Karamo missed that he’s responsible enough to not want to jump into marriage until being financially stable, but missed over him wanting to add 2 more children to their already THREE!
Financially stable sounds like an excuse , was he Financially stable to have 3 children and want 2 more . If he really cares he will marry her and stop d excuse.
If he is not financially stable why is he having all these kids? And to the young lady…why are you just pushing out babies thinking you want him to marry you. I thought it was to get married first and then have babies. What wrong with the mindset these young people these days? 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
That young woman was used and abused her whole life and she’s getting pushed and her needs met last. She gave him children and love and support. The reason she stopped is that he didn’t give her the only thing she needs and the security she desire. Holding that back from her is the reason their relationship is suffering in misery. That boy needs to grow up
The first baby could have been an oops situation...but the other 2 was definitely planned...plus bro wants 2 more. She definitely should have demanded marriage after baby no.1 , she sounds crazy talking about I done pushed out 3 babies for him n I deserve to be married. 😂
The first mistake was having three of his kids without having a ring on it yet. You’ve already taught him that you don’t think you deserve that because you’ve given him the privilege before he has made the commitment.
Well no shit she didn't know he didn't want to marry her before she had her kid ??? Asking dumbass questions as if she said she knew from the start 🤦♀
She popped 3 kids out how would she not know? She already did marital dities witht ring nd now she is demanding a ring when he wants two more kids. That is slow asf
This couple reminds me and my husband. We have been together since 16 yrs old. People kept telling me he was gonna leave me etc. we are still holding strong. We have 7 kids and 9 grands. #33 years later
You putting baby after baby in her but not ready for marriage ? Stop getting her pregnant sir wtf she’s literally putting her body on the line. This girl is right no more kids unless there’s a ring Karamo got these folk keeping up these homes
Y’all saying Karamo should have come down on the young couple when it wasn’t necessary. When you reconnect as a couple (ex. Like going on dates) you get closer in ways that then move you to take the next steps like marriage and it solidifies it; gives it a good foundation. It moves more smoothly and doesn’t feel forced like the guy said. Each person in the relationship should feel like they are loved and wanted and once they get there the marriage will come.
Karamo❤😍🥰 You just have to love him!?? I wish he would come to Europe, to tell us all about keeping talking and growing...we ALL can use some growth and learn how to love each other more....
I don’t agree that they should get married just bc they have three kids. Karamo is right. Don’t rush it. Both of them have a good head on their shoulders and the kids are already here. Getting married when one party isn’t ready in one way or another will hinder the relationship. It sounds like he does want to marry her but wants to make sure they are financially stable first. Again, you can say the same about the kids but like I said, they are already here. Marriage isn’t going to keep a family together. A strong foundation of the marriage will keep the family together though. Also, they are very young. Just because two ppl have kids does not mean they should just rush into a huge commitment. If the marriage fails, it will probably be worse for kids in the long run. Communicate, build, love each-other, and marriage will happen when it happens.
Why didn't he unlock 🔓 that last guys phone 📱. That wife needs to know what on his phone!!!!! Karamo upset me twice in this episode. He also missed the fact that the first guy should STOP 🛑 Asking for kids until he gets married!!!!
The wrong reasons? How are three kids and you wanting her to risk her life for two more not reason enough?! This is why I tell my sisters to not give a man kids out of wedlock and I’m not even a conservative type. Again, this man was okay with her almost losing her life to give him, what should be, the greatest gift in life. I don’t agree with it, but the world we live in, will look funny at _her_ for being a (black) mother out of wedlock, not him. We don’t need that and him not being sensitive to that is a huge red flag.
@@hms3412 I like Karamo, but sometimes his advice are just cute one-liners that don’t apply to actual life, this is one of those examples. I felt really bad for this girl, she needed more than that.
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.
Just because you have his children , don't make you wife material. And just because, you have a child , don't make you a mother. These women are moving backwards. Marry before you carry, she should have thought about that before she laid it low and spread it wide. 🤔🧐
@@empressnaja They’re both wrong. He should be man enough to just tell her he’s not planning on marrying her and stop expecting her to give him more children. She should take the hint, if risking her life to give him his current children isn’t reason enough to marry her, it’s never going to happen and if it does, it’ll only because he eventually gave in🤦🏾♀️.
What's crazy is people always saying oh getting married because you have kids just because somebody has kids doesn't mean that it's a good thing to get married married is a big thing like it's just not getting married and putting a ring on I need to know the meaning of it
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
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Him saying he's not in a financial space to get married but has three very small children is crazy work... I guess they live off of hopes, dreams and fairy dust
Financial stability will evade them if they continue to make more children. Take a break. Kids are expensive to raise. He needs to be there to help wherever he is not on his job.
3 children is more expensive than a wedding. Make it make sense. Seems like you’re not financially responsible/stable to have 3 children but yet you do.
For women that are 💯 about their man and are truly in love, they are not worried about the financial aspect of a wedding. My man was worried about paying for our wedding, but I assured him that the day did not matter to me. A wedding is only a day. I want a marriage and build a life with the love of my life. The only thing that mattered was that I was his wife. I simply wanted to be married to the man I fell in love with. Everything else we will build together.
The first story: giving him an ultimatum is a bad idea. I wouldn’t sleep with him again until I had a ring and a marriage license. I would not add more children without marriage.
I’m not feeling how people in the comments are putting the responsibility on this young woman for wanting to be married as if that isn’t the man’s job to make that step and make her his WIFE before his childrens mother. How tf can she “choose better” with men who are coming in deceptive and masking? YALL never hold men accountable for anything and infantilize them placing blame and pointing fingers at women FOH
He will never be financially stable! The costs of raising children will increase in time, not diminish in time. They were given poor advice. Let's not forget that he wants to more kids. She needs to run.
In the second case, I think the sisters are lying. It's giving that the older sister is jealous of their relationship and how do we know that was him for real, because she had access to the phone. Their eyes gives lying.
Karamo. I would agree with this statement if his decision was before baby1, 2 or 3. They are already married in deed. I JUST CAN'T UNDERSTAND HOW MEN PLAY HOUSE tear up a woman's body with children, Doing EVERYTHING married people do except just giving the woman a license.
I will also like the state that people need to stop moving in together, having kids, then think about marriage. You should let your significant other no straight from the gate that you are looking to be married and if they want that that is great, but if they don't then let them go. If they don't want marriage or they don't want to work towards getting married, then it should be easier to let them go because you are childless with that person and you are not sharing a place with that person. Marry before you carry. I am a Christian woman and the one thing that I have noticed is that when you stray away from the guidelines of the Bible then you end up in a messy situation.
Karama missed one thing. Tell her no more kids 😴😴😴 Cause he wants to be financially stable they need to stop having kids period. But other thsn that yess go on dates. Enjoy eachother.
yall are actually dumb. “get married first” well DUH but they were in their teens! their oldest is 5, nobody plans for that sht😭pls stfu. they been adulting with not enough time tg like karamo said. they doing much better than most their age in that same situation AND on karamo show😭🤣they were/are KIDS. please, use the common sense
Do not listen to him if you want to fight for your marriage. Fight for your marriage. Do not listen to that. It's time for you to separate c*** Do not listen to it every time I listen to him. And there's a problem in a relationship, he's telling people that they need to separate.And that is not the way of god.Don't you get rid of your wife and don't you get rid of your husband
Financial stability will evade them if they continue to make more children. Take a break. Kids are expensive to raise. He needs to be there to help wherever he is not on his job.
This couple reminds me of me and my husband. We have been together since 16 yrs old. People kept telling me he was gonna leave me etc. we are still holding strong. We have 7 kids and 9 grands. #33 years later
Karamo missed that he’s responsible enough to not want to jump into marriage until being financially stable, but missed over him wanting to add 2 more children to their already THREE!
Thank you
Financially stable sounds like an excuse , was he Financially stable to have 3 children and want 2 more .
If he really cares he will marry her and stop d excuse.
He missed big time.. this is one of the first times i did not agree with Karamo
If he is not financially stable why is he having all these kids? And to the young lady…why are you just pushing out babies thinking you want him to marry you. I thought it was to get married first and then have babies. What wrong with the mindset these young people these days? 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Exactly! He wasn’t financially stabled having 3 kids. He’s making excuses up. But they are both young and she have some healing to do.
1st case: Get married BEFORE having babies. If he wanted marriage, he would have asked before the 1st baby was born. Choose better.
Exactly 👍
Well said
Choose better? For a man bring deceptive??? As usual never holding men accountable for anything
Everyone (NOT JUST WOMEN) SHOULD choose BETTER, however 👉🏿WE👈🏿WOMEN choose our kid's father.@@cheyb2257
@@cheyb2257And when did they say he was deceptive? He has only chose to not marry her. Again, choose better BEFORE BABIES.
That young woman was used and abused her whole life and she’s getting pushed and her needs met last. She gave him children and love and support. The reason she stopped is that he didn’t give her the only thing she needs and the security she desire. Holding that back from her is the reason their relationship is suffering in misery. That boy needs to grow up
Man shut up. You just added some things in for likes.
Huh? Not financially stable to get married but can afford those three kids you made? You should have married her first smh
She shouldn’t have demanded marriage first and then babies. These young people doing things backwards. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Facts and he wasn’t 2 more before they married? He’s tryna trap her ong
The first baby could have been an oops situation...but the other 2 was definitely planned...plus bro wants 2 more. She definitely should have demanded marriage after baby no.1 , she sounds crazy talking about I done pushed out 3 babies for him n I deserve to be married. 😂
EXACTLY
Exaaactly and thats what people dont understand!
The first mistake was having three of his kids without having a ring on it yet. You’ve already taught him that you don’t think you deserve that because you’ve given him the privilege before he has made the commitment.
Exactly and stayed with him even after giving him an ultimatum to propose and he didn’t 😭
She looks gorgeous for having 3 kids, you go girl ❣️
Yes she does
She appears to be very feminine and disciplined as well. He might miss out on a good wife and mother for his children.
Why even stress yourself about someone that doesn’t want to marry you? Why have kids by someone that wouldn’t want to marry you?
Well no shit she didn't know he didn't want to marry her before she had her kid ??? Asking dumbass questions as if she said she knew from the start 🤦♀
She popped 3 kids out how would she not know? She already did marital dities witht ring nd now she is demanding a ring when he wants two more kids. That is slow asf
What’s causing all the arguments is them being so young with all those damn babies!
This couple reminds me and my husband. We have been together since 16 yrs old. People kept telling me he was gonna leave me etc. we are still holding strong. We have 7 kids and 9 grands. #33 years later
You shouldn't have thought about that before you pushed the first one out. Ultimatums never work. They always end in divorce or separation.
He mentioned finances but had three kids . That’s crazyyyy work.
When you’re young and having sex you’re not talking about kids and finances. No kid was planned. Thats common sense
@ sir/maam I’m specifically talking about this video. This situation in particular. There’s plenty young good parents including myself. 🙄
The 1st girl, she should of asked for a ring BEFORE baby #1
Exactly 👍
And.....just because he proposes STILL doesn't mean he will marry you
That first guy needs to STOP 🛑 asking for kids if he's not ready to get married! How did Karamo miss that part?
That Part
We black woman ofto break this generational curse giving men kids before marriage stop we have more value
You have kids, that is the right time.
You putting baby after baby in her but not ready for marriage ? Stop getting her pregnant sir wtf she’s literally putting her body on the line. This girl is right no more kids unless there’s a ring Karamo got these folk keeping up these homes
The first couple is the perfect commercial for condom use.
Stop getting her pregnant? What is she doing to prevent herself from getting pregnant? Women need to be more serious about protecting their fertility
@@gayneldergrazette5064 all women cannot use birth control and getting a vasectomy is less invasive than tying tubes
Good enough, to have all them children,but NO!NO! ring or commitment!!!
Y’all saying Karamo should have come down on the young couple when it wasn’t necessary. When you reconnect as a couple (ex. Like going on dates) you get closer in ways that then move you to take the next steps like marriage and it solidifies it; gives it a good foundation. It moves more smoothly and doesn’t feel forced like the guy said. Each person in the relationship should feel like they are loved and wanted and once they get there the marriage will come.
Karamo❤😍🥰 You just have to love him!?? I wish he would come to Europe, to tell us all about keeping talking and growing...we ALL can use some growth and learn how to love each other more....
I don’t agree that they should get married just bc they have three kids. Karamo is right. Don’t rush it. Both of them have a good head on their shoulders and the kids are already here. Getting married when one party isn’t ready in one way or another will hinder the relationship. It sounds like he does want to marry her but wants to make sure they are financially stable first. Again, you can say the same about the kids but like I said, they are already here. Marriage isn’t going to keep a family together. A strong foundation of the marriage will keep the family together though. Also, they are very young. Just because two ppl have kids does not mean they should just rush into a huge commitment. If the marriage fails, it will probably be worse for kids in the long run. Communicate, build, love each-other, and marriage will happen when it happens.
PERIOD
Why didn't he unlock 🔓 that last guys phone 📱. That wife needs to know what on his phone!!!!! Karamo upset me twice in this episode. He also missed the fact that the first guy should STOP 🛑 Asking for kids until he gets married!!!!
That right there
This the comment I was looking for
The wrong reasons? How are three kids and you wanting her to risk her life for two more not reason enough?! This is why I tell my sisters to not give a man kids out of wedlock and I’m not even a conservative type. Again, this man was okay with her almost losing her life to give him, what should be, the greatest gift in life. I don’t agree with it, but the world we live in, will look funny at _her_ for being a (black) mother out of wedlock, not him. We don’t need that and him not being sensitive to that is a huge red flag.
It’s infuriating how Karamo missed this
@@hms3412 I like Karamo, but sometimes his advice are just cute one-liners that don’t apply to actual life, this is one of those examples. I felt really bad for this girl, she needed more than that.
Well said!!! 🎤💯💯
Love it, use earphones to drown out people who Runs their mouth😮
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back.
wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him?
Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment
Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.
Just because you have his children , don't make you wife material. And just because, you have a child , don't make you a mother. These women are moving backwards. Marry before you carry, she should have thought about that before she laid it low and spread it wide. 🤔🧐
My thoughts exactly 👊🏽
@@empressnaja They’re both wrong. He should be man enough to just tell her he’s not planning on marrying her and stop expecting her to give him more children. She should take the hint, if risking her life to give him his current children isn’t reason enough to marry her, it’s never going to happen and if it does, it’ll only because he eventually gave in🤦🏾♀️.
What's crazy is people always saying oh getting married because you have kids just because somebody has kids doesn't mean that it's a good thing to get married married is a big thing like it's just not getting married and putting a ring on I need to know the meaning of it
Wow..these prices are insane! Too bad shipping and taxes to Europe make it inafordable for me..😊😅
Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Wait now. WTH... no phone results? or did I miss it !!!
He is definitely wrong for not unlocking his phone.
@@deborahadams3745 yep
Him saying he's not in a financial space to get married but has three very small children is crazy work... I guess they live off of hopes, dreams and fairy dust
You need more than a ring you need a ring and a man committed to marriage 💯💯💯💯
Her sister need to quit meddling and they married it ain’t about feeling you made a vow work it out the feelings come back feelings come and go stay
Is Makho South African??? Your pronunciation was so cute. Love you Karamo!
Financial stability will evade them if they continue to make more children. Take a break. Kids are expensive to raise. He needs to be there to help wherever he is not on his job.
3 children is more expensive than a wedding. Make it make sense. Seems like you’re not financially responsible/stable to have 3 children but yet you do.
That piece of hair stuck on her forehead has me so confused.
😂 you must not be a woman of color, it’s supposed to give the illusion of baby hair
Ladies gotta understand that they hold the power.
For women that are 💯 about their man and are truly in love, they are not worried about the financial aspect of a wedding. My man was worried about paying for our wedding, but I assured him that the day did not matter to me. A wedding is only a day. I want a marriage and build a life with the love of my life. The only thing that mattered was that I was his wife. I simply wanted to be married to the man I fell in love with. Everything else we will build together.
Why Karamo always seem to want to break up a marriage; with the 2nd couple, its like he's forcing them to divorce
He trying to wear her waistline out..
The first story: giving him an ultimatum is a bad idea. I wouldn’t sleep with him again until I had a ring and a marriage license. I would not add more children without marriage.
I’m not feeling how people in the comments are putting the responsibility on this young woman for wanting to be married as if that isn’t the man’s job to make that step and make her his WIFE before his childrens mother. How tf can she “choose better” with men who are coming in deceptive and masking? YALL never hold men accountable for anything and infantilize them placing blame and pointing fingers at women FOH
THANK YOU!!! 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾
Love the show
He’s talking to them like they don’t have THREE children talking foolish about wanting FIVE
Karamo need to start doing lie detectors test. I think I remember he only did it a time or two.
If they are not old - I wonder how young are they!
lol 😅
@@stormij LOL
I WANNA HEAR THE AUDIO.....DAMN MANE!!!😩😩😩
She looks damn good for 3 children! Go girl… damn.
He will never be financially stable! The costs of raising children will increase in time, not diminish in time. They were given poor advice. Let's not forget that he wants to more kids. She needs to run.
In the second case, I think the sisters are lying. It's giving that the older sister is jealous of their relationship and how do we know that was him for real, because she had access to the phone. Their eyes gives lying.
Karamo. I would agree with this statement if his decision was before baby1, 2 or 3. They are already married in deed. I JUST CAN'T UNDERSTAND HOW MEN PLAY HOUSE tear up a woman's body with children, Doing EVERYTHING married people do except just giving the woman a license.
I will also like the state that people need to stop moving in together, having kids, then think about marriage. You should let your significant other no straight from the gate that you are looking to be married and if they want that that is great, but if they don't then let them go. If they don't want marriage or they don't want to work towards getting married, then it should be easier to let them go because you are childless with that person and you are not sharing a place with that person. Marry before you carry. I am a Christian woman and the one thing that I have noticed is that when you stray away from the guidelines of the Bible then you end up in a messy situation.
Family stay out and let the lady work on her marriage
Why push out 3 babies then ask for a ring??? Get the ring first Hun 😘
Karama missed one thing. Tell her no more kids 😴😴😴 Cause he wants to be financially stable they need to stop having kids period. But other thsn that yess go on dates. Enjoy eachother.
God bless there family and cover them
She is an ice lady I don't know how she got those kids ...😢I feel for him
You can't force marriage though if he not ready leave and stop having kids
3 kids from 1-5! Fix it Jesus. I can relate to not being as affectionate because of upbringing, but it looks like a lot of touching is happening
Girl he already has the kids, he's not going to marry you.
You should have got a ring on that finger before you push that those two first kids , just saying
Word!👊🏽
He needs to move on and be happy
A ring dosnt make the relationship better. Have a stable relationship before you make babies
I don't care.Why don't the sister shut up for a little bit and let him talk?He just got out here and he can't get a word in that's annoying
Part 2. STEVE
The first women sound insane u want a ring cuz u have 3 kids wat ?????? Theirs no other reasons wtf
Like like like - omg
yall are actually dumb. “get married first” well DUH but they were in their teens! their oldest is 5, nobody plans for that sht😭pls stfu. they been adulting with not enough time tg like karamo said. they doing much better than most their age in that same situation AND on karamo show😭🤣they were/are KIDS. please, use the common sense
Do not listen to him if you want to fight for your marriage. Fight for your marriage. Do not listen to that. It's time for you to separate c*** Do not listen to it every time I listen to him. And there's a problem in a relationship, he's telling people that they need to separate.And that is not the way of god.Don't you get rid of your wife and don't you get rid of your husband
It’s an advice , you either take or leave it
Ok that’s crazy they married times like that come it’s not gonna always feel good
Nah some of these people shouldn’t have been married in the first place. Every marriage isn’t created by God, he don’t bless no mess!
The Bible does give grounds for marriage though.
That's todays young folk - Baby showers before bridal showers; gender reveals before mortgage deals.
Dude seems a slow and express his feelings but to his defense he should never marry her.
Financial stability will evade them if they continue to make more children. Take a break. Kids are expensive to raise. He needs to be there to help wherever he is not on his job.
This couple reminds me of me and my husband. We have been together since 16 yrs old. People kept telling me he was gonna leave me etc. we are still holding strong. We have 7 kids and 9 grands. #33 years later