The 17 year-old daughter is the most mature, rational person of the entire trio, effectively proving that some kids turn out okay in spite of their parents and not because of their parents. These parents are toxic. I know they were teens when they had her, so it's understandable that they communicated this way when their daughter was a baby. But there is no excuse for STILL acting like teenagers as grown folks in their 30s.
Actually they still are 15 in the mind!! This started at that age so, until they put in the work they will remain 15yrs of age. Now, let's move on family 👪 💪 ❤️ 🙌 God-bless you all 🙏🏻🙏🏻
You’re exactly right! Their life skills were stunted at 15. They never learned the skills to raise a child much less be in a adult relationship. The sad part is that this can probably be traced back to their parent’s lack of skills. We heard the father say that his own father wasn’t there for him growing up so he really had no blueprint in which to follow. Fortunately it’s the 17-year-old young lady who is going to break this generational curse of broken families.
@@saintmichaelgrayson9641 I couldn’t. Hard to sit there and let any man disrespect my mother. It would take a long time before I can get in a good place with my father again. Dude just immature. 😔
@@sg5720 Would it also take you a long time to get in a good place with your mother again if your mother was verbally disrespecting your father? Is it hard to sit there and let any woman disrespect him? I'm not tryna be funny, I just want to see what your response would be...
@@guccilady1017he was bad but that good that he stepped up and proper apologise to his daughter,she still want a relationship with his dad ,so hopefully this time there would be no toxicity between the mother and father
I love the way Keramo addressed that sweet young girl. He was very affirming of her strength and was respectful of her parents. Nonetheless, he didn’t back down from characterizing the harm that her parents’ behavior inflicted on her. It was kind of funny when the guy said to Keramo, “how did you know?” re: his own unfortunate relationship with his father, and Keramo matter of factly said that he’s trained in this! His empathy and therapeutic skills make him well suited to do this show.
I loved this young lady. She seems to be truly sweet, humble, and forgiving. The fact that in the beginning she actually called this man “a good man” let’s me know that she has a good heart. He better recognize what a gem he has. If he loves her correctly, she will show him so much compassion and show him such a new distinction of life. She will do the same in this world. I can tell her mom is trying to give her all of that love but she NEEDS it from her father. Daughters have the ability to completely transform their fathers into men. For better or for worse and men have the ability to transform their daughters into beautiful gems that will go out into world and make big things happen. They just have to cherish them. My dad loved me, but he did not cherish me and I truly wish that he did. My husband is now having to show support me emotionally through the stages that my father should have supported me through. It’s okay though because God has connected me with such a good man and I am grateful for that. ❤️
@@kellylong3455 IT means he's a deadbeat dad 4real, 4him not 2keep in touch ever since after dis show. Or he's in some sort of trouble, a situation or something......
I love how Karamo called out both parents ill behavior, but more importantly how he handled Dad. You can tell he doesn't get that type of treatment often and I liked the fact that inspite of some resistance and rebuttal you could tell that he was actually listening. I hope he gets his temper in check, and stop being so quick to react in the manner in which he did. I pray everything works out and that this baby is not just a casualty of war between Mom and Dad's constant spats. I lost my oldest son's father recently, and Lord knows I hate it! It's a pain like no other!! I really hope and pray they can mend this relationship! Wishing them all love and light!! ✨️ 💕
At first I was so angry with the father.. but as it went on… I realized.. he’s just a hurt baby boy inside. Poor thing just needs healthy people around him.
And that mother started that train of telling him he not the father and she up there acting a mess. That baby gurl was jus looking for love and answers.
That may be true but he is a father now. It’s not right for him to then turn around and give his daughter the same hurt. He is grown she is a child. He knows better to send things like that regardless of what she said… He has to just handle that differently
@@thatjawnnnayy4482 it’s obvious that it’s not right… He just doesn’t know any better. You can tell that he wants to but if he wasn’t shown the tools to control his feelings than how would he be able to?
You could see how much her mom loved her. She admitted to planting the seed of doubt in Dad’s head when she was younger. The daughter mentioned early on that her Dad is a good man & he showed it by immediately apologizing and agreeing to go to anger management. Great job Karamo! You guided this family into a bright direction and empowered this young lady!
That's my thing...some of these women get so upset when a man denies their child. If YOU tell a man in anger that his kid may not be his, why are you angry if he believes you?
@@scooter9657 Most people are not reasonable, intelligent adults...look at these two folks😂 She told him he was the father, put doubt in his head on purpose about the paternity, and then got mad that he had doubts regarding paternity...does that seem like a reasonable or intelligent adult to you haha?
She looks just like him. Before any test he had to know she was his daughter. I hope they all get the counseling they need to heal. Such an unfortunate situation for everyone involved. The wasted years. Kill the pride and finally be the mother and father this child needs. ❤️
I pray that this family will heal through forgiveness and kindness. I love seeing people actually apologizing and seeing people accepting their apologies❤️
This just broke my heart because through all her pain and confusion she still had good things to say about him..The mother is wanting so bad to make this about her... They both need to tone down their petty levels...Much respect to him for on his own apologizing to her mother...
Ooh my God as an African man, it is hard to cry but this one has made me shed tears. Wishing the best of love to the family. Thanks, Karamo for the wisdom.
She looks exactly like her daddy, I don't know how he could even think she wasn't his child. God-bless this union. Pretty young lady you both have 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️♥️
Moms told the daughter to give her father a hug when he was on his knees apologizing…..that just showed me something different, something different on what I thought their relationship will be after finding out he’s the father….there is still love, and if it’s not real love for the parents…..at least from me seeing that, I know it’s real love for the daughter…..see, the daughter is young and does and moves off how she feels, not knowing what to do in that situation, so the mom assisted into what she felt was the right thing to do……cause she still loves him, and if she don’t ……..at the end of the day….he is still that girls real father
'Bullets at your daughter that's going to hurt her for the rest of her life'.... absent parents need to understand how deeply they affect the children they abandon. This baby pushed for a solution to heal herself 💛🧡❤️
@@kiera6288 You and Coco Burrell are way off base. They BOTH had issues!!! did yall hear that THEY BOTH!!! this is a healing moment! who said he was a dusty and who said he didnt wanna be there easy answer NOBODY! keep all that independent ish to yourself. Yall see a Man and say/believe anything to keep bs going they're trying to get past what happened and we have you two wanting to continue this dumb ass rhetoric! Sad!
@loookiere man thank u IM TIRED OF THE WORLD WANTING WOMEN TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY BUT THESE MEN GET TO MAKE EXCUSES AND THEN ITS WOMEN LIKE ABOVE WHO MAKE EXCUSES. Most mothers arent ready but we do it
This was so hard to see that baby contain her emotions while her parents have no emotional control at all .. I pray they go to those classes for this young lady 😢💚💚💚
I love when he apologized to both of them. I am so happy she got the closure she needed. She seems so mature and I hope she get the love she deserves. I am very happy he admitted to his wrongdoings as well. I am so happy that they the parents both agreed to get help ❤❤❤ This was a beautiful episode
The daughter is 17. The parents behavior and verbal abuse has taken place her whole life and has scarred her for life. You can forgive and move forward but you never forget.
I just cried a blanket full of tears baby girl , you now know he really is your father and he always knew he was your father this is between you and your dad now ... continue loving each other from this day forward because you are your daddy’s Little Angel baby girl....❤️❤️
Back then, in my past, whenever my estranged father and I get into heated arguments turning PHYSICAL, he would always hurt me just by telling me that either I'm not his daughter or he's not my father or HE should have given me up for adoption or I should go find my "real" father... 💔💔💔 No child (no matter how old they are) should EVER be told such cruel things like that! But going back to this episode, Kiara doesn't deserve to be treated like that. Rashad should've never treated her like that... Hell, he shouldn't have done ANY OF THAT to her. Do you know the REAL REASON WHY kids doubt themselves or give parents anything but respect? It's because of how the parent(s) treats them... Parents need to understand... Well people in general need to understand that how ever you act towards them, they will treat YOU the SAME WAY you treat them... You know the phrase "treat others the way you deserve to be treated?" The words, actions, attitude of one person against the other person is reflected back to them... You respect them, they will respect you back... You treat them poorly, they will treat you poorly back... Actions speak louder than words...
It’s this comment for me. ❤ I always say the relationship that you cultivate with your children while they are young is the one that you get when they are older. I learned that through my relationship with my parents.
Very true. My father once told me that the world was cold to him and he will be cold to me. He's been true to those words. All I can say is I hope has a great nursing home/assisted living facility picked out. 💔💔💔
Even if he thought that why would he send this little girl a text like that that's terrible she will never forget that text no matter how much he apologized just my opinion I'm a grown up and I would never be able to get over a text like that from my father
@@dayum_mi I am specifically addressing the fact that when that is said, it always backfires. When women say it, it's to simply bring hurt on the man because of the hurt the men is causing them. In their mind, they have no other way to hurt them than by saying those words. My comment is not excusing his behavior or how long ago a DNA test could have been done.
No way lol there are men who know their children are theirs and will not use that as an excuse to verbally abuse their children and neglect their responsibilities. Only a certain type of man will behave like this and I’m not talking race at all. Integrity compromised & immature individuals are the problem.
I usually hate this you are / are not the father type shows. But you the host gave the most real profound and helpful advice. Especially for the young girl to not follow their footsteps. Def a fan of him now
I have to agree with the BM on some things, some of these women keep the men away being bitter then want to call the man a deadbeat when the mother is toxic
When I heard the opening story of him explaining it gave a sense of sadness throughout my body bc at the age of twelve my father told me those exact words and our relationship has been so rocky every since
Everyone, let's take a deep breath... and thank God 1) *RECONCILIATION* ❤ 👨👩👧 2) Very professional in a heated situation 3) It's the first time that I've seen Karamo with tears 😥 To: Karamo and crew members 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@@empressleesa2252 right! Like when he read the results & said he's the dad the 1st thing the mom said while jumping up an down on the couch is, "can I get my apology?!" And as he said, "the apology goes to the daughter." The mon totally overlooked that part
Naw you just a BMW (black man worshiper), he’s been hurting their daughter for years and it’s always the mother who has to take on the burden of a child’s pain while father’s live freely.
I'M SO HAPPY THAT YOU HAVE THIS SHOW AND THANK YOU ADDRESSING THE ISSUES THAT SOME OF US ARE EXPERIENCING! ITS WONDERFUL TO SEE A BEAUTIFUL AND INTELLIGENT MAN OF MY CULTURE. GOD BLESS YOU!
This is beautiful! I can see the father genuinely loves his daughter. The mom and dad both need to grow, mature, and coexist in a healthier relationship. Trauma is generational. I pray the family heals through therapy so they can no longer pass their pain on to their innocent daughter
That last moment when they shook hands made me wonder if they like each other a little too much and it sparked some anger issues inside of them both lol
Dude’s who say this level of bs always reveal to everyone around them that they’ve never been unconditionally loved by their parents/caregivers. Some traumas are hard to overcome but with some you get to a point where you decide not to be the trauma, bullying or violence that raised them. I have compassion for all of them. I hope they seek licensed psychotherapy and stick with it to stop these cycles.
I literally challenge myself not to cry at stuff like this. The apology and her practically falling in her dad's arms made me ugly cry. He knew he was her father but didn't want to deal with the mother. Daughter had the most sense and her level of forgiveness is 10,000.
I cried myself to death...I love this young girl...I hope she does well in life and not use any of the hurtful words that were said in the past.. good luck little girl
My Brother you have a great show. Granted I’ve only watched the UA-cam clips so I’m speaking from that. The way you orchestrate things from greeting each guest with respect and treating each individual fairly you’re a class act. Keep up the great work.
Kiana: "Can I have an apology please?" Rashad: "NOT TO YOU" Kiana: "WHY 😩!" Rashad: "But I will apologize to you" Kiana: "Oh😯" Kiera: "😒" Im DYING🤣😂🤣🤣😭😭💀
If u are reading this there’s a reason No matter how good or bad you have it,wake up each day thankful for your life.Someone else is desperately fighting for theirs🇧🇸..
Do y’all see how he got his leg kicked up on the couch? He is way too comfortable acting a fool in front of everybody. That beautiful young lady deserves nothing but love. I wish her the best ❤
Mr Kamaro, this is the first time I see your show. Thank you for your patience and kindness. Daughter and father reconciled and mother jumped in the bandwagon. I can’t stop crying.😢😢❤️❤️
I don't know if I could be quite so forgiving of a father who denies me every time they get mad at me or my mother. I'd want the results for informational purposes, thank the show for testing us, and I'd proceed to live my life.
I love this show because if it was Jerry Springer or Maury they would just egg on the arguing and inappropriate convo but Karamo is really about healing and understanding💜
She is the one breaking generational curses & bringing her family together:
AND THE CHILDREN SHALL LEAD THEM….💕
Amen 🙏🏻 🙏🏻
My God
I pray that they grow their family. Bright young lady❤️.
Children don’t lead. These parents are out of line.
Amen! My thoughts exactly
The mother encouraging her daughter to hug her daddy means she still has respect for her baby father.
Yeah but that little girl at 15 years old is still there and she's still hurt. Vice versa. I hope they took Karamo up on his offer to get counseling.
When he got on his knees and apologized to his daughter ,and she got up and hugged him, I cried what a beautiful moment 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️
Me too😢
Same here
Yesss. Tears!!🥹🥹🥹
ts wasnt shyt. gtfo.
he look like his a$$ is lying.
The way he knelt down in front of his daughter to apologize spoke VOLUMES!! It took a lot of humility to do that and I respect him for it!
I loved it.
The 17 year-old daughter is the most mature, rational person of the entire trio, effectively proving that some kids turn out okay in spite of their parents and not because of their parents. These parents are toxic. I know they were teens when they had her, so it's understandable that they communicated this way when their daughter was a baby. But there is no excuse for STILL acting like teenagers as grown folks in their 30s.
Because i raised her but that wasn’t mentioned
@@kellylong3455 Are you a relative?
@@kellylong3455 Exactly😑You a relative?
yes i am her grandma
@@kellylong3455 Good job, Grandma. She's a precocious young lady.
The daughters reaction was the most mature and respectful thing ever
The parents are so immature. It's like they are still 15.
Actually they still are 15 in the mind!! This started at that age so, until they put in the work they will remain 15yrs of age. Now, let's move on family 👪 💪 ❤️ 🙌 God-bless you all 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@michelleferguson17 Yep, that's exactly it. When you have a broken childhood, you can't mentally grow beyond that until you work through that trauma.
@@michelleferguson17 facts
@@DarkYuan Well said.
You’re exactly right! Their life skills were stunted at 15. They never learned the skills to raise a child much less be in a adult relationship. The sad part is that this can probably be traced back to their parent’s lack of skills. We heard the father say that his own father wasn’t there for him growing up so he really had no blueprint in which to follow. Fortunately it’s the 17-year-old young lady who is going to break this generational curse of broken families.
I have never cried harder in my life than when this man got on his knees and begged his daughter for forgiveness!! ❤❤❤❤
The way that baby jump up and embrace her father was a whole vibe love her energy
She didn’t do that on her own🙄 her mother said go hug him that’s what made her do that!!
@@saintmichaelgrayson9641 I couldn’t. Hard to sit there and let any man disrespect my mother. It would take a long time before I can get in a good place with my father again. Dude just immature. 😔
no, it wasn't, and he didn't really deserve a hug. He should be on his knees forever. He is not good; he is terrible.
@@sg5720 Would it also take you a long time to get in a good place with your mother again if your mother was verbally disrespecting your father? Is it hard to sit there and let any woman disrespect him? I'm not tryna be funny, I just want to see what your response would be...
@@saintmichaelgrayson9641 exacrlym after all that her mom still encouraged that hug. It ain't easy for mom either. Smh
The mom not being bitter enough to tell her to go hug him is the right thing to do no matter how petty they are
I love the way he owned up to his wrongdoings & apologized to his Babygirl ❤
that’s the bare minimum stop praise man children for doing the bare minimum
@@himmy_turner_exactly. He was trash. Has no accountability. Pointed blame on everyone else. Claiming a kid is the least he could do smh poor child.
@@guccilady1017he was bad but that good that he stepped up and proper apologise to his daughter,she still want a relationship with his dad ,so hopefully this time there would be no toxicity between the mother and father
Karamo is soooo good at validating other's feelings and experiences especially when it gets heated.
I love the way Keramo addressed that sweet young girl. He was very affirming of her strength and was respectful of her parents. Nonetheless, he didn’t back down from characterizing the harm that her parents’ behavior inflicted on her.
It was kind of funny when the guy said to Keramo, “how did you know?” re: his own unfortunate relationship with his father, and Keramo matter of factly said that he’s trained in this! His empathy and therapeutic skills make him well suited to do this show.
I loved this young lady. She seems to be truly sweet, humble, and forgiving. The fact that in the beginning she actually called this man “a good man” let’s me know that she has a good heart. He better recognize what a gem he has. If he loves her correctly, she will show him so much compassion and show him such a new distinction of life. She will do the same in this world. I can tell her mom is trying to give her all of that love but she NEEDS it from her father. Daughters have the ability to completely transform their fathers into men. For better or for worse and men have the ability to transform their daughters into beautiful gems that will go out into world and make big things happen. They just have to cherish them. My dad loved me, but he did not cherish me and I truly wish that he did. My husband is now having to show support me emotionally through the stages that my father should have supported me through. It’s okay though because God has connected me with such a good man and I am grateful for that. ❤️
I loved that he manned up at the end and I believe he wants to do better as a dad ❤
I believe so too.
my granddaughter haven’t heard from him since the show from what i been hearing
@@kellylong3455 IT means he's a deadbeat dad 4real, 4him not 2keep in touch ever since after dis show. Or he's in some sort of trouble, a situation or something......
@@PRETTYESHIA504Y’all really be praising these men for doing nothing! 😂
I love how Karamo called out both parents ill behavior, but more importantly how he handled Dad. You can tell he doesn't get that type of treatment often and I liked the fact that inspite of some resistance and rebuttal you could tell that he was actually listening. I hope he gets his temper in check, and stop being so quick to react in the manner in which he did. I pray everything works out and that this baby is not just a casualty of war between Mom and Dad's constant spats. I lost my oldest son's father recently, and Lord knows I hate it! It's a pain like no other!! I really hope and pray they can mend this relationship! Wishing them all love and light!! ✨️ 💕
Hello dear nice to meet you here can we be friends
She's 17 n he is a adult n send a hurtful text to a child. They both need to grow up n hope they can be civil for their child.
I'm over here crying. Much respect for them for being mature
Karamo handles the families with such love, grace and honesty. This is truly the best talk show!
Love how he would not allow the guy to look and continue to sound ridiculous..
😭😭😭 this was deep 👌
It hurts me that when you look at the father you can tell he doesn't get a chance to express his feelings often without being cut off or shut down
Bam! That part! The young man couldn't get a word out. Hear THE ENTIRE story for the Love of God.
@@djdocontheblock yes smh can't stand it. The mom needs to apologize to
I was saying the same thing.
Exactly!! That mother is the issue
Then lean over and ask to keep the dna test. It’s not bout u 😒
At first I was so angry with the father.. but as it went on… I realized.. he’s just a hurt baby boy inside. Poor thing just needs healthy people around him.
And that mother started that train of telling him he not the father and she up there acting a mess. That baby gurl was jus looking for love and answers.
That may be true but he is a father now. It’s not right for him to then turn around and give his daughter the same hurt. He is grown she is a child. He knows better to send things like that regardless of what she said… He has to just handle that differently
@@thatjawnnnayy4482 it’s obvious that it’s not right… He just doesn’t know any better. You can tell that he wants to but if he wasn’t shown the tools to control his feelings than how would he be able to?
You could see how much her mom loved her. She admitted to planting the seed of doubt in Dad’s head when she was younger. The daughter mentioned early on that her Dad is a good man & he showed it by immediately apologizing and agreeing to go to anger management. Great job Karamo! You guided this family into a bright direction and empowered this young lady!
That's my thing...some of these women get so upset when a man denies their child. If YOU tell a man in anger that his kid may not be his, why are you angry if he believes you?
@@elisest.george8245 you make too many excuses. He easily could have followed through on DNA testing.
@@scooter9657 If a woman tells someone "this ain't your baby anyway"...why would they shell out money for a DNA test?!
@@elisest.george8245 to conclusively figure things out like a reasonable, intelligent adult. That question was alarming.
@@scooter9657 Most people are not reasonable, intelligent adults...look at these two folks😂
She told him he was the father, put doubt in his head on purpose about the paternity, and then got mad that he had doubts regarding paternity...does that seem like a reasonable or intelligent adult to you haha?
Now that was an apology 💯 it was beautiful. My tears just flowed 😢
She looks just like him. Before any test he had to know she was his daughter. I hope they all get the counseling they need to heal. Such an unfortunate situation for everyone involved. The wasted years. Kill the pride and finally be the mother and father this child needs. ❤️
I pray that this family will heal through forgiveness and kindness. I love seeing people actually apologizing and seeing people accepting their apologies❤️
Same here ❤ #positivity2022 🙏🏾🥰
They still fussing and acting like they’re 15. That behavior was ridiculous
This just broke my heart because through all her pain and confusion she still had good things to say about him..The mother is wanting so bad to make this about her... They both need to tone down their petty levels...Much respect to him for on his own apologizing to her mother...
Ooh my God as an African man, it is hard to cry but this one has made me shed tears. Wishing the best of love to the family. Thanks, Karamo for the wisdom.
It's okay King.
I'm glad this worked out and he sincerely apologized to his daughter.
At the end, she was vindicated and the parents both took a step in the right direction. Proud of them all.
She looks exactly like her daddy, I don't know how he could even think she wasn't his child. God-bless this union. Pretty young lady you both have 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️♥️
I believe his sincerity! 😭❤
Do you? It’s funny because her grandmother said she hasn’t heard from him since the show!
@@laurencameron3150OMG FR?
@@V1S10N. Yeah on rare occasions, people on shows like these comment on UA-cam to give updates
The mom doesn’t realize she owes the father and daughter an apology too.
Yes!
She definitely does
Mom ....You Apologize to your Daughter,.
She sure does.She is the problem
Why that my is disrespect
Moms told the daughter to give her father a hug when he was on his knees apologizing…..that just showed me something different, something different on what I thought their relationship will be after finding out he’s the father….there is still love, and if it’s not real love for the parents…..at least from me seeing that, I know it’s real love for the daughter…..see, the daughter is young and does and moves off how she feels, not knowing what to do in that situation, so the mom assisted into what she felt was the right thing to do……cause she still loves him, and if she don’t ……..at the end of the day….he is still that girls real father
'Bullets at your daughter that's going to hurt her for the rest of her life'.... absent parents need to understand how deeply they affect the children they abandon. This baby pushed for a solution to heal herself 💛🧡❤️
And women need to understand to stop having babies with men who are not ready or don't want to be fathers, that will help a lot too
@@kiera6288 right
Glad 😊 she know her real father and he got on his knees and apologized to her now happy family
@@kiera6288 You and Coco Burrell are way off base. They BOTH had issues!!! did yall hear that THEY BOTH!!! this is a healing moment! who said he was a dusty and who said he didnt wanna be there easy answer NOBODY! keep all that independent ish to yourself. Yall see a Man and say/believe anything to keep bs going they're trying to get past what happened and we have you two wanting to continue this dumb ass rhetoric! Sad!
@loookiere man thank u IM TIRED OF THE WORLD WANTING WOMEN TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY BUT THESE MEN GET TO MAKE EXCUSES AND THEN ITS WOMEN LIKE ABOVE WHO MAKE EXCUSES. Most mothers arent ready but we do it
This has me in tears !! Same situation I’m dealing with my 15 yr old and her dad … he just won’t take a test !!!
Same 😢. My daughter will soon be 15 and our court day for a paternity test is coming up soon. I just pray he shows up for my daughter’s sake.🙏🏾
This was so hard to see that baby contain her emotions while her parents have no emotional control at all .. I pray they go to those classes for this young lady 😢💚💚💚
I love when he apologized to both of them. I am so happy she got the closure she needed. She seems so mature and I hope she get the love she deserves.
I am very happy he admitted to his wrongdoings as well.
I am so happy that they the parents both agreed to get help ❤❤❤
This was a beautiful episode
The daughter is 17. The parents behavior and verbal abuse has taken place her whole life and has scarred her for life. You can forgive and move forward but you never forget.
This was touching. The host overtalked the guy the whole time. He has to let people express.
I sat here praying for that young girl. As a grandma I just want to hug her
I just cried a blanket full of tears baby girl , you now know he really is your father and he always knew he was your father this is between you and your dad now ... continue loving each other from this day forward because you are your daddy’s Little Angel baby girl....❤️❤️
Back then, in my past, whenever my estranged father and I get into heated arguments turning PHYSICAL, he would always hurt me just by telling me that either I'm not his daughter or he's not my father or HE should have given me up for adoption or I should go find my "real" father... 💔💔💔
No child (no matter how old they are) should EVER be told such cruel things like that!
But going back to this episode, Kiara doesn't deserve to be treated like that. Rashad should've never treated her like that... Hell, he shouldn't have done ANY OF THAT to her.
Do you know the REAL REASON WHY kids doubt themselves or give parents anything but respect? It's because of how the parent(s) treats them... Parents need to understand... Well people in general need to understand that how ever you act towards them, they will treat YOU the SAME WAY you treat them...
You know the phrase "treat others the way you deserve to be treated?" The words, actions, attitude of one person against the other person is reflected back to them... You respect them, they will respect you back... You treat them poorly, they will treat you poorly back... Actions speak louder than words...
It’s this comment for me. ❤ I always say the relationship that you cultivate with your children while they are young is the one that you get when they are older. I learned that through my relationship with my parents.
Very true. My father once told me that the world was cold to him and he will be cold to me. He's been true to those words. All I can say is I hope has a great nursing home/assisted living facility picked out. 💔💔💔
I love this show man thank you to Karamo and everyone that is apart of this show real stories real issues and real break throughs!!
This made me cry! I hope people understand what this man is doing for families
I’m so addicted to your show already! I loved you on Queer Eye and I love you on here! Karamo you are the best!
The mother hoped up like can I get a apology. No sit down it’s not about you. That apology he gave on his to his daughter I love it .
I love that too
Anybody else started crying 😢. Blessings for a great future for them all.
Even if he thought that why would he send this little girl a text like that that's terrible she will never forget that text no matter how much he apologized just my opinion I'm a grown up and I would never be able to get over a text like that from my father
Agreed
Thank you Karamo because the parents are acting like children. This episode made me cry baby girl is hurt.
He had 17 years to find out the truth. He should have never treated this poor child like that.
Saying "you are not the father" one time is enough. No matter what the guy does, saying those words will only backfire on you.
So that’s an excuse for him to be weak🫤. A dna test could have handled that long ago
@@dayum_mi I am specifically addressing the fact that when that is said, it always backfires. When women say it, it's to simply bring hurt on the man because of the hurt the men is causing them. In their mind, they have no other way to hurt them than by saying those words.
My comment is not excusing his behavior or how long ago a DNA test could have been done.
@@dayum_mi Hello there nice to meet you here can we be friends
No way lol there are men who know their children are theirs and will not use that as an excuse to verbally abuse their children and neglect their responsibilities. Only a certain type of man will behave like this and I’m not talking race at all. Integrity compromised & immature individuals are the problem.
I usually hate this you are / are not the father type shows. But you the host gave the most real profound and helpful advice. Especially for the young girl to not follow their footsteps. Def a fan of him now
I have to agree with the BM on some things, some of these women keep the men away being bitter then want to call the man a deadbeat when the mother is toxic
When I heard the opening story of him explaining it gave a sense of sadness throughout my body bc at the age of twelve my father told me those exact words and our relationship has been so rocky every since
Look at his demeanor it tells everything 🥺🤦🏾♀️
Hello dear nice to meet you here can we be friends
Everyone, let's take a deep breath... and thank God
1) *RECONCILIATION* ❤ 👨👩👧
2) Very professional in a heated situation
3) It's the first time that I've seen Karamo with tears 😥
To: Karamo and crew members
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
The mother is SUPER childish!
Finally someone sees it. Everyone down his throat. Check her as well
@@empressleesa2252 right! Like when he read the results & said he's the dad the 1st thing the mom said while jumping up an down on the couch is, "can I get my apology?!" And as he said, "the apology goes to the daughter." The mon totally overlooked that part
@@sassychef224 she hasn't gotten over him. Want an apology for something she started like gurl grow up..wit all the antics. Stuff like this irk me
@@empressleesa2252 Yup, they BOTH suffer from arrested development, they're still 15 and never matured beyond that point. They're both the problem.
Naw you just a BMW (black man worshiper), he’s been hurting their daughter for years and it’s always the mother who has to take on the burden of a child’s pain while father’s live freely.
I watched this at 2 in the night and I cried through the whole night. We are many more Keira's out here who need our daddies to apologize m hug us.😔😔😔
Saw this show for the very first time today. Good outcome and had me in tears of joy!
I keep watching this story. I love it. She is so cute and she really needed that healing.
I'M SO HAPPY THAT YOU HAVE THIS SHOW AND THANK YOU ADDRESSING THE ISSUES THAT SOME OF US ARE EXPERIENCING! ITS WONDERFUL TO SEE A BEAUTIFUL AND INTELLIGENT MAN OF MY CULTURE. GOD BLESS YOU!
This really cool, love how the guy knelt down sincerely from his heart to apologize. I hope he keeps it up. Wish them better life ahead
Dad already made progress on stage
I swear those two still like each other! If they are single then maybe they should try again.
The mom never grow up
This is beautiful! I can see the father genuinely loves his daughter. The mom and dad both need to grow, mature, and coexist in a healthier relationship. Trauma is generational. I pray the family heals through therapy so they can no longer pass their pain on to their innocent daughter
"Hurt people, hurt people" . Praying for healing for this family 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
My fav part is when the guests come out and Karamo compliments them! He’s so sweet ❤❤❤
That last moment when they shook hands made me wonder if they like each other a little too much and it sparked some anger issues inside of them both lol
They still flucking.
I thought the same thing…
Beautifully facilitated Karamo! I have to say, love your ability to communicate truth with empathy and compassion.
Hello dear
Dude’s who say this level of bs always reveal to everyone around them that they’ve never been unconditionally loved by their parents/caregivers. Some traumas are hard to overcome but with some you get to a point where you decide not to be the trauma, bullying or violence that raised them. I have compassion for all of them. I hope they seek licensed psychotherapy and stick with it to stop these cycles.
I literally challenge myself not to cry at stuff like this. The apology and her practically falling in her dad's arms made me ugly cry. He knew he was her father but didn't want to deal with the mother. Daughter had the most sense and her level of forgiveness is 10,000.
She seems sad. Her parents are immature.
I cried myself to death...I love this young girl...I hope she does well in life and not use any of the hurtful words that were said in the past.. good luck little girl
Hyperbole, much?!?
He is a young father who didn’t know any better
This is absolutely beautiful 💕 I shed tears of joy 😭
Although she still stuck at 15, she literally still in love with him.
I definitely agree. I think there is still something there with him as well because he smiled when they shook hands
That’s not love, that’s trauma bond.
@@MelMoy11 may be so but feelings are definitely still there
She definitely still attached emotionally and he knows it, that’s why they were still bumping!
Lil mama sitting right next to her daddy. She deserves his love 💕
Poor baby, 💔.
He's like so many people that think their pain and issues are hidden.
"How'd you know that know that"?
I cried when he got on his knees n they hugged n apologize. It was beautiful❤
My Brother you have a great show. Granted I’ve only watched the UA-cam clips so I’m speaking from that. The way you orchestrate things from greeting each guest with respect and treating each individual fairly you’re a class act. Keep up the great work.
@Jerry Neumann what’s up Jerry?
Kiana: "Can I have an apology please?" Rashad: "NOT TO YOU" Kiana: "WHY 😩!" Rashad: "But I will apologize to you" Kiana: "Oh😯" Kiera: "😒" Im DYING🤣😂🤣🤣😭😭💀
@Jerry Neumann 😂 pervert
I was weak too 😂😂 I knew I wont the only.
One
If u are reading this there’s a reason No matter how good or bad you have it,wake up each day thankful for your life.Someone else is desperately fighting for theirs🇧🇸..
I really can vibe with Karamo, he's a really good guy, and genuinely connects to the guests, or anyone he can guide to having a better way of life.
Hello dear
Should get the child counseling as well. Not just the parents. She says SMD to her dad… she needs anger management too, at the very least.
Look at what she has to look up to
That little girl looks really young for 17 and her mom looks older than 32. Crazy.
THIS BROUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES 😢 ...WHEN HE GO DOWN ON HIS KNEES IT BROKE MY HEART 💔💔💔
Do y’all see how he got his leg kicked up on the couch? He is way too comfortable acting a fool in front of everybody. That beautiful young lady deserves nothing but love. I wish her the best ❤
Omg... Karamo out here healing black families and giving this baby a better life experience.
It’s givin Maury and I’m here for it 😂
He worked on the Maury Show!
It's different than Maury.
It’s a saying that hurt people, hurt people. I’m glad that he apologized to his daughter, that they can move forward and heal from the trauma.
Karamo is healing a lot of black trauma . Thank you Karamo
Mr Kamaro, this is the first time I see your show. Thank you for your patience and kindness. Daughter and father reconciled and mother jumped in the bandwagon. I can’t stop crying.😢😢❤️❤️
I don't know if I could be quite so forgiving of a father who denies me every time they get mad at me or my mother. I'd want the results for informational purposes, thank the show for testing us, and I'd proceed to live my life.
Well that’s something u should work on forgiveness is great for the heart
@@jadeacampbell5206 Nah, I don't subscribe to the cliches. The one who needs a better heart would be the father, not the innocent child.
It’s the mother’s fault. She from jump kept telling him out of anger he isn’t the father.
@@janitawiley9331 Both parents are trifling in their own way.
Yep
Omg , this has got me crying my eyes out, the girls pain is very clear in her face and her eyes… 😢
I just want to hug her. What a sweet baby. She doesn’t deserve this.
This show was amazing,and I hope this father and mother can become civilize witheachother for the sake of their daughter.
I love this show because if it was Jerry Springer or Maury they would just egg on the arguing and inappropriate convo but Karamo is really about healing and understanding💜
It was the mom asking to keep the card for me 😂