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Betrayal Comes From Those You Least Expect | Episode 27 | Give It To Me Straight Podcast
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- Опубліковано 7 сер 2024
- Is it ever OK to keep secrets from your partner? Can you leave out specific details and still be telling the truth? In this episode, Jon and Alex get into topics about dealing with your family inviting your ex fiancé to family events, a husband who pleasures himself for hours a day, the reality of emotional cheating, ignoring your husband’s red flags, and a workplace secret that could shatter marriages and friendships.
(0:00) Intro
(12:26) What is your post-sex routine?
(14:47) Is it OK to tell a total stranger they’ve got boogers in their nose?
(16:19) Yes, you’re the asshole
(18:39) Should your family be inviting your ex fiancé to family events?
(21:47) Your husband’s boss is cheating and the wife is your best friend, what do you do?
(28:14) My husbands plays with himself more than he plays with me
(34:24) Do you consider emotional cheating betrayal?
(37:14) I swear I’m only on Tinder to boost my low self-esteem
(41:31) The truth about adoption can change a family’s dynamic
(44:14) I think I have another sibling my dad never told me about
(47:37) If you’re committed to someone, stay out of the DMs
(52:51) Icks
(55:12) Listener Review
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They both woke up and chose violence. 😂
Exactly.
I was just thinking the same hahhahaha😂
Is it even a real relationship if you aren’t arguing about everything?!
It’s not a fairytale… it’s literally finding that one person you WANT to fight with for the rest of your life…
Love y’all!!!
Exactly
I love this comment!!!!
Nah too many arguments is too many arguments.
Anyone who doesn't agree isn't married lol.
@@Apolinariahdepends what it is though
“This is not a safe space” lol I love you guys so much
This belongs on a t shirt 😂
“ “ I’m John, this is Alex and we hate each other right now “ “ 🤣🤣
“I chipped my tooth” you didn’t chip your tooth John. Your bonding fell out” 🤣
True compassion 😂😂😂
timestamp: 18:58 - the family forcing the brother to be around his Ex after she ended their engagement is because the ex wants him back and is using his family to help her. This is unbelievably disrespectful, and their loyalty is misplaced.
It looks like that family is trying to sabotage a future relationship.
Lmao right into a second take bc the first one “we were fighting” … this take: proceeds to fight 😂😂😂
Men 😊
😂😂😅😅
Honestly, if my partner would ask me to stay quiet about my friend's husband cheating on her, I would definitely question my life choices and how I ended up with a man thinking like that. I wonder how he would act if it was his friend's wife cheating. I'm kind of disgusted ny sich a behaviour
I love how ridiculously normal you guys are. So refreshing and very entertaining!
Coming from a woman with kids who questioned staying in a bad marriage for my kids… Kids are NEVER an excuse to stay in a toxic, unhealthy, unfulfilling or unloving relationship. NEVER. You guys are absolutely right about that. If anything, having kids should be your excuse to leave faster. All you are doing is setting them up for failure in their own future relationships by showing them that being in that bad relationship is okay or “normal”. Absolutely fucking not. Leave as fast as you can. Of course if there is hope and love and trust and respect, fight forever. But most of the time you guys tell people to leave, those core factors are already missing. Keep on preaching!!
You two starting the pod fighting right out the gate is the most hilarious and relatable shit I have ever seen! My wife and I are best friends but if I worked with her everyday then started a pod after a long day I have to imagine this is what it would look like. So fun to watch and it makes me happy to see you guys show what a real relationship looks like and how you still can make each other laugh hard through the love beef! Keep it going!
Three hours is NOT an exaggeration unfortunately. My ex has a porn addiction and I could have swore I typed this message myself. Word for word. I lived it for years. And DENY DENY DENY is all you get. And yeah “how does he have any skin left” what’s one of the nastiest parts about this, is dude would come back with SCABS on his shit… then occasionally try to have sex with me and I’d be like uh no that shits scabbed up and I’m not touching it nor is it going inside me! AND HE WOULD DENY THE SCABBS! Saying it was just dry or some bullshit.
I would tell him he has a porn addiction and it’s made his threshold lower and that’s why our sex was less than and often he would go soft while having sex with me.
Dude, talk about a shit show of emotional abuse and just all the things…. It’s so sad and it happens more often than not.
you made some really good points I dont think many people are comfortable saying... porn addicts do have trouble staying hard for actual physical intimacy because the real thing is nothing like the fantasy from the provocative camera angles, with the waxed and beautiful people in their best lighting... so they can lose interest in actual sex with their actual partner. Even reach a place where they resent or are no longer attracted to their real partner because they don't live up to the fantasy. I know mine couldn't be intimate with me for months on end, (also told me it was dry skin when I finally said something because I was more concerned than I was eager to finally be included) and at some point I gave up trying, until I caught him being intimate with a coworker dispelling the illusion that he had performance anxiety and realizing it was never about that, it was about the fantasy, about attaining the unattainable, and once he ended the affair, he treated me like garbage for 2 years (even refused to wear his wedding ring) while proposing putting me on reddit as a porn star (I refused) and asking for more and more demeaning intimate acts to "make him happy" by humiliating me. Theres a lot wrong to unpack there, but it started with porn addiction.
Kept seeing the reels on Facebook and was hooked! Thanks guys for keeping it real!
Even though this made me feel like I was in the backseat of the car with my friend while the parents fight, thank you for keeping the back and forth in 😂 my husband and I get in those moods sometimes but love each other to bits. Glad we’re not alone
"You look like that stupid cartoon character today!" I literally laughed so hard at that! Thanks for bringing some laughter to my life today, the past week has been crazy for my family, so I needed this.
I found y’all on tik tok and I cannot believe I was just watching pieces of these podcast episodes! finally subscribed and I love yall 😂🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Yay glad you found us!!!
Omg same ! Found on the Facebook reels 🤣
Alex, you make sense. John, you make SOOOO much sense. Loving these
Hahaha love how Jon is done with all the crap partners 😂 Most questions are so dumb. 😂
Omg I just watched all your videos in less Han a week. Love the vibes. Alex and John you ground each other and I love it.
I literally yell, "YES! Thank you!!" to all of your responses about cheating. I'm glad to hear you guys agree with me! lol Also, I love this. I'm sad I just found these podcasts! I have a lot to catch up on!!
Seriously A D D I C T E D to these podcasts! Never stop please 😅
Thank you!!!!
as a divorce child yeah it is very traumatizing and does affect me as an adult so i appreciate you alex for pointing that out, if you’re unhappy in your relationship LEAVE. love you guys so much
23:00 & 39:00 tell someone theyre being cheated on as soon as you know they are - IT COULD SAVE THEIR LIFE. Diseases are forever. the kids coming from a broken home is not the wifes fault when the husband is cheating.... the wife deserves to know the risk he's putting her in when he's sleeping around. Also many of us grow up with bad examples of relationships from parents who refuse to let go despite the toxic pairing - and many of us (me too) end up in the same place because its what we were shown and don't realize is bad for us until its too late.
Red flag the husband that has said for their wife to keep quiet
He's condoning it and that is high key a worry to his inner moral compass too
If I was the wife no matter the difficulties I'd be loyal to my bestie and the kids no questions
I appreciate children are involved but hurt now and heal sooner
Yes it would suck but it shouldn't be any guilt apart from the man and mistress
This person deserves a best friend not another alliance member
Tell her!
In the long run she'll forgive you
I wish them the best
“Hurt now and heal sooner” I like this phrase
2 separate, happy households are better than 1 broken one.
Omg you guys are hilarious. Love watching while I get my workout in!
I didn't know you guys made these videos. Definitely gonna start watching!
40:50 Coming from living inside a broken home, I would have much rather been from a broken home rather than lived inside a broken home. You feel the turmoil between your parents when they no longer want to be together. A lot of my childhood trauma stems from living inside of that turmoil and my parents unhappiness.
Do not stay together for your children. It’s not healthy for anyone inside the home.
Thank you for your insight, that makes alot of sense
Geez I actually listened to the whole thing and enjoyed it 😊 just to be clear it’s the first one I’ve watched
I fought longer for a marriage I should’ve left long ago. Even if it’s the spouse that has the problem - and for some reason working with a mediator isn’t happening or they’re not going - Go YOURSELF.
Facing a person that you’ve trusted and loved that has wronged you so much, it can be hard to know when to forgive, where/how/what boundary lines to draw..I wish so bad I would’ve gone to a therapist sooner to talk things through and navigating when or if to let go of someone you loved and believed in.
Partner goals. Need a Jon in my life
Holy shit Jon that fade is fresh
Excited for your short film!!!
If you are looking for something to do, then I highly recommended volunteering as a fire fighter or EMT. My husband does it and gives him a great community with a commitment outside of the home. I am so proud of how he gives back to our community.
Alex during the ad reading has me screaming 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You can always share custody with the partner when it comes to kids. You don't have to be bound to a sleezy partner for that. The kids get their other parent and you get peace of mind.
Maybe it’s time to do another episode in one week. So two per week? We’re all here for it!
I’m laughing so hard and it’s still only the intro “Alex, say something…good” “should we start with our icks!?”
Hopped in over from IG to hear the last question and also did not expect that twist! Lol! Wonder if my previous partner ever asked that but no more. The one message I did find was enough among other things.
🎉❤❤👏👏 yay!! LOVE THIS COUPLE!! Look forward to every episode!!! Yes!!
Thank you!!! ❤
I felt like i was interrupting something at the begining lmaooo love this!
😂😂😂
Love you guys!!! Hate each other all you want 😂 keep it real
I have to agree with Jon, the older son should have a say on what is/isn't shared from his personal life. Depending age, but if he is 10 or more he should have a say.
Minute 48 Jons face 😂😂😂 I’m behind on the podcast so this question was the fckn best. I love you guys!!!!
Each session is therapeutic for them lol 😂
This is not a safe safe makes me feel safe 😂 I love you guys
I love you guys and it’s only been 15 seconds of listening for the first time 💀
I love yalls honesty. Jon’s intolerance for cheating and whining is fricking amazing 😂😂👏👏
we fuggin love you guys
Watching you argue feels so relatable 😂
I'm addicted to this podcast! Also, I would love my future husband to be like Jon, but man, I would love to be more like Alex!
28:16 I keeled over at this 🤣
I agree with Alex; family secrets will come out eventually & need to be addressed in a normal way so everyone can accept it.
#support you guys are awesome (:
the story of the husband that was on Tinder w/in months of marriage is lame - then to be caught (obviously) hiding not only being on dating app but being on more than one - how sad for the wife and kids - why can't people take marriage seriously - the excuse of feeling insecure is lame - talk to your wife & partner and at least let her help you - going out to of your marriage to "get confidence" is weak!
Sorry harsh answers but I have no patience for people who purposely go out and cheat especially in marriage
Every time Jon says ‘Fck that guy’ I’m over here like “YEA PUT HIM IN THE TRASH”
Woo hooo it’s TUESDAY!!!!!!
Let’s gooooooooo ❤
Jon! You should start up golf! My boyfriend (in his 30s) started golfing four months ago and he loves it!! It’s not as hard on your body but just enough… it’s competitive, you can make new friends, it’s relaxing, the golf course views are nice! Just a suggestion :)
You guys should check out your local bowling alleys. They usually have leagues for all kinds of sports. Especially volleyball haha
As the kids would say Jon is capin’ . There is no way he doesn’t know at least one Taylor Swift song. Jon is the type of dude that uses the phrase I’m too cool for school.😂😂😂
Haha exactly
I know Jon gets so mad over some of these questions but his reactions crack me up! Please don’t ever stop 😂 Also, thanks for being so raw, Alex is literally my spirit animal 😂
Can’t. Get. Enough.
I laughed so hard when listening to Jon talk about the masturbation story. 😂😂😂
🎉🎉🎉 happy Tuesday! 🎉🎉🎉
Same to you!
For the 1st question. If him being on his phone bothers you, talk to him. I know how that could make us as women feel used. My husband and i literally right after sex just sit there (him still on top) & just hug and carress one another, tell eachother we love you and we do that for about 5 minutes then we get up to clean off then lay down together, watch a show and doze off. Or you could always cuddle up on his chest and watch what he's watching on his phone.
You guys need to make a tshirt that says "they for the streets" or something 😂
Jumped on here to let you know that not all healthy couples fight. My bf (48M) (of 5yrs) and I (36F) do not fight, we have disagreements or discussions but we do not fight, no yelling 😅 Recently, one of my aunts (53f) told us “how boring” because we told her about us not fighting. We might be boring to other’s eyes but that’s the way we like it. Drama free!! We both had traumatic past relationships. 🤷🏻♀️ Anyway, you’re both funny, love the dynamic. Love your reels! 😂 they’re hilarious!
Kinda sounds like your scared to loudly disagree and that doesn’t necessarily mean your relationship is healthy, just like arguing isn’t always healthy in some relationships. For some of us we feel comfortable with our partners to be vulnerable in ways that might not make sense and let them see a side of us we would never show the rest of the world, because with that one person you feel safe enough to let go of all the walls we surround ourselves with when dealing with everyone else.
Jon, my husband and son do kickboxing and Jujutsu for an outlet, exercise and a community. Try that!
hahahaha Jon hahaha being passive... us dudes just got it figured out.
I feel John when he talks about the Taylor Swift concert, I mean get over it all of you!!! My sister went for it and she kept calling me even though I do not like Taylor Swift songs, except for like love story and wildest dreams
If it makes you feel better, my husband is insalted when I won’t eat the olives he feed me 😂
My cousin had a baby w an abuser, whom she left, and got back w her amazing angel ex bf, whom she married. Angel man adopted her son around 2yrs old. Abusive ex signed away rights and eventually was put in jail for some reason or another. Fast forward. Angel husband becomes real angel when he lost his battle with cancer. The child is now in high school, and has two half bros, but does not know he was adopted and has a different bio dad. Fast forward a couple more years. Child is now in college. Gets contacted by a half sibling asking to meet up. She had apparently gotten a list of siblings she had from abusive ex/bio dad, which included my second cousin. That’s how he learned that his angel father, who he was still mourning, wasn’t his real bio dad. That his real sperm donor was a pos who beat on his mom, including while pregnant, and was incarcerated for a long time, and oh yeah, he’s got like 10 half siblings. It was not good. 😳
Jon, I'm so concerned about my ankles. Let me know what you decide
I've never watched or listened before, but I'm 10 and a half minutes in, and I'm with Jon...I couldn't care less about a Taylor Swift concert...but I'm sure a lot of TS fans wouldn't hit up my ideal concert. :)
Have you checked if there’s a rowing club near you, usually a good community and easy on the joints plus it’s cheaper than a country club lol
“But he’s admitting that he’s attached to her? Wtf? Fuck that guy. You need to marry someone who’s going to be a teammate and a partner.” You guys are great🥹 love this show / channel.
Promoting gambling is really wild
31:00 Is that my ex? lol
21:50 What do you think the end result of you telling her will be? WIll you be there as a support in the aftermath? Are you ready for the blowback? There are some things you have to consider when trying to break unsettling news that will destroy a family. Remember, you are the one that is wielding the secondary axe (her husband is holding the main axe to destroy the relationship). Think before you act.
How do you submit a question?
Email at : hello@giveittomestraightpodcast.com
Making decisions after having kids becomes to impossible
Jon you should try jujitsu
But will I break every bone in my body is the question
Tell your friend anonymously!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I agree 1000% “people are so fu*king stupid “ 🤦♀️
12:05 what the heck is jon doing 😂😭
That guy where the girl wasn’t feeling the same about him sounds like he couldn’t handle the rejection
Real life. 😂
mixed indoor beach volleyball
After watching IG snippets I subscribed. This is awesome. Keep it up 🫶
What about playing pool? Join a pool league?
I'm on her side about feeding her😂
Look into jiu jitsu!!!
Love the content but 14 ads from UA-cam is excessive..
Se llama Mal del Puerco mano
F all the cheaters. All the people who are with the cheaters need to leave them! Kids or no kids, Inc. Leave!
Get into everyday carry edc “knives”
😂😂😂❤❤
Normalize it ! .
At 41:00, I think its more damaging to show your kids to just throw in the towel just because of a thought and taking the easy road. I think that show kids when the road get tough, you just bale. I say not because you got married and decided to make them vows to each other. If not than they fucked up by choosing that person. I think that is the reason now I think there should be some prerequired to getting married or filing for a marriage certificate, like be in a committed relationship for a time period, taking a quiz of the other person, and/or living together for a time. BUT now a days people are just so quick to just jump into a marriage without understand the other person completely or just because they want long term commitment or because they just see the honeymoon faze and not willing to work things out when tried as a couple in the hard times.
Go to church. It's a free country club.
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