Men's Rights: Defending Against False Domestic Violence Allegations

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  • Опубліковано 17 жов 2024
  • In this video, Attorney Chris Kaczmarek describes how men can defend against false allegations of domestic violence.
    Defending yourself includes:
    Hire an experienced attorney
    Identify character witness
    Identify motivation
    Can you file your own claim? Make sure to file first
    For more than 30 years, Paré & Associates, LLC (formerly the Law Office of Alice Paré) has helped clients in Germantown, Montgomery County, and throughout the State of Maryland in family law, bankruptcy, criminal, and trust & estate matters.
    Paré & Associates, LLC (formerly the Law Office of Alice Paré)
    www.alicelaw.com
    301-962-2492 Office
    For more than 30 years, Paré & Associates, LLC (formerly the Law Office of Alice Paré) have helped clients in Germantown, Silver Spring, and throughout the State of Maryland in family law, estate planning, bankruptcy, criminal, and trust & estate matters.
    Paré & Associates, LLC (formerly the Law Office of Alice Paré)
    www.alicelaw.com
    301-515-1190 Office
    Office Locations:
    20300 Seneca Meadows Pkwy, Suite 210
    Germantown, MD 20876
    19737 Executive Park Cir
    Germantown, MD 20874
    1100 Wayne Avenue, Suite 825
    Silver Spring, MD 20910

КОМЕНТАРІ • 63

  • @FatherX2022
    @FatherX2022 10 місяців тому +36

    If the courts make a presumption that a woman must be the victim and must be telling the truth...and they don't have that same presumption for men...isn't that gender discrimination and isn't that clearly unconstitutional according to the equal rights amendment? Shouldn't lawyers be suing judges on behalf of their clients for civil rights violations every single day?

    • @peterculver233
      @peterculver233 4 місяці тому +4

      That’s exactly my fault especially now in the time of LGBTQ and all these other groups where people look all different ways and we’re not supposed to judge anyone by their looks. I walked into the court wearing a clean Calvin Klein suit. I don’t have one tattoo. The judge is first words to me were we are off to a bad start. You already look scary. I have all my teeth no missing extremities. Nothing weird about my face came in smelling fresh in a nice suit and was given that presumption right from the start and I was the person who called the police, but I got punished cause she beat me to an order. Mind you she came to the small gym I go to two months after I left her and alleged that I was bothering her routine but she never goes to my gym and it is a private gym yet they claimed that it’s a public place and anyone can be there. That’s not actually true unless you have a membership.

    • @terellkid1
      @terellkid1 3 місяці тому +6

      Ok and who makes the judgments on those cases. Other courts that also favor women. We don't really have good checks and balances when it comes to the courtroom, judges can do whatever they want and most of them are incentivized meaning they getting bonuses for charging men with crimes, a cut of the money when putting men on child support even if its for a child that's not theirs, etc.

    • @ArchmageMarlock
      @ArchmageMarlock 29 днів тому

      Discrimination in various forms has never been fully banned. Explain this to uneducated people is always a nightmare. Understanding the law goes beyond simply reading the words on the page, which is why law school is so crucial. Often, people who haven't gone through this process, like @terellkid suggesting that "judges can do whatever they want," don’t fully grasp the statutes, regulations, and case laws that govern judicial authority. He likely isn’t aware of Republican efforts to empower judges or Democrat efforts to impose rules like ethics codes on them. Here, I’m just saying law school involves well over three thousand pages of reading, followed by life-breaking tests. As a lawyer, I’ve had to get used to the fact that everyone thinks they’re a lawyer and knows everything. Lovely, uneducated humans, but lovely!
      People believe what they want until they realize they aren’t actually lawyers. Love the Pro se, but O MY GOD! There’s so much history and complexity behind the law, all written by some of the brightest in society. When someone offers a groundbreaking opinion without this understanding, it’s often just them feeling themselves. So before making it personal, try to approach the court system with love and an open mind-it’s not all about you.

  • @Anonymous-yn2ny
    @Anonymous-yn2ny 7 місяців тому +4

    Zero feelings. Zero commitment. ZERO cohabitation. 100% honesty upfront:
    "Casual & recreational"

    • @EastbayRoyalty
      @EastbayRoyalty 5 місяців тому

      I’m I’m gonna gonna get some of my friends for lunch

    • @treesart6914
      @treesart6914 4 місяці тому

      That'd be great because I would know to avoid you, so we'd both be happy.

    • @gettingschooled3094
      @gettingschooled3094 6 днів тому

      Yes the man is right. Protect yourself when dating as a man.

  • @gettingschooled3094
    @gettingschooled3094 6 днів тому

    Spitting facts. Yes, men get a raw deal when it comes to public perception.

  • @caterinadelgalles8783
    @caterinadelgalles8783 9 місяців тому +5

    Bree Marie Chavez tried to accuse her hubby, who in fact, was the victim.
    Myself, a woman, did NOT stand by her and I am exposing her now. I am going down for it, as she has z Simp Army, but I stand up against this bs.

  • @4u2h8on
    @4u2h8on 2 місяці тому +7

    What you saying is true I seen first hand how the court system works regards to allegations of domestic violence You're always guilty until proven innocent remember that. Record everything just in case doesn't matter if You start seeing red flags of a woman trying to use the system or threatens to Make false claims document everything through audio recordings app that are dated and timed keep your mouth shut. Don't play her game Don't call the cops Don't give any information to the cops if the case gets that serious could have it all the recordings just in case you can give that to your lawyer cuz no prosecutors going to put an alleged victim on the stand when there's audio recordings of them being a totally different person on several different occasions be careful my guys some of these women out here versus straight psychos in disguise trying to put innocent men in prison. Even if proven innocent the allegations the alleged victim just goes on with their day nothing happens prosecutors don't charge alleged victim for false reports even when proven the system is so broken there is no justice it's all a money-making game!

    • @rhyscox3250
      @rhyscox3250 Місяць тому

      A man is guilty until proven innocent and a woman is innocent until proven guilty

  • @gking1767
    @gking1767 2 місяці тому +7

    Why is she not in jail for assault????
    He has video proof that she hit him first.

  • @Diana1980-mu8go
    @Diana1980-mu8go 2 місяці тому +2

    Happened to my fiance in Wisconsin. I even gave the courts factual evidence and they basically told me to shut up. Now he is in prison.

    • @vegasskidd7081
      @vegasskidd7081 2 місяці тому

      Your so cruel

    • @Priyansh-s1p
      @Priyansh-s1p Місяць тому

      ​@@vegasskidd7081she is saying her fiance is fasely accused by other person not her. Now he is in prison

  • @buildmotosykletist1987
    @buildmotosykletist1987 Місяць тому

    My advice would be to have a journal with times, locations, people, etc recorded in detail. It's difficult at first but will quickly become an enjoyable habit. It also exposes false allegations very quickly.
    A bloke I know found his invaluable but still the courts allowed his wife to sell his house and give the funds to her boyfriend. In a twist of fate his children recovered some of the money and returned it to him.

  • @THEINFAMOUSJLC
    @THEINFAMOUSJLC Місяць тому +3

    I’m being accused by a woman .. god knows what.. I’m scared for my life .. pls help .

    • @Shwondo541
      @Shwondo541 Місяць тому +2

      Brother ... I just went through the same thing... You are not alone. You may be frightened and scared.... I was ... I lost 20 lbs in 3 months.... Do you have an attorney? Do you have any evidence contradicting her allegations... I felt alone through the whole process. Trust me you are not alone. I wish you the best, and feel free to reach out. There needs to be a men's advocacy group for falsely accused men. I know it sounds cliche, but you have to stay strong. I know I got sick and tired of hearing that. But it really is the only thing you have control of.

  • @myworkout2502
    @myworkout2502 7 місяців тому +4

    I’m being charged of domestic violence after I called the police to help me from her as she said she will empty the clip in my chest after hitting me scratching me multiple times.

    • @Shwondo541
      @Shwondo541 Місяць тому +1

      That is awful... I'm sorry.... I was falsely accused of sexual assault and two day before going to court she dismissed her allegations... Why are women so terrible? Why would you weaponize the court system like that. It's one of the most scummiest things someone could do...
      Sorry, not to make this all about me. I learned that a woman can file a report and request a restraining order and it goes into effect immediately. And then it's upon me to prove it non factual in court...
      How is that fair?
      For 3 months of my life, there was an active restraining order on me. If women want equality. There's only one place they can actually get it, and that's in the court system. And they weaponize it. And it's absolutely terrible.

  • @zagood6775
    @zagood6775 23 дні тому

    How can I acquire your legal Council?

  • @BluntTrauma369
    @BluntTrauma369 3 місяці тому +4

    So I was painted a DV Perpetrator by my lifelong abuser / mother. The situation came up when I confronted her with a few questions regarding sexual abuse, physical abuse along with straight up bullying and neglect from childhood til current day. Before 2024 I thought she was just a terrible mother / not a great person; now I'm convinced she is intentionally set out to destroy my life while painting herself the "poor single mother who tried her hardest to help" -> she left me at my worst, and has called in crisis assessment teams when realising I was ready to talk to police (but doing alright mentally) its so fked up.

    • @TonisScene
      @TonisScene 11 днів тому

      What happened after?

    • @BluntTrauma369
      @BluntTrauma369 День тому

      @@TonisScene Charges dismissed; we don't talk - she refuses to address it but I saw the BWC footage and pray no-one ever deals with that situation.
      Got to spend several months seeing headlines + biased af news articles about how 7/10 DV cases are male on female and our state needs to go harder on the men. They opened a "Ministry of Mens Behaviour" no joke lol..
      Then had a moment of realisation - I reported it directly and indirectly so many times and got laughed off or ignored.
      Same happened when my older brother had a similar situation w his GF attacking him in public..
      The rates are skewed because even when men report, it never goes anywhere.
      Oh and I think police are rats. Pray they never need me as a key witness cause as far as they know I'm "dumb deaf and blind" now.
      The interrogation tapes are absolute gold. Just me sitting there repeating the truth.. telling them to speak to her for 5+ mins cause she can't maintain a straight story. At the end I was calling the guy Detective Donut and telling them "less cowboy, more investigations" lol

  • @thegoldenland
    @thegoldenland 10 місяців тому +6

    There should be no such domestic violence law, as it is prone to abuse, and innocent individuals may be wrongfully accused and seriously harmed.

    • @ArchmageMarlock
      @ArchmageMarlock 29 днів тому

      No - it’s not all about you. Also, Thank you coming to America. We hope you enjoy your time!

    • @thegoldenland
      @thegoldenland 27 днів тому

      @@ArchmageMarlock lol you are smart. I corrected my English. Actually, I don't fully enjoy living here. Too many Demoncraps. Too many lawsuits. Too many crook attorneys and judges.What's American dream? You have to be constantly worried.

    • @thegoldenland
      @thegoldenland 27 днів тому

      @@ArchmageMarlock in California, if someone call police and accuse you of domestic violence, you'll be booked in jail. That's their protocol. You have to post bond to get out. Stupid America.

    • @ArchmageMarlock
      @ArchmageMarlock 26 днів тому

      @@thegoldenland "Stupid America." You may have shown your own, ummm, education level. :(
      DV is controlled by State Law. All states can set different rules. This is not lawyerly of me, but I argue anything going down in Texas, California, Florida, Utah, Alabama, or Ohio is bound to be ridiculous. If you live in these states you get what you get! If you want good laws go to a state with laws you like.
      America has a beautiful system. A shining Republic. Most people, however and around the world, are dumb.

  • @barryfaulkner7032
    @barryfaulkner7032 Місяць тому +1

    Keep all DV matters in the state court. Make a no admission consent to the state court and free up money to fight for custody of your kids. Keep a diary from the very beginning of your children’s birth.

  • @brandonledford7685
    @brandonledford7685 Місяць тому

    I filed for a protective order the judge granted me sole custody of our daughter because it happened in front of her. The mother took off with her then filed a protective order a week before our court and admitted in the court room that she refused to follow court orders and the courts through out mine and granted hers for 2 yrs with sole custody and makes me do supervised visits

  • @650dch
    @650dch Місяць тому

    My sons mother just jumped on my car and punched the back window and front driver window with our child in it at the doctors office, she then called the police and stated that I tried to run her over I wasn’t there to give a statement. I was advised to get a PO due to numerous times of her filing false allegations. Any help?

  • @harryhill8543
    @harryhill8543 4 місяці тому +1

    Its not just standard DV they make accusations about, last week I was accused by an unhinged neighbour because I didnt let her speak to my elderly mother as I didnt have time. Her response was to put in a false allegation I was beating up my own mother. Only yesterday I had adult protection at my door and of course they found no evidence of this. I have called in the police to make a claim about their lies. Its typical that women will try and destroy someones life because they go in the huff about something and think they can simply walk away.

  • @dianawhite2639
    @dianawhite2639 4 місяці тому

    What can be done if the judge is the one who said the man was being charged with domestic violence for striking her several times, even if the woman said he had never hit her.

  • @nathanmciver6496
    @nathanmciver6496 10 місяців тому +1

    See threw glasse's for sure!

  • @biancapierce639
    @biancapierce639 7 місяців тому +2

    There is no presumption in law to believe women! Men who are domestic abusers always deny or minimise their abuse, but they also reveal their arrogant demeanour in court. It's not hard for a judge to9 work out who is telling the truth.

    • @DenaHall-ub3ly
      @DenaHall-ub3ly 2 місяці тому

      Not unless the judge has a brain the size of a knat !!!

    • @malokk5773
      @malokk5773 Місяць тому +3

      There should be NO presumption to believe women, only evidence. False accusers should also be punished to the full extent of the law when found out.

    • @biancapierce639
      @biancapierce639 Місяць тому

      @@malokk5773 A women's testimoney is evidence! If she has a witness or corroborating evidence which supports her evidence then all the better. However, her testimoney alone is sufficient to convict an abuser.

    • @malokk5773
      @malokk5773 Місяць тому

      @@biancapierce639 Which is BS, effectively saying that a lair can say whatever she wants and get away with it.

    • @biancapierce639
      @biancapierce639 Місяць тому

      @@malokk5773 Alternatively, as is most often the case, the man lies and gets away with it.

  • @JohnDoe-bi4ho
    @JohnDoe-bi4ho 10 днів тому

    Don’t forget sexual harassment. And don’t forget fake rape allegations either it’s time women go to prison.

  • @Poppy-yx8js
    @Poppy-yx8js 7 місяців тому +1

    I am a real survivor of abuse and this is not normal to put into my account. And I’m female. Someone is cyber bullying me. A bunch of posts like this in my account!

    • @Poppy-yx8js
      @Poppy-yx8js 7 місяців тому +1

      And I did not accuse a husband! Random person! I really don’t want these in my account UA-cam!

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 7 місяців тому +2

    Sometimes women experience false allegations of domestic violence too.

    • @Shwondo541
      @Shwondo541 Місяць тому

      Stop reaching... This is not the venue for apologist simps like you

  • @THEINFAMOUSJLC
    @THEINFAMOUSJLC Місяць тому

    God man pls help me this woman lying on my name .. pls help .

  • @JohnDoe-bi4ho
    @JohnDoe-bi4ho 10 днів тому

    Don’t forget sexual harassment

  • @Aaron-r6u8q
    @Aaron-r6u8q 16 годин тому

    Biased kaws

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 7 місяців тому +1

    Sometimes women experience false allegations of domestic violence too. Why a man would want to take chilren away from their biological mother who gave birth to them while being the main caregiver of their biological children is hard for most ment to understand too..

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 7 місяців тому +1

    Sometimes women experience false allegations of domestic violence too.