I'm seeing a woman today for the first time. I have known her and have talked to her at work for almost a year. We talked yesterday on the phone to make arrangements for today. She told me I was a good listener and stay engaged. Its good to hear you think that is a positive for a relationship.
I’ve been married for 34 years and I have to say this is really great advice. I think I’ve pretty well figured this out but you put it very succinctly. Men listen to this she’s 100% correct.
Yes, I agree. That is one of them Wow! Thank you for your videos. I'd like to check out more. Wow! Thanks so much. Very much impressed and keep up with nice work well and I'll check out more videos hopefully as soon as poss God bless 🙏
Great advice! I went through it and learned my lesson the hard way. I'm hoping I get a another chance at finding someone. I've learned so much about women in the past few years. I'm excited to meet someone new and do things the right way. Thank you.
Dear Magda, I hear what you say, and I realise that men often communicate differnetly. But when you listen, actively listen, and hear she is unhappy, but that she cannot tell you what she is unhappy with what do you do? When I ask her tio summarise what leads her to disrespect me, to seek validation with friends and neglect the relationship I hear I am getting old and deaf, I hear I do not wear fashiomable clothes. When I have done everything to make the rose blossom and she takes it for granted and still feels I am lacking, what do I do? I have goven up my friends, my hobbies, my interests to try to make her happy and she feels I am a wimp for doing that. And when I ask her to tell me what being in a relationship means, she cannot tell me, except for saying it means being together. So to keep my self-respect I am preparing to move on, to me myself again, to follow my own interests. If she wants to come along she is welcome, if not, then so be it.
Yes i understand n agree fully that good listening is so essential for man to do, the best he can, again n again n again whenever possible. Thanks for reminding. cutie.
Ask her open question. Be patient. We don't communicate when we are scared of the consequences. So try to make her feel safe, and she will start opening up (this is true for everyone, not just women)
Don't try to understand a woman- don't try to meet her somewhere in the middle. Don't attempt to communicate with her "on her level". I'ts not worth the effort. Stay single and make yourself happy. you'll be healthier and wealthier without them.
Advice to women; have plenty of girlfriends to get your talking out. Men hearing women blathering on and on and on and on is not only exhausting, but highly annoying. Your want to keep your man? Then get to the point and don't burden him. We're all replaceable, including you. Don't forget that.
i agree with the essence of what you're saying, but it does sound like there is so underlying anger towards women... If I can sense it in your written words, then women can even more sense it in your energy. It's true, it is very (very) important for women to have girlfirends to talk to.
Recognize@@MagdaKay, that criticism of women is not deep seated anger, misogyny, or toxic masculinity, but merely criticism. No different than women criticizing men, which there is no shortage of either (especially on the internet).
Sorry as a man i can't hear 20.000 words of confuse talk each day. I often tell her please call ur girlfriend or grandma etc. for talking... That dont means that i dont listen to her (i do, very often) but its not healthy to get all the burden of blabla words alone.
I'm pushing back on this as well. If women are such great communicators, then they need to communicate to men on men's level. That means to Get To The Point !!!!! At least meet men half way! Cut what you're going to say in half. Yes, it's mostly up to men to pursue women, but at some point guys say F It! Also, women have two ears as well. I suggest they use them! Magda says when your women stops communicating she is done with you. Then send her packing! Recognize the value you bring. If she leaves it's her loss and your opportunity to seek out other women.
My wife, when I met her, told me the most important thing in a marriage is communication. She went on to say that sex is the glue that holds the marriage together. I guess she must have been right, because after I developed ED she left me and we're now going through the process of divorce.
I truly empathize what you could be feeling. But as a very professional woman therapist told me about my breakup; a woman almost never breaks up or divorce for what you did or didn't do. Women leave because of the rationalizations or feelings based on the story they have told themselves about what you did or didn't do.
I'm seeing a woman today for the first time. I have known her and have talked to her at work for almost a year. We talked yesterday on the phone to make arrangements for today. She told me I was a good listener and stay engaged. Its good to hear you think that is a positive for a relationship.
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Be sure you disagree often.
So was she hot? Or hot and crazy?
RESPECT is by far the most important element in a relationship.
I’ve been married for 34 years and I have to say this is really great advice. I think I’ve pretty well figured this out but you put it very succinctly. Men listen to this she’s 100% correct.
Yes, I agree. That is one of them Wow! Thank you for your videos. I'd like to check out more. Wow! Thanks so much. Very much impressed and keep up with nice work well and I'll check out more videos hopefully as soon as poss God bless 🙏
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Thank you.I learn so much from your videos , you are the best
Great advice! I went through it and learned my lesson the hard way. I'm hoping I get a another chance at finding someone. I've learned so much about women in the past few years. I'm excited to meet someone new and do things the right way. Thank you.
I'm excited for you too! It's amazing to be able to use all the new skills and knowledge. I do wish you meet a beautiful human to share it with
I needed to hear this
Thank you
Madam I am an Indian and I like your video very much hope when will the next video come
And when she screams at you when you clarify what she meant?
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Dear Magda, I hear what you say, and I realise that men often communicate differnetly. But when you listen, actively listen, and hear she is unhappy, but that she cannot tell you what she is unhappy with what do you do? When I ask her tio summarise what leads her to disrespect me, to seek validation with friends and neglect the relationship I hear I am getting old and deaf, I hear I do not wear fashiomable clothes. When I have done everything to make the rose blossom and she takes it for granted and still feels I am lacking, what do I do? I have goven up my friends, my hobbies, my interests to try to make her happy and she feels I am a wimp for doing that. And when I ask her to tell me what being in a relationship means, she cannot tell me, except for saying it means being together. So to keep my self-respect I am preparing to move on, to me myself again, to follow my own interests. If she wants to come along she is welcome, if not, then so be it.
Nagging? How about disrespect and talking down to us? Stay single my friends.
Just let her talk. It's the easiest thing to do! You just can't go wrong by simply listening.
Yes i understand n agree fully that good listening is so essential for man to do, the best he can, again n again n again whenever possible. Thanks for reminding. cutie.
How do I get her to talk, if she doesn't !?! GBY
Ask her open question. Be patient. We don't communicate when we are scared of the consequences. So try to make her feel safe, and she will start opening up (this is true for everyone, not just women)
Don't try to understand a woman- don't try to meet her somewhere in the middle.
Don't attempt to communicate with her "on her level".
I'ts not worth the effort.
Stay single and make yourself happy.
you'll be healthier and wealthier without them.
Thank you so much
Advice to women; have plenty of girlfriends to get your talking out.
Men hearing women blathering on and on and on and on is not only exhausting, but highly annoying. Your want to keep your man? Then get to the point and don't burden him. We're all replaceable, including you. Don't forget that.
i agree with the essence of what you're saying, but it does sound like there is so underlying anger towards women... If I can sense it in your written words, then women can even more sense it in your energy. It's true, it is very (very) important for women to have girlfirends to talk to.
Recognize@@MagdaKay, that criticism of women is not deep seated anger, misogyny, or toxic masculinity, but merely criticism. No different than women criticizing men, which there is no shortage of either (especially on the internet).
Great video, both men and women should work on communication. Listening is a skill men often don't think as being important
Who knew it was that simple? I’m sure all I had to do was listen. Pay attention. Ask a question your genius. Thank you.
Good
If she isnt happy u tell her there is the door
Sorry as a man i can't hear 20.000 words of confuse talk each day. I often tell her please call ur girlfriend or grandma etc. for talking... That dont means that i dont listen to her (i do, very often) but its not healthy to get all the burden of blabla words alone.
I'm pushing back on this as well.
If women are such great communicators, then they need to communicate to men on men's level. That means to Get To The Point !!!!! At least meet men half way! Cut what you're going to say in half. Yes, it's mostly up to men to pursue women, but at some point guys say F It! Also, women have two ears as well. I suggest they use them!
Magda says when your women stops communicating she is done with you. Then send her packing! Recognize the value you bring. If she leaves it's her loss and your opportunity to seek out other women.
Thank you
My girlfriend tells me she only likes doggie style, that’s it.
My girlfriend and I broke up 9 days ago
Enjoy my brother, Plenty of fish in the see and they get hotter and hotter.
Enjoy my brother, Plenty of fish in the see and they get hotter and hotter.
Enjoy my brother, Plenty of fish in the see and they get hotter and hotter.
Enjoy my brother, Plenty of fish in the see and they get hotter and hotter.
Enjoy my brother, Plenty of fish in the see and they get hotter and hotter.
Our passions and interests changed.
She was passionate about nagging me, and I had no interest in that.
My wife, when I met her, told me the most important thing in a marriage is communication. She went on to say that sex is the glue that holds the marriage together. I guess she must have been right, because after I developed ED she left me and we're now going through the process of divorce.
I truly empathize what you could be feeling. But as a very professional woman therapist told me about my breakup; a woman almost never breaks up or divorce for what you did or didn't do. Women leave because of the rationalizations or feelings based on the story they have told themselves about what you did or didn't do.
Look into an implant. They work.
Good point
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Thank you for sharing
I actually quite enjoy listening to women which is why I am often friend rather than lover.💞🪐
Nothing makea a woman more intimate than a fat bank account
it must be very sad to live in your reality