Daddy, You Told Me I Was Acting Like Your Side Chick! 😡 | KARAMO

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  • @joyhudson5674
    @joyhudson5674 Рік тому +1490

    The big sister is very sweet. She refused to make it about her ! She was all about letting her sister get her healing ! I love it !!!! Takiya just needs to go to counseling so she can fully heal because I really believe that the dad wants to change and make things right.

    • @yupthatsbee3773
      @yupthatsbee3773 Рік тому +8

      This!!

    • @takyahmurry7328
      @takyahmurry7328 Рік тому +13

      She went to facebook after this bashing me not very sweet if you ask me

    • @joyhudson5674
      @joyhudson5674 Рік тому +14

      @@takyahmurry7328 aww man ! I’m sorry to hear that. I was rooting for all of y’all. Just work on yourself and your healing. I hope you and your dad are ok.

    • @shateraturner923
      @shateraturner923 Рік тому +49

      There was no bashing on my Facebook post. I expressed how hurt I was to find out on this show that my baby sister made decisions not to talk to me or see me alone for so many years

    • @samanthawamiridza7902
      @samanthawamiridza7902 Рік тому +48

      @@takyahmurry7328 Girl, you should get that counselling and heal. I hope your mum was able to learn from her mistakes too, not just your Dad. Your poor sister did not deserve the way you spoke to her either. Be kind.

  • @tasi8512
    @tasi8512 Рік тому +610

    She has deeper issues that she needs to work through with herself, her mama, and her father.

    • @Kiara_Lee1
      @Kiara_Lee1 Рік тому +5

      Agree

    • @WittyOne37
      @WittyOne37 Рік тому +6

      Yes. Therapy is definitely needed.

    • @miekaxiii
      @miekaxiii Рік тому +8

      Agreed, all that yelling was a clear sign.

    • @AlanaGurl
      @AlanaGurl 4 місяці тому

      This

  • @divinedriven1693
    @divinedriven1693 Рік тому +528

    The sister was so unbothered I love it ❤

    • @ashleyisnicole1045
      @ashleyisnicole1045 Рік тому +16

      She wasn’t unbothered because she was also emotional and crying..she was just more mature in handling the situation.

  • @SummertimeFine95
    @SummertimeFine95 Рік тому +753

    Her yelling and slamming her hand in the couch was actually her battling with the realization of her mothers position in this whole dilemma

  • @AnnaliseEden
    @AnnaliseEden Рік тому +317

    Her mother definitely played a part and danced all in her head!! She will never be healed until she realizes everybody played a part in her childhood. Not just her dad.

  • @Kpjulian
    @Kpjulian Рік тому +95

    I’m so glad the big sister stood 10 toes down. You can yell scream and curse but she said what she said and I believe her.

    • @udokanmaogbonna387
      @udokanmaogbonna387 Рік тому +3

      This reminds me of my hurtful dad who bullies me dealing with someone with anger issues is stressful 😣

    • @rhicks835
      @rhicks835 4 місяці тому +1

      I did too she didn’t seem like she was lying

  • @ShannonDeVaughn
    @ShannonDeVaughn Рік тому +254

    Big sis is an amazing woman!

    • @ceeceeceecee5515
      @ceeceeceecee5515 Рік тому +13

      Yes. It’s from her mom. She said the dad wasn’t really there. So her mom raised her not to utilize self control and not embarrass herself on national tv by yelling, cursing and banging on Karamo’s couch! That’s shameful.

    • @kandylandtarot142
      @kandylandtarot142 Рік тому +3

      She's definitely a cut above!

    • @corettamcmiller9275
      @corettamcmiller9275 Місяць тому

      Mom was side piece and was scared I believe and did what she thought was right but was wrong. if sister tried she should have not blocked that relationship because kids have nothing to do with it

  • @realmnthrwknives
    @realmnthrwknives Рік тому +344

    I understand she loves her mom but she said it out her own mouth her mom and grandparents didn't let her around anyone. So why when her sister says she played a part she gets upset? You already admitted she did. The sister blamed the dad too its not like she ganged up on her mom.

    • @takyahmurry7328
      @takyahmurry7328 Рік тому +5

      They been ganging up on my mom for years you don’t know the whole story

    • @OfficialDaikey
      @OfficialDaikey Рік тому +21

      @@takyahmurry7328everybody plays a part but you like the person said above you was contradicting yourself but i wish nothing but blessings and healing to your family , this episode brought me to tears

    • @Allinmyworld
      @Allinmyworld Рік тому +3

      Right make it make sense

    • @neisci
      @neisci Рік тому +16

      ​@@takyahmurry7328you play victim and your mother lacks accountability so I see why they would "gang up" on her.

    • @mssololacrida8427
      @mssololacrida8427 Рік тому +2

      @@neisciI took accountability of my actions and didn’t point the finger at nobody. Only he can answer the questions she had about him

  • @purcellchannel1316
    @purcellchannel1316 Рік тому +427

    People need to stop thinking that mothers are innocent because mothers has secrets too. The mom was maybe very protective doesn't mean the mother doesn't have her own personal agenda.

    • @wordwalkingonrightousnessdaily
      @wordwalkingonrightousnessdaily Рік тому +20

      It was def a personal agenda there. Especially since he was married to the sisters mom at the time she was conceived and born.

    • @mssololacrida8427
      @mssololacrida8427 Рік тому +7

      No personal agenda. I never stopped him from seeing her.

    • @purcellchannel1316
      @purcellchannel1316 Рік тому +6

      @@mssololacrida8427 that maybe true but to be fair, I don't know the full story and there's always 3 sides to every story as well. All I can do is go off base on what I see on the clip and doesn't mean I'm right, just my personal perspective as I watch and listen. But II genuinely do wish you and your family happiness, prosperity, health, strength, unification and all the above. Family is VERY important and hope to see the daughters heal and build a strong bond with the father 🙌

    • @empressx834
      @empressx834 Рік тому +8

      Exactly. She slept with a married man and kept the baby from the father and even when she grown she kept the daughter from her sister. The mother should have apologised she has a part to play

    • @my3babies1038
      @my3babies1038 Рік тому +2

      As a mom of 4, I totally agree. Not saying I DID IT, but I agree! 😂

  • @vazyvas4712
    @vazyvas4712 Рік тому +207

    I hope the big sister is truly getting the love she deserves. She seems so selfless ❤

  • @dawnlee866
    @dawnlee866 Рік тому +195

    This is what affairs do. It destroys relationships. The first daughter has a lot of anger issues. Her mother is too blame as well thou 🙏🏾

  • @zariahwalker9172
    @zariahwalker9172 Рік тому +470

    mama looking real ghosty in the face just saying 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @KhiErra
    @KhiErra Рік тому +71

    I loved how the big sister was willing to let her little sister be heard and get her chance even through her own hurt. She deserves her crown for that.

  • @KamiaMcWilliams
    @KamiaMcWilliams Рік тому +568

    First off, I just want to commend and acknowledge the big sister for 1. Trying to be there for her little sister even when their father wasn’t, even when the sister didn’t want it and the mother didn’t make her and even with her father neglecting her also.
    2. For being the only one who is emotionally mature to not make everything about herself while also, expressing her feelings, truth and trauma in a healthy way without allowing anyone to water down HER TRUTH and how she felt.
    3. And for still being there for her sister while she was on stage even with her over talking, disrespecting and yelling at her, she still handled herself in a respectful and loving way🤎
    Even though it wasn’t about her, I commend her for not making it about her when she could have and simply being very loving, patient and kind even in the midst of being neglected as a daughter and disrespected as a sister.

    • @conniehunt967
      @conniehunt967 Рік тому +2

      Very true

    • @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH
      @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH Рік тому +5

      Beautifully said I agree with every word. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @veronicaglouster1713
      @veronicaglouster1713 Рік тому +15

      yes the little affair baby being a little extra and still creating drama.

    • @Realmeg-1
      @Realmeg-1 Рік тому +1

      @@veronicaglouster1713OMG 😅

    • @Realmeg-1
      @Realmeg-1 Рік тому

      Yes on point❤

  • @abac4512
    @abac4512 Рік тому +272

    This is what parental alienation looks like. And this mother also alienated her daughter from her own sister. She successfully raised a hurt dysfunctional young woman.

    • @reenbrown2706
      @reenbrown2706 Рік тому +7

      Did you see above where the mom stated in the comments that the daughter witnessed domestic abuse when she visited her father? I'd protect her from that

    • @katiekat8329
      @katiekat8329 Рік тому +8

      @@reenbrown2706 stated in the comments? Why wasn’t it mentioned in the show if it was a legitimate reason to keep her daughter from her father?

    • @reenbrown2706
      @reenbrown2706 Рік тому

      @katiekat8329 her mother said it so ask her maybe?

    • @mssololacrida8427
      @mssololacrida8427 Рік тому +11

      They edited all that out. And the part where I said I took accountability on my part when my daughter came to me and asked questions. I couldn’t answer the questions she had about him. Only he can. They edited so much out it’s sickening.

  • @brittneyberry4934
    @brittneyberry4934 Рік тому +106

    Please forgive me but the daughter and the mother are unbearable. The amount of disrespect towards the sister like what. The fact that the sister didn't walk off the stage is beyond commendable

  • @vuyork8747
    @vuyork8747 Рік тому +236

    This girl just wants to be treated like an only child. She has weaponized her situation and lashes out when she is called out. You can hear how she speaks & her body language (the pouting & tamper tantrum at convenient times) that she is manipulative. I hope when they let her in, she doesn't cause chaos in the other sister's life because the other sister seems so calm & mature.

    • @crystaldixon1762
      @crystaldixon1762 Рік тому +21

      Perfectly said!

    • @taylorlockie5481
      @taylorlockie5481 Рік тому +15

      Omg I picked up the same thing halfway through and then came back to finish the episode and heard her say “spend time with just me and you” (with the finger point) and that confirmed everything 😂 she probably was an only child at mom’s house and wanted the same thing when she visited dad

    • @Sharonjames1031
      @Sharonjames1031 Рік тому +20

      She is jealous and spoiled

    • @snickers8970
      @snickers8970 Рік тому +4

      Agreed!

    • @myopinion1705
      @myopinion1705 Рік тому +15

      She lied n said she couldn't go with her sister because mom dint trust her not the sister but her her mom said she bribed her to go at red lobster (meaning she spoiled n manipulate things to get what she want) n she refused to go that lets me know she lied she is the one that chose not to go with her sister

  • @funmiAire
    @funmiAire Рік тому +128

    I cried my eyes out and the only person that made me cry this much was her older sister, she's too emotionally intelligent.

  • @Iamanadover
    @Iamanadover Рік тому +83

    Huge Applause for the big sister, she has a heart of gold❤

  • @Mariiii996
    @Mariiii996 Рік тому +271

    She was pissing me off , “stop blaming my momma , stop it stop it” , girl pls hush cs your mom was apart of the blame.

    • @milanC4659
      @milanC4659 Рік тому +19

      You need to hush your damn self and put the blame on that married man stepping out on his wife he created this shit and it could of been avoided !!!

    • @nicolearmstrong5261
      @nicolearmstrong5261 Рік тому +24

      Right. She said that her mother did it. Then got mad when the sister said that she did too. How can you get mad at the truth that you just admitted?

    • @ZA-yt7ok
      @ZA-yt7ok Рік тому +1

      @@milanC4659he didn’t make her lay down and have sex that sound dumb as’f

    • @p0kepix3ls
      @p0kepix3ls Рік тому +3

      @@nicolearmstrong5261cuz the mom only did it cuz the daughter didn’t want to be around them, why bland the mom when she literally admitted to having to bribe her kid to see her family

    • @dionna3674
      @dionna3674 Рік тому +8

      The blame is equally shared between the mom and dad. It takes two people to cheat

  • @melg1874
    @melg1874 Рік тому +73

    I am so thankful Karamo acknowledged the sister as well.

  • @LiyyYasminee
    @LiyyYasminee Рік тому +503

    Um, I’m sorry but this sorry was absolutely right, and the mother does need to take accountability, because for one this child was created out of this man cheating on his wife. Imagine the loss her sister took ? Yet she held no resentment towards her little sister. I’m just blew at how much anger she feels towards everyone but her own mama that laid up and pro created from a married man. Second , let’s talk about the fact that she says “ I want you all to myself” there is yet another reason she should be holding her mother accountable. Unless this man lied about already having a child from a previous relationship she knows the timing is evenly split she is not his one and only child , and therefore his whole entire world will not only revolve around her. It is kind of giving she feels overly entitled when there are numerous of other children involved that suffered the same exact negligence

    • @madisongrant5010
      @madisongrant5010 Рік тому +16

      Exactly!

    • @mssololacrida8427
      @mssololacrida8427 Рік тому +38

      First off I took accountability for my actions. My daughter and I already had the discussion. I was 19 he was 28 he lied like he wasn’t with anyone. Unless you know our story personally keep your opinion to yourself.

    • @josephkendall
      @josephkendall Рік тому +26

      I believe her mother when she said that she asked her daughter if she wanted to go with her dad, and I feel like the mom did take accountability for her actions. If the dad felt differently he wouldn’t have thanked the mom for raising their daughter.. he knew his mistakes and owned up to them. Two people created a child together and only one was involved in the child’s life, mothers are protectors.. it’s an instinct. I don’t feel the mother is in the wrong in any way at all.
      “Hug her Terri” is all I needed to hear.. that speaks volume about the whole situation. A father needed someone else to tell him what to do for his own daughter while she’s hysterically crying.

    • @goddess_rah8850
      @goddess_rah8850 Рік тому +5

      And like she didn’t wanna go

    • @peache8298
      @peache8298 Рік тому +29

      ​@@mssololacrida8427You keeping your child's father away from her was an extremely selfish act which in return caused your daughter to be selfish and blind to your nefarious actions. The results in this videos are obvious. You failed as a mother.

  • @fabianclark4130
    @fabianclark4130 Рік тому +1408

    😭😭she acting like her mom ain’t do nun 💀💀

    • @royaldavis640
      @royaldavis640 Рік тому +73

      😂😂😂😂😂
      Just shows u lil girls need they pops

    • @markydan1232
      @markydan1232 Рік тому +58

      This aint Steve Wilkos. Karamo ain't trying to find a bad guy to break a chair over his head 🤣

    • @mssololacrida8427
      @mssololacrida8427 Рік тому +80

      Wow I didn’t do anything. Y’all only see this part. Y’all don’t know the full story. I did what I suppose to do as mother.

    • @takyahmurry7328
      @takyahmurry7328 Рік тому +44

      You don’t know the whole entire story stop typing stuff you know nothing about just saw a 14 minute clip and think you know everything 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime Рік тому +45

      @@mssololacrida8427 Notice it was a man who made the comment. Even if a woman talks about a man like a dog he should have been around to show his daughter the person he really is.

  • @katiekat8329
    @katiekat8329 Рік тому +248

    we can all see how much her mom influenced her about her father by how she acts. as an adult she still hasn’t stopped letting her mothers influence and words over the years influence her thinking.

    • @joyceopoku7586
      @joyceopoku7586 Рік тому +2

      To be honest i can feel the pain of that child im the mother o f five too if it was not me swallowed everything happened to my cbildren with out dadthey would be angry too i reallfeel her pain

    • @katiekat8329
      @katiekat8329 Рік тому +3

      @@joyceopoku7586 it’s hard, very hard not to express anger and resentment about a man especially if he’s not contributing to raising kids etc, but mothers have to be strong like you were and swallow that. Talking bad about the father to the child only hurts the child and makes it very hard to have a relationship at any point because the child is head ti believe the father doesn’t love them because the mother is hurt the father didn’t love her right. Not to mention the affect that has on a girl with her self worth and relationships she has with men when she is told her dad doesn’t love her etc. my mom did all that to me and my sister. She cared more about her pain and hurt than allowing us to be children and have a good relationship with our father.

    • @patreasbrumfield
      @patreasbrumfield Рік тому +4

      Absolutely!!! Her mom has some much influence over her and the said part she can't see the error her mom did! Her mama was bitter and mad.

    • @shakicasanford7698
      @shakicasanford7698 Рік тому

      @@patreasbrumfieldnow that’s is a lie I know her she is not that type of woman

    • @keantheking4705
      @keantheking4705 Рік тому +4

      ​@@shakicasanford7698Stop the cap! All that if she doesn't wanna go/ I'm not go make her😂 that's the mama BS! And the girl disrespectful ASF stop talking about my mama😂 tell her Nope😂😂😂

  • @rubyjaez
    @rubyjaez Рік тому +417

    The MOTHER created this division. She refused to let them get her. The daughter refused to be around her family and the Mother supported and nurtured that toxic traumatic choice. Her anger and disrespect would make me not want a sister relationship with her.

    • @starhamilton1072
      @starhamilton1072 Рік тому +14

      I. Glad you aren't her sister. Her sister looks like a great person. She is empathic and she understands her sister is just hurt and jealous ....

    • @rubyjaez
      @rubyjaez Рік тому +19

      @@starhamilton1072 I'm glad I’m not her Sister either because I would not tolerate her disrespect. She's entitled to her feelings about their father but her hate for her sister was wrong and making excuses for her will only add to her hatred. She needs to be properly corrected.

    • @SoleahWright
      @SoleahWright Рік тому +11

      Bottom Line. It’s Her Mama Fault. And Had The Sister NOT Say That It Would’ve Never Been Mentioned. Her Mama Ain’t Fucking Innocent.

    • @jakemuller5005
      @jakemuller5005 Рік тому +11

      The Mother Played A Part But … The Daughter Did As Well . If They Came To Try & Get Her And She Didn’t Wanna Go That Is On HER !

    • @DDosamaadagoat
      @DDosamaadagoat Рік тому +1

      No she did not SHE TOLD HER SHECAN GOOO HE BEAT HIS WIFE INFRONT OF HER THATS TRAMAAA TATS WHY SHE DID NOT WANT TO GOOOO YALL ARE STUPID ASF

  • @Kat_Beezy
    @Kat_Beezy Рік тому +258

    Her Mother is TOTALLY responsible for this mess! Whenever you have children with married men, this is what happens….IN MOST CASES!

    • @nicolearmstrong5261
      @nicolearmstrong5261 Рік тому +12

      We don't know if her mother knew that he was married.

    • @DDosamaadagoat
      @DDosamaadagoat Рік тому

      Stfu u mad cuz yo mama ain’t raise u right the mom did what she could bookie

    • @nashariakayy
      @nashariakayy Рік тому

      Literally!!!!!

    • @theartofcrashingout
      @theartofcrashingout Рік тому +4

      It’s been addressed that her mom didn’t know he was married. And her mom said in the vid she had to bribe her daughter to go with him

    • @SunshineKK99
      @SunshineKK99 Рік тому

      ​@@nicolearmstrong5261Chile please! Excuses

  • @soniaharrison1016
    @soniaharrison1016 Рік тому +61

    Her mom created this mess. My child's father was not there at the beginning, I never said a negative word to her about him., I made sure that his family had total access to her, she was there for every family event because they did nothing to me, so why would I deny my child from being with them they are a wonderful family. When her dad finally came around, they went into therapy together and she was able to work through all the pain she was carrying. Today they are inseparable, he is now a grandfather, and he has taken on the role as if he was made for it.

    • @milanC4659
      @milanC4659 Рік тому +4

      He created this mess by stepping out on his wife learn how to put the blame where it belong !!!

  • @AccompongMaroontours
    @AccompongMaroontours Рік тому +58

    This girl needs help because the resentment to her big sister is crazy. Her mom should hold accountability for her actions and decisions.

  • @msjustifyed864
    @msjustifyed864 Рік тому +13

    that older sister is soooo humble. She gave her sister her moment to scream, her moment to be disrespectful and even though she has her own pain, she was able to show her empathy..cause i wouldve been shouting back at her. That father truly loves his kids. he prob was just caught up in the game but time heals and i can see he loves his kids. i believe the mother made it hard for them also but that was just her defence for all the disappointment. According to Karamo, they will be good tho

  • @kukuakukua
    @kukuakukua Рік тому +122

    I see a girl so spoilt by her mother, she want everybody to spoil her the same. Literally want the world to revolve around her. That sweet and caring big sister she's disrespecting, she gone need one day

    • @annsams5157
      @annsams5157 Рік тому +6

      💯💯

    • @leahweeden78
      @leahweeden78 11 місяців тому

      This!!

    • @Arcadia61
      @Arcadia61 10 місяців тому +2

      She doesn't want the whole world to revolve around her. She just wants to be loved by her father. Is that too much to ask? Geez, some people are so ready to be judgemental of everybody else.

    • @kukuakukua
      @kukuakukua 10 місяців тому +3

      @Acadia26 what shows her father doesn't love her? Just because she doesn't want to share her sister with her father doesn't mean she is not loved. I have nothing to gain being judgemental towards a spoilt brat. FYI

    • @Remi24
      @Remi24 8 місяців тому +2

      Agreed! I saw this episode before and turned it off before it couldn’t finish because of how bratty she was behaving. Then it came back on my timeline and I watched it. It’s cringey to watch an adult behave that way.

  • @xan8123
    @xan8123 Рік тому +16

    The older sister holder herself so well, didnt even have to raise her voice back and kept her composure.

  • @yaddayadda6999
    @yaddayadda6999 Рік тому +51

    It's so heartbreaking when people choose to ignore the truth.

  • @iiamshaae
    @iiamshaae Рік тому +67

    Her mom make up not it and that damn girl wanting a bond but yet saying she ain’t wanna go with him or her sister sometimes that’s partially her fault and her moms 😒 case over !!

  • @ariamason9324
    @ariamason9324 Рік тому +35

    She's crazy, grow up and live your life, your mom had an affair and had you. The older sister doesn't owe you anything. So if you refused to see them what the heck should they do.

  • @gab19guerin72
    @gab19guerin72 Рік тому +15

    Big sister has a beautiful soul. Little sister is gonna have to get counseling and hold her momma accountable too.
    Momma did not have clean hands.
    Daddy can only make up for his lacking past. He is on the right road.

  • @joylove3075
    @joylove3075 Рік тому +71

    The mother was the side chick that tried to ruin her sisters parents marriage SORRY the truth hurts and she’s the product of that infidelity

    • @ash00001
      @ash00001 Рік тому +13

      An unmarried woman can’t ruin a marriage only a married man can.

  • @_carbon
    @_carbon Рік тому +58

    The Mom with the Mime Makeup 🤡

    • @sherylnutall8043
      @sherylnutall8043 9 місяців тому

      Yes let's PLEASE try to get colors closer to our skin tone.
      It was VERY distracting, keep thinking it was my TV.

    • @peacefult2491
      @peacefult2491 9 місяців тому +1

      My husband was saying the same thing 😂😂😂😂

  • @kanthonysmith
    @kanthonysmith Рік тому +92

    She and her mom are pretty selfish. She's an only child with her mom and she wont feel good unless her Dad treats her like an only child too. There has to be balance.

    • @sterfry3182
      @sterfry3182 Рік тому +3

      Not true about the daughter. She's just never felt loved by her dad. Wanting one on one time with your dad doesn't make anyone selfish.

    • @kanthonysmith
      @kanthonysmith Рік тому +3

      @@sterfry3182 agree to disagree. I have two kids and I ensure that I spend individual time with each. Neither begrudges the other. This young lady is very caustic towards her sister and even towards her dad. I don't buy that she never felt loved. It's clear that she was favored by her mother, so much so that her mother refused to nurture the relationship between her and her dad and sister. These are important relationships, but her mom ignored the importance of these, and now here they are with her feeling unloved, not because he didn't want to but because mommy chose she and mommy chose war over communication. I have family members who don't love me. I don't demand their love. I don't curse them out for their love. She's petulant. Imo

  • @JenniferWillis-pd1hw
    @JenniferWillis-pd1hw Рік тому +16

    Big sister is sooo sweet she gave her little sister time with there dad
    Awesome Karama welll done as usual Putting familes together
    Blessings

  • @shantelwest8968
    @shantelwest8968 Рік тому +17

    mama in the background talking about "let it out baby let it out" . She needs a slap🤣🤣🤣

  • @ChrissyPoo516
    @ChrissyPoo516 Рік тому +23

    Chile not the mama AND the daughter up in these comments trying to defend their actions! 🫠🤣🤣🤣 baby girl definitely contradicted herself a lot and has deep rooted trauma and issues, she would benefit greatly from getting some counseling and healing her inner child. And the Mama needs to own up to the part she played in this relationship breakdown. All of them need to hold themselves accountable in the part they played, not just the Dad. Im glad that there was reconciliation at the end tho 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @patienceisavirtue
    @patienceisavirtue Рік тому +33

    Not a grown ass woman named LayLay with blue eyeshadow who got pregnant by a married man! That eyeshadow color is always an indicator of someone not working with a full deck! The mom is a huge part of this mess. Sadly, she is her momma’s child and she is a disrespectful hot mess! Instead of holding both parents accountable, she stays on her mom’s side and she has to know her mom is wrong. Also who TF she talking to like that?! Ugh! She needs therapy!

    • @mssololacrida8427
      @mssololacrida8427 Рік тому +2

      That’s because I have already took accountability for my actions. Thanks

    • @mssololacrida8427
      @mssololacrida8427 Рік тому +1

      And my nickname been Lae Lae way before I was grown. It stuck with me. Thank you 😊

    • @Dexters.LaBOREatory
      @Dexters.LaBOREatory Рік тому +9

      That's why he said that his daughter acts like a side piece... she gets it from LaeLae 😂

    • @sherylnutall8043
      @sherylnutall8043 9 місяців тому

      You done said it all!!

  • @juanaabad7315
    @juanaabad7315 10 місяців тому +5

    The mother isn’t the only blame the daughter seems to push ppl away and yet still blame them for the lack of connection
    She really needs longterm counseling and taught what healthy communication and accountability is

  • @milanfernandez5743
    @milanfernandez5743 Рік тому +14

    She yelled too much I would’ve walked off, people like her get on my nerves! The older sister was Amazing and the father looked like he Genuinely willing to try

  • @chinasmith1920
    @chinasmith1920 Рік тому +27

    When that sister said sounds like you don’t wanna hear the truth I could not agree more. Girl your mother has alot of blame and it’s a shame your mother won’t woman up and tell you that. Your mother is a tad bit deceiving and she will hurt you faster then the people she is claiming to protect you from

  • @red515ify
    @red515ify Рік тому +15

    Kudos to big sis! She was so mature, loving & understanding! I honestly don’t know if i would have that level maturity. She really didn’t even owe her that b/c she was an outside child made during her mother’s marriage. Yes the father has to show up but the half sister showing up is a bonus. I low key feel like I was betraying my mother

  • @wordwalkingonrightousnessdaily
    @wordwalkingonrightousnessdaily Рік тому +281

    If he has 5 children she cannot think he’s going to act as if she’s an only child. Her mom is very much at fault too. She wants her dad to only show interest in her but creating relationships with her dad and siblings would be GREAT. I think she’s her moms only child.

    • @josephkendall
      @josephkendall Рік тому +23

      So what he has 5 other kids ? Every child deserves to feel special in their own way especially when they felt left out of the family. Hence why her sister said “She deserves to have this moment with him because he’s already allowed me to express my feelings and emotions on our own time”. This is why people need to start being mindful of how many kids they bring into this world in separate homes.. everyone’s feelings matter but sometimes other siblings get a better father than the others did.

    • @andreacarter202
      @andreacarter202 Рік тому +1

      Right!

    • @rubyjaez
      @rubyjaez Рік тому +11

      @@josephkendall she was left out because of her mother, Grandparents, and herself. She and her mother admitted that they tried to get her and they said no. This Woman doesn’t realize it but she was brainwashed by her Mother into thinking that she was unimportant to her father because the Mother was bitter.

    • @josephkendall
      @josephkendall Рік тому +8

      @@rubyjaez her father clearly showed her how unimportant she was when he said she acted like a side chick but ok

    • @Aaliyahaaliyah-is9wo
      @Aaliyahaaliyah-is9wo Рік тому +3

      Five kids not even a lot and you have to spend quality times with each other and separate also

  • @MaxineShaw-de7bh
    @MaxineShaw-de7bh 11 місяців тому +3

    The way he hugged his baby is a hug that I'll never know from my own dad and that made me sweat from the eyes. Beautiful moment for her. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @shondawright9901
    @shondawright9901 Рік тому +14

    Sister selflessness gracefully displayed ❤😊

  • @Dexters.LaBOREatory
    @Dexters.LaBOREatory Рік тому +24

    This child is too emotional. I couldn't have a conversation with her, like, ever.

  • @AshNicoleMedia
    @AshNicoleMedia Рік тому +33

    Happy BIRTHDAY Karamo!!!!!!!!! We love you Karamo ❤

  • @Lexie-c8z
    @Lexie-c8z Рік тому +37

    He didn't have to tell the other daughter to move to hug the skinny daughter. She hates the wrong people.

    • @ariannadhaarmik1864
      @ariannadhaarmik1864 Рік тому +2

      😂😂😂"the skinny daughter"

    • @Lexie-c8z
      @Lexie-c8z Рік тому +4

      @@ariannadhaarmik1864 lol 🤣 why did I say that Lord

    • @ariannadhaarmik1864
      @ariannadhaarmik1864 Рік тому

      @@Lexie-c8z she's hella annoying 😅😅😭😭

    • @NoDeductions
      @NoDeductions Рік тому +1

      aggy lol the second person to say the skinny daughter yall get on my nerves lmao

    • @Lexie-c8z
      @Lexie-c8z Рік тому

      @@NoDeductions I forgot her name when I commented so that's what I said

  • @iambibi616
    @iambibi616 10 місяців тому +3

    Her momma played a part and that’s why she was mad ! Loved the big sister reaction

  • @chrislazard8612
    @chrislazard8612 Рік тому +35

    It’s all on mom at this point. Just because a parent stays doesn’t mean they are in the right, it just means they can control the narrative!

  • @stacyjpoliticscommunityfai359
    @stacyjpoliticscommunityfai359 Рік тому +24

    All of that violence, acting bad, living a life of crime, side Ho's and all of that....all to end up an old man having to live on a daughter that has to financially support you and you are hated by your own flesh and blood. WAS IT WORTH IT? These young adults that are living reckless and don't treat their children right need to take notes. Your children are HUMAN BEINGS WITH REAL EMOTIONS.

  • @ButterFlyGoddess
    @ButterFlyGoddess Рік тому +21

    ✨I Loved How The Older Sister Handled Herself Even Though She’s Full Of Her Own Pain😔 I Have A Younger Brother Who Doesn’t Talk To Me Do To Choices Our Parents Made, It Hurts 😔Especially Now That Our Parents Have Passed & Can’t Make It Right😔We Can Only Work On Healing Truly Within One Must Do The Work✨The Younger Daughter Definitely Have Work To Do🧘🏾‍♀️I Pray That They All Heal & Live A Blessed Life✨🙏🏾✨🪷🧚🏾💫

  • @TheSpiciestGinger
    @TheSpiciestGinger Рік тому +5

    Big sis is the cutest. Daddy telling her MOVE so he could hug the younger baby was horrible!! I gasped so hars both my dogs through something serious was up! I wish healing on each and every one of them! ❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏽

  • @ronniejackson9228
    @ronniejackson9228 Рік тому +16

    Mr, Karamo Brown you sir well deserve a Emmy award for best television 📺 talk show.
    I deeply admire your craft that you have for helping.
    Put Broken families back together and your craft is the greatest gift from god..

  • @sosobeautiful7
    @sosobeautiful7 Рік тому +123

    I'm still watching but it does sound like she doesn't want to hear the truth about her mom

    • @lifewrayne
      @lifewrayne Рік тому +15

      very much so

    • @djdsmooth72
      @djdsmooth72 Рік тому +7

      exactly

    • @takyahmurry7328
      @takyahmurry7328 Рік тому +2

      They were lies I know the truth about my mother

    • @opulence_prime
      @opulence_prime Рік тому

      @@takyahmurry7328you know the ppl in these comments are sexist against women. Your mom can’t stop your Dad. If he wanted it bad enough he’d have gone through the courts to ensure he got time with you.

    • @michaeladean158
      @michaeladean158 Рік тому +9

      Right her mom was a side chick who thought having a baby was gonna change something… This is the perfect example of being careful who you have babies with…

  • @kendallmax311
    @kendallmax311 Рік тому +30

    The dad is far from perfect but the mom should be held accountable also especially keeping her away from her sister who was actually trying to build a relationship with her she shouldn’t have took that out on her because of their fathers choices

  • @ahmunique
    @ahmunique Рік тому +119

    She’s a drama Queen and disrespectful. Her mother made her this way.

  • @missnurseeri
    @missnurseeri Рік тому +7

    I grew up with my dad. And he made a point to tell me that he loved me everyday. Called me lil bit until I became a mom, then my daughter became lil bit. Lol. But I tell you… hearing that young lady wail from the absolute depths of her soul _WRECKED_ me. That was the wounded and abandoned little girl crying out in the body of a young woman. ❤️

  • @womanofvalor7
    @womanofvalor7 Рік тому +57

    They need a vacation together! We need more sponsors on this show!

  • @mariahhorton3538
    @mariahhorton3538 Рік тому +7

    Him saying congrats instead of your welcome really was deeper than the eye bc it deserved a congrats. They did so much work here. I’m proud of them all, beautiful family and beautiful growth.

  • @faithwalden2869
    @faithwalden2869 Рік тому +7

    Her mama sitting up there looking casket ready with that makeup😅

  • @HillaryGlam
    @HillaryGlam Рік тому +20

    I love this show ! Karamo keep breaking generation curses for the people in our community. We often don’t get the help we need as people because of the trauma resulting back from slavery. Keep showing us how to cope and communicate in healthy ways. ❤

    • @TSutton-df5cc
      @TSutton-df5cc 11 місяців тому

      They are both single mothers with absent children’s fathers now if their children don’t follow the pattern that’s the beginning of a generational curse being broken

  • @Princessgibbs
    @Princessgibbs Рік тому +68

    I’m sorry but her saying she refused to see them but also wanting to “feel loved” by them doesn’t make sense…

    • @Mstwosets
      @Mstwosets Рік тому +1

      💯 and why I think she will continue to carry on this way.

    • @patreasbrumfield
      @patreasbrumfield Рік тому +1

      Right!!! How can she experience love but you keep her from him!! Don't make sense 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @introvertedbrainygirl181
      @introvertedbrainygirl181 Рік тому

      She's cursed because of her mother sleeping with a married man with a family already

  • @Motiwah2
    @Motiwah2 Рік тому +21

    She definitely have deep rooted issues….her mother was a mistress that had a baby. She distant herself probably because he didn’t want to leave his wife. He’s definitely wrong in many ways for cheating when you cheat you create a disconnect in the family unit. You create broken individual and if they don’t heal they create more broken people.
    That girl just want to feel loved and cared for. I hope everyone is able to heal.

  • @mar69storm
    @mar69storm Рік тому +17

    Babbbby, Shatara bigger and better than me. She sit there spitting facts and you gonna yell and cuss at me and than admit your Mom played a role and still wanna be delusional. Lets go on break so we can square up

  • @leahweeden78
    @leahweeden78 11 місяців тому +4

    I’m sorry but I see a spoiled little girl that wants everyone to cater to her and her world. Her mother and grandparents shielded her from everything and everyone so now she believes that everyone else is supposed to do the same thing. The sister said it herself, her MOTHER didn’t trust anybody, including her own sister. That’s not his fault. She has deeper rooted issues that needs to be addressed other than what’s being portrayed. That big sister gets big props for how she handled the whole meltdown and situation. That little sister was pissing me off. All that yelling and screaming was too much. When she kept pointing at her dad saying that she wanted time with just the 2 of them, that manipulation and the blame game was loud!

  • @finnthehuman7159
    @finnthehuman7159 Рік тому +16

    The mom was definitely to blame, so she can chill 💀

    • @ceeceeceecee5515
      @ceeceeceecee5515 Рік тому +1

      Dysfunctional to the 4th power. Mama and daughter two peas in a pod!

  • @bellezaa735
    @bellezaa735 Рік тому +29

    She’s hurt but being disrespectful is not it.

    • @takyahmurry7328
      @takyahmurry7328 Рік тому +3

      What was there to respect??

    • @ceeceeceecee5515
      @ceeceeceecee5515 Рік тому +3

      Huge factz! Karamo need a eject button for that damn sofa 😂

    • @remarkablediamond2553
      @remarkablediamond2553 Рік тому

      ​@@ceeceeceecee5515😭😭😭😭

    • @ash00001
      @ash00001 Рік тому

      @@takyahmurry7328😂😂😂

    • @princess-nia
      @princess-nia Рік тому +1

      @@takyahmurry7328I’m sorry about the people in the comments are not really understanding why you was so upset and hurt

  • @kandylandtarot142
    @kandylandtarot142 Рік тому +12

    Expressing herself or not, Shatera was owed an apology too. For being screamed at by the sister, isolated and iced out by the side mother and for the affair that caused this circus from the father.

  • @RadioRob0t
    @RadioRob0t Рік тому +8

    The amount of pain she was holding in. I hope they create an amazing bond for now on.

  • @aiyannareshayy7904
    @aiyannareshayy7904 Рік тому +9

    She can’t expect the situation to change if it ain’t all laid out on the table

  • @djdsmooth72
    @djdsmooth72 Рік тому +72

    the mom pissed me off by saying "now u get to dry the tears ive been drying "

  • @columbiadavis6929
    @columbiadavis6929 Рік тому +7

    Both parents played a major part in her life. i am happy there was no hard feelings between them. And the father listened to his daughters.

  • @dezaraewynn5990
    @dezaraewynn5990 Рік тому +5

    The way he told his other daughter to move..chileeeee🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @crazycuttee
    @crazycuttee Рік тому +18

    Man I ugly cried when Terry hugged his daughter. That touched my soul 🥹🙏🏾 the mom sitting there with her unmatched foundation didn’t do enough!

    • @rockeyrockstar6761
      @rockeyrockstar6761 Рік тому +1

      Plsssss I’m so sorry but I kept getting distracted because of her foundation 😭😭😭.

  • @msrmt227722
    @msrmt227722 Рік тому +99

    Girl you need to have a REAL conversation with your mama!

    • @takyahmurry7328
      @takyahmurry7328 Рік тому +1

      I did way before this show thank you

    • @prettypaid4862
      @prettypaid4862 Рік тому +17

      @@takyahmurry7328 You said how you just want it to be you and your father. News flash ITS NOT GOING TO BE JUST YOU. he has other kids that were here before you tf you think you is???? Dont blame your mother having an affair with a married womens husband on your siblings tf.

    • @mssololacrida8427
      @mssololacrida8427 Рік тому +1

      @@prettypaid4862please make your comment makes sense. Because it don’t. Your ignorance is showing

    • @prettypaid4862
      @prettypaid4862 Рік тому

      @@mssololacrida8427 it dont make sense to YOU take that up with you and god boo not my problem😂 your ignorance was showing when u slept with a married man

    • @ayanajohnson2687
      @ayanajohnson2687 Рік тому +6

      @@mssololacrida8427the comment makes perfect sense. Yu slept with a married man and now the child that came from ADULTERY wants to be treated like she is his only child. She more than likely learned that behavior from yu since yu were the adult she was around her entire life

  • @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH
    @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH Рік тому +178

    The older sister is emotionally intelligent, articulated her side of the story well and was patient with her little sister.
    Dad clearly was to blame for having an affair and not being in his children’s life but if Takari didn’t want to go around his side of the family and mom didn’t help foster the siblings relationship then of course they are going to be estranged. 🤷🏽‍♀️
    These children are the innocent parties in the adult’s mess. The sisters should have been able to have a relationship together. Dad should have seen to this but if not mum could possibly have chaperoned the sisters in her home or at the mall or something. This would have been good for the girls to have their own relationship outside of the dad’s dysfunction.
    Takari being so disrespectful and shutting down her sister’s side of the story was horrible. The sister wasn’t being disrespectful she was telling her truth and Takari wasn’t ready to hear it - everyone including Takari , her mother,dad etc had a part to play in this narrative whether she likes it or not.
    I hope both the girls get counselling and heal. I hope dad gets to make up for lost time. It doesn’t matter how old they get they’ll still need their dad and I hope mum has or can heal from having to deal with her daughter’s hurt as a single parent all these years.

  • @carolharris5455
    @carolharris5455 Рік тому +92

    This girl has horrible emotional issues she needs counseling sitting up there hollering and looking crazy. I hope she saw herself. Who would want to be around her unfortunately they were better off without her emotional drama she wasn’t around by CHOSE

    • @jayeb4494
      @jayeb4494 Рік тому +23

      Yea she's troubled. And it's her mama's fault. Hopefully she doesn't see this comment and starts spazzing on me too😂

    • @dawnlee866
      @dawnlee866 Рік тому +2

      @@jayeb4494😅

    • @VampirePrincess.
      @VampirePrincess. Рік тому +15

      That’s just saddening the fact you would say something about that girl it obviously shows she’s going through something it’s not her fault.

    • @TheLoveBugz
      @TheLoveBugz Рік тому

      @@jayeb4494remember this comment when people show no mercy or sympathy to your situations and experiences…not even funny…y’all love laughing at other people’s problems and misery it’s sad..

    • @shawnda8317
      @shawnda8317 Рік тому +10

      @@VampirePrincess. but it is her fault. She said even when her mom tried to bribe her to go she CHOSE NOT TO GO. It’s also the mothers fault for not making her go. As a child there are certain choices that you don’t get to make. Especially if the dad is saying the door was always open

  • @iamakeemb
    @iamakeemb Рік тому +6

    My grandmother said so many hurtful things to me and left bruises on my face when I was 8 and then now she wonders why I never call her nor go and see her and then people wanna blame me and still defend her saying that I’m the one who’s mistreating her. I can definitely relate to this young lady

  • @semaj_7973
    @semaj_7973 Рік тому +26

    Y’all ain’t gotta leave the camera on that lady face that long🤦🏽‍♀️ outta line 😭

    • @mssololacrida8427
      @mssololacrida8427 Рік тому +1

      And your face is also out of line. Whew chile 😢😢😂😂😂😂

    • @semaj_7973
      @semaj_7973 Рік тому +2

      @@mssololacrida8427 girl bye you wrong for that foundation 😭😂

    • @remarkablediamond2553
      @remarkablediamond2553 Рік тому +1

      😂😂😂

  • @allanathomas6977
    @allanathomas6977 Рік тому +34

    She needs to put some of the blame on her mom, herself and *NOT* everyone else...

  • @cjohns1005
    @cjohns1005 Рік тому +10

    Mama got that 1950's funeral makeup on.

  • @Lavender_Roseee
    @Lavender_Roseee Рік тому +15

    She’s creating her own hurt bc of her mother. I feel as though her mom is malicious bc he is still married but not to her. Her mother pushed her away from him and her sister, and her grandparents bc well her mom didn’t wanna see the man she slept with with another woman let alone accept he had other kids. Mom needs accountability as well.

  • @ButtaCup13
    @ButtaCup13 Рік тому +9

    We all just a bunch of kids out here tbh, idc what age!! Unresolved trauma really fux up lives 😢 but we gotta learn to heal and take control of ourselves no matter how deep the pain

  • @aprilgonder
    @aprilgonder Рік тому +25

    The older sister on this show is my neice due to being the wife of my nephew. She is a good wife and mother. I know the dad as well especially even moreso the last few years and I believe he loves all his kids and made some poor choices in the past,but he is a kind man. Keep up the good job Terry! Yall are a beautiful family ❤

  • @misszbrownskin3093
    @misszbrownskin3093 Рік тому +3

    The sister though! Lord God bless the sister! She allowed her sister to have her moment! This is the mother got her feeling like this because ain’t no way the absence of one person should make you feel unloved

  • @amazingdmomgb7836
    @amazingdmomgb7836 Рік тому +7

    Gee. I cried so hard. I lost my dad 9 years ago.... And boy do I miss him... Had him my whole life, but last few years I was away, I was 32 when he passed, but still needed him.

    • @ButtaCup13
      @ButtaCup13 Рік тому +1

      I'm sorry! RIH to your pops!! I'm 32 now and couldn't imagine!! Definitely still more guidance and support needed at this age...he's watching over you!! Still there every step of the way 🙏🏾🤞🏽

  • @martha2615
    @martha2615 Рік тому +6

    I love the older sister…she’s beautiful inside and out. The other one needs anger management

  • @shayleon3186
    @shayleon3186 Рік тому +1

    I felt tht little girls pain when her dad hugged her. I’ve always just wanted that and I’m soo happy she got that from him. Such a blessing.

  • @kevawaters
    @kevawaters Рік тому +58

    I’m not sure if it’s the hurt she’s feeling that makes her act the way she was acting,but as a parent, once she started cursing at me, the conversation would’ve been over; for her protection as well as mine! That mama is something, you can tell by the little snide comments she was making when they were hugging.

    • @mssololacrida8427
      @mssololacrida8427 Рік тому +3

      All I said was hold your daughter. What’s was wrong with that

    • @kevawaters
      @kevawaters Рік тому +19

      @@mssololacrida8427 when you said now you can wipe the tears that I’ve been wiping all these years. In my opinion those words were not necessary in that moment if you’re trying to help mend their relationship.

    • @takyahmurry7328
      @takyahmurry7328 Рік тому +1

      I’m an adult I say what I want when I want to I was expressing my anger my way thank you very much

    • @kevawaters
      @kevawaters Рік тому +21

      @@takyahmurry7328 There are ways to express yourself without all the cursing. You’ll be surprised how much more they would’ve been able to receive what you were saying. You are grown, however your behavior does not reflect that. I wish you and your family the best.

    • @ceeceeceecee5515
      @ceeceeceecee5515 Рік тому +14

      Yes that mom is 95% of why the daughter acts entitled. Just look how they all in these comments. No boundaries plus she’s too old to be all in the comments like a 16yr old 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @missnene6879
    @missnene6879 Рік тому +16

    Her: My father never got me
    Mother: she never wanted to go and I wasnt going to force her
    Sounds like he wanted to spend time with you

    • @patreasbrumfield
      @patreasbrumfield Рік тому

      That part... make it make sense!

    • @missnene6879
      @missnene6879 Рік тому

      @patreabrumfield2604 what a coincidence my last name is Broomfield.

  • @SacredBrandStrategy
    @SacredBrandStrategy Рік тому +13

    Karamo this is the second time your show made me cry this week 😂

  • @mrhersh7189
    @mrhersh7189 Рік тому +6

    The late Kevin Samuels said it best, nobody questions big mama. The mama's get All the grace and most fathers catch all the hell. The child only gets half the story most of the time which is not fair.

    • @peopleas1healingtrauma
      @peopleas1healingtrauma Рік тому

      That man is dead and everything he said wasn't right he knew that that's why he apologized foe being so hateful kevin tried to be arrogant he didn't with me he caused division with his false narratives and missconseptions I can't stand the men who don't have there own mind and can't think for themselves The insults wasn't called for kevin didnt teach nothing but mamma boys so u must be a mama boy

  • @fuller8705
    @fuller8705 Рік тому +6

    She need to hear the truth from the sister. The sister is level headed. Also all forms of “protection” is not good and now you mad at them when it’s her fault too.

  • @angelaurahoneypot
    @angelaurahoneypot Рік тому +11

    The way that baby cried with her Daddy brought me to tears. It’s something about Dad for every little girl ❤

  • @traalexa7820
    @traalexa7820 Рік тому +6

    Her mom being overprotective is the reason why she doesn’t have any relationships from her father side.. but then she saying she didn’t want to come around.. she sounds foolish and immature

    • @ceeceeceecee5515
      @ceeceeceecee5515 Рік тому +1

      Then she wanna blame the dad. Make it make sense.