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Her: Men commit self-deletion because they don't talk about their feelings
Also her: Men are trash and don't have any problems
Stop it, you're *literally* twisting her words!
🙄🤣
also she only dates the top 5% of the most attractive men and they all act like this because they get all the free validation from women so they can afford to act like this.
@@quincy189 or she's probably just lesbian especially since she hates men this much
The root of the problem
@@quincy189
I would argue that women do NOT covet the most attractive men.
They instead covet the most high value men, and physical attractiveness is merely one corner of the equation.
The equation for male Sexual Market Value is (Looks + Money + Status + Charisma = SMV)
Looks: Tall, muscular, and/or chiseled men can get hot women chasing even when they're broke, losers, and/or dull and boring.
Money: Donald Trump, Harvey Weinstein, and anyone with a new Mercedes can get hot women chasing despite their age & fitness level, even if they were dull and boring nobodies.
Status: Men with higher positions of respect, power, and/or authority can get hot women chasing, even when they're broke, average looking, and/or boring. (Theoretically)
Charisma: (Game) Men with excellent social skills that can make people happy and laugh and feel certain ways can get hot women chasing through personality alone, even if they were broke, average looking losers. Like Charles Manson, or Kevin Hart if he worked at Walmart.
Insult a women in the same way she insulted him, and it's called abuse. If your female it's called empowerment. Actually it's called BS.
*you're
@@Alnivol666 you have just destroyed his argument.
@@Brukner841 Was not trying to. He's right. Am just your friendly neighborhood grammar nazi. Nice to meet you
@@Alnivol666 Wow dude look at yourself. Look what you are doing. Cat profile pic, correcting people's grammar. Corny replies. I really hope you aren't a grown man.
Actually it's called Misandry
This brought a thought. Women accusing us of misogyny is their reflection of the hate they have for men. Men normally don’t hate women. To find an actual misogynist is so hard because men tempt to want to be with women. Women tempt to hate men based on their choice of men. Weird stuff.
And I don't know why. After all women have done to us. I know that I personally don't like them anymore. I mean really I don't care. What are they going to do? Chances are they've already done it.
To hell with them! I don't care about them. Or like them. They can all disintegrate for all i care.
Classic projection
Maybe, but been to those manosphere videos where the men in the comment sections are like "all women" - are basically terrible. World is falling apart because of women and they never have anything to do with a woman again.
lol
tend to*
The better I understand women, the more I kind of don’t like most of them as people.
"Never argue with a stupid person. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience." - Mark Twain
Any argument I might win with my xwife always had a quick segway to something I did 12 yrs ago. This is where you shake your head and walk away.
@steveburke7675 I was always super impressed when my ex wife would be screaming at me, the phone rings and she calmly answers it without any emotion. Fake!
Bro you hit it and everyone is missing this point. Anyone acting this way needs to be permanently avoided at all costs. Severely toxic, hard hearted, toxic and possibly on the narcissist psychopath spectrum.
I feel like my IQ dropped 10 points watching this young woman operate.
That was a woman?
@@ramdom_assortment @^@ oi vey...
😂
No it should’ve risen knowing you’re not as stupid as her 😉
I haven't got a lot to spare in saying that ! Only 10 ..... 〽️
Super impressed with the young guy, he was keeping his cool & made a lot of sense. She knew that she was wrong, but she didn’t want to lose face so she kept going with her nonsense.
which ironically makes her look way worse. So she is doubling down fearing social punishment (being caught in a lie), but her solution is to keep the lie going like no one noticed it was a lie. Tragically paradoxical.
There will be no repercussions to her lies, so why wouldnt she? Might get what she wants.
Why talk to people like her? I can't understand how women with that kind of attitude towards men are even straight. Keep hooking up with Chad to support that view of men.
You just described the human condition.
He's used to it. He's handled much worse women. So imagine...
She literally said "I hate men" that is by definition "misandry". You cant have a logical intelligent conversation with this type of human. She has an infantile consciousness likely fueled by emotional trauma that she hasn't been able to process. I really wish this was uncommon but unfortunately, this attitude is almost becoming the norm and in some cases even considered fashionable :(
she is ur avg western women lmao
@@Kira-eh8vj I know right...
She is a woman. What she says has no meaning. She would easily say the opposite of whatever she says in the same sentence.
@@Kira-eh8vj if western men showed some balls this nonsense wouldnt happen.
@@UnitedPacci yeah. Unfortunately though it seems like the average man will slowly turn into an actual femboy in some decades...Testosterone is dropping every year
I once asked my mom why most women get with bad men. She said "Because nice guys are boring." Problem is, they crave drama and see creeps that get in bar fights as exciting. Then, when they outlive their biological use, they are left as single mothers that devolve to cat ladies.
Thats what Im saying. She probaly had it coming. All 11 stitches....
I watched this interesting interview. The interviewee was talking about an experiment that was done to a group of women, those women had scars artificially put on them and they were told to go to a few job interviews and report back the discrimination they encountered because of the scarring. Before the women left for the job interviews the makeup artist said they needed to just do a little touchups to the scars. Unbeknownst to the women the artist removed the scars completely and these women went on to these interviews thinking they had these fake scars on their face. They came back reporting all kinds of discrimination they were faced with. The point of the experiment was to show that when you are (just like a placebo) told you are facing a certain discrimination because of 'something' you will look at anything to fulfill that thing that you just were told...like a self fulfilling prophecy. If you go around daily thinking you're a victim, you will look at everything you encounter through the eyes of that victim
I just realized what people do on the internet as Victims...I do to to God, when I pray.
Man...I'm people of walmart level low. I'm a Metoo idiot when I pray.
yes deflection is a big thing with them. i'm 8 years older than my sister and when we were younger and she did something bad, there was no way she would admit her wrongs and always deflected. she taught me evrything i know about women
So then it sounds like you learned behavior not to have
Also learned you can't reason with or trust a woman
She sounds like she's had bad relationships with guys. Maybe cheated on or she did the cheating!
Clearly got 'issues' with men!
Oh well. C'est la vie.😉
Same for me, but with my female cousins. I don't have siblings. So I don't talk to them anymore
My sis is older and the same, also narsasitic and controlling, I have little time for said person.
This is exactly what an argument looks like between a mother and a son.
oh my God yes. Exactly what I thought when I watched this. I was able to out logic my mother from the age of 13, but do you think I ever won an argument?
Eventually when none of the emotions work, then they call for backup so that you get dominated until you have given up even if you know you are right. I have learned to not validate this style of argument from women and to stay the course when I know I am right. I just don't always feel like proving I am right. I might just leave them with their emotions and know that I am right within myself.
bro, between man and woman, period. My ex-boss accused me of stealing. When I spoke up against it, she changed her discourse and said she never accused me of stealing. It's just how their mind works by default. They just can't be wrong.
Oh dude YES.. Don Quixote fighting windmills.. Never ending struggle..
She obviously has daddy issues.
@@Yarblocosifilitico How pathetic
Being a woman in the current year, especially in the Western world, is like having all the settings on "easy" mode. And then still complain because they can't beat the 1st boss.
These days in the Western world everything in life is handed to women for free on a golden plate from governments, institutions, and society.
"When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppresion"
@@davewrightthethinker no, people on easy mode just get what they want, thats it.
@@Martyn_Wolf Well said. They want to look back at all the hurdles that they ran under or were enabled to jump over and brag how they didn't knock any over. Then of course they want a prize for the achievement.
@@Martyn_Wolf As does the expectation of performance that comes with equality.
Arguing with a woman like this is completely POINTLESS. It never works. You can use all of these strategies that Alex is laying out... and good luck to you. Ive done them all. In my experience having arguments/discussions with women that would require these tactics NEVER learn or listen. It is an effort in futility. You will be banging your head against the wall. The best thing you can do for your own sanity is.. walk away. Just do not engage at all. Trust me.. your mental state will thank you for it.
The only winning move is........... Not to play.
You're right, and that's also why I'm still single....because there hasn't been one I havn't had to walk away from for this bullshit.
Wisest advice EVER!
Or you can use group to destroy her.
Exactly 💯
It's like talking to a brick wall
Walking away resolves it all.
I've experienced this for over 30 years. Anyone who has debated a Democrat knows exactly this kind of woman.
Remember that it isn't conscious deflection. It is the inability to think clearly and rationally.
"Men commit suicide more because they don't open up about their feelings"
Has she considered the part where men that *do* open up are, on average, taken far less serious and being told to just deal with it?
I mean, obviously not but shhhht.
She’s all about her feelings and her ideology affirming her ideology. That’s why she can’t grasp her own contradiction before she even opens her mouth.
Don't you know, the reason men don't open up is because the patriarchy shames them for it. But men are responsible for the patriarchy. So we are dong it to ourselves. We have all this power and we use it to let women vote and take all our crap in divorces, and make decisions about the culture that lead to our own unhappiness. Cause women are NEVER complicit in this stuff /s
No but this is patriarchy /s
You can't win this discussion, they're full on stupid
@@thenicolascage4355 she is unwilling to accept that she would lose, as her goal is to make sure she doesn’t concede any of her points.
If men open up about their feelings, it becomes liable to be used against them by women and men whenever these emotions can be weaponized.
She had no real opinions. She mimics her surroundings.
Understated comment, it is actually very true in this #metoo culture.
Yup, that's why I refer to them as the real Clone Army.
@@ErikDeMann not really, she has real emotional as points.
@@1mol831 You can't base anything on something that shifts from one minute to the next. She's a leaf on a stream, completely unaware of the underlying current of her emotions, and where they are taking her.
@@1mol831 No, that's where you're wrong. They're all like that to some extent, it's an integrated part of being female to emulate their surroundings in an attempt to fit in, because their survival depends on a functional social network. Every time a new hair colour, jewellery, or backside tattoo gets trendy, they all go out and get it, hoping it makes them "special", while factually only underlining the already existing clone factor. Same thing with their political opinions, generally entirely herd driven, through and through.
Yeah, I disagree on the emotional thing. Managed hundreds of women in my career. They are tough talking with there peers till they sit in front of me for a poor work performance discussion.
The water works spring forth, when i start tackling what they are not doing, when they see me sitting there silent and emotionless waiting for the crying to finish, they 100% of the time drop the crying and finish the discussion.
I've observed plenty of other male managers falk for that crap and never discipline their female staff and then complain about their work performance in management meetings. Wtf did you expect...
You're doing god's work
Most underrated comment. Solid gold, thanks for your perspective.
Lets be frank, after reading what youve written i have to say that you validated the fact that they are emotional. As you expressly said they begin with waterworks. Despite that you can manage to make them complete a conversation it should not be a point to be made that they thereforth think logically. The emotional state comes first. Thata the point made in the video and the point unintentionally made by you the commenter as well. Whether you can persuade them to use logic is besides the point when the precursor is that they do in fact start with emotional reasoning/arguing
I hate that women do this to deflect discussion it legit pisses me off so much.
@@denvercrane455 My point was that the waterworks was a manipulation response, not an emotional response. When they see you are not falling for it and their job is on the line, the manipulation stops and the logic kicks in because they see the only thing I respond to is logic.
Never argue with someone who is committed to misunderstanding you.
I was talking to my mother , she is 97. She agreed with me when I said "most women dont listen to eachother , they just talk at the women they are talking to" , she agreed
How's your mother now?
Never, ever argue with an idiot.
They'll drag you down to their level and win.
...and beat you with experience is the rest of the quote.
Fkin butchered the phrase m8
Mark Twain
@@thisguy7976 Wow good job. You are very good at quotes.
@@Blackwingsss Just trying to help.
That guy: Statistically men are more likely to commit suicide
that wumen: Women too
That is not how that works lmao
Exactly. I facepalmed so hard at that. 😂🤦♂️🤦♂️
"I ate 90% of this pizza."
Her: I did too.
🤔🤔🤔🤔
Stip it she is a maths genius
@@kamartaj3010 how do maths work?
Disturbing increase of male su.cide.
Women most affected lol!?
Millions of men killed on the battlefield while defending their country and civilians.
Women most affected.
@@Fred-zt5ky Hillary Clinton actually said something like that.
@@jamesrolfe9747 Yes, and I observe words like that again in case of the war on Ukraine. Ukrainian men aged 18-60 can't even leave the territory of Ukraine, there is general mobilization there, but I observe it again - "women most affected". I am from Poland and I know that it's mostly women and children who escaped from Ukraine, but still I see articles - "Women most affected".
When i have a discussion with woman and she gets emotional i always say "that's why men are always ceos of the company, they don't get emotional" which actually triggers them more
Hahaha the double down strategy should only be used on relationships you wouldn't want to keep.
@@internationalspacestation7471 i didn't say I do it in a relationship, I use it mostly in discussions with my sister lol
"She is a female, and the tendency of females to be unable to distinguish between right and wrong is notorious."
Bertrand Wooster - The Code of the Woosters
I had two girls that I had these intense emotional fights with and I always kept my calm. As soon as I realized them freaking out over the cycle of emotions I backed off and said we'll talk when we cool down because this leads to nowhere. You know what happened in both cases? The kept following me and demanded to continue arguing and because I refused they actually became physically aggressive. In both cases exactly. My next thing was then to push them away and leave the house as I'd never hit a woman in my life. And in both cases I of course heard an ultimatum, if I step through the door we're done for. Relationships like that = waste of time.
Amen!
@@WolfStory Women like to argue, sad but true, they love the drama and sense of power
@@suomi5454 yes they do and I'm tired of it. I'm done with woman. Frankly i despise most of them.
Real men ignore ultimatums.
@@suomi5454 I don't think they enjoy it. They cant control it. When a woman is upset and frustrated and you aren't displaying the same level of emotion they seem to want you to feel they get more upset. Not all women obviously behave this way. But the ones that do. Run!!
Several times in my life, when having a conversation with women, either political or about men/women relations, it happened that at some point in the discussion they started to cry. I am not kidding, it has happened several times. And I was like, what, what happens? And they were like, "you are yelling at me", which it wasn't true. I wasn't even angry or anything, I just brought facts and solid arguments. Instead of admitting that I had a point, they manipulated me so I was some kind of bully, and I saw myself apologizing for something that I didn't do. I did nothing wrong and I ended up apologizing.
You know those times when you are at home, alone, thinking about it and you are like, WTF? NO!
Many of them use that tactic to "win" arguments. You can see many videos of men asking questions to feminists, and the moment he brings a statistic, they say things like, "you are being sexist and you are harassing me because of your condescending tone". The whole "micro aggressions" BS, like the "mansplaining" is just this tactic to an extreme level, for them to win, ALWAYS, even before the conversation has started.
Yep, that's basic manipulation tactic 101. They were in too deep and couldn't handle the argument because they were losing and they knew it.....so......like an infant with a poopy diaper. "Waaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh".
I never apologize. I even show them the statistics from a website on my phone and rub it in their faces. They're all feminists, right? So they should suck it up like men. I don't care.
My ex-wife was a national champion of using that strategy. Here in Italy we say "she has the tears in her pocket".
@Cuddle Pugs Are you still trying to win the argument against your husband here? 😂
Even my own mother is using this. It seems to be natural. When I am obviously right she uses either the you are speaking in the wrong tone or the pretending to be hurt.
It is all about deflection with women. So many years ago I caught one my exes in the act of cheating. I confronted her, and her response was what about all the bad things you do. I asked for examples, she couldn’t state even one, yet she kept saying there were so many, I asked her to tell me one thing I had done that would justify her cheating, again she said there were many, so out of “many” she could not state one example. So I just decided to leave, cut my loses and move on right then and there. She later tried to apologize and tell me how much she loved me and that she wanted to work it out, but I responded with, “since i do so many bad things to you, then I wont put you through it anymore. Better we just both move on.” She said she was wrong, that I really didn’t do any bad things, just that she was feeling so lonely because I worked so much and spent almost no time with her. Bear in mind that I worked about 45 hours per week at the time, and I would take her out after work about 4 times per week, once home from work, I spent all of that time with her, doing things with her, talking to her, showing her affection. So minus 45 hours per week, and minus sleeping times, the rest of the time I was taking her places she wanted to go, doing activities with her that she wanted to do, and showing her affection, but she now blames me for her cheating because she felt lonely. So even now when she was trying to convince me not to leave her she still deflects and blamed me for her wrongful act. The real truth was that when I caught her she was ready to leave me for the other guy, he didn’t know she was engaged, didn’t know about me at all, and he dumped her immediately. So now she had neither of us, and so she was going to try to get me to forgive and forget and just continue forward as if nothing happened. I told her that she needed to own what she did, and simply learn from it and move on because I was done.
hard pill to swallow, right ?
Alex did a brilliant video how to treat cheating women using silence. The best chastisement is a knowing "silence" and refusing to talk to her if she cheats. It really unleashes the demons she created because the cruelest teacher is her own guilty conscience which she will attempt to stifle by desperately wanting the man she cheated on to "confront" her. In her twisted female pysche she wants a guilt free exit by you saying something callous and cruel to her. In fact she will attempt to enrage you to get the outcome she wants by getting into an argument with her.
King
Someone crown this king
Women don't want a man that has to work for money, they want one that already has money
-Facts don't care about your feelings.
-My feelings don't care about facts.
My wife is humble and noble af, and even she deflects and confuses emotions with logic. For 8 years I've kept trying and believing this can change, that there is a way to appeal to her logic. THERE IS NOT. Now, for the entire past year, whenever she starts to argue with her emotions I tell her I will not debate on a woman's level, period.
Are you still married?
When you live with a victim mentality, it's hard to have empathy for anyone else.
Great quote
Never argue with a woman, the same way you never argue with a child. Make your point, tell her how it is, then end the conversation. If she keeps arguing, which she will, just tell her "I'm not arguing with you," and walk away. It's your attention that she wants most of all. If you just make your point then end the argument and walk away, you'll literally blow her mind. She won't know how to react. Either she'll come around to your side, or you'll have one less problem in your life. Do everything on your terms, not hers. You be the sturdy rock, let her be the turbulent ocean that breaks on the rock. The minute you play her game, the chaotic waves and undertow that is women's "logic" will drag you down into the abyss. Hold your ground and you'll have tranquil seas for the rest of your days.
This is the only actual correct way. You don’t argue with a woman the same reason you don’t argue with a child
"either she'll come around to your side or you'll have one less problem in life." THIS!
Much wise you are.
@LqdSanity79 Methinks there are a bevy of biblical scriptures that back & confirm what you've put so eloquently.
A rare instance of sage wisdom in a YT comment section.
It's pretty clear that there is not a single fact or tactic that could break through the walls this woman has put up around herself. She's the walking example of the "Who hurt you meme" that women use to silence and shame men. Just deep, deep hurt pure rage. Some of these women are social workers, police officers and lawyers. Women like this want men to be scared and in the world we live in today, you should be.
Of course there’s a tactic. This 👊. And even if they wear an “authority” costume, they still get bonked just as easily.
She’s clearly only dated Chad’s and Tyrone’s and thinks all men are like that.
@Chris N
No, she’s use to dating “new males” who have allowed her to run her mouth unchecked, without any repercussions, for her entire existence. Radical feminism only exists because there weren’t enough Chads and Tyrones to remind females of their place.
"I'm attracted by bad boys and they are bad with me, and I reject and humiliate guys who are worth it, so it means that all men are assholes".
@@GaylordBonnafous this is exactly her cancerous reasoning, on point dude
This explained how to deal with my mother in less then 20 minutes. As you as you said the word deflection I almost wanted to cry.
You hit the nail on the head with one word:
HUMILITY
A concept women CANNOT grasp.
The reason women NEVER apologize. I was married for 27 years. I literally could count on one hand the number of times my ex-wife said, "I'm sorry" for anything.
I'm glad that women make videos on social media spewing vitriolic nonsense about men and open misandry. It let's me understand them and what they really think of men in general. Tread carefully gentlemen.
Here are few facts that men holds the highest rate of homelessness, self deletion rate, work related accidents, chances of losing child custody and alimony payments, false likelihood of false s3xual harrasment charges, unreported victims of domestic violence. Even in war men and not women are conscripted to fight the war. But men have it easy right.
Women treat men they don't know worse than I treat NPCs in video games.
@@commandershepard9601 the uglier the man is the worse VVomen treats them.
Most women are disgusted by men, and hate men. They won’t show it as they still need us for our resources and money.
@@commandershepard9601 sadly that's a fact for me too. Women like to think of themselves as protectors, but precisely because of their instinct they only care about them and their child. Men have the instinct to protect the entire tribe, even if we're playing a game and the tribe are NPCs.
The most important thing is to never, EVER let the woman get you to feel guilty for being a man. I feel like when people want to point out how bad some men are, they just cut straight to the point and they say like yeah these men/behaviors of men are toxic etc. and on the other hand, when people want to say the same about some women or their behaviors, they need to first say all this BS mantra like: "yeah I do not mean to offend any woman, I mean, of course, not all of women are like that, and please understand, blah blah blah". Don't do it, do not ever apologize for speaking out your honest opinion only because some women might not like it. I always discuss the same way as if you were discussing with a man. Do you apologise every time before saying your opinion when speaking to men? No. So don't feel guilty only because women might not like your opinion. Well, who cares, it's time to grow up.
Noice !
By the way, the ones that suffer the most because of women's periods are not women... but men! :)))) They have to endure the bad mood, the irrational behaviour, the anger, the no sex... It almost feels like one more weapon used by women against men to tyrannize them, to make them feel guilty and to victimise themselves. :))
@@GaylordBonnafousyou *think not feel like
@@Xizziano I came here to say the same thing. It's amazing how many people, even men, say "I feel like..." Once you remove that from your vocabulary, it helps you change the way you think a lot.
@@DontbeanNPC I hate that phrase with a passion. We can't 100% exclude our feelings but not every thought is based on a feeling. It's used a blanket term that doesn't even apply to every let alone most things
The term"man-up" has never applied to women. They don't own their mistakes, they don't rise to the occasion, they don't take responsibility.
Rare few do
woman up
They're allergic to accountability.
Grow up!
Woman up lmao 🤣 😂
Something like this JUST happened to me only a few days ago. a potential female tenant came for an interview and took stance on something she was DEAD wrong on ( As I know my field and that specific law I have researched as it has comes up often ) so she started doing what you see in this video to a point that she RIPPED up the application and stormed out of the office like a spoiled teenager !!! She was 32 she said! (I actually have part of it on video -The part where she storms out). There was a witness there too ( luckily as who knows what she might of concocted up ). And she claimed to have a government job! The witness I had say - "She was a super control freak type of woman and a danger to any man who does not have a witness around them" - which is why she got so angry and lost it!
Violence is an attempt to gain control and not an inability to retain it!
I quit dating because of this. It was over 10 years ago. Thanks for reiterating, my decision was right. I will show this video, whenever someone asks me about why I don't wanna have anything to do with modern women since I have no more energy to explain it myself to brainwashed people in my surroundings.
Most men are instead hardwired to protect women and children, not harming them. Even the scumbags, the lowest kind of men, the criminals, in prisons, have "special treatment" for those sexual offenders. Moreso if the victims are minors.
That's how bad men judge and punish their fellows who do such despicable things. It's utterly unacceptable.
So don't come to tell us that most of us are.
It's crazy that's not even contested by anyone. Even these same wokesters that hate all men.
Damn, what a good point.
That's why it's important for men to reprogram themselves not to protect them. They're on their own.
Im not i dont protect them
@@benstandard nah
You just have to accept as a man, she will never admit she's wrong. Best case scenario she moves on, worst case she blames you for her own ignorance.
Not narcissistic behaviour at all.
And why should we care? Let these misandrists drown in their own misery. Men need to wake up and stop care about women. I would wish men just could adapt this simple principle that if is she is not submissive to you she won't get anything from you.
If they're switching between emotions like that, it's called borderline personality disorder
And there is NO cure for BPD. You will never help them get better. All you can do is get away from "it" as fast as possible. Most therapists won't even accept patients with BPD, that's how bad it is.
Reminds me of my mom.
I don't think that's a disorder, this is just a skill, made in *really* young age. Like before 3 years old.
This is what it is like talking to the majority of women. I feel like some woman have this logic barrier. This barrier keeps any logic from entering and only allows stupidity to be regurgitated. THEN I go back to my logical point into a circular argument. @Alexander Grace What I found hilarious is the comparison to a high quality woman and low quality woman... I think you meant most woman and unicorns XD. I have tried handling the deflection tactics in the same way (such as resolving the issue at hand 1st), but they ALWAYS go into another discussion and continue to deflect into a circular argument. At this point in my life, I tell woman, "I will not listen to your deflections and insults, we are talking about A NOT B NOT C... A. Now if you can not talk about A then you are not mentally mature enough to have this conversation. By not being able to even have the conversation you lost not only the argument but my respect."
“You don’t even need to have discussions with women.” Very valid point. 🤣
"You twisted my words" translated into womanspeak means "stop quoting me accurately."
Pretty much
"Oh, how dare you connect the dots and use my own words against me argumentatively."
Deflecting and changing a topic, I’ve watched women do that my whole life.
this is one of the most relatable videos on youtube
It seems like most online arguments end up using these same tactics as well. I do wonder why that is.
@@popuptarget7386 your talking like a feminist nonsense.
NEVER argue with a woman outside of business related issues. NEVER!
This
Yeah cuz they everytime attempt to gaslight you and it works in her favour
My sisters are like this. All they do is play victim, deflect, and manipulate. There's nothing you can do with people like that.
“Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience”
Mark Twain
Trying to have a rational and balanced "argument" or debate with a woman is nearly always a waste of time. The broader the topic, the more time you will waste with them. It rarely achieves anything other than frustration, exasperation and resentment.
I debated the so called wage gap with a female coworker that complained about it, she got employed 1 year after me, we have the same job and the same hours but she earned more then me so i asked her to explain that, man the cogs in her head where working in overdrive 🤣
What was her rebuttal?
@@lemon_w0ter196 Sadly never got any real answer, it was much "hmm...well..." Until she changed the subject 😆
Nearly every wage gap feminist I have seen online all mention how every man they work with who has the same job does less work and has less education and makes more than them. It's like feminists all got ridge and came up with the same story.
@@gorasul12how come does she get paid more?
@@jangolub8240 No idea 🤷 ,it was not much of a difference but it was enough to shot down her argument 😆
She earned about $10 more a month then me so nothing i started a fight about.
My last wife and I rarely argued. I once called a family meeting with my wife and my step- daughter over a house cleaning issue. Once the wife got emotional, all her hearing was turned off. I offered multiple solutions to the problem, and I know until this day, she never heard a single one of them. Once the emotions start, the conversation is over. In my case, she started blaming me for everything that came to her mind over the last dozen years. Neither the wife or step daughter ever cared to address the issue that was important to me. Best thing to do is to record the discussion, so you can play it back at a later time when they calm down….even they will be able to see how irrational they were.
Their emotions trump solutions.
They commited abuse against you.Its disgusting.Im very suprised and sad that women have zero empathy for the average man or the man that feeds them and the kids they had with other men,protects them and they care about chad,pablo,jody,maximus and their friends.Step-daughter?! oh noooooo get to the choppa right now,my dear sir,get out of there.Your happiness depends on yourself not others,because you know yourself better than any other human being.I hope Jesus Christ is always with you,stay strong.
Recording, genius idea.
You married a single mom. Take your L
I tried the recording. We had an agreement that we could record each other in an argument so that we could analyse what had gone wrong and what to improve once back to a more rational state of mind. As my wife was screaming at me non-stop, I started recording with my cellphone during a short break (when she left me alone for a few precious seconds before returning for more verbal abuse). I needed that as a sanity check since I had no clue how the situation had escalated so badly and why I was sitting here close to tears as my wife repeatedly entered the room to scream at me. Suffice to say, once she discovered I was recording she was furious and of course couldn’t remember we had ever made that agreement, betrayal of trust yada yada.
After the fight (which pretty much sealed our fate), I tried listening to the fight once. I couldn’t bear it. The abuse she screamed at me was so intense and vitriolic as I remained silent. I only heard my heavy, hopeless sighs during the precious few silent moments.
I deleted the recording before ever having listened to it in full.
Wow this video was a real eye opener, my ex girlfriend used these tactics constantly against me in any conversation we had where we disagreed. Everyone one of these tactics were used in our last conversation we had about breaking up. I stayed calm and collected and gathered everything she said and used her words verbatim towards her to show her how much she hated me and only was using me for me money and didn’t respect me in the slightest. After I pointed that out to her and she seen she had no hold over me she physically attacked me. 😂 so glad I am done with that.
Injecting poison and carrying hate in your heart is what so many do these days. That doesn't make any society more loving and humane. Getting out of your victimhood doesn't mean you have to be toxic, young lady.
The immaturity, hatred, lack of critical thinking, and lack of any respect is completely astounding in these young people. I've had relationships where my girl had this attitude and it's extremely exhausting to dispel constantly. When you're a man who has to focus on making money and facing all your other problems it really makes you not want to engage with women.
Facts… that’s why single man rates are increasing so rapidly.
My ex was a bit like this.. but this new generation damn… it’s just chaos… you can’t even try to argue it’s a lost cause from the begining. There is literally nothing to do. I’m afraid of the future. The only man that have relationships are mainly successful man, man in the 10% (successful or attractive or both) and others that just have casual sex…. If you are nice guy/ pretty normal and basic guy looking for the love of your life… oh boy you’re gonna end up single like 80% of the chances. Scary
@@MrTchupam yup you're spot on with 90% of women wanting to be with top 10% of men. Finding a quality girl is very hard. It feels like if you work a normal 9-5 job and you're tall fit and decent looking its still hard to find a good girl.
Seems to me they're all trying to get with a musician or athlete, and social media matters so much. It's a really odd playing field that's super stacked against men.
That's why I stay single. No dating, no wasting time with women. Just making money. And doing all I want in my free time. No partying, no bars. Only God and myself. Who needs problem makers aka women? They just keep you away from your goals, dreams, even closer relationships with our creator.
I stopped arguing with women like that years ago, you're better off just leaving the data on the "table" and walking away. You cannot change a womans mind when she gets emotionally charged unless you plan on investing like 3hrs of time logically beating her down while she talks in circles, cries and accuses you of things. I've had that exact debate about sexual assault and mens responsibility towards it. I brought up the studies showing that less 5% of men account for nearly all the violent sexual assaults, the girl didn't really care about the info and didn't fully understand how bad it is for her to say that when I compared it to the race based crime statistics showing that a very very small proportion of black men account for 50% of the murders in the country but you still don't paint an entire race with that issue because that's morally reprehensible.
Women are massively solipsistic even though they are generally much higher in agreeableness and compassion. They cannot see the world through any other view points than their own and when they feel they've been wronged then all logic goes out the window until they reach some sort of emotional satisfaction. It's the main reason why when they list what they have to offer to guys, it's just a reworded list of what they look for in men.
Women today especially have little understanding of the risk factors and expectations placed on men in regards to sacrificing yourself physically for others. Women who were raised by single mothers are basically devoid of any understanding of the massive amounts of labor it takes for things like constructing a building, working on cars or replacing a roof on a house.
"...they are generally much higher in agreeableness and compassion." Only in their interactions with other women.
Less than five percent? Try way less than a fraction of one percent!
"It's the main reason why when they list what they have to offer to guys, it's just a reworded list of what they look for in men" stealing that 😏
I figured this out when dealing with a narcissist. She’s trying to gaslight (make him get emotional) and that’s exactly what narcissists do. If you stay calm and keep steering the conversation on course they flip out because it’s closing in on them being accountable.
That's not what gaslighting is but okay
I like this guy. Sheds light on the darkness but isnt polarized or disrespectful. I've been watching other stuff on UA-cam and it feels like misandry and misogyny thinly veiled and feels like I drank poison of the mind. This dude might be what is needed. Cheers mate
This youtube channel is gold!! Awesome work Alex!
"I'm still continually terrified by how little empathy women show for men and men's struggles." ... Damn. I am sorry to hear this. I am a woman and I have learned so much from your videos. This channel and the Stephen Speaks channel are really good ones. I know you are frustrated with women but continue doing this work for yourself and your audience. It's very helpful. Although focused for men, as a woman, I really appreciate your candidness. Thank you. .... Edit : I think women in general can't compute the fact that men have feelings and are actually human because society has conditioned us women to think they are automatic a-holes, dudes without feelings or just basically strong in general. I am still searching for an answer for this myself. What leads women to automatically think that men are not worthy of empathy? We need to address this. What is the root cause of this?
Well society is what makes women not feel empathy for most men. Not alot of men have empathy either. They can have sympathy. I'm highly empathetic and a man. I'm really good I stepping out my existence and what I know. Step into other people's. I'm hardwired that way. My personality is INFJ. Look at most entertainment like movies and shows. Alot of male characters are portrayed in a negative light. Alot of honestly stupid choices. Made fun of alot. Usually in there marriage. The men make the big mistakes. Women usually are portrayed as being smart and usually right. Women's characters usually have more depth. Males not much depth at all.
Glad to hear someone say this, I am a man, all my life I have heard of the suffering of others, yet NO ONE thinks to bring up the suffering of men. The sheer level of "victim mentality" in the present time is staggering. Once we STOP using the suffering of the past to justify bad acts in the present, we will become a better society. Yes bad things happened in the past, when these things occur, the object is to learn from them, not repeat them, and MOVE FORWARD with the lesson learned.
The root cause is the breakdown of the family, and that's caused by pride, sin.
Narcissism rules...
I feel mentally drained after watching a few videos of these females. Dont know how the UA-camer does it for a week, let alone years.
Thirty six years with an ex-wife who could NOT admit she was wrong! The woman in the video is an amateur at "word salad" compared to my ex.
It's funny how good some get
I am lucky I have a good woman.
Her instincts are still to.do this
But only until I bring her back to reality then she catches herself.
Women are simple creatures
a lot of men have adopted the same way of dealing with facts. a lot of people these days think their opinion about something is a fact. because a lot of people have the same opinion.
Never heard of you before.. but man, you make a lot, a lot of sense. Thank you for the good work… greetings from Italy.
The first person that turns a debate into an argument has already admitted their loss.
She is better than most. Deflection, yes, arguing from feelings. Still watching. Still waiting for the ad hominem, man shaming etc. Assuming they don't know each other personally. So she is relatively 'constrained'.If she knows his fears, insecurities. It becomes ammunition to attack and avoid the point. That's why women want you to confide your feelings. Stored in her 'vault' for future use. The only real tears are the ones she sheds alone. Rest 'crocodile tears for manipulation. 🇦🇺🇬🇧🇨🇦🇺🇸🏴
It's from Omegle so she's a stranger. Omegle is talking to strangers.
Good one
Exactly! Women encourage men to share, then subsequently abuse men by maliciously throwing what you shared back in your face during a disagreement.
Exactly my wife, not having an argument: Changes topics, gets emotional, starts accusations against me. No logic based conversation possible.
Woman has always been considered a natural victim (physically weaker, vulnerable, "oppressed" etc). Victim complex allows for a reason to deflect blame and not take accountability for bad actions.
I don't think there's a cure ☺️
There is a cure... its called walking away. Just do not engage with psychotic women like this. Ever!
"I don't think there's a cure"🤣🤣🤣
@@WolfStory or send her to an old woman who can restrain her
Praise the sun solaris
All I can think is: "Man what happened to this girl to make her so bitter and hateful?" I feel empathy and compassion towards her despite the fact that she just hates mer for being a man.
She made bad choices and hasn't leant from them.
Feminism
likely nothing, likey just brainwashed by woke feminist liberal left ideologies
rawr all men are bad, patriarchy, bad!
if something had happened to her directly, she would've played that as a victim card I bet. So instead, she's prob just parroting things she heard
And when the deflections and insults don't work they run away.
Great video. Enjoyed it.
A point I'd add. Is when "abusive men" are being described as a man that assumes ALL female emotion as manipulative. You are self diagnosing the root cause (or one of) that caused the man to become "abusive" in the first place.
A woman can make or break a man/male/boy, especially during developmental years. And no where near enough is said about how corrosive and damaging and wicked a manipulative woman's impact is on her offspring.
That's exactly why boys aged 5-6 y/o are removed from female influences in all Native tribes all over the world, something that has been going on for millennias. Of course, same tribes wouldn't dream of giving women a say in important matters, which is why they'll still be here, when we're gone as a civilisation.
I think the issue here is the word purposely....what I mean is, all women use emotion to manipulate. Some do it on purpose, some do it without even realizing it. THOSE are the more difficult cases IMO, the women who cry that the man is controlling while the reality is that the entire house is on pins and needles adjusting their behavior so "she" doesn't freak out. Then they end the relationship and tell everyone their ex was a controlling narc because I saw it on UA-cam
My mother was definitely manipulative, she didn’t care that my siblings and I were receiving regular beatings because she drove my dad nuts complaining about us. When I told her (as a 40yo man) that her behavior was just as abusive as my dad’s she said I was psychotic and that never happened, even with my siblings confirming the abuse while she was in the room.
@@mrnasty2757 my mum did the same but i callt her bullshit much Sooner but its the same response like in your case
@@flyingfluffyhockey "on pins and needles adjusting their behavior so "she" doesn't freak out." How many sayings are there about the fear of women freaking out?! "If she ain't happy, nobody's happy." "Happy wife, happy life." "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned." So many men in relationships spend all their time trying to appease the monster.
I'm grateful for all the psychology courses I took in college. It's like having mind reading powers
The longer I remain single, the more glad I am about that decision. There is no way I would voluntarily have that sort of exhausting personality and energy around me. I have enough to deal with, I don't want that BS on top of it thankyouverymuch.
Women will NEVER admit that they are wrong!!!
I am a man and no one gave me anything. I worked hard, studied hard, fought my way in life so as to be able to provide for my future wife and family. What did she do?
She exists. Thats enough for women.
@@gijsjansen3645 the power to change the world lies in everybody's hands
Just wanna thank you that as a woman, I really love your videos. I get so much insight that is also scientifically based. Really helps with self reflecting on my past behaviour and I couldnt agree with your videos more. Thanks again for the great content!
It's great you're reacting this way.
But if you.would.the problem.is that all young women don't see the problem.
We need somehow if we are to save society... for young women to see the error of those ways and come back to men.
I appreciate honest efforts in any human being to approach topics with logic and reason while also working to understand themselves and their own reactions and behaviour, working to become a better human being while being accountable for their actions.
Living the last 6 years with my mother and sister really just taught me to keep pushing your point home repeatedly and not letting them distract you. If you tell them the same argument over and over again ignoring what she's saying she'll have to agree at some point.
Bingo. Do not get side tracked. Stay on point. Ignore the deflection and tears. The tears are fake. Point out they are fake. Have zero affect on you.
Maybe, but what do you do then when they say you bullied them and they didn't REALLY agree with you some years later? My soon ex wife told me that. The whole time I thought we had healthy open dialogue. Turns out she weaponized my attempts to stay on point against me.
I’m 57, and that is not going to work if you want peace, or a lasting relationship. State how it is and end the argument by stopping. Let her talk till she realizes she is doing all the talking. 😊
@@MrEricanthony probably this ^
Yeah......no
They young guy was so well composed. Knew what was happening and wasn’t going to let it get to him.
A lot of them are not really aware at first, but when made aware they won't have it any other way.
"Atlas Shrug", that's what these women deserve.
Credit to the young bloke in the clip. He handled himself calmly, politely and logically.
She had nothing to counter him. Just "I feel like...".
The culture has inculcated her with this attitude. It is not an attitude derived from a rational engagement with either facts or evidence.
Well done him.
this is why I don't talk to women unless I get paid
That's exactly what I say, working as a nurse.
That man made that feminist admit she is sexist. Well done sir.
Always Respond, in conversation. Never REACT in conversation. There is a HUGE difference between the two.
Would bet money that she has friendzoned every nice guy she's ever met in her life.
Alexander's understanding of the dynamics of social interactions is just outright phenomenal.
For the guys silly enough to still get married, know that even if you can win emotional arguements by logic, she can always win the war in divorce and family courts. Her feelings and emotions are legally protected in the marriage contract fine print. And with the "no-fault" exit clause, she also gets most of your stuff if she gets upset. So yea, only play this game if she is a non-legally attached girlfriend.
If you're a smart man you can guard yourself.
@@thenarrator1984 Please let us know how.
Prenup is a good way to guard urself. It ensures what ever u want to keep remains urs in the event of a divorce. Get with a good divorce attorney, and have this person make you an ironclad prenup. Make sure that she signs it. Two rules about this. Number one, if she dosen't sign it u already know what type of women ur dealing with. Because the prenup not only protects you but also her, so any reasonable woman well agree to this. If she dosen't, u know she wants access to ur stuff. Number two, never let her sign it under duress. As she can use that in court to have the prenup thrown out. If she agrees to sign it and she tries to make it seem like u forced her. Drop the marriage plan and dump her. The first rule will still apply to this as any reasonable woman will have no issue signing the prenup. Remember, that she is also protected under it. Lastly never get married without a prenup should u choose to. And if u are dealing with anyone unwilling to sign it with u, dont marry them. One simple protection strategy. Recommended by a divorce attorney.
Well alot of men seems they can be emocional and shoot her in the face too.... sad
@@anthonym840 thank you
"miss, you are wrong. You dont want to learn. You wont listen. Goodbye."
Makes me bring a whiteboard to a discussion like this and write down every statement of her's following a bold word "lie" or "false information".
SUFFER THAT NOT: Its unethical, disingenuous, manipulative and unacceptable. Better to walk and let that person suffer their crap. If they are imposing an injury upon you, put an end to it. Life is too short to suffer toxic behavior.
Thanks for making another vid reacting to my content Alexander. It's cool to see another creator from the same city supporting my content. Keep it up bro.
Thanks brother, love your stuff. I always put a link to your channel, hopefully more people check out your vids.
Are you from WA?
Is Alexander, not Andrew btw
@@alexandergrace5350 thanks bro. yeah I’m from WA. Sorry it autocorrected to Andrew 😂
good job man, subbing to your channel. (Name is still wrong btw haha)
btw, I hope you're gonna send her Alex' analysis. I doubt she'll face the criticism but, for her own good, she should
Classic SIGN language.
S- Shame
I - Insults
G - Guilt
N- Need to be right
I like the way he breaks down a woman’s thought process pattern like he’s a doctor trying to explain it to a incompetent patient 😂
Man I am so greatful for you. Stumbled upon a video of yours, instant like and subscription.
Honestly, it makes me cry. I've shut off for a decade. I hurts. A whole f in lot. But I believe (not in god, but still)
Men: intuition, logic, emotion
Women: intuition, emotion, logic
Both react in that order. Women, to think logically, need to not have any emotional response, and then logic can assert itself. Men rarely get to emotional, because their logic forms their reaction. If logic doesn't work then men will be emotional.
Men: logic rational, muscle memory then feelings emotions
Females: emotions feelings, muscle memory then logic rational
The exact opposite
In my opinion
@@associatealpha1166 thats more right
Nah, that’s a pretty wild generalization. I’ve met plenty of women more logical than emotional by default, and plenty of men more emotional than logical by default. A lot of men have to learn how to become more logical, and a lot of women have to learn to become more emotional to fit society’s mold of what a man/women is. Look into Objective Personality (they have their own YT channel) as just one singular example of a pretty legit model that encapsulates all kinds of different men/women primarily categorized by their differing order of use of intuition, facts, logic and emotions, and how masculine or feminine they present, all in terms of their biogenic personality, so nature>nurture. They have a big sample size and quite a lot of fascinating patterns that they’re starting to uncover.
@@associatealpha1166 There is no such thing as "muscle memory". What you are referring to is inculcation. That is where you repeat an action over and over until the brain puts it in either the parietal or occipital lobes, where you can then do the action without thinking about it. Read some Buss or Gangstead and you see them talking about what I posted. Muscle memory is intuition.
Cathy Newman: "So what you're saying is...". A famous example.
"Men do not open up about their feelings". yeah I think this sweetie is stuck in the "Cinderella dimension". You know when you think you are a 10 yo girl and think life is a bedtime story because it's meant to be. The biggest challenge I experience as a man is becoming someone else because I am not good enough to attract a partner.
This dude has nerves of steel to have calm face and talk about all that without losing his cool.
It is better to live alone in the corner of an attic than in a mansion with a contentious woman.
Don't argue with a fool or you are a fool yourself. A biblical quote.