you for caring for your brother you girls have alot of love for your brother

  • @belugaservices8424
    @belugaservices8424 Рік тому

    I feel you . What a wonderful siblings !! I can relate it , the ups and downs . Keep it up, gals

  • @6969Liverpool
    @6969Liverpool Рік тому

    Lovely siblings & great parenting from parents. Stay Strong ❤❤

  • @Jsarmy87124
    @Jsarmy87124 Рік тому +4

    For the moment parents don't think about the future
    because everything gonna be on sister's shoulders
    A lot of adults with disabilities can't leave on their own its very Very Very hard
    To take care of them
    You are scared all the time people look down on them
    You can't have your own life too so
    It's a burden like older people who are sick I have a brother in the case
    Family values It's one thing but the difficulties who came with it It's not easy

    • @moonstarsun633
      @moonstarsun633 Рік тому +2

      Reality is always hard. If brother suffers from mild autism or mild down syndrome, at least not so bad. Once the sisters have families, it will really be a challenge. The parents must prepare financially well for Jayden's so sisters no need to dig into savings to take care their brother. The sisters can use the funds to take care the brother. This is better I guess.

  • @MuhammadTahir-lf4hu
    @MuhammadTahir-lf4hu Рік тому

    You are strong sisters & your parents are also strong

  • @mamalittlekoala1804
    @mamalittlekoala1804 4 місяці тому

    Good kids! Togetherness!

  • @youtubeaudience384
    @youtubeaudience384 Рік тому +2

    I feel so bad for his parents, imagine raising a child like that!? How unfortunate..😢

    • @salmasalamoon
      @salmasalamoon Рік тому

      Did you learn nothing from this video?

  • @dessy982
    @dessy982 Рік тому +2

    I'm very glad if he has very warm-loving sisters and family in his life..❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @enhypenfan123
    @enhypenfan123 6 місяців тому

    Wow wow wow … good Jie Jie . May god look upon you girls . Jia You. Jayden so so so fortunate to have Jie Jie like you three . Impressive girls .

  • @SummerOngNagaraj
    @SummerOngNagaraj Рік тому

    What an amazing family!

  • @moonrei69
    @moonrei69 Рік тому

    Awesome sisters, loving family!

  • @clara.t68
    @clara.t68 Рік тому +6

    Jayden is one lucky lucky child (:

    • @mathshouldntdie9996
      @mathshouldntdie9996 Рік тому

      Unlucky because he contracted PURA syndrome.
      Sorry if I was being sorta ableist

  • @EmEm872
    @EmEm872 Рік тому

    What a beautiful family❤

  • @youarehere1251
    @youarehere1251 Рік тому

    As time goes by, things will change for better or worse.

  • @CocoaBanana914
    @CocoaBanana914 Рік тому

    Beautiful families

  • @yueling3424
    @yueling3424 Рік тому

    I LOVE THESE GIRLS!

  • @jag4064
    @jag4064 Рік тому

    Lovely family.

  • @lplk
    @lplk Рік тому

    Respect!

  • @bobafett5757
    @bobafett5757 Рік тому +2

    *Am just wondering is there any type of cure for such condition ?*

  • @mmsutantowrites
    @mmsutantowrites 9 місяців тому

    Family ❤❤❤

  • @AungThu-cg2ov
    @AungThu-cg2ov 9 місяців тому

    Good family.

  • @abdulrajaf6
    @abdulrajaf6 Рік тому

    Honestly...He is Smart...n TRUST...me...he knows a LOT of things that we NORMAL PERSON...dont know.....

  • @bchpls24
    @bchpls24 Рік тому +17

    Quite sad that they have to make another video just to address comments. People can be mean. How is it even our problem if the sisters want to take care of their own blood?😅

  • @HarpaxA
    @HarpaxA Рік тому +3

    Hopefully they still stay true and taking care of their brother, AFTER they are getting married.

    • @moonstarsun633
      @moonstarsun633 Рік тому +2

      When they have their own families, it might be different story. The sisters can said whatever they want now. Unless each of them is willing to take turn let him stay at their home and hire a maid. But I'm sure the parents have to prepare for Jayden's so as to relieve sisters from bearing the bulk of responsibilities. Wishing them well!

  • @bobafett5757
    @bobafett5757 Рік тому +4

    *Looks like theres a maid in this household so all respect to the maid*

  • @bobafett5757
    @bobafett5757 Рік тому +5

    *Unsure if the sister knows the difference between a caretaker and caregiver cos its not the same based on the brothers situation*

  • @wanderfooltang3520
    @wanderfooltang3520 Рік тому +2

    3 great lovely sisters

  • @janeli1351
    @janeli1351 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @irenekoo
    @irenekoo Рік тому +3

    FAST AND FURIUOUS X is the bomb!

  • @gpaulac5284
    @gpaulac5284 Рік тому

    Pass

  • @TheresaChen-b1f
    @TheresaChen-b1f Місяць тому

    I have siblings two

  • @Honeymagmangospoof
    @Honeymagmangospoof Рік тому +2

    Why you all only feature this Chinese family

  • @brucelee5576
    @brucelee5576 Рік тому

    Man I haven’t seen a Hungry Hungry Hippo in 35 years.

  • @KironManuelCards
    @KironManuelCards Рік тому

    If anyone wants care either in Singapore or Malaysia,let me know.

  • @kinokunia
    @kinokunia Рік тому

    whoa, wondered who would even think that he is a burden.

  • @jewelseng9900
    @jewelseng9900 Рік тому +1

    Everything’s cool before they found their “the ones” 😂 after marriage it’s totally gonna be a different story with the siblings

    • @moonstarsun633
      @moonstarsun633 Рік тому +1

      Agreed

    • @jewelseng9900
      @jewelseng9900 Рік тому

      @@moonstarsun633 after them having their own kids to take care of
      meh 🫤 that poor brother , hope the parents are still alive

  • @TheresaChen-b1f
    @TheresaChen-b1f Місяць тому

    I eating and drinking myself

  • @officialnyiyanmoehtet
    @officialnyiyanmoehtet Рік тому

    What are the heights of the 14 and 16 years old girls? Jeslyn and Selene. And why were they born as girls? Is it because they want to be females? So jealous, I don't want to be a male. I want to be a female but my parents don't let me.

  • @jessz3104
    @jessz3104 Рік тому +5

    the parents are very selfish. to limit their daughter's opportunity by tying them down to their brother. the 3 sisters have no husband or boyfriend yet. easy for them to say anything, wait till they have their own families and children...

    • @fuschiarose
      @fuschiarose Рік тому +9

      Clearly you don’t understand, nor do you have the honor of caring for a loved one with special needs. Can’t you see that they’re happy caring for their brother? Is life really all about finding a mate? You believe they won’t be able to find someone all because their brother is disabled?

    • @hayatieow4727
      @hayatieow4727 Рік тому +3

      I think the parents are trying to push the responsibility of taking care of the brother without considerations towards the 3 girls who have their own individual challenges in life to manage!
      It is a real challenge for the parents to do what are the right things to do , in all aspects of the family life !
      Nevertheless, instilling the genuine care n love giving is universally recognized as the proud value that each n everyone of us should.
      Have to be spiritually strong n committed while facing adversities in life.
      Good Luck!

    • @chowpoknga6805
      @chowpoknga6805 Рік тому

      I think the brother make these 3 girls to be strong and mature faster than girls of their age. So see it as a blessing in disguise. Let’s face it even normal people can’t tell how the future holds. So stop worrying and just enjoy the company around you now.

  • @erohimuu
    @erohimuu Рік тому

    I want to be autistic pls

  • @TheresaChen-b1f
    @TheresaChen-b1f Місяць тому

    I have school assistant

  • @lpericteo
    @lpericteo Рік тому

    阿弥陀佛🙏🙏🙏善哉善哉

  • @Julio-wf8go
    @Julio-wf8go Рік тому

    Promo`SM

  • @SamriddhiPal-p6k
    @SamriddhiPal-p6k Рік тому

    Hwre i am a sjngle daughter with some defects in me. And my parents hate me, for bejng a girl 😂

  • @GPTMagana
    @GPTMagana Рік тому

    well, I'm sorry. But I will see Jayden as a guy on drugs overloaded with sugar

  • @playmobil806
    @playmobil806 9 місяців тому

    Muttersprachen überprüfen....

  • @TheresaChen-b1f
    @TheresaChen-b1f Місяць тому

    I have seizure

  • @tokitoyotokitoyo
    @tokitoyotokitoyo Рік тому +2

    Too much pork !

    • @CrystalCat24
      @CrystalCat24 7 місяців тому

      LMFAO get out of here 😅

  • @emmajk7433
    @emmajk7433 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤