12 Things Finnish Guys Want in Their Dream Woman - Unexpected Results!
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- Опубліковано 27 лис 2020
- Today we will talk about Dating in Finland and how Finnish men see their dream woman. I used the survey created by Ilta Sanomat to figure out what kind of woman is the dream wife for Finnish men.
Source to the survey: www.is.fi/viihde/art-20000058...
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Love this video! Especially since a move to Helsinki is in my future. (side note- it's good to know that Finnish guys are naughty once you get to know them. This seems like vital info for my future lol)
So true!
Loved it!! Really interesting content. Thanks aleksi ❤️
Glad you enjoyed it!
LOL “everyday” Aleksiiiii! Naughty! 😂 I like that you really thought about the spontaneous/conservative option.
Great video as always 👍
Thanks again!
This has been quite helpful 🤔
Good stuff!
great video
Glad you enjoyed it!
super interesting video!! I find it really entertaining to see what Finnish guys generally think of an ideal girl, I would say the popular choices are all pretty reasonable!
Thanks for sharing!!
You're too cheeky! I love it haha.
I know ;)
Speaking from my own experience I believe that we're all born as individuals and unique. Preferences are personal, so we shouldn't generalise. Chemistry, sense of humour and communication are some of the keys.
Wise words!
Yes thanks - these videos actually make me anxious. Like, how to feel inadequate
@@PuolikuuIrene I know right?
@@mariac6280 Yes - And it would be a bit better if they would at least show the % for all answers instead of the majority only. Also because that majority could literally just be the 30% of the people
@@mariac6280 I am so sad cause I have been dating this Finnish guy (I live in Finland) for the last three weeks and we already spent so much time together and bonded a lot - and today he said he forgot to say he doesn't want kids, I would want one and I hadn't asked earlier... And now we are both in shock cause we were so happy about how things were going... I know it's only three weeks, but it's not so easy to find someone you genuinely feel at home with... 😮💨
Interesting facts Aleksis. 🤔 way different from the American way, I'm interested in your videos because I'm learning and it will useful in my vacation trip for a month this June July trip... interested in Juhannus up north .. any videos about that?
I have made at least one juhannus video at my friend's cottage.
Yes Do The Husband One Please.
lol this was hilarious! Such a good video idea
Glad you liked it!!
The results are very interesting! I like a lot finns' mentality regarding their dream woman; I almost achieve all the requirements 😂😂😂 just not some regarding the physical appeareance cause I'm a brunette and my height is 1.64 (Im short for the finns) nevertheless to see how much you are into family and invest time with your couple is beautiful.
The height isn't that important. My previous girlfriends have all been below 170cm and brunettes. :)
I am Finnish guy and 175 cm. I like when woman is about 160-170 cm. I have had 3 girlfriends and they were 165 cm, 168 cm and 159 cm. One was blonde and two other brunettes :)
My husband is 183cm and I am 150, he said I have a perfect height 😅
And yes, I sometimes drink whiskey or cognac with him and he is very happy about it 😂
That's great!
Tall men are for tall women!
Interesting. Makes me cant waitt to moved to finland
Good stuff! 😃🙌
Hyvää kamaa!
Kiitti!
so I'm 160, curvy, brunette. I'm dating a finnish guy for 3 weeks now and I'm still a little bit affraid that he doesn't consider us serious. also I'm hungarian and I'm learning finnish. I'm very different from finnish women bc I don't have social anxiety, I'm confident, can walk to any person if needed. I'm very warm hearted, cheerful, a little bit like a sunshine in a bottle. NO OFFENSE I don't really see these traits in finnish women. I hope that's what he is into bc really like hiiiiimmm😭😭
Three weeks is quite a short time to be honest. In that time, it's difficult to form an impression if you want to fully commit or not. You're still getting to know each other.
@@AleksiHimself okay no it's clear that he is obsessed with me 😄☺️☺️
But is hard finish guy to approach good job
I am an Argentinian learning Finnish and I feel that I am in love with the language and the culture. The Finns seem almost the opposite of people here in my country. I think thanks to this video and other videos of yours, I want to date a Finn, but I'm in Argentina and I'm 5'4 or 5'5, lul.
I really like your videos! They are very interesting.
Good stuff! Don't worry about your height. Finns will still like you.
I like short girls myself. You're also very attractive.
I’m Asian and 188cm male here.
I wonder if Finnish men are open to date outside their race. Nonetheless, this is quite an interesting video! 😊 with love from Tanzania 🇹🇿
Yes they are. There are many international couples in Finland.
Yeah Finnish dudes are the best. I find them very sweet, delightful, unique, and full of beauty. ☺️
Good luck!
Where Are You from ? How tall ? Do You Have any WORK SKILLS ? Are You More Family or any Other Type ?
Interesting to see the average answers. Here are some of my ideal criteria (as a Finnish guy); I’m not looking for anyone, this list is just for fun and for anyone curious. Each bonus adds a point (so the max is 14).
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1. height from 5’4 to 6 ft
2. non-smoker (drinking doesn’t matter either way)
3. any hair color (but black hair is a bonus)
4. loves animals
5. strong artistic interests and/or pursuits
6. either highly introspective or very passionate (bonus if both - which is rather rare)
7. compassionate, caring
8. knows how to have a laugh (a mischievous, teasing side is definitely a bonus)
9. stays in decent shape (jogging/running or other light exercise is enough)
10. nice style (predominantly black is a bonus, as are earthy colors like dark green, brown, etc)
Solid list!
I'm from Sweden and I'm wondering if you measure height in cm or feet? We use cm in Sweden.
OMG! I only have 3 points LOL
@@leticiaaraujo2476 Haha, no worries
I'm talking to a Finn and I been watching your videos and I'm conflicted , I thought he was going to be very quiet and serious tbh I didn't think a Finn could be attracted to me because I am Mexican so not at all like your typical looking finnish girl but I don't know if this long distance relationship will work guess we will see 🤷🏻♀️ , I really like your videos 😊, watching you from Dallas Texas!!
I think Finns like Mexicans cos they are so different from Finns.
@@AleksiHimself I really hope so ❤️
Mexicans are so open and outgoing, and touchy. Very different from finnish girls. That's why they are attractive.
@@karlalopez1065 We Are Looking For PEOPLE - WHO knows Finnish Baseball ! Learn to play and The Language - in One Year ! Look at American UA-cam Video - Where The Game Explained ! This IS a way EASIER - than Wife CARRYING !
I’m Mexican, currently dating a finish guy. They definitely like Mexicans, his Finnish friends who are here love meeting Mexican girls too lol.
If I was a woman this information would come in very handy.
I'm glad to hear that!
After 3mos of dating with a finn, he ended it because he cant do long distance. My heart was broken. Be careful with men who are very sweet at the start.
Sorry to hear that. That can happen to anyone. Long-distance isn't easy.
@@AleksiHimself but we ended so calmly and i respected his decision. And i do understand him. Maybe he was sad when he came back in Fin after he visited me in my country just last month. Because he said he felt empty. Or maybe he's depressed.
I'm sorry to hear, how long was your relationship?
First of all I'm from Brazil so I'm sorry about my English mistakes but I would like a reply of a finnish please. I met a finnish guy in person 2 years ago and since that we are dating but my doubts are: 1) he almost never says that he loves me , I like that because I prefer the guy shows more than talks but sometimes he says when he is drunk. 2) we only saw each other by camera once and I miss that eye contact, but he always are uncomfortable in front of camera or say thag his place is a mess. 3) he is unemployed for years and when i said that i would like to visit Lapland , he sounded so like well it is expensive I can't afford....so for an introvert finnish, the actions are serious like that? kiitos paljon!
Olha, colega, isso parece cilada! Não quer ter ver, não fala contigo, não diz que te ama, com certeza tem algo errado aí. Seria bom bater de frente com ele, e ter uma conversa mais sincera pra saber realmente o q tá acontecendo, mesmo pra um Finlandês, isso não é normal.
How common is th name last name Lantto in Finland
Very rare
just asking, do you have any idea how VFX industry is in Finland?
Sorry but I don't.
@@AleksiHimself no worry , thanks for replying 💙
@@AleksiHimself can u help me with it? Cuz the site says they wanna hire 2-3 people but it's from like very old like 2017 so idk 😐, also idk how to text someone on UA-cam but can u Help me with something related to VFX industry in finalnd?
@@sherozemukadam156 you can check their page via FB and maybe do some inquiry: facebook.com/TrollVfx/
@@mskath7914 okay thanks a lot 🥰💙
Omg:off to Finland.....-----
Everyday please 😁😊🙏
Nice video from a very narrow test.
Glad you liked it!
I watched the first four questions and those are rather superficial issues and Finnish men have more substance than that. Finnish women are already the best, so be happy if you have one. I don't however would like to return to Finland someday and try and find one.
Coming from Irish/British background, was never checked out by guys more than in Finland 😂 they did try to be discreet, but it was obvious 😂
WTF = Welcome to Finland 😂
@@AleksiHimself I really loved it, you have a great country and people are super nice!
@@ExploreYourShadow that's great to hear! 🙌😎
Bro Iam 182 cm am I too small in Finland??
Not at all
I have Finnish penpals, let's say keyboard-pals is more accurate.when he know my height and it's just 5'4 ft he just said it's cute hehe..but I don't think so, if he is very shy person because when we talk on vedio he is very talkative.haha.lets see when we meet if he's shy😁
#your new subscribe r from the Philippines 🤗
Thanks for sharing! Height isn't super in the end. :)
@@AleksiHimself your right :-)
Mine didnt work, although we live in Europe. He cant do long distance. Hope yours will work
hi Jessa, having Finnish penpals sounds really cool! i never tried it, do you recommend any website/app?
I came to youtube to see about masters degree admission and stuff as foreign student in Finland and here i am seeing this 😆
😆😆
I’m short lol! I’m only 5’6”
My doctor can’t tell if I’m 5’6 or 5’7 😅
Well what I'm I then? A minion?
Cuz I'm 5"2
@@NaimaMB Meters and centimeters are more precise than foot and inches when you measure the height of a person
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@@alessbritish228 Thank you. So I was definitely correct about me being 5’6.
@@NaimaMB Nice. Out of curiosity, what height would you prefer in a partner?
My dream woman:
*Loves cats.
*Tall, between 170 and 180 cm.
*Brown eyes.
*Plays tennis or wants to learn.
*Is passionate about music.
*Fun and easy-going. Laughs a lot.
*Never wears high heels.
*More tomboy than girly girl.
*Does not have any tattoos.
*Is not German.
7/10 😂
What's wrong with Germans? xD
Why not German?
Thanks for the comment Someone Else!
@@Maho351 everything.
I’m definitely not what most men think of Suomalainen women lol I’m half Finnish, Black, Romany Canadian so I’m definitely listening up here lol 🤗💙🇫🇮⚔️🇨🇦 I love that you say you’re a Nasty Mutha👏🏽👏🏽ka lol 😋
What do Finns about dating foreigners? ua-cam.com/video/IxU9hb8jjqs/v-deo.html
Aleksi IS naughty...
Idk why Oriental Roasted you... I was genuinely appauled by it
Thanks!
@@AleksiHimself you're welcome... I at first, had respect for Anmimg until she pulled that video.. about you and another youtuber called wouter
@AleksiHimself
Next year im going to be 31. Am i too old for Finnish dating market? Do u think still some sexy Finnish guys are there old like me ?😂
No worries. You're not old at all and I'm sure many Finnish guys will be interested. ;)
Asiahan on niin, että tämän testin vihreet vastaukset, eivät todista kaikkien Suomalaisten unelmanaista, saatika kerro edes että, minkälaisen unelmanaisen suurinosa Suomalaista haluaisi, koska tähän kyselyyn, ei kuitenkaan kaikki Suomalaiset ole vastanneet.
Ja teidän, että Suomessa on myös heitä, joita parisuhde saatika seksi, ei kiinnosta tippaakaan. Joten tämän testin tulokseen, ei kannata luottaa 100%
Joo täysin totta.
Tuli vähän parempi mieli koska lähes mikään noista kohdista ei osunu itteen.
sex every day? kiimaiset! kuin hullu puurosta 😉 Hyvä sinulle! 🤘
Fins are naughty😉🤭
Yep!
I hate that fake, cartoon character red hair, but then again, I am not a guy. lol
I see!
Are there natural redhead girls in Finland? 🤔
Yes we have.
Aleksi, get a grip!
:DD
You don't need to find out anything Finland is going to be underwater in 2 years so solve all your problems
Seems that your prediction went underwater, try again?