5 Mind games that women play with you

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  • @byrdmaniacsg2776
    @byrdmaniacsg2776 Рік тому +18

    My wife of 43 years does none of these things, EXCEPT, the silent treatment. I finally told her that she was showing toxic female behavior and I’m not going to tolerate anymore. That was the last time I got the silent treatment.

    • @gregorylatta8159
      @gregorylatta8159 Рік тому

      Women never admit when they are wrong, but don't stop telling them when they are !!@

  • @rudolfkroseberg4257
    @rudolfkroseberg4257 Рік тому +39

    If you play stupid games, you win stupid prizes. As a guy, just refuse to play those games right from the beginning and 80% of your problems are solved before they appear...

    • @davidwhite206
      @davidwhite206 6 місяців тому

      The beginning is the most important. Check that shit at the door.

  • @SeekerGoOn2013
    @SeekerGoOn2013 Рік тому +10

    If I see any manipulation it’s over. Adults don’t do this. I’m not here to make you accountable.

  • @abolisher
    @abolisher Місяць тому +2

    This is what I’m going through right now but on Tuesday I’m going to be direct and set boundaries.

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  Місяць тому

      that's amazing. hope it goes well

  • @bugder
    @bugder Рік тому +6

    Thanks for the tips, a lot of things fell into place and I somehow understand my wife much better. Cheers 🥂

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  Рік тому +2

      Im so happy to hear that!

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 27 днів тому +1

    *Understanding these mind games starts with recognizing that they’re not necessarily about manipulation - many times, they’re just a reflection of her emotions or uncertainty. The key is to stay grounded, maintain your own sense of self, and communicate openly. Don’t get caught up in the drama - address things directly without overreacting.*

  • @budguy21
    @budguy21 Рік тому +17

    If you are with a woman who plays mind games, dump her.

  • @KyloRen-pm1hr
    @KyloRen-pm1hr Рік тому +8

    For a woman, too, I will wonder if she's also living up to her potential. If I were single and dating someone with those mind games, it will be one simple word: "Bye!" At my age, I don't have time for that bullshit.
    Life is already too complicated to understand and I don't need a complicated woman to complicate things.

    • @rodrigomontero8258
      @rodrigomontero8258 Рік тому +1

      I hear you. I think exactly the same. I appreciate female company, but not from a place of desperation, so my wullingness to take crap is pretty close to zero.

  • @Pakiratigri
    @Pakiratigri Рік тому +5

    If there is manipulative behavior on a regular basis, there is a possibility that the man has chosen a narcissistic woman without knowing it. It means that this woman will not change and after a while, will do exactly the same things again. Just to hurt you. She takes pleasure in that. At some point the man has to pack up and disappear. Even if he is married, has a house together and children. That woman will divorce anyway when she sees that her manipulative behavior has no impact anymore. And then follows the after kick in the form of child and partner alimony. Even then, you are not saved from it. So, first observe her behavior without being married to her. See if she really changes her behavior.

  • @johnvandam106
    @johnvandam106 Рік тому +5

    Ughh! 😬
    The "Silent Treatment"!
    That's the one that I am most affected by...
    My Grandma used it on me, & it drove me nuts!
    I'd rather get into an argument with her than to experience the S.T...
    ~ Although I never wish to argue in the first place...
    Thank you, Magda! 🙂

  • @georgefrazer2231
    @georgefrazer2231 Рік тому +6

    Communication is the key. You need to give 'security' to your lady. You need to 'ask' what she needs and that you are there to 'provide' for her needs. What do you do if the woman is a covert naracists who has absolutely no empathy and is totally in love with herself. Thank you for this video.

  • @smiles7631
    @smiles7631 5 місяців тому +1

    After being married for 18 years and unfortunately divorced, I've seen all of these. I've also used them myself. :( I'm so grateful I've learned now the right way to handle things lol. I'm really good at being able to look at something and figuring out how it works and fix it. Women are a little harder to figure out if no one has taught you. Certain things are contradicting and backwards in the logical sense. I see it like this, some guys are really good at talking to women and having a big social circle but they couldn't change a tire on a car to save their lives. Where I can fix about anything but have no idea how to attract a woman, like what to say or keep a conversation going. I'm starting to "get it" now. Thank you for your help!

  • @Jdrummer77
    @Jdrummer77 7 місяців тому +2

    Alittle is okay and can be seen as some tests to pass but once it becomes pathological and manipulative. Time to cut it off.

  • @ConantheVolbarian
    @ConantheVolbarian 5 місяців тому +3

    I'm tall and good looking, but I still lack confidence because I was a bit of an ugly duckling and shy when I was younger. Women always play the game where they flirt with other guys or let me hear them talking about other guys in front of me. Women dont seem to get that this stuff doesn't amuse or impress men

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  5 місяців тому

      well, I'd say it's not just women playing this game... Unfortunately, when we feel insecure, we engage in behaviors that are not really the best. Low self esteem has killed way too many relationships (or a potential for a relationship)

    • @ConantheVolbarian
      @ConantheVolbarian 5 місяців тому

      @@MagdaKay
      But the difference between men and women is women get endless amounts of external validation while most men don't get any.
      Imagine you're a guy who only gets shot down and women never compliment you or anything. If you can imagine that, it shouldn't be so hard to imagine why so many men are completely giving up

  • @mattpatrick3536
    @mattpatrick3536 Рік тому +1

    As the 1st mind game is played, I state that im not a child don't play mind games. If you want an adult, then communicate. If you choose to act like a child, then you can find someone else.
    Ironically the woman that got it was not my own age, but a woman 21 yrs younger than me

  • @Christopher_Giustolisi
    @Christopher_Giustolisi 2 місяці тому

    When a woman tries to play mind games, I´m gone. I don´t want that kind of manipulative people in my life.

  • @nonenone6884
    @nonenone6884 7 місяців тому +2

    Women never tell men to leave. She just said let her hit you and stay and talk about it.

  • @MauriceMwali
    @MauriceMwali Рік тому +3

    Communication is key in any relationship!

    • @gregorylatta8159
      @gregorylatta8159 Рік тому

      Yeah, you have to tell them when they are wrong!!!

  • @KenBosch-vx7oy
    @KenBosch-vx7oy Рік тому +4

    I like Magda but this was weak and totally from the woman’s perspective. When she starts with the games don’t bend over backwards to appease her. Let her know that men can play games also and ask how important those games are to her. Find out how she feels by her actions and not her words.
    If she is not receptive to treating you as she would like to be treated it’s time to move on

    • @WildMidwest1
      @WildMidwest1 Рік тому

      (1) Whose perspective was Magda supposed to give? I don’t know anyone who is good at giving someone else’s perspective.
      (2) Magda is not a licensed psychologist or psychotherapist. She obviously has life skills and other aptitudes. She is trying to be helpful to men based on her knowledge of women.
      (3) I am not sure that men playing mind games has much value except feeding women’s gamey behavior. The goal of most guys is to extinguish such behavior, not feed it, but maybe I misunderstood your third point?
      (4) I totally agree with your last two sentences. Well said.

  • @markfischer3626
    @markfischer3626 Рік тому +3

    I don't agree with these strategies to react. They are weak. The strong reaction is to ignore her. Show indifference unless she abuses you physically or mentally. The correct reaction is to distance yourself from her. Give her the exact opposite of what she wants.
    Here's a typical exchange of the last one. Are you angry st me? You havent spoken to me in four days. What are you angry about? Well if you don't know I'm not going to tell you.
    There are two principles to keep in mind. Women are irrational becausd they are ruled by emotions.
    You're the prize, not her. You are strong, rational, and will not tolerate mind games. Demographically you are rare and have the advantage. Set limits and don't tolerate crossing them. If you allow it you are weak and become her slave. If you exhibit that kind of behavior she will have contempt for your weakness. Be kind, gentle. Women are fragile. Their weapons only work if you allow it. Treat her as an equal. Above all NEVER put her on a pedestal. Do not allow your behavior succumb to your emotions. If she treats you badly distance yourself. It it continues move on, she is not worthy of you. You are much stronger, therefore yo must use your power with extreme restraint. Never use physical or mental abuse. If you follow these principles you will likely gain her respect and love. She wants your power to protect her. If you can't protect yourself from her you can't protect her from anyone else. Never compromise your self respect. These are strong masculine traits that attract women. Be confident, be funny, and even if she is saying something boring pretend to listen. Don't try to fix all of her problems. Often they just want someone to listen to them.

  • @thefreshprince-t4m
    @thefreshprince-t4m Місяць тому

    Dunno, just gotta ride them waves. And have fun in the surf.

  • @mikestroud9969
    @mikestroud9969 Рік тому +3

    Life and relationships are not a game. Holy crap 😢😢. Dudes ignore these Broads, not ladies. 👍👌💯

  • @Mustafa-s5s5b
    @Mustafa-s5s5b 4 місяці тому

    I am in that situation right now

  • @nonenone6884
    @nonenone6884 7 місяців тому +1

    Why should a man stay with a woman like this. You just said when she hits you stay and have a talk with her. So when do you think he should leave

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  7 місяців тому

      im sorry, where exactly did i say that? did you actually listen to video or to what you wanted to hear?

  • @crhaden
    @crhaden Рік тому

    You have just explained why she left me.

  • @peanutnutter1
    @peanutnutter1 Рік тому +1

    Low value ones grind partners down this way

    • @WildMidwest1
      @WildMidwest1 Рік тому

      These are signs of failing attraction. Women don’t behave like this when they are enraptured and secure, with cultural variations such as tampo in younger east Asian women.

  • @paulcooper5748
    @paulcooper5748 День тому

    Sounds like dealing with a child instead of an adult.

  • @Justformoney-m6c
    @Justformoney-m6c Місяць тому

    What to do in if she is in silent treatment but I can’t even communicate because if I go to communicate my wife is walking away

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  Місяць тому

      then you have to wait until she calms down and comes back to a neutral nervous system state (and this can sometimes take a few days). Then you have a serious conversation about not accepting such behavior.

    • @Justformoney-m6c
      @Justformoney-m6c Місяць тому

      @@MagdaKay we are just married I am 23 and she is 22 but really is playing so much mind games I feel like I am one who initiating the conversation and she never comes to talk to me and we are in house 2bhk with different room we are sleeping I feel like I don’t have power in this relationship she is not value me what should do

  • @hyeeagle
    @hyeeagle Рік тому

    In relationship specially married people has to be zero tolerance mind games. If both partners are players they may go longer but if one partner repeatedly saying stop mind games eventually will end up divorce. Or if she is mind game holding a sex he start calling his exes 😂

  • @nonenone6884
    @nonenone6884 7 місяців тому +1

    Or you can just leave .

  • @Christopher_Giustolisi
    @Christopher_Giustolisi 2 місяці тому

    7:49 WTF? When she hits me it´s over. You wouldn´t give that advice to a woman, wouldn´t you? You wouldn´t tell a woman "if he hits you, you have to communicate not hit me again"
    You´re excusing straight up abuse here. Check your double standards, lady.

  • @tonytransit2247
    @tonytransit2247 2 місяці тому +1

    These arnt tips .
    You have yourself a narsisstic women . Run away men.

  • @rajendersingh61
    @rajendersingh61 Рік тому

    Comments are more useful.

  • @markclark9239
    @markclark9239 Рік тому

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    @zlatkoloznjak4054 Рік тому

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  • @mike-we8pb
    @mike-we8pb Рік тому

    women, a mistake got it

  • @chrisquedenbaum3972
    @chrisquedenbaum3972 Рік тому

    You're very beautiful my love 😘😘❤❤❤