Being an African American Female, I feel as if hair is a very important topic. I think that many African Americans ( mostly females ) are ashamed of what grows from their scalp. I used to get perms to straighten it and then I did a big chop. I cried ( Cause the barber did a bad job) I fixed it and I am owning what I have. I think what you did is very inspirational. Keep doing you :)
I have short hair, and at the start of August I'm going even shorter. I used to have long hair, but I decided to cut it when I first started in college. It was kinda like me letting go of the past and becoming a new and better me. Now I'm going even shorter, which I'm so excited about. I know some people who don't think short hair is very feminine. To me, my hair doesn't define my femininity. Femininity isn't something you have. It's something you are. And with that I'm gonna continue rocking my short hair while being feminine, because that's who I am.
I couldn't let go of my hair but like you said it is just hair and that actually changed my mind set and your bucket list really got me to thinking what am i doing with my life I'm only 17 but I'm standing in a bubble always playing it safe and to scared to go crazy things and i regret not taking chances .. you are so strong and shameless indeed , you are a role model
All I can say is WOW. This is so inspiring to me! I have big curly hair as well and I never realized how much women and people in general really rely on their hair. I am so amazed and inspired by this!!! Do you boo!
I have watched your hair buzz videos before (years ago): 5 years to be exact. I am terrified but I think I am finally going to shave my hair. Thank you for being an inspiration for women to be themselves and embrace who they are!
So as a current curly haired woman, it's a lot to deal with, but the time is shortly approaching and I want a change. I have had long hair the majority of my life except when I born. So thanks for the confident boost! I'm do me, because ppl will talk about me anyhow whether I have long or short hair. Be encouraged, God bless.
If I chopped off all my hair, I think it would give me a different outlook on life. I think it shows you that life isn't just about hair.. and I would definitely understand patients who have to go through chemo... but that could happen to anyone. I think you're so inspiring and I feel bad for the guys and girls and society that think HAIR is all that makes someone, someone. You're amazing! and you're def the same person & gorgeous either way! :)
I have an ocd disorder called trichotillomania where I pull out my hair and honestly, it's caused me to feel the most ugly and self-conscious I ever have. However, I'm very grateful that this happened to me because when I used to have thick hair that I was complimented on all the time, I never once felt blessed for it or realized how important to me it was. Recently, I've considered shaving my head to give myself a fresh start and to hopefully overcome this 'illness' once and for all. I'm not sure if I'll cut it off completely or go for a pixie cut since I'm so self-conscious about my weight and how much fatter my face (and body) will look once I have no hair. But, my point is, this video has given me so much strength and support so thank you. I love your hair now and before and I hope more girls, including myself, can one day see themselves as beautiful and worthy no matter what they look like. Thank you so much!!
No, it's not a dumb question. It's hard for people to understand unless they've had this problem. I guess I would say that some hairs hurt but after pulling for a little while, you become kind of numb to it. It's kind of addictive so even though it hurts sometimes, it's difficult to stop.
Mattie C wow... thank you for sharing this. You are the first person that I have seen talk about this disorder... I have been silently struggling with this for years and it has resulted in inflammatory alopecia in the center of my head. I'm coming to reassess my thoughts about my hair values & thinking about doing my second big chop to correct this bad habit once and for all. Sending light & love 💕
I used to have long hair and I shaved it bald 20 years ago. I've never been so confident and felt so beautiful in my life. Actually, alot more people, men and women were attracted to me and perhaps not necessarily because my hair was short but, because I was happier and more confident and people are attracted to that. I think it literally changed my life in many ways. I'll never go back to long hair again. Love your hair. Rock it with confidence. xo
I cut my hair this October.. and like u have always been the known for my long hair and hair in general... i totally agree it so freeing and it pushes u out of ur comfort zone to show a different side of urself.. i have no choice now but to be confident with my hair and who i am!! P.S. just found ur videos and I so luv u!!!
You're an amazing person and I'm happy that I found your channel a year ago. Your experiences and attitude gave me courage. I finally did the Big Chop today!!!! I'm completely natural now!! I understand what you meant by chopping off your and crying. I almost cried today too because I had longer hair when my parents got divorced when I was younger, while I was suicidal, depressed, and just hitting rock bottom. I feel like all that baggage is gone now. I feel free and wonderful and it is all thanks to your messages. I'm was able to completely high school with Associate's Degree and I'm going to college in 4 weeks!!! I just remembered to be Shameless and let go. Thank you so much Maya!!! You're a blessing :)
I just shaved all my hair last week Saturday due to the fact that i suffer these horrible horrible, did i say horrible migraines. Now it's much easier for me cool off in the shower. I didn't wanna but i had to. You inspire me to be shameless. Now I'm doing me boo..... Thank you
Just letting you know that I have not watched your videos for very long and I have already been greatly impacted by you and your words of wisdom. I am 14 years old and have been through so much and I love watching your videos. When my grandma had breast cancer about 4 years ago, I wanted to shave my head with her but she didn't want me to because I was so young and she was afraid of me being teased by my peers at school. Now that I'm a little bit older, I am making the courageous decision of shaving my head...TOMORROW! When I told my family and friends about me wanting to shave my head they didn't think I would actually do it. I've written all the information down to donate my hair to Locks of Love and hopefully I look as great as you after I shave my head. After watching your videos of before, during, and after you shaving your head, I have been inspired and after showing my mom she was kind of on board with me shaving my head and is finally going to let me do it. You are greatly appreciated by, not only me, but by many of your viewers. Please always make videos.
I'm proud of you Maya! I cut my hair off in June and donated it too. And while I immediately and continue to love it, there are days where I question my lack of the most comforting accessory. Thanks for the reassurance. Short locks are lovely locks!
Maya! You are my new role model, never in my life have i wanted to emulate anyone.. but after watching this i am blown away by your eloquence, confidence, intelligence, wisdom, beauty, down to earth and general fierceness!
I feel like this is a inspiration video because I'm 17 years old and I want to cut or shave my hair again . I keep asking my mom for a thousand times and she always said to keep my hair . My mom cuts her hair like a month ago and I keep asking to myself "why can't I just cut my hair? I'm getting older but why?" Even it costs that much to get my hair cut and its pretty hard to take care of it . Even I'm a lazy one lol. I want to for reason is that women who has lupus , cancer , others that cause hair loss , I had autism , i 've been going so much (past relationships , bullying , family , self esteem , sexually harassed) And its not fair to any women that who don't have hair. Even I had kinky curly hair I'm still not this girl. Hopefully this summer I REALLY want to cut my hair. And I dont care if people are in shocked . I just think long hair ain't my style no more. I prefer to have short curly hair (twa) again so I can be free and be myself again but yea. This is very inspiring and you're my only inspirition ever in my life. Always Love , Philysha
Your spirit and character is simply Beautiful. My Grandma (RIP) always said "your hair is your strength and holds so much power"....I didn't always realize that concept but when I went natural I did because it is such a spiritual journey. Continued Blessings!
I agree with the opinion that hair is important. But how important is too important? Sometimes I feel like my hair has way too much influence on my confidence. If my hair isn't looking so good one day my confidence probably isn't doing so good either. That's not how things should be but that's how it is!
Maya. I watched your video of you shaving your head and I cried. I thought it was amazing and I actually shaved my hair off three weeks ago and donated it. I felt so liberated and I love it. I feel like I have much more confidence in myself. I'm more outgoing, I'm more creative and expressive. I wear things I would t ordinarily wear. I just love myself more now. I don't know if I'll grow my hair out anytime soon but I want to thank you sincerely for being an inspiration and being so genuine :)
I have been wanting to shave my hair for a year now. I have Alopecia areata . I have for years just covered it up with the rest of my hair. However all the dye and straightening just made it worse. I want to shave it all off but I am scared of what people will think. I'm 18. I could just go to the hair salon tomorrow and tell them to shave it but my mom would be so mad. I have not told her I want to shave it.
Do you darling, I big chopped to my hair that ended up being a 1/2 inch long. and I'm 16 it makes you feel so free and you'll feel so beautiful. Haters gonna always hate, just remember its not what they want, it's what you want.
This is an old video, but I just saw this. All 3 of these videos (before, during, and this one) put me into tears. This is empowering. Thank you for being so strong and being an amazing role model to all women. You are beautiful and an inspiration. When I am afraid, I will remember you and walk into whatever I am facing brave and proud.
hey i know many different people have told you this already but your beautifl and deffinatley inspirationat to alot of womens and girls you have inspired me not to shave my head recentley lost alot of hair due to a haircut but you inspire people to love themselves no matter what and i absolutley love thay deffiantley subcribing and telling/sharing your inspiring channel
Shameless Maya I watched one of your videos last year and at that time decided to move on to the next I don't know why because I watched a couple of your videos last week and I fell head over heels for you. I love your personality, your fearlessness and spunk! I cannot get enough of your videos I swear. You remind me of how I use to be in my 20's and 30's. Now I'm 40 I have become the scared lady under the covers lmbo. You've inspired me to get up and do something I don't know yet but I am getting the pen and paper out. Thanks for the encouragement!!!!!
I love your vids! I just turned 40 on September 9 and I shaved my head for the 4th time in my life...and I LOVE IT! In the past, it was my decision. This time, it was due to a bad haircut. However, it made me realize that I am 40 and fabulous with or without the hair! Thanks for sharing!
Maya! My names Jessie, & i have always had the desire to cut my hair & donate it to cancer patients, but I never had enough confidence. After watching your videos, seeing your confidence, and how you live your life shamelessly, inspired me greatly. I now have decided i'm shaving all my hair off December 15th and donating it. All because of you, i'm starting a new chapter in my life & living shamelessly. You have made such a positive impact on me and I just want to thank you so much.
I've been considering shaving my head and I have watched a lot of videos of women who have but I really relate to your videos the most and I just wanted to say thank you for that. I think my mom will react the same exact way so it's nice to see another person that says not everyone around me is supportive but I did it anyway. I am not scared of doing it and I am set on doing it but I also don't want to deal with the questions and the stares. So again thank you for being completely real about this a lot of girls just say its very empowering but what if that's not the reason I want to do it, looking at the other sides of all of it is really helpful to me.
i honestly truly loved your hair & was so disappointed that you shaved it...BUT i understand why you did it & you donated it for a good cause. you are very inspirational. such a sweetheart. ❤️
you are one of the most beautiful people i have EVER come across in my life. stunning, inside and out. i respect you not because i respect everyone, but because you inspire me and teach me.
when you answered about "why you was crying during the hair cut "i just started crying so badly holding all that much of pain for years .,you wanna release it but you cant ,.in time when you must stand up and facing the world losing the taste of life when you still young ..you such a strong girl ,thank you sister
i'm so sad to have discovered this channel only now... you're such an inspiration and all the words that you said they're sooo true. I big chopped last year because i wanted to change my lifestyle, and this included how my hair looked like - and all the hidden emotions and frustrations etc it all came out during the process of shaving my hair. seeing your video has made me realise again and made me more aware of the fact that especially we 'curlies' put too much emphasis on our hair. thank you!!
You are so inspirational! I think that having no hair makes you more confident and shows you inner glow. After this video, I feel like I can dye my hair and shave it without fearing people calling me gay and stuff. I love my hair, but honey, it has to change. Thank you so much for telling the world how beautiful you can be even without hair! :)
Having viewed something so personal, I have extraordinary respect for you. Stronger woman than I am and I cannot express how amazing this is to witness.
I love my bald head. I've wanted to cut my hair off for a year now and after watching your video and seeing you embrace the cut and how the lack of hair brought out your beauty, it made me more confident to do it. Letting go of the image of beauty being hair made me love me even more! I am not my hair, my hair does not make me ugly or beautiful. It was a very empowering moment. What's love it's was that people actually embraced the cut better than any hair style I have ever worn.
You look gorgeous with short hair! I'm cutting all of mine off tomorrow to raise money for charity and to support a friend who is about to begin chemotherapy! You're videos, before, during and after, were just what I needed to get a grip on what I'm gonna go through! It's for a cause that's bigger than me and the relationship I have with my hair and a few of your comments have really helped to inspire me! xx
When I was watching your shaving video (second video I watched of yours) I could see in your eyes that you were letting something go and a release of something in your heart was happening and it was such an exhilarating experience to witness. It's good to know my intuitions were spot on. I also wanted to mention the love your dog gave throughout the video. Although an animal, it shows that love is truly unconditional. Even with half shaved and half long hair, it loved you the same as an hour ago
I truly appreciate the courage it took you to shave your head. I honestly think it shows you in a more confident light. Your love for yourself shows. Your beauty shows, your maturation shows, and a more liberated self is evident in your videos. Shine on, girl....shine on!!!✌🏾️
I love in your first video before cutting your hair, you said “I am not my hair and my hair is not me”. I’ve been wanting to shave off all my hair and you just motivated me even more!
I luv Maya, I have been away for awhile, but anyone who can read between the lines knew that when you cut your hair you weren't crying about that. Being from NY as well your very open and its refreshing...Be blessed girl :)
1st of all you are drop dead gorgeous rocking the short hair! And as for me and my hair I have a love hate relationship with it. I want to say that it goes back to my childhood when my siblings and I constantly got picked on, The main theme was head lice, we got it once, picked on forever for it! For reals! So our "mother" shaved all of our heads, brothers and sisters! No hair, no lice. Was her motto. So now despite me preferring shorter hair, I always find me growing it out. Partly because I can't seem to find a hair stylist that knows how to cut the Rachel, had it done right once and I loved it. Never again has it been done right! For shame! Any way peace out, love you and now because of you I don't see myself growing my hair out this time! Thanks and love your way!
Hello i am Ms Pamela from California, and i just wanted to tell you. That i really appreciate this video. I cut my hair years ago because i am, a mother of five. I was really bizzy and constantly being in my hair. Was not working for me i needed a style. That was free, easy to manage, simple and cute. Yet professional, for my creative bizz of craft designing. And for my current career field now as an Esthetician . Some family members didn't like it, but it's my hair i like it and it works for me. If i want long hair later, i can always do the exstension thing. Keep doing inspiring videos and great hair cut. God bless you!
Honestly you look beautiful with the shaved hair. It makes your eyes pop and your smile shine. You look gorgeous girl. Be proud of yourself for taking this bold step. Also isn"t it great to have all the extra time in the morning instead of fiddling with your hair now you can do other things like meditate of go for a walk. congrat's.
Ignore her. I think you're so inspiring and some people just needed closure because they loved your hair. But like you said, you're more than that. You are so beautiful inside and out and you are a huge inspiration for me
I think that this was a bold and brave move that most women won't have taken on their own. It is really inspiring that no one had to tell you that you should shave your head. It has inspired me to shave a section of my head so that my hair flips to one side (a little like Eli Goulding). A lot of people tell me that the way my hair is flipped is on the wrong side, or out of style. It has broken my heart to hear this and will play against the rules. We make our own decisions, for the the enjoyment and pleasure of ourselves. Thank you Shameless Maya for being a women of courage and confidence. You have not only inspired me, but all of your subscribers, and we love you.
Man oh man. I've gone back and forth on cutting my hair EXTREMELY short. I also have the mixed Filipino/Black hair, and to be honest, just watching you has been inspiring to just LIVE. And to live... wait for it...shamelessly. Your camera presence is contagious, just thought I'd let you know. Take care, lady!
I find you as such an inspiration. I'm am cutting all of my hair off tomorrow and I am beyond scared. I know I'm going to cry my eyes out but I really want a fresh start. Thank you so much for being an inspiration to strong, independent women
I think whatever makes you confident is important, whether it be your hair, your skin - anything. However it's incredibly existentialist for your hair to be the be all and end all! Life is more important. Great video Maya.
This is the second video ive watched of yours (the first one is the one explaining why you shaved your hair) and I'm crying. you are a rolemodel and such a beautiful person and you should be so proud to be you! You are truly an inspriation.
I admire you and the message that you are sending to woman all over the world. I started my natural hair journey January of 2013 and in the process cut off all of my hair. During that time I was finishing up as senior in college and was going through a lot of changes. When I cut my hair, there were so many thoughts and emotions going through my mind and afterwards I too felt vulnerable. I was became more self-concious about the way I looked to my peers.
IT'S JUST HAIR PEOPLE, GET OVER IT!! Thanks for being open about your life and keeping it 100. I have cut my hair short like yours twice just for a change. People went nuts, it's embarrassing how people treat u different, base on your appearance. DO U BOO, I love the new look and keep your head up. .
I like your video, and I think that you are beautiful with or without hair. I first saw you in that awesome curly hair tutorial you did--- and I thank you for making that video because I am a fellow "curly head" and that video is EXACTLY what I needed to control my frizzy, thick curly hair (thank you SO MUCH for the video!). You express a sense of freedom which makes your latest videos standout from your older videos. Moreover, you've raised some great points about hair and people's unhealthy attachments to it--- In another video, you mentioned how some people wrap their self-identity and self-worth in their hair. This really hit home with me when I was transitioning from chemically-processed/"relaxed" hair to my natural hair--- I understand exactly what you talked about. Thank you for teaching people to love themselves!
My best friend just buzzed her hair a month ago and she is really going through some confidence issues because of it. So I sent her a ton of links to your videos to say to her that she looks BEAUTIFUL and can rock it! I just want to say thank you for doing you! You are inspiring so many people everywhere!!!
Hey Maya. I am just now seeing this video after years of you making it, yes I know! lol. When I tell you that you have inspired me so much and I am sure so many other women out here that just want to be free...free of their past, free of judgment, free of even caring about what others may think, free to love themselves for who they are!!! I have just recently cut my hair completely off after too having long curly hair. All my life, friends, family, even strangers always complimented me on my "good hair". I was always asked, "what are you mixed with?"...nothing. I am a proud African American that happens to have curly hair. I realized that I too was defining myself as the black girl with the pretty hair...but that is not who I am...I am so much more than just a pretty face and pretty hair. So I too cut my hair SLAM OFF!! Did people have comments...yes some positive, some negative, and some people said nothing at all...clearly noticing a huge change. But that was ok with me. I loved it, I embraced it because I no longer could hide behind my hair. I completely agree with you that I felt vulnerable but I loved it. Thank you for sharing your experience and sharing YOU with us!!!
My name is Kendra. I had my hair shaved at the end of January and i wish I would have donated it. What you said about the people who are struggling with hair really inspired me. I love how you are shameless!
I just subscribed Maya after finding one of your videos. I think you're amazing. My mother has alopecia and I've always told her how beautiful she is. Hair doesn't make you who you are. It's like an accessory; it's just something you wear. I shaved off my hair years ago and I was able to understand where my mom was coming from but I wish I had embraced it more then. It is never an easy decision, but you're rockin it girl!
Boo! I do it for you! If there's any way I can spread my message to more people then yes I will do my best! I'm very honored that this has helped you! now share with your peoples!
Do you boo!! I have been natural for 3 years now. I big chopped several times, the most recent was last September. I have been hiding my hair underneath wigs. I really want to experiment with my natural curls but was afraid to, I was so concerned about how others would view me! Halfway through this video I started taking down my cornrows. I decided to rock my hair and not give a rat's ass about what others would think. You have inspired me so much. Subbie for life!!!
For me, hair is a kind of symbol of beauty. I come from a family of long hair, and me not having long hair seemed to be a problem for everyone else. And everyone even my friends and family would always say things about how short my hair is. But now, I don't take their comments as seriously now thanks to you Maya. Like, you helped me see that there is more to being beautiful than how you look. Now, I'm trying to take care of my hair and try different things. You really inspired me! thanks maya :)
I love this so much. I shaved my head a little over a year ago and now I'm growing it out to a short bob (for the time being). Sometimes I miss being bald, you've definitely given me the urge to shave it again! You are beautiful, inside and out.
I'm doing my final art project about hair, the meaning behind it, the symbolism, and your videos helped me a lot to understand even more things about that. THANKS AND STAY FIERCE PWETTY GIWL!
new sub.... i am going through a divorce right now... after realizing that it just wasn't working... and I needed to hear that honest and true and vulnerable connect... and optimistic hope through faith... im there and im not alone... and im doing me boo!
I cut my curly hair off when i was really depressed and going through a hard time. I cut off 6 inches. Even tho that is not much but i completely understand on the fact you feel vulnerable and dont look like yourself anymore. Everytime i get sad i think of you and the brave act that u did. U inspire me so much Maya!
I just did my big chop to be all natural so I have a low curly fro....it was symbolic for me to personally to embrace the changes i want to make and those that i have made being healthier and attentive to my body , mind and soul....I love your new look and that you shared the haircut with us. You seem like it has made you embrace more of your womanhood ...I'm proud of you for being brave/shameless.
Before I cut my hair it was SL and when I told a few family members that I was going to do the BC their comments were "you're not gonna do it." or "you love your hair too much." I felt bad knowing that people thought I was only about my hair. I went ahead and did the BC and I felt shameless and had no regrets afterwards. Watching your vids have given me confidence. And I dont care if you have short, pink, blue, or green hair. You're still a beautiful woman. Thanks for the videos!
Thank you, don't stop doing you boo! You inspired me my grandmother is going through chemo and she never missed a beat when she lost her hair. She was planning well before she lost it and I actually think she looks younger. Funny how the tough times bring out the best in good people.
I feel like hair is a way to express yourself & I think I lot of people associate hair with beauty making seem like if you don't have hair then you're not beautiful.. I don't think that's true at all. I think it's what's inside that counts because there's some people you meet who just light up the room and that's not because of their hair. The thought of me losing my curly would be SO scary because it's been with me my whole life.. and I feel like in a way it's what defines me..
Do you boo!! Hair holds a lot of strength so when you cried I applauded. Your hair holds deep mental and emotional ties, so when it's cut off you become free and see the real you.. I've done it before and it was one of the best decision I made.
Hi Shameless Maya! I know I am 2 years late, but I will be cutting my hair off soon myself! This will be my second (or third time) cutting my hair off. Though I have done this before, I'm still nervous. Obtaining confidence whilst having very little hair is not the easiest thing. However, I think I'm more prepared this time around. Any who, I just wanted to let you know that I adore your content. You're so fierce, so authentic, and of course, so shameless! Stay beautiful and keep the content coming. Thank you for your countless inspiration!
Everytime I watch u I get inspired more. Hair can be be important but it isnt everything. I mean it can express who u r,it can tell u about someone,it can just make a person feel better about themselves and feel confident. But yes people without hair I can understand why they may feel vulnerable. But even with no hair, it makes us stronger. We all have flaws and insecurites so why not just embrace what u have and be proud of it. Show the world who u r. :)
You're awesome & brave. I think hair is feminine, confident booster & a protective cover. Idk what I'd do without my hair. You're very admirable for pulling any look off.
Thanks for this inspiring video! I suffered of hair loss just after giving birth and it was... awful! I always had long and curly hair, except for one time. When my dad got sick (he had cancer and lost his hair pretty fast), i was cutting my hair.... well... every week. Every monday i had a different haircut. Shorter, and shorter and shorter. And when he passed out, i took it all off. I shaved it all. So when i lost my hair, you can imagine my feelings at this time. Anyway, sorry for my english (big kisses from France by the way), and, again, thank you for being you and bringing us such nice ways of seeing the world.
you're very inspirational!! my hair to me represents my life's journey. All natural and being loc'ed made me look at life in a diffrent way, so my hair is ME
I had locks for 10 years, and after I graduated high school (about a month ago), I combed them all out and was left with ~3 inches of hair. Everyone thinks I must be self-conscious--but it's really just a weird, different, welcome change. For the first couple of weeks, I didn't recognize my reflection, but I just feel more FEARLESS and SHAMELESS. You were a big inspiration when I was debating whether or not I should do it, and the way you articulate it here is exactly how I feel.
You're so inspiring Maya! Thank you for this awesome video! I love my long hair, it makes me feel confident and beautiful! But funny enough...when it gets too long I feel weighed-down, distressed and bored w life! Crazy isnt it?! Well I got to the point where I got in such a rut w my long hair that I was tempted to get a pixie cut, that's when coincidentally you posted your hair shaving video. You're so right! Its all about confidence and how much meaning you decide to give something - hair in this case! I went from 16" long locks to 8" inches (shortest length in my asymmetrical Bob). Thanks for your videos, your confidence & strength no matter what! Your honesty is so admirable! You're awesome!!!!! Much love from the 416!
I love the new hair cut. It is SO cute! I think hair is important but you are right that confidence is the most important. I had always had long hair but lost it all at 26 to cancer. It grew back so fast but that experience taught me to be confident in my looks no matter my hair. I actually got more attention from guys bald. It was like my confidence had been buried in the length of my hair for too long. I just big chopped and am on a new journey once again rockin' a TWA and I love ME! Shameless
I cut a section of my hair around this time last year. I felt that it was a sacrifice for the changes I needed to see in my life. I have attachments to my hair and if I am willing to cut it, I can do anything! It was also a DEtachment. I've had my locs for about eight years. When I started them, my intentions were to learn to love me.. naturally.. no relaxer.. no weave.. just me.. I was literally "loc"king in that commitment.. I figured if I left my hair loose [strands/'fro], it would be too easy to go back to relaxers and weave/extensions.. then.. throughout these eights years, SO much has taken place! I needed to clear that energy.. I literally had somewhat of a ceremony before cutting lol I go back and forth in thought.. whether or not to keep my hair cut.. let it grow.. or even to reattach my old locs (after clearing their old energy of course).. but, until I have that clarity.. I keep it cut and keep my locs in a satin cloth..
Hair is important if you make it important, if it means something more to you. My hair means freedom and health to me because i had the courage at 14 to shave my head from my horrible damaged relaxed hair, and now two years later my hair is long and strong. I feel great! Thank you Maya for all that tou do.
I completely agree...when I cut off my hair there was nothing to kind of hide behind...the funny thing is didnt notice that fact until it was all off. Really is liberating and pushes you to have more confidence...sometimes I miss it but never enough to let it grow back...no regrets...and you really can't beat the prep time in the A.M.!!!
It's my way of showing who I am. My hair is strawberry blonde. I get told constantly I love ur hair! Ppl pay big money to have ur hair! I wish I had ur hair! So when I cut it down to a pixie so many ppl were heartbroken. But I just stood there like um I'm still me. Just different hair. I enjoy changing my hair. It's amazing
your video is so inspiring. it hit home for me. I'm hispanic so i had long hair..but the past for years i've had many terrible things happen. as a marine wife i experienced a little of everything, but on my own. like you i had so many bad memories i have super bad esteem issues.the night before new years, Dec 31 2012 i decided enough was enough. I need to face my issues head on, i need a fresh start with EVERYTHING. So I shaved my head. January 1,2013 I felt new! I got my fresh start! loving it!
I watch your videos and I am just amazed at the beauty that shows inside and out. Im a hair junkie. I go from short to Lon in a second but I love love love my short cuts. Im loving your short hair too. People talk about how I change my hair but I tell them I'm happy with variety of styles and no need for them to worry about me. Rock it girl. Im right there with you. Im shameless In my own right and im doing me boo :))
Your response to the first question is very thought provoking... Comparing baldness with vulnerability. I never thought about that, but it totally makes sense. Also, I know that hair isn't everything, but a Woman's hair is her crowning glory. I honestly don't think I could ever willingly go that short, but --- Jedem das seine. :-) And either style really does suit you, Maya.
Mya, I dealt with a form of alopecia and still am now at the age of 25. Its hard to walk around and wonder if people are staring at your bald edges (mind you, I keep them covered) but deep down there's always that feeling of did I cover them enough. I applaud what you did because I have been more confident here lately but it has been a life struggle! I'm blessed to say I have three beautiful children and a husband because in my head, no one wanted a girl with bald edges!
I think that hair can be a great way to express yourself. I've been growing/donating my hair for the past 6 years. I've donated two 8+ inch ponytails and I plan to keep doing it until I can't any longer (when my hair goes grey). When my hair gets to a certain length, I feel like my hair wears me instead of the other way around. I love cutting it all off and going short (so liberating), and I love changing up my hairstyle! Hair can have such an impact on the way you feel!
Much love & respect on your courage girl! I always considered my hair a huge part of me but if one day it's gone I'm okay with that too at this stage of my life after seeing my mom go through breast cancer. I shaved it a few years back, grew it out a bit & rocked a short curl. It's long again but I don't give it the same importance as before.
I'm proud of you. You are gorgeous with and with out hair. Don't worry about what anyone says folks are going to always have an opinion no matter what.
Girl, you're absolutely gorgeous! You wear the short cut well. I used to have bsl hair and I cut all but 1/2 an inch of it off last summer. It was the most liberating thing I've ever done. I miss feeling the breeze on my scalp!
In the words of Coco Chanel a Woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life....BEAUTIFUL!
Wow, did she really say that?(Coco Channel)...that's totally true lol!
Being an African American Female, I feel as if hair is a very important topic. I think that many African Americans ( mostly females ) are ashamed of what grows from their scalp. I used to get perms to straighten it and then I did a big chop. I cried ( Cause the barber did a bad job) I fixed it and I am owning what I have. I think what you did is very inspirational. Keep doing you :)
I have short hair, and at the start of August I'm going even shorter. I used to have long hair, but I decided to cut it when I first started in college. It was kinda like me letting go of the past and becoming a new and better me. Now I'm going even shorter, which I'm so excited about. I know some people who don't think short hair is very feminine. To me, my hair doesn't define my femininity. Femininity isn't something you have. It's something you are. And with that I'm gonna continue rocking my short hair while being feminine, because that's who I am.
I couldn't let go of my hair but like you said it is just hair and that actually changed my mind set and your bucket list really got me to thinking what am i doing with my life I'm only 17 but I'm standing in a bubble always playing it safe and to scared to go crazy things and i regret not taking chances .. you are so strong and shameless indeed , you are a role model
All I can say is WOW. This is so inspiring to me! I have big curly hair as well and I never realized how much women and people in general really rely on their hair. I am so amazed and inspired by this!!! Do you boo!
I have watched your hair buzz videos before (years ago): 5 years to be exact. I am terrified but I think I am finally going to shave my hair. Thank you for being an inspiration for women to be themselves and embrace who they are!
So as a current curly haired woman, it's a lot to deal with, but the time is shortly approaching and I want a change. I have had long hair the majority of my life except when I born. So thanks for the confident boost! I'm do me, because ppl will talk about me anyhow whether I have long or short hair. Be encouraged, God bless.
If I chopped off all my hair, I think it would give me a different outlook on life. I think it shows you that life isn't just about hair.. and I would definitely understand patients who have to go through chemo... but that could happen to anyone. I think you're so inspiring and I feel bad for the guys and girls and society that think HAIR is all that makes someone, someone. You're amazing! and you're def the same person & gorgeous either way! :)
I have an ocd disorder called trichotillomania where I pull out my hair and honestly, it's caused me to feel the most ugly and self-conscious I ever have. However, I'm very grateful that this happened to me because when I used to have thick hair that I was complimented on all the time, I never once felt blessed for it or realized how important to me it was. Recently, I've considered shaving my head to give myself a fresh start and to hopefully overcome this 'illness' once and for all. I'm not sure if I'll cut it off completely or go for a pixie cut since I'm so self-conscious about my weight and how much fatter my face (and body) will look once I have no hair. But, my point is, this video has given me so much strength and support so thank you. I love your hair now and before and I hope more girls, including myself, can one day see themselves as beautiful and worthy no matter what they look like. Thank you so much!!
+Mattie Collins this might sound dumb but does it hurt when you pull your hair out? i guess it would and you cant help it but im just curious..
No, it's not a dumb question. It's hard for people to understand unless they've had this problem. I guess I would say that some hairs hurt but after pulling for a little while, you become kind of numb to it. It's kind of addictive so even though it hurts sometimes, it's difficult to stop.
Mattie Collins wow interesting. thanks for responding sincerely.
Mattie C wow... thank you for sharing this. You are the first person that I have seen talk about this disorder... I have been silently struggling with this for years and it has resulted in inflammatory alopecia in the center of my head. I'm coming to reassess my thoughts about my hair values & thinking about doing my second big chop to correct this bad habit once and for all. Sending light & love 💕
I used to have long hair and I shaved it bald 20 years ago. I've never been so confident and felt so beautiful in my life. Actually, alot more people, men and women were attracted to me and perhaps not necessarily because my hair was short but, because I was happier and more confident and people are attracted to that. I think it literally changed my life in many ways. I'll never go back to long hair again. Love your hair. Rock it with confidence. xo
I cut my hair this October.. and like u have always been the known for my long hair and hair in general... i totally agree it so freeing and it pushes u out of ur comfort zone to show a different side of urself.. i have no choice now but to be confident with my hair and who i am!! P.S. just found ur videos and I so luv u!!!
You're an amazing person and I'm happy that I found your channel a year ago. Your experiences and attitude gave me courage. I finally did the Big Chop today!!!! I'm completely natural now!! I understand what you meant by chopping off your and crying. I almost cried today too because I had longer hair when my parents got divorced when I was younger, while I was suicidal, depressed, and just hitting rock bottom. I feel like all that baggage is gone now. I feel free and wonderful and it is all thanks to your messages. I'm was able to completely high school with Associate's Degree and I'm going to college in 4 weeks!!! I just remembered to be Shameless and let go. Thank you so much Maya!!! You're a blessing :)
I just shaved all my hair last week Saturday due to the fact that i suffer these horrible horrible, did i say horrible migraines. Now it's much easier for me cool off in the shower. I didn't wanna but i had to. You inspire me to be shameless. Now I'm doing me boo..... Thank you
Just letting you know that I have not watched your videos for very long and I have already been greatly impacted by you and your words of wisdom. I am 14 years old and have been through so much and I love watching your videos. When my grandma had breast cancer about 4 years ago, I wanted to shave my head with her but she didn't want me to because I was so young and she was afraid of me being teased by my peers at school. Now that I'm a little bit older, I am making the courageous decision of shaving my head...TOMORROW! When I told my family and friends about me wanting to shave my head they didn't think I would actually do it. I've written all the information down to donate my hair to Locks of Love and hopefully I look as great as you after I shave my head. After watching your videos of before, during, and after you shaving your head, I have been inspired and after showing my mom she was kind of on board with me shaving my head and is finally going to let me do it. You are greatly appreciated by, not only me, but by many of your viewers. Please always make videos.
"Bald Is Beautiful" - Talia Castellano
then become beautiful.
I'm proud of you Maya! I cut my hair off in June and donated it too. And while I immediately and continue to love it, there are days where I question my lack of the most comforting accessory. Thanks for the reassurance. Short locks are lovely locks!
Maya
Maya! You are my new role model, never in my life have i wanted to emulate anyone.. but after watching this i am blown away by your eloquence, confidence, intelligence, wisdom, beauty, down to earth and general fierceness!
I feel like this is a inspiration video because I'm 17 years old and I want to cut or shave my hair again . I keep asking my mom for a thousand times and she always said to keep my hair . My mom cuts her hair like a month ago and I keep asking to myself "why can't I just cut my hair? I'm getting older but why?" Even it costs that much to get my hair cut and its pretty hard to take care of it . Even I'm a lazy one lol. I want to for reason is that women who has lupus , cancer , others that cause hair loss , I had autism , i 've been going so much (past relationships , bullying , family , self esteem , sexually harassed) And its not fair to any women that who don't have hair. Even I had kinky curly hair I'm still not this girl. Hopefully this summer I REALLY want to cut my hair. And I dont care if people are in shocked . I just think long hair ain't my style no more. I prefer to have short curly hair (twa) again so I can be free and be myself again but yea. This is very inspiring and you're my only inspirition ever in my life. Always Love , Philysha
Your spirit and character is simply Beautiful. My Grandma (RIP) always said "your hair is your strength and holds so much power"....I didn't always realize that concept but when I went natural I did because it is such a spiritual journey. Continued Blessings!
I agree with the opinion that hair is important. But how important is too important? Sometimes I feel like my hair has way too much influence on my confidence. If my hair isn't looking so good one day my confidence probably isn't doing so good either. That's not how things should be but that's how it is!
Maya. I watched your video of you shaving your head and I cried. I thought it was amazing and I actually shaved my hair off three weeks ago and donated it. I felt so liberated and I love it. I feel like I have much more confidence in myself. I'm more outgoing, I'm more creative and expressive. I wear things I would t ordinarily wear. I just love myself more now. I don't know if I'll grow my hair out anytime soon but I want to thank you sincerely for being an inspiration and being so genuine :)
I have been wanting to shave my hair for a year now. I have Alopecia areata . I have for years just covered it up with the rest of my hair. However all the dye and straightening just made it worse. I want to shave it all off but I am scared of what people will think. I'm 18. I could just go to the hair salon tomorrow and tell them to shave it but my mom would be so mad. I have not told her I want to shave it.
Do you darling, I big chopped to my hair that ended up being a 1/2 inch long. and I'm 16 it makes you feel so free and you'll feel so beautiful. Haters gonna always hate, just remember its not what they want, it's what you want.
This is an old video, but I just saw this. All 3 of these videos (before, during, and this one) put me into tears. This is empowering. Thank you for being so strong and being an amazing role model to all women. You are beautiful and an inspiration. When I am afraid, I will remember you and walk into whatever I am facing brave and proud.
hey i know many different people have told you this already but your beautifl and deffinatley inspirationat to alot of womens and girls you have inspired me not to shave my head recentley lost alot of hair due to a haircut but you inspire people to love themselves no matter what and i absolutley love thay deffiantley subcribing and telling/sharing your inspiring channel
valerie bartlett awwww! thanks boo!
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Love how positive and bubbly you are. You are an inspiration to young women who need a curly idol.
You are beautiful inside and out muahhh. I am a big fan
Shameless Maya I watched one of your videos last year and at that time decided to move on to the next I don't know why because I watched a couple of your videos last week and I fell head over heels for you. I love your personality, your fearlessness and spunk! I cannot get enough of your videos I swear. You remind me of how I use to be in my 20's and 30's. Now I'm 40 I have become the scared lady under the covers lmbo. You've inspired me to get up and do something I don't know yet but I am getting the pen and paper out. Thanks for the encouragement!!!!!
I love your vids! I just turned 40 on September 9 and I shaved my head for the 4th time in my life...and I LOVE IT! In the past, it was my decision. This time, it was due to a bad haircut. However, it made me realize that I am 40 and fabulous with or without the hair! Thanks for sharing!
Maya! My names Jessie, & i have always had the desire to cut my hair & donate it to cancer patients, but I never had enough confidence.
After watching your videos, seeing your confidence, and how you live your life shamelessly, inspired me greatly.
I now have decided i'm shaving all my hair off December 15th and donating it.
All because of you, i'm starting a new chapter in my life & living shamelessly.
You have made such a positive impact on me and I just want to thank you so much.
I've been considering shaving my head and I have watched a lot of videos of women who have but I really relate to your videos the most and I just wanted to say thank you for that. I think my mom will react the same exact way so it's nice to see another person that says not everyone around me is supportive but I did it anyway. I am not scared of doing it and I am set on doing it but I also don't want to deal with the questions and the stares. So again thank you for being completely real about this a lot of girls just say its very empowering but what if that's not the reason I want to do it, looking at the other sides of all of it is really helpful to me.
i'm loving this buzz for the summer! it's so much more care free and cooler :)
i honestly truly loved your hair & was so disappointed that you shaved it...BUT i understand why you did it & you donated it for a good cause. you are very inspirational. such a sweetheart. ❤️
you are one of the most beautiful people i have EVER come across in my life. stunning, inside and out. i respect you not because i respect everyone, but because you inspire me and teach me.
when you answered about "why you was crying during the hair cut "i just started crying so badly holding all that much of pain for years .,you wanna release it but you cant ,.in time when you must stand up and facing the world losing the taste of life when you still young ..you such a strong girl ,thank you sister
i'm so sad to have discovered this channel only now... you're such an inspiration and all the words that you said they're sooo true. I big chopped last year because i wanted to change my lifestyle, and this included how my hair looked like - and all the hidden emotions and frustrations etc it all came out during the process of shaving my hair. seeing your video has made me realise again and made me more aware of the fact that especially we 'curlies' put too much emphasis on our hair. thank you!!
thanks for sharing. it's true! it's not that easy psychologically for most people so hats off to you and your mom!
You are so inspirational! I think that having no hair makes you more confident and shows you inner glow. After this video, I feel like I can dye my hair and shave it without fearing people calling me gay and stuff. I love my hair, but honey, it has to change. Thank you so much for telling the world how beautiful you can be even without hair! :)
Having viewed something so personal, I have extraordinary respect for you. Stronger woman than I am and I cannot express how amazing this is to witness.
I love my bald head. I've wanted to cut my hair off for a year now and after watching your video and seeing you embrace the cut and how the lack of hair brought out your beauty, it made me more confident to do it. Letting go of the image of beauty being hair made me love me even more! I am not my hair, my hair does not make me ugly or beautiful. It was a very empowering moment. What's love it's was that people actually embraced the cut better than any hair style I have ever worn.
You look gorgeous with short hair! I'm cutting all of mine off tomorrow to raise money for charity and to support a friend who is about to begin chemotherapy! You're videos, before, during and after, were just what I needed to get a grip on what I'm gonna go through! It's for a cause that's bigger than me and the relationship I have with my hair and a few of your comments have really helped to inspire me! xx
Hair doesn't make you who you are, You make you who you are! You're such an inspiration! Thank you for all that you do!
When I was watching your shaving video (second video I watched of yours) I could see in your eyes that you were letting something go and a release of something in your heart was happening and it was such an exhilarating experience to witness. It's good to know my intuitions were spot on. I also wanted to mention the love your dog gave throughout the video. Although an animal, it shows that love is truly unconditional. Even with half shaved and half long hair, it loved you the same as an hour ago
I truly appreciate the courage it took you to shave your head. I honestly think it shows you in a more confident light. Your love for yourself shows. Your beauty shows, your maturation shows, and a more liberated self is evident in your videos. Shine on, girl....shine on!!!✌🏾️
I love in your first video before cutting your hair, you said “I am not my hair and my hair is not me”. I’ve been wanting to shave off all my hair and you just motivated me even more!
I luv Maya, I have been away for awhile, but anyone who can read between the lines knew that when you cut your hair you weren't crying about that. Being from NY as well your very open and its refreshing...Be blessed girl :)
1st of all you are drop dead gorgeous rocking the short hair! And as for me and my hair I have a love hate relationship with it. I want to say that it goes back to my childhood when my siblings and I constantly got picked on, The main theme was head lice, we got it once, picked on forever for it! For reals! So our "mother" shaved all of our heads, brothers and sisters! No hair, no lice. Was her motto. So now despite me preferring shorter hair, I always find me growing it out. Partly because I can't seem to find a hair stylist that knows how to cut the Rachel, had it done right once and I loved it. Never again has it been done right! For shame! Any way peace out, love you and now because of you I don't see myself growing my hair out this time! Thanks and love your way!
Hello i am Ms Pamela from California, and i just wanted to tell you. That i really appreciate this video. I cut my hair years ago because i am, a mother of five. I was really bizzy and constantly being in my hair. Was not working for me i needed a style. That was free, easy to manage, simple and cute. Yet professional, for my creative bizz of craft designing. And for my current career field now as an Esthetician . Some family members didn't like it, but it's my hair i like it and it works for me. If i want long hair later, i can always do the exstension thing. Keep doing inspiring videos and great hair cut. God bless you!
Honestly you look beautiful with the shaved hair. It makes your eyes pop and your smile shine. You look gorgeous girl. Be proud of yourself for taking this bold step. Also isn"t it great to have all the extra time in the morning instead of fiddling with your hair now you can do other things like meditate of go for a walk. congrat's.
Ignore her. I think you're so inspiring and some people just needed closure because they loved your hair. But like you said, you're more than that. You are so beautiful inside and out and you are a huge inspiration for me
I think that this was a bold and brave move that most women won't have taken on their own. It is really inspiring that no one had to tell you that you should shave your head. It has inspired me to shave a section of my head so that my hair flips to one side (a little like Eli Goulding). A lot of people tell me that the way my hair is flipped is on the wrong side, or out of style. It has broken my heart to hear this and will play against the rules. We make our own decisions, for the the enjoyment and pleasure of ourselves. Thank you Shameless Maya for being a women of courage and confidence. You have not only inspired me, but all of your subscribers, and we love you.
Man oh man. I've gone back and forth on cutting my hair EXTREMELY short. I also have the mixed Filipino/Black hair, and to be honest, just watching you has been inspiring to just LIVE. And to live... wait for it...shamelessly. Your camera presence is contagious, just thought I'd let you know. Take care, lady!
I find you as such an inspiration. I'm am cutting all of my hair off tomorrow and I am beyond scared. I know I'm going to cry my eyes out but I really want a fresh start. Thank you so much for being an inspiration to strong, independent women
I think whatever makes you confident is important, whether it be your hair, your skin - anything. However it's incredibly existentialist for your hair to be the be all and end all! Life is more important. Great video Maya.
This is the second video ive watched of yours (the first one is the one explaining why you shaved your hair) and I'm crying. you are a rolemodel and such a beautiful person and you should be so proud to be you! You are truly an inspriation.
I admire you and the message that you are sending to woman all over the world. I started my natural hair journey January of 2013 and in the process cut off all of my hair. During that time I was finishing up as senior in college and was going through a lot of changes. When I cut my hair, there were so many thoughts and emotions going through my mind and afterwards I too felt vulnerable. I was became more self-concious about the way I looked to my peers.
IT'S JUST HAIR PEOPLE, GET OVER IT!! Thanks for being open about your life and keeping it 100. I have cut my hair short like yours twice just for a change. People went nuts, it's embarrassing how people treat u different, base on your appearance. DO U BOO, I love the new look and keep your head up. .
I like your video, and I think that you are beautiful with or without hair. I first saw you in that awesome curly hair tutorial you did--- and I thank you for making that video because I am a fellow "curly head" and that video is EXACTLY what I needed to control my frizzy, thick curly hair (thank you SO MUCH for the video!).
You express a sense of freedom which makes your latest videos standout from your older videos. Moreover, you've raised some great points about hair and people's unhealthy attachments to it--- In another video, you mentioned how some people wrap their self-identity and self-worth in their hair. This really hit home with me when I was transitioning from chemically-processed/"relaxed" hair to my natural hair--- I understand exactly what you talked about.
Thank you for teaching people to love themselves!
My best friend just buzzed her hair a month ago and she is really going through some confidence issues because of it. So I sent her a ton of links to your videos to say to her that she looks BEAUTIFUL and can rock it! I just want to say thank you for doing you! You are inspiring so many people everywhere!!!
Hey Maya. I am just now seeing this video after years of you making it, yes I know! lol. When I tell you that you have inspired me so much and I am sure so many other women out here that just want to be free...free of their past, free of judgment, free of even caring about what others may think, free to love themselves for who they are!!! I have just recently cut my hair completely off after too having long curly hair. All my life, friends, family, even strangers always complimented me on my "good hair". I was always asked, "what are you mixed with?"...nothing. I am a proud African American that happens to have curly hair. I realized that I too was defining myself as the black girl with the pretty hair...but that is not who I am...I am so much more than just a pretty face and pretty hair. So I too cut my hair SLAM OFF!! Did people have comments...yes some positive, some negative, and some people said nothing at all...clearly noticing a huge change. But that was ok with me. I loved it, I embraced it because I no longer could hide behind my hair. I completely agree with you that I felt vulnerable but I loved it. Thank you for sharing your experience and sharing YOU with us!!!
My name is Kendra. I had my hair shaved at the end of January and i wish I would have donated it. What you said about the people who are struggling with hair really inspired me. I love how you are shameless!
I just subscribed Maya after finding one of your videos. I think you're amazing. My mother has alopecia and I've always told her how beautiful she is. Hair doesn't make you who you are. It's like an accessory; it's just something you wear. I shaved off my hair years ago and I was able to understand where my mom was coming from but I wish I had embraced it more then. It is never an easy decision, but you're rockin it girl!
Boo! I do it for you! If there's any way I can spread my message to more people then yes I will do my best! I'm very honored that this has helped you! now share with your peoples!
Do you boo!! I have been natural for 3 years now. I big chopped several times, the most recent was last September. I have been hiding my hair underneath wigs. I really want to experiment with my natural curls but was afraid to, I was so concerned about how others would view me! Halfway through this video I started taking down my cornrows. I decided to rock my hair and not give a rat's ass about what others would think. You have inspired me so much. Subbie for life!!!
For me, hair is a kind of symbol of beauty. I come from a family of long hair, and me not having long hair seemed to be a problem for everyone else. And everyone even my friends and family would always say things about how short my hair is. But now, I don't take their comments as seriously now thanks to you Maya. Like, you helped me see that there is more to being beautiful than how you look. Now, I'm trying to take care of my hair and try different things. You really inspired me! thanks maya :)
I love this so much. I shaved my head a little over a year ago and now I'm growing it out to a short bob (for the time being). Sometimes I miss being bald, you've definitely given me the urge to shave it again! You are beautiful, inside and out.
I'm doing my final art project about hair, the meaning behind it, the symbolism, and your videos helped me a lot to understand even more things about that. THANKS AND STAY FIERCE PWETTY GIWL!
new sub.... i am going through a divorce right now... after realizing that it just wasn't working... and I needed to hear that honest and true and vulnerable connect... and optimistic hope through faith... im there and im not alone... and im doing me boo!
I cut my curly hair off when i was really depressed and going through a hard time. I cut off 6 inches. Even tho that is not much but i completely understand on the fact you feel vulnerable and dont look like yourself anymore. Everytime i get sad i think of you and the brave act that u did. U inspire me so much Maya!
I just did my big chop to be all natural so I have a low curly fro....it was symbolic for me to personally to embrace the changes i want to make and those that i have made being healthier and attentive to my body , mind and soul....I love your new look and that you shared the haircut with us. You seem like it has made you embrace more of your womanhood ...I'm proud of you for being brave/shameless.
Before I cut my hair it was SL and when I told a few family members that I was going to do the BC their comments were "you're not gonna do it." or "you love your hair too much." I felt bad knowing that people thought I was only about my hair. I went ahead and did the BC and I felt shameless and had no regrets afterwards. Watching your vids have given me confidence. And I dont care if you have short, pink, blue, or green hair. You're still a beautiful woman. Thanks for the videos!
Thank you, don't stop doing you boo! You inspired me my grandmother is going through chemo and she never missed a beat when she lost her hair. She was planning well before she lost it and I actually think she looks younger. Funny how the tough times bring out the best in good people.
I feel like hair is a way to express yourself & I think I lot of people associate hair with beauty making seem like if you don't have hair then you're not beautiful.. I don't think that's true at all. I think it's what's inside that counts because there's some people you meet who just light up the room and that's not because of their hair. The thought of me losing my curly would be SO scary because it's been with me my whole life.. and I feel like in a way it's what defines me..
Do you boo!! Hair holds a lot of strength so when you cried I applauded. Your hair holds deep mental and emotional ties, so when it's cut off you become free and see the real you.. I've done it before and it was one of the best decision I made.
Bald or curly, you, Ms. Maya, are GORGEOUSNESS. Thank you for doing you. It is a help. I know I'm all late, but still.
You're AWESOME, Maya! Your honesty is refreshing. The world needs more people like you.
Hi Shameless Maya! I know I am 2 years late, but I will be cutting my hair off soon myself! This will be my second (or third time) cutting my hair off. Though I have done this before, I'm still nervous. Obtaining confidence whilst having very little hair is not the easiest thing. However, I think I'm more prepared this time around. Any who, I just wanted to let you know that I adore your content. You're so fierce, so authentic, and of course, so shameless! Stay beautiful and keep the content coming. Thank you for your countless inspiration!
I LOVE YOU YOU ARE THE KIND OF PERSON EVERYONE SHOULD TAKE AS AN EXAMPLE ...SO HONEST HUMBLE AND BRAVE
Everytime I watch u I get inspired more. Hair can be be important but it isnt everything. I mean it can express who u r,it can tell u about someone,it can just make a person feel better about themselves and feel confident. But yes people without hair I can understand why they may feel vulnerable. But even with no hair, it makes us stronger. We all have flaws and insecurites so why not just embrace what u have and be proud of it. Show the world who u r. :)
You're awesome & brave. I think hair is feminine, confident booster & a protective cover. Idk what I'd do without my hair. You're very admirable for pulling any look off.
Thanks for this inspiring video! I suffered of hair loss just after giving birth and it was... awful! I always had long and curly hair, except for one time.
When my dad got sick (he had cancer and lost his hair pretty fast), i was cutting my hair.... well... every week. Every monday i had a different haircut. Shorter, and shorter and shorter. And when he passed out, i took it all off. I shaved it all.
So when i lost my hair, you can imagine my feelings at this time.
Anyway, sorry for my english (big kisses from France by the way), and, again, thank you for being you and bringing us such nice ways of seeing the world.
you're very inspirational!! my hair to me represents my life's journey. All natural and being loc'ed made me look at life in a diffrent way, so my hair is ME
Some people depend too much on their hair & I totally respect you for the decision you made. We are not are hair, it doesn't make us who we are.
I had locks for 10 years, and after I graduated high school (about a month ago), I combed them all out and was left with ~3 inches of hair. Everyone thinks I must be self-conscious--but it's really just a weird, different, welcome change. For the first couple of weeks, I didn't recognize my reflection, but I just feel more FEARLESS and SHAMELESS. You were a big inspiration when I was debating whether or not I should do it, and the way you articulate it here is exactly how I feel.
You're so inspiring Maya! Thank you for this awesome video! I love my long hair, it makes me feel confident and beautiful! But funny enough...when it gets too long I feel weighed-down, distressed and bored w life! Crazy isnt it?! Well I got to the point where I got in such a rut w my long hair that I was tempted to get a pixie cut, that's when coincidentally you posted your hair shaving video. You're so right! Its all about confidence and how much meaning you decide to give something - hair in this case!
I went from 16" long locks to 8" inches (shortest length in my asymmetrical Bob). Thanks for your videos, your confidence & strength no matter what! Your honesty is so admirable! You're awesome!!!!!
Much love from the 416!
You are such a inspiration! I have long curly hair and to me it's who I am. Hair isn't everything and like you said, whatever makes you comfortable.
I love the new hair cut. It is SO cute! I think hair is important but you are right that confidence is the most important. I had always had long hair but lost it all at 26 to cancer. It grew back so fast but that experience taught me to be confident in my looks no matter my hair. I actually got more attention from guys bald. It was like my confidence had been buried in the length of my hair for too long. I just big chopped and am on a new journey once again rockin' a TWA and I love ME! Shameless
I cut a section of my hair around this time last year. I felt that it was a sacrifice for the changes I needed to see in my life. I have attachments to my hair and if I am willing to cut it, I can do anything! It was also a DEtachment. I've had my locs for about eight years. When I started them, my intentions were to learn to love me.. naturally.. no relaxer.. no weave.. just me.. I was literally "loc"king in that commitment.. I figured if I left my hair loose [strands/'fro], it would be too easy to go back to relaxers and weave/extensions.. then.. throughout these eights years, SO much has taken place! I needed to clear that energy.. I literally had somewhat of a ceremony before cutting lol I go back and forth in thought.. whether or not to keep my hair cut.. let it grow.. or even to reattach my old locs (after clearing their old energy of course).. but, until I have that clarity.. I keep it cut and keep my locs in a satin cloth..
Hair is important if you make it important, if it means something more to you. My hair means freedom and health to me because i had the courage at 14 to shave my head from my horrible damaged relaxed hair, and now two years later my hair is long and strong. I feel great! Thank you Maya for all that tou do.
I completely agree...when I cut off my hair there was nothing to kind of hide behind...the funny thing is didnt notice that fact until it was all off. Really is liberating and pushes you to have more confidence...sometimes I miss it
but never enough to let it grow back...no regrets...and you really can't beat the prep time in the A.M.!!!
It's my way of showing who I am. My hair is strawberry blonde. I get told constantly I love ur hair! Ppl pay big money to have ur hair! I wish I had ur hair! So when I cut it down to a pixie so many ppl were heartbroken. But I just stood there like um I'm still me. Just different hair. I enjoy changing my hair. It's amazing
your video is so inspiring. it hit home for me. I'm hispanic so i had long hair..but the past for years i've had many terrible things happen. as a marine wife i experienced a little of everything, but on my own. like you i had so many bad memories i have super bad esteem issues.the night before new years, Dec 31 2012 i decided enough was enough. I need to face my issues head on, i need a fresh start with EVERYTHING. So I shaved my head. January 1,2013 I felt new! I got my fresh start! loving it!
I watch your videos and I am just amazed at the beauty that shows inside and out. Im a hair junkie. I go from short to Lon in a second but I love love love my short cuts. Im loving your short hair too. People talk about how I change my hair but I tell them I'm happy with variety of styles and no need for them to worry about me. Rock it girl. Im right there with you. Im shameless In my own right and im doing me boo :))
Your response to the first question is very thought provoking... Comparing baldness with vulnerability. I never thought about that, but it totally makes sense.
Also, I know that hair isn't everything, but a Woman's hair is her crowning glory. I honestly don't think I could ever willingly go that short, but --- Jedem das seine. :-) And either style really does suit you, Maya.
Mya, I dealt with a form of alopecia and still am now at the age of 25. Its hard to walk around and wonder if people are staring at your bald edges (mind you, I keep them covered) but deep down there's always that feeling of did I cover them enough. I applaud what you did because I have been more confident here lately but it has been a life struggle! I'm blessed to say I have three beautiful children and a husband because in my head, no one wanted a girl with bald edges!
I think that hair can be a great way to express yourself. I've been growing/donating my hair for the past 6 years. I've donated two 8+ inch ponytails and I plan to keep doing it until I can't any longer (when my hair goes grey). When my hair gets to a certain length, I feel like my hair wears me instead of the other way around. I love cutting it all off and going short (so liberating), and I love changing up my hairstyle! Hair can have such an impact on the way you feel!
Much love & respect on your courage girl! I always considered my hair a huge part of me but if one day it's gone I'm okay with that too at this stage of my life after seeing my mom go through breast cancer. I shaved it a few years back, grew it out a bit & rocked a short curl. It's long again but I don't give it the same importance as before.
I'm proud of you. You are gorgeous with and with out hair. Don't worry about what anyone says folks are going to always have an opinion no matter what.
thanks love. i think we all do...some people just get lost along the way
Girl, you're absolutely gorgeous! You wear the short cut well. I used to have bsl hair and I cut all but 1/2 an inch of it off last summer. It was the most liberating thing I've ever done. I miss feeling the breeze on my scalp!