I'll continue to dress for my comfort. I think opinions about what people think what other people shouldn't wear are very low value topics for video blogging. You seem fairly bright, why not find something to blog about that would help someone to improve their quality of life, or enlighten us on something that actually matters.
@@JohannesNielsen I'm with you. I had a great dad, died at age 87, who had the worst taste in clothes. I remember being embarrassed because he wore a pink polyester leisure suit to a family reunion once. I didn't see his confidence. I didn't see he was the life of the party. As a teen, I judged him superficially, because I was a dumb kid. My dad was right. Be yourself, if people can't handle it, who cares. Thanks Dad. It took me a while to figure it out.
I know, right. Stay a rebel. Other men respect you in your socks and sandals, sweat pants and untucked shirt with big sneakers, or dress shoes with white socks and cargo pants.
@4:42 Instead of flip-flops with a pair of jeans, one can wear sandals with cream linen pants : super confortable, fresh under the sun with a sudden classy look and super relax with confidence. With a super flashy Hawaiian shirt! 😁 Anyway, without confidence, any Smalto or anything else it all will go down the tubes.
I believe it was Oscar Wilde who said, “Fashion is a style of dress that is so hideous it must be changed every six months.” Wear what makes you comfortable.
For me, comfortable shoes are a life necessity. Finding that, and being somewhat stylish, can be a challenge. Still, I go for the comfort first.
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If you have bunions like me closed shoes are impossible. Even sneakers are difficult unless you can find really wide ones. No normal store stocks them. Thankfully I live in sunny Arizona where I can wear open sandals almost all year.
I am 84 and have always taken pride in my appearance and my clean look. Perhaps it has much to do the age I grew up in. We dressed up when we went to town and church. Also military thought us to look sharp and be sharp. I have great pride in the right look..also appreciate women that are dressed right. Just me and how I am.
Lol! I still make sure my shirt buttons are in line with my fly/belt, I make sure my belt buckle is centered, but I drew the line many moons ago about bouncing a quarter off my bed.
@@jamesberry3230You know, there is a time for sloppy wear when you just don't care and a time for prowling for smelly stuff. I think these women are angry that all these "sloppy" men could care less if they appear attractive to these horrible bleach blonds with mohawk black streaks in their lifeless hair, fat botox lips, fake boobs and 25# of overweight.
Today definitely even more in coronatimes. I'm sure if you show a clean picture of your self it leads the first impression of the other gender or same to the idea "well this person is interisted to be healthy and wants to feel good"
@Joe Jordan The reason you don't believe me is that when you chose a woman, you chose badly. That's not my fault nor blame. There are good women like me out there, you just need to reevaluate why you choose the users.
Enjoy "your stuff". That matters in life - stuff. And looking like the guy who is carrying "stuff" makes you look very attractive. But what do yu care about that?
Hats should be a must in places like Texas and Arizona! If you think wearing hats is a bad look, wait until you are in your 50s and 60s and getting chunks cut out of your head and face due to skin cancer from NOT wearing a hat. If you live in a colder climate, where the sun is not as harsh, then feel free to follow that advice. Here in Texas, a hat is a safe and functional bit of clothing. I am 57 and no issues with skin cancer yet, largely because I wear hats. I live in Texas and wear a hat all the time, oddly enough, I get nothing but compliments from women. I even wear a fedora and a Churchill homburg and get compliments. The key is what you wear with the hat, if you dress stylishly without going for a modern trend, you are safe.
My uncle in San Diego, CA, liked showing off to the ladies with his Caesar Romero looks. Got skin cancer on his nose. Wore a flat brim gaucho style after that outdoors.. But I had to wear a dixie cup and dungarees out most of the time. When I was there. But when not in uniform my blue baseball cap with the orange D on the front. Hope I don't get skin cancer on my ears.
Same in Australia. Wear a damn hat - broad-brimmed too, not a baseball cap. I wore caps for years and had a skin cancer on my ear 18 months ago. Now it's an Akubra or a Stetson brimmed hat. I'm bald too. I've got a bare dome to protect, so fu ladies if you don't like what you see when I take my hat off.
I wear Crocs knockoffs that I got at Walmart. Sometimes with socks! Three reasons: 1) comfort; 2) repel the type of people who are repelled by Crocs; 3) repel brand snobs.
You hit it on the nail. Cargo shorts make you look like that guy who has a lot to hide, a sneaky guy you don't want to have too close to you. When his belly hangs over the belt - the image of a loser is perfect
And if you wear cargo shorts, no woman will want to go to the movies with you and you'll have twice as much money to spend on candy. You'll also not be asked the rest of the evening your interpretation of the "relationship" shown in the movie and how yours is going.
Look sharp! Feel sharp! Be sharp! I remember that sign inside my neighborhood barbershop back when they still used straight razors and leather strops. Great advice.
a cargo long shorts some long printed shirt not tucked with some flip-flops with a colorful socks, and a cool hat. that is not that hard and i think would look ok.(especially if is a beach)
I love every single one of these items. They are all I ever wear, every day! I love love love wearing sandals with white socks, cargo pants, an untucked long button shirt and a really well-worn baseball cap.
I wear Vibram Five fingers with the utmost confidence. My girlfriend may not like them but she understands that they are my thing and go with my quirky yet confident sense of style.
Some of these are laughable and very dependent on the situation and location. When a guy reaches a certain age, single or not, we don't give a crap what "women" think.
@Vox Deus I agree. I was widowed at 41, got married again, divorced after 15 years, now I'm engaged again. I love the question, "Are you, married, divorced, single" all of the above.
Shorts and flip flops are the norm in Florida...this middle aged uppity city dweller with his 25 year old haircut is a loser. And noone will convince me that he wear a hat all the the time, not with that cover haircut lol...
My biggest taboo that women wear are yoga pants especially if your figure absolutely does not flatter the way you look in them. I've seen some women wear them and think to myself... YIKES !!!
If a woman is so shallow she judges me by my clothing selection, there’s a 100% chance I not only don’t care, but wouldn’t want anything to do with her in the first place.
Bravo, well said. If you have to play "dress up" and wear the "right things" to get her, she's the wrong woman for you. Be yourself. Be comfortable. Have good values. Don't have bad habits. Stick to your values. If she can't see that you've done these things, and sees only that you wear socks with your sandals.... well, do you really want a superficial woman, like that?
@@alexp3752 You're got my attention. Tell me how a man shows his dignity and class ? I'm curious as to what you think these things are, and how you'd go about displaying them.
@@andre1987eph That is an interesting thought. If true, I'd say that it's like mamory glands, being shallow my be a requirement for raising little people... maybe they have to, to some degree, think like little people (just like they need boobs to feed them.)
Don’t dress for anyone but yourself, and don’t be a slave to fashion. Some clothing items stand the test of time and though they may not be high fashion, they are perfectly acceptable, but don’t let anyone guilt you into dressing any way other than exactly what you want to dress, and if women don’t like it, that’s on them.
Speaking as someone who was a competitive swimmer for 15 years, I can assure you that women love Speedos on the right body. It's true!!!! Of course, the days when I could pull off the Speedo look are long gone.
That is bullshit. That is what women say to have plausible deniability. They dress to attract men, period. They only shame the men that they don't want to attract calling them pervs. But, if its a high status man they are fine with it. Get woke.
I loaf around in jeans and either a dress shirt or some kind of casual shirt. But without hesitation I will put on a dress suit and matching tie if the situation asks for it. A time and place for all things.
Shoes... I learned about this when I lived in Italy. Italian women always check out your shoes, it's very noticeable, and it was when I learned to invest in good leather shoes.
All kidding aside, this video is educational and informative. I actually learned a couple things. I already knew the bare basics but this helped to round out my wardrobe and encouraged me to be prepared for future events. You are either a part of society or apart from it!😉
Perry F yes and bear in mind that those tights are designed to attract attention and especially if said Woman has smallish boobs, it’s a way for Women to go up the dominance hierarchy
I had a van when I could no longer afford that I walked and rode a bicycle one of my girlfriends then started dating another guy with a van. So a guy does not need to have a Ferrari. I got another girlfriend while I still used my bicycle.
@@kennethrussell1158 Because I was curious as to which items they would name. Now that I know, I'll wear them all the time. Woman repellant. (jk) I'm already married, and my wife buys my clothes anyway. I wear what she likes because I understand, at least to some degree, what to do to maintain my relationship.
This is great advice, but this could also be considered things to wear if you want left alone while you're out and about. Now I know if I want to be left alone I should break out the cargo pants and wear socks with my sandals. Cheers!
Curiosity bought me here and I'm so glad I watched it to the end. My next shop for new clothing is going to be square toed shoes with white socks, past the knee shorts (with pockets of course 😉) whilst sporting the loudest shirt I can find, one that comes with a health warning ! That should do the trick😁 I love being single.
I asked a few women how they like to see a man dressed and the most common response I heard was clothes that fit. A lot of the points made in this video I think are really good advice. Lastly the number one outfit I heard most women say they liked on a man was, surprisingly, a plain colored t-shirt (that fit properly of course), a regular pair of jeans, and a nice but casual pair of shoes. I will also conclude with something i was also told my those I spoke with: they liked to see a man wearing a watch because, to them, it was a sign of maturity; but not necessarily any other piece of jewelry. Interesting video, very informative.
Who cares what a woman hates about what we wear. They do not dress for us why should I dress for them? If you notice what they wear or do not wear, and you are not what they are looking for they label you a creep.
Which just goes to show how irrational all that is. I stopped wearing watches in 1999. That's when I bought my first cellphone. Didn't feel I needed two clocks on me. Just started wearing one again this year, because I'm a bit of a nerd and smart watches have EKG now :)
I'm going to wear everything he says not to so I don't have to deal with a judgmental insecure diva. I'm really going to enjoy this. Mostly because I'm with a wonderful woman who doesn't care what I wear. She cares for me, the person, not the clothes. She can dress however she wants. I don't care. It's a great relationship.
@@bryansolis3139 I'm happy. If they stop caring, that's on them. I am very transparent about who I am. They know ahead of time who they are getting involved with. I am going to be myself, take it or leave it. I'm good either way. 😀
Ok, I have 2 things that spring instantly to mind re. Baggy shorts. First off, my father had been a DI at Camp Pendleton after his service in Korea. Iwas raised to always keep my shirt buttoned and properly tucked in. If I could not keep my pants on my hips with a belt...I will have to get suspenders.😮
Mark Lowe I have a unique perspective (gay). If all men lost interest in women tomorrow, I think within a year or two women would stop wearing obvious makeup and would start looking male like. They want to look like they are more attractive to men. Whether it’s to impress other women or not.
I dress Victorian era.....from black tie/pleated shirt and tall Bowler to Regimental blazer/tie and grey flannels.......my oxfords are spit shone, my hygiene the highest...and I wear Givenchy 22/7. I"m an old soldier, bachelor, only interested in piano, beer, French brandy and song! :) I'm always complimented on my dress because I'm a relic........
Who gives a crap what they think, wear what you want. They complain about everything, man spreading, beards, toxic masculinity. Who cares, you cant please them. Be comfortable.
Blackcloud Nation Some women, but not all. I know women who likes beards, I know some others that don’t like them. Everyone is different, so wear what you want. It’s your image and one of the first things you see of someone else.
Different parts of the country and different seasons/ weather can make selections different. Believe it or not, I was in Manhattan NYC in summer 2007. I had some fairly new Carhartt brown duck canvas shorts and some red logging suspenders from Duluth Trading. This lady told me, “You’de make a perfect New Yorker.” Anybody that’s been there knows it gets hot and humid just like Louisiana. I had a good time there.
The classic men's suit will always be in fashion. And the fashion industry hates that because there's no money in things that don't change. We need skirts to go down until they hit something and then go up till they hit something else - perpetually.
thank you. now I know how to please these purple & blue haired trainwrecks that spend 5 hours a week getting their hair & nails done, but can't spend 5 mins on a treadmill
Jeff C are those the kinds of women you’re trying to attract? Doubtful. This is probably for men that want to attract a put-together, classy, attractive women. If you want to attract a woman who puts some effort into looking nice, you should do the same.
My number one consideration for buying clothes, shoes and boots is comfort, number two is function. Durability is important for work clothes and work boots.
What's hilarious about this is that in any other context the hat thing would be reversed. "Want to go from a 2 to an 8? Put on a freaking baseball cap!"
I do wear Sanuk shoes and they are really comfortable and occasionally a solid color ball cap if it a really sunny day but ai am 78 so long past the dating game. I dress comfortably and my clothes are always clean. Thanks for your insights to appearing presentable.
I just have to say something here 😅 When I read the heading and then that girl's face, 😂, I just couldn't help it, - I just couldn't stop laughing. 🤣🤣😭 I know - I know, but it did strike me as just so funny. ♀️- I just love'em 😉
I'm a 58 year old widower. I wear whatever makes me feel comfortable. The ladies my age and younger still talk to me in a friendly manner. I don't wear sandals or below the knees shorts, but I freqently wear gun related shirts. Small town AZ women love them
How bout this: “When you constantly seek approval you end up becoming invisible”... wear whatever the hell you want and be you. That’ll attract the one that matters
Boardshorts when I surf,work gear when I'm welding,leathers & boots when I ride Harley& a suit for Church,no tie...whatever else i'm up to is clothing optional...😂
Ive been wearing sandals for 50+ years. My wife hated them. My daughter makes fun of them. I even ride my HD with sandals & shorts. Why. Cause i like them & i dont care what others think. You shouldnt care what i think of what you wear. Be free to decide what makes U comfortable. Enjoy your day
At the age of 60, I wear what is comfortable and functional. I like Aloha shirts (good ones only) because the effectively hide the pistol I carry on my belt.
I agree with the ending! If you like who you are you don’t need to dress how someone else wants you to. Be yourself and be happy and confident with yourself. If you make a change, make a change for yourself.
Jeans and black t-shirts (I have filthy hobbies and interests) for the last ~45 years works for me, not least by filtering those I have no use for. It also requires fewer decisions and is very low maintenance.
mysterioso 100 This is probably for men that want to attract a put-together, classy, attractive women. If you want to attract a woman who puts some effort into looking nice, you should do the same.
I'm surprised that I agreed with everything that you said! One thing I would like to add is that I have never wore flip flops with jeans, but I don't have a problem with it.
funny thing is they all say they want a 'real man' an 'alpha' then they insist on telling us every single detail about how we are supposed to live up to that ideal in their heads without the slightest indication they understand the irony of what they are doing. A REAL alpha doesn't care about anyone's opinion about what he is doing/ how he looks/ how he talks etc.
PlumbBob Constructionpants real alphas dress well and take care of and groom themselves well. Beta males bitch and make excuses about why they won’t or can’t better themselves.
Based on public polls, articles and studies that I compiled on line, this list is a few of the items of clothing women dislike to see men wear.
40 Over Fashion Yes and the day that I allow a Woman to dictate what I wear will be a cold day in hell
I'll continue to dress for my comfort. I think opinions about what people think what other people shouldn't wear are very low value topics for video blogging. You seem fairly bright, why not find something to blog about that would help someone to improve their quality of life, or enlighten us on something that actually matters.
@@JohannesNielsen I'm with you. I had a great dad, died at age 87, who had the worst taste in clothes. I remember being embarrassed because he wore a pink polyester leisure suit to a family reunion once. I didn't see his confidence. I didn't see he was the life of the party. As a teen, I judged him superficially, because I was a dumb kid. My dad was right. Be yourself, if people can't handle it, who cares. Thanks Dad. It took me a while to figure it out.
The #1 appearance no no from my 3 gf’s is gray hair...no offense
Thank you..I'm ur no 1 fan
Spends half the video saying women hate the clothes I like, then concludes with be confident in who you are, and wear what you like...great advice 😄
I know, right. Stay a rebel. Other men respect you in your socks and sandals, sweat pants and untucked shirt with big sneakers, or dress shoes with white socks and cargo pants.
White socks with Weejuns was tres chic when I was competing with all the other prep guys in high school. Black sox looked good at funerals.
Totally agree! Love my cargoshorts/pants and I am 50+ and dont care about anyone who dont like it...
@4:42 Instead of flip-flops with a pair of jeans, one can wear sandals with cream linen pants : super confortable, fresh under the sun with a sudden classy look and super relax with confidence. With a super flashy Hawaiian shirt! 😁
Anyway, without confidence, any Smalto or anything else it all will go down the tubes.
Thanks for summarizing this video. You saved me a lot of time!
I believe it was Oscar Wilde who said, “Fashion is a style of dress that is so hideous it must be changed every six months.” Wear what makes you comfortable.
"Do whatever the F*** you wanna do!" -Hodge twins
Wouldn't you have to be some kind of player/gigolo to worry about what women think of you, every time you go out in public
regarding the Mr Wilde line.. "fashion" seems to be kind of like computer processors.. by the time they hit the stores, they're already obsolete..
DAMN, I love that line! Common sense, in other words!
Sounds more like something Oscar Madison would say 🤣🤣
Wear whatever you enjoy wearing and rock it with confidence. The only opinion that should matter is your own.
For me, comfortable shoes are a life necessity. Finding that, and being somewhat stylish, can be a challenge. Still, I go for the comfort first.
If you have bunions like me closed shoes are impossible. Even sneakers are difficult unless you can find really wide ones. No normal store stocks them. Thankfully I live in sunny Arizona where I can wear open sandals almost all year.
"Once he takes his hat off he goes from an 8 to a 2." Feel the same way about their make up.
Use a UV light then you can see all the body putty and spak filler
I heard it's good idea to invite them to the pool or the beach so you get to see what they look like without makeup.
And braziers.
@@kluna1000 waterproof makeup exist hahaha
Great comment!
I am 84 and have always taken pride in my appearance and my clean look. Perhaps it has much
to do the age I grew up in. We dressed up when we went to town and church. Also military
thought us to look sharp and be sharp. I have great pride in the right look..also appreciate
women that are dressed right. Just me and how I am.
Big one when I was coming up ......clean cut
You sir lived in the 50s allreddy , when stilish dressing was normal , you didn't want to be seen as a " tramp " .
How different today ! 😢
Lol! I still make sure my shirt buttons are in line with my fly/belt, I make sure my belt buckle is centered, but I drew the line many moons ago about bouncing a quarter off my bed.
most of the things he says women don't like on men are things they want to wear
@@jamesberry3230You know, there is a time for sloppy wear when you just don't care and a time for prowling for smelly stuff. I think these women are angry that all these "sloppy" men could care less if they appear attractive to these horrible bleach blonds with mohawk black streaks in their lifeless hair, fat botox lips, fake boobs and 25# of overweight.
Don't worry about what people think. Wear whatever makes you happy
I'll give up my cargo shorts and ball caps when they give up excessive make up and acrylic claws.
I won't even then. Love my baseball caps as much as I love my Garbage Pail Kids cards and Queen albums.
and their nose rings and tattoos.
@@John_B52_HEMI Absolutely !!!
@@John_B52_HEMI God, I HATE those nose rings and all the gross piercings.
@@John_B52_HEMI And every color hair!
As a woman, the number one thing about a man is not his wardrobe. It's his hygiene. Good hygiene rules.
And money and a big hangdown.
@@twointhepinkoneinthestink better to have a big stand up tho, than a hang down ;)))
Today definitely even more in coronatimes. I'm sure if you show a clean picture of your self it leads the first impression of the other gender or same to the idea "well this person is interisted to be healthy and wants to feel good"
@Joe Jordan The reason you don't believe me is that when you chose a woman, you chose badly. That's not my fault nor blame. There are good women like me out there, you just need to reevaluate why you choose the users.
Bank Account means more Than any thing!!
I just realized from watching this video that I don't give a snarf what women think I should be wearing. Thanks... very liberating!
I still wear cargo shorts in the summer because they're comfortable and they carry stuff.
Enjoy "your stuff". That matters in life - stuff. And looking like the guy who is carrying "stuff" makes you look very attractive. But what do yu care about that?
@@BernhardSchwarz-xs8kp I don't.
I don't care what women think I wear what I like.
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Why the hell are you watching the channel then ?
@@TarpeianRockcuriosity
When was the last time you had a date?
At 47 he is still single w 2:28 with 6 kids
There was a guy who once figured out what women really, truly want in a man. Sadly he died laughing before he could tell anyone.
Poetic.
@@insuchawayPoetic injustice 😂
A really scary looking drug addict who lets her post cringe
@@drinkinslimjust us
Amen to that!! 👍👍
Hats should be a must in places like Texas and Arizona! If you think wearing hats is a bad look, wait until you are in your 50s and 60s and getting chunks cut out of your head and face due to skin cancer from NOT wearing a hat. If you live in a colder climate, where the sun is not as harsh, then feel free to follow that advice. Here in Texas, a hat is a safe and functional bit of clothing. I am 57 and no issues with skin cancer yet, largely because I wear hats.
I live in Texas and wear a hat all the time, oddly enough, I get nothing but compliments from women. I even wear a fedora and a Churchill homburg and get compliments. The key is what you wear with the hat, if you dress stylishly without going for a modern trend, you are safe.
I've been wearing a HUGE Gardners Sombrero here in So Cal for twenty years.
Good for you. Most guys just wear baseball caps and don't ever take them off.
My uncle in San Diego, CA, liked showing off to the ladies with his Caesar Romero looks. Got skin cancer on his nose. Wore a flat brim gaucho style after that outdoors..
But I had to wear a dixie cup and dungarees out most of the time. When I was there.
But when not in uniform my blue baseball cap with the orange D on the front. Hope I don't get skin cancer on my ears.
Same in Australia. Wear a damn hat - broad-brimmed too, not a baseball cap. I wore caps for years and had a skin cancer on my ear 18 months ago. Now it's an Akubra or a Stetson brimmed hat. I'm bald too. I've got a bare dome to protect, so fu ladies if you don't like what you see when I take my hat off.
Side window glass is not UV resistant so wear sunscreen on the left side of your face if you drive a lot.
Thank you. we now know what to wear to protect ourselves from these women!!
Amen!! My thoughts exactly!
You beat me to it! Who in their right mind wants to attract parasites anyhow!
Came here looking for this exact comment 😂
I wear Crocs knockoffs that I got at Walmart. Sometimes with socks! Three reasons: 1) comfort; 2) repel the type of people who are repelled by Crocs; 3) repel brand snobs.
@@jimwing.2178 EXACTLY! Chick repellent is a thing! I know men who wear fake wire rim glasses for precisely that reason!
But if I don't have cargo shorts, how can I sneak that candy into the movie theater?🤣
Very important !!
You hit it on the nail. Cargo shorts make you look like that guy who has a lot to hide, a sneaky guy you don't want to have too close to you.
When his belly hangs over the belt - the image of a loser is perfect
And if you wear cargo shorts, no woman will want to go to the movies with you and you'll have twice as much money to spend on candy. You'll also not be asked the rest of the evening your interpretation of the "relationship" shown in the movie and how yours is going.
@@torydz It's always important to think of the bright side!
@@josephgaviota I certainly try!
At my age, when a woman looks at me while I'm walking, the only thing she's thinking is "Hey, he can walk."
so funny. thanks
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good sense of humor! way to go!
When wearing a shirt untucked, it should be long enough to keep your gun covered when reaching above your head.
For an AR15 that's tough.
That's what my 2 back-ups are for
Absolutely.
Atta girl
@@mikedevita5558 get ar9 pistol
I worked for a sales manager that always said, "you gotta look sharp to be sharp". Good words to live by.
False. I'm plenty sharp. Sharper than most. Just cuz I don't have great clothes doesn't unsharpen the sharpness.
Was he a fat dumpy guy in Kmart pants?
Look sharp!
Feel sharp!
Be sharp!
I remember that sign inside my neighborhood barbershop back when they still used straight razors and leather strops. Great advice.
I'm definately going to save this video. I am always looking for ways to discourage women from chasing me. Thanks for the tips! 😄
I am going to purchase every item on this list! And wear them all!!!
Same!!😆😆😆😆
Ah, to be free from these earthly standards. Right behind you.
Together! :)
a cargo long shorts some long printed shirt not tucked with some flip-flops with a colorful socks, and a cool hat.
that is not that hard and i think would look ok.(especially if is a beach)
.....exactly. Spend to save!
Woman love to see us wearing a fat wallet.
You're paying the wrong hookers.
With a Magnum XL inside.
@@returntonature8773 real talk,buddy.
Bam...
And zipper area.
I love every single one of these items. They are all I ever wear, every day! I love love love wearing sandals with white socks, cargo pants, an untucked long button shirt and a really well-worn baseball cap.
Hope you find that one in a million woman
I wear Vibram Five fingers with the utmost confidence. My girlfriend may not like them but she understands that they are my thing and go with my quirky yet confident sense of style.
Some of these are laughable and very dependent on the situation and location. When a guy reaches a certain age, single or not, we don't give a crap what "women" think.
You aren't getting any either are you? When it gets to that point anything goes.
.....And the funniest part of that is, when we stop giving a crap what people think, we start meeting folks we really enjoy spending time with.
@Vox Deus I agree. I was widowed at 41, got married again, divorced after 15 years, now I'm engaged again. I love the question, "Are you, married, divorced, single" all of the above.
Correctamundo
@@GeorgeMinton-jb8ky 😃🤣🤣🤣
I'll stop wearing baseball hats and cargo shorts when women stop wearing yoga pants and covering their entire bodies with tattoos!
Shorts and flip flops are the norm in Florida...this middle aged uppity city dweller with his 25 year old haircut is a loser. And noone will convince me that he wear a hat all the the time, not with that cover haircut lol...
Well sorry bro but cargo shorts and baseball hats aren't fashionable
OMG! Thank you!
Both of those are such bad taste if it's her default.
I hate tattoos
I agree with the tattoos but yoga pants are the best thing ever.
My biggest taboo that women wear are yoga pants especially if your figure absolutely does not flatter the way you look in them. I've seen some women wear them and think to myself... YIKES !!!
...I feel sorry for the fabrics!
I'm going to singlehandedly bringing cargo shorts back!
Join the revolution!
If a woman is so shallow she judges me by my clothing selection, there’s a 100% chance I not only don’t care, but wouldn’t want anything to do with her in the first place.
It's not about that! A woman wants a man who respects her enough to show his dignity, intelligence and class. Bums need not apply.
Bravo, well said. If you have to play "dress up" and wear the "right things" to get her, she's the wrong woman for you. Be yourself. Be comfortable. Have good values. Don't have bad habits. Stick to your values. If she can't see that you've done these things, and sees only that you wear socks with your sandals.... well, do you really want a superficial woman, like that?
@@alexp3752 You're got my attention. Tell me how a man shows his dignity and class ? I'm curious as to what you think these things are, and how you'd go about displaying them.
All women are shallow bro
@@andre1987eph That is an interesting thought. If true, I'd say that it's like mamory glands, being shallow my be a requirement for raising little people... maybe they have to, to some degree, think like little people (just like they need boobs to feed them.)
I believe that a man should dress for himself and not women
This is the correct response.
Agreed!
Be yourself guys👌🏼
Make sure your clothes are in good condition and fit you perfectly.
Well said.
Yeap... But you will be single forever...
Don’t dress for anyone but yourself, and don’t be a slave to fashion. Some clothing items stand the test of time and though they may not be high fashion, they are perfectly acceptable, but don’t let anyone guilt you into dressing any way other than exactly what you want to dress, and if women don’t like it, that’s on them.
Levi 501's for one example,, the dudes obeying these ever changing advice on next trend.. same dude was the Deep V tshirts white sneakers guy,,
You feel the same way about hygiene too?
Speaking as someone who was a competitive swimmer for 15 years, I can assure you that women love Speedos on the right body. It's true!!!! Of course, the days when I could pull off the Speedo look are long gone.
I had a female manager who on two different occasions at a sales meeting gave me a Speedo and a jockstrap. Do you think she wanted to F me?
women dress for other women, men dress for comfort
Good comment!
That is the "Key"
Donald Trump dresses to impress other people. Notice late night talk show host they dress similarly, so did most presidents of the United States.
And I dress sharp which gets me laid. I like getting laid.
That is bullshit. That is what women say to have plausible deniability. They dress to attract men, period. They only shame the men that they don't want to attract calling them pervs. But, if its a high status man they are fine with it. Get woke.
My wife says, "Dress appropriately for the setting, the occasion." This is, if nothing else, a sign of mental health.
Great comment. Tell your wife. Thanks
I loaf around in jeans and either a dress shirt or some kind of casual shirt. But without hesitation I will put on a dress suit and matching tie if the situation asks for it. A time and place for all things.
My wife doesn't say anything. I was never foolish enough to wife someone up. 😅
@@robertkartechner5850Whatever works for you. I will never wear a tie or suit again if I can help it. I didn't even wear one to my own wedding.
*definition of appropriate just made up
Shoes... I learned about this when I lived in Italy. Italian women always check out your shoes, it's very noticeable, and it was when I learned to invest in good leather shoes.
i agree with that !
I'm so glad I've never cared what women, or anyone for that matter, thinks about what I am wearing.
Like nothing…..then someone knocks on the door, like the Jehovah witness.
One look at that natural body, and they never returned.
I wish I'd thought of that.@@Robert-xs2mv
Then why are you watching this video? What a goob
Uh-huh. So why are you here?
Curiosity. @@scarhart53
I have had enough women in my 68 years that I don't waste time trying to please them.
Amen to that brother!
Are you a Mormon? 😂😂😂
True
They are not looking at you anymore either. Me neither. So funny.
@@GeorgeMinton-jb8ky Oh yes they do.
All kidding aside, this video is educational and informative. I actually learned a couple things. I already knew the bare basics but this helped to round out my wardrobe and encouraged me to be prepared for future events. You are either a part of society or apart from it!😉
We cannot judge a woman by what she has on, but it's ok to judge us
Don't you just love those double standards???
@@karlsmith2570 It's more than double standards, it's sexist
I judge women by what they wear. Amazing how many women dress like whores. Seriously. It's instinctual.
...of course,it's all a double standard, don't cha know? Lol
@@kevinhayes3184yep, sexist in a two tiered system! 😒😳
And some women should stop wearing leggings or yoga pants. They are NOT one size fits all
Perry F yes and bear in mind that those tights are designed to attract attention and especially if said Woman has smallish boobs, it’s a way for Women to go up the dominance hierarchy
Key word is “some “.
When a woman wearing yoga pants farts, her shoes fly off.
Amen
I agree it's only for young thin girls
When you're worried about not attracting a partner due to your clothes you've already lost. Confidence is the most powerful aphrodisiac.
Fact. Can't bag her without swagger.
If you dress like a douche, your swagger matters not.
@@chutta7922 Can't have swagger in cargo shorts and flip flops.
That , and unlimited disposable income .
As Jack Palance said in a 1994 Skin Bracer spot "Confidence is VERY sexy. Don't you think?" 'Nuff said.
Frankly, no matter what dude says, if your relationship depends on a hat, you're screwed.
I'm 61 and have always been single. I checked off seven things on your list! In other words, your information was truly accurate!
Buy a Ferrari and wear whatever ya want,.. you'll do fine.
If you're trying to pick up straight teenage boys, a Ferrari is great. If you're trying to pick up a woman, they probably won't notice it.
My bank would disagree on that one
@@timothygibney5656 lol
Most people can't afford a Ferrari. Some can't even afford a car I use to walk and ride a bicycle to work.
I had a van when I could no longer afford that I walked and rode a bicycle one of my girlfriends then started dating another guy with a van. So a guy does not need to have a Ferrari. I got another girlfriend while I still used my bicycle.
A real man is absolutely not interested in women who rate and judge him based on his clothes.
Camouflage for the on night stand? :-)
You are right, but a real man does not dress like a dumb ass Zombie like you certainly do.
You obviously took the time to watch this video. Why?
@@kennethrussell1158 Because I was curious as to which items they would name. Now that I know, I'll wear them all the time. Woman repellant. (jk) I'm already married, and my wife buys my clothes anyway. I wear what she likes because I understand, at least to some degree, what to do to maintain my relationship.
@@jchinckley I didn't mean you, I mean bluesmanFfm. The original commenter.
My GF said she agreed with everything on this list, except she would include checkered dress shirts and combover haircuts.
This is great advice, but this could also be considered things to wear if you want left alone while you're out and about. Now I know if I want to be left alone I should break out the cargo pants and wear socks with my sandals. Cheers!
Curiosity bought me here and I'm so glad I watched it to the end.
My next shop for new clothing is going to be square toed shoes with white socks, past the knee shorts (with pockets of course 😉) whilst sporting the loudest shirt I can find, one that comes with a health warning ! That should do the trick😁
I love being single.
Sounds like you’re going to stay that way.
Be safe 😅
Good one
Solitude is wealth.
Don't forget the mankini. It wasn't mentioned, but it's god-tier compared to speedos.
I asked a few women how they like to see a man dressed and the most common response I heard was clothes that fit. A lot of the points made in this video I think are really good advice. Lastly the number one outfit I heard most women say they liked on a man was, surprisingly, a plain colored t-shirt (that fit properly of course), a regular pair of jeans, and a nice but casual pair of shoes. I will also conclude with something i was also told my those I spoke with: they liked to see a man wearing a watch because, to them, it was a sign of maturity; but not necessarily any other piece of jewelry. Interesting video, very informative.
I find that my camo bib overalls with garden clogs and red hat to be excellent cougar repellant.
Who cares what a woman hates about what we wear. They do not dress for us why should I dress for them? If you notice what they wear or do not wear, and you are not what they are looking for they label you a creep.
Agreed, but just the one watch. Don't ask me how I know..
Which just goes to show how irrational all that is. I stopped wearing watches in 1999. That's when I bought my first cellphone. Didn't feel I needed two clocks on me. Just started wearing one again this year, because I'm a bit of a nerd and smart watches have EKG now :)
@@Volkbrecht haven't worn a watch in years for the same reason.
I'm going to wear everything he says not to so I don't have to deal with a judgmental insecure diva. I'm really going to enjoy this. Mostly because I'm with a wonderful woman who doesn't care what I wear. She cares for me, the person, not the clothes. She can dress however she wants. I don't care. It's a great relationship.
Oh boy, your ending doesn't sound good. The moment they stop caring you better find out why
@@bryansolis3139 I'm happy. If they stop caring, that's on them. I am very transparent about who I am. They know ahead of time who they are getting involved with. I am going to be myself, take it or leave it. I'm good either way. 😀
@@theguywithone More power to you my UA-cam companion 👍
I don't care what anyone else says I should wear. As long as I'm covered up and comfortable, that's all that matters
That is it. Be yourself.
The key note to success is...b natural.
And you're telling me all this whilst dressed in a tablecloth?!
Best laugh I had today...
Yes, I noticed that too! I was having a seizure looking at it!
I've seen better looking tablecloths.
@@hydrolito me too.
And he keeps wiggling.
The comments are so much better than the vid.
why else would we come here?! Sure as hell not to get told what to wear!
When i'm picking out clothes to wear, 'will women like me in this?' is way way down on the list of questions i ask myself before leaving the house.
Ok, I have 2 things that spring instantly to mind re. Baggy shorts. First off, my father had been a DI at Camp Pendleton after his service in Korea. Iwas raised to always keep my shirt buttoned and properly tucked in. If I could not keep my pants on my hips with a belt...I will have to get suspenders.😮
Woman complaints about everything u can't satisfy them 🔥🔥
That is why a gender that is human, doesn't take anything they have to say seriously.
We fellows already know what makes a Woman happy...nothing!
@@Joeh1154 MONEY
Don't take advice from someone that can bleed for five days and doesn't die
I wear clothes for myself the same way women wear make up
For themselves
Luis vlogs facts
@@TheJedifr33style haha, make-up for themselves? they wear make up for other people so they dont look ugly to other people
Thank you!!! I hate lists like this.
I think women wear makeup and clothes to impress other women. Not guys.
Mark Lowe I have a unique perspective (gay). If all men lost interest in women tomorrow, I think within a year or two women would stop wearing obvious makeup and would start looking male like.
They want to look like they are more attractive to men. Whether it’s to impress other women or not.
It's interesting that chunky sneakers from this video are now 100% fashionable again
Haha! Maybe for the younger guys. :)
I dress Victorian era.....from black tie/pleated shirt and tall Bowler to Regimental blazer/tie and grey flannels.......my oxfords are spit shone, my hygiene the highest...and I wear Givenchy 22/7. I"m an old soldier, bachelor, only interested in piano, beer, French brandy and song! :) I'm always complimented on my dress because I'm a relic........
A man who keeps his body fit looks good in anything.
I make this point with every one of these videos I see😎
Yes, but that doesn't mean he should wear just anything. Thanks!
Who gives a crap what they think, wear what you want. They complain about everything, man spreading, beards, toxic masculinity. Who cares, you cant please them. Be comfortable.
"Women: You can't live with 'em...pass the beer nuts."
Real shit
Blackcloud Nation Some women, but not all. I know women who likes beards, I know some others that don’t like them. Everyone is different, so wear what you want. It’s your image and one of the first things you see of someone else.
Tobias So I am a leftist liberal? :)
@@lordnessa5893 how did you get that he was referring to you?
Different parts of the country and different seasons/ weather can make selections different. Believe it or not, I was in Manhattan NYC in summer 2007. I had some fairly new Carhartt brown duck canvas shorts and some red logging suspenders from Duluth Trading. This lady told me, “You’de make a perfect New Yorker.” Anybody that’s been there knows it gets hot and humid just like Louisiana. I had a good time there.
The classic men's suit will always be in fashion. And the fashion industry hates that because there's no money in things that don't change. We need skirts to go down until they hit something and then go up till they hit something else - perpetually.
The more I listen to this, the more I'm glad I'm single and not interested in anyone.
None of this really applies to men with confidence.
Your comment doesn't apply to his..you know nothing about him.
AND HERE I THOUGHT ALL ALONG, THAT LOOKS DON'T MATTER !! SMH !!
Might be your best alternative. Don't look for male or female. They will just want to pick your bones like a vulture.
You can also just want to look good for yourself. When I feel I look good it is more fun to speak with others. Much less doubt and angst.
"I asked women what they like." Also, "Here in Southern California." There's your problem right there.
Helpful video! I've been following these guidelines for years now: you pointed out a few more looks that women dislike! So thank you!
Confident men can wear almost anything. Fitness and financial stability are a plus. Not being an alky , chain smoker or drug addict helps.
Agree with all of these, especially the last point, quiet confidence is the key 🗝 .
Thanks Bill! Glad you stayed until the end to see it!
@@40OverFashion That's comes from being over 40, patience.. Lol, don't want to miss the good stuff.. Lol👍👍🌴
thank you. now I know how to please these purple & blue haired trainwrecks that spend 5 hours a week getting their hair & nails done, but can't spend 5 mins on a treadmill
lmao.
ohhh yeah
Jeff C are those the kinds of women you’re trying to attract? Doubtful. This is probably for men that want to attract a put-together, classy, attractive women. If you want to attract a woman who puts some effort into looking nice, you should do the same.
actually i'm looking for someone just like you😘
Jeff C well at least you have good taste 😅😂
My number one consideration for buying clothes, shoes and boots is comfort, number two is function. Durability is important for work clothes and work boots.
What's hilarious about this is that in any other context the hat thing would be reversed. "Want to go from a 2 to an 8? Put on a freaking baseball cap!"
I am officially good to go. He didn't mention Wrangler, flannel shirts, t-shirts or cowboy boots. My wardrobe is still rockin'.
Retired Navy YES!! That style is definitely attractive in my opinion 😁
Same
I was waiting for him to say cowboy boots and he did not. I'm safe lol
I’ll die before I stop wearing my wranglers and my cowboy boots
Rockin if you’re a janitor in a park bathroom frequented by gay lovers
I can't stand seeing men (or women) wearing pajama bottoms in public! It just screams "trailer trash."
Agreed!
Are they sometimes called, for women who want to get away with it, yoga pants?
I’m with you there. So lazy and trashy.
You better not come around my trailer park with that attitude. How offensive.
I'm on the fence , have they given up on life or living it to the fullest ?
Lol, I'm 71 years old and have five motorcycles that I ride. My fashion choices are based on that.😊
I do wear Sanuk shoes and they are really comfortable and occasionally a solid color ball cap if it a really sunny day but ai am 78 so long past the dating game. I dress comfortably and my clothes are always clean. Thanks for your insights to appearing presentable.
We're not Ken dolls. And the one thing men and women wear that is disgusting - 20 extra pounds.
*slow, but determined clap *
Fat women think they are beautiful and are very happy and confident with their size.
Where I live an extra 20 is considered thin
I am confident that I am not attractive, I'm also ok with it. At 50 and widowed, I'm done with the whole mess.
I have been widowed over 10 years. It is tough out there. That’s OK. My Wife was the best (still is).
Wait until your 60+. If you have a car, can drive at night, have a pulse and don't require portable oxygen (optional), you will be "hot".
I turn 60 next February... this is encouraging 😀
firebird77clone firebird -That's it Bro. be free.
God bless you brother.
I just have to say something here 😅
When I read the heading and then that girl's face, 😂, I just couldn't help it, -
I just couldn't stop laughing. 🤣🤣😭
I know - I know, but it did strike me as just so funny. ♀️- I just love'em 😉
I'm a 58 year old widower. I wear whatever makes me feel comfortable. The ladies my age and younger still talk to me in a friendly manner. I don't wear sandals or below the knees shorts, but I freqently wear gun related shirts. Small town AZ women love them
How bout this: “When you constantly seek approval you end up becoming invisible”... wear whatever the hell you want and be you. That’ll attract the one that matters
You think being a slob will attract the perfect woman for you? Only if your perfect woman is another slob.
Not if the real you is repulsive
No it will not.. It will only exclude you even more!
I couldn’t give a damn...if I like it I will wear it.
Boardshorts when I surf,work gear when I'm welding,leathers & boots when I ride Harley& a suit for Church,no tie...whatever else i'm up to is clothing optional...😂
Ive been wearing sandals for 50+ years. My wife hated them. My daughter makes fun of them. I even ride my HD with sandals & shorts. Why. Cause i like them & i dont care what others think. You shouldnt care what i think of what you wear. Be free to decide what makes U comfortable. Enjoy your day
I'll keep rocking my cargo shorts and cap no matter what people say...
With the skinny jeans and the socks with slider sandals? 😂😂😂 (Sorry, I couldn't resist)
Only forty-niners for you then.... 😉 (fours who think they are nines)
Happy trails to you. You are a backpacker right?
At the age of 60, I wear what is comfortable and functional. I like Aloha shirts (good ones only) because the effectively hide the pistol I carry on my belt.
Same here, carpenter jeans so the urban carry comes clean quick. Love the Aloha shirts, spent 23 years on Kauai.
And those cargo shorts will carry that extra mag or even airweight-like small revolver.
But you were probably never fashion conscious
I agree with the ending! If you like who you are you don’t need to dress how someone else wants you to. Be yourself and be happy and confident with yourself. If you make a change, make a change for yourself.
Jeans and black t-shirts (I have filthy hobbies and interests) for the last ~45 years works for me, not least by filtering those I have no use for. It also requires fewer decisions
and is very low maintenance.
Should have been titled, “How To Attract A Superficial Woman” !
They are all superficial
Or.... How to remain nondescript in assholeville.
Definitely a better title. Lol
gold diggers
mysterioso 100 This is probably for men that want to attract a put-together, classy, attractive women. If you want to attract a woman who puts some effort into looking nice, you should do the same.
Who cares what they think , looking shite feels good , cargo pants rule 😎💀
Trusss cargo are soo manly
Fck yeah, homie.
respectanimals2 It’s not the package that matters but the inside :)
I'm surprised that I agreed with everything that you said! One thing I would like to add is that I have never wore flip flops with jeans, but I don't have a problem with it.
As a man and not a child, I don't care if "women" hate certain clothing.
Last I checked, I wasnt put on this earth to meet someone else's approval based on their own biases.
except in the workplace if you want any money
I agree totally
Well, the small cock that did this stupid video is.
I wear cargo shorts for me. They are comfortable and functional. If a woman has a problem with that it is her problem not mine.
Many people may not understand this but some men may dress this way so as to not deal with women.
I agree, though no cargo shorts when you're casually out on the street in the summer? That's ridiculous.
Who cares what women like. Real men will wear whatever they want!
You are obviously a man who enjoys the company of other men.
Well done Daniel C what right do they have to dictate what we wear ? If you like wearing smart clothes or a suit even not at work then do so !
funny thing is they all say they want a 'real man' an 'alpha' then they insist on telling us every single detail about how we are supposed to live up to that ideal in their heads without the slightest indication they understand the irony of what they are doing. A REAL alpha doesn't care about anyone's opinion about what he is doing/ how he looks/ how he talks etc.
@@plumbbobconstructionpants5599 Many women that say they want an "alpha" really want to make him their bitch.
PlumbBob Constructionpants real alphas dress well and take care of and groom themselves well. Beta males bitch and make excuses about why they won’t or can’t better themselves.
Surprised adult diapers didn't make the list this time around.
Ike Turner Black Women
*make sure to wear one under your pants, and an extra layer OUTSIDE of your pants for extra protection and hilarious comedic effect.
@@demetriolanderos8742 I think that's the only way to go, obviously
I'm at the age where I might need them sooner or later...I just want some that you can't tell I have any on. ;)
@opisex Having reached 81, I can tell you it takes more than just a "pulse."
61, Single and keeping my hat and cargo shorts,I dont care what anyone thinks.What you see is what you get.I live for me!
I agree. I am not trying to please every women. Only the ONE I care about who cares about me for me.
I wear my ball cap to keep my head from burning in the sun or to keep my head warm during cold days.