For me I had to sort of cheese it. I'll go above and beyond for others but not for myself. I had to imagine my heart/interests as a child separate from myself, who was also struggling to take action for herself, and this allowed me to start taking action. Because she's worth it.
That’s a creative and beautiful approach. Sometimes my way on with setting healthy boundaries is a little like that, to get clarity, I think what would I want for my friend or my daughter and then I know straight away, then act on that for myself. Finding ways to help ourselves make wise decisions is a good thing 🙌
This worked for my mum and for me. At other times I find the motto "apply your own oxygen mask before helping others" to be the way to overcome resistance to basic self care
@@stevecarter8810 Exactly. I often say to clients we can't give from an empty well. It's just not possible. We need to keep ourselves topped up. As a healer for example I have regular therapeutic sessions in different forms to keep on top of managing general life stresses myself, because in a very real way, if I'm not okay - I can't help others. I really do think it's the emotionally intelligent thing to do, no one is an island.
@@mayatender yes absolutely. Timing is important too. I need my breaks as much as I need to take action. We need to find our balance. Plus we all have conflicting parts. Action for me in this sense means making meaningful steps with conviction towards our wellbeing or our dreams - rather than pushing ourselves to ‘hustle’ harder or ‘be perfect’.
Title made me wanna subscribe because with My CPTSD, adhd, and spiritual awakening/ascension stuff, I know exactly what I wanna do and what I have to do, and my goal, but it’s so hard for me to actually start and make it happen, that’s the part that need to be talked about. thanks!
One step at a time huh. Working with trauma symptoms can make everything else feel out of reach as you’re in survival mode - or at least it did for me. EFT and bodycode were the two modalities that cleared my symptoms personally. Then I felt able to work on my dreams rather than survive. With adhd depending on your focus I know that group coaching helped fellow entrepreneurs as well as one to one - but that was for business. Focus mate is a tool - body doubling online tool which helps many with adhd too to focus (and those without!) in case you’re looking for support. What ever path you choose I wish you good luck
I can definitely relate to the person who asked that question. I mean, I have all my goals listed that I want to accomplish, and yet, I'm still consuming youtube videos, listening to people talk about something I already know to do. It's frustrating.
An idea for you I you are open to suggestions. Maybe try automatic writing? - no thinking just writing. With the question of why am I not reaching my goals or attempting them… I use to find this really useful for uncovering fears and mental blocks to work with - either solo or in sessions on an energetic level for myself. Perhaps you know already or don’t need a new suggestion but it just popped into my mind. It’s a very common experience- you’re not alone in this struggle
Yes even working with your intuition requires building not only the intuitive skills but the habit of doing it and taking action! All takes time… thanks for subscribing!
I appreciate how short and to the point this video is, thank you for that. I cannot begin to tell you just how much I don't want to spend watching another half an hour video to tell me the same thing, only accompanied by a tirade of other things I did not come there for. I don't mean this comment as an incentive to push yourself to make shorter videos, of course. Make them however long you need them to be. I did click on the video because of how short it was, though; the longer ones I tend to save and not watch ever, since they end up daunting to go through.
exactly mine at the moment. Resistance. My brain is as creative as a writer. I have already mastered some resistance, sometimes it also helps me to say out loud again and again: I feel resistance in me, which is stored in my body. Meaning that is old, that is not necessarily me today. Thank you for being here with us at this time!
Sometimes we can have different layers of internal resistance can’t we? I’ve hit a layer now where the energy I’m clearing isn’t even my own but ancestral. What’s going can have different layers to it. Great that’s working for you 🎉
@@nicoledrummondintuitive I would be curious to know what are the signs to tell you you're working through ancestral energy blocks rather than your own? Is there an energetic key or signature that alerts you to it when you are doing the body code or EFT? Thank you, this was a great video and straight to the point of what's been eating at me
@ good question. Well it’s different depending on if it’s in me or if I see it in a client. If it’s in myself the truth is - it’s hard for me to tell! I know if it’s ’not mine’ ie an absorbed emotion which is a bit different if I can feel emotions moving in me but I’m blocked from being able to access the content. I’d just feels like an animal trapped in a bag kicking around inside me (!) but when it’s moly own - I can access the memories even if that’s past life. I received belief code recently and a gave them problematic areas to work on. The beliefs that came up were many inherited - which I wasn’t aware of. But I did know they had a strange intensity to them but I didn’t know why. When I work with clients however - as o can see and feel what’s going on, I sense say the emotion of grief but then I will see ‘cords’ coming off their back and attaching to figures behind them and then I know it’s not theirs. Or I ask ‘is this yours, ancestral or a past life’ if I sense it feels ‘different’ and I’ll find out it’s ancestral on mothers line 6 generations back or something. It’s all layers really. I think many of us are now doing the healing work past generations couldn’t do and not just for ourselves for the family line. Hope that helps - it can be subtle work. But some of my clients are very aware of the ancestral burdens they carry as it’s heavy others it’s much less impactful or subtle.
@@nicoledrummondintuitive Thanks very much for your detailed reply! Yes, I believe we're doing a lot of healing work for past generations. They weren't free enough to do it themselves, so it's incredibly lucky and important for us to do so if we're able to and have the time. I've worked with my own attached cords, though didn't realize what they could be connected to. Thanks for this insight. I plan to explore connecting with these ancestors soon and thanking them, too. Very good stuff. Your words have stuck with me the last few days.
This is the kind of stuff people need to think about. It's so tuff when you wake up and your old life is over and that life was your bread and butter. This lady is right on point.
eft tapping has been incredibly helpful for me! I've never felt aligned with doing it until recently and the shifts internally have been big since doing it daily and then when I am feeling resistance / anxiety / fear
Holding the intention is sooo important while we're at it! While we are progressing towards the embodiment and action piece. I love how short and to the point your message is ❤❤
Great advice. Rome wasn't built in a day. It takes time for things to process. Like something I learned years ago is just now setting in and I understand it. And I thought it was just me. I have a resistance to things that I want to do, it's our brain being afraid of change or like you said a bad experience it's still linked to.
I agree, doing things with others can be very motivating however we need to learn discipline and try to do things independently therefore not being codependent on others when it comes to us healing and or accomplishing certain goals etc. great vid because my goal this year was to listen to my intuition more bc at some point last year I was really getting a lot of feedback from it just had to Listen 👂
I think we each need different things at different times. Being part of a community doesn’t mean becoming codependent I don’t think. I was part of a group coaching experience for 2 years and felt the difference of being with others going through similar experiences- it was empowering, comforting and supportive. Doing everything solo can feel very isolating and less spirited. It depends on how we relate to groups I guess. There is a power in love and support from others on the journey I have learnt that from trying to do too much solo. But I don’t feel dependent on it, but I know personally in that group for example, I felt better for it. Depends where we are at on our journey
What a lovely first video for me from you, to start my new year - the universe provides - as some of my ponderings & reflections have been around this type of struggle. You're absolutely lovely & beautiful, such a nice voice & energy, and good, helpful insights too, worded in a respectful offering manner across countless diversities. Thank you Nicole 🤗🧠✨🌐🙏
This has been an issue for me for life, it´s difficult to take action, not only on intuitive messages but systematically, as if I had the handbrake on all the time. On top of my own frustration my family (and our culture!) values external and visible action above everything. Feeling judged by the outside and by myself further paralyzed me... For years (I´m 60!) I pushed against my chronic resistance to "move and act" using a variety of "psychological tools": sustained effort, commitment, will power, create habits, determination, calendars, prioritize tasks, lists, timers, visualization, motivational podcasts, affirmations, audios before sleep...anything I came across. Some of this techniques worked for a while untill they didn´t (much like a diet ). It was like a part of me said: unless there´s a deathline or an external force I won't move! (I won´t eat healthy, exercise, write that book, take that class, phone that friend, make that trip...) Then I decided I was fed up with trying to change! So the last couple years I've centered myself only in observing my reactions to stuff and through them find out at what point in my evolution I actually am. And then accepting it with compassion and loving myself no matter what. Just that, stopped struggling to change anything. And (ironically) the resistance has diminished, slowly but surely. It feels only like baby steps, but I'm happier and more at peace with myself than I've been in years. Big sigh...
I think there is no one fit all solution to anything and it sounds like you found the approach for you which is perfect. Well done I'm pleased for you, sounds like a relief.
Yes 28 days to form a new pattern so that it becomes easy /automatic. Love this conversation about resistance. CBT can work to turn it around too, especially if you have great body awareness ie you can use body sensations, somstisation to receive subtle messages through changes registered. This allows you to work with responding by choice, through decision making and healthy mindset. I don't have a constant internal dialogue with negative self talk or various conflicting voices. I only have my conscious, self directed voice, however that doesn't mean that I don't have negative self beliefs. It's just that they manifest somatically rather than aurally. There's no words telling me that I don't deserve to be treated kindly or that I won't succeed or that I'm not good enough or strong enough to undertake something. There's just nebulous feelings that affect my body, so I've had to learn to read my body and that turns out to be a blessing, a power house because you feel things in your body before your thoughts are formed,. It's primal and primary. It gets to the root of the fears and doubts more quickly. So whilst it was very confusing when I was younger, now I am onto it it's like having antennae 🙏😎🤗🧡🦋
@@JGalegria that’s great that you know that, can trust it and it works! I really think we are our natural ‘ways in’ - modalities we prefer or that speak to us and ways in which messages speak loudest. Enhancing that is a great approach 👍 we just want something that creates the change we are looking for. thanks for sharing 😊
Yes… for me the ‘intuitive message’ seems clear, but is just sitting in limbo because of a lack of motivation/energy on my part. It’s a great topic… as mentioned by many here. I figure… this intuition will keep reappearing + at some point, for me, the motivation/energy will come back + I will take action, but it does feel like things are being “held back” purposely somehow , 🤔 so I am trying to be patient with myself as well. 😳✨♥️✨🙏🏼✨🇨🇦✨🌎
It's a case of knowing ourselves well, knowing our tendencies I think. So if I worked with a client or with myself, I would be asking, is this lack of motivation because actually rest is important right now, or is this a chronic issue I need to look at, at a deeper level and work on. It depends. But timing is absolutely key. I've had an intuition feeling about my work for example for 12 years around teaching but it's only now starting to materialise - due to a lot of inner and outer work, all self discovery. Also when it comes to projects to start or conversations to be had, I am always feeling into sensing if the timing is right, it might need to happen, but not yet. Like, I know there is a book/s to write, but not yet. I trust I will know when. So a confident relationship with our intuition is important too. Lots of variables. I think sadly many, or most people, in the world will never follow their intuitive hits and stay in lives that are unsatisfactory as they have a 'fixed mindset', don't like uncertainty or want to face the fear. I'm not suggesting this is you! Staying in the relationship, the job, the country, so on, because the leap is too scary - even when our intuition calls us. For example I know a writer, I asked if she wasn't writing cos she was struggling on book ideas - she said oh no, I have 4 clear ideas outlined in my mind but its too hard - dealing with her perfectionism and inner critic / negative dialogue. This is an ambitious intelligent, emotionally smart woman who has the time. I believe she has started writing but our issues can stop us from ever starting. wishing you luck with the exploration... 🌟
💎You can receive intuitive information and not take physical action, but you can take mental action or non action. Just being, silence and no physical action is the highest form of God Consciousness. If you are in alignment and balanced, Your intuition will tell you when to move, and what to do. Sometimes resting is the next move. Helps you to listen to yourself and catch up to your lessons. You may need to do mental creativity to strategize and create your new life plans, if it seems like you are stuck. We’ve been programmed to believe we must DO all the time or we are unproductive and lazy. Not true
Yes this is all true - it all depends on the individual situation. I'm not advocating hustle culture. But if you are stuck and want to take action on your intuitive hits, and it is timely, there are approaches you can take to support yourself that can help. I find most people struggle to do anything with the intuitive information that comes to them, I want to support them to listen and go with it.
I had the same issue. I was guided to something but had tremendous fear around it. What one thinks is easy can be quite daunting for another. My process: Over the course of a few weeks, I did several energy clearings concerning the fear. Intentional showers and salt baths to release the fear. Then, I imagined myself taking the actions. A few days later, I drove to the place. Sat in the parking lot and cried. I allowed myself to feel the fear. A few days after that, I dressed as if I was going inside the establishment. I put no pressure to do anything but take those small steps. However, that day, I actually ended up going in, and I met the sweetest, most heart centered ppl to help me through the initial process. Now, I'm feeling motivated and excited! 🥰 Be gentle and kind to yourself. Energetic work IS taking action. Believe it & you will succeed! We came here to do BIG things! The Universe will be the wind to your back. Trust that it's already done. I believe in you! You've got this! ❤
Amazing I love this ❤ I absolutely agree, we all have different mountains to climb. You found a way / methods to face yours - that takes real courage. Well done 🎉
That last part reminds me of how, whenever I need to take a shower, I find myself procrastinating for up to an hour first. And I think it's as simple as, my body does NOT want to go through the pain and humiliation of falling in the bathroom again. Lying on the floor, naked and wet and feeling like a hideous destructive oaf. I think it's telling me, 'Look, can we just avoid the possibility of that happening ever again?' And I have to tell it, 'No. we stink. Do you want to make our friends uncomfortable?' So maybe that's another solution: fight embarrassment with embarrassment.
@@nicoledrummondintuitive Oh, it was just the one time! A completely random occurrence that could happen to anyone. My body just _really disliked it!_ Thanks very much for being concerned about me though! :)
Thank you for this. New subbie here. 😊 I felt the pull to start giving my YT channel more attention. The action itself has been a blast and very rewarding. This has been the confirmation that I should be following this intuition. 😊
Empty castles Walking in the rain Walking fast-head down No castles in Spain No pretty flowers, no night on the town Don’t look up-don’t look around Can’t lose if you don’t play So many moments denied No precious gems - no rings of gold So many tears uncried Stories untold No need to take back what wasn’t said Can’t lose if you don’t play So many words unspoken So many letters unwritten Unsigned - unread Empty enveloppes instead It’s the hurt of a stare that you do not own Can’t lose if you don’t play Walking in the rain Walking fast-unkind weather No champagne No pretty flowers, no forever It’s the pain of a word that overreached Can’t lose if you don’t play No castles in Spain No dreamy fountain No kneeling down for you Head down - I loved you Play, laugh, love, hurt, cry, touch, kneel Never lasts longer than forever
@@agoogleuser7055 we are all different. I see it in my clients that for some they have managed to make shifts quicker than others and some of that is due to personal history and some personality so on. If it was that easy, we would all be doing it. Some people desire change and others actively resist it as well! I’m interested in reflecting on what’s stopping us so we can make promising steps forward. Being honest with ourselves and take some form of action so we can move forward
Yes I love 'deep work' Cal Newport. I found that very helpful with the concept of focus www.amazon.co.uk/Deep-Work-Focused-Success-Distracted/dp/0349411905 When I have been on a retreat its VERY noticeable how much the world tries to pull your attention in different directions.
Thinking about it, being in the fantasy of doing it, oughta get some neuro pathways in order as well. Been some science on it. idk seems like legit placebo activation or what have ya 💁 I like to think myself into a dream with what concept I'd like to get more of a grip of - A powernap aimed at figuring out something can really clear your head yknow?
@@menosproblemos6993 yes working with visualisation and gratitude can support the creation of those habits definitely. Dr Joe dispenzas work on this is amazing.
What if my intuition often doesn’t feel like intuition though? And rather programmed guilt about the habit we may or may not be engaging in? It’s hard to discern if the intuition is programming or something more.
I'm not sure I understand the question to be honest - but I will have a go at answering. Intuition is usually subtle, not always, and has your best interests and highest good at heart. We all have our way of picking up that information through the different senses. Confidence in it can come with practice, experience and perhaps guidance or training. A sense of programming, habit and guilt - personally, that sounds like clearing work to be done. Your intuition might be pointing to the work that needs to be done but those 'heavy' feelings aren't your intuition.
It’s kind of stuck , donno where is the life leads , financially stuck .. but emotionally and spiritually far better than years back , and inaction and the same repetitive days makes me sad about life ! It’s happy of being myself after a long years of frustrations , but when I enter in to the society , and the people are very fast in thyre material life , I feel am nowhere near to them , it’s not like a comparison or getting better than them , I just want to see some material growth , but if anybody ask what u do for it , I am literally in inaction now 😢, and if anybody says am in comfortzone., literally no , dealing with a lot !
@@vineeth6526 one thing at a time huh? We have to be in an emotionally and mentally more stable place to be able to thrive in other areas and you’ve been working on that which is amazing. You know the next area to tackle which is finances so that can be the next step. All these things take time - whether we are working on financial beliefs or trying to create in the material world. Sometimes these things can take longer than we would like but to have done that inner work on yourself really is a hero’s journey. Well done keep going 💓
It takes time for the mentally lazy. It takes less time to change a yes habit into a no habit than a no habit into a yes habit. 《Do or don't do, there is no try.》
I think some people have a fixed mindset and struggle more as they are dealing with fear. Others a growth mind set and are more able to engage with the fear and discomfort. It's fear I see people encountering personally.
sry to have not watched the rest of the channel and left a comment, but the example doesn't sound like intuition to me, it just sounds like the ego being a doosh bag telling you you're not good enough if it's just telling u that. No wonder you're not taking action if that's the case. The intuition - the Actual intuition is in fact inseparable from your body, listen to that first.
Well in this example she was receiving intuitive information on foods to eat - if I remember correctly but wasn't heeding / taking action. Her ego wasn't involved. She was looking for motivation to support herself to make healthy choices she was being directed too. I think most of us can relate to that.
Great video! Thought yal might like this: The Dollhouse of God’s Greatest Fear, by J🐑 - What is God’s two greatest fears? The Absolute Void that could end all reality? That’s God’s 1st fear, but it’s not its greatest. For the Lord had never felt fear nor comprehended that it even existed. At lest not until a little girl ask God to play doll~house with her. So they played & played doll~house into the late summer afternoon. There was tea and crumpets. Jokes and riddles. Laughter and all other emotions. It was the bestest of times. Then it became dark, which turned the play into the worstest of times. All because God beg and beg the little girl to tale God a scary story. So she did. And then God ask her tale another scary story. So she did. Then God said “Tell me the scariest story you know.” So the little girl thought and thought. Just when she thought that she couldn’t conceive it, a devilish grin came over her. Which scared God, just a little. But God really-really wanted to know the story. So, the little girl whispered into God’s ear the scariest story she knew. Which made it the scariest story God would ever known. In fact it became God’s greatest fear. That’s when God knew what real fear was. That how the scariest, shortest story ever was told while playing with dolls. After all, what’s politics and war? Little boys playing with their dolls, but it’s real.
For me I had to sort of cheese it.
I'll go above and beyond for others but not for myself.
I had to imagine my heart/interests as a child separate from myself, who was also struggling to take action for herself, and this allowed me to start taking action. Because she's worth it.
That’s a creative and beautiful approach. Sometimes my way on with setting healthy boundaries is a little like that, to get clarity, I think what would I want for my friend or my daughter and then I know straight away, then act on that for myself. Finding ways to help ourselves make wise decisions is a good thing 🙌
This worked for my mum and for me. At other times I find the motto "apply your own oxygen mask before helping others" to be the way to overcome resistance to basic self care
@@stevecarter8810 Exactly. I often say to clients we can't give from an empty well. It's just not possible. We need to keep ourselves topped up. As a healer for example I have regular therapeutic sessions in different forms to keep on top of managing general life stresses myself, because in a very real way, if I'm not okay - I can't help others. I really do think it's the emotionally intelligent thing to do, no one is an island.
this makes so much sense for me thank you
Start saying NO to people. Don't be a doormat.
Practise saying no - alone.
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Also giving compassion to the part of you that doesn't want to take the action. And compassion to the part that wants to.
@@mayatender yes absolutely. Timing is important too. I need my breaks as much as I need to take action. We need to find our balance. Plus we all have conflicting parts. Action for me in this sense means making meaningful steps with conviction towards our wellbeing or our dreams - rather than pushing ourselves to ‘hustle’ harder or ‘be perfect’.
@@nicoledrummondintuitive well said
Title made me wanna subscribe because with My CPTSD, adhd, and spiritual awakening/ascension stuff, I know exactly what I wanna do and what I have to do, and my goal, but it’s so hard for me to actually start and make it happen, that’s the part that need to be talked about. thanks!
One step at a time huh. Working with trauma symptoms can make everything else feel out of reach as you’re in survival mode - or at least it did for me. EFT and bodycode were the two modalities that cleared my symptoms personally. Then I felt able to work on my dreams rather than survive. With adhd depending on your focus I know that group coaching helped fellow entrepreneurs as well as one to one - but that was for business. Focus mate is a tool - body doubling online tool which helps many with adhd too to focus (and those without!) in case you’re looking for support. What ever path you choose I wish you good luck
@@nicoledrummondintuitiveSo helpful! Thank you so much lovely ❤
THIS
Hey i understand exactly how you feel and I am there with you. The title definitely fed straight into my algorithm
144 Likes.. I Totally Agree💯💯💯 And the Title Shouted Out for Me to Subscribe.
I can definitely relate to the person who asked that question. I mean, I have all my goals listed that I want to accomplish, and yet, I'm still consuming youtube videos, listening to people talk about something I already know to do. It's frustrating.
An idea for you I you are open to suggestions. Maybe try automatic writing? - no thinking just writing. With the question of why am I not reaching my goals or attempting them… I use to find this really useful for uncovering fears and mental blocks to work with - either solo or in sessions on an energetic level for myself. Perhaps you know already or don’t need a new suggestion but it just popped into my mind. It’s a very common experience- you’re not alone in this struggle
Your first point made me subscribe immediately. No one talks about how it takes time to build new habits!!
Yes even working with your intuition requires building not only the intuitive skills but the habit of doing it and taking action! All takes time… thanks for subscribing!
I appreciate how short and to the point this video is, thank you for that. I cannot begin to tell you just how much I don't want to spend watching another half an hour video to tell me the same thing, only accompanied by a tirade of other things I did not come there for. I don't mean this comment as an incentive to push yourself to make shorter videos, of course. Make them however long you need them to be. I did click on the video because of how short it was, though; the longer ones I tend to save and not watch ever, since they end up daunting to go through.
Glad it was helpful!
Same. Also I always appreciate the lack of a phony facial expression in the thumbnail.
exactly mine at the moment. Resistance. My brain is as creative as a writer. I have already mastered some resistance, sometimes it also helps me to say out loud again and again: I feel resistance in me, which is stored in my body. Meaning that is old, that is not necessarily me today.
Thank you for being here with us at this time!
Sometimes we can have different layers of internal resistance can’t we? I’ve hit a layer now where the energy I’m clearing isn’t even my own but ancestral. What’s going can have different layers to it. Great that’s working for you 🎉
@@nicoledrummondintuitive I would be curious to know what are the signs to tell you you're working through ancestral energy blocks rather than your own? Is there an energetic key or signature that alerts you to it when you are doing the body code or EFT? Thank you, this was a great video and straight to the point of what's been eating at me
@ good question. Well it’s different depending on if it’s in me or if I see it in a client.
If it’s in myself the truth is - it’s hard for me to tell! I know if it’s ’not mine’ ie an absorbed emotion which is a bit different if I can feel emotions moving in me but I’m blocked from being able to access the content. I’d just feels like an animal trapped in a bag kicking around inside me (!) but when it’s moly own - I can access the memories even if that’s past life.
I received belief code recently and a gave them problematic areas to work on. The beliefs that came up were many inherited - which I wasn’t aware of. But I did know they had a strange intensity to them but I didn’t know why.
When I work with clients however - as o can see and feel what’s going on, I sense say the emotion of grief but then I will see ‘cords’ coming off their back and attaching to figures behind them and then I know it’s not theirs. Or I ask ‘is this yours, ancestral or a past life’ if I sense it feels ‘different’ and I’ll find out it’s ancestral on mothers line 6 generations back or something.
It’s all layers really. I think many of us are now doing the healing work past generations couldn’t do and not just for ourselves for the family line.
Hope that helps - it can be subtle work. But some of my clients are very aware of the ancestral burdens they carry as it’s heavy others it’s much less impactful or subtle.
@@nicoledrummondintuitive Thanks very much for your detailed reply! Yes, I believe we're doing a lot of healing work for past generations. They weren't free enough to do it themselves, so it's incredibly lucky and important for us to do so if we're able to and have the time. I've worked with my own attached cords, though didn't realize what they could be connected to. Thanks for this insight. I plan to explore connecting with these ancestors soon and thanking them, too. Very good stuff. Your words have stuck with me the last few days.
@ best of luck with it. It can be very liberating work I’ve found and is healing other generations - forwards and backwards energetically
This is the kind of stuff people need to think about.
It's so tuff when you wake up and your old life is over and that life was your bread and butter.
This lady is right on point.
thanks
eft tapping has been incredibly helpful for me! I've never felt aligned with doing it until recently and the shifts internally have been big since doing it daily and then when I am feeling resistance / anxiety / fear
EFT was a game changer for me too and body code. The two have been my go to’s. Thanks for sharing
Holding the intention is sooo important while we're at it! While we are progressing towards the embodiment and action piece. I love how short and to the point your message is ❤❤
Yes I agree intention is important. Glad you liked the video :)
Working on this myself, I really want to eat clean healthy foods. Thanks 🙏
Good plan
Lovely to see someone I know pop in my suggested viewings... great to see you thriving on here Nicole 🙏🙏⭐⭐
Ah! Thank you Tom! Good to see you on here too :)
Also, it really helps to ground yourself even more. This is where some individuals " lose it ". The no man's land between an idea and action.
@@fahadcalpoly this is true.
Great advice. Rome wasn't built in a day. It takes time for things to process. Like something I learned years ago is just now setting in and I understand it. And I thought it was just me. I have a resistance to things that I want to do, it's our brain being afraid of change or like you said a bad experience it's still linked to.
Absolutely! This is spot on.
@nicoledrummondintuitive 🙏🏻🩷
Please post more on this but tbh this 2 and a half minutes was SO HELPFUL.
I agree, doing things with others can be very motivating however we need to learn discipline and try to do things independently therefore not being codependent on others when it comes to us healing and or accomplishing certain goals etc. great vid because my goal this year was to listen to my intuition more bc at some point last year I was really getting a lot of feedback from it just had to
Listen 👂
I think we each need different things at different times. Being part of a community doesn’t mean becoming codependent I don’t think. I was part of a group coaching experience for 2 years and felt the difference of being with others going through similar experiences- it was empowering, comforting and supportive. Doing everything solo can feel very isolating and less spirited. It depends on how we relate to groups I guess. There is a power in love and support from others on the journey I have learnt that from trying to do too much solo. But I don’t feel dependent on it, but I know personally in that group for example, I felt better for it. Depends where we are at on our journey
What a lovely first video for me from you, to start my new year - the universe provides - as some of my ponderings & reflections have been around this type of struggle.
You're absolutely lovely & beautiful, such a nice voice & energy, and good, helpful insights too, worded in a respectful offering manner across countless diversities.
Thank you Nicole 🤗🧠✨🌐🙏
I’m glad it landed at the right time for you and thank you for your kind words. You’re most welcome ❤
Cheers to whoever asked this question. And thank you for your encouraging suggestions.
my pleasure
I just randomly got recommended this video. You are beautiful lady, your voice is pretty too. Have a good year
You too!
This has been an issue for me for life, it´s difficult to take action, not only on intuitive messages but systematically, as if I had the handbrake on all the time. On top of my own frustration my family (and our culture!) values external and visible action above everything. Feeling judged by the outside and by myself further paralyzed me...
For years (I´m 60!) I pushed against my chronic resistance to "move and act" using a variety of "psychological tools": sustained effort, commitment, will power, create habits, determination, calendars, prioritize tasks, lists, timers, visualization, motivational podcasts, affirmations, audios before sleep...anything I came across. Some of this techniques worked for a while untill they didn´t (much like a diet ). It was like a part of me said: unless there´s a deathline or an external force I won't move! (I won´t eat healthy, exercise, write that book, take that class, phone that friend, make that trip...)
Then I decided I was fed up with trying to change! So the last couple years I've centered myself only in observing my reactions to stuff and through them find out at what point in my evolution I actually am. And then accepting it with compassion and loving myself no matter what. Just that, stopped struggling to change anything. And (ironically) the resistance has diminished, slowly but surely. It feels only like baby steps, but I'm happier and more at peace with myself than I've been in years. Big sigh...
I think there is no one fit all solution to anything and it sounds like you found the approach for you which is perfect. Well done I'm pleased for you, sounds like a relief.
@nicoledrummondintuitive thanks for your kind words 🙂
So much to think about. Thank you ❤
You are so welcome
Very useful!
Glad you think so!
This helped me. Thank you
I'm so glad!
First video to pop up in my feed today! I took that as a sign and it is precisely my issue at the moment. Thank You! 🙏✌️
Wonderful!
Looking at this video and this comment thread, we have found each other. Amazing.
Amazing!
Thank you for your video & *guidance* gal.
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You are so welcome
Yes 28 days to form a new pattern so that it becomes easy /automatic. Love this conversation about resistance. CBT can work to turn it around too, especially if you have great body awareness ie you can use body sensations, somstisation to receive subtle messages through changes registered. This allows you to work with responding by choice, through decision making and healthy mindset. I don't have a constant internal dialogue with negative self talk or various conflicting voices. I only have my conscious, self directed voice, however that doesn't mean that I don't have negative self beliefs. It's just that they manifest somatically rather than aurally. There's no words telling me that I don't deserve to be treated kindly or that I won't succeed or that I'm not good enough or strong enough to undertake something. There's just nebulous feelings that affect my body, so I've had to learn to read my body and that turns out to be a blessing, a power house because you feel things in your body before your thoughts are formed,. It's primal and primary. It gets to the root of the fears and doubts more quickly. So whilst it was very confusing when I was younger, now I am onto it it's like having antennae 🙏😎🤗🧡🦋
@@JGalegria that’s great that you know that, can trust it and it works! I really think we are our natural ‘ways in’ - modalities we prefer or that speak to us and ways in which messages speak loudest. Enhancing that is a great approach 👍 we just want something that creates the change we are looking for. thanks for sharing 😊
Beautiful Message. Beautifully Communicated.
Huge Blessings 💜💜💜
thank you
Yes… for me the ‘intuitive message’ seems clear, but is just sitting in limbo because of a lack of motivation/energy on my part. It’s a great topic… as mentioned by many here. I figure… this intuition will keep reappearing + at some point, for me, the motivation/energy will come back + I will take action, but it does feel like things are being “held back” purposely somehow , 🤔 so I am trying to be patient with myself as well.
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It's a case of knowing ourselves well, knowing our tendencies I think. So if I worked with a client or with myself, I would be asking, is this lack of motivation because actually rest is important right now, or is this a chronic issue I need to look at, at a deeper level and work on. It depends.
But timing is absolutely key. I've had an intuition feeling about my work for example for 12 years around teaching but it's only now starting to materialise - due to a lot of inner and outer work, all self discovery. Also when it comes to projects to start or conversations to be had, I am always feeling into sensing if the timing is right, it might need to happen, but not yet. Like, I know there is a book/s to write, but not yet. I trust I will know when. So a confident relationship with our intuition is important too. Lots of variables.
I think sadly many, or most people, in the world will never follow their intuitive hits and stay in lives that are unsatisfactory as they have a 'fixed mindset', don't like uncertainty or want to face the fear. I'm not suggesting this is you! Staying in the relationship, the job, the country, so on, because the leap is too scary - even when our intuition calls us.
For example I know a writer, I asked if she wasn't writing cos she was struggling on book ideas - she said oh no, I have 4 clear ideas outlined in my mind but its too hard - dealing with her perfectionism and inner critic / negative dialogue. This is an ambitious intelligent, emotionally smart woman who has the time. I believe she has started writing but our issues can stop us from ever starting.
wishing you luck with the exploration... 🌟
Thank you Nicole, excellent thoughts. I have subscribed. Happy New Year
@@fortune. discoverhealing.com/the-body-code/ link to bodycode you asked for!
💎You can receive intuitive information and not take physical action, but you can take mental action or non action. Just being, silence and no physical action is the highest form of God Consciousness. If you are in alignment and balanced, Your intuition will tell you when to move, and what to do. Sometimes resting is the next move. Helps you to listen to yourself and catch up to your lessons. You may need to do mental creativity to strategize and create your new life plans, if it seems like you are stuck. We’ve been programmed to believe we must DO all the time or we are unproductive and lazy. Not true
Yes this is all true - it all depends on the individual situation. I'm not advocating hustle culture. But if you are stuck and want to take action on your intuitive hits, and it is timely, there are approaches you can take to support yourself that can help. I find most people struggle to do anything with the intuitive information that comes to them, I want to support them to listen and go with it.
This video helps to me so much, it helps me to feel identifed with it, very true
Lovely to hear ❤
I had the same issue. I was guided to something but had tremendous fear around it. What one thinks is easy can be quite daunting for another.
My process:
Over the course of a few weeks, I did several energy clearings concerning the fear. Intentional showers and salt baths to release the fear. Then, I imagined myself taking the actions.
A few days later, I drove to the place. Sat in the parking lot and cried. I allowed myself to feel the fear.
A few days after that, I dressed as if I was going inside the establishment. I put no pressure to do anything but take those small steps. However, that day, I actually ended up going in, and I met the sweetest, most heart centered ppl to help me through the initial process.
Now, I'm feeling motivated and excited! 🥰
Be gentle and kind to yourself. Energetic work IS taking action. Believe it & you will succeed!
We came here to do BIG things! The Universe will be the wind to your back. Trust that it's already done.
I believe in you! You've got this! ❤
Amazing I love this ❤ I absolutely agree, we all have different mountains to climb. You found a way / methods to face yours - that takes real courage. Well done 🎉
Yes yes yes! Energetic work IS taking action!!!
What a help, very encouraging. ❤
Thank you
You're welcome
Great advice thank you xx
You are so welcome!
life is too short for not taking action
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Thank you so much.❤ That was very useful and I'm so grateful to you for sharing it!
you're welcome 😃
I feel I AM RESISTANCE. So let BIG SPACE enter me so that I do not get lost in me. :)
Found this channel video now.
Thank you.
You're welcome
Very good advice. I found it to be a great reminder!
So glad!
That last part reminds me of how, whenever I need to take a shower, I find myself procrastinating for up to an hour first. And I think it's as simple as, my body does NOT want to go through the pain and humiliation of falling in the bathroom again. Lying on the floor, naked and wet and feeling like a hideous destructive oaf. I think it's telling me, 'Look, can we just avoid the possibility of that happening ever again?' And I have to tell it, 'No. we stink. Do you want to make our friends uncomfortable?' So maybe that's another solution: fight embarrassment with embarrassment.
Sounds very difficult Alex. I hope you can get some home support to help prevent the falls, sounds serious.
@@nicoledrummondintuitive Oh, it was just the one time! A completely random occurrence that could happen to anyone. My body just _really disliked it!_
Thanks very much for being concerned about me though! :)
"Idea allergy" is good
Check out body code if you're interested in this as that healing system clears idea allergies.
very beautifully said
Eating the right food help me with my habits.
That's great
Thank you for this. New subbie here. 😊 I felt the pull to start giving my YT channel more attention. The action itself has been a blast and very rewarding. This has been the confirmation that I should be following this intuition. 😊
@@jeanshelbybooks perfect! 👌
My CPTSD has left me paralyzed with fear of action sometimes.
Definitely one of the effects it can have huh. Hope you find the trauma healing support to help
Great video! I have found that as cheesy as it is treat your body as a temple, because it is, don’t just consume crap both visually and physically.
Always good to eat healthy
Thank you
You're welcome
Same here. I heard your first sentence boom subscribed. Liked. 2025 energies are crazy.
@@fahadcalpoly thank you ☺️
Me tooo!
Really needed this
Glad it landed at the right time
Write the intention before it escapes you.
that can help
I like how you gave thoughtful practical advice. Mines was just like, just do it silly 😅
Well - it was a real problem for her and many so I thought it through :)
I also think, that is important to believe in yourself.
yes absolutely
Learning project management is key
Empty castles
Walking in the rain
Walking fast-head down
No castles in Spain
No pretty flowers, no night on the town
Don’t look up-don’t look around
Can’t lose if you don’t play
So many moments denied
No precious gems - no rings of gold
So many tears uncried
Stories untold
No need to take back what wasn’t said
Can’t lose if you don’t play
So many words unspoken
So many letters unwritten
Unsigned - unread
Empty enveloppes instead
It’s the hurt of a stare that you do not own
Can’t lose if you don’t play
Walking in the rain
Walking fast-unkind weather
No champagne
No pretty flowers, no forever
It’s the pain of a word that overreached
Can’t lose if you don’t play
No castles in Spain
No dreamy fountain
No kneeling down for you
Head down - I loved you
Play, laugh, love, hurt, cry, touch, kneel
Never lasts longer than forever
Action has Been the word 😮💨
I hear you! Hope the holidays brought some rest if that’s what was needed
It's hard for everyone to make changes. Commit and start.
@@agoogleuser7055 we are all different. I see it in my clients that for some they have managed to make shifts quicker than others and some of that is due to personal history and some personality so on. If it was that easy, we would all be doing it. Some people desire change and others actively resist it as well! I’m interested in reflecting on what’s stopping us so we can make promising steps forward. Being honest with ourselves and take some form of action so we can move forward
thanks
You're welcome!
Everything wants our attention these days we have to conserve it in order to get our things done we need to
Yes I love 'deep work' Cal Newport. I found that very helpful with the concept of focus www.amazon.co.uk/Deep-Work-Focused-Success-Distracted/dp/0349411905 When I have been on a retreat its VERY noticeable how much the world tries to pull your attention in different directions.
i also think we are in a body, machine, a biochemical electromagnetical processing system with agency. idk
I think we are a soul having a human experience
Thinking about it, being in the fantasy of doing it, oughta get some neuro pathways in order as well.
Been some science on it. idk seems like legit placebo activation or what have ya 💁
I like to think myself into a dream with what concept I'd like to get more of a grip of - A powernap aimed at figuring out something can really clear your head yknow?
@@menosproblemos6993 yes working with visualisation and gratitude can support the creation of those habits definitely. Dr Joe dispenzas work on this is amazing.
Thanks this helped
You’re welcome ☺️
What if my intuition often doesn’t feel like intuition though? And rather programmed guilt about the habit we may or may not be engaging in? It’s hard to discern if the intuition is programming or something more.
I'm not sure I understand the question to be honest - but I will have a go at answering.
Intuition is usually subtle, not always, and has your best interests and highest good at heart. We all have our way of picking up that information through the different senses. Confidence in it can come with practice, experience and perhaps guidance or training.
A sense of programming, habit and guilt - personally, that sounds like clearing work to be done. Your intuition might be pointing to the work that needs to be done but those 'heavy' feelings aren't your intuition.
@ thank you! This helps!
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do yu also feel that as time passes the eprience gets volumewtric somehow. highs and lows are more
Not if you get help and do the inner work in my experience
Listen to Abraham Hicks. Period.
I enjoy listening to that
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It’s kind of stuck , donno where is the life leads , financially stuck .. but emotionally and spiritually far better than years back , and inaction and the same repetitive days makes me sad about life ! It’s happy of being myself after a long years of frustrations , but when I enter in to the society , and the people are very fast in thyre material life , I feel am nowhere near to them , it’s not like a comparison or getting better than them , I just want to see some material growth , but if anybody ask what u do for it , I am literally in inaction now 😢, and if anybody says am in comfortzone., literally no , dealing with a lot !
@@vineeth6526 one thing at a time huh? We have to be in an emotionally and mentally more stable place to be able to thrive in other areas and you’ve been working on that which is amazing.
You know the next area to tackle which is finances so that can be the next step. All these things take time - whether we are working on financial beliefs or trying to create in the material world.
Sometimes these things can take longer than we would like but to have done that inner work on yourself really is a hero’s journey. Well done keep going 💓
@ thank you ❤️keep going , god bless you ❤️
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It takes time for the mentally lazy. It takes less time to change a yes habit into a no habit than a no habit into a yes habit. 《Do or don't do, there is no try.》
I think some people have a fixed mindset and struggle more as they are dealing with fear. Others a growth mind set and are more able to engage with the fear and discomfort. It's fear I see people encountering personally.
if im getting intuitive information, im not recognizing it. gonna have to be more obvious than that. become distinct from random ADHD thoughts
@@kingmasterlord yeah you need to be able to know what is intuitive information first
I like this story, but I'm not sure if I understand the conclusion. What did she whisper in God's ear?
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sry to have not watched the rest of the channel and left a comment, but the example doesn't sound like intuition to me, it just sounds like the ego being a doosh bag telling you you're not good enough if it's just telling u that.
No wonder you're not taking action if that's the case.
The intuition - the Actual intuition is in fact inseparable from your body, listen to that first.
Well in this example she was receiving intuitive information on foods to eat - if I remember correctly but wasn't heeding / taking action. Her ego wasn't involved. She was looking for motivation to support herself to make healthy choices she was being directed too. I think most of us can relate to that.
Great video! Thought yal might like this:
The Dollhouse of God’s Greatest Fear, by J🐑
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What is God’s two greatest fears? The Absolute Void that could end all reality? That’s God’s 1st fear, but it’s not its greatest. For the Lord had never felt fear nor comprehended that it even existed. At lest not until a little girl ask God to play doll~house with her. So they played & played doll~house into the late summer afternoon.
There was tea and crumpets. Jokes and riddles. Laughter and all other emotions. It was the bestest of times. Then it became dark, which turned the play into the worstest of times. All because God beg and beg the little girl to tale God a scary story. So she did. And then God ask her tale another scary story. So she did. Then God said “Tell me the scariest story you know.”
So the little girl thought and thought. Just when she thought that she couldn’t conceive it, a devilish grin came over her. Which scared God, just a little. But God really-really wanted to know the story. So, the little girl whispered into God’s ear the scariest story she knew. Which made it the scariest story God would ever known. In fact it became God’s greatest fear. That’s when God knew what real fear was. That how the scariest, shortest story ever was told while playing with dolls. After all, what’s politics and war? Little boys playing with their dolls, but it’s real.
thanks