You’re not lazy. | Here’s WHY 🤯

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  • @MadisunGray
    @MadisunGray  Рік тому +46

    I'm here to walk with you as you re-discover who you really are..

    • @cierracarrico4718
      @cierracarrico4718 Рік тому +4

      Thank you for helping me see the beauty in being stay at home mom.

    • @Dana-mb1hd
      @Dana-mb1hd Рік тому +1

      Today was a tough day as a mama for me and your video really uplifted me thank you 💖🙏💖

    • @dianaramirez3487
      @dianaramirez3487 Рік тому +1

      Today I find out that my being sick all winter is because I'm allergic to my cats. They are 2 years old & have slept in my room every night. Now they have to stay on my enclosed porch. Breaks my heart. They are my babies since I'm a senior citizen & have no little kids anymore. I have my little dogs still. I have been cleaning & decluttering for months & have really taken it a step up but this was not something I wanted to do with my babies.

  • @ShannonDePalma
    @ShannonDePalma Рік тому +13

    Who am I if I'm not defined by success? This is the biggest identity shift I had when I became pregnant with my first and it threw me for such a loop! This content is exactly where I'm finding myself now as a momma of 2.. I don't care about hitting my revenue goals in my business, I just want to play outside with my kids and go to the beach. It's such a strange feeling but your content speaks so deeply to me at this time in my life, thank you!

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому +1

      ❤️thank you

    • @HerWanderlust
      @HerWanderlust 2 місяці тому +1

      I am not a mother myself, but I am so so grateful to mothers-y’all are doing the most important work of all. You’ve literally called down souls and given them life. Raised the next citizens of the world-if every mother was supported and celebrated imagine how the world would look 💜

    • @ShannonDePalma
      @ShannonDePalma 2 місяці тому

      ​@@HerWanderlust thank you for honoring us and recognizing us!

  • @kellecarnes3383
    @kellecarnes3383 Рік тому +11

    “Just because it takes time, doesn’t mean it isn’t happening.” Absolutely!!!!! Great quote and applicable for anyone and everyone! I’m thinking of how I’m homeschooling my kids now and that I will be telling them this often. Thank you!

  • @rachelrachel3214
    @rachelrachel3214 Рік тому +8

    I needed to hear this! I have a huge yard that I don’t garden, but I have the idea that I want to. I’ve been decluttering old photos and memorabilia for months (really just taking up space on my dining room table). I just quit my job after a decade at the previous one, thinking it would make me happier and I feel more lost than ever about what I want to do with my life. I’m hard on myself for rarely working out.
    Your videos are refreshing and inspiring. I really needed to hear this today, the self love of believing I’m right where I am today and that is good enough when I’m not doing all the things. And baby step progress is okay.
    I deep cleaned 2 windows today.

  • @emilymcclain591
    @emilymcclain591 Рік тому +16

    This is exactly what I needed today. I’m a very goal oriented person but realized several years ago that the checklists make me sick. I get so much more out of my life when I let the opportunities holistically approach me. I’m open and always ready so I guess that is how I elimate the fear of “missing it.
    Also, best part of this video was definitely June sitting on her bum in the dirt watching you shred up paper for your worm bin. I laughed, and smiled. Then it hit me. We all should be more like June. ❤

  • @noelcarter2100
    @noelcarter2100 Рік тому +15

    What hit me the most is when you said “ maybe your procrastination is your intuition telling you, you didn’t want to do it in the first place.” I totally agree. As I’m decluttering and simplifying my life. I’ve come to realize that I’m not a workout type of gal. But, I rather take walks with my kids and go to the park ❤

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Noel ❤️

    • @noelcarter2100
      @noelcarter2100 Рік тому

      @@MadisunGray thank you, for being so honest and open . I plan to get your class soon ♥️

    • @HerCupOfSIMPLE
      @HerCupOfSIMPLE Рік тому +1

      I went through the same conflict!😅🤗

    • @HerWanderlust
      @HerWanderlust 2 місяці тому

      I am similar. I just do not enjoy structured workouts. What I love is dancing, hiking, stretching …just enjoying all my body can do without goals or structure

  • @daridasha
    @daridasha Рік тому +3

    This made me cry. You made me realise that things are okay and I'm okay. Thank you, truly ❤️

  • @san1695
    @san1695 Рік тому +6

    I was just let go from my office job and while everyone's freaking out about it. I actually felt so relieved...from the moment they told me they had to let me go...I felt such relief. Every morning I'd rush to get my baby ready for the sitter or drive him to my moms...rush to work and still get there late which meant I'd be home late...I felt less motivated at work every day. To the point where I honestly started doing my job terribly. I can't say I'm proud of it...but every day I'd get there and leave thinking ...is this what I'm doing with my life? It paid so well but I was so unfulfilled. There were so many other things I'd rather do but people tell me not to because it doesn't pay well. It sucks ...now I feel like I can do whatever I want but everyone's telling me to go for the same type of job or whatever will pay the most. I'm scared of getting trapped again. Anyway...this video was really inspiring.

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому +1

      I’m so glad it resonated ❤️

  • @elevationview673
    @elevationview673 Рік тому +1

    This is so true. Societal pressures to have this and that is just not healthy. Your life is so much healthier 😌

  • @MinimalMTMama
    @MinimalMTMama Рік тому +6

    Its cold, snowing, sad & grey here in Montana. Madisun, YOU are the SUN when there isnt any in sight..
    Your words consume the soul, inspire the heart and soothe the mind. Thank you for your videos, they're quite therapeutic and keep me hopeful. 💜

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому +2

      Wow this is so sweet. Thank you!❤️

  • @jIlLiAnganz
    @jIlLiAnganz Рік тому +1

    THIS is my FAVORITE style/format video of yours. I love being able to see the beauty in your everyday with the little notes, plus the deep conversation and nice music

  • @kevinrainey5181
    @kevinrainey5181 Рік тому +1

    (Posting from husbands account) - your videos are medicine. Thank you!! This is exactly who I want to be as a mom. So good to counteract today’s social media messages for moms with your content.

  • @lizzettebonfanteg6639
    @lizzettebonfanteg6639 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for re-affirming that although this goal of mine is taking its time, it doesn’t mean is not happening! ❤

  • @inspired9239
    @inspired9239 Рік тому +4

    First and foremost, know your why. Why do I want to...? Go deep. With each answer, apply that same question with your last answer. By going deep, you want to ask that same question until you've struck an emotional chord. For example, I want to own my own home this year. Why? Because I don't want to rent, I want to be a homeowner. Why? So I can have a garage and a private back yard. Why? So I can protect my car and have a garden to grow fruit and veggies. Why? ~~ You get the point. You want to go deep until you've touched or triggered an emotional cord. Because in our journey to reach a goal, we'll run into difficulties that can take their toll. It's knowing our why that will keep us inspired to go that extra mile and stay on track until we've reached our goal. The more senses involved in reaching our goal, the more committed we can be to reach that goal. As long as we understand our why, the how will take care of itself. Best of luck to everyone in 2023.👍🙏

  • @karenborden6032
    @karenborden6032 Рік тому

    luv when you said: "Just cuz it's taking time doesn't mean it's not happening" That one is going in my journal for sure. I need these kinds of affirmations to make me say Whoa! I tend to get caught up in the day to day of running my own biz and having a busy schedule. Change is hard I find and esp as I get older (64) but I'm ever evolving and always looking forward to little ways to feel grace and gratitude in this life. Thnx Mady

  • @OurMessyHouse
    @OurMessyHouse Рік тому +8

    ❤ Simple living and Minimalism have been a massive game changer in our home. I didn’t find you until a few weeks ago. Your videos are a piece of art work. Keep spreading the message. ❤

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому +1

      This is so sweet thank you ❤️

  • @jennaalexis89
    @jennaalexis89 Рік тому +5

    Been binging your videos lately and I'm so obsessed. I find now I can't even watch other UA-camrs because the videos I used to watch were all about materialistic things. When I watch your videos I leave feeling so inspired. Can you do a video all about your gardening experience? Growing things from seed, composting etc. My veg garden is thriving atm but I am such a novice when it comes to composting and I want to do better at that

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому +2

      Maybe next week 😉

    • @carlashreeve445
      @carlashreeve445 Рік тому

      Yes! The materialistic content is so overwhelming! Would love to see more about gardening!

    • @jessicaladd85
      @jessicaladd85 Рік тому

      I can't watch many youtubers anymore because of the fast transitions and cuts. Messes with my eyes. This slower pace video is so comforting

  • @HerCupOfSIMPLE
    @HerCupOfSIMPLE Рік тому +4

    I was going through your Beautiful website last night when I couldn't sleep!💝

  • @yn6591
    @yn6591 Рік тому +2

    Finally someone talking about goals, procrastination and comparison the right way, the way I feel it ❤️

  • @katiespencer8540
    @katiespencer8540 Рік тому +3

    Madison! I’m so grateful for you. You have given me confirmation today to slow down. It’s true when I think about my goals I think is it for me or someone else. I’m 36 years old… I may only have 40 years to go… how do I want to spend this one precious life?!

  • @katiecollum9135
    @katiecollum9135 Рік тому +3

    I just happened upon one of your videos yesterday, and not only did I fall in love with you instantly, but I also fell asleep. Lol your 67 things to get rid of video was so amazing. Eye opening, and realistic. I watched it, and napped to your sweet voice, and woke up feeling energetic, and ready to take on my day. My boyfriend was so happy to see me going through things, and getting rid of them as neded. I'm thankful for your helpful, and relaxing information. One of my new favorites for sure.

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому +2

      So glad you are here Katie ❤️

  • @faizabasheerpv627
    @faizabasheerpv627 Рік тому +2

    Oh my god, I literally crying.. the last few things you said, just left like you are saying that to me… your just amazing.. ❤

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому

      I’m so glad it resonated with you ❤️

  • @lovelifementoring5399
    @lovelifementoring5399 Рік тому +3

    Your delivery is so unique, really hits my heart every time 💛

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому

      Thank you so much. That’s so sweet

  • @martinasoich8604
    @martinasoich8604 Рік тому +1

    Every time I watch your videos I get so emotional. Not in a bad was at all, but they make me feel relaxed.

  • @MsYoungteacher
    @MsYoungteacher Рік тому +1

    Wow, this really touched me! I think I'll watch it again a few more times... 😊

  • @paulathefairy676
    @paulathefairy676 Рік тому +1

    Another awesome message Madi, thanks so much for your care, insight and wisdom 🌼

  • @pragyashree878
    @pragyashree878 Рік тому

    All the colours in the pallet .. anything u want..it just kills creativity 👍....wow

  • @steftastic2645
    @steftastic2645 Рік тому +1

    You sound like a calmer Kat Dennings and I absolutely love that.

  • @cassieAre
    @cassieAre Рік тому +5

    Thank you for your videos. It has really started to help me realize what’s actually important in life. You motivate me and I thank you. ❤

  • @amandamorris4033
    @amandamorris4033 Рік тому +3

    Thank you, Madi! Also, do you have a recipe for the mushroom broth? It looks amazing!

  • @achalalokugamage
    @achalalokugamage Рік тому +1

    I have been needing this for the past 3 months! ❤

  • @bridgetg2661
    @bridgetg2661 Рік тому

    I l❤ve rewatching your videos! Always something to get from them - thank you for sharing!
    ❤ from 🇦🇺 Aus xx

  • @anitabeaudoin5624
    @anitabeaudoin5624 Рік тому +1

    Thanks for another wonderful video and great reminders! 😃

  • @LifeasBekah
    @LifeasBekah Рік тому +1

    Thank you for my weekly reminder. It’s been a rough couple of weeks on and off kiddos getting sick, mama x 4 so things are always busy if it’s even at the house. Thank you for reminding me to make and find joy for myself and for my family :)

  • @robinowens9635
    @robinowens9635 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video. It's so beautiful, and something I really needed to hear. ♥️

  • @kerrifarina8096
    @kerrifarina8096 Рік тому

    Your videos are changing my life, thank you thank you thank you. Such wisdom ❤❤❤

  • @ellielizhavenofbless945
    @ellielizhavenofbless945 Рік тому +1

    I love everything about this video. Especially your dog, sitting like a human in the garden watching you compost. 🤣☺️❤️

  • @ericarogerslee7169
    @ericarogerslee7169 Рік тому

    Man, I really needed this. I have never heard this concept from this perspective. Thank you.

  • @vanessagrant4042
    @vanessagrant4042 Рік тому

    So healing ❤

  • @christinathorsen4274
    @christinathorsen4274 Рік тому +1

    Girl.. this spoke to me deeply. Thank you thank you...from my heart and soul ❤

  • @hannahbentson9374
    @hannahbentson9374 Рік тому +1

    You truly bring such a peace to my heart. Thank you for sharing your life and experiences with us! 💕

  • @sarahchesser6
    @sarahchesser6 Рік тому +1

    Your videos are such a light🤍 thanks so much for what you’re doing!

  • @lauraskeet9302
    @lauraskeet9302 Рік тому +1

    Watching this compared to some of your older videos and the quality is amazing! You've gotten so good at making these amazing high quality videos that are great content too. I love this format, and it's just like a breath of fresh air watching them (always have been, but they just feel so much calmer and reflect your message even more now)

  • @Dana-mb1hd
    @Dana-mb1hd Рік тому +2

    Your videos are so comforting and encouraging thank you so much💖🙏

  • @deniselamy-grosteffon2224
    @deniselamy-grosteffon2224 Рік тому +1

    Just Beautiful! I love this!

  • @laurarahelbailey
    @laurarahelbailey Рік тому

    Love this, Madisun! Totally agree with romanticizing your life. It makes life sooooo much more lovely!

  • @marleenc8668
    @marleenc8668 Рік тому +1

    Love your videos and the sound of your voice is enough for me to relax ☺️

  • @TheMennomilist
    @TheMennomilist Рік тому +1

    Beautifully said and beautiful video.

  • @dawnwhite6071
    @dawnwhite6071 Рік тому

    You are such a breath of fresh air, Madisun. God bless you, friend 🙏🏻❤️

  • @familyadventuretv978
    @familyadventuretv978 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing this. This is advice I needed today.

  • @ccherio83
    @ccherio83 Рік тому +1

    ❤ really needed to hear this!

  • @moniquerodriguez8110
    @moniquerodriguez8110 Рік тому +1

    Your voice is smoothing
    , exactly what I need to hear today
    ♥️

  • @ashleyirizarry-diaz6415
    @ashleyirizarry-diaz6415 Рік тому +3

    Looooove looove loooove this. Thank you. If taking video request I would love to see what your go to simple pkay activities are for you kids that you do on the daily or weekly please

  • @Sophie-pi4ov
    @Sophie-pi4ov Рік тому

    Thank you for this! ❤️

  • @WoollyChats
    @WoollyChats Місяць тому

    I just found your channel , thank you for making videos.

  • @HeyItsDom7
    @HeyItsDom7 Рік тому +1

    I’d love to see more videos about your gardening. 😄

  • @eleland
    @eleland Рік тому

    Amazing, thanks ❤

  • @HighLadyoftheSpiteCourt
    @HighLadyoftheSpiteCourt Рік тому

    This was all very deep and wonderful. Especially as someone with adhd, someone who has two little kids, who is totally burnt out and dropping out of school.
    BUT. The way your dog sits in the garden box while you compost had me rolling 😂😂😂

  • @aloven3259
    @aloven3259 Рік тому +1

    You’re a blessing! ❤

  • @justathought1971
    @justathought1971 Рік тому

    My little lite worker firefly thank you for bringing me to good tears this morning . Needed that . 🙏🏽 thank you dear we are indeed so proud of you 🌱

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому

      So glad it resonated with you ❤️

  • @heidihraba4575
    @heidihraba4575 Рік тому +1

    I love this. Thank you.

  • @spiicyliime22
    @spiicyliime22 Рік тому

    Love this ❤

  • @idamoller5994
    @idamoller5994 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for being you!

  • @courtneymoore5025
    @courtneymoore5025 Рік тому

    Your channel is one of the loveliest corners of the internet.

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому

      Aww this is so sweet thank you Courtney ❤️

  • @darrahochoa
    @darrahochoa Рік тому +1

    I love your videos!!

  • @williamclark1244
    @williamclark1244 Рік тому +1

    Perfect timing. I'm letting go of the past.

  • @hunterburgtorf
    @hunterburgtorf Рік тому +2

    I feel like you crawled through the screen straight into my brain hahah this is exactly what I've been working through and feeling lately. Like I've been taking on everyone else's goals and dreams and making them my own to the point where I don't even know what it is that I want. Planning a social media detox to really focus back in on me. This video inspired me for sure, thank you so much for creating it.

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому

      I’m so glad ❤️ thank you for watching

  • @nancyhirst9152
    @nancyhirst9152 Рік тому

    One thing I learned in life is never compare yourself to anyone….that’s where the trouble starts when you do that….as as an older teen and young adult my one teacher would always compare me to my sister…as I was on my journey through my hound adult years I was told again why can’t you be like so and so …my answer to both these people were because I me…and if you can’t accept that then you’re the one with a problem…GOD created me to be me not this one that one the neighbor down the street, my best friend in kindergarten, He created me…He created me perfect in all ways and this is how I Honor Him…by being me, my best self…and if I swerve off the path, all is forgiven..and a new day starts all over again…….this is how I respect the GoD who created me….just be the best YOU can be…

  • @staceypittsley7061
    @staceypittsley7061 Рік тому

    I’m always looking for a good tea , what is your favorite?☕️

  • @pinobluevogel6458
    @pinobluevogel6458 Рік тому

    Thanks for the video, I really need to think about this concept and how I can apply it. There are certain things that need to be done, including working for a living. While most people feel its normal to sacrifice a lot for your job, I always grew up not quite understanding that, but still quietly going along with it. Out of duty, responsibility, or simply because it needed to be done and nobody else could.
    I've been thinking about changing some things around, but am I selfish for wanting so? I don't think so.
    Something is not quite right with the world that we are required to spend so many hours of our lives toiling away doing things we do not care for. You seem to be beyond that point, doing all the work simply out of love for your family and making your life comfortable and beautiful all the while. I admire you for it, but I think my path there is a bit longer and winded.

  • @awendaylah
    @awendaylah Рік тому

    This all is so true. There is freedom on the other side. Life is meant to be lived intentionally, not as the world sees fit, but as The Lord has created us to live. Living by the world's standards will always leave you feeling off, like there is something or many things missing. One of the best things you can do for yourself is to sit out in nature, pray to God, process your thoughts and be still.

  • @mathildeseiferlein4538
    @mathildeseiferlein4538 Рік тому +1

    Hey Madisun,
    Where did you buy your straw hats from ? I always struggle with hats because of my hair but this seems quite cool and practical. Thanks!

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому

      Hawaii Farmers Market 👩🏼‍🌾

  • @sallgal
    @sallgal Рік тому

    Immune Boosting Shitake Broth?! That looks amazing.

  • @gingerdillard1664
    @gingerdillard1664 Рік тому +1

    I used the link to your Amazon storefront and couldn’t find what you applied in your hair in this video. I want to change what I’m currently using. Would you mind please sharing a link if you recommend it for keeping hair healthy and non frizzy but not oily. Thank you for your video- they always bless my soul and nourish my heart.

  • @rovewild554
    @rovewild554 Рік тому +1

    Do you have any upcoming (or current) discount codes for the Wholehearted course?!! I want to get it, but I’d love to get a discount code to make it more affordable for me! 🤗

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому +1

      Sorry no. The discount was only for the launch week. Hope to see you in there soon!

  • @melissalengyel5868
    @melissalengyel5868 Рік тому +2

    I feel lost. I feel like an empty shell of a human. Started a new job and don't like it. Prices of everything going up affecting me...lonely...sad...don't know how to get out of this cycle.

    • @MadisunGray
      @MadisunGray  Рік тому

      When I feel like this, I know it’s time for some therapy. I love using BetterHelp

  • @s.sflower
    @s.sflower Рік тому +1

    🥰

  • @janyreboux8701
    @janyreboux8701 Рік тому

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @fleurpeffer5212
    @fleurpeffer5212 3 місяці тому

    3:00

  • @Sassygrannyvlogs
    @Sassygrannyvlogs Рік тому

    🤎

  • @sabinaguliyeva2286
    @sabinaguliyeva2286 Рік тому

    Just because it‘s taking time doesn’t mean it’s not happening 🥲♥️

  • @jamiecorisis6122
    @jamiecorisis6122 Рік тому +1