My husband grew up in eastern North Carolina. He's 67 and his brother is 63. Everyone helped in the tobacco barns during summers when they were growing up, even their mom! I am 62, and during my first years of working, people smoked at their desks! We didn't know how bad tobacco was for you then. There's a tobacco farm museum in Kenly. We plan to go on one of our visits to NC. I grew up in Michigan, so it will be interesting to see.
My husband and I are about to become empty nesters. For 90% of my married life I have been staying home between raising our two kids or now helping my elderly mom. I want to thank you for being so honest and making this very real. Life can have struggles, but its definitely what we make of it that helps us get through it. I’m still on a budget because we have our daughter in college and about to send our son too. Their future is very important to us as we want them to be on their own with a good educational foundation. I would definitely like more of these videos Lisa and thank you again for sharing good ideas 🌺
This isn’t exactly about budgets, but it is getting into your mind and how you think. My question is; what’s it like for you to know that you’re speaking in front of 20,000+ people every week? Does it ever register with you, that you’re speaking to a crowd of people that could fill a literal stadium every week? The sheer volume of people that you touch weekly is enormous, and I just wondered if that ever hits you in quiet moments of reflection. I’ve been here from day one since you brought out your blushes on a tray and went through them all for us, and really marvel at how you’ve persevered over the years staying here when so many walk away. I bought Chanel’s rose bronze blush because of you, and 10+ years later I’m still here and will continue to be as long as you are. So appreciative of the time and work and thought you put into your channel and your viewers. Love, Carrie.
Yes so true...I haven't been here since day 1 BUT her divorce testimony is beyond amazing and helpful. Anyone going through a divorce should go back and listen to those videos...very honest...very real...tks Lisa ♥️🙏🏼♥️
Lisa, all the Dior oils are labeled "Cherry Oil" right in front as that is the main ingredient. That girl was probably wearing a pinkier one, but told you "Cherry" because that's what she read on the bottle. Hope this helps.
We sorta had the same life.. I was lucky to b a stay at home mom...the difference was ... I LOVE JEWELRY!! MY BUDGET WAS JEWELRY LOL..AS IM WRITING THIS I HAVE TEARS.. I WAS MARRIED FOR 27 YRS ,MY HUSBAND PASSED AWAY AT THE YOUNG AGE OF 48.. I WAS 45... HE GAVE ME A BEAUTIFUL LIFE... WELL ..HE WOULD TELL ME HUN.... WHEN EVER ITS MY TIME TO GO.. YOU PAY THE HOUSE OFF WITH THE INSURANCE MONEY AND IF I PASS BEFORE OUR 30 TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY YOU GO BUY YOURSELF THAT 3 CT DIAMOND SOLITAIRE...😭... I DID ON A BUDGET, BUT IT JUST WASNT THE SAME...LIFE IS WAY TO SHORT... THE MATERIAL THINGS R NICE .. BUT ALL I WANT NOW IS MY HUSBAND.. BE KIND ... LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE!! XO
My thoughts are with you Michelle! I have lost both my parents and my best friend to cancer and it hits hard. Your husband sounds like he was a wonderful man!
I was so touched by your life story, Michelle. I am sure that you miss your husband and life is short but keep in the back of your mind that you experienced life with a wonderful man and had children. I am 68 and unfortunately I never had a man who loved me for me and share life with your best friend. I was never able to have children and have missed out on so much. Your husband sounds like he was a great guy and provider and I am sorry he left too soon. You have awesome memories and he is still with you in spirit. Take care....
I love how you explain your relationship with John and how you are able to purchase the things you own. I am inspired by marriages like yours because it is clear that truly loving and respecting your spouse is what can unite two people into making goals, working hard, and being able to treat yourselves down the road after years of respecting each other's financial boundaries and appreciating one another's generosity and effort to lay a good foundation. My fiancé and I sound a lot like how you explained you and John in your earlier years of marriage. My fiancé knows I enjoy fashion and beauty the way you do, but we both understand that we have to work hard and earn the things we enjoy. My fiancé is also exceptionally generous towards me when he treats me to things that I try to save up for, he loves surprising me like that and I never expect him going above and beyond for me. I have been loving your channel lately! I am a relatively new subscriber and I love your channel because your taste and style is almost like giving me a peak into the woman I want to become in the future (I'm 23!).
I love your videos, your so positive, and calm, your voice is sweet & relaxing! I'm 64 and retired. I've always loved clothes, makeup, jewerly! I worked hard to dress me and my kids and send them to College. I spend to much $ now that I'm retired, on clothes, jewerly, ect. Because retirement is less than what I made working. Having a home, was & is top priority, I dont like renting. I wish you would write a book for Newlyweds, and a book for young Moms, and one for older women to feel their best. The main thing you helped me with is when you said about dieting, is to not Lie to yourself on what u eat. That helped me so much, cuz it not just what others see you eat, it's what you eat when your alone, ect, and to be accountable for yourself helped me tremendously! Thank you Lisa!! So I was size 18 jean, & 1X top, now I'm Xl top and 16 and some 14 jeans..I mainly shop at Maurices, always been my Fav store! Thank you so much!! And write those books, also write book about dieting advice & tips. Advise for fashion after 40 or 50yrs.
I'm really excited for future videos to go in a more personal direction. I think my favorites of yours have been the ones where you talked about your experiences and advice for life and marriage
I can so relate to you. I stayed at home for 9 years to help raise our boys. I know what a sacrifice that is to get by on one salary and live within our means. Lisa, you do such a great job at showcasing items for us at every price point. I appreciate that about you, it helps to include every woman no matter what her budget might be. It would be great to see you do high end fashion videos and also include the same look at a budget price point.
This was a great topic Lisa. I have always worked and made my own money. I got married in my late 20s and we continued to keep our finances separate. We didn't have kids and it just worked for us. However I shopped way too much so I did hide alot of purchases in the beginning lol Now that we are basically retired in our 60s we still have separate accts and I still make extra spending money selling on like Poshmark etc so I have money of my own besides my investment acct to buy things or get my nails done etc. It just wouldn't feel right to me to have only one acct we both use or to ask for money to buy something. I'm not talking big expenses obviously like a car or house but like clothes or makeup etc. I also love to thrift so I'm not a big high end brand name girl. I love TJMaxx and Marshall's! So it works for us because we've always done it this way and we didn't have a family to support. I've always been independent and like making my own money even now in my 60s 😀
I love these videos ❤️ I think your family values gave you your amazing heart and the work John and you put forward to build a life has kept you humble. I think that people see what you have but forget about the hard work that led you to the life you have now!
Do you return things? Do you try things and return them? Do you keep everything that you buy? Do you donate the make up that you don’t like? Are you able to deduct many shopping expenses because you are operating a business? How is that structured? I bet lots of people would like to know…. For as much as you buy on a weekly basis I am guessing you can’t possibly use up all of it… I think many things you send to the resale shop as I recall… My husband does very well but there is no way I could afford to buy as much as you do on a weekly basis… Please let us know how you structure that.
Hey Lisa! Great advice and I remember your Friday hauls way back when! I looked forward to them every week (and still do!). I think the decaying of our society has so much to do with mothers having to work outside of the home. I’m not saying working moms are a bad thing, but that two incomes have been necessary to live and provide for a family requiring women who would rather stay home having to get a job. Anyway, have a great weekend!!
You have given me so many meaningful thoughts to ponder. I love make up, but you bring up so many different ideas for me. I love learning from you. ❤️❤️
I absolutely love watching you. I’ve just discovered you and so happy that I did. I’m also from the south 😀. You have said so many things that resonates with me. Thank you for making the videos and I can’t wait for the next one.
I love how you said "things were more meaningful back then" - isn't that the truth!! I love your relationship with John and the respect you have. My question is, how are things with John being retired. Is he around "too much" or do you both do your own thing? Much love to you Lisa. ❤ Elle PS - I love that you still do drugstore or reasonably priced things as well.
I love your videos! Thank you for sharing yourself so fully with us. I would love to see a video on your weekly routines. It seems like you must have good systems in place to keep your home in balance. I have a vision of maintaining a peaceful home that is clean and welcoming, but with two toddlers, two dogs, and both of us working, we’re always playing catch up. Would really appreciate learning from you on how you’ve been able to create and maintain such a peaceful aura and home for your family.
I understand. I am not from the south (I grew up in San Francisco area) but I grew up with the exact same values and had the same goals for my life. Went to college, had an amazing career but nothing matched being a wife/mom/daughter stayed home with my girls etc. LOVE YOU LISA, don't ever stop telling your story. XOXOX
I don’t think anyone in todays society encourages their daughters to not have a career and be able to support themselves. Woman need to be independent and not get married to have someone control them. Marriage is 50/50 … raising kids is 50/50. Just because he may bring in the paycheck and she may decide to stay home and raise kids doesn’t mean he controls your spending. A stay at home mom should get paid… and do with her portion what she wants🤷♀️ I always hated seeing my mom feel guilty spending money on herself because my dad worked outside the house and she stayed home to raise her 3 kids. Was her hard work worth nothing 🤔🤷♀️ just saying 😊
I see your point and I do not necessarily disagree; however keep in mind that there is not just one way of doing things and if someone else's life style/values are different does not mean they are wrong. We all should be able to do what we know or feel is right for us. " you do not play basketball by football rules". I cannot live my life by your values (generally speaking).
I truly enjoy these types of videos, so informative and fun to watch! I would love to hear more about your life when you were married to your first husband and how you overcame all the challenges you faced. You are a great story teller and very inspiring to us all! I also love hearing about your life when your kids were young how you managed your budget. Thanks again for doing these videos!
It can be done…finding someone that meets YOUR criteria never settle for less and honestly how they treat their mothers and their family their work ethic and their beliefs those are the usually the qualities you can see right up front don’t fall into a trap of thinking you can change them or you can settle…trust your instincts they are usually right! I believe there is someone for everyone and I firmly agree with Lisa just be up front from the get go of what kind of future you want if you are not on the same page then you are doing yourself a major favor by moving on! I ordered the sandals and I love them too!! 🖤🥰
I was a stay at home mom in my first marriage and shared a vehicle with my husband. I still had my BS in Biology and knew that I could go out in my own and earn myself a living and do well. My son thrived from me having the opportunity to do so. I think it’s a decision you make with your spouse and you do what you feel is best. I went back to school after my divorce, earned my Masters and began teaching. Met my second husband, and between my son still being in school and my husbands two children being in school, I was more beneficial at being a stay at home mom and homemaker which I happen to love. I don’t regret it, I have a lot of responsibility but my drive, my ability, and education are things that no one can take away from me. Everyone has to do what’s best for them!
I totally relate to this. I have been married 36 years and was a stay home Mom after the birth of my second child. We are a team and look at our leaner years with fondness and gratitude. We still have our financial challenges but with a bigger budget. Just shopped the Nordstrom sale and appreciated every moment and appreciate where we came from and where we are👍. A wonderful journey😀
I think what is so meaningful is that you BOTH KNEW going into the marriage what you wanted. Family, trust, etc. There were no surprises. Also, how refreshing it is to hear that a nurturing, traditional marriage works. Love this video!
Hey Lisa, I love this series idea! I'd love to hear how you managed Lisa time and family time when the kids were growing up. How you budget for a house. What's its like budgeting for different dietary approaches. This was fun! I'm at the next stage of life where I'm planning a family and building a new home at 37yrs. I'm very excited for the next chapter x
Lisa..I love fragrances also..can you tell us your perfumes for the day and how they last..like you show us your outfit of the day?? Oh my goodness..beautiful Chanel..she steals my heart..big time!!❤
Ok so i have a question? How do you and John keep the spark alive after so many years? Ive been married 23 years and every so often we have to make it a point to get away just him and i. Because its starts feeling to routine 😬
The way you have always spoken and carried yourself shows the respect and love thats in your marriage as well as the respect you have for yourself. I could see everything you said just by having followed you in your journey here on youtube. Thanks for sharing because hearing it is also very inspiring.
I love the replica sets. My favourite is beach walk especially for summer, I love jazz club and by the fireplace for winter. They are unisex, my son wears fireplace. Perfect size for your handbag!
I really appreciate you talking about how important it was to you to be a stay-at-home mom and being willing to sacrifice and do without some things in order to make that possible. Society does not recognize the difference it makes to the children and, I would argue, the marriage. I've really enjoyed when you have shared your personal journey. I hope you continue to do that. So many things in life that are important can't be "hauled". Lol. Happy Friday!
Hi Lisa, love your videos. I love to see what you have bought, love your style. I also really appreciate your intention with your videos as well as honesty. Thank you for sharing. Also, I believe your ring might be labradorite which always looks best with gold in my opinion.
I love the way you do your hair, mine is the same length as yours. Can you do a video on how you do your hair or different styles inbetween washes? Love your videos!
I so agree with what you are saying! I’m 68 and married 43 years with 3 grown children. I always worked at least part time until my children got older. My husband was very frugal and I was not used to that but I had to learn quickly. Over the years we have worked our budget out and compromised! It has not always been easy but now my children are grown and We are both retired and still compromising 🥰
This is why you are one of my favorite youTubers! You have a pure, good soul!! I just love hearing about your family. Btw I have that lip oil as well and I think it looks better on you than me, but I do love it!
Hello Beautiful & Sweet Lisa..I haven’t been on you tube much at all bc since my husband retired last July starting in February his health just spiraled to the point that not only was he in the hospital for almost two months..he hit deaths door three times..so when I get to watch you tube it’s on my Roku TV..I had to get on my laptop, sign on to leave this comment..I always love your fashion, makeup videos but I have always loved the ones about life, marriage, kids and family…I felt like you told my story at the end as well..we will be married 40 years this November 41 all together..He is also 9 years older…my husband was a budget man and I was put on one as well…I worked off and on but I worked only while my son was at school..I attended all of his activities and of course I wanted to follow my mama’s steps bc she stayed home and raised her 3 daughters..so those little fun jobs was my play money..now that we have retired the budget is back into action haha!! Lisa you should do more of these kinds of videos..you are very good with great encouragement for the younger ladies just starting out..now when hubs retired and before his illness took over our lives..I have to say there was a bit of adjustment having him home every day..I had the house to myself with my own schedule for 39 years ..now I absolutely love waking up and having coffee together..great video..hope all is well with you and your family..much love🥰
Not having a credit card is an amazing thing because it really allows you to stick to a budget and only buy what you can afford. Its the best thing my husband and I ever did. Thanks for your honest thoughts.
I love your relationship advice videos and hearing you share your experiences. I feel like I have so many questions but I don’t even know what I don’t know if that makes sense. As a newly wed, I am just open to watching and listening to any and all topics that you feel called to share. Thank you for sharing your heart!
I just want you to know how much I love being a subscriber and watching your videos and how much I really love you as a human being! It's so strange in a way to feel so connected to someone on youtube but it is a real thing. I have watched you a long, long time and changed along with you too. There is so much love for you, your family and pets and I know we all feel the love back from you, you are that special. I realize no person or family is perfect but you sure are pretty darn close to that and a huge inspiration to me! oxJulia
I love ur new space u have for filming, I would to know what it's like to have ur ur space to do and decorate how u want. My daughter just got married and I turned her bedroom into my beauty room. I love that it's my space, do and decorate how I want in it. I have my coffee and breakfast in there when I'm getting ready for the day, I just love it. Ur space is so beautiful and fun. Love u and ur videos.
I loved this video! Your wise decisions have rewarded you with a beautiful life. Thank you for sharing. Can’t wait for the other videos you talked about creating.♥️
Thanks for sharing. I am 55 and have been a stay at home mom also (my son is 26 and in medical school). Sometimes I feel guilty about not working and contributing to the financial aspect of our family but we have raised an amazing son. I’d like to find a way to supplement my budget now so I can add more to the family. Just not sure what I want to do 🤷🏼♀️ thanks again for the inspiration
Thank you very much to sharing your haul ,I love the pants and the body suits ,and to sharing your life wait John God bless both of you and your kids .🥰
Fun to Earn...I remember that feeling of getting a job when I was younger (I still work at 55), but what a great feeling that always was for me. I'm not sure if the majority of people young and not so young, have any of those same feelings I had just having a job and being independent. I never asked my parents or my husband for any money. NEVER. If I couldn't earn it or pay for things myself, I just did without them.
Lisa, did you tell us if you found out what drinking Diet Coke does, if anything, to your test results? I’m almost a year on keto thanks to you and I, too, enjoy a Diet Coke daily.
UA-cam definitely changed everyone’s spending habits, before UA-cam I never cared or even noticed expensive bags and shoes on other people. I’m 41 now but I didn’t buy my first “high end” makeup until I was 23 and it was only a couple of items and that was it, I only had a small makeup bag and that was everything. We also didn’t have sephora back then either. Now I have a whole clothing drawer of makeup and a whole drawer of perfumes too
Great video and you just exude joy! Loved the story about budgeting. I’ve been both a stay at home and working outside the home mom. My kids are adults now but I remember when I stayed at home, my husband and I really had to budget on his income. We talk about how that was some of our happiest memories because we really worked together and found joy in the small things. Our splurge was to take the kids to the mall on a Saturday and eat in the food court lol! I liked how you interspersed a topic like this along with your Friday haul. Looking forward to the next one.
Thank you for being so open about this, it's something I've wondered about since I started watching you a long time ago (and maybe missed a video where you've touched on it) but I really just assumed John handed you money every week to shop. Even if he did, that's fine but I respect you a lot more knowing you earn your own money for such luxury items purchased so often. Even though I would never spend the money on these items (I would rather have luxury items in my barn haha) I still love watching your excitement when you get them. Love the jeans!!
Lisa, great topic. You’ve got it all in the very best most kind and humble way. How does it feel to be so beautiful! :) You really are teaching the girls how to have it all. Nice work you do here on this platform.
Lisa, you have been my favorite youtuber for years and years, I just don't comment much. Your down to earth-ness, calming voice, sincerity and relatibility are all reasons why! I do have a question as I'm in business for myself and have always wondered, because you tube is your job, do you get to write off the things you buy on your taxes? I have just always wondered that (and this is in no disrespectful At All because you are doing this for us and it is indeed a job!!) Thank you for all your content, it All inspires me. 💞
Love all your advice and words of wisdom. You are a beauty blogger , mum , wife and you communicate so well with us about your life and loves. You make me feel like you are talking just to me and we are best friends .
I completely understand about the tobacco thing Lisa my grandpa always smoke a pipe and he always had cherry vanilla so when I smell anything that reminds me of that it brings back the best warm feelings
Hey Lisa, the lip oil looks like it could be the shade rosewood. All the shades have cherry oil in it, maybe that’s what confused you. The shade cherry is more rosy red similar to the Clarins lip oil in strawberry ☺️
Aw I appreciate you saying “you could be personal, but please be respectful” and I appreciate you for opening up to us about other aspects of your life - the budgeting, the shopping. Because in actuality, these are things we actually go through
Lisa Tobacco scents are my favourite, I love all 3 of those Replica scents so much. I would love to know if you have any other suggestions, my absolute favourite was MAC Velvet Teddy but we can’t get it in Australia anymore. Lots of love xx
I bought Jazz club for my husband, I love it on him! My dad smoked camels too and goodness, yes I remember buying my first Chi flat iron for $100.00 at Trade Secret in the mall too.
Replica is such a great brand. I bought Autumn Vibes last year and someone always commented on it, it’s so good. Under the Lemon Trees and Lazy Sunday Morning are incredible too. Great video as always, have a good weekend!💕
Lisa, I still don't understand why people do not get that this is your job and if you love the items you get, then that is a bonus. Just very odd to me that you have to explain that over and over. You aren't the only influencer - blogger who faces that personal question. I have seen a few answering the same thing. Anyway, I would like to know what it is like to live by the ocean. That was always my dream but I have always been stuck inland. While growing up it was in Colorado which is an absolutely beautiful state. Now I am stuck in NY. I won't go into the many reasons whyI hate it here but I married someone who was born here and so it was my choice to do my best to try to like where I live. It hasn't been easy but after years I realized it isn't that important. Family and loved ones are. Have a great weekend!
I also love tobacco scents & I think Replica does them the best. My favorite scent from them has been discontinued, I believe. It’s called Whispers in the Library. SO good. Dossier has a good dupe of the By the Fireplace.
I'd love for you to talk about what it takes to run a business (You Tube) I have zero clue, and I'm really interested. And even beyond that, working with brands and how that all works and how you manage all of that. I think the average viewer (me) has zero clue what it takes and all that is involved. :)
Lisa you are seriously so inspiring. I’m 53-year-old married woman, definitely don’t have the relationship you have but I sure hope that my three children will have those kind of marriages. I love listening to you I think you are a fabulous role model for every age, including myself I aspire to be like you. Your kindness is just otherworldly. I love this video and all of your other videos! Maybe your next venture could be writing a book, like an autobiography or something, I know I would be the first one buying it! Thank you for giving me a reason to come on here see all the good that you give! ❌⭕️❌Trina
I just turned 62, was divorced at age 58 after 21 yrs of marriage to a man who never respected me, who was emotionally & verbally abusive towards me, ridiculed me, etc. It was such a terrible, roller coaster marriage with crazy up and down emotions all the time, although for the last 5-6 years of my marriage I was more miserable than anything else - just incredibly sad, so sad right down to my core, devastated, emotionally raw and wounded after 2 decades of marriage to a man who chose to withhold any and all affection as a way of hurting and punishing me. I was lacking any self-confidence and afraid and worried for my future. Obviously my unhappy marriage was the complete opposite of what Lisa’s is and has been, the absolute polar opposite. But I am blessed to have two beautiful kids (well, young adults now at 21 & 23), and like you, the marriage that Lisa describes having is what I pray for/desperately long for *for my kids*. A long, happy, successful marriage is just not in the cards for me personally - sadly, that dream has passed me by. But I pray so hard that my kids are able to find it for themselves, and I fervently pray this same prayer every single night of my life. Sad thing is, my two kids certainly have a disadvantage already in that area, as they grew up witnessing such a poor marriage …but I hope and pray that God will reward them after they were forced to grow up inside & witness firsthand such a miserable marriage … and I hope and pray he has a beautiful one awaiting each of them ..🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@kimberlybellefontaine1215 I really feel with you and understand the loneliness… you are still young. Remember.. this is Lisa’s second marriage… some try a few before it’s good … and no marriage is perfect….. just saying 🤔😊❤️
@@susanbilawchuk1192 thank you very much for your kind words❤️. And yes, by age 62, I think I realize just as there are certainly no perfect people, there are no perfect marriages. But I was never wanting or looking for “perfect.” I just longed for healthy, respectful, and not abusive. If I were in my 30’s when I divorced, or even in my 40’s, I’d probably still hold out hope for someday .. ….but now at my age (when things on my body are already starting to fail me!🫤), I believe that ship has likely sailed for me already. Like I said, my hope now rests with my kids …that their marriages may be strong, healthy, respectful & loving🙏🏼
@@kimberlybellefontaine1215 Hi.. me again 😊 I also have 2 boys 16 & 18 yrs old and of course wish them happy lives. However… I’m 55 .. recently lost 60 lbs . ( just wanted to get healthy) went back to a good job and if my husband left tomorrow I would not say goodbye to any relationship that came my way . Take care of yourself and you’d be amazed at what might come your way ❤️❤️ Have a nice day !! 🙏
I am wondering if the lip oil shade was the Berry or Raspberry Dior as they look brighter... because on the side of the packaging on all the shades it says "Cherry Oil" do you think the person that told you the name was cherry, may have just read the outside of the packaging and saw cherry?
Great video. Good for you that you can buy the things you want. I have a question. I noticed that you buy lots of pairs of jeans (not that it's bad). It's too hot down here in Florida to wear jeans in the summer. Do you keep all of them or do you sell any of them on Poshmark or donate them? Thanks. Your hair looks pretty back like that.
Thank you so much for today’s super sweet video, and sharing with us. Today your eyes twinkled and your truth was apparent. You are kindness personified. Kudos and thanks again.❤️
Hi Lisa, I was so inspired by your mother/daughter shopping trip to Nordstrom that I wanted to do a little shopping right away but because I don't have the Nordstrom credit card I had to wait until the 14th. As soon as the 14th hit, I jumped online and scored a few things I am excited about! I too was a stay-at-home mom and I loved it! We have been empty nesters for awhile now and like you mentioned it does allow for a little disposable income to enjoy. I look forward to your videos! You are such a beauty and an inspiration!
I am not this type of woman! I am very Independent and not the needy type")I control myself and everything I purchase for myself... It came from me(my own money)! I can't relate to laziness,and needing a man to support my needs! Your husband must be in the poor house lisa!
Good morning Lisa, I very much enjoyed this video. I also have to budget and balance my life. You are very blessed to have a supportive husband, and able to to do what you do. 💕💕💕☀️🇺🇸🇨🇦☀️💕💕💕
I agree with everything you said , I was also lucky enough also to stay home and raise my three sons , but in todays society unfortunately everyone has to work to pay the bills today it’s a luxury to be a stay at home mom , today you need both salaries just to survive . The prices of homes here on the north shore of Long Island is insane not to mention our taxes , highest in the country beside California Things today are just not the same as it was 20 yrs ago …
My husband grew up in eastern North Carolina. He's 67 and his brother is 63. Everyone helped in the tobacco barns during summers when they were growing up, even their mom! I am 62, and during my first years of working, people smoked at their desks! We didn't know how bad tobacco was for you then. There's a tobacco farm museum in Kenly. We plan to go on one of our visits to NC. I grew up in Michigan, so it will be interesting to see.
My husband and I are about to become empty nesters. For 90% of my married life I have been staying home between raising our two kids or now helping my elderly mom. I want to thank you for being so honest and making this very real. Life can have struggles, but its definitely what we make of it that helps us get through it. I’m still on a budget because we have our daughter in college and about to send our son too. Their future is very important to us as we want them to be on their own with a good educational foundation. I would definitely like more of these videos Lisa and thank you again for sharing good ideas 🌺
This isn’t exactly about budgets, but it is getting into your mind and how you think. My question is; what’s it like for you to know that you’re speaking in front of 20,000+ people every week? Does it ever register with you, that you’re speaking to a crowd of people that could fill a literal stadium every week? The sheer volume of people that you touch weekly is enormous, and I just wondered if that ever hits you in quiet moments of reflection. I’ve been here from day one since you brought out your blushes on a tray and went through them all for us, and really marvel at how you’ve persevered over the years staying here when so many walk away. I bought Chanel’s rose bronze blush because of you, and 10+ years later I’m still here and will continue to be as long as you are. So appreciative of the time and work and thought you put into your channel and your viewers. Love, Carrie.
amazing especially considering she has most likely been shadow banned, she just has an amazing work ethic
Wow, thank you so much, this touches me!! I will definitely address this in a video soon!! 🥰 Lisa
Yes so true...I haven't been here since day 1 BUT her divorce testimony is beyond amazing and helpful. Anyone going through a divorce should go back and listen to those videos...very honest...very real...tks Lisa ♥️🙏🏼♥️
@@mddrive2 why would she be shadow banned?
I just found your Chanel & I want to said is such a pleasure to hear a wise Lady to talk, Thank you!
Lisa, all the Dior oils are labeled "Cherry Oil" right in front as that is the main ingredient. That girl was probably wearing a pinkier one, but told you "Cherry" because that's what she read on the bottle. Hope this helps.
I'll bet that's it!! Going to go look at the others now!! 💗🍒 Lisa
@@LisaLisaD1 I made the same mistake too and bought the wrong shade but still loving the lip oil it's a fantastic product.
Yes the actual shade name is on the bottom of the lip oil
Yes that’s Rosewood that you’re showing
We sorta had the same life.. I was lucky to b a stay at home mom...the difference was ... I LOVE JEWELRY!! MY BUDGET WAS JEWELRY LOL..AS IM WRITING THIS I HAVE TEARS.. I WAS MARRIED FOR 27 YRS ,MY HUSBAND PASSED AWAY AT THE YOUNG AGE OF 48.. I WAS 45... HE GAVE ME A BEAUTIFUL LIFE... WELL ..HE WOULD TELL ME HUN.... WHEN EVER ITS MY TIME TO GO.. YOU PAY THE HOUSE OFF WITH THE INSURANCE MONEY AND IF I PASS BEFORE OUR 30 TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY YOU GO BUY YOURSELF THAT 3 CT DIAMOND SOLITAIRE...😭... I DID ON A BUDGET, BUT IT JUST WASNT THE SAME...LIFE IS WAY TO SHORT... THE MATERIAL THINGS R NICE .. BUT ALL I WANT NOW IS MY HUSBAND.. BE KIND ... LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE!! XO
My thoughts are with you Michelle! I have lost both my parents and my best friend to cancer and it hits hard. Your husband sounds like he was a wonderful man!
I was so touched by your life story, Michelle. I am sure that you miss your husband and life is short but keep in the back of your mind that you experienced life with a wonderful man and had children. I am 68 and unfortunately I never had a man who loved me for me and share life with your best friend. I was never able to have children and have missed out on so much. Your husband sounds like he was a great guy and provider and I am sorry he left too soon. You have awesome memories and he is still with you in spirit. Take care....
I love how you explain your relationship with John and how you are able to purchase the things you own. I am inspired by marriages like yours because it is clear that truly loving and respecting your spouse is what can unite two people into making goals, working hard, and being able to treat yourselves down the road after years of respecting each other's financial boundaries and appreciating one another's generosity and effort to lay a good foundation. My fiancé and I sound a lot like how you explained you and John in your earlier years of marriage. My fiancé knows I enjoy fashion and beauty the way you do, but we both understand that we have to work hard and earn the things we enjoy. My fiancé is also exceptionally generous towards me when he treats me to things that I try to save up for, he loves surprising me like that and I never expect him going above and beyond for me. I have been loving your channel lately! I am a relatively new subscriber and I love your channel because your taste and style is almost like giving me a peak into the woman I want to become in the future (I'm 23!).
Thank you so much!! You have so much to look forward to! 🥰😘
I love that! You are a smart girl! Lisa is a great role model. 💕
I love your videos, your so positive, and calm, your voice is sweet & relaxing! I'm 64 and retired. I've always loved clothes, makeup, jewerly! I worked hard to dress me and my kids and send them to College. I spend to much $ now that I'm retired, on clothes, jewerly, ect. Because retirement is less than what I made working. Having a home, was & is top priority, I dont like renting. I wish you would write a book for Newlyweds, and a book for young Moms, and one for older women to feel their best. The main thing you helped me with is when you said about dieting, is to not Lie to yourself on what u eat. That helped me so much, cuz it not just what others see you eat, it's what you eat when your alone, ect, and to be accountable for yourself helped me tremendously! Thank you Lisa!! So I was size 18 jean, & 1X top, now I'm Xl top and 16 and some 14 jeans..I mainly shop at Maurices, always been my Fav store! Thank you so much!! And write those books, also write book about dieting advice & tips. Advise for fashion after 40 or 50yrs.
I'm really excited for future videos to go in a more personal direction. I think my favorites of yours have been the ones where you talked about your experiences and advice for life and marriage
I can so relate to you. I stayed at home for 9 years to help raise our boys. I know what a sacrifice that is to get by on one salary and live within our means.
Lisa, you do such a great job at showcasing items for us at every price point. I appreciate that about you, it helps to include every woman no matter what her budget might be. It would be great to see you do high end fashion videos and also include the same look at a budget price point.
This was a great topic Lisa. I have always worked and made my own money. I got married in my late 20s and we continued to keep our finances separate. We didn't have kids and it just worked for us. However I shopped way too much so I did hide alot of purchases in the beginning lol Now that we are basically retired in our 60s we still have separate accts and I still make extra spending money selling on like Poshmark etc so I have money of my own besides my investment acct to buy things or get my nails done etc. It just wouldn't feel right to me to have only one acct we both use or to ask for money to buy something. I'm not talking big expenses obviously like a car or house but like clothes or makeup etc. I also love to thrift so I'm not a big high end brand name girl. I love TJMaxx and Marshall's! So it works for us because we've always done it this way and we didn't have a family to support. I've always been independent and like making my own money even now in my 60s 😀
The important thing is to find what works and what you agree on, I think that comes in many forms! 👌🏻🥰😘
I love these videos ❤️ I think your family values gave you your amazing heart and the work John and you put forward to build a life has kept you humble. I think that people see what you have but forget about the hard work that led you to the life you have now!
Thank you so much, Jessica! 🥰 Lisa
Do you return things? Do you try things and return them? Do you keep everything that you buy? Do you donate the make up that you don’t like? Are you able to deduct many shopping expenses because you are operating a business? How is that structured? I bet lots of people would like to know…. For as much as you buy on a weekly basis I am guessing you can’t possibly use up all of it… I think many things you send to the resale shop as I recall… My husband does very well but there is no way I could afford to buy as much as you do on a weekly basis… Please let us know how you structure that.
Hi Lisa! First of all you look gorgeous, and second loved the message and when you said you were more grateful when you were on a budget.😊🥰💘
Hey Lisa! Great advice and I remember your Friday hauls way back when! I looked forward to them every week (and still do!). I think the decaying of our society has so much to do with mothers having to work outside of the home. I’m not saying working moms are a bad thing, but that two incomes have been necessary to live and provide for a family requiring women who would rather stay home having to get a job. Anyway, have a great weekend!!
You have given me so many meaningful thoughts to ponder. I love make up, but you bring up so many different ideas for me. I love learning from you. ❤️❤️
I absolutely love watching you. I’ve just discovered you and so happy that I did. I’m also from the south 😀. You have said so many things that resonates with me. Thank you for making the videos and I can’t wait for the next one.
I love how you said "things were more meaningful back then" - isn't that the truth!! I love your relationship with John and the respect you have. My question is, how are things with John being retired. Is he around "too much" or do you both do your own thing? Much love to you Lisa. ❤ Elle PS - I love that you still do drugstore or reasonably priced things as well.
I love your videos! Thank you for sharing yourself so fully with us. I would love to see a video on your weekly routines. It seems like you must have good systems in place to keep your home in balance. I have a vision of maintaining a peaceful home that is clean and welcoming, but with two toddlers, two dogs, and both of us working, we’re always playing catch up. Would really appreciate learning from you on how you’ve been able to create and maintain such a peaceful aura and home for your family.
I understand. I am not from the south (I grew up in San Francisco area) but I grew up with the exact same values and had the same goals for my life. Went to college, had an amazing career but nothing matched being a wife/mom/daughter stayed home with my girls etc. LOVE YOU LISA, don't ever stop telling your story. XOXOX
I don’t think anyone in todays society encourages their daughters to not have a career and be able to support themselves. Woman need to be independent and not get married to have someone control them. Marriage is 50/50 … raising kids is 50/50. Just because he may bring in the paycheck and she may decide to stay home and raise kids doesn’t mean he controls your spending. A stay at home mom should get paid… and do with her portion what she wants🤷♀️ I always hated seeing my mom feel guilty spending money on herself because my dad worked outside the house and she stayed home to raise her 3 kids. Was her hard work worth nothing 🤔🤷♀️ just saying 😊
Omg, I 100% agree with every word you said.
And we all, when children are a 24hr job! God bless good parents who both know this and love their children!
I see your point and I do not necessarily disagree; however keep in mind that there is not just one way of doing things and if someone else's life style/values are different does not mean they are wrong. We all should be able to do what we know or feel is right for us. " you do not play basketball by football rules". I cannot live my life by your values (generally speaking).
I truly enjoy these types of videos, so informative and fun to watch! I would love to hear more about your life when you were married to your first husband and how you overcame all the challenges you faced. You are a great story teller and very inspiring to us all! I also love hearing about your life when your kids were young how you managed your budget. Thanks again for doing these videos!
It can be done…finding someone that meets YOUR criteria never settle for less and honestly how they treat their mothers and their family their work ethic and their beliefs those are the usually the qualities you can see right up front don’t fall into a trap of thinking you can change them or you can settle…trust your instincts they are usually right! I believe there is someone for everyone and I firmly agree with Lisa just be up front from the get go of what kind of future you want if you are not on the same page then you are doing yourself a major favor by moving on! I ordered the sandals and I love them too!! 🖤🥰
Love you for being yourself!!! ❤. I’m a Southern girl too. I’m 55 and have an empty nest. Thanks for keeping me in style.
I was a stay at home mom in my first marriage and shared a vehicle with my husband. I still had my BS in Biology and knew that I could go out in my own and earn myself a living and do well. My son thrived from me having the opportunity to do so. I think it’s a decision you make with your spouse and you do what you feel is best. I went back to school after my divorce, earned my Masters and began teaching. Met my second husband, and between my son still being in school and my husbands two children being in school, I was more beneficial at being a stay at home mom and homemaker which I happen to love. I don’t regret it, I have a lot of responsibility but my drive, my ability, and education are things that no one can take away from me. Everyone has to do what’s best for them!
I totally relate to this. I have been married 36 years and was a stay home Mom after the birth of my second child. We are a team and look at our leaner years with fondness and gratitude. We still have our financial challenges but with a bigger budget. Just shopped the Nordstrom sale and appreciated every moment and appreciate where we came from and where we are👍. A wonderful journey😀
I think what is so meaningful is that you BOTH KNEW going into the marriage what you wanted. Family, trust, etc. There were no surprises. Also, how refreshing it is to hear that a nurturing, traditional marriage works. Love this video!
Hey Lisa, I love this series idea! I'd love to hear how you managed Lisa time and family time when the kids were growing up. How you budget for a house. What's its like budgeting for different dietary approaches. This was fun! I'm at the next stage of life where I'm planning a family and building a new home at 37yrs. I'm very excited for the next chapter x
Lisa..I love fragrances also..can you tell us your perfumes for the day and how they last..like you show us your outfit of the day?? Oh my goodness..beautiful Chanel..she steals my heart..big time!!❤
Ok so i have a question? How do you and John keep the spark alive after so many years? Ive been married 23 years and every so often we have to make it a point to get away just him and i. Because its starts feeling to routine 😬
The way you have always spoken and carried yourself shows the respect and love thats in your marriage as well as the respect you have for yourself. I could see everything you said just by having followed you in your journey here on youtube. Thanks for sharing because hearing it is also very inspiring.
Thank you so much, Tonya! 🥰 Lisa
GIRL, YOU SUCCEED!!! LOVE LOVE LOVE YOU!!!
I love the replica sets. My favourite is beach walk especially for summer, I love jazz club and by the fireplace for winter. They are unisex, my son wears fireplace. Perfect size for your handbag!
I really appreciate you talking about how important it was to you to be a stay-at-home mom and being willing to sacrifice and do without some things in order to make that possible. Society does not recognize the difference it makes to the children and, I would argue, the marriage. I've really enjoyed when you have shared your personal journey. I hope you continue to do that. So many things in life that are important can't be "hauled". Lol. Happy Friday!
Thank you, Lois! 🥰😘
@@LisaLisaD1 🥰
Beautifully said, and thank you so much for everything you pass on to us!
Hi Lisa, love your videos. I love to see what you have bought, love your style. I also really appreciate your intention with your videos as well as honesty. Thank you for sharing. Also, I believe your ring might be labradorite which always looks best with gold in my opinion.
Wonderful story. Thanks so much for sharing. It’s so important to have respect in a marriage. ❤️
I love the way you do your hair, mine is the same length as yours. Can you do a video on how you do your hair or different styles inbetween washes? Love your videos!
I so agree with what you are saying! I’m 68 and married 43 years with 3 grown children. I always worked at least part time until my children got older. My husband was very frugal and I was not used to that but I had to learn quickly. Over the years we have worked our budget out and compromised! It has not always been easy but now my children are grown and We are both retired and still compromising 🥰
Love love love these kind of videos! They’re quite difficult to find on UA-cam so thank you! 🥰😘 xo
This is why you are one of my favorite youTubers! You have a pure, good soul!! I just love hearing about your family. Btw I have that lip oil as well and I think it looks better on you than me, but I do love it!
Hello Beautiful & Sweet Lisa..I haven’t been on you tube much at all bc since my husband retired last July starting in February his health just spiraled to the point that not only was he in the hospital for almost two months..he hit deaths door three times..so when I get to watch you tube it’s on my Roku TV..I had to get on my laptop, sign on to leave this comment..I always love your fashion, makeup videos but I have always loved the ones about life, marriage, kids and family…I felt like you told my story at the end as well..we will be married 40 years this November 41 all together..He is also 9 years older…my husband was a budget man and I was put on one as well…I worked off and on but I worked only while my son was at school..I attended all of his activities and of course I wanted to follow my mama’s steps bc she stayed home and raised her 3 daughters..so those little fun jobs was my play money..now that we have retired the budget is back into action haha!! Lisa you should do more of these kinds of videos..you are very good with great encouragement for the younger ladies just starting out..now when hubs retired and before his illness took over our lives..I have to say there was a bit of adjustment having him home every day..I had the house to myself with my own schedule for 39 years ..now I absolutely love waking up and having coffee together..great video..hope all is well with you and your family..much love🥰
I love listening to your stories and advice!
Not having a credit card is an amazing thing because it really allows you to stick to a budget and only buy what you can afford. Its the best thing my husband and I ever did. Thanks for your honest thoughts.
Lisa I love this type of video where you share your stories! You look beautiful!😎💖
Yeeeeeeesssss please a young mom video series ❤
I love your relationship advice videos and hearing you share your experiences. I feel like I have so many questions but I don’t even know what I don’t know if that makes sense. As a newly wed, I am just open to watching and listening to any and all topics that you feel called to share. Thank you for sharing your heart!
I just want you to know how much I love being a subscriber and watching your videos and how much I really love you as a human being! It's so strange in a way to feel so connected to someone on youtube but it is a real thing. I have watched you a long, long time and changed along with you too. There is so much love for you, your family and pets and I know we all feel the love back from you, you are that special. I realize no person or family is perfect but you sure are pretty darn close to that and a huge inspiration to me! oxJulia
I love ur new space u have for filming, I would to know what it's like to have ur ur space to do and decorate how u want. My daughter just got married and I turned her bedroom into my beauty room. I love that it's my space, do and decorate how I want in it. I have my coffee and breakfast in there when I'm getting ready for the day, I just love it. Ur space is so beautiful and fun. Love u and ur videos.
I loved this video! Your wise decisions have rewarded you with a beautiful life. Thank you for sharing. Can’t wait for the other videos you talked about creating.♥️
Thanks for sharing. I am 55 and have been a stay at home mom also (my son is 26 and in medical school). Sometimes I feel guilty about not working and contributing to the financial aspect of our family but we have raised an amazing son. I’d like to find a way to supplement my budget now so I can add more to the family. Just not sure what I want to do 🤷🏼♀️ thanks again for the inspiration
Great video. Love watching you and you talk about stuff that makes sense other than fashion and makeup. Love this, Lisa. Especially the last part.
Thank you very much to sharing your haul ,I love the pants and the body suits ,and to sharing your life wait John God bless both of you and your kids .🥰
Fun to Earn...I remember that feeling of getting a job when I was younger (I still work at 55), but what a great feeling that always was for me. I'm not sure if the majority of people young and not so young, have any of those same feelings I had just having a job and being independent. I never asked my parents or my husband for any money. NEVER. If I couldn't earn it or pay for things myself, I just did without them.
Lisa, did you tell us if you found out what drinking Diet Coke does, if anything, to your test results? I’m almost a year on keto thanks to you and I, too, enjoy a Diet Coke daily.
Love hearing your thoughts. I’m southern too and agree with your values.❤️
You totally need to write a book! Always honest and inspiring. Love ya, Lisa xo
UA-cam definitely changed everyone’s spending habits, before UA-cam I never cared or even noticed expensive bags and shoes on other people. I’m 41 now but I didn’t buy my first “high end” makeup until I was 23 and it was only a couple of items and that was it, I only had a small makeup bag and that was everything. We also didn’t have sephora back then either.
Now I have a whole clothing drawer of makeup and a whole drawer of perfumes too
Lisa you look really pretty with your hair up it gives your face a lift! :)
Great video and you just exude joy! Loved the story about budgeting. I’ve been both a stay at home and working outside the home mom. My kids are adults now but I remember when I stayed at home, my husband and I really had to budget on his income. We talk about how that was some of our happiest memories because we really worked together and found joy in the small things. Our splurge was to take the kids to the mall on a Saturday and eat in the food court lol! I liked how you interspersed a topic like this along with your Friday haul. Looking forward to the next one.
Always love your life chats!
Thank you for being so open about this, it's something I've wondered about since I started watching you a long time ago (and maybe missed a video where you've touched on it) but I really just assumed John handed you money every week to shop. Even if he did, that's fine but I respect you a lot more knowing you earn your own money for such luxury items purchased so often. Even though I would never spend the money on these items (I would rather have luxury items in my barn haha) I still love watching your excitement when you get them. Love the jeans!!
Lisa, great topic. You’ve got it all in the very best most kind and humble way. How does it feel to be so beautiful! :)
You really are teaching the girls how to have it all. Nice work you do here on this platform.
Lisa, you have been my favorite youtuber for years and years, I just don't comment much. Your down to earth-ness, calming voice, sincerity and relatibility are all reasons why! I do have a question as I'm in business for myself and have always wondered, because you tube is your job, do you get to write off the things you buy on your taxes? I have just always wondered that (and this is in no disrespectful At All because you are doing this for us and it is indeed a job!!) Thank you for all your content, it All inspires me. 💞
You are the sweetest and most down to earth lady ever. Love you
Love all your advice and words of wisdom. You are a beauty blogger , mum , wife and you communicate so well with us about your life and loves. You make me feel like you are talking just to me and we are best friends .
I completely understand about the tobacco thing Lisa my grandpa always smoke a pipe and he always had cherry vanilla so when I smell anything that reminds me of that it brings back the best warm feelings
Hey Lisa, the lip oil looks like it could be the shade rosewood. All the shades have cherry oil in it, maybe that’s what confused you. The shade cherry is more rosy red similar to the Clarins lip oil in strawberry ☺️
Aw I appreciate you saying “you could be personal, but please be respectful” and I appreciate you for opening up to us about other aspects of your life - the budgeting, the shopping. Because in actuality, these are things we actually go through
Hi Lisa! Loved this video. I can’t wait for all the coming videos, on the topics you shared! Love ya, Cindy 💗🌻
Lisa Tobacco scents are my favourite, I love all 3 of those Replica scents so much. I would love to know if you have any other suggestions, my absolute favourite was MAC Velvet Teddy but we can’t get it in Australia anymore. Lots of love xx
I bought Jazz club for my husband, I love it on him! My dad smoked camels too and goodness, yes I remember buying my first Chi flat iron for $100.00 at Trade Secret in the mall too.
Replica is such a great brand. I bought Autumn Vibes last year and someone always commented on it, it’s so good. Under the Lemon Trees and Lazy Sunday Morning are incredible too. Great video as always, have a good weekend!💕
Lisa, I still don't understand why people do not get that this is your job and if you love the items you get, then that is a bonus. Just very odd to me that you have to explain that over and over. You aren't the only influencer - blogger who faces that personal question. I have seen a few answering the same thing. Anyway, I would like to know what it is like to live by the ocean. That was always my dream but I have always been stuck inland. While growing up it was in Colorado which is an absolutely beautiful state. Now I am stuck in NY. I won't go into the many reasons whyI hate it here but I married someone who was born here and so it was my choice to do my best to try to like where I live. It hasn't been easy but after years I realized it isn't that important. Family and loved ones are. Have a great weekend!
I love your hair pulled back off of your face best - it's just so flattering on you.
Thank you!! 🥰😘
I really enjoyed this video so much, thank you. Love everything you said and who you are. Wonderful inspiration.☺️❤️
I also love tobacco scents & I think Replica does them the best. My favorite scent from them has been discontinued, I believe. It’s called Whispers in the Library. SO good. Dossier has a good dupe of the By the Fireplace.
Thank you very much Lisa for your story the truth is a matter of being patient and remembering that everything takes time!!
The Dior lip oil looks very similar to the Fenty Cherry lip oil. Have you tried that one? Love your hair by the way! 💕
Yes, and yes! It is, I think I like the scent of the DIOR a little better--but both are winners 🥰🍒Lisa
I'd love for you to talk about what it takes to run a business (You Tube) I have zero clue, and I'm really interested. And even beyond that, working with brands and how that all works and how you manage all of that. I think the average viewer (me) has zero clue what it takes and all that is involved. :)
I LOVE Jazz Club 🎷 it’s one of my favorites
Looking forward to your budgeting video!😊
You look gorgeous Lisa. Your make up, hair and beautiful earrings 💜
Lisa you are seriously so inspiring. I’m 53-year-old married woman, definitely don’t have the relationship you have but I sure hope that my three children will have those kind of marriages. I love listening to you I think you are a fabulous role model for every age, including myself I aspire to be like you. Your kindness is just otherworldly. I love this video and all of your other videos! Maybe your next venture could be writing a book, like an autobiography or something, I know I would be the first one buying it! Thank you for giving me a reason to come on here see all the good that you give! ❌⭕️❌Trina
I just turned 62, was divorced at age 58 after 21 yrs of marriage to a man who never respected me, who was emotionally & verbally abusive towards me, ridiculed me, etc. It was such a terrible, roller coaster marriage with crazy up and down emotions all the time, although for the last 5-6 years of my marriage I was more miserable than anything else - just incredibly sad, so sad right down to my core, devastated, emotionally raw and wounded after 2 decades of marriage to a man who chose to withhold any and all affection as a way of hurting and punishing me. I was lacking any self-confidence and afraid and worried for my future. Obviously my unhappy marriage was the complete opposite of what Lisa’s is and has been, the absolute polar opposite. But I am blessed to have two beautiful kids (well, young adults now at 21 & 23), and like you, the marriage that Lisa describes having is what I pray for/desperately long for *for my kids*. A long, happy, successful marriage is just not in the cards for me personally - sadly, that dream has passed me by. But I pray so hard that my kids are able to find it for themselves, and I fervently pray this same prayer every single night of my life. Sad thing is, my two kids certainly have a disadvantage already in that area, as they grew up witnessing such a poor marriage …but I hope and pray that God will reward them after they were forced to grow up inside & witness firsthand such a miserable marriage … and I hope and pray he has a beautiful one awaiting each of them ..🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you so much!! 😘 Lisa
@@kimberlybellefontaine1215 I really feel with you and understand the loneliness… you are still young. Remember.. this is Lisa’s second marriage… some try a few before it’s good … and no marriage is perfect….. just saying 🤔😊❤️
@@susanbilawchuk1192 thank you very much for your kind words❤️. And yes, by age 62, I think I realize just as there are certainly no perfect people, there are no perfect marriages. But I was never wanting or looking for “perfect.” I just longed for healthy, respectful, and not abusive. If I were in my 30’s when I divorced, or even in my 40’s, I’d probably still hold out hope for someday .. ….but now at my age (when things on my body are already starting to fail me!🫤), I believe that ship has likely sailed for me already. Like I said, my hope now rests with my kids …that their marriages may be strong, healthy, respectful & loving🙏🏼
@@kimberlybellefontaine1215 Hi.. me again 😊 I also have 2 boys 16 & 18 yrs old and of course wish them happy lives. However… I’m 55 .. recently lost 60 lbs . ( just wanted to get healthy) went back to a good job and if my husband left tomorrow I would not say goodbye to any relationship that came my way . Take care of yourself and you’d be amazed at what might come your way ❤️❤️
Have a nice day !! 🙏
Please share your closet. Would love to see how you organize everything. Thanks!1
I am wondering if the lip oil shade was the Berry or Raspberry Dior as they look brighter... because on the side of the packaging on all the shades it says "Cherry Oil" do you think the person that told you the name was cherry, may have just read the outside of the packaging and saw cherry?
That could be it! Maybe I will try another! Thank you! 🥰😘
Loved your honesty and confidence in the woman you are in these times.
Great video. Good for you that you can buy the things you want. I have a question. I noticed that you buy lots of pairs of jeans (not that it's bad). It's too hot down here in Florida to wear jeans in the summer. Do you keep all of them or do you sell any of them on Poshmark or donate them? Thanks. Your hair looks pretty back like that.
Thank you so much for today’s super sweet video, and sharing with us. Today your eyes twinkled and your truth was apparent. You are kindness personified. Kudos and thanks again.❤️
Hi Lisa, I was so inspired by your mother/daughter shopping trip to Nordstrom that I wanted to do a little shopping right away but because I don't have the Nordstrom credit card I had to wait until the 14th. As soon as the 14th hit, I jumped online and scored a few things I am excited about! I too was a stay-at-home mom and I loved it! We have been empty nesters for awhile now and like you mentioned it does allow for a little disposable income to enjoy. I look forward to your videos! You are such a beauty and an inspiration!
Thank you Sooooo much for sharing this! Love you xo
I am not this type of woman!
I am very Independent and not the needy type")I control myself and everything I purchase for myself...
It came from me(my own money)!
I can't relate to laziness,and needing a man to support my needs!
Your husband must be in the poor house lisa!
Love you're lip comb so much! I watch every single video and this is the best!
Priorities priorities priorities...delayed gratification 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼♥️
Lisa may you always be blessed.
I loveeeeee those jeans on you!! Esp with those shoes! They’re a good combo! Xox
Good morning Lisa, I very much enjoyed this video. I also have to budget and balance my life. You are very blessed to have a supportive husband, and able to to do what you do. 💕💕💕☀️🇺🇸🇨🇦☀️💕💕💕
I agree with everything you said , I was also lucky enough also to stay home and raise my three sons , but in todays society unfortunately everyone has to work to pay the bills today it’s a luxury to be a stay at home mom , today you need both salaries just to survive .
The prices of homes here on the north shore of Long Island is insane not to mention our taxes , highest in the country beside California
Things today are just not the same as it was 20 yrs ago …
Even though I know you like your pinks, this color looks phenomenal on you this is actually a pretty color for your tan skin
Thank you!! 🥰
I’m a new subscriber and I’m so happy I came across your channel. 💖
Happy Friday Lisa! 💗💗💗