Magda said: “Pick the right woman." But I believe that this is the puzzle of the century to be solved. The complexity of women is increasing exponentially, and even women find it difficult to communicate with each other today.
There are lot of right women outhere. The "thing" is they are looking for the "right" men too. The complexity is not increasing, and communication is the same - depdends on the education and spiritual level.
"Right" in what way? Everyone is looking for qualities that align with what they are shopping for. For me, it is long term, and that means shared values.
After being out of the dating circle for many years I want to get back. To be honest I am scared, but with Magda advice is going to help me going forward.
I can understand where you are coming from, but what about women who ignore men? I used to have anxious attachment style and it would drive me crazy. But now when a woman ignores or ghosts me, I get turned off and just mirror her actions by ignoring her back. Also you shouldn't ignore a woman you like, but don't be too quick to be there for her and respond right away. You still have good content lady. Appreciate your work
Magda, I'm so glad you're doing this YT channel, lol. You offer good advice that's just common sense! I don't watch all of them, nor do I watch many of the "advice" channels for men trying to "hook up with ANY woman," mainly because I'm out of the "market!". On other words, I'm happily married. Of course I enjoy the company of women, so I want them to like me, but what I've always done seems to work just fine. That is, I'm just me. No games, no pretending. I just be me. Now, decades ago, I wasn't as sure of myself, but as it turns out, the "rejections" that I did get were because some women simply want the wrong guys. Like the women who are only interested in "users & abusers." That just didn't make sense to me (still doesn't), so back then I assumed there was something wrong with me. But, over time I realized that, just like there are men who have "issues," there are women with "issues" too. It wasn't a reflection of me. So, your point that men should "only want to get with women that are suitable for them" is well founded. I enjoy watching your videos because you're so adorable and I love to hear you talk! Keep up the excellent videos! 🤪
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Ok so I loved this advice. I have been ignoring women and I have been attracting women but I wasn't ignoring them because I was trying to trick them but because I was doing the work and healing after my divorce. I thought that a girlfriend would only complicate matters and slow my recovery and potentially lead to trauma bonding instead of a future healthy relationship. Hearing that it's women who have low self esteem and are not high quality women who are responsive to being ignored makes sense and is super encouraging. I figured I was burning a lot of bridges but turns out those were the wrong bridges anyway. So thank you. This really helped.
thank you for sharing. If you feel you need time to heal, then it's perfectly ok and normal to take time. Because yes, we often do fall into a new relationship (as in: fall, not choose it). so having that awareness is really good
I will take this advice but… I have a friend who is really attractive and he will say hi and talk to girls then stop for a while. They really go nuts over him. Texting him and calling several times. So for good-looking guys, I think it works but for the rest of us, maybe we should use your advice.
These talks by dating coaches are only valid in certain contexts. If you are tall, good looking successful man, then it often does "work". If youre not, they are glad to be left alone so they dont need to be in the awkward place of letting you down. Also, I dont think they mean "ignore" in a literal sense, like in a way thats considered rude. I think they mean not to do the opposite, such as giving her inordinate amounts of attention.
@MagdaKay I'm sorry that men think this, it's sad. Showing a woman all of you're love and positivity and making her feel special is the only way to go.
Magda, I'm glad to find your channel. I have a suggestion: please make an episode teaching why some women want to be dominated and degraded in bed. My wife of six years is requesting for me to do things that really make me uncomfortable and confused. I'm searching for help from professionals like you. Thanks!
Happy to have you here! So regarding your question: we actually have different sexuality types. Your wife, based on what you describe, is fire or earth. since that type of sexual expression feels uncofmortable to you, it means you are on the opposite spectrum (so water or air, and I just have a feelin it would be air specifically). I have a 90-min training where I explain each type and speak about building compatibility if you'd like to learn more. here's the link: magdakay.com/programs/find-your-type/
Concur that ignoring women does not work, unless you are a 6’3”, six-figure earning, Ferrari-driving, Dubai-weekending Chad. In my case I ignore them because cold-approaching them does not work either. I’m autistic, and about half the time they used to taunt me with insults whenever I did approach them. So I gave that up. Instead I’ve done my best to build a solid career and a stable, reliable social circle. Given what’s out there-at my age (52) pretty much only gold-diggers and single mothers, and the younger Millennial and Z generations are a lost cause-I figure I’m better off on my own
Ignore women is not an advice given by only male coaches but also by many female coaches to men . Ignore women is an advice given to most men who do exactly the opposite : chase and beg women too much and appear too needy. Ignore women is probably bad wording, what is really meant is if a woman pulls back don't run after her like a puppy begging for attention. Mirror her action and also pull back. I disagree with your advice that men should make an effort if by that you mean chase the women. That would be too needy and trying too hard and turns women off. Don't ignore women who show interest but don't chase them like a simp either. Show interest only to women who reciprocate your interest and don't show them more interest than they show you otherwise they would be intimidated by your excessive interest.
I agree. Men -- like me -- who need women find women unapproachable. Women do not want needy men. So the dynamic is almost a catch-22. To satisfy the need for female companionship, we have to ignore the need and get beyond it, but when we reach that point, we develop a kind of disdain for companionship. We lose interest! But there is a second irony here. As we lose interest, we gain the freedom to actually help and serve women and speak to their needs, and that leads to a different kind of interest, an interest in serving others.
In one Seinfeld's episode, Seinfeld advises George to ignore women, in order to attract them. Then, George cames to Seinfeld and told him the results: absolutely nothing :))
I got a Video for you, and the reason I am asking YOU instead of the Thousands of other Dating Coaches on UA-cam, is because I think you will be able to answer the Question better. I have been Married and Divorced 3 times, I have had lots of Girlfriends, so I generally know about Women, but most Women always try to play into MEN's Fantasies, I have always Wondered, What really Turns a Woman On? And I'm not talking about What Attracts a Woman, I am talking about What Sexually Arouses a Woman? I Know all Women are Different, and what does it for one Woman is not necessarily do it for another, but I wanted to know what is really going on inside their Heads when we are having Sex, I know occasionally they are only thinking about doing the Laundry. 😁 But I'm talking about When they get Turned on, what are they Thinking about? THAT's what I wanna know. I know there are Dominatrixes, but I'm not so sure they are being Sexually Aroused by what they are doing. And I know many Women like to be SUBs LOTS of Women like to be Subs, and This I Know for these Women it DOES Turn them on, but how much of what a Woman does is REAL, that is more of what I am getting at. I want to dive into her mind and REALLY know what she wants. Got any ideas? 😁
hi Mark, thank you for the question. it's not something I can answer here, but if you're like to go deeper, please shoot us a message. There are a few options how we can work together to help you understand these aspects of women better. And yes I understand everything you're saying. You can visit my website www.magdakay.com for more details and contact us through there.
You seem like a very sensible and respectful foreign girl. This advise may not work so well on American women. More than half are really messed up and treat men very poorly. I'm over 6ft, make good money, speak multiple languages, am a pilot, attend red carpet events in France and Germany with celebrities, will be walking the runway as a model in 2024 and am very masculine doing my own car repairs, yet seemingly it's not good enough, even for ladies that are really average looking with no special talents beyond having a cat and a job. The women who do respond very well to me are European. Not the typical entitled American girl who is 170 lbs and starts drama for no reason.
cultural differences are very real. I too relate to some better than others. At the end of the day, we need compatibility. I find that many European (but NOT all), and more traditional and more polarized while other cultures have moved closer to neutral energy. Many peopel are missing the polarity we used to have, and there are some cultures when it's still valued and embodies.
I don't think you have the best view of the situation either (constructive criticism) Just because "men" don't like being ignored doesn't take into account that men and women are different... The advice to ignore the woman is effective because in today's world women get a lot of attention for no reason, and by not giving that "attention" you are different from other men who will give almost anything just to get attention in return. The other thing that a lot of videos on forum blogposts lack is "context" what does ignorance mean? In what situation? How does it manifest itself? Without these contexts, you can't really understand what the poet is really thinking. By the way, the ignoring can also be an indication that the man has a life and things to do and doesn't see the woman as a queen like most men do.
as a woman, and having tons of female friends, trust me, women dont get as much attention as you may think. And then even if some to, thats a reason to punish her?
@MagdaKay I mean I don't "think" how much attention women get, because I don't know. I think I'm right in that between two equally attractive men and women, the woman usually gets more attention. And I think it's also true that an attractive woman gets exponentially more attention the more attractive she is. Of course I'm talking specifically about the internet. I don't understand exactly where the "punishment" part came from. What they say about "dating advice" to make men not care so much about the woman, or neglect her are all "strategies" to get the man to get what he wants. I don't think we want to go into how to use the advice itself, how much it works, how bad it is, because the average man doesn't know when and how much of this advice to use. It's probably safe to say that the advice would make sense if "ignoring" it were **natural.** If you ignore the woman because you are really busy, or just doesn't feel like talking to the woman. Instead, men "act like" the advice and ignore women. They just "pretend" to have a job to do, and as long as they are "pretending" it's not necessarily right. But I think we both agree that yes, "dating" does sometimes require "strategies" to get the other person, male or female... Dating does have rules, and certain ways of playing the game, if you don't know the rules of the game "which are not always the same" then you lose the game and don't get what you played for.
@MagdaKay Yes dear , I watched it until the end , in a normal world we should be kind and polite and treat people nice , and expect the same for return, but unfortunately this is not the case with dating women, men that are being nice treated like sh*t and viewed as simps. You don't realize how hard it is to be a man and to be useless and ignored by women, and texting without being answered by default, that's why we need advice from men who experienced the same and know how to deal with women
@@MagdaKay In fact the sad truth is that I have seen more success with women by acting like a douchebag , which I don't want to be like that , but that's what's work better
I think that advice comes from guys who have given up hope of a good woman. They have seen so many worthless women they assume all are the same. They care nothing for those women except for temporary needs fulfillment. They are sad fellows because they cannot build a relationship that lasts. They cannot build a family. They cannot design a dynasty. I too have encountered a multitude of worthless women, even in places where you might expect to find higher quality women. The difference is that I would prefer not having a woman at all than playing in the trash pile. I believe there are still good women out there & they are accessible not only to the top 1% of men. Why? A truly good woman does not want a shallow fellow. She wants real love & many would rather have a simple but happy life than a well-funded exciting life.
Who says good looking rich men aren’t kind? Your post reeks of bitter jealously and excuses. You just weren’t good or brave enough. You also weren’t funny or good looking. Maybe instead of calling women trash, work on yourself since you’re clearly not even worth a second thought 😂
Magda said: “Pick the right woman." But I believe that this is the puzzle of the century to be solved. The complexity of women is increasing exponentially, and even women find it difficult to communicate with each other today.
There are lot of right women outhere. The "thing" is they are looking for the "right" men too. The complexity is not increasing, and communication is the same - depdends on the education and spiritual level.
"Right" in what way? Everyone is looking for qualities that align with what they are shopping for. For me, it is long term, and that means shared values.
About ignoring, the key is knowing how to recognize people who care about you, they won't ignore you. It's not simple but is doable.
After being out of the dating circle for many years I want to get back. To be honest I am scared, but with Magda advice is going to help me going forward.
I can understand where you are coming from, but what about women who ignore men? I used to have anxious attachment style and it would drive me crazy. But now when a woman ignores or ghosts me, I get turned off and just mirror her actions by ignoring her back.
Also you shouldn't ignore a woman you like, but don't be too quick to be there for her and respond right away.
You still have good content lady. Appreciate your work
Magda, I'm so glad you're doing this YT channel, lol.
You offer good advice that's just common sense!
I don't watch all of them, nor do I watch many of the "advice" channels for men trying to "hook up with ANY woman," mainly because I'm out of the "market!". On other words, I'm happily married. Of course I enjoy the company of women, so I want them to like me, but what I've always done seems to work just fine. That is, I'm just me. No games, no pretending. I just be me.
Now, decades ago, I wasn't as sure of myself, but as it turns out, the "rejections" that I did get were because some women simply want the wrong guys. Like the women who are only interested in "users & abusers."
That just didn't make sense to me (still doesn't), so back then I assumed there was something wrong with me.
But, over time I realized that, just like there are men who have "issues," there are women with "issues" too. It wasn't a reflection of me.
So, your point that men should "only want to get with women that are suitable for them" is well founded.
I enjoy watching your videos because you're so adorable and I love to hear you talk!
Keep up the excellent videos! 🤪
wow, thank you so much. And congratulations on a beautiful relationship!
Public comment. It is important to protect your dignity and integrity and respect. Moral values is what matters in life. Self realization allows you to achieve success. Life is a balance. Watch for red flags 🎌.
Ok so I loved this advice. I have been ignoring women and I have been attracting women but I wasn't ignoring them because I was trying to trick them but because I was doing the work and healing after my divorce. I thought that a girlfriend would only complicate matters and slow my recovery and potentially lead to trauma bonding instead of a future healthy relationship.
Hearing that it's women who have low self esteem and are not high quality women who are responsive to being ignored makes sense and is super encouraging. I figured I was burning a lot of bridges but turns out those were the wrong bridges anyway. So thank you. This really helped.
thank you for sharing. If you feel you need time to heal, then it's perfectly ok and normal to take time. Because yes, we often do fall into a new relationship (as in: fall, not choose it). so having that awareness is really good
I admire your work. Love you.
Solid perspective here.
Love your content. Thank you!
thank you
I will take this advice but… I have a friend who is really attractive and he will say hi and talk to girls then stop for a while. They really go nuts over him. Texting him and calling several times. So for good-looking guys, I think it works but for the rest of us, maybe we should use your advice.
Thank you so much !
These talks by dating coaches are only valid in certain contexts. If you are tall, good looking successful man, then it often does "work". If youre not, they are glad to be left alone so they dont need to be in the awkward place of letting you down.
Also, I dont think they mean "ignore" in a literal sense, like in a way thats considered rude. I think they mean not to do the opposite, such as giving her inordinate amounts of attention.
Lol" if u do this, we think that youre a douchebag". I have broken ribs and you made me have a hurtful laugh
Most women are drama these days, so ignoring is best.
im sorry this has been your experience. trust me, there are many many great women (just like there are many many great men).
@MagdaKay I do agree with you, but they are rare to find because social media has poisoned most women ways to control their men.
@MagdaKay I'm sorry that men think this, it's sad. Showing a woman all of you're love and positivity and making her feel special is the only way to go.
@@MagdaKayfor the first 15-16 years of my life, my experiences with women and/or girls were mostly horrendous!
Women only love tall handsome chads.
I really liked this video…I love your accent, dress is lovely also….
Magda, I'm glad to find your channel. I have a suggestion: please make an episode teaching why some women want to be dominated and degraded in bed. My wife of six years is requesting for me to do things that really make me uncomfortable and confused. I'm searching for help from professionals like you. Thanks!
Happy to have you here! So regarding your question: we actually have different sexuality types. Your wife, based on what you describe, is fire or earth. since that type of sexual expression feels uncofmortable to you, it means you are on the opposite spectrum (so water or air, and I just have a feelin it would be air specifically). I have a 90-min training where I explain each type and speak about building compatibility if you'd like to learn more. here's the link: magdakay.com/programs/find-your-type/
Concur that ignoring women does not work, unless you are a 6’3”, six-figure earning, Ferrari-driving, Dubai-weekending Chad.
In my case I ignore them because cold-approaching them does not work either. I’m autistic, and about half the time they used to taunt me with insults whenever I did approach them. So I gave that up.
Instead I’ve done my best to build a solid career and a stable, reliable social circle. Given what’s out there-at my age (52) pretty much only gold-diggers and single mothers, and the younger Millennial and Z generations are a lost cause-I figure I’m better off on my own
At 52 dating a 20 year old is best left to fantasy. Don't give up on women your age, or older. I say this as a 59 year old. I am dating a 40 year old😂
@@visaman Like I said, I’m not dating or even looking, for the reasons I’ve cited
Nice dress...look amazing
Women have tried this with me and my thought is out of site out of mind
MONEY...
Ignore women is not an advice given by only male coaches but also by many female coaches to men . Ignore women is an advice given to most men who do exactly the opposite : chase and beg women too much and appear too needy. Ignore women is probably bad wording, what is really meant is if a woman pulls back don't run after her like a puppy begging for attention. Mirror her action and also pull back. I disagree with your advice that men should make an effort if by that you mean chase the women. That would be too needy and trying too hard and turns women off. Don't ignore women who show interest but don't chase them like a simp either. Show interest only to women who reciprocate your interest and don't show them more interest than they show you otherwise they would be intimidated by your excessive interest.
I agree. Men -- like me -- who need women find women unapproachable. Women do not want needy men. So the dynamic is almost a catch-22. To satisfy the need for female companionship, we have to ignore the need and get beyond it, but when we reach that point, we develop a kind of disdain for companionship. We lose interest! But there is a second irony here. As we lose interest, we gain the freedom to actually help and serve women and speak to their needs, and that leads to a different kind of interest, an interest in serving others.
In one Seinfeld's episode, Seinfeld advises George to ignore women, in order to attract them. Then, George cames to Seinfeld and told him the results: absolutely nothing :))
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It seems to me you just have to be aware of what is out there.
Not talking to the females is not the right approach.
You need to get to know them.
Hi charming looking great so beautiful doing great bless you
I got a Video for you, and the reason I am asking YOU instead of the Thousands of other Dating Coaches on UA-cam, is because I think you will be able to answer the Question better.
I have been Married and Divorced 3 times, I have had lots of Girlfriends, so I generally know about Women, but most Women always try to play into MEN's Fantasies, I have always Wondered, What really Turns a Woman On? And I'm not talking about What Attracts a Woman, I am talking about What Sexually Arouses a Woman? I Know all Women are Different, and what does it for one Woman is not necessarily do it for another, but I wanted to know what is really going on inside their Heads when we are having Sex, I know occasionally they are only thinking about doing the Laundry. 😁 But I'm talking about When they get Turned on, what are they Thinking about? THAT's what I wanna know. I know there are Dominatrixes, but I'm not so sure they are being Sexually Aroused by what they are doing. And I know many Women like to be SUBs LOTS of Women like to be Subs, and This I Know for these Women it DOES Turn them on, but how much of what a Woman does is REAL, that is more of what I am getting at. I want to dive into her mind and REALLY know what she wants. Got any ideas? 😁
hi Mark, thank you for the question. it's not something I can answer here, but if you're like to go deeper, please shoot us a message. There are a few options how we can work together to help you understand these aspects of women better. And yes I understand everything you're saying. You can visit my website www.magdakay.com for more details and contact us through there.
Are you Brazilian lovely lady?
haha, no, why? is it because of my accent? :)
@@MagdaKay Yes! It sounds like a Brazilian accent 😁
My guess is Polska. Most Magdas I've known have been from Poland.
Hi gorgeous so beautiful so charming looking great doing so excellent 🌹 😍 bless you 💖 ❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Thank you for this it’s always games played by both sexes too
You seem like a very sensible and respectful foreign girl. This advise may not work so well on American women. More than half are really messed up and treat men very poorly. I'm over 6ft, make good money, speak multiple languages, am a pilot, attend red carpet events in France and Germany with celebrities, will be walking the runway as a model in 2024 and am very masculine doing my own car repairs, yet seemingly it's not good enough, even for ladies that are really average looking with no special talents beyond having a cat and a job. The women who do respond very well to me are European. Not the typical entitled American girl who is 170 lbs and starts drama for no reason.
The average looking ones with that attitude are hilarious. Dog faces that think they would even have a chance with any good-looking guy.
cultural differences are very real. I too relate to some better than others. At the end of the day, we need compatibility. I find that many European (but NOT all), and more traditional and more polarized while other cultures have moved closer to neutral energy. Many peopel are missing the polarity we used to have, and there are some cultures when it's still valued and embodies.
I don't think you have the best view of the situation either (constructive criticism)
Just because "men" don't like being ignored doesn't take into account that men and women are different... The advice to ignore the woman is effective because in today's world women get a lot of attention for no reason, and by not giving that "attention" you are different from other men who will give almost anything just to get attention in return.
The other thing that a lot of videos on forum blogposts lack is "context" what does ignorance mean? In what situation? How does it manifest itself? Without these contexts, you can't really understand what the poet is really thinking.
By the way, the ignoring can also be an indication that the man has a life and things to do and doesn't see the woman as a queen like most men do.
as a woman, and having tons of female friends, trust me, women dont get as much attention as you may think. And then even if some to, thats a reason to punish her?
@MagdaKay I mean I don't "think" how much attention women get, because I don't know.
I think I'm right in that between two equally attractive men and women, the woman usually gets more attention. And I think it's also true that an attractive woman gets exponentially more attention the more attractive she is. Of course I'm talking specifically about the internet.
I don't understand exactly where the "punishment" part came from. What they say about "dating advice" to make men not care so much about the woman, or neglect her are all "strategies" to get the man to get what he wants. I don't think we want to go into how to use the advice itself, how much it works, how bad it is, because the average man doesn't know when and how much of this advice to use. It's probably safe to say that the advice would make sense if "ignoring" it were **natural.**
If you ignore the woman because you are really busy, or just doesn't feel like talking to the woman. Instead, men "act like" the advice and ignore women. They just "pretend" to have a job to do, and as long as they are "pretending" it's not necessarily right.
But I think we both agree that yes, "dating" does sometimes require "strategies" to get the other person, male or female... Dating does have rules, and certain ways of playing the game, if you don't know the rules of the game "which are not always the same" then you lose the game and don't get what you played for.
So why allllll of the dating coaches saying the same , they are not dumb , you say advice that would favor women
did you actually watch the video?
@MagdaKay
Yes dear , I watched it until the end , in a normal world we should be kind and polite and treat people nice , and expect the same for return, but unfortunately this is not the case with dating women, men that are being nice treated like sh*t and viewed as simps. You don't realize how hard it is to be a man and to be useless and ignored by women, and texting without being answered by default, that's why we need advice from men who experienced the same and know how to deal with women
@@MagdaKay
In fact the sad truth is that I have seen more success with women by acting like a douchebag , which I don't want to be like that , but that's what's work better
I think that advice comes from guys who have given up hope of a good woman. They have seen so many worthless women they assume all are the same. They care nothing for those women except for temporary needs fulfillment. They are sad fellows because they cannot build a relationship that lasts. They cannot build a family. They cannot design a dynasty.
I too have encountered a multitude of worthless women, even in places where you might expect to find higher quality women. The difference is that I would prefer not having a woman at all than playing in the trash pile. I believe there are still good women out there & they are accessible not only to the top 1% of men. Why? A truly good woman does not want a shallow fellow. She wants real love & many would rather have a simple but happy life than a well-funded exciting life.
Who says good looking rich men aren’t kind? Your post reeks of bitter jealously and excuses. You just weren’t good or brave enough. You also weren’t funny or good looking. Maybe instead of calling women trash, work on yourself since you’re clearly not even worth a second thought 😂
Magda Kay ......
TWO HOURS .........
INSIDE THAT NAUGHTY MOUTH ...... .
I'LL TRY NOT TO GET RELIGIOUS!!! 😎😎😎