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@@HEALTHANDWEALTHCHANNEL-h6o It took me 11 years to get her(my wife) to start understanding. She used to answer with ''I don't know''... After 11 years not so much has changed. But at least she understands that she has this black hole and needs to do something about it. That took eleven years... So good luck on removing the black hole, it will take time and effort. P.S. It will take difficult times and lots of effort, pain and patience. Good fortune to you.
I think women are the ones hleho become mostly adicted to social media because they are superficial in their analysis of things. They only analyze the here and now surface of the situation. This is because their minds are naturaly wired to see the superficial traits and actions of their babies since they are a clear sign of the babies mental and phisical state. If the baby is well then he/she will act well; if something is wrong the baby will act like something is wrong. So a platform like social media is appealing to them because they only have to focus on how they look to the public/online at a superficial level without actually growing and doing the proper work necessary to become a respectable person. They just hqve to look oike they are good and getting better and better through social media and recive validation in return (vertue signaling)to convince themselves that that is the case. Normally they will grow their analytical capabilities and open their mind to less superficial analysis as they grow up. But because the state control education keeps people's mind in a child/teenage state and society itself panders to women to the point that they subconsciously think they don't need to grow and develop, the female mind doesn't move/grow away from this type of thinking. Therefore they bring that type of analysis to adult/more complex scenarios. This may also explain why they don't see their past actions, like cheating itself, and their material mindset as bad and the reason for the inevitable consequences of their actions like "screwing the marriage" because nothing "bad" happened while they were doing the "misguided action" or immediately afterwards, in other words it wasn't bad because nothing negative happened at the moment said actions were taking place and the consequences are being brought up in the present.
Almost 28 years ago I asked my girlfriend what she wanted. Without hesitation she said, “whatever you want.” We got married the following year. She’s followed me around the world and has supported me even in the worst of times. I was almost killed and left for dead. They sent me home and I had several surgeries. Every time I woke up from surgery her lips kissed me. When my kids were born it was her lips that fist kissed them and, God willing, it will be her lips that kiss me for the last time before I get my final orders. They are out there boys. They are just hard find.
If you're single, earn just enough to get by. Starve them of the tax dollars that compensate for them not having husbands. Even single women live off of men.
Never seriously commit to a woman who’s obsessed with social media or possessions. They will demolish your life from the inside out, then find a new relationship in 3 minutes while you clean up the pieces.
True man. I just went into a relationship with this girl but I’m starting to see more and more red flags, like being on social media a lot. I don’t think the relationship is gonna be for the long-term. She’s beautiful though and I’ve got some feelings for her (even though they’re getting a little less tbh, because of the red flags) because she’s a genuine nice person. So for now I’ll keep her but not commit to her super seriously. Just to see where things go and have good times together.
100%. I’ve seen a lot of guys fall into this trap because they believe they won’t find a hotter better woman. This blinds them to the fact that these women don’t really care about them, just how much money they provide. The level of disrespect they show these guys is mind blowing and they put up with it…
@@John-J-Preston I found what can be called "a golden pussy". I found it three times in my life. All three women were not what we call beautiful. "Golden pussy" should always beat beauty. If you ask why am I not with one of them... it's because I was an idiot and didn't know to really appreciate any of them. At least two of them are fine women, decent and relatively humble. The third is more modern but she did her best and she made a better man out of me so she's all right too. Now that I am thinking of this matter, what an idiot I was. Chased beauty instead of quality. Yeah, complete idiot.
Experienced divorce attorney here. I approve of this video. I see the “happiness myth” every day in divorce court. Happiness is an INSIDE job. Nobody can make another happy forever. Stay safe out there!
It's funny how modern women don't get that marriage has nothing to do with happiness or love. It's a contact to make healthy babies. But can't tell them that no no
The modern Western woman wants a man that will make her his priority and work hard and diligently with all his efforts to make sure that she achieves HER goals. Many of them expect this while simultaneously bringing little more than entitlement and unrealistic expectations to the table.
do your research on South Korea and feminism, is not "modern western woman" is ALL women in the world who have been infected by feminism. Even in Japan they want a husband that will do the dishes.
Such women are trophy wives and should be treated as such. Most men who have trophy wives have extramarital partners elsewhere. This is how you balance it all out..
I am from Perth, Western Australia, and I found women here in Perth now don't look at me when I am own my own ,but when I’m with my partner, I find out more women stare at me when I’m by myself I am ignored. I agree with Alexander about women having cat syndrome.
It has happened to me a lot too. When I was alone I was invisible. The moment I was with another woman (friend or relationship) going to a mall or something, I noticed how they were staring and even flirting. And it wasn't a wrong perception because at first I didn't notice untill the women I was with started to tell me.
I concur. Yrs ago my then gf pulled me closer when we were walking in public. When I asked why she suddenly did that, she told me that other women were checking me out. I never had a clue.
Funny I had a conversation with a coworker how I'm when single I'm invisible but when I was in relationships I had more women try to talk to me than ever
I once came across a woman like that on a dating app. _She_ messaged me first so I thought... "interesting." A quick google search indicated she had kids, something she had neglected to put on her profile and not what I'm looking for. Didn't want to straight up call her out on it, so easier thing to do was to drive her out. "So what are your goals and aspirations? What are you working on right now?" I could easily tell her interest disappeared and she disappeared after a couple of messages. 😂
I’ve had so many failed relationships. And they can all be linked back to dating women like this. Whenever I meet one I feel bad for how unhappy they are, and I always think wow maybe I can change that for her. I show her just how amazing life can be, and I always just end up being dragged down to their level of misery
Mine has been the same story more than once and more than twice. We go into the world with a lot of wrong thoughts, and we fail, it cant be otherwise till we admit the harsh reality
@CzupaCzups3 Guys rarely admit it, but they are just as guilty as women in thinking they can change their lover into their dream woman, and they won't ever ask beforehand whether she agrees the changes will be for the better from her perspective.
@CzupaCzups3 Agree 100%. The problem is thinking you can change your spouse after you marry them. No, you can't. All you'll do is make yourself miserable trying.
Women love men opportunistically while men love women idealistically. Women will always love on the condition what can men provide be it's height, scale of attractiveness, income, status, networking. So Women are resource extractors and men always have been the providers. Men selects women on beauty and youth. And men expect loyalty, trust and respect. And no matter how independent women are they'll always expect the men to be better.
@@dr.ranajay you can meet him once you've taken enough pills to understand that he knows just as much about whamins nature as doctors understand the human body... And your karma has it become so to meet my good neighbors and the army of pillers all around all of us dedicated to bring awareness. Or just watch read his quotes and learn more of this content. You will improve quickly 💪
My late wife was one of the least materialistic people I've ever met. One such example of this was when we got engaged. I had a matching engagement/wedding ring set which was from a previous engagement in my prior relationship. My late wife suggested (she suggested, not me. I didn't even hint at the idea) we just have those rings resized & cleaned for her rather than spending thousands on new ones. There aren't very many women out there who would be happy with rings originally given to someone else, let alone for it to have been their own idea. I fell in love with her all over again in that moment. because what that gesture proved to me was, that it wasn't any materialistic thing I could give her that she valued me for. It proved to me that she valued me for me. & It proved to me that it wasn't the rings, the dress, or the day that mattered to her. What mattered most to her was that at the end of that day she would be my wife & I would be her husband.
@@dang75790 that's really awesome mate. 25 year is a massive accomplishment is todays day & age. I unfortunately wasn't so lucky. I only got 14 months as her husband (5 years together in total) before she passed at only 37yo. We got married on the 24th of March 2018, & she passed on the 6th of June 2019. Little did I know that our honeymoon would have been the last holiday I would ever get to go on with her again.
A piece me wants to believe there isn't a catch, but so many channels and comments, as well as stories from men and vids of girls exposing themselves, makes me wonder if she married you for some OTHER superficial reason. Maybe looks, height, or possibly something not every man can be? Just paranoid.
Had a friend at my first job go through this exact same thing. Woman spent his money like it was going out of style, buying all new furniture for their house, every 6 months, etc. When he had to work more to cover the bills she was wracking up, she cheated with and then left him for an unemployed loser. Wild.
Very common. Some women want the fruits of men’s labour but ALSO denigrate the man for never being home and then justify their monkey branching as being unhappy.
Yes it is. For most good, psychologically healthy and stable women, a good man is what they look for. Move on from RP, it's clearly training you to only think the worst.
@@DB742 No, this answer shows your ignorance about good women. A good man, is one that cares about you, supports you, is genuinely kind, doesn't manipulate or abuse you (physically or verbally), one that can empathise with you, etc. As I said in my previous reply, good women, with these traits themselves, will go after good guys who also have these traits. No healthy woman wants a cheating narcissist who throws cash at them in substitution for a real relationship with love, trust, intimacy and loyalty.
A man without a career is a "loser", a man with a career "neglects" his woman. Ah, the classic dilemma. Good luck, girls, at finding a wealthy high status guy who's working halftime.
Their dream is to find a 6'4, handsome, fit, well endowed 25 year old billionaire, who doesn't work yet his money keeps increasing, and only travels the world partying and fancydining with them nonstop.
My ex-wife was obsessed with comparison. She was always on IG late at night (1AM, 2AM in the morning) comparing her life and her lifestyle to her friends. She would then spend all her time moaning and complaining about her reality versus someone else's IG highlight reel. These women will also prioritize her friends over you as the husband.
I fell in love with a woman that at the start seemed like a good match. She would tell me about her former boyfriend who was wealthy and who trash heaped her one day when he got fed up with her and immediately had her replacement living with him. We were looking for a house to buy and she found a massive one that she liked. To make a long story short I said no I'm not buying it. Well she ghosted me. She said she liked things and implied I should provide them. After mullinig around for a weekend I dumped her. She was engaged to another guy within a year. I dodged a bullet.
"She would tell me about her former boyfriend who was wealthy." --> If you learned your lesson you will leave and run on the first time a girl starts to speak about "wealthy ex".
*The post-Feminist fairy tale:* _A handsome Prince asked an empowered __-toxic self absorbed-__ female to marry him and she said "No"_ _And so the handsome Prince got to ride his motorcycles whenever he liked and drove fast cars whenever he liked and he went out with his friends whenever he liked and dated cute skinny girls half his age and drank beer (not Budweiser) and Bourbon (not Jack Daniels) and drank the milk straight from the carton and_ *_never heard any f|_|cking nagging_* _and went to rock concerts and he never got cheated on while he was away or at work and he got to keep his house and his jeans and sweat-top and hoodie and all of his friends and family thought he was a cool as Hell and he had tons of money_ *_and he got to leave the toilet seat up ... in other words he lived Happily Ever After_* _The End_
@@jasonwilliams8321 *Read it again:* _and he went out with his friends whenever he liked and dated cute skinny girls half his age_ *Let me guess: you skimmed over that bit*
@@jasonwilliams8321 of course he got laid. He never laid next to them for long and moved on to the next one. Good to enjoy a different recipe. You don’t eat the same meal daily do you?
@@bws1971 _Technically, Jack Daniels is a whiskey_ *Technically, Jack Daniels has Dylan Mulvaney as their "brand ambassador"* *Technically, that means they hate their customer base* *Technically, that means that after Budweiser (the company) is brought to it's corporate knees, Jack Daniels can expect similar treatment* *But beyond the technical.. I raise a glass of some non-trans-"mission" fluid to your good self in the spirit of easy banter*
Highly doubt p0rn should even come close to be compared to this insanity most men are watching it because they would rather be alone…also data showed 80% of women watch prn as well it has went up by a lot in the last years
I’m beyond thankful for both my parents. They cared for each other and us the children. We didn’t have much, but we were never hungry. I hope be like my father and to find a woman like my mother.
It doesn't matter if you're rich or poor. They aren't loyal. When times are good, they will stick with you. When times are bad, you better believe they will ditch you like a bad habit. I don't think I've met a single solitary woman on the planet that didn't monkey branch her way from one man to another.
Women are more physically vulnerable than men - in our evolutionary history, that meant being without protection from a man, very dangerous. In that instance, of course women would evolve to "monkey branch" - if some of your female ancestors hadn't have done that for protection, you might not be here to complain about them today.
@@marcusgrey2075 Why? I seem to have met the right ones already. I have a female friend from Glasgow who is legitimately one of the funniest people I've ever met. Very quick wit.
@@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM Well, I must be lucky, because I've known several. Another woman I worked with in Liverpool was also very funny. She was married to a fireman, and one day we jokingly asked her if she had ever made her husband wear his fireman's helmet during lovemaking. She replied without missing a beat, "No. But I might have worn it." The whole office cracked up.
Yep many gumps think with their dicks instead of brains. Just like in this story. A man with a brain would say no but he didn’t because of the thirst to please her to get stank box is pathetic
@@patienceobongo, money might not buy you happiness, but it can buy you _drugs_ that'll bring you happiness! ;-) *Disclaimer:* That's a _joke,_ don't try it at home, kids!
Never go out of your way to make a woman happy because you can never make a woman happy. No matter what you do, it's never enough. Nothing is ever enough for them. You can cure her cancer and she'll still say that's not enough. So glad I am staying single for my whole life. I don't need the headache.
TBH I had a beautiful ex gf who was a black hole and wanted children, but it was more of a obsession to her, she wanted to marry very fast. Well, now shes 37, she still very beautiful (geneticly gifted, im younger than her and even my younger friends says shes beautiful, still gets a lot of attetion) but got divorced for the third time. We reconected after her last divorce so we remember the old times (lol) and its kind a sad once she opened up… She said that dont want marriage and kids anymore and is very lost in life, taking antidepressives, feels that dont have a purpose and dont know what to do. I cant help but to think she brought this on herself.
exactly this happened to me. I should have figured it out earlier when i badly broke both feet meeting her never ending needs for money that when she came home and saw me with both legs in a cast asked me how long i will be off work. When i seed 8 weeks she burst into tears and screamed why do you do this to me. Do you hate me. WOW
My dad was a hard worker. They got married in 1958 i think, both having been raised traditionally. My dad drank when my mom met him. Both are white caucasian, with light eyes. They had 4 children. Girl, boy, girl, girl. By the time i was 12 (1972) the marriage was already in trouble. My mom increasingly influenced by feminism and hollywood (increasingly portraying dark haired/eyed men as hero's, while in the 60ies it was still mostly light) We, children mostly traditionally raised, but increasingly affected by modernity. Among which is feminism. Quarrels increased between my parents. My dad, a very sensitive man and my mom actually pretty strong minded. And as such things go, when a quarrel erupts and children are there, the man's expression is quickly scary, while mom seems safe. (maybe its tone of voice). Even though they tried to hide it, it only takes one time for a pattern to set in, So children then move closer to mom. And my dad, sensitive as he was, must have immediately felt it, but was unable to react or fix this. So a block formed against my dad. All against dad. My mom blamed his drinking. By 1980 they divorced. Soon after i heard my mom say about men "he has such beautifull dark eyes and hair'. And i was surprised, bc we were all light haired and light eyed. Where did that come from and did this mean i wasnt attractive??? Since i was the only 'man' and mostly influenced by my mom and sisters, it F'd me up good. Thank god that the basis was right, but the effects of this all, were bad for 3 out of 4 children. Since my youngest sister was still quite small, we (mom and the 3 older children) tried to keep that youngest out of all the trouble that was an almost daily routine at some point. It wasnt pretty... Both my parents got into a new relationship, which posed problems in itself for us. They are both long gone now and the saddest thing there is that even the funerals are 'tainted' bc of those new partners they found. Odd things happen then. For us; my sisters and me: My oldest sister, now 65, has never had a long term relationship. When she was 17 she dated for a year or so with a guy. Nothing since. I dont think she has se>< either. And ofcourse no children. She has difficulty with men. We've often talked about all this, but she's unable to see things differently. I mean, when i show her facts, she can up to an extent accept those facts, but she never wants to work with it. She always says she is not like that. And she isnt. The problem is that what she is, doesnt fit with the rest of society. It never did, bc part of it is based on a lie. Its sad. Me, my longest relationship was 9 years and i have 2 daughters. We split in 1997 and i havent been able to find someone. I gave up some 16 or 17 years ago, after a few disasters. No sex since. And all of this also destroyed the relationship with my daughters, who are even more influenced with modern BS. I was high IQ, high performing and because of things, saw through a lot, early on. All the illusions and lies, but it left me with one illusion that i just couldnt give up; love. And that one broke me. Of course. Bc the more illusions you swipe off the table, the more important the remaining one(s) become. We have to believe in something, so i knowlingly decided id keep the illusion of love, bc thats the only one thats possible (for some time). But it broke me, as i was and still want to be, deeply in love with that one. Im 63 now and the chance on that is long gone. Because im stuck at age 30 or something. My body doesnt agree. I ended up in prison even. I guess thats when ive had enough. I dont need anyone to be miserable. And its much safer alone. Not nice though. I decided that chance on happiness just wasnt worth the risc anymore. I cant trust anyone anymore. And am obviously very damaged goods, so which decent woman would even come close to me? Cant blame them... My next sister, was a 'hotty' back in the day. And she sure dated a lot. Ended up with 4 boys, from 3 different fathers... and is single. Dont know how long now, but it all failed time and time again. She was a handfull. A nice person as long as everything is fine, but oh boy when her relationship(s) was in trouble. Then she got completely unreasonable and dragged everyone in the disaster. I mean, to illustrate that. She once had a BF, father of 2 of hers and he had a good job and they bought a house. But it was old and needed a whole lot of fixing up. So i was helping him with that. And one day, it seemed they had gotten into a fight. I thought, well ok, they will make up and its no reason to stop working on their house, right? So i went there and worked with him. At some point my sis called me and said i needed to come over. I said ok. He was laughing and said "now youve done it". We laughed about it. As i got to her house, where she still lived, she was mad at me and started yelling. I tried to defend by saying they would get back together, bc they had fights at times and the work on the house needed to go on, right? She said NO and that they had broken up and i wasnt allowed to work there. (all for free btw,.... for her) and she got violent; slapped me, scratched me and ripped my t shirt in half. So i said ok ok, ill stop working on it. So i drove back there and i didnt have to even say "look at me" bc he saw immediately. And he laughed that she had ripped my shirt in half. So i said im sorry, but ive got to stop helping you. He understood of course. Well i could laugh about it too, but was also embarrassed and what have you. Oh man, she was a handfull. Anywise, she is more stable now, as shes 60 and not in 'the market' anymore. And then my youngest sister (which we tried to keep out of the trouble). She's i would say a high value woman. She's fair, friendly, helpfull, good morals, good looking, hard working (in a man's setting!), stable, realistic, etc. She didnt date much with different men. Eventually married a friend. Not a great looker or great intellect, or huge status, but a regular pretty decent guy. Theyve had some trouble, but are still together. And had 2 children. Theyve got a nice house. 2 cars. Etc etc. While all the rest of us, didnt only fail wrt relationships, but also wrt carreer, even social group, etc. We all keep our heads above water, but barely. I know, this is just one story, but its pretty illustrative to how F destroys marriages and leaves children with even less of a chance of a succesfull life and a chance to happiness. In the 80ies already there were studies published (still have some..) on how the chances were lowered to a long term relationship, for children from broken marriages. I remember talking with my older sis about it and how we were Fu.k.d. But we didnt know how to fix ourselves. I still dont, bc ive been taught the wrong things, and even though i KNOW it all, i cannot change much. And its all too late now anyway. Too old now. I mean, even with knowing what i know now; i still want to put that one woman on a pedestal, even though i know you should never (openly) do so. I still want to be completely honest with that one, bc in my head, it cannot be real love if im not. But i know you cant be, bc women cant deal with that. I mean, maybe there is one that can. Yea, find that one. I have some theorethical, perfect picture in my head of what love should be. Its completely unrealistic. I KNOW that now. But i cant change it. Even if i had to do it all again, id be more succesfull, for sure, but i still would fail probably. Because my idea of love is wrong. Or as another guy once said, some 25 years ago, when we were talking about it and i said i wanted true love, he said "you have a better chance of getting that island you want for yourself, than that". And i KNEW it was true. But i couldnt change what i wanted. Its unbelievable how much damage F... did.
Thank you! I always get a bit of a chuckle out of the social media-addicted. I mean, all I can do is laugh cause I wanna cry since it's so sad they're so dependent on a device to show them where they are in life. Perhaps looking inward and finding out FOR REAL where you are in life is the true key.
A story I heard over radio years ago has stuck with me, a guy calls to the show and says that he feels humiliated & betrayed by his wife, he said 3 nights ago my wife told me she wanted a new coat that she saw and he said "not right now, in one week I will get my pay check and I will buy it for you" then she got angry and said "well if you can't I will go with someone who will" and she left, he thought she was just making a tantrum but 3 days after right before the call she arrives with the coat and more gifts.
That was actually a very good thing for that man because he now know exactly who his wife really is and he can now part ways with her. If he does not, it's on him.
I honestly believed this is a learned behavior and by this I mean it was instilled in them since childhood. For example, fathers treating their girls as Disney Princesses, pedestalize and giving them all they wanted. Oh daddy I want this candy or oh daddy I want this toy, etc... whatever it is, it goes on and on and what happened is the dad over spoiled their girls at a very early age. This behavior is then ingrained in their psyche so when they're adults, they act exactly the same way as though they are children in adult's bodies. Also, another thing that will help in a child's development is spanking. I was spanked plenty when I was a child everytime I was out of line and that instilled in me a sense of right and wrong and overall integrity. Seeing the state of the world right now, I'm very grateful my parents spanked me when I was a little. It made me who I am today. I understand things better, otherwise I would be growing up in a state of bliss and joy all the time from being over spoiled that my worldview would be completely different from what it is now.
@@VersionBestExperiencing trauma as a child does not help your brain develop. It’s weird to hear people normalize hitting kids. That actually affects how your brain develops like the amygdala and hippocampus.
this is the best video you made in 4 years, please more videos about how to seperate someone datable and undatable with a simple question you can ask online or on the first date. Well done
I know it is not easy to find happiness, but one of the keys is to find yourself first. This is why there are so many men who are single and happy. They found themselves. I do not understand some women or men who are jumping from one relationship to another, trying to find happiness. At the end, they just found chaos. Happiness is free, but it is worth gold.
I think the same applies to women - in general, people should firstly find themselves, know their goal in life, gain self awareness, find out how to be happy alone, and then look for a relationship
mine was: Not that, again?!, cant we go/do something else? When I asked her what she wanted the answer was always idk or an hour long response with no conclusion ever. She couldnt understand when I left her and begged me for a second chance - the nagging would stop. It did for like 2-3 weeks and than we were back. Didnt even seem to notice cuz she seemed as surprised and devastated as the 1st time - which wasnt even a month ago.
You'll never get any clear answer from a woman since a clear answer would somehow mean taking responsibility, and THAT women will never do. The male role is to decide, the female role is to criticize him afterwards even though he asked (vainly of course) for her opinion. Besides, most of the time women don't even know what they really want, all they dimly know is that they want "more", something "different", something "better", whatever that may be. Thus to them a man always has it wrong, and is never good enough.
You are the man. What a good video. Never heard this laid out like this before. One of the best videos ive seen on relationships in some time. Excellent excellent content.
Happiness in life doesn't come from the material but from within. More people should understand that the pursuit of luxury is a sure road to nihilism. Adding on the topic of the "empty void" Alex mentioned reminds me of what Thomas Aquinas said: "Nothing created has ever been able to fill the heart of man."
Sounds like such a common situation. I see it happening to my brother too where his wife got everything she wanted yet it never seems to be enough and she at the end of the day is asking for a divorce now
Yes it has to do with ego, and also a lot of people think everyone is same so everyone can change to good as they are . I struggles with this because I also thought everyone is same . But in an opposite direction, like if I see a bad behaviour I don't like from one person id think everyone else is evil too and this is the norm. There was a point in my life where I thought this is the case so I stuck around with my toxic friends when I was 17. Now tho especially thanks to you Alexander grace for teaching me that people are on spectrum like low quality people and high quality people. And what are high quality the behaviours and low quality ones. It has helped me ton , reduced a ton of suffering and abuse that came from me hanging around toxic people. I can't thank you enough.
Thank you, these are some really good insights you have brought to light. I look at a person as if they're happy with what they have versus being unhappy with what they don't have.
TL;DR Ex-wife compared our relationship to that of her brother and his wife, which caused her to spiral out of control and for me to end up with majority custody of our children. My exwife would compare how we were doing to her brother and his wife (long term girlfriend at the time). The problem with the comparison was that she wasn't accounting for the fact that her father made a youtube channel with her brother. Her brother stopped making videos while her father didn't. yet even though her brother wasn't making videos he is still able to collect half of the money made from the channel. I pointed this out to her several times and she just would listen to reason. Then, along with the depression that she put herself in because of constantly conpairing our life to theirs, she started to lie about going to work becasue "well my sister-in-law doesn't work and they are able to make it". After which she would steal medications and spend every last dime we had on the dollar tree to make her self feel better. She would also steal clothes from donation sites and give things that costed a lot of money to buy away from free (even thing our children were still playing with) for the warm fuzzy that it gave her. After putting up with it for about 6 months and trying to work with her to get through it, i filed for divorce and ended up with 67% "Parenting time" (custody) of our kids. She has gone around telling everyone that I'm the one at fault because I cheated. I won't give myself a way out on this I did cheat. The way I cheated wasn't the normal way a man would cheat I never cheated physically. I cheated emotionally, I was ready to be done so I started talking to other people. After watching Alexander's channel for so long I realize I should have acted differently and I know I made several mistakes. I wasn't thinking about the subtle clues she was leaving that were telling me that she was a low quality woman. I also wasn't thinking about what my actions were doing to myself. Thank you Alexander for helping people like me to understand what it is that we need to improve on.
I‘m so grateful to talk to a woman who has a private instagram account, who barely uses thar app anyways and who doesn’t mind that I‘m not earning a ton of money in my future career because she understands that this will bring more joy to me than money.
Having an internal locus of control can be difficult for anyone. We don’t completely control anything external to ourselves. We only truly control our perception.
It should make you more secure... the juice isn't worth the squeeze. Avoid women and grow a better man. And if one comes around, never forget: it is only temporary. And if you are the one ending it, power to you. A woman is a nice accessory, but not a must have. Go cheap, protect your wallet and wrap your pole!
It's an important distinction to note that although it may appear so, women aren't really concerned with material possessions, per se: What they desire, almost more than anything, is social validation, particularly from their chosen peer group. Men think in materialistic, linear terms. We build things. Women think in terms of social networks. They relate, and seek out social sources of support. What this means, in practical terms, is that a woman may appear completely "non-materialistic" externally, and yet she is still constantly assessing the social value of you, the things you provide her, and the people in her life. This can lead to a sort of "meta-materialism" that puts an unseen price tag on everything, including you and the other people in her life.
This is the first video of your channel I have seen and the audio is perfect (meaning that I don't have to use subtitles to understand what is being said). The content is also perfect. and you summed up the video within the first minute and a half.
In Australia; should you end up in a marriage or a "defacto" relationship that is recognised by the law, then dare you disappoint her in your provisioning and/or how you treat her and she no longer "loves" you or wants to be with you; then she has the option of divorce raping you of assets (e.g. a house) that you had before you even met her.
Hi JJ, I have heard that in Australia if a man dates a woman for at least 3 months - just dating without marriage, no children, nothing else - he is still financially responsible for her if she goes to court. Is that true?
In every western country, women can sleep with you for a single night and assert that it was a "defacto" relationship to take your house for years without a conviction of any crime. Defacto has such a loose definition, a woman can claim that even without living or sleeping together.
Honestly, I think the only way to fix this is for more men to realize that it is possible. The exact steps to execute this: 1) As the woman, have sex with your male partner, preferably with genetic material in tow 2) Go to a women's shelter and report domestic abuse and future/on-going fear for her safety 3) Use that report to obtain a restraining order AKA peace bond (lower standard of proof required in civil court) 4) Obtain exclusive possession of home (and any other assets) using the report from the shelter and restraining order 5) Enjoy the man's home + car + other assets listed in the exclusive possession order for 1~2 years while the man has to continue to pay for all the home and car payments
@@markushaase2350 not 3 months. I think it’s 12 months. I need verification if they can take half. I’ve never lived with a girlfriend in my own home (I was debt-free and owned it). Most women had nothing or very little. Those with their own investments were less risk to me as they’d lose out too if they tried anything on me. I am unsure if a woman can take half if they lived with a guy for 12 months? I am unsure so I never lived with one. If they can, it needs to be changed. It’s a rort.
Such great insight. Many years ago I spent four years trying to make a relationship work with a woman with this mindset. My life was turned upside down, and it took me a long to to put the pieces of my life back together.
My husband got lucky with me. I am the opposite of most women. I don't like to compare myself to other people, I'm not materialistic, hate material possessions, don't like receiving gifts, like simplicity, am a homebody, hate wearing make-up, never spend more than 30 minutes at the hairdressers, don't have long nails, have no social media (only UA-cam)have never taken a selfie, and am happy when I'm home with my husband and son with me. All I need is sunshine, a book to read, a place to walk, the internet (to read) and yoga plus my husband and son. That's it. My husband buys more stuff than I do and I'm the one that has to keep him in check!
8:30 oh, that relates to "dating market value". Lot's of talks about it feels toxic. But I couldn't figure out why. Superiority vs happiness. Yes! I'm a woman and listening to talks about "value on a market" made me anxious cause it draws me to social rat race and kinda puts a price tag on me. But my true happiness and love always come from inside. I'm priceless as a person. Thanks you.
The key is to balance it out. Find the passions and stuff you love doing, while still be able to afford that lifestyle. For most men it's hobbies and not the newest most expensive car.
I know when this went wrong. It's when he wanted to please his wife. This is something you never do by default. I know that there are people who would say I'm a bad man. No I am not. The more you give and give to a woman, she will want always more. There is no end for what a woman wants. Be wise and say no. You'll thank me later when you're wiser and able to understand why you should tell her no..
My church is on a many weeks long journey called ‘walking toward happiness’ and so far it’s been made clear happiness is not a destination, it’s an attitude you have along the way to wherever we go in life
This is the exact 100% accurate depiction of my ex gf. Unfortunately I only found this out after the 5 year relationship was over. Will chalk this up as a good learning experience.
Yeah I was talking to a girl I met once and she told me she had "goals". So I asked her what they were and she couldn't expand on them. It's as if she was only saying this to look good. Yeah bad sign.
"Pride [i.e. arrogance] gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next man. We say that people are proud of being rich, or clever, or good-looking, but they are not. They are proud of being richer, or cleverer, or better-looking than others. If everyone else became equally rich, or clever, or good-looking there would be nothing to be proud about. It is the comparison that makes you proud: the pleasure of being above the rest." (C. S. Lewis)
If there's something I've learned is that you give women as little as you can get away with If for some reason you still want to be in a relationship. I don't see why you would in this day and age but to each their own.
i can only confirm this having seen it in my mother. she switched her focus from herself on me but continued to keep comparing everything every time. she always used to focus on me and compare me to other kids at school and in general, which i always hated
The cutest girl in my graduating highschool class never partied in highschool so that her parents would give her a brand new jeep at graduation. She was so idolized by most dudes it went to her head , never dated for fear of being ruined, was home coming queen etc.. She then butchered herself with plastic surgery in college.. Like she be ugggli after , awkward and not even close to natural!!! Guess who has low self esteem and a drinking problem now ? Careful what ya wish for, its a long road, life.
A G. Your the absolute Best interpiture of womenese ! Ancient philosophers thru the ages have attempted explaining this unpredictable apparent inconsistencies ,only to fall short... It's like you discovered the ROSETTA STONE , Between realty and womanese ..
I had a stunning 6' tall blonde eastern European GF and whilst things were good in the beginning, she hadn't done the work on her early life traumas and healthy relationship dynamics, Red flags came up for me. She got jealous of me and other women (I am the most loyal guy you'll meet). Bit by bit she damaged the relationship, she looked through my phone whilst my back was turned, accused me of talking to another woman, but when I said look at the date on that message (3 years ago) I didn't even get an apology. There were other very childish games being played too and she started to have a superiority complex about relationships and psychology too. Rather than discussing things, she saw me as the student. (the reality was very different). Bit by bit it was going downhill. The last straw for me was secretly recording conversations at my parents house and then again in the car. When she told me this (she was baiting me with bizarre questions) I said that is it, I am done. She was incredibly good looking too, such a shame she hadn't done the deeper work to sustain a proper relationship.
100% I used to date a ridiculously good-looking eastern european girl, but over the course of 4 months, she gradually became a human jackal....and she was not pleasant at the beginning, either, so it was bad all around. she was the prettiest i'd ever been with so i gave her too many chances but deep down,i knew she was rotten to the core. and....she proved me right.
Thank you. Very true words. Happyness comes from inside and we all have different things, who makes us happy, because of our different needs to grow. The important thing is, that it comes from yourself, what makes you happy and not influenced by others. Maybe inspired, but then do it your own way. 😉
This is the fable of the fisherman and his wife. He discovers a magical fish who will grant wishes. So his wife asks for a bigger house and the fish gives him a bigger house. Then a palace, and they get a palace. Then she wants to be God, so the fish grants the wish. Then the fisherman asks for his wife to be happy with what they have. So they go back to the way they were before and lived happily ever after.
*Then there's the post-Feminist fairy tale:* _A handsome Prince asked an empowered __-toxic self absorbed-__ female to marry him and she said "No"_ _And so the handsome Prince got to ride his motorcycles whenever he liked and drove fast cars whenever he liked and he went out with his friends whenever he liked and dated cute skinny girls half his age and drank beer (not Budweiser) and Bourbon (not Jack Daniels) and drank the milk straight from the carton and _*_never heard any f|_|cking nagging_*_ and went to rock concerts and he never got cheated on while he was away or at work and he got to keep his house and his jeans and sweat-top and hoodie and all of his friends and family thought he was a cool as Hell and he had tons of money _*_and he got to leave the toilet seat up ... in other words he lived Happily Ever After_* _The End_
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Alex
I'll cut to the chase
Do you provide black hole removal services
Thanks
@@HEALTHANDWEALTHCHANNEL-h6o It took me 11 years to get her(my wife) to start understanding. She used to answer with ''I don't know''... After 11 years not so much has changed. But at least she understands that she has this black hole and needs to do something about it. That took eleven years... So good luck on removing the black hole, it will take time and effort.
P.S. It will take difficult times and lots of effort, pain and patience. Good fortune to you.
Great advice Alex!
I think women are the ones hleho become mostly adicted to social media
because they are superficial in their analysis of things. They only analyze the here and now surface of the situation. This is because their minds are naturaly wired to see the superficial traits and actions of their babies since they are a clear sign of the babies mental and phisical state. If the baby is well then he/she will act well; if something is wrong the baby will act like something is wrong.
So a platform like social media is appealing to them because they only have to focus on how they look to the public/online at a superficial level without actually growing and doing the proper work necessary to become a respectable person. They just hqve to look oike they are good and getting better and better through social media and recive validation in return (vertue signaling)to convince themselves that that is the case.
Normally they will grow their analytical capabilities and open their mind to less superficial analysis as they grow up. But because the state control education keeps people's mind in a child/teenage state and society itself panders to women to the point that they subconsciously think they don't need to grow and develop, the female mind doesn't move/grow away from this type of thinking. Therefore they bring that type of analysis to adult/more complex scenarios.
This may also explain why they don't see their past actions, like cheating itself, and their material mindset as bad and the reason for the inevitable consequences of their actions like "screwing the marriage" because nothing "bad" happened while they were doing the "misguided action" or immediately afterwards, in other words it wasn't bad because nothing negative happened at the moment said actions were taking place and the consequences are being brought up in the present.
who is the girl at beginning? insta, name or any link?
Almost 28 years ago I asked my girlfriend what she wanted. Without hesitation she said, “whatever you want.” We got married the following year. She’s followed me around the world and has supported me even in the worst of times. I was almost killed and left for dead. They sent me home and I had several surgeries. Every time I woke up from surgery her lips kissed me. When my kids were born it was her lips that fist kissed them and, God willing, it will be her lips that kiss me for the last time before I get my final orders. They are out there boys. They are just hard find.
Blessings to you and your wife man. I respect women like that.
Great men deserve great women. Congratulations.
@@williamoneil9787 thank you, sir.
God blessed You with a Wife & family like that. Your story gives me hope to find mine one day.
@@Gombi787 don’t give up, it’s worth it if you find the right one. I know it doesn’t always seem like it.
Men boycotting marriage have denied women their retirement fund.
Agreed. Modern marriage is a fool's errand. Unless she has as many or more assets than you, then DO NOT MARRY.
If you're single, earn just enough to get by.
Starve them of the tax dollars that compensate for them not having husbands. Even single women live off of men.
That's why women vote left, to take money out of your pocket, even if you're not married to her.
Yeah you really gotta watch out for the 304's who want "starter husbands"
They'll get it one way or another, whether by using her box to entice men or using me2 or some other BS accusation.
Never seriously commit to a woman who’s obsessed with social media or possessions. They will demolish your life from the inside out, then find a new relationship in 3 minutes while you clean up the pieces.
True man. I just went into a relationship with this girl but I’m starting to see more and more red flags, like being on social media a lot. I don’t think the relationship is gonna be for the long-term. She’s beautiful though and I’ve got some feelings for her (even though they’re getting a little less tbh, because of the red flags) because she’s a genuine nice person. So for now I’ll keep her but not commit to her super seriously. Just to see where things go and have good times together.
100%. I’ve seen a lot of guys fall into this trap because they believe they won’t find a hotter better woman. This blinds them to the fact that these women don’t really care about them, just how much money they provide. The level of disrespect they show these guys is mind blowing and they put up with it…
@@John-J-Preston I found what can be called "a golden pussy". I found it three times in my life. All three women were not what we call beautiful. "Golden pussy" should always beat beauty. If you ask why am I not with one of them... it's because I was an idiot and didn't know to really appreciate any of them. At least two of them are fine women, decent and relatively humble. The third is more modern but she did her best and she made a better man out of me so she's all right too.
Now that I am thinking of this matter, what an idiot I was. Chased beauty instead of quality. Yeah, complete idiot.
Couldn't have said it better. I don't understand how but females are so good at being sociopaths
I really wish I didn't have to agree 110% with you
Experienced divorce attorney here. I approve of this video. I see the “happiness myth” every day in divorce court. Happiness is an INSIDE job. Nobody can make another happy forever. Stay safe out there!
You have really great videos, Jonathan!
Thank you for the comment, and thank you for your content.
God bless.
It's funny how modern women don't get that marriage has nothing to do with happiness or love. It's a contact to make healthy babies. But can't tell them that no no
"Happiness is an inside job".
Well said!! Well said. I am going to use your phrase from time to time. Thanks!
@@thomasturner8798you’ve never heard of that saying before ?
Truth
The modern Western woman wants a man that will make her his priority and work hard and diligently with all his efforts to make sure that she achieves HER goals. Many of them expect this while simultaneously bringing little more than entitlement and unrealistic expectations to the table.
She wants slave and emotional punching bag.
@@James-dt7ky A slave that loves, adores and appreciates them for ALL they they are. LOL
Nah, they have been like that forever, even Eve was.
@@James-dt7ky They want slaves, one is not enough.
do your research on South Korea and feminism, is not "modern western woman" is ALL women in the world who have been infected by feminism.
Even in Japan they want a husband that will do the dishes.
Materialistic women should be avoided at all costs!! take it from an old guy who's been there they make your life a misery..
They are all materialistic unfortunately that's fine it's their nature anyway
...good luck finding the 0.0001% who are not. That cute, happy "girl next door" no longer exists....if it ever did.
Not just materialistic, but it’s envy of and for everything she doesn’t have. She can not be sated
Hypergamy is itself materialistic.
Such women are trophy wives and should be treated as such.
Most men who have trophy wives have extramarital partners elsewhere. This is how you balance it all out..
I am from Perth, Western Australia, and I found women here in Perth now don't look at me when I am own my own ,but when I’m with my partner, I find out more women stare at me
when I’m by myself I am ignored.
I agree with Alexander about women having cat syndrome.
They've always been like that.
They dont know what they like but want what sees having.
It's called pre-selection. Your girlfriend's presence is the most immediate signifier of your quality to other women.
It has happened to me a lot too. When I was alone I was invisible. The moment I was with another woman (friend or relationship) going to a mall or something, I noticed how they were staring and even flirting. And it wasn't a wrong perception because at first I didn't notice untill the women I was with started to tell me.
I concur. Yrs ago my then gf pulled me closer when we were walking in public. When I asked why she suddenly did that, she told me that other women were checking me out. I never had a clue.
Funny I had a conversation with a coworker how I'm when single I'm invisible but when I was in relationships I had more women try to talk to me than ever
I once came across a woman like that on a dating app. _She_ messaged me first so I thought... "interesting." A quick google search indicated she had kids, something she had neglected to put on her profile and not what I'm looking for. Didn't want to straight up call her out on it, so easier thing to do was to drive her out. "So what are your goals and aspirations? What are you working on right now?" I could easily tell her interest disappeared and she disappeared after a couple of messages. 😂
Single mother should've been an automatic rejection. They aren't useful for relationship long term or short term.
ffs, just dont go to dating apps. Even if u want casual sex. Just dont.
I don't even want "casual sex" from some strange chick whose been God knows where, or God knows who has been in her.
Bro they are all like that lol. Even on youtube
@@MiriadCalibrumAstar Dating Saps.
I’ve had so many failed relationships. And they can all be linked back to dating women like this. Whenever I meet one I feel bad for how unhappy they are, and I always think wow maybe I can change that for her. I show her just how amazing life can be, and I always just end up being dragged down to their level of misery
It’s hard to resist the desire to nurture them. Best to avoid them though.
Mine has been the same story more than once and more than twice. We go into the world with a lot of wrong thoughts, and we fail, it cant be otherwise till we admit the harsh reality
No good deed goes unpunished
@CzupaCzups3 Guys rarely admit it, but they are just as guilty as women in thinking they can change their lover into their dream woman, and they won't ever ask beforehand whether she agrees the changes will be for the better from her perspective.
@CzupaCzups3 Agree 100%. The problem is thinking you can change your spouse after you marry them. No, you can't. All you'll do is make yourself miserable trying.
Women love men opportunistically while men love women idealistically.
Women will always love on the condition what can men provide be it's height, scale of attractiveness, income, status, networking.
So Women are resource extractors and men always have been the providers.
Men selects women on beauty and youth. And men expect loyalty, trust and respect.
And no matter how independent women are they'll always expect the men to be better.
👍 you always have the best comments man! Everything you written is true.
@@glaubenix1179 yes, a shark is a shark no matter the ocean.
@@mizum3458 nice username.
Where can I meet you, love guru ?
@@dr.ranajay you can meet him once you've taken enough pills to understand that he knows just as much about whamins nature as doctors understand the human body... And your karma has it become so to meet my good neighbors and the army of pillers all around all of us dedicated to bring awareness. Or just watch read his quotes and learn more of this content. You will improve quickly 💪
"Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other." - Al Bundy
It the classic.
Women are easy to understand. Their entire mystery is hollow and empty. They are children masquerading as adults.
SSM 👍
My late wife was one of the least materialistic people I've ever met. One such example of this was when we got engaged. I had a matching engagement/wedding ring set which was from a previous engagement in my prior relationship. My late wife suggested (she suggested, not me. I didn't even hint at the idea) we just have those rings resized & cleaned for her rather than spending thousands on new ones. There aren't very many women out there who would be happy with rings originally given to someone else, let alone for it to have been their own idea. I fell in love with her all over again in that moment. because what that gesture proved to me was, that it wasn't any materialistic thing I could give her that she valued me for. It proved to me that she valued me for me. & It proved to me that it wasn't the rings, the dress, or the day that mattered to her. What mattered most to her was that at the end of that day she would be my wife & I would be her husband.
My wife is the same. 25 years together. We are not close to millionaires. But that was never our goal.
@@dang75790 that's really awesome mate. 25 year is a massive accomplishment is todays day & age. I unfortunately wasn't so lucky. I only got 14 months as her husband (5 years together in total) before she passed at only 37yo. We got married on the 24th of March 2018, & she passed on the 6th of June 2019. Little did I know that our honeymoon would have been the last holiday I would ever get to go on with her again.
@jeremy weekes I'm truly sorry. Thank you for your comment.
A piece me wants to believe there isn't a catch, but so many channels and comments, as well as stories from men and vids of girls exposing themselves, makes me wonder if she married you for some OTHER superficial reason.
Maybe looks, height, or possibly something not every man can be?
Just paranoid.
@@dang75790 out of curiosity mate, what's your trick &, or secret? 25 years is an accomplishment few manage to reach, & is no small achievement.
Had a friend at my first job go through this exact same thing. Woman spent his money like it was going out of style, buying all new furniture for their house, every 6 months, etc.
When he had to work more to cover the bills she was wracking up, she cheated with and then left him for an unemployed loser. Wild.
They can't understand normal thinking, and it's a problem
Very common. Some women want the fruits of men’s labour but ALSO denigrate the man for never being home and then justify their monkey branching as being unhappy.
Modern women: Being a good man is not enough.
Yes it is. For most good, psychologically healthy and stable women, a good man is what they look for. Move on from RP, it's clearly training you to only think the worst.
Female "good man" = top 10% of looks, money, status (Chad) pay pig, task monkey, consultant (Beta Bob)
Male "good man" = solid character, humor, charisma
@@DB742 No, this answer shows your ignorance about good women. A good man, is one that cares about you, supports you, is genuinely kind, doesn't manipulate or abuse you (physically or verbally), one that can empathise with you, etc. As I said in my previous reply, good women, with these traits themselves, will go after good guys who also have these traits. No healthy woman wants a cheating narcissist who throws cash at them in substitution for a real relationship with love, trust, intimacy and loyalty.
@@DB742Where did the term 'Bob' originate?
Curious
I'm starting to understand why you have problems with women.
Yes and the husband also bought HER.
Exactly mate.
@@James-dt7ky ayo bruh
You get what you pay for
Right 😂
A man without a career is a "loser", a man with a career "neglects" his woman. Ah, the classic dilemma. Good luck, girls, at finding a wealthy high status guy who's working halftime.
Their dream is to find a 6'4, handsome, fit, well endowed 25 year old billionaire, who doesn't work yet his money keeps increasing, and only travels the world partying and fancydining with them nonstop.
@@mrdouche9172very immature mindset 😅 and unrealistic
My ex-wife was obsessed with comparison. She was always on IG late at night (1AM, 2AM in the morning) comparing her life and her lifestyle to her friends. She would then spend all her time moaning and complaining about her reality versus someone else's IG highlight reel. These women will also prioritize her friends over you as the husband.
I fell in love with a woman that at the start seemed like a good match. She would tell me about her former boyfriend who was wealthy and who trash heaped her one day when he got fed up with her and immediately had her replacement living with him. We were looking for a house to buy and she found a massive one that she liked. To make a long story short I said no I'm not buying it. Well she ghosted me. She said she liked things and implied I should provide them. After mullinig around for a weekend I dumped her. She was engaged to another guy within a year. I dodged a bullet.
"She would tell me about her former boyfriend who was wealthy." --> If you learned your lesson you will leave and run on the first time a girl starts to speak about "wealthy ex".
Especially if he broke up with her, that's a red flag.
*The post-Feminist fairy tale:*
_A handsome Prince asked an empowered __-toxic self absorbed-__ female to marry him and she said "No"_
_And so the handsome Prince got to ride his motorcycles whenever he liked and drove fast cars whenever he liked and he went out with his friends whenever he liked and dated cute skinny girls half his age and drank beer (not Budweiser) and Bourbon (not Jack Daniels) and drank the milk straight from the carton and_
*_never heard any f|_|cking nagging_*
_and went to rock concerts and he never got cheated on while he was away or at work and he got to keep his house and his jeans and sweat-top and hoodie and all of his friends and family thought he was a cool as Hell and he had tons of money_
*_and he got to leave the toilet seat up ... in other words he lived Happily Ever After_*
_The End_
But he never got laid.
@@jasonwilliams8321 *Read it again:*
_and he went out with his friends whenever he liked and dated cute skinny girls half his age_
*Let me guess: you skimmed over that bit*
@@jasonwilliams8321 of course he got laid. He never laid next to them for long and moved on to the next one. Good to enjoy a different recipe. You don’t eat the same meal daily do you?
Technically, Jack Daniels is a whiskey 😆😅🤔 That said, I'm pickin' up what you're layin' down, brother.
@@bws1971 _Technically, Jack Daniels is a whiskey_
*Technically, Jack Daniels has Dylan Mulvaney as their "brand ambassador"*
*Technically, that means they hate their customer base*
*Technically, that means that after Budweiser (the company) is brought to it's corporate knees, Jack Daniels can expect similar treatment*
*But beyond the technical.. I raise a glass of some non-trans-"mission" fluid to your good self in the spirit of easy banter*
Social media is ruining young women like porn is ruining young men.
Highly doubt p0rn should even come close to be compared to this insanity most men are watching it because they would rather be alone…also data showed 80% of women watch prn as well it has went up by a lot in the last years
And video games
Porn is not ruining anything
If you have a half a brain you know that porn is BS
It’s All Vanity
The worse , the better
By design
I’m beyond thankful for both my parents. They cared for each other and us the children. We didn’t have much, but we were never hungry. I hope be like my father and to find a woman like my mother.
That era is gone.
It doesn't matter if you're rich or poor. They aren't loyal. When times are good, they will stick with you. When times are bad, you better believe they will ditch you like a bad habit. I don't think I've met a single solitary woman on the planet that didn't monkey branch her way from one man to another.
With the internet, mobile phones and social media, it's easier than ever for them to do it and to do it with minimal consequences.
@@JJ-wi2uw but we can still give them beat downs outside the internet
so well put
Women are more physically vulnerable than men - in our evolutionary history, that meant being without protection from a man, very dangerous. In that instance, of course women would evolve to "monkey branch" - if some of your female ancestors hadn't have done that for protection, you might not be here to complain about them today.
she not your it just your turn
Did he really just say, "When your girlfriend tells you a funny joke, that makes you laugh?" When the hell would that ever happen?
Some of the funniest people I've ever met have been women. None of them were my girlfriend though.
@@ripace554 you need to meet more people
@@marcusgrey2075 Why? I seem to have met the right ones already.
I have a female friend from Glasgow who is legitimately one of the funniest people I've ever met. Very quick wit.
@@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM Well, I must be lucky, because I've known several. Another woman I worked with in Liverpool was also very funny. She was married to a fireman, and one day we jokingly asked her if she had ever made her husband wear his fireman's helmet during lovemaking. She replied without missing a beat, "No. But I might have worn it."
The whole office cracked up.
I'm starting to understand why you might have problems with women
I love how objective, logical and thoughtful your videos are. Never any hate or malice in anything you say.
i think if he were to be wrong about something, we would miss it, because of how well he presents everything
@@mangakasaide2166 He is wrong about things but for me it is not this video.
The male ego and male thirst always f*cks them up.
Totally! Don’t forget the male self loathing neglecting other men and boys and male jealousy and elder male bitterness towards youth men…
Yep many gumps think with their dicks instead of brains. Just like in this story. A man with a brain would say no but he didn’t because of the thirst to please her to get stank box is pathetic
the female ego and thirst for Chad f*cks them up.
❤
@JJ-wi2uw Funny how most of your recent comments are on men dating channel. You must be a very sad and bitter person. 😊
Yep. This comparison model destroyed my marriage.
Nice dog. Spiritual conquest is the way to go. Jesus
One of the truest videos you've made, that resonated with me so deeply, to the point where I feel a heaviness in my heart...
Better than a lightness in your wallet
@@patienceobongo, money might not buy you happiness, but it can buy you _drugs_ that'll bring you happiness! ;-)
*Disclaimer:* That's a _joke,_ don't try it at home, kids!
Never go out of your way to make a woman happy because you can never make a woman happy. No matter what you do, it's never enough. Nothing is ever enough for them. You can cure her cancer and she'll still say that's not enough. So glad I am staying single for my whole life. I don't need the headache.
I understand your point..but to stay that you’re glad that you will be single all your life is a lie.
no woman will ever strike her claws into my flesh
Bachelor forever or sausage gobbler crew?
@@Mike-LitorisSoBig Bachelor forever, as an extreme introvert it feels natural to me anyway. always been a loner, never cried myself into sleep.
@@nestroit5010 Make sure you have good guy friends, though. We men need firendships
@@inconnu4961 I am popular in my family, social circle and at work, its me who just prefers to stay alone.
I won't be a sausage jockey bachelor forever sounds good
TBH I had a beautiful ex gf who was a black hole and wanted children, but it was more of a obsession to her, she wanted to marry very fast. Well, now shes 37, she still very beautiful (geneticly gifted, im younger than her and even my younger friends says shes beautiful, still gets a lot of attetion) but got divorced for the third time. We reconected after her last divorce so we remember the old times (lol) and its kind a sad once she opened up… She said that dont want marriage and kids anymore and is very lost in life, taking antidepressives, feels that dont have a purpose and dont know what to do. I cant help but to think she brought this on herself.
She made her purpose being a f$&@ hole for men in constant searching of mr right and winds up settling for me right now
Buy her some cat litter
She probably needs an Ayahuasca trip. Maybe ibogaine. Sounds more like the former to me, but I can’t say for certain.
My Man, You keep up the good work. Shout out from México
What are you doing here??? I thought the whamins in Mexico are different from the whamins in slave countries? Just curious. 😐
@@mizum3458 wrong, smartphones and social media westernized all of them, come to Perú and see it for yourself.
@@mizum3458
They are all 304s and whats worse, passed 19 they quickly decay and hit the wall to become huge beasts.
exactly this happened to me. I should have figured it out earlier when i badly broke both feet meeting her never ending needs for money that when she came home and saw me with both legs in a cast asked me how long i will be off work. When i seed 8 weeks she burst into tears and screamed why do you do this to me. Do you hate me. WOW
A woman will never ever truly unconditionally love you. It's just the way it is. Don't take them seriously.
My dad was a hard worker. They got married in 1958 i think, both having been raised traditionally. My dad drank when my mom met him. Both are white caucasian, with light eyes.
They had 4 children. Girl, boy, girl, girl.
By the time i was 12 (1972) the marriage was already in trouble. My mom increasingly influenced by feminism and hollywood (increasingly portraying dark haired/eyed men as hero's, while in the 60ies it was still mostly light)
We, children mostly traditionally raised, but increasingly affected by modernity. Among which is feminism.
Quarrels increased between my parents. My dad, a very sensitive man and my mom actually pretty strong minded. And as such things go, when a quarrel erupts and children are there, the man's expression is quickly scary, while mom seems safe. (maybe its tone of voice). Even though they tried to hide it, it only takes one time for a pattern to set in,
So children then move closer to mom. And my dad, sensitive as he was, must have immediately felt it, but was unable to react or fix this.
So a block formed against my dad. All against dad.
My mom blamed his drinking.
By 1980 they divorced.
Soon after i heard my mom say about men "he has such beautifull dark eyes and hair'. And i was surprised, bc we were all light haired and light eyed. Where did that come from and did this mean i wasnt attractive???
Since i was the only 'man' and mostly influenced by my mom and sisters, it F'd me up good. Thank god that the basis was right, but the effects of this all, were bad for 3 out of 4 children.
Since my youngest sister was still quite small, we (mom and the 3 older children) tried to keep that youngest out of all the trouble that was an almost daily routine at some point. It wasnt pretty...
Both my parents got into a new relationship, which posed problems in itself for us. They are both long gone now and the saddest thing there is that even the funerals are 'tainted' bc of those new partners they found. Odd things happen then.
For us; my sisters and me:
My oldest sister, now 65, has never had a long term relationship. When she was 17 she dated for a year or so with a guy. Nothing since. I dont think she has se>< either. And ofcourse no children. She has difficulty with men. We've often talked about all this, but she's unable to see things differently. I mean, when i show her facts, she can up to an extent accept those facts, but she never wants to work with it. She always says she is not like that. And she isnt. The problem is that what she is, doesnt fit with the rest of society. It never did, bc part of it is based on a lie. Its sad.
Me, my longest relationship was 9 years and i have 2 daughters. We split in 1997 and i havent been able to find someone. I gave up some 16 or 17 years ago, after a few disasters. No sex since. And all of this also destroyed the relationship with my daughters, who are even more influenced with modern BS.
I was high IQ, high performing and because of things, saw through a lot, early on. All the illusions and lies, but it left me with one illusion that i just couldnt give up; love. And that one broke me. Of course. Bc the more illusions you swipe off the table, the more important the remaining one(s) become. We have to believe in something, so i knowlingly decided id keep the illusion of love, bc thats the only one thats possible (for some time). But it broke me, as i was and still want to be, deeply in love with that one. Im 63 now and the chance on that is long gone. Because im stuck at age 30 or something. My body doesnt agree.
I ended up in prison even. I guess thats when ive had enough. I dont need anyone to be miserable. And its much safer alone. Not nice though. I decided that chance on happiness just wasnt worth the risc anymore. I cant trust anyone anymore. And am obviously very damaged goods, so which decent woman would even come close to me? Cant blame them...
My next sister, was a 'hotty' back in the day. And she sure dated a lot. Ended up with 4 boys, from 3 different fathers... and is single. Dont know how long now, but it all failed time and time again.
She was a handfull. A nice person as long as everything is fine, but oh boy when her relationship(s) was in trouble. Then she got completely unreasonable and dragged everyone in the disaster.
I mean, to illustrate that. She once had a BF, father of 2 of hers and he had a good job and they bought a house. But it was old and needed a whole lot of fixing up. So i was helping him with that. And one day, it seemed they had gotten into a fight. I thought, well ok, they will make up and its no reason to stop working on their house, right? So i went there and worked with him. At some point my sis called me and said i needed to come over. I said ok. He was laughing and said "now youve done it". We laughed about it.
As i got to her house, where she still lived, she was mad at me and started yelling. I tried to defend by saying they would get back together, bc they had fights at times and the work on the house needed to go on, right? She said NO and that they had broken up and i wasnt allowed to work there. (all for free btw,.... for her) and she got violent; slapped me, scratched me and ripped my t shirt in half. So i said ok ok, ill stop working on it.
So i drove back there and i didnt have to even say "look at me" bc he saw immediately. And he laughed that she had ripped my shirt in half. So i said im sorry, but ive got to stop helping you. He understood of course. Well i could laugh about it too, but was also embarrassed and what have you.
Oh man, she was a handfull.
Anywise, she is more stable now, as shes 60 and not in 'the market' anymore.
And then my youngest sister (which we tried to keep out of the trouble). She's i would say a high value woman. She's fair, friendly, helpfull, good morals, good looking, hard working (in a man's setting!), stable, realistic, etc. She didnt date much with different men. Eventually married a friend. Not a great looker or great intellect, or huge status, but a regular pretty decent guy. Theyve had some trouble, but are still together. And had 2 children. Theyve got a nice house. 2 cars. Etc etc.
While all the rest of us, didnt only fail wrt relationships, but also wrt carreer, even social group, etc. We all keep our heads above water, but barely.
I know, this is just one story, but its pretty illustrative to how F destroys marriages and leaves children with even less of a chance of a succesfull life and a chance to happiness.
In the 80ies already there were studies published (still have some..) on how the chances were lowered to a long term relationship, for children from broken marriages. I remember talking with my older sis about it and how we were Fu.k.d. But we didnt know how to fix ourselves. I still dont, bc ive been taught the wrong things, and even though i KNOW it all, i cannot change much. And its all too late now anyway. Too old now.
I mean, even with knowing what i know now; i still want to put that one woman on a pedestal, even though i know you should never (openly) do so. I still want to be completely honest with that one, bc in my head, it cannot be real love if im not. But i know you cant be, bc women cant deal with that. I mean, maybe there is one that can. Yea, find that one. I have some theorethical, perfect picture in my head of what love should be. Its completely unrealistic. I KNOW that now. But i cant change it. Even if i had to do it all again, id be more succesfull, for sure, but i still would fail probably. Because my idea of love is wrong. Or as another guy once said, some 25 years ago, when we were talking about it and i said i wanted true love, he said "you have a better chance of getting that island you want for yourself, than that". And i KNEW it was true. But i couldnt change what i wanted.
Its unbelievable how much damage F... did.
dude, that story was riveting and well-told. It had my complete attention from start to finish. Thanks for sharing it.
@@slchance8839 ty m8 ;]
Thank you! I always get a bit of a chuckle out of the social media-addicted. I mean, all I can do is laugh cause I wanna cry since it's so sad they're so dependent on a device to show them where they are in life. Perhaps looking inward and finding out FOR REAL where you are in life is the true key.
A story I heard over radio years ago has stuck with me, a guy calls to the show and says that he feels humiliated & betrayed by his wife, he said 3 nights ago my wife told me she wanted a new coat that she saw and he said "not right now, in one week I will get my pay check and I will buy it for you" then she got angry and said "well if you can't I will go with someone who will" and she left, he thought she was just making a tantrum but 3 days after right before the call she arrives with the coat and more gifts.
That was actually a very good thing for that man because he now know exactly who his wife really is and he can now part ways with her. If he does not, it's on him.
I honestly believed this is a learned behavior and by this I mean it was instilled in them since childhood. For example, fathers treating their girls as Disney Princesses, pedestalize and giving them all they wanted.
Oh daddy I want this candy or oh daddy I want this toy, etc... whatever it is, it goes on and on and what happened is the dad over spoiled their girls at a very early age. This behavior is then ingrained in their psyche so when they're adults, they act exactly the same way as though they are children in adult's bodies.
Also, another thing that will help in a child's development is spanking. I was spanked plenty when I was a child everytime I was out of line and that instilled in me a sense of right and wrong and overall integrity. Seeing the state of the world right now, I'm very grateful my parents spanked me when I was a little. It made me who I am today. I understand things better, otherwise I would be growing up in a state of bliss and joy all the time from being over spoiled that my worldview would be completely different from what it is now.
@@VersionBest
Agreed, women need more spanking. MUCH more spanking.
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@@VersionBestExperiencing trauma as a child does not help your brain develop. It’s weird to hear people normalize hitting kids. That actually affects how your brain develops like the amygdala and hippocampus.
Read your Bible woman.
Mate you weren’t born on Earth,you were placed here.thank you so much,some how your truth doesn’t sting so much,and the truth rings hard.never stop🙏🏾
this is the best video you made in 4 years, please more videos about how to seperate someone datable and undatable with a simple question you can ask online or on the first date. Well done
I know it is not easy to find happiness, but one of the keys is to find yourself first. This is why there are so many men who are single and happy. They found themselves. I do not understand some women or men who are jumping from one relationship to another, trying to find happiness. At the end, they just found chaos. Happiness is free, but it is worth gold.
I think the same applies to women - in general, people should firstly find themselves, know their goal in life, gain self awareness, find out how to be happy alone, and then look for a relationship
Almost every answer from my ex was, idk, maybe, I guess. < The most exhausting 8 yrs of my life.
They can't think.
mine was: Not that, again?!, cant we go/do something else? When I asked her what she wanted the answer was always idk or an hour long response with no conclusion ever.
She couldnt understand when I left her and begged me for a second chance - the nagging would stop. It did for like 2-3 weeks and than we were back. Didnt even seem to notice cuz she seemed as surprised and devastated as the 1st time - which wasnt even a month ago.
You'll never get any clear answer from a woman since a clear answer would somehow mean taking responsibility, and THAT women will never do. The male role is to decide, the female role is to criticize him afterwards even though he asked (vainly of course) for her opinion. Besides, most of the time women don't even know what they really want, all they dimly know is that they want "more", something "different", something "better", whatever that may be. Thus to them a man always has it wrong, and is never good enough.
@@patienceobongoyou can choose a woman that actually thinks
@AnnaAnna2549 I’m not sure any of them can. Not as ruthlessly and pragmatically as is sometimes necessary.
“ I’m so so much better at sitting in a contemplating nature” you just described 90% of the hippies
You are the man. What a good video. Never heard this laid out like this before. One of the best videos ive seen on relationships in some time. Excellent excellent content.
Happiness in life doesn't come from the material but from within. More people should understand that the pursuit of luxury is a sure road to nihilism. Adding on the topic of the "empty void" Alex mentioned reminds me of what Thomas Aquinas said: "Nothing created has ever been able to fill the heart of man."
100% agree. If you meet a woman like this, don't walk away, run for your life.
The sad thing is, she thinks she‘s smart and clever.
It's tough to accept that having good communication with a woman may just reveal that you are not right for her, but better earlier than later.
Sounds like such a common situation. I see it happening to my brother too where his wife got everything she wanted yet it never seems to be enough and she at the end of the day is asking for a divorce now
Yes it has to do with ego, and also a lot of people think everyone is same so everyone can change to good as they are .
I struggles with this because I also thought everyone is same . But in an opposite direction, like if I see a bad behaviour I don't like from one person id think everyone else is evil too and this is the norm.
There was a point in my life where I thought this is the case so I stuck around with my toxic friends when I was 17.
Now tho especially thanks to you Alexander grace for teaching me that people are on spectrum like low quality people and high quality people. And what are high quality the behaviours and low quality ones.
It has helped me ton , reduced a ton of suffering and abuse that came from me hanging around toxic people.
I can't thank you enough.
Thank you, these are some really good insights you have brought to light. I look at a person as if they're happy with what they have versus being unhappy with what they don't have.
TL;DR Ex-wife compared our relationship to that of her brother and his wife, which caused her to spiral out of control and for me to end up with majority custody of our children.
My exwife would compare how we were doing to her brother and his wife (long term girlfriend at the time). The problem with the comparison was that she wasn't accounting for the fact that her father made a youtube channel with her brother. Her brother stopped making videos while her father didn't. yet even though her brother wasn't making videos he is still able to collect half of the money made from the channel.
I pointed this out to her several times and she just would listen to reason. Then, along with the depression that she put herself in because of constantly conpairing our life to theirs, she started to lie about going to work becasue "well my sister-in-law doesn't work and they are able to make it". After which she would steal medications and spend every last dime we had on the dollar tree to make her self feel better. She would also steal clothes from donation sites and give things that costed a lot of money to buy away from free (even thing our children were still playing with) for the warm fuzzy that it gave her.
After putting up with it for about 6 months and trying to work with her to get through it, i filed for divorce and ended up with 67% "Parenting time" (custody) of our kids. She has gone around telling everyone that I'm the one at fault because I cheated.
I won't give myself a way out on this I did cheat. The way I cheated wasn't the normal way a man would cheat I never cheated physically. I cheated emotionally, I was ready to be done so I started talking to other people. After watching Alexander's channel for so long I realize I should have acted differently and I know I made several mistakes. I wasn't thinking about the subtle clues she was leaving that were telling me that she was a low quality woman. I also wasn't thinking about what my actions were doing to myself.
Thank you Alexander for helping people like me to understand what it is that we need to improve on.
Best of luck to you.
Social media now, magazines before social media became fashionable
I‘m so grateful to talk to a woman who has a private instagram account, who barely uses thar app anyways and who doesn’t mind that I‘m not earning a ton of money in my future career because she understands that this will bring more joy to me than money.
O Sweet Caroline oh oh oh
Good for you man, wish you both all the best ❤️
Oh the delusion lol
"My car , my phone , my husband ... he bought it.
The hunk from gym, oh just a friend... my husband he bought it."
'My husband, he bought it.' And in the next breath: 'Ayma stroong eendeependent woooman!' 😂😂😂
Having an internal locus of control can be difficult for anyone. We don’t completely control anything external to ourselves. We only truly control our perception.
This is why I really don't listen to my wife I always give her what she needs and minimize the things she wants.
Yup. She's going to get comfortable and expect that you give her what she wants.
When a woman says "I don't know" she means "I don't want to give you the honest answer". Noticed that many times over my nearly 60 years
This video make me insecure about relationship with women even more
I didn't find any décent women outside, going back to the cave...
It should make you more secure... the juice isn't worth the squeeze. Avoid women and grow a better man. And if one comes around, never forget: it is only temporary. And if you are the one ending it, power to you. A woman is a nice accessory, but not a must have. Go cheap, protect your wallet and wrap your pole!
@@x-a- I have a décent woman inside my cave, locked in a cage
@@alainportant6412 Can you trade me the cage keys for a few cents buddy? Just let me hit rly fast
@@x-a- I think its dead so it's going to be for parts only
I saw where the intro story was going the instant the husband was pressured to work harder/longer hours.
It's an important distinction to note that although it may appear so, women aren't really concerned with material possessions, per se: What they desire, almost more than anything, is social validation, particularly from their chosen peer group. Men think in materialistic, linear terms. We build things. Women think in terms of social networks. They relate, and seek out social sources of support. What this means, in practical terms, is that a woman may appear completely "non-materialistic" externally, and yet she is still constantly assessing the social value of you, the things you provide her, and the people in her life. This can lead to a sort of "meta-materialism" that puts an unseen price tag on everything, including you and the other people in her life.
This is the first video of your channel I have seen and the audio is perfect (meaning that I don't have to use subtitles to understand what is being said). The content is also perfect.
and you summed up the video within the first minute and a half.
In Australia; should you end up in a marriage or a "defacto" relationship that is recognised by the law, then dare you disappoint her in your provisioning and/or how you treat her and she no longer "loves" you or wants to be with you; then she has the option of divorce raping you of assets (e.g. a house) that you had before you even met her.
Hi JJ,
I have heard that in Australia if a man dates a woman for at least 3 months - just dating without marriage, no children, nothing else - he is still financially responsible for her if she goes to court. Is that true?
In every western country, women can sleep with you for a single night and assert that it was a "defacto" relationship to take your house for years without a conviction of any crime. Defacto has such a loose definition, a woman can claim that even without living or sleeping together.
Honestly, I think the only way to fix this is for more men to realize that it is possible. The exact steps to execute this:
1) As the woman, have sex with your male partner, preferably with genetic material in tow
2) Go to a women's shelter and report domestic abuse and future/on-going fear for her safety
3) Use that report to obtain a restraining order AKA peace bond (lower standard of proof required in civil court)
4) Obtain exclusive possession of home (and any other assets) using the report from the shelter and restraining order
5) Enjoy the man's home + car + other assets listed in the exclusive possession order for 1~2 years while the man has to continue to pay for all the home and car payments
How can she get assets that he accumulated before knowing her.
@@markushaase2350 not 3 months. I think it’s 12 months. I need verification if they can take half. I’ve never lived with a girlfriend in my own home (I was debt-free and owned it). Most women had nothing or very little. Those with their own investments were less risk to me as they’d lose out too if they tried anything on me.
I am unsure if a woman can take half if they lived with a guy for 12 months? I am unsure so I never lived with one. If they can, it needs to be changed. It’s a rort.
Such great insight.
Many years ago I spent four years trying to make a relationship work with a woman with this mindset.
My life was turned upside down, and it took me a long to to put the pieces of my life back together.
My husband got lucky with me. I am the opposite of most women. I don't like to compare myself to other people, I'm not materialistic, hate material possessions, don't like receiving gifts, like simplicity, am a homebody, hate wearing make-up, never spend more than 30 minutes at the hairdressers, don't have long nails, have no social media (only UA-cam)have never taken a selfie, and am happy when I'm home with my husband and son with me. All I need is sunshine, a book to read, a place to walk, the internet (to read) and yoga plus my husband and son. That's it. My husband buys more stuff than I do and I'm the one that has to keep him in check!
"I am the opposite of most women. I don't like to compare myself to other people." --> Women are experts in contradicting themselves!
Chichi
I'm starting to understand why you might have problems with women.
Janet Jackson told us a long time ago. “What have you done for “Me” lately.
Women changes expectations
Remember fellas, TIME is the most valuable resource we have to give to our family!
You nailed this one, Alexander! Cheers!
This turned out the best general life advice I heard in a long time
Women want what other women have, especially their friends. That's you can't win, you constantly have to keep up with her friends and their lives.
No, I don't. I would be a fool to live my life the way anybody else want (my wife included).
@@Dandan-tg6tj Yeah but that's where she decides that you're no longer compatible and don't share the same interests.
@@Strider9655 Good riddance, then, haha. I can have younger than she is in her place.
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This was a great perspective Alexander. You hit something uncomfortable in my recent partner decisions.
This video is absolutely fantastic! Thank you so much for creating it.
8:30 oh, that relates to "dating market value".
Lot's of talks about it feels toxic. But I couldn't figure out why.
Superiority vs happiness. Yes!
I'm a woman and listening to talks about "value on a market" made me anxious cause it draws me to social rat race and kinda puts a price tag on me.
But my true happiness and love always come from inside.
I'm priceless as a person.
Thanks you.
If you think you've met a dream woman, you just don't know her well enough.
Exactly true 95% of the time.
Happiness is a fleeting feeling that comes and goes throughout our life. A person that chases happiness will end up miserable
The key is to balance it out. Find the passions and stuff you love doing, while still be able to afford that lifestyle. For most men it's hobbies and not the newest most expensive car.
I know when this went wrong. It's when he wanted to please his wife. This is something you never do by default. I know that there are people who would say I'm a bad man. No I am not. The more you give and give to a woman, she will want always more. There is no end for what a woman wants. Be wise and say no. You'll thank me later when you're wiser and able to understand why you should tell her no..
If they can’t answer a question it generally means they are embarrassed by what they refuse to say.
My church is on a many weeks long journey called ‘walking toward happiness’ and so far it’s been made clear happiness is not a destination, it’s an attitude you have along the way to wherever we go in life
This is the exact 100% accurate depiction of my ex gf. Unfortunately I only found this out after the 5 year relationship was over.
Will chalk this up as a good learning experience.
Little nugget of gold from Star Wars Jedi Survivor, the happiest people find compromise somewhere between what they have and what they want.
Yeah I was talking to a girl I met once and she told me she had "goals". So I asked her what they were and she couldn't expand on them. It's as if she was only saying this to look good. Yeah bad sign.
I got goals I just forgot what they were
If the dating app woman says "shopping" as one of her hobbies, that's an automatic left swipe no matter how hot she is.
"Pride [i.e. arrogance] gets no pleasure out of having something, only out of having more of it than the next man. We say that people are proud of being rich, or clever, or good-looking, but they are not. They are proud of being richer, or cleverer, or better-looking than others. If everyone else became equally rich, or clever, or good-looking there would be nothing to be proud about. It is the comparison that makes you proud: the pleasure of being above the rest." (C. S. Lewis)
They want support of their lifestyle, not just their lives.
Feminism = I want to be a CONSOOMER and I want to pay The Man Tax
It went wrong at "hello".
If there's something I've learned is that you give women as little as you can get away with If for some reason you still want to be in a relationship. I don't see why you would in this day and age but to each their own.
Ah, okay, so I now know why I had an ick (haha) with the girl who always tried to look younger on that self-portrait app.
And she would gladly cheat with the successful friend's husband.
i can only confirm this having seen it in my mother. she switched her focus from herself on me but continued to keep comparing everything every time. she always used to focus on me and compare me to other kids at school and in general, which i always hated
Same bro
Pre-nups and rigorous self discipline is the way forward.
Arrived here sharply
W alexanader and his uploads .
An excellent podcast. Very interesting - if there was a rating system I'd give this five stars.
The cutest girl in my graduating highschool class never partied in highschool so that her parents would give her a brand new jeep at graduation.
She was so idolized by most dudes it went to her head , never dated for fear of being ruined, was home coming queen etc..
She then butchered herself with plastic surgery in college.. Like she be ugggli after , awkward and not even close to natural!!!
Guess who has low self esteem and a drinking problem now ?
Careful what ya wish for, its a long road, life.
A G. Your the absolute Best interpiture of womenese ! Ancient philosophers thru the ages have attempted explaining this unpredictable apparent inconsistencies ,only to fall short... It's like you discovered the ROSETTA STONE , Between realty and womanese ..
Guys, to many women you are an ATM or a way to satisfy her carnal desires; or both. But nothing else. Sad reality.
I had a stunning 6' tall blonde eastern European GF and whilst things were good in the beginning, she hadn't done the work on her early life traumas and healthy relationship dynamics, Red flags came up for me. She got jealous of me and other women (I am the most loyal guy you'll meet). Bit by bit she damaged the relationship, she looked through my phone whilst my back was turned, accused me of talking to another woman, but when I said look at the date on that message (3 years ago) I didn't even get an apology.
There were other very childish games being played too and she started to have a superiority complex about relationships and psychology too. Rather than discussing things, she saw me as the student. (the reality was very different).
Bit by bit it was going downhill.
The last straw for me was secretly recording conversations at my parents house and then again in the car. When she told me this (she was baiting me with bizarre questions) I said that is it, I am done. She was incredibly good looking too, such a shame she hadn't done the deeper work to sustain a proper relationship.
100% I used to date a ridiculously good-looking eastern european girl, but over the course of 4 months, she gradually became a human jackal....and she was not pleasant at the beginning, either, so it was bad all around.
she was the prettiest i'd ever been with so i gave her too many chances but deep down,i knew she was rotten to the core.
and....she proved me right.
Every man should do what that footballer did by putting everything in his mothers name. So just in case she wants to divorce you she gets nothing.
@@James-dt7ky true but that’s not realistic some men will still get married. So why not protect yourself if you do.
Thank you. Very true words.
Happyness comes from inside and we all have different things, who makes us happy, because of our different needs to grow.
The important thing is, that it comes from yourself, what makes you happy and not influenced by others. Maybe inspired, but then do it your own way. 😉
This is the fable of the fisherman and his wife. He discovers a magical fish who will grant wishes. So his wife asks for a bigger house and the fish gives him a bigger house. Then a palace, and they get a palace. Then she wants to be God, so the fish grants the wish. Then the fisherman asks for his wife to be happy with what they have. So they go back to the way they were before and lived happily ever after.
*Then there's the post-Feminist fairy tale:*
_A handsome Prince asked an empowered __-toxic self absorbed-__ female to marry him and she said "No"_
_And so the handsome Prince got to ride his motorcycles whenever he liked and drove fast cars whenever he liked and he went out with his friends whenever he liked and dated cute skinny girls half his age and drank beer (not Budweiser) and Bourbon (not Jack Daniels) and drank the milk straight from the carton and _*_never heard any f|_|cking nagging_*_ and went to rock concerts and he never got cheated on while he was away or at work and he got to keep his house and his jeans and sweat-top and hoodie and all of his friends and family thought he was a cool as Hell and he had tons of money _*_and he got to leave the toilet seat up ... in other words he lived Happily Ever After_*
_The End_
@@ozsteamer2755 You do realise that leaving toilet cover up spreads bacteria, making your home as good as homeless camp right?