Alhamdulillah this was incredibly helpful. May Allah shower His mercy onto both your families. And big shout out to Mom and Dad for raising two mature sons.
The issues of in-laws are determined by the strength of the couple to be together in their decisions and understanding. If one sways against their spouse towards one's family, issues will arise.
Just want to say thank you for making this video and speaking on this topic, I definitely feel this topic is one that isn’t discussed enough from the perspective of the son and husband and is one I battle myself personally. Inshallah the situation improves but thank you again for making this video!
Each family is different. Joint family will work for some people and not others. It will depend on the personality of all parties. Definitely, the daughter in law shouldn’t be expected to serve everyone in the house. There should be healthy boundaries.
I'd never. It doesn't allow you as a couple to have true intimacy. And in laws are in your business. He could stay there and visit me. While providing my maintenance. No adult woman is so lonely she needs her in laws home during the work day. It causes too many issues. Not just the desi community I'm black and I've witnessed it in my own community.
Am I the only male muslim who lives with his inlaws in the last 8 years ?? I moved from Montréal to Toronto and I have too many mis understandings and I feel I am always put on a showcase if I do something wrong I am looked as a villain but everyone gets a pass
Main issue is husband spending too much on gifts for siblings and hiding money from wife . Want wife to work and pay her and kids expenses so HUBAND doesn't want to pay .
My wife and I couldn't afford to buy a house and my inlaws couldn't afford to live on their own. I have to put up alot i am so ashamed muslim husband living with the wife's family this sucks! Please tell me I am not the only one who is living with the inlaws as muslim male ?? Am I alone in this?
You are definitely not alone in this. It's not a matter to be ashamed of. Just a point of reflection and to highlight that additional communication and understanding are needed between husband and wife when you live with in-laws.
Alhamdulillah this was incredibly helpful. May Allah shower His mercy onto both your families. And big shout out to Mom and Dad for raising two mature sons.
Ameen!
Awesome stuff, please keep these videos coming! These topics are so important and not talked about enough. May Allah reward you guys!
Ameen! Jzk.
The issues of in-laws are determined by the strength of the couple to be together in their decisions and understanding. If one sways against their spouse towards one's family, issues will arise.
For sure.
This is spot on
Just want to say thank you for making this video and speaking on this topic, I definitely feel this topic is one that isn’t discussed enough from the perspective of the son and husband and is one I battle myself personally. Inshallah the situation improves but thank you again for making this video!
Jzk bro!
May Allah Accept your works, and make it a means of acceptance and Guidance for the Ummah!
Ameen!
In-laws outlaws!
Each family is different. Joint family will work for some people and not others. It will depend on the personality of all parties. Definitely, the daughter in law shouldn’t be expected to serve everyone in the house. There should be healthy boundaries.
جزاک اللہ خیرا
Wa iyyakum
I'd never. It doesn't allow you as a couple to have true intimacy. And in laws are in your business. He could stay there and visit me. While providing my maintenance. No adult woman is so lonely she needs her in laws home during the work day. It causes too many issues. Not just the desi community I'm black and I've witnessed it in my own community.
Am I the only male muslim who lives with his inlaws in the last 8 years ?? I moved from Montréal to Toronto and I have too many mis understandings and I feel I am always put on a showcase if I do something wrong I am looked as a villain but everyone gets a pass
Main issue is husband spending too much on gifts for siblings and hiding money from wife . Want wife to work and pay her and kids expenses so HUBAND doesn't want to pay .
Same issue with me 😢
My wife and I couldn't afford to buy a house and my inlaws couldn't afford to live on their own. I have to put up alot i am so ashamed muslim husband living with the wife's family this sucks! Please tell me I am not the only one who is living with the inlaws as muslim male ?? Am I alone in this?
You are definitely not alone in this. It's not a matter to be ashamed of. Just a point of reflection and to highlight that additional communication and understanding are needed between husband and wife when you live with in-laws.
May allah bless you
Ameen!