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Ali dahwa I have been following you for years now, and I don’t agree with your superficial teaching anymore why?? ⬇️ Is It A Sin To Be Tempted??? No! we found out that,temptation itself is not sin. ! Sin is committed when a choice is made to accept the temptation presented to us! Then ,our will, which is the power of choice is the deciding factor in whether we sin or not ! when tempted - because sin is a choice , temptations are not! If temptation was a sin them all mankind must go to hell because we are constantly tempted in mind, spirit, soul, physically in every minute, anywhere, we are included our own House! The question is: 1-where does our will to choose exist?? 2--Where are our choice made from?? Response: Our will, our choices are made in our mind - this is where our will is located. A thought comes before an act! Wich means which must mean that sin starts in the mind of the person first even before an act is committed or a words are spoken.. Because Acts and words are the outward, public revealing of a decision or choice already made within. Ourselves inside us in secret alone! Don't blame shaitan for it! -For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, lies. Deceit and taqiyya! Don't blame shaytan! Lower you Gaze is just the terminal part of a secret thought your sheltered within You! !
A man or a woman, men especially who want to fulfill his lust will throw the excuses that ( I am man, men are visual more than female) It is a lies it is covered up a ticket he give himself to fulfill is lustfull'mindset! Or he use shaytan as the one who tempted him and made his sin! No accountability but covert up the evil intention within!
@@cocoalfaridah5831 How youre gonna be tempted?! From where this input started ?! You judge this topic subjectively but if we realy put the test objectively and brought you a soul that might make you fall into a mistake you already broke the rule those temptation’s came cause you had an outsider source that reacted with youre soul which the soul is controling the body and its the consciousness like tell me are you allowed to have hate feeling towards anyone?! The same here you must protect yourself by taking those safe skills , and if that occurred without the intention i mean sincerely without an inner intention then you should act in a way to get rid of this situation because the human was created weak and if god almighty want to test you he almighty will test you like you have never been tested so he almighty gave us the skills to avoid any mistakes or to avoid any path to lead to a mistake And the root (ع،ر،ب) in the holy Quran is referring to the perfection and completeness without any mistakes and flaws قرءانًا عربيًا where its an attribute it doesn’t say in arabic ( قرءانًا بالعربية) and this root in all the holy Quran was never mentioned with humans never (souls) إِنَّآ أَنشَأۡنَٰهُنَّ إِنشَآءٗ ﴿٣٥﴾فَجَعَلۡنَٰهُنَّ أَبۡكَارًا ﴿٣٦﴾عُرُبًا أَتۡرَابٗا ﴿٣٧﴾لِّأَصۡحَٰبِ ٱلۡيَمِينِ ﴿٣٨﴾ سورة الواقعة In jannah there’s no nationalities so those are perfecet and complete without mistakes or flaws What iam hinting to is every soul could commit sin - free will - we are not arguing about the levels of sins lets say anger or fear … so the best is to protect yourself with those skills that were given to us by an absolute knowledge about the reality of the human as a soul and body(input+output)
@@zaynabsaed8998everyday I see why things between Ali and Dawah man didn't work out. I have a feeling that in the near future Muhammad Hijab will have to distance himself too.
Have mercy brothers and sister . Everyone is different and unique in there own way . Think really what benefit do we get from disunity among the ummah. May Allah keep all the brothers safe and united . This is the trap of shaytan in fact this will cause more groups and more confusion. It’s sad that this disunity has rippled to the masses . May Allah guide us and all and give us understanding of his religion and his speech . Ameen
Mohammed hijab has attended many of his podcasts and other podcasts on the side which they do. both are working together in alot of diffrent dawah works
As a 19 year old muslim it’s been 4 years since i left social media and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made. I wanna be myself. UA-cam, gaming and Ibadah
@@kassy8342 yes I do but I use some kinda powerful mentality but if I had to use it with social media I can’t cause it’s way powerful than my mentality
"Is that the better entertainment or the Tree of Zaqqum? For We have truly made it (as) a trial for the wrong-doers. It is a tree that springs out of the bottom of Hell-Fire. The shoots of its fruit-stalks are like the heads of devils. Truly they will eat thereof and fill their bellies therewith. Then on top of that they will be given a mixture made of boiling water. Then shall their return be to the (Blazing) Fire" (37:62-68). "Verily, the tree of deadly fruit will be the food of the sinful. Like molten lead will it boil in the belly, like the boiling of burning despair" (44:43-46).
Constructive feedback: now, everyone might not agree with me here, but I'll voice my opinion. I think it would be better for the audience and the panellists if brother Ali just asks questions instead of sharing so much of his own viewpoints. Perhaps a little, if it takes less than 15 seconds to say, but talking too much and especially over your panellists is not fun to listen to for me personally. I might be wrong, but isn't it the ideal scenario for a host to make the guests start speaking? The moment someone starts speaking, in my opinion, as a host, you'd want to start listen, as there would be no podcast without the guests and their opinions. We already can get brother Ali's opinion on matters through his other videos. I watch these podcasts solely for the opinion of the guests. But that's just my two cents.
I like what the sister in the brown hijab said.. about hiding what good you have that Allah has blessed you with… for example I have learned to never say I got a great job and I start at this date… instead I just keep to myself and thank Allah… especially it hasn’t happened yet.. of course always say InshAllah for everything because you never know what can happen… there are people that don’t want to see you succeed… so they can have it in their heart evil thoughts… I remember when I was young…. I know someone that had wished for a certain family member to get in an accident.. and it happened a few minutes later… May Allah protect us from the evil on this dunya…
I totally agree with you..I regret telling my coworkers that I am going overseas to pursue my education, they kept talking about it almost everyday and am feeling like everything that's going wrong and whatever complications am facing is because of them, I just didn't know what to answer of their question "what are you planning to do when your lease end?" Should I lie or what :(
@@salasanat just say whatever god wills…. Or say it’s confidential 😁 for me to know and you to wonder… or just say… well right now I’m just working through some things and we will see how things go…
I think that we all need to delete instagram and Tik Tok or whatever else is popular these days because I’m telling you, it’s ruining the actual fabric of society. It’s forbidden in my house. Wife isn’t on it neither am I. Don’t need it. All this fitnah out of sight out of mind!
I left social media a year after I got married back in 2017. It was the best decision I made. I had so much time that I was able to utilize to do other things. I had a great and peaceful marriage because I didn’t look at other couples and compare my life. I also didn’t keep wasting my time doing nothing and keep scrolling. I am still social media sober since 2017 and I’m the happiest. No one knows what me and my husband are up to all the time or know how my daughter looks right now. We also plan and spend family outings but if we don’t go on a vacation for a long time, I’m ok with it because we are genuinely too busy at focusing on building our family and future, rather than complaining and being depressed why other people are traveling but not us. We do things when we are ready and in our own time and not because someone else is doing it, and it’s because we stayed away from social media.
Subahallah. May Allah swt keep you firm and your family firm and upon goodness . May he gather you with people of goodness save you from the fitna of this world and the hearafter . Ameen
@@Sk9999-jr1gx neither do I. It’s scary to think the youth will have boys like this to look up to. May Allah guide us all to the straight path and prevent us from sinning in private and public
yeah, at some point he may just stop coming to the show. He got really angry and I can understand how any person in that situation would. Also br. Ali, please don´t tell people 10 seconds left😅, some people might just get stressed and lose what they were going to say. They already know they have a minute and that´s enough for them to manage their time. Baaraka Allah fik
I'm totally against couples posting themselves for whatever purpose on social media due to ayn (evil eye) & other reasons however, if a couple were to do so .. I believe they should show the positives but also explain & express various issues that couples may experience. Providing practical solutions so others may benefit & reflect. For example arguments, disagreements, communication etc. Rather than literally recording & showing their bad days, provide solutions for potential bad days. Also, regarding the sister's statement about having a single bit of jealousy could prevent you from Jannah, the hadith is actually regarding an atoms weight of arrogance, not jealousy. I just wanted to clarify on behalf of her as it may have been a genuine mistake. May Allah forgive us & guide us Ameen.
Yes you dont show your Fights in front of Camera that is not normal. As you said you can talk about different Life Situations and teach how to have Solution for different Situations. No need to podcast your Family Fights in front of the World just to show that you are real.
@@susanneal6063exactly, I don’t get why Muslims couple should show they arguments on a camera? They can talk about it but why show the bad ? Because I believe some people just wait for the little bad things to come and put waswas in their couple because of envy or jealousy. May Allah protect all Muslims and all Muslims family
Or they would be suffering in their marriage and don’t want to get divorce because of the image they had put out there or the money they are getting from their platform!!
Agreed @brown headscarf sister. I've never been jealous whether I had something or didn't. When I see a happy couple it only gave me hope and was happy for them. At the same time I lost interest in watching them because I couldn't relate. Now I don't watch them because I've got my own life with my husband.
I think there is a huge point that was missed. The perception of relationships starts from birth, the environment you're raised in and looking at your parents and their marriage or lack of, can shape your perception of how you see marriage and relationships. From my experience, a lot of people didn't experience the true reality of a relationship because parents hit it from them, so they now look around them and at social media, trying to get an idea as to how it all works.
I think it’s so weird that some of the brothers and sisters want these people to show the bad part of their relationships. That’s not a religious requirement that’s just the shaytan in you hoping to see a negative side to someone’s relationship. Personally I think showing a completely fake life on social media isn’t good but it also is the responsibility of the viewer to not watch content they don’t agree with or is not of benefit to them
I don’t get it why as influencer couple Muslims they need to show the bad in there couple even if the reality ? Because there’s so much bad in the world already why can we see or appreciate good in others ? Why always this need to SHOW US THE BAD ? I think people want to see the bad in others life are so toxic they want to relate to what ? and I actually think that’s jealousy may Allah protect Muslims and place good intention in there heart
Ok I was about to end this video and go back to working but got shocked by the amount of ignorance in our brother’s rant in the end and now I must rant in return. To the brother ranting at 49:05: Dear brother, ADHD and autism are serious neurological disorders with symptoms that start at childhood. Having ADHD or autism, or raising a child with any of them does make your life much harder than others, depending on how intense the symptoms are. I hope you are just ignorant and don’t know what these disorders are. Saying “what can you do” to people with these conditions is awfully triggering. It’s like asking a handicapped person “why can’t you walk?”. People need to be more educated and considerate. Learn well before you speak about such topics, and please be kind. We struggle enough in our lives. Millions of people around the world have ADHD and don’t know it. Some are diagnosed at the age of 50! The root cause of these neurological disorders is linked with genetics but still unknown. It starts at childhood and continues for the rest of our lives. Our brains function differently when seen through a functional MRI scan. Please educate yourself about the things you’re criticizing to avoid hurting someone else in the future. People with ADHD, especially undiagnosed ones, live challenging lives. People with ADHD can struggle academically, socially, mentally, they are more prone to anxiety, depression and suicide, they make more car accidents, get more speeding tickets, and much more. ADHD is not a “label”, it never defines a person.. it is different in every individual because each person has their own unique brain. It is a very complex brain disorder, and it’s not something to criticize or make fun of. Have a nice day.
I completely agree with every single word of this. Being a family member of multiple people with autism and some with ADHD, I definitely know them to be in different parts of the spectrum, it's so hard as family members to watch them struggle, wallahi only Allah knows how much they suffer and how much we as family watch them suffer, its like an insect on its back. May Allah bless you and all of us and compensate us through his rahmah.
@@cooljool1 You don’t care because you’re not affected by it. Don’t speak for everyone by saying “we”. There are millions of people who care. You don’t because you’re an ignorant online troll. I can’t just “deal with it” because there is no cure. Have some respect and decency or simply ignore my comment because I wasn’t talking to you. There is no need to stick your nose in every comment get a life. I don’t want to label myself with anything and it is not a good thing to be labeling myself with anyway. I’m just raising awareness. Many people face similar problems and don’t know about ADHD. Next month is ADHD awareness month and you’ll see how many people care about it. Don’t reply to my comment and get the hell out of my face.
@@MAhmed-zs2vp ameen ya rab. thank you brother and may god help your family and bless you all with his mercy. I just hope people can be more understanding in the future.
Ntah kenapa saya selalu menyukai percakapan seperti ini saya selalu menyukai orang-orang yang membahas tentang allah dan nabi muhammad saw.. menurut saya ini adalah pembahasan yang sangat menarik banyak pengetahuan di dalamnya, semoga bermanfa'at bagi mereka dan bagi kita semua amin.
@@randomvids7779 Allah doesn’t resemble his creations, His attributes doesn’t resemble the attributes of his creations and His action doesn’t resemble the actions of his creations . The great scholar, Hujjat-ul-lslam, Abu Ja^far al-Warraq at-Tahawi (239-321AH)[1], may Allaah have mercy on him, while he was in Egypt said: This is an elucidation of the beliefs of ahl-as-Sunnah wa al-Jama^ah, according to the school of the jurists of this religion, Abu Hanifah an-Nu^man ibn Thabit al-Kufi, Abu Yusuf Ya^qub ibn Ibrahim al-Ansari and Abu ^Abdillah Muhammad ibn al-Hasan ash-Shaybani, may Allaah accept the deeds of all of them, and what they believe regarding the fundamentals of the religion and their faith in the Lord of all the Worlds. We say about Allaah’s Tawhid (Allaah being different from the creation in every way) while believing that Allaah is the One who enables us to be obedient- that Allaah is One[2], without any partners. There is nothing like Him. There is nothing that makes Him powerless. There is no god other than Him. He is the Eternal[3] without a beginning and the Everlasting[4] without end. He will never perish or come to an end. Nothing happens except what He wills. No delusion can conceive of Him and no comprehension can encompass His Reality[5]. He is different from any created being. He is Alive and never dies and He manages the entire creation and never sleeps. He creates without His being in need for His creation and provides for His creation without encountering any hardship. He causes death with no fear and quickens without difficulty. He has always existed having His Attributes Eternally before creating the creation. Bringing creation into existence did not add anything to His Attributes that did not exist in Eternity. He is as He was, having His Attributes in Eternity, so He will remain Everlastingly. It was not only after the act of creation that He is Attributed as the Creator nor was it only by the act of bringing the creation into existence that He is Attributed as the One who made the creation begin. He was always the Lord (Owner) even when the created beings were non-existent, and always the Creator even when there was no creation. By the same analogy that He is the One Who resurrects the dead to life, after He had brought them to life the first time, and deserves this name before bringing them to life, so too He deserves the name of Creator before He has created them. This is because He has the power to do everything[6], everything is dependent on Him, everything is easy for Him, and He does not need anything.
@@randomvids7779 لَيْسَ كَمِثْلِهِ شَىءٌ وَهُوَ السَّمِيعُ البَصِيرُ “ “There is nothing like Him in any way whatsoever, and He is attributed with Hearing and Sight”[7]. [ash-Shura 42:11] He created the creation with His knowledge. He Destined [8] destinies for those He created. He appointed to them fixed death times. Nothing about them was hidden from Him before He created them, and He knew everything that they would do before He created them. He ordered them to obey Him and forbade them to disobey Him. Everything happens according to His decree and will, and His will is accomplished. The only will that people have is what He wills for them. What He wills for them happens and what He does not will does not happen. He gives guidance to whomever He wills, and protects them from sinning, and keeps them healthy in their religion and safe from harm, out of His generosity; and He makes astray whomever He wills, and casts them down and deprives them His support, and afflicts them, out of His justice. All of them are subject to His will between either His generosity or His justice. He is exalted beyond having opposites or equals. No one can ward off His destiny[9] or put back His ruling or overpower the happening of the matters He willed for them to happen. We believe in all of this and are certain that all things come from Him. The Prophet And we are certain that Muhammad, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, is His chosen servant and selected Prophet and His Messenger whom He highly accepts. And that he is the Seal of the Prophets and the Imam of the God-fearing and the Most Honored of all the Messengers and the Beloved (highly accepted) of the Lord of all the Worlds. Every claim to prophethood after Him is falsehood and deceit. He is the one who has been sent to all the jinn and all mankind with Truth and Guidance and with Light and Illumination. The Qur’an The Qur’an is the word of Allaah. The Qur’an descended from Him but be certain the Speech of Allaah is without a manner of being[10]. He sent it down on His Messenger as a revelation. The believers accept it, as absolute truth. They are certain that it is, in truth, the word of Allaah. It is not created, as is the speech of human beings. Hence, anyone who hears it and claims that it is human speech has become an unbeliever. Allaah warns him and censures him and threatens him with Fire when He says, Exalted is He: سَأُصْلِيهِ سَقَرَ”I will burn him in the Fire.” [al-Muddaththir 74:26] When Allaah threatens with the Fire those who say إِنْ هَذَا إِلاَ قَوْلُ الْبَشَرِ” “This is just human speech” [al-Muddaththir 74:25] We know for certain that it is the Speech of the Creator of mankind and that it is totally unlike the speech of mankind. Likening Allaah to the Creation Anyone who attributes to Allaah attributes in any way the same as a human being has become an unbeliever. All those who grasp this will take heed and refrain from saying things such as the unbelievers say, and they will know that He, in His Attributes, is not like human beings
@@randomvids7779 Seeing of Allaah The Seeing of Allaah by the People of Paradise (Al-Jannah) is true, without their vision being all-encompassing and without a manner of being [11]. As the Book of our Lord has expressed it: وُجُوهٌ يَوْمَئِذٍ نَّاضِرَةٌ إِلَى رَبِّهَا نَاظِرَةٌ “Faces on that Day radiant, looking at their Lord”. [al-Qiyamah 75:22-3] The explanation of this is as Allaah knows and wills. Everything that has come down to us about this from the Messenger, Sallallaahu `Alayhi wa Sallam, in the Sahih Hadith (authentic sayings), is as he said and means what he intended[12]. We do not delve into that with baseless interpretation according to our own opinions or deluding ourselves by unsound inclinations. No one is safe in his religion unless he submits himself completely to Allah, the Exalted and Glorified and to His Messenger, Sallallaahu `Alayhi wa Sallam, and leaves the knowledge of things that are ambiguous to the one who knows them. [13] A True Muslim A man’s Islam is not secure unless it is based on submission and surrender. Anyone who desires to know the things that are decreed as not knowable[14], and does not content with surrender, will find that his desire veils him from the pure clearing of Allaah from resemblance to the creation (Tawhid), clear knowledge and correct belief, and that he wavers between disbelief and belief, confirmation and denial and acceptance and rejection. He will be subject to whisperings and will be lost and doubtful, being neither an accepting believer nor a denying rejecter. The belief of a man in the seeing of Allaah by the people of the abode of peace (Paradise) is not correct if he imagines it in his delusions, or interprets it according to his baseless own understanding since the baseless interpretation of this seeing or, indeed, the meaning of any of the matters which are in the realm of Lordship is by avoiding its unfounded interpretation and strictly adhering to the submission [15]. This is the Religion of Muslims. Anyone who does not guard himself against negating the Attributes of Allaah, or likening Allaah to the creation, has gone astray and has failed to clear Allaah from non-befitting attributes, because our Lord, the Glorified and the Exalted, is attributed with the Attributes of Oneness and Absolute Exclusivity and no creation is in any way like Him. He is clear from having limits, boundaries, sides, organs or limbs. Nor is He contained by the six directions as all created things are. Al-Mi`raj: The Ascension Al-Mi`raj (The Ascent Through the Heavens) is true. The Prophet, Sallallahu ^alayhi wa-Sallam, was taken on the night journey (Al-Isra’) and ascended in his bodily form, while awake, through the heavens, to whatever heights Allaah willed for him. Allaah ennobled him in the way that He ennobled him and revealed to him what He revealed to him: مَا كَذَبَ الْفُؤَادُ مَا رَأَى “And his heart was not mistaken about what he saw” [al-Najm 53:11]. Allah blessed him and granted him peace in this world and the next.
@@randomvids7779 Al-Hawd: The Basin Al-Hawd, (the Basin which Allaah will grant the Prophet, Sallallaahu ^alayhi wa-Sallam, as a succor to His Ummah on the Day of Judgment), is true. Ash-Shafa^ah: The Intercession Ash-Shafa^ah, (the intercession of the Prophet, sallallaahu ^alayhi wa-sallam, on the Day of Judgment, which he saved for the enormous sinners of his Ummah), is true, as related in the Hadiths. Al-Qadar: The Destining The covenant which Allaah made with Adam and his offspring is true. Allaah Eternally knew the exact number of those who would enter Paradise (Al-Jannah) and the exact number of those who would enter Hellfire (Jahannam). This number will neither be increased nor decreased. The same applies to all actions done by people, which are done exactly as Allaah knew they would be done. Everyone is facilitated to what he was created for and it is the actions with which a man’s life is sealed which define his ending. Those who are fortunate winners in the Hereafter are fortunate by the Destining of Allaah, and those who are deprived losers are losers by the Destining of Allaah. The exact nature of the Destining is Allaah’s secret in His creation, and no angel near the Throne, nor Prophet sent with a message, has been given knowledge of it. Delving into it and reflecting too much about it only leads to destruction and deprivation, and results in tyranny. So be extremely careful about thinking and reflecting on this matter or letting doubts about it assail you because Allaah has kept knowledge of the Destining concealed from human beings, and forbidden for them to enquire about it, saying in His Book, لاَ يُسْأَلُ عَمَّا يَفْعَلُ وَهُمْ يُسْأَلُونَ “He is not asked about what He does but they are asked”. [al-Anbiya’ 21:23 ] So anyone who asks (in objection): “Why did Allaah do that?” has gone against the judgment of the Book, and anyone who goes against the judgment of the Book is an unbeliever[16]. This in sum is what those of Allaah’s Waliyys (highly pious Muslims) with enlightened hearts need to know and constitutes the degree of those firmly endowed with knowledge. For there are two kinds of knowledge: the knowledge that is accessible to created beings[17], and knowledge that is not accessible to created beings[18]. Denying the knowledge which is accessible is disbelief[19], and claiming the knowledge which is inaccessible is disbelief[20]. Belief can only be firm when accessible knowledge is accepted and inaccessible knowledge is not sought after.
Leaving social media is the best thing I have done. No app controls me or how my mind works. Not anymore. Life without social media is so bliss. Its true living without background noise or ideas floating around in your head. The social media life isn't the one. It's so toxic and as Muslims its so easy to use social media as a distraction. Ultimately its a waste of time.
I wish Ali Dawah you started reading and educating our youths through reading hadiths and commentary on those, because those are the real ilm, for us. Others will love you what others have you don't have. I pray Allah (swt) bless you and your family give you long life and health and jannatul firdous. (Ameen).
First seconds of the video and I notice all brothers and sisters keeping their heads down! Allahumma barik to you all and ma sha Allah, what a great example. :) I'm also trying not to stare and focus on listening, ma sha Allah. 💪🏆💐
Lets not refer to autism as a "label". Its a neurological disability that is very real. We have an issue as a society with afflictions we cant see and we love to explain them away. You wouldn't refer to a person with a physical disability as someone labelling themselves. Please be more responsible when you use your words because as a parent of 3 non verbal autistic children that hurts. These disorders are very real to the people who live with them.
Alhamdulilah, thankyou for sharing these important insights and all the blessings for everyone reading this, may you have a blessed and abundant life. Don´t share too much of your private life on social media.
Over the past year I've been looking for marriage, and one of the.important questions I ask is if they are on social media, and the ones that are share a certain quality of low self-esteem that I noticed. Subhanallah now I found a lovely person who is not on social media at all and it is such a stark difference. Obviously that is not the whole equation but my general observation of those who are on non-formative social media is that it is disadvantageous in many ways. Things like Facebook and Instagram have far more cons over the long-run than positives. Ultimately Allah knows best and if I have said anything wrong it is my mistake.
I used to post food photos, now she's sitting with men, full faced makeup and free mixing. This kind of chit chat is not from islam. I'd hate my husband to be sitting with other women and chit chatting about anything.
The only downside of these debate seesions are that everyone starts talking over everyone at times which makes it chaotic and Brother Ali cutting off the guests is kind of not nice. Hope you give the space and chance to everyone to speak freely instead of cutting them off. Just a constructive critisicm from my side. And coming to this topic. It is true that social media really makes you depressed. I’m going through the same and having a difficult time as I’m unable to find a decent spouse. I’m normally not a jealous person instead I get happy seeing others doing well but lately seeing all my school mates and women younger than me getting married did make me feel envious and made me feel low specially seeing picture perfect life on Instagram . That’s why I’m on a instagram detox and hopefully I will stay away from a long time for my mental health.
And above all, women's self-esteem drops to the ground for two reasons, one when they see this woman with new clothes, good food and so on. If she is not sufficiently aware that it is just a program, she will end up depressed and hating her husband for not give you what you see on social media
Thanks for the guys in the end abd the first lady at the whole video was full of the people that make ppl not want to be married trying to over power the conversation so judgy great convo though
I think it is very important to speak about these muslim men who show their wifes on social medias..personnaly I find that they lack of masculinity , it is the role of the man to pretect his wife and to have a role model for the family, he must stand against this trend of showing his wife cooking, dancing , doing make up or whatever just to gain money and fame...his role is to protect his wife frome the gaze of other men and unfortunatly they seem unware of the sins they commit... May Allah guide us
Social media IS NOT A NEED IN LIFE that’s why I don’t have it Alhamdulilah it’s one of the best decisions I ever made Brothers and sisters lie about having social media Whenever good happens the first thing they do is post it on their story, ngl I was just like that as well but at least had the intelligence of saying to myself “this is not going to benefit anyone or myself” It’s much easier to have people watching your life style rather than letting those same people in the same room as these content creators Do I think social media is a good thing No Don’t do anything that doesn’t benefit u in the first place
Mohamed was an awful man: had sex with a child, female war slaves that were still married, killed men, traded slaves, and the list goes on. God if he is fair and kind wouldn’t not make that man a prophet the actions of who to be followed by billions of people. Koran can be easily interpreted in a very wrong way: 911, ISIS, jihadists, kamikazes, forced conversion to Islam throughout the history, abusing women, kids marriages and so on. You tell me back then all these were socially acceptable, but does it make it right? Jesus lived 600 years before Jesus, he didn’t do anything that was ok during his time and during today. He saved a prostitute from stoning, Mohamed did stoning himself. Wake up, you follow a dangerous religion. Turn yourself to Jesus and repent. I’m not saying to put Muslims down, most Muslims I’ve met are good people, and I see Muslims behaving more in line what we consider Christian values : women respect men in the family, being religious and trying to be just good people, I see less of that in so called Christian - background atheistic societies. So I give credit to Muslim people for that, you would be better Christians than many so-called christians that don’t respect most of the Bibles teachings.
@@donritchfield1407 UA-cam is social media as well and kufar’s invention too Maybe it will benefit all the ummah to stop all the social media, kufar’s invention, and go back live like in 10 century! It will benefit all the ummah to stay way from everything the kufar’s through at as as their invention as good Muslim! Music is haram The microphone tool of kufar’s to call prayers is haram, these things were nkt there in 6 century in time our beloved prophet! Car is also haram, he used to travel through donkey and camel! Internet is haram it must be cut of it betray our prophet perfect way of communication! Airplanes are haram, tool of shaytan and kufar’s! It is betrayed to our beloved prophet! Telephone is also haram Television is haram! Electricity is also haram, the tools of shaytan, kufar’s! We should follow the perfect example and foot steps of our prophet and cut off everything that we Muslims didn’t not invented from our lives.. they are kufar’s and white European invention abd corrupted of our lives! We must stop stay away from all kufar’s tool and used candles or oil to light our house like our beloved prophet did! This is sunnah! It pain us to see that even inside the mosque, sheikh are using microphone shaytan tools to talk to us! Bilal used to scream instead! We should continue like bilal instead of touching the kufar’s, ennemy of Allah tools! Painful, they surround pit lives in every aspect! Sad!
14:43 @smiletojanah it’s false, it's important to note that in Islam, when we refer to "feelings" of Allah, it's not in the same way we understand human emotions. For instance, while terms like "anger" are used in the Qur'an, they shouldn't be taken literally as human emotions. Allah is beyond our human perceptions, and His attributes transcend our understanding.
Hear me out, your married and your in Laws are coming to your house … me personally I like to clean the house, spray perfume and make everything look nice .. EVERYTIME! … with some of the hosts mentality on this show, they are saying no don’t clean it everytime because they will think unrealistically about their own house and I am being fake as I’m only showing the good … If your mind makes you jealous from seeing my clean house thats your problem and you need to work on it. Islam teaches us to be content with life and say alhamdulilah, not that when you see something nice and think to yourself why haven’t I got that, and if you think like that subhan’Allah you have to work on yourself. ❤
That's not what Ali is implying. Most couples who post on social media are living in luxurious (not clean) house, and it's easier to keep your house clean and organized if you have the luxury to do so. Some ppl can't afford that type of lifestyle, and can't afford eating out or any vacation. If you don't have something, sometimes you hope or wish you can have it, so you can be able to keep your house well organized. It's just human nature to want to have your place at the best, or at least I think so. If you have to sweep your carpet, sometimes you hope for vacuum. And if you have to wash clothes and baby diapers by hand, sometimes you hope for a washer. And if you have to use kerosene lamp, torch light, and candles, sometimes you hope you can have electricity. And if you have to fetch water, sometimes you hope you can have running water at your sink.
34:25 jealousy and envy is not a sin per se, acting upon it is though. Still I agree if your are triggered by it, its not healthy for you and could harm you.
May Allah bless you and increase you in knowledge for the good things you are using your podcasts for in the Islamic marriage community. Masha Allah, I am from Nigeria and get to understand the point of view you discuss most of your topics from. I will really like you to host a topic and have divergent participants from different regions probably through Zoom to partake. What am I saying, like get people living in different areas and get their take simultaneously on a topic. I think you will be tackling a lot if other people get to experience a discuss as it relates with their own environment.
I have friends who are not married and they also want to post a hotpot made by their wife. Thats why i stopped sending these kind of pictures in the groupschat. Next time i do that, i will immediately send hem an invite to my home.
Ive been doing alot of research, and many of the well known Sheikhs on youtube have expressed that women being on social media in general is haram. Based ob my understanding, if there is no purpose of a woman showing her face, features , body , clothes because it is a form of Fitna. Showing your family , husband , kids while fully dressed up isn’t a necessity and therefore there is no need .
I always believe private life is a happy life, regardless if its good or bad intention of the contents. I never put pics of my marriage, spouse and my future kids on social media because of nazar is real and people are so naive about that, plus im not a dayooth as well. Those social couple influencers are fake
I dont rate that sirtaj guy one bit. Hes got his mrs sat there in full hijab and shes literally in all his videos on social media actimg all wierd trying to entertain people. I dont rate man who post their wife up for the world to see.
I wasnt able to watch it all but subhanallah the man wearing the glasses and dark shirt gave me the creeps. He looks malicious or evil. And then I stopped watching when the guy was trying to explain how you have problems in every marriage but the example that he wanted to give was look babe you get a few pounds that’s so stupid. This is a very bad panel there’s no depth or understanding of actual married life, telling your significant other they gained weight that’s the first thing you can say. Don’t know if you clarified or change that outdoor redacted that statement but this is not for me.
There needs to be a balance on both sides. Muslim social media couples should have a platform as we aren't represented in the media and youngsters need to see the light and loving side of halaal marriages. With this said, the INFLUENCERS need to be more honest and we, the AUDIENCE need to realise that they are there to entertain and more importantly - earn money, lifestyle and fame with sponsorships and endorsements. Like the sister said , the audience needs to check our emotions - jealousy and lust - lower your gaze and unfollow. What we consume with our eyes and ears affects our hearts and minds, and also our imaan. With older married people, we may well see these Influencers as disingenuous and fake - as they do not inspire us. Find people who do and don't disregard the whole for some parts.
The men worried that their women might actually have above average expectations of them if they see other men treat their women like queens by just doing nice, sweet, very affordable, accessible things on social media. 😏
I like how Ali Dawah called out the sister. She was advising that sisters need to stop being jealous, then said shes not a jealous person. She's too much of herself. She needs to start wearing her hijsb on the podcast.
True indeed. Instead of striving to act upon what Allah تعالى and His Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم has commanded and prescribed for us, it's all about "my feelings" and "I think...". The problem is, that too many of us want the Deen to fit our desires instead of making effort towards tazkikah abd making our nafs conform to the Deen. Unfortunately, it also seems that many Muslims have gotten sucked into the whole sjw mess, and they use Islam and being Muslim as nothing more than a label and box to check in an effort to show that they are a member of an "oppressed" group, in order to win "victimhood points". اللهم احفظنا واهدنا وأصلح شؤوننا
@@bless2390 Swearing is makruh (disliked) but not haram but still good etiquette not to swear as a Muslim. But that isn't a new age thing, muslims have been swearing since day one even during the days of the Prophet pbuh
@@alone.traveller3187 Are you saying that ( (The emotion control center of the brain, called :the amygdala, is higher levels of activation in males viewing sexual visual stimuli than females viewin?? Men Aren't 'More Visual' Or More Easily Turned On Than Women Are.. Men, (certain ) men with a Debauched lustfull'mindset are stimulated and arosed by visualization, Because they already entertain these toughts inside their mind long before the image came to The visual! It is not about the external visual image, but about the thoughts that you sheltered inside your subconscious mind! If you don't have sexual thoughts in your mind first and lust , no possible imagine visual can stimulate you whatsoever! 2-- it is your lust that create the toughts inside your mind, first Lust is a strong passion or longing, especially for sexual desires... Remedy: conclusion: Chastity or self-control cures lust by controlling your passion and leveraging that energy for the good of others... Lust is a sin! A sin is not the same thing as crime! A lustfull mindset persona have a failure to be humans who fully love God and others humans, he love himself more than anyone, he is a HUBRIS personality, It have excessive pride or dangerous over -self-confidence... That create insecurities in them! That is absolutely a lie men and women have the emotional control center called( amygdala ) twice created the visual stimulus! We reacted differently according to our personal integrity and dignity! These are excuse someone who want to entertain sexual toughts in their mind used to justify their failure of controlling théir lustfull’mind!! Soon they will accuse shatain of seducing and tempting them, when in fact they are the one sheltering sexual desires within!
@alone.traveller3187 The Prophet SAW had many conversations with Muslim women in the community during his time. Women would literally come up to him and ask questions on Islam. The Prophet SAW would readily interact with women during his time. This was the same thing with the Sahaba after the death of the Prophet SAW. Islam does not forbid halal good-intention based conversations of the opposite gender (sometimes, it's necessary!) . What it does prohibit however is touching and being overtly close to one another and not keeping your distance.
@@ahabarhossain773 Aisha (Radiyallahu anha) says that a woman from behind a curtain gestured a letter to the Prophet (Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) withheld his hand. The woman said, “O Prophet of Allah, I extended my hand to you with a letter and you did not take it?” He said, “I could not know if this is a man’s hand or a woman’s”. She said, “It is a woman’s hand.” The Prophet (Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) said, “If you were a woman you ought to have changed your fingernails with henna.” (Sunan An-Nasaa’i, hadith 5002)
Social media is a extension of yourself. Just like in real life you don’t show everything to people, same rule applies on social media. People always try to show the best versions of themselves to others. The only waste is social media actually has no connection to people.....just likes. In real life connecting with people is beneficial. It’s a 2way street, you have to respect one another. Social media is harmful because your only posting to make yourself feel good 90% of the time. I’ve cut down social media and only use UA-cam for learning and watching beneficial videos. I hope more people understand that social media is a waste of time and people can do better things with that time.....like read or meet actual people. It’s also not good for people’s attention span. Watching 100 tic tok videos in 15min can’t be good for you, your only teaching kids how not to concentrate on one topic for to long.
Brother saying couple on Instagram could be encouraging people to do it the halal way but you can say the same thing to the brother showing of his car and encourage people to work and make money(which is not haram. It’s actually encouraged) At the end of the day social media should be used for business work or charity work end of! Anything personal keep it offline. Because “influencers” is not a profession it’s an egotistical title.
@ManhwaRecaps234 if life is not rainbow and rosy why are they putting their nose in peoples business trying to infiltrate is and mold it according to their point of view?? Using religion to trying to download their own intentions into People life? People work hard and and a lot, they need entertainment abd different kind of subject in their social networks and media to learn different kind of view, !! Ali always and many like him always try to play the God of people mind, to control and dominate them, too
As Muslims we have to admit, there is a bad part to couples putting “aspirational stuff”out there. My question is why do we care what other couples do? We’ve essentially replaced the old soap operas people used to watch with people we watch on social media. Our examples and aspiration should come from Quraan and Sunnah. Let’s not forget the younger less mature generation that sees whatever they do on social media, do not have the wisdom or judgement that we as adults do. So you can say as much as you want to, that we must be responsible and know ourselves to know what we can handle, applies only to well informed, wise adults who have experience behind them…
Asc to yall like always amazing episode jazaka allaah khayran the brother and sister absolutely agree even my self how manny times as woman we like to sjow of our cooking when I’m cooking good delicious authentic food I like to show of that then wallaahi I remember what’s about if get evail eye then I always have these talk my self so sis munira same too sis
Yeah it isn't halal as it's for vanity reasons. Social media itself is about vanity as you share, like, and comment. Spreading awareness is okay but you don't need to show yourself or other people in the content
Another huge point not discussed is .. what does Allah require from us. Is coming on camera and showing your life yourself .. your beauty loved by Allah? Allowed by Allah? If not then it's a no
I agree with the sister next to brother Ali jealousy is also haram and it really does let women get away with bad behavior! And the sister next to her was great the viewer is accountable. It’s ridiculous to just act like we are not in a social media age.
I haven't watched the video yet, but inshallah I'm going to, however even before watching it I want to say that I think a lot of people joined social media early on 'cos they were lonely and wanted attention. I think this is true for singles and couples, or the individuals in couples feeling single. As soon as they saw the masses of attention and whatever small or large money that came with it, it changed their intentions. After those people showed the money, attenntion and benefits that came with it, others have joined in. I genuinely think some people don't do it to show off in a boastful or arrogant way, but there's no doubt that there are many who do. I think as individuals and people who consume content, we need to be smarter and not so sensitive. I don't personally get triggered watching a rich person or a happily married person, but that might be more to do with how my parents raised me not to trust what others say and them telling me that jealousy is a useless emotion. If more people raise kids with standards and keep them away from the crap on social media, the better the child will grow up not feeling envious or lonely. Or if it's genuinely hard for you to keep the kids away from social media as you're at work a lot an they're at school, educate them when you are at home and show quality love to know what's real and what isn't. People only go searching elsewhere when they don't get whatever it is at home. If they know the boudaries and reasons, most kids don't go against their parents constantly. Not making boundaries or neglecting them is what leads to the social media jealousy.
Yr right unfortunately some people get jealous. Some get inspired not many (tend to b the older people who r content with themselves & life) but many get jealous & expect that life. People do get brainwashed like ISIS brainwashed people. Social media is powerful & can b dangerous. Posts has to b within reason. We have stopped posting our holidays unfortunately even siblings who r not as fortunate as us get jealous. Protect yrself from the eye & people need to protect themselves from false expectations. We all r different, some can afford several holiday holidays & some can't afford any. Some can afford going out for meals & some can't. Jealousy is a disease
ali dawa ur video are very inspiring and i want to learn more but i want to know more and im starting to doubt isalm but i dont want to i want to learn more but i have no knowlage of islam so i cant christians always try to convince me to switch but i want to learn more please give me tips
I don't think the guy with curly hair understands how things are in the world. All women around me are into TikTok and Instagram and what not. There is this guy (I think in Canada or the US) who films all sorts of stuff - like buying his wife cars and other expensive gifts and shows videos of himself helping his wife. My wife has shown his videos to me before. It is clear what these ppl grow expectations in their viewers
No need for social media but if you were to put good knowledge out there for others benefits such as academics, tips and dean then its fine as long as you dont put your personal information out there for no reason and unnecessary fame aka clout.. Do what any shieke would. They know how to post. Follow thier steps and leave all the negative information out. I dont need to see sisters on social media. Why cant you post without self appearance? Why do people have to see you? Why not fear your creator and be modest? Dont show yourselves sisters! The world does not need to see you if you good at what you do they will hear about you! Just make sure its beneficial not suicidal.
Interesting topic and discussion. Br Ali you make some good points that it’s better to keep your blessings hides to preserve them from the evil eye, but some of your points I don’t agree with. Men actually are not the only visual creatures. You really need to broaden your understanding of women and their biology and psyche. You know that the commercial market is catered towards women right? Women on average care more about ‘looks’ of both women and men vs men do. Also, men might have issue of lowering their gaze, but women also have an issue of lower their gaze when it comes to appreciating other women’s beauty as well as the beauty of men. Your perception that men struggle more than women to lower their gaze is simple not true in our generation. Women can find other women and men appealing to look at also. Please consider both men and women have a spectrum of wants and desires and the Quran and Sunnah only emphasizes desires of a certain type of men/women. You must understand that as it was being revealed the Quran was speaking directly to the population surrounding the Prophet Muhammad SAW. He was around Arab people mostly with some exception. Those men had specific qualities they loved in women, eg. Big eyes, fair skin etc. But men across the world don’t ALL just want the same type of physical features in women. So try to understand that just because certain things are mentioned in the Quran and Sunnah about what men like means it captures EVERYTHING men like across the board.
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Ali dahwa I have been following you for years now, and I don’t agree with your superficial teaching anymore why??
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Is It A Sin To Be Tempted???
No!
we found out that,temptation itself is not sin. !
Sin is committed when a choice is made to accept the temptation presented to us!
Then ,our will, which is the power of choice is the deciding factor in whether we sin or not !
when tempted - because sin is a choice , temptations are not!
If temptation was a sin them all mankind must go to hell because we are constantly tempted in mind, spirit, soul, physically in every minute, anywhere, we are included our own
House!
The question is:
1-where does our will to choose exist??
2--Where are our choice made from??
Response:
Our will, our choices are made in our mind - this is where our will is located.
A thought comes before an act!
Wich means which must mean that sin starts in the mind of the person first even before an act is committed or a words are spoken..
Because Acts and words are the outward, public revealing of a decision or choice already made within. Ourselves inside us in secret alone!
Don't blame shaitan for it!
-For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, lies. Deceit and taqiyya!
Don't blame shaytan!
Lower you Gaze is just the terminal part of a secret thought your sheltered within
You!
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A man or a woman, men especially who want to fulfill his lust will throw the excuses that ( I am man, men are visual more than female)
It is a lies it is covered up a ticket he give himself to fulfill is lustfull'mindset!
Or he use shaytan as the one who tempted him and made his sin!
No accountability but covert up the evil intention within!
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How youre gonna be tempted?! From where this input started ?! You judge this topic subjectively but if we realy put the test objectively and brought you a soul that might make you fall into a mistake you already broke the rule those temptation’s came cause you had an outsider source that reacted with youre soul which the soul is controling the body and its the consciousness like tell me are you allowed to have hate feeling towards anyone?! The same here you must protect yourself by taking those safe skills , and if that occurred without the intention i mean sincerely without an inner intention then you should act in a way to get rid of this situation because the human was created weak and if god almighty want to test you he almighty will test you like you have never been tested so he almighty gave us the skills to avoid any mistakes or to avoid any path to lead to a mistake
And the root (ع،ر،ب) in the holy Quran is referring to the perfection and completeness without any mistakes and flaws قرءانًا عربيًا where its an attribute it doesn’t say in arabic ( قرءانًا بالعربية) and this root in all the holy Quran was never mentioned with humans never (souls)
إِنَّآ أَنشَأۡنَٰهُنَّ إِنشَآءٗ ﴿٣٥﴾فَجَعَلۡنَٰهُنَّ أَبۡكَارًا ﴿٣٦﴾عُرُبًا أَتۡرَابٗا ﴿٣٧﴾لِّأَصۡحَٰبِ ٱلۡيَمِينِ ﴿٣٨﴾ سورة الواقعة
In jannah there’s no nationalities so those are perfecet and complete without mistakes or flaws
What iam hinting to is every soul could commit sin - free will - we are not arguing about the levels of sins lets say anger or fear … so the best is to protect yourself with those skills that were given to us by an absolute knowledge about the reality of the human as a soul and body(input+output)
A Massive respect to brother Zeeshan for lowering his gaze during the whole video!! May Allah reward you with his blessings!!
tbh they shouldn't be doing this podcast in the first place
@@zaynabsaed8998everyday I see why things between Ali and Dawah man didn't work out. I have a feeling that in the near future Muhammad Hijab will have to distance himself too.
@@asmaj.631 zeeshan and hijab have already distanced themselves i fink.
Have mercy brothers and sister . Everyone is different and unique in there own way . Think really what benefit do we get from disunity among the ummah. May Allah keep all the brothers safe and united . This is the trap of shaytan in fact this will cause more groups and more confusion. It’s sad that this disunity has rippled to the masses . May Allah guide us and all and give us understanding of his religion and his speech . Ameen
Mohammed hijab has attended many of his podcasts and other podcasts on the side which they do. both are working together in alot of diffrent dawah works
As a 19 year old muslim it’s been 4 years since i left social media and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made. I wanna be myself. UA-cam, gaming and Ibadah
may Allah keep you on the straight path brother
You do realise UA-cam is a form of social media right?
You realized this very young good job
@@kassy8342 yes I do but I use some kinda powerful mentality but if I had to use it with social media I can’t cause it’s way powerful than my mentality
@@politicallyincorrect4126 praise god 🙏
I’ve always wondered how people can be filming their lives every day, especially when it’s hard enough to live in real life.😂😂
May that should be their income source.
"Is that the better entertainment or the Tree of Zaqqum? For We have truly made it (as) a trial for the wrong-doers. It is a tree that springs out of the bottom of Hell-Fire. The shoots of its fruit-stalks are like the heads of devils. Truly they will eat thereof and fill their bellies therewith. Then on top of that they will be given a mixture made of boiling water. Then shall their return be to the (Blazing) Fire" (37:62-68).
"Verily, the tree of deadly fruit will be the food of the sinful. Like molten lead will it boil in the belly, like the boiling of burning despair" (44:43-46).
Constructive feedback: now, everyone might not agree with me here, but I'll voice my opinion. I think it would be better for the audience and the panellists if brother Ali just asks questions instead of sharing so much of his own viewpoints. Perhaps a little, if it takes less than 15 seconds to say, but talking too much and especially over your panellists is not fun to listen to for me personally. I might be wrong, but isn't it the ideal scenario for a host to make the guests start speaking? The moment someone starts speaking, in my opinion, as a host, you'd want to start listen, as there would be no podcast without the guests and their opinions. We already can get brother Ali's opinion on matters through his other videos. I watch these podcasts solely for the opinion of the guests. But that's just my two cents.
I felt the same!
I agree!
He really needs to read the room
I like what the sister in the brown hijab said.. about hiding what good you have that Allah has blessed you with… for example I have learned to never say I got a great job and I start at this date… instead I just keep to myself and thank Allah… especially it hasn’t happened yet.. of course always say InshAllah for everything because you never know what can happen… there are people that don’t want to see you succeed… so they can have it in their heart evil thoughts… I remember when I was young…. I know someone that had wished for a certain family member to get in an accident.. and it happened a few minutes later… May Allah protect us from the evil on this dunya…
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I totally agree with you..I regret telling my coworkers that I am going overseas to pursue my education, they kept talking about it almost everyday and am feeling like everything that's going wrong and whatever complications am facing is because of them, I just didn't know what to answer of their question "what are you planning to do when your lease end?" Should I lie or what :(
@@salasanat just say whatever god wills…. Or say it’s confidential 😁 for me to know and you to wonder… or just say… well right now I’m just working through some things and we will see how things go…
@salasanat the art of halal deflection, by simply saying alhamdulillah when it comes to answering a question that should wisely be made private.
I think that we all need to delete instagram and Tik Tok or whatever else is popular these days because I’m telling you, it’s ruining the actual fabric of society. It’s forbidden in my house. Wife isn’t on it neither am I. Don’t need it. All this fitnah out of sight out of mind!
UA-cam. You should delete it too.
@@joerdim nah Islam UA-cam is good it gets islamaphobes like you triggered.
Well you should remove all the modern amenities as they cause fitnah
Thanks to God I never created or have it both and I will not have them the rest of my life
@@joerdim the only thing I watch on UA-cam is car stuff and Quran. My UA-cam is locked down. Nowhere near as detrimental or bad as Insta TikTok etc.
Now I have to go home and appreciate my wife for all the good food and the time she spends teaching the children etc
Now I *can go ... . May Allah preserve ur marriage it❤
Ma sha Allah, allahumma barik. May Allah bless and protect your family and make your offspring righteous, amin. 💪☝️
I left social media a year after I got married back in 2017. It was the best decision I made. I had so much time that I was able to utilize to do other things. I had a great and peaceful marriage because I didn’t look at other couples and compare my life. I also didn’t keep wasting my time doing nothing and keep scrolling. I am still social media sober since 2017 and I’m the happiest. No one knows what me and my husband are up to all the time or know how my daughter looks right now. We also plan and spend family outings but if we don’t go on a vacation for a long time, I’m ok with it because we are genuinely too busy at focusing on building our family and future, rather than complaining and being depressed why other people are traveling but not us. We do things when we are ready and in our own time and not because someone else is doing it, and it’s because we stayed away from social media.
Subahallah. May Allah swt keep you firm and your family firm and upon goodness . May he gather you with people of goodness save you from the fitna of this world and the hearafter . Ameen
😂commenting on social media how you gave up social media??😂
I am so confused as to why people preach islam whilst gender mixing.
@@Sk9999-jr1gx neither do I. It’s scary to think the youth will have boys like this to look up to. May Allah guide us all to the straight path and prevent us from sinning in private and public
Let Shakeel speak please without being interrupted, we never get to fully hear his opinions.
Ali need to speak less, idk why he speak so much isn't he supposed to be moderator ?
Not sure if Ali is hosting this or trying to be an active participant? Make your mind up mate and act accordingly.
@@TMNmediahaha true
@Shamima83
I agree. This has happened 3 times now
And it's really getting on my nerves
Where's the balance!
yeah, at some point he may just stop coming to the show. He got really angry and I can understand how any person in that situation would.
Also br. Ali, please don´t tell people 10 seconds left😅, some people might just get stressed and lose what they were going to say. They already know they have a minute and that´s enough for them to manage their time.
Baaraka Allah fik
I'm totally against couples posting themselves for whatever purpose on social media due to ayn (evil eye) & other reasons however, if a couple were to do so .. I believe they should show the positives but also explain & express various issues that couples may experience. Providing practical solutions so others may benefit & reflect. For example arguments, disagreements, communication etc. Rather than literally recording & showing their bad days, provide solutions for potential bad days.
Also, regarding the sister's statement about having a single bit of jealousy could prevent you from Jannah, the hadith is actually regarding an atoms weight of arrogance, not jealousy. I just wanted to clarify on behalf of her as it may have been a genuine mistake. May Allah forgive us & guide us Ameen.
Yes you dont show your Fights in front of Camera that is not normal. As you said you can talk about different Life Situations and teach how to have Solution for different Situations. No need to podcast your Family Fights in front of the World just to show that you are real.
What if they do the athkar everyday
@@susanneal6063exactly, I don’t get why Muslims couple should show they arguments on a camera? They can talk about it but why show the bad ? Because I believe some people just wait for the little bad things to come and put waswas in their couple because of envy or jealousy. May Allah protect all Muslims and all Muslims family
To many social media couples and most of the content is awful regurgitated rubbish. No wonder most of them end up divorced the evil eye is real.
Or they would be suffering in their marriage and don’t want to get divorce because of the image they had put out there or the money they are getting from their platform!!
Agreed @brown headscarf sister.
I've never been jealous whether I had something or didn't. When I see a happy couple it only gave me hope and was happy for them. At the same time I lost interest in watching them because I couldn't relate. Now I don't watch them because I've got my own life with my husband.
I think there is a huge point that was missed.
The perception of relationships starts from birth, the environment you're raised in and looking at your parents and their marriage or lack of, can shape your perception of how you see marriage and relationships.
From my experience, a lot of people didn't experience the true reality of a relationship because parents hit it from them, so they now look around them and at social media, trying to get an idea as to how it all works.
I think it’s so weird that some of the brothers and sisters want these people to show the bad part of their relationships. That’s not a religious requirement that’s just the shaytan in you hoping to see a negative side to someone’s relationship. Personally I think showing a completely fake life on social media isn’t good but it also is the responsibility of the viewer to not watch content they don’t agree with or is not of benefit to them
Very true. If nobody watched these people wouldnt be posting to like 2 viewers
I don’t get it why as influencer couple Muslims they need to show the bad in there couple even if the reality ? Because there’s so much bad in the world already why can we see or appreciate good in others ? Why always this need to SHOW US THE BAD ? I think people want to see the bad in others life are so toxic they want to relate to what ? and I actually think that’s jealousy may Allah protect Muslims and place good intention in there heart
Ok I was about to end this video and go back to working but got shocked by the amount of ignorance in our brother’s rant in the end and now I must rant in return.
To the brother ranting at 49:05:
Dear brother, ADHD and autism are serious neurological disorders with symptoms that start at childhood.
Having ADHD or autism, or raising a child with any of them does make your life much harder than others, depending on how intense the symptoms are.
I hope you are just ignorant and don’t know what these disorders are.
Saying “what can you do” to people with these conditions is awfully triggering.
It’s like asking a handicapped person “why can’t you walk?”.
People need to be more educated and considerate.
Learn well before you speak about such topics, and please be kind.
We struggle enough in our lives.
Millions of people around the world have ADHD and don’t know it. Some are diagnosed at the age of 50!
The root cause of these neurological disorders is linked with genetics but still unknown. It starts at childhood and continues for the rest of our lives.
Our brains function differently when seen through a functional MRI scan.
Please educate yourself about the things you’re criticizing to avoid hurting someone else in the future.
People with ADHD, especially undiagnosed ones, live challenging lives.
People with ADHD can struggle academically, socially, mentally, they are more prone to anxiety, depression and suicide, they make more car accidents, get more speeding tickets, and much more.
ADHD is not a “label”, it never defines a person.. it is different in every individual because each person has their own unique brain. It is a very complex brain disorder, and it’s not something to criticize or make fun of.
Have a nice day.
I completely agree with every single word of this. Being a family member of multiple people with autism and some with ADHD, I definitely know them to be in different parts of the spectrum, it's so hard as family members to watch them struggle, wallahi only Allah knows how much they suffer and how much we as family watch them suffer, its like an insect on its back. May Allah bless you and all of us and compensate us through his rahmah.
❤
we don't care. deal with it. people like to label themselves all the time
@@cooljool1 You don’t care because you’re not affected by it. Don’t speak for everyone by saying “we”. There are millions of people who care. You don’t because you’re an ignorant online troll.
I can’t just “deal with it” because there is no cure.
Have some respect and decency or simply ignore my comment because I wasn’t talking to you. There is no need to stick your nose in every comment get a life.
I don’t want to label myself with anything and it is not a good thing to be labeling myself with anyway. I’m just raising awareness. Many people face similar problems and don’t know about ADHD.
Next month is ADHD awareness month and you’ll see how many people care about it.
Don’t reply to my comment and get the hell out of my face.
@@MAhmed-zs2vp ameen ya rab. thank you brother and may god help your family and bless you all with his mercy. I just hope people can be more understanding in the future.
اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لِلْمُسْلِمِينَ والْمُسْلِمَاتِ وَالمُؤْمِنِينَ وَالمُؤْمِنَاتِ، الأَحيَاءِ مِنهُم وَالأَموَاتِ
Ameen
Aameen summa Aameen ❤
Ameen shumma ameen
Ntah kenapa saya selalu menyukai percakapan seperti ini saya selalu menyukai orang-orang yang membahas tentang allah dan nabi muhammad saw.. menurut saya ini adalah pembahasan yang sangat menarik banyak pengetahuan di dalamnya, semoga bermanfa'at bagi mereka dan bagi kita semua amin.
Allah’s Anger isn’t like human’s anger , it’s not emotions like humans . Allah’s attributes are different than from his creations .
Was thinking that as soon as the guy said it
@@randomvids7779 Allah doesn’t resemble his creations, His attributes doesn’t resemble the attributes of his creations and His action doesn’t resemble the actions of his creations .
The great scholar, Hujjat-ul-lslam, Abu Ja^far al-Warraq at-Tahawi (239-321AH)[1], may Allaah have mercy on him, while he was in Egypt said:
This is an elucidation of the beliefs of ahl-as-Sunnah wa al-Jama^ah, according to the school of the jurists of this religion, Abu Hanifah an-Nu^man ibn Thabit al-Kufi, Abu Yusuf Ya^qub ibn Ibrahim al-Ansari and Abu ^Abdillah Muhammad ibn al-Hasan ash-Shaybani, may Allaah accept the deeds of all of them, and what they believe regarding the fundamentals of the religion and their faith in the Lord of all the Worlds.
We say about Allaah’s Tawhid (Allaah being different from the creation in every way) while believing that Allaah is the One who enables us to be obedient- that Allaah is One[2], without any partners. There is nothing like Him.
There is nothing that makes Him powerless. There is no god other than Him. He is the Eternal[3] without a beginning and the Everlasting[4] without end. He will never perish or come to an end. Nothing happens except what He wills.
No delusion can conceive of Him and no comprehension can encompass His Reality[5]. He is different from any created being. He is Alive and never dies and He manages the entire creation and never sleeps.
He creates without His being in need for His creation and provides for His creation without encountering any hardship. He causes death with no fear and quickens without difficulty. He has always existed having His Attributes Eternally before creating the creation. Bringing creation into existence did not add anything to His Attributes that did not exist in Eternity.
He is as He was, having His Attributes in Eternity, so He will remain Everlastingly. It was not only after the act of creation that He is Attributed as the Creator nor was it only by the act of bringing the creation into existence that He is Attributed as the One who made the creation begin.
He was always the Lord (Owner) even when the created beings were non-existent, and always the Creator even when there was no creation. By the same analogy that He is the One Who resurrects the dead to life, after He had brought them to life the first time, and deserves this name before bringing them to life, so too He deserves the name of Creator before He has created them.
This is because He has the power to do everything[6], everything is dependent on Him, everything is easy for Him, and He does not need anything.
@@randomvids7779 لَيْسَ كَمِثْلِهِ شَىءٌ وَهُوَ السَّمِيعُ البَصِيرُ “
“There is nothing like Him in any way whatsoever, and He is attributed with Hearing and Sight”[7]. [ash-Shura 42:11]
He created the creation with His knowledge. He Destined [8] destinies for those He created. He appointed to them fixed death times. Nothing about them was hidden from Him before He created them, and He knew everything that they would do before He created them.
He ordered them to obey Him and forbade them to disobey Him. Everything happens according to His decree and will, and His will is accomplished. The only will that people have is what He wills for them. What He wills for them happens and what He does not will does not happen.
He gives guidance to whomever He wills, and protects them from sinning, and keeps them healthy in their religion and safe from harm, out of His generosity; and He makes astray whomever He wills, and casts them down and deprives them His support, and afflicts them, out of His justice.
All of them are subject to His will between either His generosity or His justice. He is exalted beyond having opposites or equals. No one can ward off His destiny[9] or put back His ruling or overpower the happening of the matters He willed for them to happen. We believe in all of this and are certain that all things come from Him.
The Prophet
And we are certain that Muhammad, sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam, is His chosen servant and selected Prophet and His Messenger whom He highly accepts. And that he is the Seal of the Prophets and the Imam of the God-fearing and the Most Honored of all the Messengers and the Beloved (highly accepted) of the Lord of all the Worlds. Every claim to prophethood after Him is falsehood and deceit. He is the one who has been sent to all the jinn and all mankind with Truth and Guidance and with Light and Illumination.
The Qur’an
The Qur’an is the word of Allaah. The Qur’an descended from Him but be certain the Speech of Allaah is without a manner of being[10]. He sent it down on His Messenger as a revelation. The believers accept it, as absolute truth. They are certain that it is, in truth, the word of Allaah.
It is not created, as is the speech of human beings. Hence, anyone who hears it and claims that it is human speech has become an unbeliever. Allaah warns him and censures him and threatens him with Fire when He says, Exalted is He: سَأُصْلِيهِ سَقَرَ”I will burn him in the Fire.” [al-Muddaththir 74:26] When Allaah threatens with the Fire those who say
إِنْ هَذَا إِلاَ قَوْلُ الْبَشَرِ”
“This is just human speech” [al-Muddaththir 74:25]
We know for certain that it is the Speech of the Creator of mankind and that it is totally unlike the speech of mankind. Likening Allaah to the Creation Anyone who attributes to Allaah attributes in any way the same as a human being has become an unbeliever. All those who grasp this will take heed and refrain from saying things such as the unbelievers say, and they will know that He, in His Attributes, is not like human beings
@@randomvids7779 Seeing of Allaah
The Seeing of Allaah by the People of Paradise (Al-Jannah) is true, without their vision being all-encompassing and without a manner of being [11]. As the Book of our Lord has expressed it:
وُجُوهٌ يَوْمَئِذٍ نَّاضِرَةٌ إِلَى رَبِّهَا نَاظِرَةٌ
“Faces on that Day radiant, looking at their Lord”. [al-Qiyamah 75:22-3]
The explanation of this is as Allaah knows and wills. Everything that has come down to us about this from the Messenger, Sallallaahu `Alayhi wa Sallam, in the Sahih Hadith (authentic sayings), is as he said and means what he intended[12].
We do not delve into that with baseless interpretation according to our own opinions or deluding ourselves by unsound inclinations. No one is safe in his religion unless he submits himself completely to Allah, the Exalted and Glorified and to His Messenger, Sallallaahu `Alayhi wa Sallam, and leaves the knowledge of things that are ambiguous to the one who knows them. [13]
A True Muslim
A man’s Islam is not secure unless it is based on submission and surrender. Anyone who desires to know the things that are decreed as not knowable[14], and does not content with surrender, will find that his desire veils him from the pure clearing of Allaah from resemblance to the creation (Tawhid), clear knowledge and correct belief, and that he wavers between disbelief and belief, confirmation and denial and acceptance and rejection.
He will be subject to whisperings and will be lost and doubtful, being neither an accepting believer nor a denying rejecter. The belief of a man in the seeing of Allaah by the people of the abode of peace (Paradise) is not correct if he imagines it in his delusions, or interprets it according to his baseless own understanding since the baseless interpretation of this seeing or, indeed, the meaning of any of the matters which are in the realm of Lordship is by avoiding its unfounded interpretation and strictly adhering to the submission [15].
This is the Religion of Muslims. Anyone who does not guard himself against negating the Attributes of Allaah, or likening Allaah to the creation, has gone astray and has failed to clear Allaah from non-befitting attributes, because our Lord, the Glorified and the Exalted, is attributed with the Attributes of Oneness and Absolute Exclusivity and no creation is in any way like Him.
He is clear from having limits, boundaries, sides, organs or limbs. Nor is He contained by the six directions as all created things are.
Al-Mi`raj: The Ascension
Al-Mi`raj (The Ascent Through the Heavens) is true. The Prophet, Sallallahu ^alayhi wa-Sallam, was taken on the night journey (Al-Isra’) and ascended in his bodily form, while awake, through the heavens, to whatever heights Allaah willed for him.
Allaah ennobled him in the way that He ennobled him and revealed to him what He revealed to him:
مَا كَذَبَ الْفُؤَادُ مَا رَأَى
“And his heart was not mistaken about what he saw” [al-Najm 53:11]. Allah blessed him and granted him peace in this world and the next.
@@randomvids7779 Al-Hawd: The Basin
Al-Hawd, (the Basin which Allaah will grant the Prophet, Sallallaahu ^alayhi wa-Sallam, as a succor to His Ummah on the Day of Judgment), is true.
Ash-Shafa^ah: The Intercession
Ash-Shafa^ah, (the intercession of the Prophet, sallallaahu ^alayhi wa-sallam, on the Day of Judgment, which he saved for the enormous sinners of his Ummah), is true, as related in the Hadiths.
Al-Qadar: The Destining
The covenant which Allaah made with Adam and his offspring is true. Allaah Eternally knew the exact number of those who would enter Paradise (Al-Jannah) and the exact number of those who would enter Hellfire (Jahannam). This number will neither be increased nor decreased.
The same applies to all actions done by people, which are done exactly as Allaah knew they would be done. Everyone is facilitated to what he was created for and it is the actions with which a man’s life is sealed which define his ending.
Those who are fortunate winners in the Hereafter are fortunate by the Destining of Allaah, and those who are deprived losers are losers by the Destining of Allaah. The exact nature of the Destining is Allaah’s secret in His creation, and no angel near the Throne, nor Prophet sent with a message, has been given knowledge of it.
Delving into it and reflecting too much about it only leads to destruction and deprivation, and results in tyranny. So be extremely careful about thinking and reflecting on this matter or letting doubts about it assail you because Allaah has kept knowledge of the Destining concealed from human beings, and forbidden for them to enquire about it, saying in His Book,
لاَ يُسْأَلُ عَمَّا يَفْعَلُ وَهُمْ يُسْأَلُونَ
“He is not asked about what He does but they are asked”. [al-Anbiya’ 21:23 ] So anyone who asks (in objection): “Why did Allaah do that?” has gone against the judgment of the Book, and anyone who goes against the judgment of the Book is an unbeliever[16].
This in sum is what those of Allaah’s Waliyys (highly pious Muslims) with enlightened hearts need to know and constitutes the degree of those firmly endowed with knowledge. For there are two kinds of knowledge: the knowledge that is accessible to created beings[17], and knowledge that is not accessible to created beings[18].
Denying the knowledge which is accessible is disbelief[19], and claiming the knowledge which is inaccessible is disbelief[20]. Belief can only be firm when accessible knowledge is accepted and inaccessible knowledge is not sought after.
Leaving social media is the best thing I have done. No app controls me or how my mind works. Not anymore. Life without social media is so bliss. Its true living without background noise or ideas floating around in your head. The social media life isn't the one. It's so toxic and as Muslims its so easy to use social media as a distraction. Ultimately its a waste of time.
May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤
Aameen summa Aameen ❤
It’s so rude how the guy named shakeel is being interrupted so many times and not even given a fair opportunity to give his opinion ☹️👎
I wish Ali Dawah you started reading and educating our youths through reading hadiths and commentary on those, because those are the real ilm, for us. Others will love you what others have you don't have. I pray Allah (swt) bless you and your family give you long life and health and jannatul firdous. (Ameen).
First seconds of the video and I notice all brothers and sisters keeping their heads down! Allahumma barik to you all and ma sha Allah, what a great example. :) I'm also trying not to stare and focus on listening, ma sha Allah. 💪🏆💐
not bitter truth its Ali interrupts everyone, its has to be an objective critic Allah should bless your work
Lets not refer to autism as a "label". Its a neurological disability that is very real. We have an issue as a society with afflictions we cant see and we love to explain them away. You wouldn't refer to a person with a physical disability as someone labelling themselves. Please be more responsible when you use your words because as a parent of 3 non verbal autistic children that hurts. These disorders are very real to the people who live with them.
people can turn it into an identity like they do with everything else.
13:00 brother is holding in that laugh 😂
Was looking for this comment 😂😂😂 I was watching him holding in his laughter its happened to me before and its very hard to keep it in😂😂
@@randomvids7779same
Brother Ali, thank you for posting the next bitter truth💖
When inviting sisters and brothers Somalis and Moroccans?
there is a morrocan sister there.
@@user-zc3tn2we1gisn't she Algerian but lived in France /born there ?
Why Somalis we don’t want to be involved in this stuff we’re to prideful to be in this stuff .
Alhamdulilah, thankyou for sharing these important insights and all the blessings for everyone reading this, may you have a blessed and abundant life. Don´t share too much of your private life on social media.
Over the past year I've been looking for marriage, and one of the.important questions I ask is if they are on social media, and the ones that are share a certain quality of low self-esteem that I noticed. Subhanallah now I found a lovely person who is not on social media at all and it is such a stark difference. Obviously that is not the whole equation but my general observation of those who are on non-formative social media is that it is disadvantageous in many ways. Things like Facebook and Instagram have far more cons over the long-run than positives.
Ultimately Allah knows best and if I have said anything wrong it is my mistake.
I used to post food photos, now she's sitting with men, full faced makeup and free mixing. This kind of chit chat is not from islam. I'd hate my husband to be sitting with other women and chit chatting about anything.
Best discussion! Thank you all
The only downside of these debate seesions are that everyone starts talking over everyone at times which makes it chaotic and Brother Ali cutting off the guests is kind of not nice. Hope you give the space and chance to everyone to speak freely instead of cutting them off. Just a constructive critisicm from my side.
And coming to this topic. It is true that social media really makes you depressed. I’m going through the same and having a difficult time as I’m unable to find a decent spouse. I’m normally not a jealous person instead I get happy seeing others doing well but lately seeing all my school mates and women younger than me getting married did make me feel envious and made me feel low specially seeing picture perfect life on Instagram . That’s why I’m on a instagram detox and hopefully I will stay away from a long time for my mental health.
Masha Allah.. Look forward more such group conversations. May Allah bless and reward you all for sharing your precious thoughts.
And above all, women's self-esteem drops to the ground for two reasons, one when they see this woman with new clothes, good food and so on. If she is not sufficiently aware that it is just a program, she will end up depressed and hating her husband for not give you what you see on social media
Thanks for the guys in the end abd the first lady at the whole video was full of the people that make ppl not want to be married trying to over power the conversation so judgy great convo though
I think it is very important to speak about these muslim men who show their wifes on social medias..personnaly I find that they lack of masculinity , it is the role of the man to pretect his wife and to have a role model for the family, he must stand against this trend of showing his wife cooking, dancing , doing make up or whatever just to gain money and fame...his role is to protect his wife frome the gaze of other men and unfortunatly they seem unware of the sins they commit...
May Allah guide us
It hurt my heart when I see couples on social media . I dont envy them at all but it makes me sad to be alone with no husband. Hamdullah Allah
Social media IS NOT A NEED IN LIFE that’s why I don’t have it
Alhamdulilah it’s one of the best decisions I ever made
Brothers and sisters lie about having social media
Whenever good happens the first thing they do is post it on their story, ngl I was just like that as well but at least had the intelligence of saying to myself “this is not going to benefit anyone or myself”
It’s much easier to have people watching your life style rather than letting those same people in the same room as these content creators
Do I think social media is a good thing
No
Don’t do anything that doesn’t benefit u in the first place
UA-cam is social media dude.
Bro has a UA-cam account and says he doesn't use social media.
I meant Snapchat instagram and TikTok
UA-cam is a non private social media /entertainment platform
@@ismaelahmed8034 Cherry picking like a true muslim.
@@joerdim is he cherry picking? Yes. Is that inherently a Muslim trait? No. Don't be a dunce, there's no need to attack our religion.
They have taken "lower your gaze " too far, it doesn't feel like a normal coversation. Come on guys those women are completely covered 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Whoever believes that there is no god but ALLAH and Muhammad is his messenger and do good deeds will be successful
Really ??? Does that include all the believers that got crushed in earthquakes about 6 months ago ???
Mohamed was an awful man: had sex with a child, female war slaves that were still married, killed men, traded slaves, and the list goes on. God if he is fair and kind wouldn’t not make that man a prophet the actions of who to be followed by billions of people. Koran can be easily interpreted in a very wrong way: 911, ISIS, jihadists, kamikazes, forced conversion to Islam throughout the history, abusing women, kids marriages and so on. You tell me back then all these were socially acceptable, but does it make it right? Jesus lived 600 years before Jesus, he didn’t do anything that was ok during his time and during today. He saved a prostitute from stoning, Mohamed did stoning himself. Wake up, you follow a dangerous religion. Turn yourself to Jesus and repent. I’m not saying to put Muslims down, most Muslims I’ve met are good people, and I see Muslims behaving more in line what we consider Christian values : women respect men in the family, being religious and trying to be just good people, I see less of that in so called Christian - background atheistic societies. So I give credit to Muslim people for that, you would be better Christians than many so-called christians that don’t respect most of the Bibles teachings.
@@donritchfield1407 maybe
@@donritchfield1407
UA-cam is social media as well and kufar’s invention too
Maybe it will benefit all the ummah to stop all the social media, kufar’s invention, and go back live like in 10 century!
It will benefit all the ummah to stay way from everything the kufar’s through at as as their invention as good Muslim!
Music is haram
The microphone tool of kufar’s to call prayers is haram, these things were nkt there in 6 century in time our beloved prophet!
Car is also haram, he used to travel through donkey and camel!
Internet is haram it must be cut of it betray our prophet perfect way of communication!
Airplanes are haram, tool of shaytan and kufar’s!
It is betrayed to our beloved prophet!
Telephone is also haram
Television is haram!
Electricity is also haram, the tools of shaytan, kufar’s!
We should follow the perfect example and foot steps of our prophet and cut off everything that we Muslims didn’t not invented from our lives.. they are kufar’s and white European invention abd corrupted of our lives!
We must stop stay away from all kufar’s tool and used candles or oil to light our house like our beloved prophet did!
This is sunnah!
It pain us to see that even inside the mosque, sheikh are using microphone shaytan tools to talk to us!
Bilal used to scream instead!
We should continue like bilal instead of touching the kufar’s, ennemy of Allah tools!
Painful, they surround pit lives in every aspect!
Sad!
@@donritchfield1407 maybe 🤔
This series is very bingeable
This conversation is very fruitful. Good job brother ali👍
14:43 @smiletojanah it’s false, it's important to note that in Islam, when we refer to "feelings" of Allah, it's not in the same way we understand human emotions. For instance, while terms like "anger" are used in the Qur'an, they shouldn't be taken literally as human emotions. Allah is beyond our human perceptions, and His attributes transcend our understanding.
Assalamualaikum BROTHER ALI!
Hear me out, your married and your in Laws are coming to your house … me personally I like to clean the house, spray perfume and make everything look nice .. EVERYTIME! … with some of the hosts mentality on this show, they are saying no don’t clean it everytime because they will think unrealistically about their own house and I am being fake as I’m only showing the good … If your mind makes you jealous from seeing my clean house thats your problem and you need to work on it. Islam teaches us to be content with life and say alhamdulilah, not that when you see something nice and think to yourself why haven’t I got that, and if you think like that subhan’Allah you have to work on yourself. ❤
That's not what Ali is implying.
Most couples who post on social media are living in luxurious (not clean) house, and it's easier to keep your house clean and organized if you have the luxury to do so.
Some ppl can't afford that type of lifestyle, and can't afford eating out or any vacation.
If you don't have something, sometimes you hope or wish you can have it, so you can be able to keep your house well organized.
It's just human nature to want to have your place at the best, or at least I think so.
If you have to sweep your carpet, sometimes you hope for vacuum.
And if you have to wash clothes and baby diapers by hand, sometimes you hope for a washer.
And if you have to use kerosene lamp, torch light, and candles, sometimes you hope you can have electricity.
And if you have to fetch water, sometimes you hope you can have running water at your sink.
34:25 jealousy and envy is not a sin per se, acting upon it is though. Still I agree if your are triggered by it, its not healthy for you and could harm you.
Why does this feel like a copy of the manosphere podcast setup? Why we gotta do what they do?
They gotta stop talking over each other and give the ppl that didnt get a chance to talk, talk!
May Allah bless you and increase you in knowledge for the good things you are using your podcasts for in the Islamic marriage community. Masha Allah, I am from Nigeria and get to understand the point of view you discuss most of your topics from. I will really like you to host a topic and have divergent participants from different regions probably through Zoom to partake. What am I saying, like get people living in different areas and get their take simultaneously on a topic. I think you will be tackling a lot if other people get to experience a discuss as it relates with their own environment.
The question is why are you on social media
I have friends who are not married and they also want to post a hotpot made by their wife. Thats why i stopped sending these kind of pictures in the groupschat.
Next time i do that, i will immediately send hem an invite to my home.
The sister said it right, we can't control others, we can control ourselves.
yeah people are nuts with the social media and life is not in the phone. it's in reality.
The most important is to do the deeds that benefit the after and spreading the message - ثواب الآخرة
The grass next door is greener,
Be happy with what to have and you will be definely you will be reward,otherwise you always be unhappyin your life
Justice for Shakeel!
Ive been doing alot of research, and many of the well known Sheikhs on youtube have expressed that women being on social media in general is haram.
Based ob my understanding, if there is no purpose of a woman showing her face, features , body , clothes because it is a form of Fitna. Showing your family , husband , kids while fully dressed up isn’t a necessity and therefore there is no need .
I always believe private life is a happy life, regardless if its good or bad intention of the contents. I never put pics of my marriage, spouse and my future kids on social media because of nazar is real and people are so naive about that, plus im not a dayooth as well. Those social couple influencers are fake
I dont rate that sirtaj guy one bit. Hes got his mrs sat there in full hijab and shes literally in all his videos on social media actimg all wierd trying to entertain people. I dont rate man who post their wife up for the world to see.
Everything comes with problem, if there's no problem then this is a problem
all the women talked for about 6 minutes total. Wish I heard more from them. Men love to share their opinions too much.
I wasnt able to watch it all but subhanallah the man wearing the glasses and dark shirt gave me the creeps. He looks malicious or evil. And then I stopped watching when the guy was trying to explain how you have problems in every marriage but the example that he wanted to give was look babe you get a few pounds that’s so stupid. This is a very bad panel there’s no depth or understanding of actual married life, telling your significant other they gained weight that’s the first thing you can say. Don’t know if you clarified or change that outdoor redacted that statement but this is not for me.
Half of your beauty comes from the way you speak 🎉❤
Openly sinful people always water down sinning as they are not themselves ashamed of Allaah by openly sinning.
Mashallah to the brother Zeeshan
It says in Islam you won’t go to heaven if you are not jealous,, envy on the other hand is a sin
There needs to be a balance on both sides. Muslim social media couples should have a platform as we aren't represented in the media and youngsters need to see the light and loving side of halaal marriages. With this said, the INFLUENCERS need to be more honest and we, the AUDIENCE need to realise that they are there to entertain and more importantly - earn money, lifestyle and fame with sponsorships and endorsements. Like the sister said , the audience needs to check our emotions - jealousy and lust - lower your gaze and unfollow. What we consume with our eyes and ears affects our hearts and minds, and also our imaan.
With older married people, we may well see these Influencers as disingenuous and fake - as they do not inspire us. Find people who do and don't disregard the whole for some parts.
The men worried that their women might actually have above average expectations of them if they see other men treat their women like queens by just doing nice, sweet, very affordable, accessible things on social media. 😏
I like how Ali Dawah called out the sister. She was advising that sisters need to stop being jealous, then said shes not a jealous person.
She's too much of herself. She needs to start wearing her hijsb on the podcast.
I am proud to be a new Muslim...
7:50 for this reason I deleted my parents pic from social media... So orphans not get hurt
may Allah bless and reward you and keep you on the straight path.
Alhamdulillah I'm not the jealous type as far as material and other things
very good view Ali dawah that explained I agree
Most of these so called panelists using 'I FEEL'' No one gives a sh** about how u FEEL.... THESE NEW AGE MUSLIMS ARE GIVEN TO THE DUNYA.
True indeed. Instead of striving to act upon what Allah تعالى and His Messenger صلى الله عليه وسلم has commanded and prescribed for us, it's all about "my feelings" and "I think...". The problem is, that too many of us want the Deen to fit our desires instead of making effort towards tazkikah abd making our nafs conform to the Deen. Unfortunately, it also seems that many Muslims have gotten sucked into the whole sjw mess, and they use Islam and being Muslim as nothing more than a label and box to check in an effort to show that they are a member of an "oppressed" group, in order to win "victimhood points".
اللهم احفظنا واهدنا وأصلح شؤوننا
Why u using swear words lol? That what a lot of new age muslims do too.
@@bless2390 Swearing is makruh (disliked) but not haram but still good etiquette not to swear as a Muslim. But that isn't a new age thing, muslims have been swearing since day one even during the days of the Prophet pbuh
@@luluah1198even prophet sweared
@@solomonthomas7444 Prove it. If you can't, remember what happens to those that lie about him (pbuh).
that brother in the middle holding laughter got me laughing so hard xD
Subhanallah if u look carefully there is no eye contact at all , they are keeping their gaze low ❤️
so now we can all freely talk to women but our gazes have to be lowered ???
@@alone.traveller3187
Are you saying that (
(The emotion control center of the brain, called :the amygdala, is higher levels of activation in males viewing sexual visual stimuli than females viewin??
Men Aren't 'More Visual' Or More Easily Turned On Than Women Are..
Men, (certain ) men with a
Debauched lustfull'mindset are stimulated and arosed by visualization,
Because they already entertain these toughts inside their mind long before the image came to
The visual!
It is not about the external visual image, but about the thoughts that you sheltered inside your subconscious mind!
If you don't have sexual thoughts in your mind first and lust , no possible imagine visual can stimulate you whatsoever!
2-- it is your lust that create the toughts inside your mind, first
Lust is a strong passion or longing, especially for sexual desires...
Remedy: conclusion:
Chastity or self-control cures lust by controlling your passion and leveraging that energy for the good of others...
Lust is a sin!
A sin is not the same thing as crime!
A lustfull mindset persona have a
failure to be humans who fully love God and others humans, he love himself more than anyone, he is a HUBRIS personality,
It have excessive pride or dangerous over -self-confidence...
That create insecurities in them!
That is absolutely a lie men and women have the emotional control center called( amygdala ) twice created the visual stimulus!
We reacted differently according to our personal integrity and dignity!
These are excuse someone who want to entertain sexual toughts in their mind used to justify their failure of controlling théir lustfull’mind!!
Soon they will accuse shatain of seducing and tempting them, when in fact they are the one sheltering sexual desires within!
Lol, do you think they wanna be caught off guard on camera? Don't be so naive.
@alone.traveller3187 The Prophet SAW had many conversations with Muslim women in the community during his time. Women would literally come up to him and ask questions on Islam. The Prophet SAW would readily interact with women during his time. This was the same thing with the Sahaba after the death of the Prophet SAW. Islam does not forbid halal good-intention based conversations of the opposite gender (sometimes, it's necessary!) . What it does prohibit however is touching and being overtly close to one another and not keeping your distance.
@@ahabarhossain773 Aisha (Radiyallahu anha) says that a woman from behind a curtain gestured a letter to the Prophet (Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) withheld his hand. The woman said, “O Prophet of Allah, I extended my hand to you with a letter and you did not take it?” He said, “I could not know if this is a man’s hand or a woman’s”. She said, “It is a woman’s hand.” The Prophet (Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) said, “If you were a woman you ought to have changed your fingernails with henna.” (Sunan An-Nasaa’i, hadith 5002)
3:33 Thank you bro
Social media is a extension of yourself. Just like in real life you don’t show everything to people, same rule applies on social media. People always try to show the best versions of themselves to others. The only waste is social media actually has no connection to people.....just likes. In real life connecting with people is beneficial. It’s a 2way street, you have to respect one another. Social media is harmful because your only posting to make yourself feel good 90% of the time. I’ve cut down social media and only use UA-cam for learning and watching beneficial videos. I hope more people understand that social media is a waste of time and people can do better things with that time.....like read or meet actual people. It’s also not good for people’s attention span. Watching 100 tic tok videos in 15min can’t be good for you, your only teaching kids how not to concentrate on one topic for to long.
Brother saying couple on Instagram could be encouraging people to do it the halal way but you can say the same thing to the brother showing of his car and encourage people to work and make money(which is not haram. It’s actually encouraged)
At the end of the day social media should be used for business work or charity work end of! Anything personal keep it offline. Because “influencers” is not a profession it’s an egotistical title.
Why would you allow teenagers on social media. It’s parent’s responsibility to keep an eye on their kids activities.
😊 😊😊 nice! What is Ali with his people trying to convey?!
@ManhwaRecaps234 if life is not rainbow and rosy why are they putting their nose in peoples business trying to infiltrate is and mold it according to their point of view??
Using religion to trying to download their own intentions into
People life?
People work hard and and a lot, they need entertainment abd different kind of subject in their social networks and media to learn different kind of view, !!
Ali always and many like him always try to play the God of people mind, to control and dominate them, too
As Muslims we have to admit, there is a bad part to couples putting “aspirational stuff”out there. My question is why do we care what other couples do? We’ve essentially replaced the old soap operas people used to watch with people we watch on social media. Our examples and aspiration should come from Quraan and Sunnah. Let’s not forget the younger less mature generation that sees whatever they do on social media, do not have the wisdom or judgement that we as adults do. So you can say as much as you want to, that we must be responsible and know ourselves to know what we can handle, applies only to well informed, wise adults who have experience behind them…
u should add older panel for the next episode, it'll be more informative and interesting
no offence but why is this girl comparing her cooking videos to married couples😭 they’re literally nothing alike
Asc to yall like always amazing episode jazaka allaah khayran the brother and sister absolutely agree even my self how manny times as woman we like to sjow of our cooking when I’m cooking good delicious authentic food I like to show of that then wallaahi I remember what’s about if get evail eye then I always have these talk my self so sis munira same too sis
Br zeeshan made this golden ✨️ 😂😂😂😂
Very strange to say show me the bad too!!!
Let that brother speak when it’s his turn, he was quite All the way through nearly, but Yh be fair Ali
Is posting yourself and your wife even halal?
Yeah it isn't halal as it's for vanity reasons. Social media itself is about vanity as you share, like, and comment. Spreading awareness is okay but you don't need to show yourself or other people in the content
idk why they skipped this question in the first place. and no it’s not halal and shouldn’t be as normalized as it is.
@@j86485
People do show them selves
@@Ferdi2Rare
Well said
@@noreenbi9079 Yeah which is why i said it's haram for the most part as most social media content shows yourself
Alhamdurillah i dont indulge in these haram activities.
Another huge point not discussed is .. what does Allah require from us. Is coming on camera and showing your life yourself .. your beauty loved by Allah? Allowed by Allah? If not then it's a no
I agree with the sister next to brother Ali jealousy is also haram and it really does let women get away with bad behavior! And the sister next to her was great the viewer is accountable. It’s ridiculous to just act like we are not in a social media age.
I haven't watched the video yet, but inshallah I'm going to, however even before watching it I want to say that I think a lot of people joined social media early on 'cos they were lonely and wanted attention. I think this is true for singles and couples, or the individuals in couples feeling single. As soon as they saw the masses of attention and whatever small or large money that came with it, it changed their intentions. After those people showed the money, attenntion and benefits that came with it, others have joined in. I genuinely think some people don't do it to show off in a boastful or arrogant way, but there's no doubt that there are many who do. I think as individuals and people who consume content, we need to be smarter and not so sensitive. I don't personally get triggered watching a rich person or a happily married person, but that might be more to do with how my parents raised me not to trust what others say and them telling me that jealousy is a useless emotion. If more people raise kids with standards and keep them away from the crap on social media, the better the child will grow up not feeling envious or lonely. Or if it's genuinely hard for you to keep the kids away from social media as you're at work a lot an they're at school, educate them when you are at home and show quality love to know what's real and what isn't. People only go searching elsewhere when they don't get whatever it is at home. If they know the boudaries and reasons, most kids don't go against their parents constantly. Not making boundaries or neglecting them is what leads to the social media jealousy.
Yr right unfortunately some people get jealous. Some get inspired not many (tend to b the older people who r content with themselves & life) but many get jealous & expect that life. People do get brainwashed like ISIS brainwashed people. Social media is powerful & can b dangerous. Posts has to b within reason. We have stopped posting our holidays unfortunately even siblings who r not as fortunate as us get jealous. Protect yrself from the eye & people need to protect themselves from false expectations. We all r different, some can afford several holiday holidays & some can't afford any. Some can afford going out for meals & some can't. Jealousy is a disease
ali dawa ur video are very inspiring and i want to learn more but i want to know more and im starting to doubt isalm but i dont want to i want to learn more but i have no knowlage of islam so i cant christians always try to convince me to switch but i want to learn more please give me tips
I don't think the guy with curly hair understands how things are in the world. All women around me are into TikTok and Instagram and what not. There is this guy (I think in Canada or the US) who films all sorts of stuff - like buying his wife cars and other expensive gifts and shows videos of himself helping his wife. My wife has shown his videos to me before. It is clear what these ppl grow expectations in their viewers
Then buy your wife those expensive cars 😅
No need for social media but if you were to put good knowledge out there for others benefits such as academics, tips and dean then its fine as long as you dont put your personal information out there for no reason and unnecessary fame aka clout.. Do what any shieke would. They know how to post. Follow thier steps and leave all the negative information out. I dont need to see sisters on social media. Why cant you post without self appearance? Why do people have to see you? Why not fear your creator and be modest? Dont show yourselves sisters! The world does not need to see you if you good at what you do they will hear about you! Just make sure its beneficial not suicidal.
Interesting topic and discussion. Br Ali you make some good points that it’s better to keep your blessings hides to preserve them from the evil eye, but some of your points I don’t agree with. Men actually are not the only visual creatures. You really need to broaden your understanding of women and their biology and psyche. You know that the commercial market is catered towards women right? Women on average care more about ‘looks’ of both women and men vs men do. Also, men might have issue of lowering their gaze, but women also have an issue of lower their gaze when it comes to appreciating other women’s beauty as well as the beauty of men. Your perception that men struggle more than women to lower their gaze is simple not true in our generation. Women can find other women and men appealing to look at also. Please consider both men and women have a spectrum of wants and desires and the Quran and Sunnah only emphasizes desires of a certain type of men/women. You must understand that as it was being revealed the Quran was speaking directly to the population surrounding the Prophet Muhammad SAW. He was around Arab people mostly with some exception. Those men had specific qualities they loved in women, eg. Big eyes, fair skin etc. But men across the world don’t ALL just want the same type of physical features in women. So try to understand that just because certain things are mentioned in the Quran and Sunnah about what men like means it captures EVERYTHING men like across the board.
When you show people good food good wife nice cars and a successful Life you must be ready to share it with them . Showing off is haram in Islam.
Sometimes sharing ones reality is showing off to others, its up to oneself to not get to invested