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  • @alanhollands8901
    @alanhollands8901 6 місяців тому +56

    I don't believe in false modesty.I know i am great in bed,I can sleep for hours without snoring.

  • @tazbod6723
    @tazbod6723 6 місяців тому +18

    Wanting to talk connect and cuddle with you afterwards is just often the case. The signs are not clear, but if she's wet and sloshy the whole time and doesn't want you to stop, you can assume your hitting it. She can't fake her rain. Don't ask if she came. The feedback usually comes on its own after diving in her a few times. She will tell just you. Don't look like you need to know. Good luck.

  • @ndlsumr
    @ndlsumr 6 місяців тому +31

    Ladies, most men (real ones, anyway) want to please you. It's inherent in our DNA but you must tell us if we're not ringing your bell. We want to know what we can do to give you that glow. Talk about it. If he isn't willing to listen and learn what to do to make you feel fulfilled and loved, maybe he's not the right one. And intimacy - the icing on the cake. I recently spoke with a friend about this, and the best sex I ever had was when I connected with someone afterwards. Sex without it isn't nearly as fulfilling. So, please - communicate with us. The keepers will listen.

    • @rabidgator6473
      @rabidgator6473 6 місяців тому

      I agree. I think husbands want to be the “best” for his wife. But when women sleep around, they are making a tough job even harder by not taking to their husbands.

    • @marcK599.
      @marcK599. 6 місяців тому

      I just want to get my rocks off

  • @stephenharvey5932
    @stephenharvey5932 6 місяців тому +8

    I have always told my partner. If there is something she would like done differently , please talk to me. Everyone is different.

  • @johnarmstrong194
    @johnarmstrong194 6 місяців тому +10

    Good video. But communication is key. My best /lovers partners were open and honest in their communication about their desires FYI: A lot of Men do like to cuddle afterwards. It leads to great connections, intimacy, and sometimes more love making 😊

  • @Snarge22
    @Snarge22 6 місяців тому +27

    What is Patriarchy?
    Women regularly complain and blame the patriarchy always pointing their fingers at men as the evil villains holding them back. Are their views that simple, or are they overlooking what the patriarchy really is? My view is the patriarchy does indeed consist of men, but also women (yes women ladies) who have expectations and demands of society and men. In fact, it's my view the patriarchy IS society, which not only includes the collective behaviors of men and women, but culture, government, laws, education, marketing/sales/advertising, the current mix of capitalism with socialistic policies, women who are anti-abortionists (a high percentage of women) and more. The patriarchy is all that. Not just men, or white men, or old white men. The flippant blaming of men for the patriarchy is typical shortsightedness of the complainers who haven't given the subject real serious in-depth thought.

    • @jtkilowatt9941
      @jtkilowatt9941 6 місяців тому +1

      Very well put! The modern definition od patriarchy is "anything women don't like about culture". They like women and children first on a sinking ship or doors held open for them, for example.

    • @MajorCaliber
      @MajorCaliber 6 місяців тому +1

      tldr: Repeal The 19th Amendment!

    • @rogergirouard
      @rogergirouard 6 місяців тому +1

      they need to get out of the heads

    • @JohnMoog-ug6bk
      @JohnMoog-ug6bk 6 місяців тому +6

      Something you hear about while wasting $200k on an unemployable gender studies degree

    • @Seetiyan
      @Seetiyan 6 місяців тому

      Society is all that, but if it's ALL that, then it's not the "patriarchy." Patriarchy is exceedingly simple - it's just men in charge. That's all a patriarchy is. And technically we do live in a patriarchy-ish. Men are more in charge than women are.
      But men aren't responsible for women lying to men in bed. Men aren't responsible for women getting those crazy long nails. Men aren't responsible for failing education these days - most educators are women. Pro vs anti-abortion is split right down the middle half of men and half of women, so men aren't responsible for the supreme court ruling either. In fact, some of the most famous pro-lifers are women. And men aren't responsible for Hillary not getting elected - women vote more than men do!
      So there's a patriarchy, yes, and men certainly aren't perfect, but it's not the root of all women's problems. They have themselves to blame for many of those.

  • @al1976-v7m
    @al1976-v7m 6 місяців тому +8

    should have discovered your channel while i was still in a relationship...

  • @limburgercheese1234
    @limburgercheese1234 6 місяців тому +8

    The intro was unexpected but super important to be aware of. There should be a QR code link to this video on every box of condoms.

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  6 місяців тому +1

      damn, hod do I get on those boxes?? id love that! :)

    • @antongruber5978
      @antongruber5978 6 місяців тому

      I'm in the process of designing a complete revolutionary condom. Will be in touch.
      Regards !

  • @rabidgator6473
    @rabidgator6473 6 місяців тому +27

    I know I’m really bad at sex.. know this because I was told “don’t worry you’re fine”, I would probably feel better if my wife had told me that she sees me as a friend…. Magda, if you respect,love, and care for someone who you love “love”, then you don’t lie to them, regardless of the subject. If you love them, then she should give constructive feedback, or suggest that he tries something a little different, or whatever she may want or need. I don’t get constructive feedback, I get “don’t do that” ! Or “what ever you’re doing, isn’t good” ! Now please understand that when she says this, it’s very short, angry and she doesn’t even try to hide her annoyance with me (I’ve only been with her, she’s been with several guys). She also once during being intimate, she just got pissed off and got up and said “just forget it, it’s taking too long” ( I was trying to take my time and enjoy just being together, so it’s not getting any better, even after 27 years. Oh well, I guess she doesn’t realize why I don’t care anymore.

    • @thisdyingsoul76
      @thisdyingsoul76 6 місяців тому +6

      Absolutely. She doesn't have to be brutally honest and tell you how bad you are if she's not enjoying sex with you; but when a guy is not giving her what she needs to be satisfied, she needs to communicate these things. She needs to tell you when something you're doing is working and when it isn't, she needs to direct you to something that does. And if she doesn't do it in the moment so you can immediately try it, at least say something later so you can file it away for next time.

    • @rabidgator6473
      @rabidgator6473 6 місяців тому +3

      @@thisdyingsoul76I don’t mind people being brutally honest, but darn…. I don’t know what she expects, me: no experience, her: a good bit of experience, talk about feeling stupid…..she “doesn’t know what she wants”, and she can’t tell me what she wants or needs; not to mention she doesn’t want to talk about sex, I have to start the conversation, and she just sits there and it’s like talking to a brick wall.

    • @thisdyingsoul76
      @thisdyingsoul76 6 місяців тому +8

      @@rabidgator6473 ouch. It's hard to get better if she isn't giving you any feedback on what feels good for her. We aren't mind readers. If she's not able to do that, she's part of the issue.

    • @rabidgator6473
      @rabidgator6473 6 місяців тому +2

      @@thisdyingsoul76I asked time and time again what she wants, what can I do to make it better for her……I don’t care if I ever have sex again, I gotten to the point where I hate sex…..

    • @64maxpower
      @64maxpower 6 місяців тому +3

      You know it's not you right?

  • @jamesnorwood4084
    @jamesnorwood4084 6 місяців тому +4

    Communication is the key to a sound relationship. Let your partner feel how you feel. Simple as that. Silence is not "golden" when it comes to sex. Women want to feel who you truly are and how you truly care for them.

  • @thomasalbers6102
    @thomasalbers6102 6 місяців тому +14

    Missed all three. Every time after sex , she turned away. Never seen a glow, only when I bought her a car. And if I don’t initiate, there will be no sex. Now I see, that there is no use in trying anymore. This was eye opening and frustrating

    • @allgf
      @allgf 6 місяців тому

      I hear you brother I love my women so much, an if I don't initiate sex nothing happens 😢😢. It is the most frustrating thing in the world. When you are madly in love with a woman, having to initiate sex everytime 😢is hard. Some of us guys are madly in love an want more than just sex , we want to be loved an feel that we are loved, we want our partner to love us back. If a man just wanted sex we would never marry r be in a relationship. We would just go get a w*ore an be satisfied 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @generaldvw
      @generaldvw 6 місяців тому

      @@allgfYo…a good escort…is priceless🎉

    • @KurtisDavid
      @KurtisDavid 5 місяців тому

      @@allgf I would say there's 2 options here. 1- as Magda said, she just might not be super satisfied. or 2- she may not feel comfortable initiating if she has some more traditional ideals, or even a low sex drive. Hopefully you guys can have an open conversation because as long as she wants you too, any of those "problems" can be solved. If it's number 2 knowing you enjoy her wanting you may help her as well. If it's number 1 she needs to know her constructive criticism is something you can handle hearing. Goodluck!!!

    • @hobomike6935
      @hobomike6935 Місяць тому

      Same here, it’s awful. I don’t get any of these from her, quite the opposite- and no matter what I try, there doesn’t seem to be anything I can do to change that.

  • @bernienikunen9565
    @bernienikunen9565 6 місяців тому +7

    Great advice ! I love it !

  • @mgsharnhorst
    @mgsharnhorst 6 місяців тому +11

    Skip to 2:40

  • @Jdrummer77
    @Jdrummer77 6 місяців тому +5

    It’s a stereotype but western men assume Eastern European women are great in bed. They are confident, uninhibited and aren’t afraid to say what they want. Also they like a dominant man. I think a lot of it is true, but of course some stereotype.

  • @streetfighter.youtube
    @streetfighter.youtube 6 місяців тому +7

    Thanks for your priceless tips.

  • @jj-sc1kq
    @jj-sc1kq 6 місяців тому +1

    Well, I can hope that someday I will be able to use this information. Cheers

  • @miguellogistics984
    @miguellogistics984 6 місяців тому +6

    Is it good when she drives 2 hours one way?

  • @jimmybirtles3800
    @jimmybirtles3800 6 місяців тому +5

    Really enlightening.

  • @bluebay0
    @bluebay0 6 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for the content Magda. Good advice no doubt. I have to disagree with 1:03. The biggest reason why I think ladies don't like to talk about sex is because it's a turn off-an ick. Men that ask that question (although an important one) come off as being insecure, incompetent and certainly not smooth, nor confident, nor charming. My dudes, women don't want to see you trying to figure out if there is a problem and then scrambling for solutions. To them that is weakness on display. Women would rather have you deal with issues without having to bring them into the picture. Women want men who are aware and fix issues _by_ themselves. She wants to be your girl, not your mother. Hey, I'm just describing it as it is. Remember my dudes; women don't want to nerd out or analyze things with us. There are exceptions however, in which case chances are they just want _you_ to listen to _them_ analyze things.

    • @PNdebt-hc2tg
      @PNdebt-hc2tg 6 місяців тому

      My GF calls it "getting out of my head and being in the moment reading her body" It has been worth everything... At 63 she still gets very wet for me...Each night is different...If I want to talk sex during the day I have to be very careful...Showing confidence is everything.

    • @PNdebt-hc2tg
      @PNdebt-hc2tg 6 місяців тому +1

      There is a lot of truth in what you say. Being able to read the moment and move accordingly is critical. Every night could be different... We often have a quick cuddle after because we will have some very late nights and by the time we are done we just want to sleep.

  • @rthjong
    @rthjong 6 місяців тому +2

    Love your vlogs Magda! 🥰

  • @rogerwilliams7639
    @rogerwilliams7639 6 місяців тому +8

    But this is 2024 woman can take the initiative.

    • @Astuga
      @Astuga 6 місяців тому +6

      Good one! 😄
      Like with everything, when it benefits them, they want a traditional man.

    • @marcK599.
      @marcK599. 6 місяців тому +3

      You would think, they do it everywhere else including saying they don’t need men.

  • @ecolobarjot
    @ecolobarjot 3 місяці тому +2

    I think it's a pitty that many women can't tell the truth to their male partners. Even if it's hard, how do they want the situation to get improved if they don't speak about it ? Even if it's not easy to hear, I prefer the truth. Supposing is not good, and looking for signs is still supposing. In a real loving relashionship, you should be able to tell and to hear.

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  3 місяці тому

      I agree. We all could use some of it. Communicating things can really be hard. But when we don't we often make things worse.

  • @crazedvole
    @crazedvole 6 місяців тому +3

    0:55 they tell their mom, sister, girlfriends and gay friends. But they don't tell the guy they are with. That is the problem. If a woman is not "getting hers" in the bedroom and does not say anything, she does not deserve to be satisfied. All she has to do is tell him. and like you said, good men want her to be happy too in bed. Women need to speak up. Just imagine she is telling him to take out the garbage or something. She never has a problem saying when she wants *that* done, right?

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  6 місяців тому +1

      I agree its a problem, but.. have you ever wondered why a woman will tell her friend or a sister but not the man? What makes her too scared to do it? Just an idea to think about

    • @crazedvole
      @crazedvole 6 місяців тому +4

      @@MagdaKay I have considered that and my uninformed opinion on that is that if you don't feel that you can tell the man you are with about things like this, you have bigger issues to solve before you even start to worry about your orgasm.

    • @DeeJay003
      @DeeJay003 6 місяців тому

      @@crazedvole A lot of women have mental and emotional issues. They also don't know what they want most of the time. They can be hard work to say the least lol

  • @davidcarbone3385
    @davidcarbone3385 6 місяців тому +2

    What if you are with a woman who isn't cloying at all, doesn't like to cuddle too much?

  • @waggishsagacity7947
    @waggishsagacity7947 6 місяців тому +6

    This was good advice, but I have one suggestion to add to it: Talk to your partner and agree SOLEMNLY that neither of you would EVER FAKE an orgasm because it would destroy TRUST between you. If this does not sit with you, watch "When Harry Met Sally" --the Deli scene in particular), and you'll get what I mean.

    • @jtkilowatt9941
      @jtkilowatt9941 6 місяців тому

      My ex blurted out that she sometimes faked her orgasms during a party with about 20 people there. Our relationship was never the same. I hate it when women fake orgasms. Even in porn.

    • @PNdebt-hc2tg
      @PNdebt-hc2tg 6 місяців тому

      So true and I said the same. to my GF when we started having sex. We are older and orgasms can be harder to get. Learning to read her body and respond properly to what she is feeling and being totally in the moment. She has a lot more variety/experience than me and we both know that our bodies are different as we age. Toys are okay as well to get over the edge..

  • @BlueFish-kq9fh
    @BlueFish-kq9fh 6 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for this video, Magda, it's great. 👍
    Guys, if you want to cut to the chase, here are the 3 signs:
    02:59 She initiates sex
    03:19 She wants to cuddle and talk after sex
    04:29 She has a glow / radiance about her after sex.

    • @hobomike6935
      @hobomike6935 Місяць тому

      >she never initiates, and I don’t even bother asking at this point because I know the answer is “no.”
      >She wants to sleep somewhere else, or wants me to go away. Another night I’ve ruined with my inadequacies.
      >shes irritated, frustrated, tired, and overall unsatisfied and unhappy every night since we’ve been together.
      Sex is supposed to be one of the best parts of marriage, but it’s destroying mine because of how much I suck no matter how hard I try. I wish I was dead.

  • @diobeebongdivine
    @diobeebongdivine 6 місяців тому +2

    Talk about it before, during, and after doing it....

  • @GVarner
    @GVarner 6 місяців тому +1

    Doctor Eddie Ganja Here It's a tie with me these are my 2 favorite Rush albums then I would pick Hemispheres was not into Rush after Moving Pictures love Rush all the way to 1981 love both there live albums really love there first album long live 70s Rush

  • @coolgranddad5430
    @coolgranddad5430 6 місяців тому +4

    Save the feminist dogma for weak minded people, ruins your presentation!

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  6 місяців тому

      you must be very popular among ladies

    • @coolgranddad5430
      @coolgranddad5430 6 місяців тому +2

      @@MagdaKay Why would I care? Found a fantastic woman back in 1978, been married for over 44 years. She's still the most drop-dead gorgeous, blue-eyed blonde, great mom and grandmother. That's why when I hear feminist rants, just turns me off.
      You make some valid points, but the feminist stuff needs to end. Men years gone by had a crappy life as well, look it up. Most men in 1900 couldn't vote, they weren't allowed to. Why? He'd have to be a property owner: no property = no vote.
      You have great potential, hope you realize it one day. Wish you well!

  • @agungdarmayuda5754
    @agungdarmayuda5754 6 місяців тому +2

    Thank You🙏

  • @David-ve8pk
    @David-ve8pk 4 місяці тому

    I am not sure but my wife used to "don't stop"! My face would be red from the diving in part and I would be out of breath needing to come up for air. Then it all changed... No intimacy at all from her side. I decided to just do what she wants "cuddle" without asking, motioning for it and just accept it. I found talking to her about intimate matters just doesn't go well at all.
    Shes seeing a therapist but I haven't a clue and she won't tell me how's she feeling and why she's feeling like that now for over 5+ yrs. I am at the point where I don't care. I have been getting "touched" by a few regular massage ladies who aren't being forced or pressured to be there.
    But I have one that actually I had relations with when I had mental health issues back in 2020. She actually brought me back from the brink of not giving a crap about anyone or anything. I do see her but not for that extra time. She's encouraging me to work it out. But I am the kind of guy who needs physical intimacy and touch. I do enjoy the visuals though of these therapists. I am sure that I am not the only one who's been dealing with this situation one way or another. Very sad all around.

    • @gregtarris9057
      @gregtarris9057 4 дні тому

      your wife is having an affair sorry to say....

  • @Markrdc8827
    @Markrdc8827 Місяць тому +1

    Geat videooo I love how everything is explained in details but everyone has different experiences for me quitting porn and reading a book called hidden techniques for manifesting women zorlest ma life 1000x better

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  Місяць тому

      oh, I haven't heard of this book, thank you! I'll check it out

  • @chromiumphotography5138
    @chromiumphotography5138 19 днів тому

    It depends on the woman, surely? Let me clarify, had a pretty miserable marriage over the past decade. Since the soon to be ex filed for divorce, I have reconnected with a younger woman, and things are completely different.

  • @gregdamario5808
    @gregdamario5808 6 місяців тому +2

    Well, if she fake complains (to her girlfriends) that, "Every day, when we are done, I am exhausted!" Or when you ask her, she just says, "I don't know. 🤤After 15 they all just seem to run together."

    • @hobomike6935
      @hobomike6935 Місяць тому

      She usually does the opposite for me. 0 successes, complaints that I’m not getting her where she needs to go no matter what I try/she has me try, and faces more akin to 😕🤨😞😒😡😤😐😑.

  • @bigtelly1440
    @bigtelly1440 3 місяці тому

    Fellas. Of you are in tune enough with your partner you will know. Being in tune requires curiosity and openness to learn what she likes. Be intentional and pay attention❤️

  • @Kombo-Chapfika
    @Kombo-Chapfika 5 місяців тому +1

    Some women are just allergic to personal responsibility.

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  4 місяці тому

      I wouldn't make it gender specific. some people are, regardless of gender.

    • @hobomike6935
      @hobomike6935 Місяць тому

      Some men are just cursed and are utter failures in the bedroom. I am one of them, and it’s horrible.
      It’s not necessarily the women, sometimes it really just is stinking at being a man.

  • @miguellogistics984
    @miguellogistics984 6 місяців тому +1

    And, is she having a good experience when he makes it ..."rain" so to speak?

  • @pipolepaw
    @pipolepaw 6 місяців тому +3

    No need for féminism propaganda

  • @Raymond-rr5iv
    @Raymond-rr5iv Місяць тому

    I think your video is absolutely accurate...
    and thank you❤.

  • @MrTmoney0985
    @MrTmoney0985 6 місяців тому +5

    I'm not sorry, but if you got to fake an O then that is 80% YOUR FAULT women. Now if you draw a map 5 times in a row and he is not picking up what you are putting down then it is on him...

    • @hobomike6935
      @hobomike6935 Місяць тому

      Please for the love of all that is holy, *tell us more* about this mythical map. Because she doesn’t seem to have one she can describe to me, I can’t find any info online that has worked for her, and I’ve generally failed her every time she’s given me a chance to the point that I think she’s probably gonna stop giving chances.

  • @BasedGodEmperorTrump
    @BasedGodEmperorTrump 2 місяці тому +1

    I was actually wanting to watch this video until you started crying about all the stupid oppression crap.

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  2 місяці тому

      wow, the women in your life must love you... you sound so considerate and mature.

    • @BasedGodEmperorTrump
      @BasedGodEmperorTrump 2 місяці тому

      @@MagdaKay I feel sorry for all the men in your life having to deal with your constant crying and left-wing mental illness. Do them a favor and get some professional help.

  • @kokoyaro
    @kokoyaro 6 місяців тому +6

    In other words, Don't Believe Women

  • @yamaalamzadeh1207
    @yamaalamzadeh1207 6 місяців тому +1

    You're a beautiful and talented woman.Im really zealous in listening to what you say❤

  • @teresawills1843
    @teresawills1843 6 місяців тому +1

    M on in

  • @mahinhasan8902
    @mahinhasan8902 6 місяців тому

    Please, write down your piint when you speaking

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  6 місяців тому

      I prefer talking :) hence I make videos!

  • @shakin-it-boss
    @shakin-it-boss 2 місяці тому

    Its not that compicated. Focus on making your woman sexually satisfied and your pleasure will be great.

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  2 місяці тому

      if it wasnt that complicated, then more all women would orgasm. Instead only about 30% do.

  • @random19911004
    @random19911004 6 місяців тому +4

    There is a difference between women having one or two boyfriends, and having a “train” of 50 guys every weekend.
    I would never “slutshame” a lady that has had a few long term boyfriends.

  • @Bowsar1337
    @Bowsar1337 5 місяців тому +1

    you have a tattoo so your opinion is worthless

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  5 місяців тому +1

      wow, what would the world do without such smart people like you?....

  • @haidercoversynthpianomusic747
    @haidercoversynthpianomusic747 6 місяців тому +1

    K ....okay.....if... U. Say so
    U do have an amazing pair of.....
    Naughty dreams
    Robot 🤖

  • @jimmykrakorn9676
    @jimmykrakorn9676 6 місяців тому +7

    Love how you you wasted 3 minutes of saying nothing 🙄

    • @darren4852
      @darren4852 6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for saving my time!

  • @TonyM-h7c
    @TonyM-h7c 6 місяців тому

    Io non ho.detto il male io glio dato un aiuto . Per i soldi

  • @Tar9p
    @Tar9p Місяць тому

    Bitcj get to the point. I dont care about your feeling

    • @MagdaKay
      @MagdaKay  Місяць тому

      goodness, your woman must be luckiest person on the planet!

  • @sirenscalllntothedeep6306
    @sirenscalllntothedeep6306 6 місяців тому +3

    First if a Man actually Loves the Woman he's having Intimate Relations with. He is automatically going to do his best to Please her ‼️ NOT JUST HIMSELF ‼️ Second Your actually Pleasing Her ‼️ THERE'S NOT GOING TO BE ANY GUESS WORK INVOLVED ‼️