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  • @charliemofficial
    @charliemofficial  5 місяців тому +227

    creds to Sam Ovens and his idea of the graph for inspiring this video

    • @adiblazek9930
      @adiblazek9930 5 місяців тому +1

      Charlie, thank you.

    • @user-jy2df1lc6x
      @user-jy2df1lc6x 5 місяців тому +4

      lol when i watched this last night i was like did sam say this too or have i watched this video before? Great video

    • @DestinedForGreatness24
      @DestinedForGreatness24 5 місяців тому

      Hello Charlie. Your authenticity is preserved which is reflected through your videos. You are now in a position that you don't have anything to ask more from the divinity or whatever you call the higher power.I appreciate your way of sharing your life experience.
      I want to ask you for a favour as a human. I am from India and through my childhood I have experienced what is poverty. The salary from job is not going to fully fill the stomachs of my family members . The only resource I have is internet and I keep learning from it. I cannot afford books because so I find free podcasts, audiobooks and ebooks and make my notes in pen and paper. The pain I endure everyday is so much. Can you make your next video how a person can flip their destiny with little or zero resources. My path became so dark that I am asking you to show a way out.
      This is a request from a human to a human. I don't know if this message would reach to you but this is the only way for me to connect to you.
      I apologize for this long message.

    • @Crisis_DangerousOpportunity
      @Crisis_DangerousOpportunity 5 місяців тому +14

      "if you want to build the ceiling, you have to bring the floor with you"
      based as fuck

    • @samreenfatima2551
      @samreenfatima2551 5 місяців тому +3

      Thank you Charlie, I started crying I have so much trauma to deal with(generational trauma included) just so much. and I was always lost on how to deal with. after watching your video I have an edge of the rope. Thank you so much. Best video on youtube in years. Much love keep prospering❤

  • @nurhussain99
    @nurhussain99 5 місяців тому +343

    The only long format videos I wait to watch

  • @DarthBoberEXMinMaxMunchking
    @DarthBoberEXMinMaxMunchking 4 місяці тому +124

    I'm 33. I've been bullied and had traumatic family experiences. I wish somebody explained this to me 15 years ago. Thanks, you've planted a seed in me, I'm gonna make it grow.

    • @christianayerst5919
      @christianayerst5919 4 місяці тому +12

      Omg thank you for saying that your 33 because I though I was too old to listen to this, I'm 33 btw

    • @goatpepperherbaltea7895
      @goatpepperherbaltea7895 4 місяці тому

      Doubt😂

    • @framclean7910
      @framclean7910 4 місяці тому

      i’m 39@@christianayerst5919

    • @vurrveld8728
      @vurrveld8728 4 місяці тому +5

      Also 33. Bullied. Family trauma. Hope I can get out of this hell.

    • @planlosubertroffen2282
      @planlosubertroffen2282 4 місяці тому +6

      36 but doesnt matter when you starting.
      i learned Guitar 3 Years ago and playing since.
      Most People are astounded by it.
      Just Focus

  • @Bray2cool1
    @Bray2cool1 5 місяців тому +359

    No flashy editing.
    He has the credibility
    Charlie Morgan is my favorite right now.
    Good work Charlie

    • @garry197
      @garry197 5 місяців тому +8

      Just missing the part where he gives credits to Sam ovens😂😂

    • @CheechG17
      @CheechG17 5 місяців тому +11

      @@garry197 Literally does that in the video. LOL. Everyone knows Sam Ovens is the goat anyway.

    • @dineshm75
      @dineshm75 5 місяців тому

      Pain. What does that feel like. I get that. But how it actually feel like. I have my blood pressure raising and heart thumping. Is this how the pain he talk about should I always have. Kindly can you say me something about this. ( because I misunderstood something like if I am always under this pain. I might have medical issues. What exactly or how should the pain be.) Kindly reply😊

    • @lielgolkin7667
      @lielgolkin7667 4 місяці тому

      Thank you for not making a well filmed, edited video. Thank you for bringing your true self, this is what the world is needing. I am just starting but I think you will change my life for real.❤

  • @ardakbolat5994
    @ardakbolat5994 5 місяців тому +115

    I just can’t find words to describe how useful this video is
    Thank you Charlie
    Thank you so much
    Thank you
    I’m 18 and I’m from Kazakhstan. I faced a lot of troubles when I was eleven. My father left me and all my family members from my father’s side (the closest people) stopped talking to me. I had troubles at school too. I just didn’t know what is happening to me. But you perfectly described every aspect of my life. I really can’t find word to show how thankful I am and what relief I feel after understanding that I am not alone

    • @liamturner7212
      @liamturner7212 4 місяці тому +5

      Keep your head up, king 🤴

    • @RRRRRR-im2sv
      @RRRRRR-im2sv 4 місяці тому +3

      Hey kazakh bro, get yourself 'Cant Hurt Me' by David Goggins. His story will inspire you Im sure since he had pretty toxic childhood as well

    • @joannthomases9304
      @joannthomases9304 4 місяці тому +2

      Believe me a million of us have this family turning backs for nothing but greed, i suppose.. it's horrible. Id give everything for no one coming back to me....💔 I had the best God cared sooo much to give. He never left, i feel..still isolated, but have hope. I miss my Mom and Dad. Still upset my sisted slandered an dumped me after dragging me from a good life. She slandered and broke up all my closeness by slander and litterally lying, but i fell for it. She used what if's to get me to do for her needs and never considered how she destroyed all i was joyfully living and going with my daughter. I had nothing to back us, when i came for her...I was pushed into the rirst scenarios and had never left my daughter a minute. My sister dumped me and turned my daughter against me by saying it was her mother choosing this hardship for her.... My daughter believed her. She saw no other side as i stayed instead of going back home due to them turning her Dad against me, too. It was made to look as though it was..to all. As, i believed she would not do what was going on and it must be me, or all in my mind, knowing things were way too unimaginable to be what was really going on. We must see reality than keep hoping things are not what was really going on because i was nooooot a complainer, i got plenty. Some do plenty wrong to the easy going It's pretty rough to face.

  • @user-ne7xd5tp8u
    @user-ne7xd5tp8u 5 місяців тому +113

    We do not become the highest version of ourselves that we can imagine, we become the lowest version of ourselves we can accept.
    Damn this hit me hard.

    • @thomasbitsch5488
      @thomasbitsch5488 4 місяці тому +2

      "You will never be your highest dream. You will be the lowest version of yourself that you will tolerate"

  • @mohamedbishnie
    @mohamedbishnie 4 місяці тому +16

    🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
    00:00 🔄 *The speaker discusses the dual nature within oneself, oscillating between a positive, growth-oriented side and a destructive, negative side.*
    02:31 💡 *The video promises to provide insights on breaking the cycle of oscillation, offering a solution to achieve lasting success and personal development.*
    04:21 🏡 *The speaker shares personal success, living in Dubai with an 8-figure business, emphasizing the potential life-changing impact of the upcoming information.*
    06:11 📈 *Describes the concept of oscillation in behavior, representing a continuous cycle of building up to a peak of positivity, then breaking down into negativity.*
    13:46 🌡️ *Introduces the idea of an "emotional thermostat" that regulates one's behavior, preventing extreme highs or lows, aiming for an average state.*
    19:07 💰 *Discusses how personal financial patterns exhibit an oscillation between a perceived ceiling and a floor, emphasizing the importance of understanding and adjusting one's standards.*
    20:01 📈 *Life outcomes often depend on the average or midpoint, not just the highs and lows. Understandingyour average in various aspects of life is crucial for improvement.*
    23:15 📊 *Drawing an oscillation chart for different aspects of your life helps identify patterns and cycles. This can include finances, fitness, emotional states, and more.*
    25:58 💰 *Success and financial goals vary individually; what might be a significant achievement for one person could be a hygiene standard for another. Awareness of your own standards is essential.*
    29:42 🔄 *Life tends to follow stages: building, peaking, breaking down, and rebuilding. Recognizing these stages can help navigate challenges and understand personal cycles.*
    32:37 🧠 *Fixing behavioral patterns requires addressing the underlying psychology rather than just focusing on external behaviors. The mind shapes behaviors, and understanding the root cause is crucial for lasting change.*
    39:41 🔄 *Understanding the emotional cycle: Anger is the starting point, often directed at oneself, leading to destructive behavior.*
    43:25 🚀 *Emotions drive behavior: Anger transforms into drive, a positive emotion associated with determination, discipline, and motivation.*
    44:45 🏆 *Transformation to Pride: Drive peaks into Pride when positive actions yield results, creating a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.*
    45:37 ☕ *Pitfall of Comfort: Pride leads to Comfort, a state where one starts to relax, lose drive, and engage in undesired behaviors, creating a cycle.*
    47:40 🔄 *Gradual emotional transitions: Emotional states shift gradually, and each stage has a threshold leading to the next state.*
    49:45 ⚖️ *First principle of human behavior: The avoidance of pain is a fundamental motivator for human actions.*
    52:03 📈 *Pain levels and action: Different emotional states carry varying levels of pain, influencing the actions taken to alleviate or avoid that pain.*
    53:10 💡 *Constant progress through pain: The secret to consistent progress is embracing pain, maintaining a continuous upward emotional cycle.*
    56:23 🔄 *Flipping the floor and ceiling: To break the cycle, reframe your perception by feeling the pain associated with your lowest point even at your highest achievements.*
    59:48 🚫 *Entrepreneurial journey isn't about feeling good or being comfortable; it's a constant cycle of breaking through challenges.*
    01:01:20 🎯 *Achieving financial milestones may not bring lasting happiness; setting higher standards is crucial for progress.*
    01:02:55 😖 *Successful entrepreneurs don't always feel happy; pain is essential for progress, and deriving pleasure from discomfort is crucial.*
    01:05:02 📉 *Lower your acceptable standards to increase motivation; associate emotional pain with not reaching your goals.*
    01:07:41 📈 *To make progress, focus on raising your lowest standards rather than only aiming for higher goals.*
    01:10:12 🔍Self-sabotage *often stems from trauma; the speaker shares a personal experience of childhood bullying.*
    01:13:35 💔 *Negative behavior, like self-sabotage, may be rooted in a part of oneself that wants to prevent progress and growth.*
    01:16:55 🧠 *Understanding the psychological conditions that drive unique progress in entrepreneurship is crucial; it often stems from unconventional thinking.*
    01:18:03 🛡️ *Entrepreneurial pursuits can serve as a form of self-protection, rooted in past traumas; the business becomes a shield against fears.*
    01:18:31 🧠 *Trauma shapes your psychology: If you're pursuing an unconventional life or business, there's likely a unique experience or trauma that influenced your choices. Understanding this is crucial.*
    01:20:09 🤯 *Trauma burial: When faced with trauma, the mind often buries it deep into the psyche, preventing proper processing. This buried trauma can influence behavior without conscious awareness.*
    01:22:39 🏛️ *Unconscious trauma manifestation: Unprocessed trauma creates a part of the psyche living in the past. This unconscious part can influence self-sabotage, affecting progress and success.*
    01:27:22 🔄 *Unconscious influence: Until you address and make the unconscious conscious, it will govern your life.Unprocessed trauma can lead to self-sabotage and inconsistent behavior.*
    01:32:44 🤝 *Integration is the key: To overcome self-sabotage and inner conflicts, integration of different parts of your psyche is necessary. This involves recognizing, understanding, and aligning these psychological aspects.*
    01:34:24 💡 *Integration success: The process of integrating past trauma led to a significant positive shift, reflected in personal and business success. Seeking professional help and revisiting the past can aid in this integration process.*
    01:35:54 🧠 *Unconscious memories can affect your life without awareness; processing trauma is crucial for personal growth.*
    01:39:07 🤯 *Integrating trauma involves visualizing, processing, and embracing past experiences to free oneself from emotional burdens.*
    01:41:24 🚪 *Integration allows one to face and acknowledge unconscious parts, lifting the burden of past traumas and facilitating personal growth.*
    01:43:12 🧠 *The integration of unconscious aspects helps in overcoming limiting beliefs and negative behaviors that stem from unprocessed traumas.*
    01:45:32 📚 *Recommended books for understanding and starting the process of integrating unconscious aspects include works by Carl Jung.*
    01:49:34 🔄 *Self-sabotage stems from unconscious parts resisting progress; understanding and integrating these aspects is essential for personal and professional success.*
    01:51:37 📈 *Progress involves navigating oscillations between highs and lows while continually raising personal standards for sustained success.*
    01:53:53 📈 *Personal growth is reflected in transforming old goals into new standards, continually pushing oneself to higher levels of achievement.*
    01:54:33 🔄 *Embracing pain as a tool for growth, without self-harm, is a crucial aspect of the business and personal development journey.*
    01:54:47 🚫 *Celebrating too soon after reaching a goal can lead to complacency; maintaining discomfort and drive is essential for sustained progress.*
    01:55:42 🔄 *Awareness of emotional states, like anger, when approaching comfort, helps maintain motivation and prevent stagnation in personal and professional growth.*
    01:56:39 🧠 *Emotions serve as communication from different parts of the psyche; exploring and understanding emotions can lead to self-discovery and growth.*
    01:57:44 🎯 *Aligning all psychological parts with a goal reduces internal conflicts and facilitates smoother progress.*
    01:58:12 ⚔️ *Total War within oneself occurs when parts of the psyche are not aligned towards a common goal, leading to internal struggles and ups and downs.*
    01:58:54 🛣️ *Understanding and integrating the unconscious is the key to progress; self-improvement is ineffective without addressing the underlying psychological conflicts.*
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    • @rudihm04
      @rudihm04 3 місяці тому

      😘

    • @houreugh
      @houreugh Місяць тому

      Thanks for doing this.

  • @user-zc9sq2ln4c
    @user-zc9sq2ln4c 4 місяці тому +51

    I have never watched a video on UA-cam with as much value as this video man. I don't mean to be cringe but I cried. God help me because there's no going back from here. Thanks mate.

  • @kerimallami
    @kerimallami 5 місяців тому +82

    Charlie this has been life-changing. Went through Sam Oven's consulting accelerator 2 years ago, and understood this concept inside and out, but I've never realized that it's just a symptom. With explaining the trauma part you have probably saved 3-5+ years of my life. Thank you, man, I feel in debt to you. Keep on going.

    • @dineshm75
      @dineshm75 5 місяців тому +2

      Pain. What does that feel like. I get that. But how it actually feel like. I have my blood pressure raising and heart thumping. Is this how the pain he talk about should I always have. Kindly can you say me something about this. ( because I misunderstood something like if I am always under this pain. I might have medical issues. What exactly or how should the pain be.) Kindly reply😊

    • @LuisHernandez-ph6ji
      @LuisHernandez-ph6ji 5 місяців тому

      thats physical pain due to health conditions bro, not the same when you feel a resistance when you try to work towards your goal, thats a mental pain or suffering. @@dineshm75

    • @nattzz5260
      @nattzz5260 5 місяців тому +5

      @@dineshm75he talks about the pain more in a way that: If you let the current situation you are in keep being in the way it is. You should feel Disgusted and painful that you let this situation keep being as it is.

  • @Proteinfein
    @Proteinfein 5 місяців тому +29

    This is the best YT video I’ve ever watched, thanks Charlie.

    • @dineshm75
      @dineshm75 5 місяців тому

      Pain. What does that feel like. I get that. But how it actually feel like. I have my blood pressure raising and heart thumping. Is this how the pain he talk about should I always have. Kindly can you say me something about this. ( because I misunderstood something like if I am always under this pain. I might have medical issues. What exactly or how should the pain be.) Kindly reply😊

  • @d_perspective
    @d_perspective 5 місяців тому +30

    Good God Charlie,
    You are performing a surgical operation on a wound in which my favorite self help gurus have been putting bandaids on all these years.
    Thank you for not beating around the bush, thank you for this elaborate two-hour journey you took me on.
    I could not have predicted the ending of this masterpiece even an hour in, and somehow you kept me on the “edge of my seat” through it all.

    • @jusatesst
      @jusatesst 5 місяців тому

      Best description I've seen ever, will remember

  • @KloudNyx
    @KloudNyx 5 місяців тому +32

    Life changing… not going to lie I got emotional during the latter part of the video when you explained your childhood trauma, i’ve been bullied as a child as well, you brought up some old memories and I believe you given me the strength and tools to face them. Thank you so much!

  • @matiasserio2427
    @matiasserio2427 5 місяців тому +13

    The best video I've ever watched in my entire life. Hands down, nothing is ever topping this, you just solved 25 years of frustration. I always struggled with the same problems in my life and always wanted so badly to know why.
    I can clearly see it was hard for you to make. And I relate with your traumas a lot, so in some parts it was like listening to myself. The hole vid is amazing, can't believe this content is actually free.
    Thank you so so much, I wish you the best from the bottom of my heart

  • @pradeeprajvincent
    @pradeeprajvincent 5 місяців тому +38

    Charlie exactly describing what I’m going through right now

    • @Crackkit12
      @Crackkit12 5 місяців тому

      All are same 😮😢

    • @dineshm75
      @dineshm75 5 місяців тому

      Pain. What does that feel like. I get that. But how it actually feel like. I have my blood pressure raising and heart thumping. Is this how the pain he talk about should I always have. Kindly can you say me something about this. ( because I misunderstood something like if I am always under this pain. I might have medical issues. What exactly or how should the pain be.) Kindly reply😊

  • @aod6360
    @aod6360 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you so so so much. I can't even explain how instrumental this was. I have never watched a video with so much pure value and depth. This video deserves an award quite honestly. great work!

  • @remingtonclarkeofficial
    @remingtonclarkeofficial 5 місяців тому +19

    This is EXACTLY what I needed. If anyone has trauma you need to watch this. And if you don't have trauma, you need to watch this to understand those who do have trauma. And if you look at the world around you, 99% of the world has suffered trauma.

    • @Ankhar2332
      @Ankhar2332 4 місяці тому +2

      But... How does one understands that those who give you a trauma had trauma too?

    • @cyberneticbutterfly8506
      @cyberneticbutterfly8506 3 місяці тому

      @@Ankhar2332 Maybe its a matter of proportion and a matter of managment.
      E.g. we throw criminals in prison in spite of them may having trauma that lead to their crime because we need to *insulate* society from dangerous people and deter their actions.
      Similarly there might be people giving you trauma that have upstream reasons for why they are the way they are but you must still *insulate* yourself from the worst toxicity in your life even if they had their reasons.

  • @pierre_habibi
    @pierre_habibi 5 місяців тому +22

    I'm stuck at 1:12hour, and I can't stop even though is 24:00 :D Man It is second video I've watched, taken a lot of notes and you already provide me with 9999x more value than any of the 'gurus'.
    Keep up the good work...
    It is 100% worth you do this stuff. Thank you!

  • @yassiraykhlf5981
    @yassiraykhlf5981 5 місяців тому +26

    Your videos and mindset have truly helped me to stop being a lazy ass and start actually pursuing my goals. Thank you for being a genuine and helpful person who truly cares about his audience.

  • @deriisaac702
    @deriisaac702 5 місяців тому +1

    I’ve been burying my head in the sand for the last 5 years. I’m getting back to myself and looking to make up for lost time. I appreciate you taking the time to share this wisdom brother. He who feels it knows it aye. Respect

  • @sethatkins981
    @sethatkins981 4 місяці тому

    You did hit the nail on the head bro, there wasn't a single minute I missed on this vid. Thank you for being authentic and open. This is what I needed to hear to start another journey once again.

  • @mthsgrz
    @mthsgrz 4 місяці тому +6

    your channel is the best thing youtube ever put in my home page. this video feels like I opened a door in my life, and I can never get back trough that door again. this might really change my life. In anyway, this video already had a big impact on me, thank you, I'll be forever grateful

  • @daddyderechte2252
    @daddyderechte2252 5 місяців тому +10

    Charlie, you will probably never read this but if you do I want you to know that:
    You just saved my life.
    You literally made me cry when going into the trauma stuff, I know there are things deep down there and I start working on them to get this done.
    Thank you a million and give me 5 years and I will thank you in person in Dubai ;)

  • @StudioEquipmentReviews-tp7mv
    @StudioEquipmentReviews-tp7mv 5 місяців тому +1

    Charlie...Thank you so much for having the courage to share your stories in this video. I was bullied as well. This video has made my day, and I will be doing this exercise tonight to start healing my inner child. Blessings to you!

  • @AndrewBatory
    @AndrewBatory 3 місяці тому +2

    You absolutely hit the nail in the head about the trauma and self sabotaging - Excellent to see other business owners come to realization and SHARE it properly with others. Your videos are great hidden gems

  • @mentlydriven
    @mentlydriven 5 місяців тому +9

    loved how you broke down this complex psychological aspect of a human life, Thank you.

    • @dineshm75
      @dineshm75 5 місяців тому

      Pain. What does that feel like. I get that. But how it actually feel like. I have my blood pressure raising and heart thumping. Is this how the pain he talk about should I always have. Kindly can you say me something about this. ( because I misunderstood something like if I am always under this pain. I might have medical issues. What exactly or how should the pain be.) Kindly reply😊

  • @Array8
    @Array8 4 місяці тому +5

    This video is exactly what I needed. I have this demon that beats me down saying I'm worthless. That I'm undeserving. My parents divorced, I was bullied. It's exactly why I feel that way. You're right. If I could get through that bad self talk the other side of myself is unstoppable. Thanks bro. God bless.

    • @aguy-oh3tn
      @aguy-oh3tn 4 місяці тому

      did you do the integrating exercise?

  • @aaronwilson7798
    @aaronwilson7798 5 місяців тому +2

    This is it right here. This is the truth. I’ve been wrestling with the principles/ideas discussed in this video for sometime and when I realized Charlie was speaking about the same issues I’ve battled with (but didn’t really know how to fully describe) I knew I landed in a goldmine. Thanks Charlie, this a tremendously valuable video.

  • @DanielKasprzyk7
    @DanielKasprzyk7 5 місяців тому +1

    All I can say is thank you for this video, truly. You've just given me so many pieces of the puzzle that I was missing and now it's time to piece them all together as painful as that will be.

  • @aiyonpeoples
    @aiyonpeoples 4 місяці тому +6

    I’ve been addicted to self help videos for years but this channel is by far the best and I’ve only seen 2 videos from him. He has immense focus and the things he talks about is incredibly valuable. I can’t describe how much this has changed my life with one video.

    • @123kebabaffe
      @123kebabaffe 4 місяці тому +8

      Bro stop watching those vedeos. The videos can't change your life, only you can. You have enough knowledge already srsly.
      This comment literaly reads like a coke addict celebrating how good his new dealers stuff is.
      don't get me wrong the video is graet but still...

    • @aiyonpeoples
      @aiyonpeoples 4 місяці тому

      @@123kebabaffe shut the fuck up imma do what I want.

    • @erwina4738
      @erwina4738 4 місяці тому +1

      Yeah dude literally listen to the other guy who replied to you. Have you done anything different in the past 2 weeks? If not pick a business to start and JUST START.

    • @Ankhar2332
      @Ankhar2332 4 місяці тому

      @@erwina4738 there are actually really a lot of things one can do other than businesses.

  • @eirikkvalheim8627
    @eirikkvalheim8627 5 місяців тому +14

    Most valuable UA-camr atm

  • @raedsultan4478
    @raedsultan4478 4 місяці тому +1

    I have a lot of respect for you for opening up like that. It takes a looooot of courage to be vulnerable like that with hundreds of thousands and possibly millions of viewers who will see this.

  • @DestinyRerouted
    @DestinyRerouted 4 місяці тому

    This is one of the best, no bullshit channels on UA-cam. Thank you so much Charlie for the value you provide in your videos.

  • @simonviehl8386
    @simonviehl8386 5 місяців тому +14

    I must say... it is actually the best video I've ever seen on UA-cam. No joke. Very deep, very good video. I watched it from the beginning to the end. Charlie, thank you very much for giving us this free content with a lot of value. I hope all that you give to us in this video you get 10x back! Thank you!

  • @drivoz2384
    @drivoz2384 5 місяців тому +13

    Make a video on how to set good goals. How to break them down into monthly, weekly, daily goals. And how to hold yourself accountable. I have a problem of not knowing how to gradually overload my goals to hit my main yearly goal without burning myself out.

    • @alimaiss-ou6dr
      @alimaiss-ou6dr 5 місяців тому

      TRY TO DO THINGS STEP BY STEP IF YOU DO ALL AT Once you burnout

  • @user-pq7zd6tr2d
    @user-pq7zd6tr2d 5 місяців тому

    Charlie, you'll probably never see this, but this is the best video I've ever seen on youtube, ever. And I've been watching self improvement and biz content for 4 years.... THANK YOU.

  • @egec4174
    @egec4174 5 місяців тому +1

    So glad i found your channel don’t stop these videos

  • @braydengauthier
    @braydengauthier 5 місяців тому +14

    ”Pride goes before destruction, and haughtiness before a fall.“
    ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭16‬:‭18‬ ‭NLT‬‬

    • @dineshm75
      @dineshm75 5 місяців тому

      Pain. What does that feel like. I get that. But how it actually feel like. I have my blood pressure raising and heart thumping. Is this how the pain he talk about should I always have. Kindly can you say me something about this. ( because I misunderstood something like if I am always under this pain. I might have medical issues. What exactly or how should the pain be.) Kindly reply😊

    • @UnprofitableServant777
      @UnprofitableServant777 5 місяців тому +1

      The Bible said it better

    • @JustinSkelton-gj8yl
      @JustinSkelton-gj8yl 5 місяців тому

      Are you calling this brother prideful?

    • @JustinSkelton-gj8yl
      @JustinSkelton-gj8yl 5 місяців тому

      ​@@dineshm75start taking your shoes off and standing on the earth and doing breath work and drink more water

    • @JustinSkelton-gj8yl
      @JustinSkelton-gj8yl 5 місяців тому

      Sorry. I see now. He talks about pride later on. Okay. Sorry.

  • @gokulkavara3669
    @gokulkavara3669 5 місяців тому +6

    Was looking forward to your video today. Thank you mate, your videos(especially the long ones) really mean a lot to me.
    Respect.

  • @maurohuen
    @maurohuen 3 місяці тому

    i'm so proud of you man, you went through that much shit and still you grow to inspire and help other people. congrats

  • @Tipz011
    @Tipz011 4 місяці тому

    I actually tried what you discussed about sitting down and thinking back on your trauma, it felt really good. Thank you for having been that vulnerable in front of us

  • @isaac3252
    @isaac3252 5 місяців тому +7

    Thanks for taking the time to share this Charlie.

  • @amsyary1
    @amsyary1 5 місяців тому +3

    i really need this, i was also getting bullied and this could help me thanks man

  • @thebiggwigg
    @thebiggwigg 5 місяців тому

    It took me 2 days to finish this but it’s so eye opening. Thank you for being so vulnerable

  • @thaddeusswift
    @thaddeusswift 5 місяців тому +4

    I ever don't comment on youtube videos to be honest. But I felt like I needed to for this one.
    As young entrepreneur in his mid 20's I think this may have been one of the best videos I've watched to date. I think the amazing thing about youtube that I was chuckling about while watching this is that listening to you speak is so refreshing because I actually feel like I can relate to someone, which doesn't happen often.
    The most apparent thing from watching this video is that you actually care. I can tell this was hard for you to make but arguably this may be your most valuable videos. I clearly have a lot of learning to do about integration and I'm excited to make some progress on this because I think i've been holding myself back.
    Thank you Charlie

  • @hich2774
    @hich2774 5 місяців тому +12

    Hey charile, it'll be very good if you made a video about the thinking process and how to think properly and make decision without letting emotions affect that

  • @radkachopli2918
    @radkachopli2918 5 місяців тому +1

    Charlie.... man.... what a video! Thank you for being so humble, sharing your tears and trauma. Thank you for being so authentic. You are a real man doing just that, just a top G. Respect and lots of love. Thank you

  • @realAmtlich
    @realAmtlich 4 місяці тому +1

    This is the best video i´ve watched in years and exactely what i needed. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for sharing this Charlie!

  • @leandrofernandes7673
    @leandrofernandes7673 5 місяців тому +10

    When you were talking about your traumas you were literally explaining everything that also happened to me. I would fight with adults forcing me to do what they wanted, and was bullied by many. Now I understand why the idea of having a boss disgusts me so much. Thank you very much for this, the amount of value is absolutely gold. I will be making $1M a month as soon as possible, anything less than that is truly disgusting (lol). But really, my goal is to keep making more and more for the rest of my life because I enjoy the game.

  • @MrTHEJERRYFILMS
    @MrTHEJERRYFILMS 4 місяці тому +10

    Great system but don’t forget to be happy. Celebration is thankfulness, thankfulness is a secret to wealth. If you’re never happy Why then do it ? Do it while beeing happy just don’t settle. Thanks again for the knowledge shared in this video.

  • @Sx-xy2zi
    @Sx-xy2zi 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for opening up so much to teach us this Charlie. Been slowly working through it today while im recovering from illness and doing the graphs has been reflective and instructive.

  • @SelfMasteryWithWilliam
    @SelfMasteryWithWilliam 5 місяців тому

    Love this. It flipped a switch in my head, I got this feeling just instantly that this works. Thanks so much Charlie, this is life changing.

  • @luke8617
    @luke8617 5 місяців тому +15

    I cant put into words how valuable this is for me - i never thought about how what’s really holding me back is the trauma i went through as a kid and now i see exactly how it is manifesting today 😅

    • @dineshm75
      @dineshm75 5 місяців тому

      Pain. What does that feel like. I get that. But how it actually feel like. I have my blood pressure raising and heart thumping. Is this how the pain he talk about should I always have. Kindly can you say me something about this. ( because I misunderstood something like if I am always under this pain. I might have medical issues. What exactly or how should the pain be.) Kindly reply😊

  • @jjjjj77772
    @jjjjj77772 5 місяців тому +5

    Amazing to see you finally found non-clickbait thumbnails that really appreciate your content!
    Charlie, your content has changed my life. I am living my dream right now living in Asia and making $20K+ profit per month. Your content has given me enough food for thought to keep going.
    Thank you so much Charlie. You are the best. Hope to meet you in Dubai when possible.

    • @abelchandy
      @abelchandy 5 місяців тому

      what do you do to make money?

    • @jjjjj77772
      @jjjjj77772 5 місяців тому

      @@abelchandy Just do exactly what Charlie says and you'll come a long way.

    • @dineshm75
      @dineshm75 5 місяців тому

      Pain. What does that feel like. I get that. But how it actually feel like. I have my blood pressure raising and heart thumping. Is this how the pain he talk about should I always have. Kindly can you say me something about this. ( because I misunderstood something like if I am always under this pain. I might have medical issues. What exactly or how should the pain be.) Kindly reply😊

    • @CoachRiku
      @CoachRiku 4 місяці тому

      @@dineshm75start a business or pursue a goal, whenever something pulls you away from that like: you don’t want to reach out to potential customers or you don’t feel like going to the gym or you don’t want to approach that girl. The pain is just doing something that you don’t want to do and when that becomes comfortable, find something else you don’t want to do

  • @spiritualru2364
    @spiritualru2364 4 місяці тому

    Made it through the whole video and yes, this is LIFE CHANGING info. Thank the universe for stumbling across this channel. Thank you

  • @JonnelCayabyab
    @JonnelCayabyab 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for taking the time to make this video. I'm so grateful I took the time to watch it all, because you made such an authentic and profound message. Really interesting points, I'll definitely take time to explore my past, re-experience the trauma and embrace discomfort. Thank you Charlie.

  • @parthjethva
    @parthjethva 4 місяці тому +8

    The secret to constant progress is pain. Well said 👏🏻👏🏻

    • @RaZziaN1
      @RaZziaN1 4 місяці тому +1

      That's most bullshit thing i've ever read. Secret is realization you don't need pain anymore. But u were learnt wrong.

  • @RedimAmeti
    @RedimAmeti 5 місяців тому +3

    The fact that Amber is one of your favourite songs makes me appreciate this even more.
    Flume is a god.
    Shadow work works.
    Thanks for sharing this Charlie, this stuff is truly priceless.

  • @StephanSubero
    @StephanSubero 2 місяці тому

    This was powerful. I really appreicate you taking the time to artciluate this so gracefully. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your experience.

  •  4 місяці тому

    The amount of enthusiasm you have when you explain these things is crazy 😁 I found the missing piece in your videos, thanks man 💪🏻

  • @MarkCMoran
    @MarkCMoran 5 місяців тому +4

    Thanks for being vulnerable and sharing. Great stuff and super helpful. I appreciate your candor.

  • @kamileleroyaI
    @kamileleroyaI 5 місяців тому +4

    Thank you charlie. I was also bullied and started crying. Had to pause. at 1:40:41
    I'm watching this multiple times to figure this out.

    • @dineshm75
      @dineshm75 5 місяців тому

      Pain. What does that feel like. I get that. But how it actually feel like. I have my blood pressure raising and heart thumping. Is this how the pain he talk about should I always have. Kindly can you say me something about this. ( because I misunderstood something like if I am always under this pain. I might have medical issues. What exactly or how should the pain be.) Kindly reply😊

  • @drewsharps8179
    @drewsharps8179 4 місяці тому

    This video came through on my feed and to be honest I never heard of or seen this Gentleman, needless to say this video had me interested the whole way through and came resonate with all thw topics he talked about. Great work and you have another sub!

  • @MindBenderMav
    @MindBenderMav 5 місяців тому

    It’s fascinating! Why is no one else teaching about this? Thanks for bringing to light 💡

  • @SebastianFox1
    @SebastianFox1 5 місяців тому +3

    Woah. . . I did a bit of research in my mind as you said, Charlie and I think one of the reasons my younger self wanted to become successful is because
    When he was younger, at school, he used to cry a lot and developed a bad reputation and perhaps he wanted to change that and become the man that gets respect from everybody. . .
    Bro, that's insane. It's like a coridor lit up in my mind and I can see in that area. It's so clear now. And there are some more pain points that are more or less powerful. . .
    Amazing value, Charlie.

  • @npc7687
    @npc7687 5 місяців тому +4

    Those types of videos are top tier ❤

  • @Pitchlessmethod
    @Pitchlessmethod 5 місяців тому +2

    I have a lot of respect for you sharing this Charlie

  • @zacbrayy
    @zacbrayy 5 місяців тому +1

    What an amazing, value-packed piece of wisom. Thank for so much for this Charlie, and for sharing your vulnerabilities.

  • @ItzFisH_
    @ItzFisH_ 5 місяців тому +4

    This has to be your best video yet, don't know how your gonna out do this one bro😅

  • @markpelayo
    @markpelayo 5 місяців тому +6

    Every time Charlie uploads a video I'm so excited to watch it immediately.
    Charlie, can you please share your daily routine and how do you manage your energy? Like full 7 hrs of sleep or 4hrs in the evening and 3hrs in the afternoon?

    • @daddyderechte2252
      @daddyderechte2252 5 місяців тому +1

      He talked about it in his last video, its like 7 am standing up,
      Morning routine (1,5h)
      Work
      Lunch
      Work
      Evening meal 8pm
      Thats about his day

  • @shaysimonecaldwell
    @shaysimonecaldwell 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m 55 mins in and very grateful you opened up to share this with us.

  • @JevanGoldsmith
    @JevanGoldsmith 4 місяці тому

    I don't ever comment on videos but this is exactly what I needed to understand right now. Appreciate you going to the effort of making this.

  • @BaileyLackas
    @BaileyLackas 5 місяців тому +3

    Bro you made me cry at 1:40:00 that really resonated with me and my trauma as a kid. This video really opened my eyes, thank you for opening up yourself like this to help people like me. It’s been eating me up for way too long now. But I’m here today, and I’m ok.

  • @Uzairkhan-cq1wd
    @Uzairkhan-cq1wd 5 місяців тому +8

    can you make a video on "when you want to work but you get carried off and waste your time but deep inside you want to work but irl u cant" and all the psychology behind it and how to fix that, that would be of great help and thanks for making videos like these charlie :)

    • @user-nj5hq2bq8t
      @user-nj5hq2bq8t 5 місяців тому

      Yeah!!!

    • @user-nj5hq2bq8t
      @user-nj5hq2bq8t 5 місяців тому

      @charliemofficial do this next baby 🍼

    • @thebiggwigg
      @thebiggwigg 5 місяців тому +1

      He did make that, “how to focus for 12+ hours”

    • @niklas2899
      @niklas2899 4 місяці тому +1

      actually thats what he explained it that video ;) You are self sabotanging you thats why you dont get the work done even if you want too

  • @myothiha6540
    @myothiha6540 5 місяців тому +1

    Ive been noticing this inner child concept since new year, and this video has convinced me that its what im supposed to do next. Thank you Charlie

  • @errolgreene3044
    @errolgreene3044 4 місяці тому

    I needed this video. I don't have words right now to even express how much I needed it, but I needed it--desperately. Thank you. I hope I found it in time. Thank you for your bravery in making it, I know it must have been incredibly difficult to make, but you likely saved lives making it.

  • @ranes1366
    @ranes1366 5 місяців тому +3

    Oh my god, I just did the shadow work, and it was more intense than I thought.
    I did psychedelics in my life and those aren't even close to what I just felt.
    Thank you Charlie for sharing this, I feel very unfucked and very grateful.

    • @csmith411
      @csmith411 5 місяців тому +1

      Howwww idek what my traumatic moments were how tf am i gonna tap into it

    • @turgut7156
      @turgut7156 5 місяців тому

      @@csmith411dig deep bro

    • @logemedia1549
      @logemedia1549 5 місяців тому +1

      What did you do?

    • @turgut7156
      @turgut7156 5 місяців тому +1

      How do you do it on your own

  • @lottajasson706
    @lottajasson706 4 місяці тому +15

    I will be forever grateful to you, you changed my whole life and I will continue to preach on your behalf for the whole world to hear that you saved me from huge financial debt with just a small Investment, thank you Ava Maria Turner you're such a life saver.

    • @mikeordon125
      @mikeordon125 4 місяці тому

      Am happy for your achievement in suchshort period of time, trading with her. She must be a very genuine woman

    • @tinamalmgren3770
      @tinamalmgren3770 4 місяці тому +1

      The very first time we tried, we invested $1000 and after a week, we received $4500. That really helped us a lot to pay up our bills.

    • @davidmaguire4
      @davidmaguire4 4 місяці тому +1

      WOW this is awesome, I'm new at this how can I reach her?

    • @lottajasson706
      @lottajasson706 4 місяці тому +2

      SHe's always active on....Nicegram

    • @lottajasson706
      @lottajasson706 4 місяці тому +2

      @InvestWithAva

  • @leonardogomezpose6274
    @leonardogomezpose6274 29 днів тому

    Daaaaaamn Charlie you outstand yourself! I made it to the end with relief that this was the thing I needed to hear since looooong fricking time. as you said "thank you for watching", I say back to you thank you for talking.

  • @theserenemindscollective
    @theserenemindscollective 4 місяці тому +1

    Wow, amazing content! This is the first time ever in my life I’m commenting on a Yt video. I’m 37 years old and have been looking for answers for my self destructing behavior for a loooong time now. By watching this video, everything suddenly clicked. Thank you!

  • @I_AM_HIMel
    @I_AM_HIMel 5 місяців тому +9

    Give Sam Ovens some credit
    Edit: He did.

    • @garry197
      @garry197 5 місяців тому

      I was looking for this

    • @natemyyymate
      @natemyyymate 5 місяців тому

      Bro’s just stealing OG Sam’s videos

    • @martinmanyana
      @martinmanyana 5 місяців тому +3

      1:05:05

  • @Chickenxsandwich
    @Chickenxsandwich 5 місяців тому +3

    Today's the day. No more mediocrity

  • @ntsotisengqhobela-morojele8366
    @ntsotisengqhobela-morojele8366 4 місяці тому

    I just came across your videos yesterday & didn't waste time to subscribe. This is amazing. Thank you so much & I'm happy you have figured out how to come out strong. All the best.

  • @timhalloran1188
    @timhalloran1188 Місяць тому

    Thanks so much for creating this video Charlie, my second watch of it I've been battling with myself for years with this..I'm 49 and have been carrying a lot of trauma for years which has affected my relationships and businesses/income.

  • @topnotchprogrammer
    @topnotchprogrammer 5 місяців тому +17

    Please remove this video😂 not a lot of people deserve it, this should be paid to watch or smth. (I am sorry about your trauma btw) You greattt!

    • @anne-mp5cy
      @anne-mp5cy 5 місяців тому +2

      For real 😂😂😂 he drop some gem

    • @elijahlocke
      @elijahlocke 5 місяців тому +17

      Everyone who is willing deserves to get this for free

    • @MicahTheExecutioner
      @MicahTheExecutioner 4 місяці тому +1

      Ahh greed...

    • @HoldYoWallet
      @HoldYoWallet 4 дні тому

      They won’t apply it anyway

  • @eirikkvalheim8627
    @eirikkvalheim8627 4 місяці тому

    Sending love back Charlie. You are bringing tremendous value. Watched the whole thing. Brave, insightful and tremendously helpful. By acellerating others you are literally changing the world at a big scale, without taking credit for it. This is a path to greatness, one that we hopefully will meet along sides on. Best wishes

  • @ian-ch1qq
    @ian-ch1qq 4 місяці тому

    Honestly the best video you've ever made, Charlie, Thank you.

  • @martenn87
    @martenn87 5 місяців тому

    Brother, thank you so much. It's raw, it's authentic, it's incredibly valuable. Starting watching your videos, helped me A LOT to increase my discipline, focus and willpower. I like the format. stopped watching shorts and going back to consuming raw content without all the "fast, flashy, 100 icons and sounds a minute" videos.
    Just some days ago you asked us about that video, if we would be interested, now you ALREADY delivered on that! God bless you, my friend!

  • @belinda888
    @belinda888 5 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I had several aha moments even after all the work I've done on myself. I really appreciate this video and that I stayed to the end. Looking forward to your next one.

  • @Joanie-qp5ic
    @Joanie-qp5ic 4 місяці тому +1

    All of these concepts weren't knew to me, but the way you thoroughly explain everything and form this huge, detailed narrative resonates on such a fundamental level that I have no words. Processed some trauma myself during the second half ngl.
    This video showed me that I'm already on the right path, but now it's like I just turned the headlights on. Thank you!

  • @AngusStuartCamenzuli
    @AngusStuartCamenzuli Місяць тому

    Thanks Charlie, this is the first video on UA-cam I have seen of a man being so real. You’re extremely strong and I bet those kids that bullied you are working jobs they hate.

  • @kardo8153
    @kardo8153 4 місяці тому +1

    dude, ive realized this principle myself and even talked discussed it with people and the fact we can manipulate it to our advantage.
    but i was never able to put it into words quite like you have done here and also extrapolate it to so many parts of life.
    only 26 minutes in but felt like i just had to comment, you are creating some life changing content here

  • @sense8296
    @sense8296 2 місяці тому +1

    I really needed to hear this message. So many self discoveries of our psyche and how breaking the cycle of defeat.
    Raising your floor while raising your ceiling was so powerful! 🎯
    These 2 hours were well worth the time!
    Thank you, Charlie 😊😊

  • @gerardobarbas
    @gerardobarbas 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for providing so much value and insight, and also for opening up and share your vulnerability. Many of us have lots of shit to deal with and once we start acknowledging them and feeling the pain it causes us the first step of the healing process begins.
    Keep up the good work man 🙏🏻

  • @karparadise
    @karparadise 4 місяці тому

    Your dream watch 😂. I've been binge watching you and you've been helping my life for sure. Ever since I watched the productivity video I've been working for more than 12 hours per day

  • @leostrategys_
    @leostrategys_ 4 місяці тому

    man ill be thankfull to you for life. Bro ill come back here at the end of the year since right with a new identity and ill tell everybody my stories, I apreciatte man

  • @marvin8758
    @marvin8758 5 місяців тому

    thank you for your work! not just some shallow words but I feel deep gratitude for what you re doing

  • @jackieodohertyagilityatany222
    @jackieodohertyagilityatany222 3 місяці тому

    Fantastic, Charlie! I found this so valuable. Thank you for sharing so openly. Massively helpful.

  • @cristinaidita4172
    @cristinaidita4172 4 місяці тому

    Congrats Charlie!! I apreciate the authenticity and vulnerability! Perfect imperfect value!🎉

  • @andrelevy4330
    @andrelevy4330 4 місяці тому

    this is probably the best psychology video on youtube, in terms of practical help, im mind blowned to learn your philosophy

  • @AngelOrtiz-tr7bp
    @AngelOrtiz-tr7bp 3 місяці тому

    Your video should be shown to every single 15 yr old across the country.I feel lighter already. Omg!!! You my friend have a special gift. Thank you