The Advantage of Being a Highly Sensitive and Gifted Child Nobody Tells You | Dr. Gabor Maté

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  • @yourinnerchildmatters
    @yourinnerchildmatters  2 місяці тому +13

    Thank you very much for watching! If you’ve ever felt like being sensitive is a burden, you’re not alone. Dr. Gabor Maté shares amazing insights that help us understand the power of sensitivity. It’s time to embrace our unique strengths! I’d love to hear your thoughts on this. How has sensitivity shaped your life or the lives of those around you? Let’s support each other in this journey!
    Don't forget to share this video with anyone who might benefit from it. Together, we can create a community of understanding and growth! #SensitivePeople #DrGaborMate #EmbraceSensitivity #PersonalGrowth #CommunitySupport #MentalHealthAwareness

    • @rowanstarling3816
      @rowanstarling3816 9 днів тому +2

      Is there another book, beside Dr. mate's book you are referencing? I was unclear about that. I have read "The Highly Sensitive Person" about 16 years ago and that is when I discovered that there are others like me, lol. I thought something was wrong with me.

  • @jenp5759
    @jenp5759 11 місяців тому +138

    Being a highly sensitive person and having a good long term memory in a family with emotionally negligent parents who drank too much and too often made my life a challenge. The Drama of the gifted child helped me a lot to understand myself and my children. A retreat with Gabor in early 2022 helped the many pieces of my life and therapy over the years fall into place.

    • @ayamood4447
      @ayamood4447 11 місяців тому +3

      Did you make sessions with Dr Gabor ?if yes how i can book a session

    • @jenp5759
      @jenp5759 11 місяців тому +2

      @@ayamood4447 it was an online retreat given by an organization called SAND who produced the film The Wisdom of Trauma. I believe they only ran the one retreat so I just got lucky…and was willing to invest the money because I had followed him as he wrote his books and as he a guest columnist for Canada’s national newspaper. I highly recommend watching the film. Do a google search with title and SAND and you should find it.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому +7

      I'm so glad to hear that "The Drama of the gifted child" and the retreat with Gabor helped you find clarity and healing in your life. It's wonderful when we find resources that resonate with us and bring about positive change.

    • @Saturn57
      @Saturn57 11 місяців тому +4

      That book was very validating and informative. One of the best I've read on the subject.

    • @maryannribble3254
      @maryannribble3254 11 місяців тому +2

      Gabor Mate’ on his website - has a course made for self - study - and it is not terribly expensive - on March 2nd there is going to be an information session with his colleague about the programs he offers .
      I do dare say , it would be supportive of our journeys to work with a trained therapist or paractitioner of this method - if possible .
      Best wishes !

  • @keliaos
    @keliaos 11 місяців тому +91

    I never saw my own sensitivity as a "gift" (more like a curse, bc it's so much for me to handle) or in the way Dr. Maté describes it. it really resonates and touched me deeply. Thank you for sharing this.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much for your kind words! It means a lot to me that my video touched you deeply. Sending you lots of positive vibes!

  • @lillydimartino6834
    @lillydimartino6834 10 днів тому +19

    My narc mom always said i was too sensitive... her saying it made me feel defective.
    Thruout my life, i saw my sensitivity as a blessing and a curse.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 днів тому +2

      I’m so sorry your mom made you feel that way. 💔 Sensitivity is not a defect-it’s a beautiful gift. It means you have a big heart and deep emotions, even if others don’t understand it. I hope you can embrace your sensitivity as a strength because it truly is. You’re not alone in this. Sending you love and support.

  • @spiralsun1
    @spiralsun1 10 місяців тому +25

    When I began to understand the difficulties of trauma, I began to understand my parents and their parents too. To understand everything related to evolution and our lives in the world. Thats the challenge for truly sensitive people and you can be a legacy and culmination of a lot of subconscious things absorbed into your patterns early on. Habits are hard hard walls sometimes when they are woven subconsciously across your potential partly by the intractable pains of existence. Sometimes just wanting to be heard and accepted and not always misunderstood is a symptom of the deep habit of understanding others too much. ❤

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 місяців тому +4

      Your insight is truly eye-opening. It's a powerful journey to understand ourselves and those around us on a deeper level.

    • @spiralsun1
      @spiralsun1 10 місяців тому

      @@yourinnerchildmatters ❤️🙏🏻

    • @spiralsun1
      @spiralsun1 10 місяців тому

      @carolpeacock4642 ❤️‍🔥🙌

  • @dianaoliver5266
    @dianaoliver5266 11 днів тому +30

    So helpful!! Today, at 68, I will begin embracing & honoring my sensitivity vs. hating and battling it for the pain it's caused. TY. ❤❤

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 днів тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your journey with us! Your willingness to embrace your sensitivity is truly inspiring, and I'm so glad the video helped you.

  • @anishapatel7464
    @anishapatel7464 11 місяців тому +32

    Yes I believe sensitivity and creativity are linked .

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your beliefs! It's great to know that there are others who understand and appreciate the connection between sensitivity and creativity. Sensitivity and creativity often go hand in hand, as being in touch with your emotions allows you to express yourself in unique and imaginative ways❤️💖

  • @lordemed1
    @lordemed1 11 місяців тому +32

    This is me...exactly...it ain't easy

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому +2

      I totally understand! It can be tough, but remember that you're not alone. We all have our ups and downs, but keep pushing forward and you'll see progress!

  • @brinihawraa5688
    @brinihawraa5688 11 місяців тому +28

    Im highly sensitive I suffered à lot and still suffer I feel everything its sometimes à gift and sometimes à curse but im happy that there are people like me so we can understand each other. I spent 37 years of isolation because of that

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому +3

      I'm grateful that you opened up and shared your experience. It's comforting to know that there are others who can relate and understand.

    • @OthO67
      @OthO67 10 місяців тому

      What was your solution?

  • @moondust1979
    @moondust1979 2 місяці тому +26

    I know a child who is extremely sensitive to pain, he is hypersensitive he has been diagnosed on the high spectrum of autism. And yes he is highly creative, extremely creative with an incredible imagination. It’s true - sensitive people feel pain more and they are the highly creative ones. It’s a blessing and a curse, a paradox.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. 💖 It’s so true that sensitive people feel things deeply, and their creativity is truly amazing! It can be a blessing and a challenge. I appreciate you bringing this perspective to the conversation.

    • @TheUltimateMarioFan
      @TheUltimateMarioFan 8 днів тому +1

      HSP is frequently misdiagnosed in that way

    • @louisebotos7321
      @louisebotos7321 7 днів тому

      maybe it isn't a curse....pain is also a gift , a place of where transformation and growth can occur. ❤Without the pain could that transformation take place ?

  • @Llorali
    @Llorali 5 місяців тому +20

    You don’t prevent the trauma, you ride it and GROW. With much adversity comes much strength. How can beauty and greatness come through the gifts without struggle and adversity? It’s actually incredibly beautiful. My experience being hsp with a deep history of it throughout my family - highly gifted, and still working out in my 40’s how to use it to bless others. With the added stress, if not identity shaping severe child sexual abuse that I still have no memory of, but has caused me to dissociate throughout my childhood and adult life. So much so that I never recognized the obvious signs of the abuse. Because of the adversity, I have a greater scope for the big picture. And I will trust the process as it unfolds.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  5 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience so openly and honestly. Your strength and resilience are truly inspiring. It's incredible how you have embraced your journey, with all its challenges, to find growth and beauty. Your story reminds us that even through the darkest times, there can be light and hope. Keep trusting the process and using your gifts to bless others. Your courage and wisdom are a beacon for many. Sending you love and support on your continued journey.

  • @brennadickinson2920
    @brennadickinson2920 2 місяці тому +11

    Hsp, gifted, creative, extroverted, curious, adventurous. insightful as a young, very young child, in a family with talented and damaged parents. I learned to hide my gifts and became the Invisible Child. Most of my life has been devoted to overcoming my childhood of endless putdowns and criticisms and neglect.
    Through AA and the 12 Step programme I've recovered a lot of my original self and developed a better view of myself and made a lot of peace. Now I am more introverted when alone and still extroverted when with people. I accept myself better and nurture myself. Still curious and love learning new things, and I'm pretty grounded. Done some forgiving too, of myself and others.
    77 now and embracing old age as just another stage of life. And now I can admit that having an extremely precocious child in the family could be very hard work. Oh, the endless questions! Lol!

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 місяці тому +4

      Thank you so much for sharing your story with such honesty and insight. It sounds like you've come a long way in your journey, embracing both the challenges and the growth. It's wonderful to hear that you've found peace and acceptance within yourself. Your curiosity, resilience, and openness are truly inspiring. Embracing each stage of life with grace is a beautiful thing, and I’m sure your story will resonate with many. Wishing you continued strength and joy in this journey of life. Take care! 😊❤

  • @AmberDeAnn
    @AmberDeAnn 3 місяці тому +9

    I loved this video. I feel exactly like that. The more I get into my recovery from PTSD, the more I turn into the arts -- poetry-art-theatre-comedy- to heal, to feel, to find me and it feels great. My addiction was angry, sugar, avoiding people (isolation). Now I Have to heal by social skills and find a way to connect better with others. Thanks for airing this interivew and thanks Gabor Mate for your honesty.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for sharing your story and for your kind words. I’m really glad the video resonated with you. It’s inspiring to hear how you’re using art and creativity to heal and grow. Recovery is a journey, and it sounds like you’re on a beautiful path. Wishing you all the best as you continue to connect and heal. Take care! 😊

  • @simev500
    @simev500 6 днів тому +4

    That last advice given by Dr GM in this video really hits that spot in the heart. To summon the courage to bring forth her own weakness without blaming her dysfunctional family who were the real culprit for her being the proverbial sacrificial lamb. That would her complete redemption if that can be made to happen.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  5 днів тому +1

      Thank you so much for watching the video and for sharing your thoughtful comment. It means a lot that Dr. GM's advice resonated with you so deeply. Summoning the courage to face personal struggles without blame is such a powerful and healing step. Redemption like that is truly transformative, and we hope it inspires many others as well. 🙏 Thank you for being a part of this journey and for your kind words.

  • @imamomwifedaughter
    @imamomwifedaughter 2 дні тому +3

    Sensitive people are so needed right now, don't be afraid or embarrassed to show your true authentic inner goodness to the world, it's truly your superpower if you want it to be.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  День тому

      Thank you so much for your beautiful comment. Sensitive people truly do make the world a better place, and embracing your authentic self is such a powerful thing. Your words are inspiring, and I’m so grateful you shared them. Thanks for watching and being here!

  • @lulumoon6942
    @lulumoon6942 4 дні тому +4

    DRAMA OF THE GIFTED CHILD was my first exposure decades ago to being acknowledged.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  4 дні тому

      Thank you for sharing your journey! It's incredible to see how Dr. Maté's insights have resonated with so many over the years.

  • @KamustaKaibigan
    @KamustaKaibigan 11 місяців тому +29

    This was powerful and described exactly how i feel most of the time ❤

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much for watching and sharing your thoughts! It means a lot to know that my video resonated with you and captured the emotions you experience. Stay strong and keep pushing through!

  • @brinihawraa5688
    @brinihawraa5688 11 місяців тому +17

    Thank you so much. I love you. I spent my life suffering. You are my voice. Thank you

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому

      Thank you for your love and support; it means a lot to us. I'm grateful that our videos have been able to provide some comfort and support to you. Sending you virtual hugs!

  • @elisemariecollinsyoga5905
    @elisemariecollinsyoga5905 21 годину тому +3

    I love the way the inner child spells “hihly sensitive.”

  • @lesleyelalami2562
    @lesleyelalami2562 2 місяці тому +6

    Thanks for the video. Interesting point about shaman's usually being the sensitives of the tribe. That's me..... I found out after 4 decades of staggering about painfully and rudderless in the darkness. Turns out I'm an innate spiritual healer, best spiritual gift ever once you realise. Thanks Gabor Mate and team, love your videos. xxx

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! It’s inspiring to hear about your journey and how our videos have resonated with you. Keep exploring your gifts! bless you

  • @shirazi2020
    @shirazi2020 10 місяців тому +16

    “All can hear, but only the sensitive can understand .” Khalil Gibran, “The Prophet.” However, this “sensitivity ” which is a most virtuous quality in humans, must be used to detect the spark of Divinity ( The Higher
    Self ) within. And not misused in its applications to our ego constructed, biological self .

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 місяців тому +2

      Thank you for sharing such a profound quote and reminding us of the importance of sensitivity in understanding our true selves.

    • @dianaoliver5266
      @dianaoliver5266 11 днів тому +1

      Thank you. I needed this quote. ❤

  • @MarieGear-w6i
    @MarieGear-w6i 10 місяців тому +20

    I never knew until I was an adult that I was a HSP. I thought I was just in the wrong family, I didn’t fit in anywhere!!

  • @Leonore45
    @Leonore45 11 місяців тому +16

    Another insightful video 😊My EX husband used to call me Miss Sensitive! Because of all the information I have gained from your books and videos I am aware of this now. I can protect myself. Pity I didn’t know this when I was younger 🙄

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for your kind words and for being a part of my community. I'm happy to hear that my content has been helpful to you. Keep growing and protecting yourself! take care always

  • @3acres3
    @3acres3 18 годин тому

    10:38..... This has been the most healing sentence and words.You could have spoken into my heart.. As a very sensitive person and taking responsibility, I often wonder how I could have prevented it... As a baby in a small child.I hardly could... Actually, there was totally nothing I could do... This is the most freeing Experience, and I want to tell you.Thank you....❤

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  17 годин тому

      I am so touched by your words. You are not at fault for things you had no power over as a child. I am glad these words brought you peace. Thank you so much for watching and sharing your heart. I wish you healing and comfort.

  • @roxy7255
    @roxy7255 2 місяці тому +11

    Thank you Dr Gabe mate I loved your answer at the end about the alcoholic mother. This is spot on so many families want to keep the addict in the scapegoat role so they don’t have to look at themselves.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 місяці тому

      I truly appreciate your kind words! It means a lot to me that you resonated with that part of the discussion.

  • @maryannribble3254
    @maryannribble3254 11 місяців тому +8

    Indeed - thank you for this wonderful and much needed reminder !! 🎉❤

  • @lauraboyes6345
    @lauraboyes6345 День тому +4

    Or just the fact that ALL children are gifted.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  День тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts! You're right; recognizing the gifts in every child can help us appreciate their individuality.

  • @yourinnerchildmatters
    @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому +19

    Don't miss out on this powerful video! 🔥 "The Power of Being Highly Sensitive Person and Gifted Child" with Dr. Gabor Maté is a must-watch. Gain insights into the profound impact of sensitivity and discover how to prevent trauma when deeply sensitive. Join the discussion and share your experiences in the comments. Let's embrace our inner gifted child together! 🌟#HighlySensitivePerson, #GiftedChild, #DrGaborMaté, #EmbraceYourInnerChild, #PreventTrauma, #Sensitivity, #PersonalGrowth, #MentalHealth, #SelfDiscovery ,#Empowerment, #InnerStrength

    • @syedanargis616
      @syedanargis616 11 місяців тому +2

      Would you please help me by providing the full episode of 1st part of the video?

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому +1

      @@syedanargis616 Full episode here: Dr. Gabor Maté on Trauma, Addiction, Ayahuasca, and More |
      The Tim Ferriss Show Podcast: ua-cam.com/video/H9B5mYfBPlY/v-deo.html

    • @hildeaakre2399
      @hildeaakre2399 11 місяців тому

      What book is he talking about?

    • @curtvid1
      @curtvid1 10 місяців тому

      😮
      ​@@syedanargis616

  • @TheMysterySkool
    @TheMysterySkool 11 місяців тому +6

    Fantastic insight thank you for the value ❤

  • @melenagonzalez8178
    @melenagonzalez8178 7 днів тому +2

    It is interesting and at the same time quite normal or natural that the high sensitive person suffers...when I was a child I cried when the cars kill the dogs on the roads. I was so afraid of the people in my country. It always has been a violent country. I though always about the life the locations...I carried those feelings all my life. I am 65 yrs old now. And I have found answers. I didn't know about gifts. I thought everybody was sensitive. Because it is almost jmpossible to live in this system of things. The feeling that there is a superhuman or superfather who cares about me, about all of us. Make me feels happy. Thank you

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  7 днів тому

      Thank you so much for sharing your story and your feelings. It’s truly moving to hear how deeply you’ve cared about life and others since you were a child. Being sensitive in a world that often feels harsh can be so challenging, but it’s also a beautiful gift that allows you to see and feel things in a unique way. I’m so glad that you’ve found answers and a sense of peace through your belief in a superhuman or superfather who cares for you. That kind of comfort and hope can mean so much. Please know that your sensitivity is a strength, and your kindness and understanding make the world a better place.Thank you for being here and for sharing your journey.

  • @RajzUTube7
    @RajzUTube7 4 дні тому +1

    Insightful. Thank you.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  4 дні тому

      I'm glad you found it insightful! Dr. Gabor Maté always has a unique perspective to share.

  • @KellySnow
    @KellySnow 10 місяців тому +15

    I’ve always been shamed for being sensative

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience.Remember, sensitivity is a strength, not a weakness. Embrace it!

  • @dharma404_
    @dharma404_ 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Dr Mate.. This so clearly describes my situation.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your kind words! It means a lot to know that the video was able to speak to your experience.

  • @AbMy_24_7
    @AbMy_24_7 11 місяців тому +13

    I am not sure if my extreme sensitivity is a "gift" or a "punishment" in this real world. I am able to acquire a deeper understanding of who I am with the help of your videos. It facilitates my process of thinking. It's not easy to label yourself under a category even if you resonate fully.
    Thank you for the enlightenment.. 😊👍

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing your experience and your kind words. It means a lot to me to know that my videos have had a positive impact on your self-understanding. Keep exploring and embracing who you are! thanks again and bless you

  • @cat888-v8h
    @cat888-v8h 2 дні тому +1

    DBR, deep brain reorienting in therapy can help with dissociation, it takes time and care to slowly move towards more wholeness.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  День тому

      Thank you so much for sharing this. Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR) sounds like a thoughtful and gentle approach to healing. It’s so important to take the time and care needed on this journey toward feeling whole again. Wishing you all the best, and thank you for watching the video!

  • @lordemed1
    @lordemed1 10 місяців тому +20

    "People tell me it's a sin
    To know and feel too much within."
    B. Dylan

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 місяців тому +4

      Thank you for sharing this meaningful quote, it really resonates with me.

    • @truenorthequestrians3561
      @truenorthequestrians3561 6 днів тому +1

      only people that want to judge or control use 'sin' as a weapon of power.

  • @sandrag8656
    @sandrag8656 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much. That helps a lot. ❤

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 місяців тому +1

      I'm glad it was helpful to you! Your kind words mean a lot to me, thank you!

  • @pedrokarstguimaraes1096
    @pedrokarstguimaraes1096 9 днів тому +2

    Is this society too much narcisistic that blames sensitiveness?
    I’m not shure…
    For me, I can garante you, sensitive personality for all my life, It was always a streght. Sensitiveness is power to understand, to be attemptive, to be affectionated… etc…
    So, It’s a thing to get in and reasure in children.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  9 днів тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your perspective! It's so important to highlight the strengths that come with being sensitive. Your insights can really help others see the value in their own feelings.

  • @HeyoSpeaker
    @HeyoSpeaker 11 місяців тому +1

    Gabor Mate, Requesting Reparations in the format of an Interview Between Sarah Lynn Rautio (Daughter Sondra) must be present for the Illuminating Interview and Yourself. Sarah Lynn Rautio and Sondra JoLinda have an Epic story to share. Thank you for All that you do for All of Humanity and All of Creation. Red Road thanks you for your help in Liberations and Restorations. ❤

  • @ianjohnmackay2069
    @ianjohnmackay2069 10 місяців тому +1

    This was very impactful great blessings to you

  • @kirstisamuelsen3712
    @kirstisamuelsen3712 2 місяці тому +2

    I am like that

  • @abbykoop5363
    @abbykoop5363 11 місяців тому +12

    What is the actual title and author of the gifted book you are referring to please?

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому +8

      📚The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller : amzn.to/42sM0SJ

    • @anthonymackie3634
      @anthonymackie3634 11 місяців тому +1

      Never mind , I see it

    • @anthonymackie3634
      @anthonymackie3634 11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you

    • @3acres3
      @3acres3 18 годин тому

      Thank you.I came all the way through the responses to find the answer.......😊​@yourinnerchildmatters

  • @Bamgeutcutiepie
    @Bamgeutcutiepie 10 місяців тому +5

    if we are going to use the term "highly sensitive person" i think it is important to also say WHY one is highly sensitive. because there is a why. no one is born sensitive like a snowflake without a cause. it is either due to physical illness, serious mental illness, autism, or developed trauma. otherwise this "highly sensitive" thing has not meaning. you could say a person who has anxiety might be highly sensitive, but that's not the correct term oh this self proclaimed title. i think A LOT of people don't realize where this term comes from. it comes from a a female author who is autistic. ASP. but she rejected that label and didn't want to have that diagnosis, despite having it - and she renamed it HSP. so now, being highly sensitive - in the way that is meant for people on the spectrum, has now become a term, that ANY person can use for any little reason they personally feel is the reason they are sensitive. which is a really big problem, :) because a lot the symptoms of being "highly sensitive" are autistic/schizotypal/schizophrenic symptoms. if you look deeper into it, a lot of people might realize they are actually on the spectrum. as these symptoms are KEY indicators of it. we are all sensitive souls, and women especially, we can be so soft and delicate and feel so much but it is important to use correct language, because this term is getting way too out of hand used by so many who wants the label of being sensitive, but not the label of being on the spectrum. and that's really unfortunate.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 місяців тому +1

      I appreciate your insight into the origins of the term "highly sensitive person" and the importance of using language accurately.

  • @ceciler6534
    @ceciler6534 2 місяці тому +1

    This so describes me. Thank you, Gabor.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 місяці тому

      I'm glad to hear that it resonates with you! Thank you for watching!

  • @Levandetag
    @Levandetag 3 дні тому

    Good healing talk listening to

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  2 дні тому

      Thank you so much for watching the video and for sharing your thoughtful words. You’ve captured such an important truth-our differences are gifts, and they deserve to be celebrated, not suppressed. It’s heartbreaking how society can sometimes push people to hide their unique qualities to "fit in," but your insight reminds us how vital it is to embrace and honor those differences in ourselves and others. Your perspective on sensitivity and deeper understanding is beautiful, and I deeply appreciate you taking the time to express it here. Let’s keep striving for a world where we lift each other up and celebrate our unique journeys. Thank you again for being part of this conversation!

  • @yasminwatson7068
    @yasminwatson7068 22 години тому +1

    Interesting interview but the added images are distracting and not helpful plus blank canva frames. I’m sensitive to images btw 😅

  • @zovalentine7305
    @zovalentine7305 11 місяців тому +6

    ❤Gabor Mate MD PhD ❤

  • @jennygreenoughhanson8976
    @jennygreenoughhanson8976 7 днів тому

    What book?

  • @lisastenzel5713
    @lisastenzel5713 11 місяців тому +3

    I think I have that book...but I never finished reading it. Who is the author? So I can check if it's not only a similar title... searching
    Edit: Yes, it's Alice Miller. I always wanted to finish the book or start over. It's really intense and I got it during my first ever therapy session that wasn't just an hour. Everyone there suddenly read that book, and so I ask to read a page or two and after that I decided to buy it right away. Half way through I was too...my brain was too full. Too much new information to be processed.😅 I should give it a try again

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  11 місяців тому

      Alice Miller is the author of the book you're referring to. It's great that you want to give it another try! It's always worth revisiting a book that resonates with you. bless you

  • @Justine-yw9xt
    @Justine-yw9xt 15 днів тому +1

    Intuition

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  15 днів тому

      Intuition is such a powerful gift! It can guide us in ways we often overlook.

  • @anthonymackie3634
    @anthonymackie3634 11 місяців тому +4

    Did Gabor mention name of book

    • @pennycaldwell8141
      @pennycaldwell8141 11 місяців тому +2

      @anthonymackie3634 "The Drama of the Gifted Child", by Alice Miller

  • @Maja-Nor
    @Maja-Nor 4 дні тому +1

    As a highyaa a highly sensitiv person it is so desturbing to lissen to this person on the phone

  • @TheMysterySkool
    @TheMysterySkool 11 місяців тому +4

    ❤🙏

  • @talestrimoon1102
    @talestrimoon1102 5 місяців тому +3

    I am sensitive but not high performer nor ambitious and even if I had any creativity environment killed that maybe I am not this category donno

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  5 місяців тому

      It's completely okay to feel that way. Everyone has their own journey, and it's important to embrace your unique path. You might discover your strengths in unexpected ways!

  • @BecomeConsciousNow
    @BecomeConsciousNow 6 днів тому +1

    You can see the guy asking the questions has a lot of anger inside of him. He has very intense eyes. The eyes give a lot away.

  • @hoxtondean9855
    @hoxtondean9855 10 місяців тому +4

    Is this video ONLY being watched by highly sensitive people (me included). Because no one in my life understands what it's like being one, or care to learn

  • @Nanuchick2222-dc6lf
    @Nanuchick2222-dc6lf 5 місяців тому +3

    Are not narcissist the most sensitive???

  • @krish.5823
    @krish.5823 8 днів тому +1

    How can I stop that child trauma crap?

  • @mlund3
    @mlund3 2 дні тому +1

    It hurts hurts hurts

  • @עפרהשחר
    @עפרהשחר 6 днів тому +1

    😊

  • @KrishnaStrother
    @KrishnaStrother 4 дні тому +1

  • @Dew1013
    @Dew1013 19 днів тому +1

  • @lauraboyes6345
    @lauraboyes6345 2 дні тому +1

    The Gifted Child was written by ... ????

  • @xavierpaquin
    @xavierpaquin 8 днів тому +1

    Nobody told me there were advantages to being a gifted child! I thought it was a curse! What drivel

  • @ozibuns
    @ozibuns 11 місяців тому +2

    The gifted child doesn’t exist as a book. That is he referring to?

    • @csillatorok5060
      @csillatorok5060 10 місяців тому +1

      Dr Máté has several books. Try to make axsearch in that. I don't know which book this program referes to but the topic comes up often in his works.

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 місяців тому +1

      The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self by Alice Miller: amzn.to/4bGIMAV

    • @yourinnerchildmatters
      @yourinnerchildmatters  10 місяців тому

      Thank you for pointing out the topic in Dr. Máté's works. bless you

  • @erich84502a
    @erich84502a 3 дні тому +1

    Hihly

  • @Amy-yw7br
    @Amy-yw7br 7 днів тому +1

    …is that they cant spell?

  • @annawhatley258
    @annawhatley258 9 днів тому +1