How to Persuade People - the 3 keys

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @mariannemaili
    @mariannemaili 11 місяців тому +6

    Growing up in the Midwestern USA, "now isn't that interesting" was always a zinger. Thanks, Colin, for being who you are, doing what you do, and sharing it this way.

  • @Christiannotdior
    @Christiannotdior Місяць тому +1

    I’ve only recently discovered Connor’s work, I’ve been studying this stuff for only 4-5 yrs but my mind is blown!🔥🔥🔥

  • @TheEJ1408
    @TheEJ1408 6 років тому +8

    Conor, I believe you heard this numerous times, but you are a true inspiration to everyone who needs to speak with/in front of people. It's not only WHAT you say, WHAT you teach, but how you present it. I very much appreciate you sharing your knowledge. Thank you.

  • @ndumiasolomon7760
    @ndumiasolomon7760 5 років тому +14

    When this man speaks it sinks deep. I learn more on practice

  • @srisalient5737
    @srisalient5737 6 років тому +14

    Hi Conor that was a brilliant storytelling. The way you started with cassandra curse,then connected it to persuasion , further to the Dad and son story to explain concepts was amazing :)
    Learned a lot from the video
    Thanks :)

  • @NeilRichins
    @NeilRichins 6 років тому +5

    Oh Pathos, people will follow you any where, as long as it leads to their success.
    Thank you for sharing, your stories and this video are brilliant!

  • @othmane-mezian
    @othmane-mezian 4 роки тому +7

    « Don’t Ask Yourself What The World Needs, Ask Yourself What Makes You Come Alive. And Then Go And Do That. Because What The World Needs Is People Who Have Come Alive. » - Howard Washington Thurman

  • @hustlemami8732
    @hustlemami8732 3 місяці тому +1

    I always speed up youtube videos but when its this mans videos, i ALWAYS play it at normal speed and replay them

  • @ricolerio
    @ricolerio 5 років тому +5

    Logos,Ethos and Pathos- I will remember this. Thank you Conor.

  • @saulnamango2350
    @saulnamango2350 2 роки тому

    "Interesting" what a word; thank you very much

  • @kalpanabalakrishnam5203
    @kalpanabalakrishnam5203 Рік тому +2

    Brilliant! Impactful! Thank you 🙏

  • @ismaielwaheed4300
    @ismaielwaheed4300 6 років тому +8

    This guy is smart

  • @praisebotha5123
    @praisebotha5123 6 років тому +2

    this was amazing. i have been watching you for years and i have learned a lot from you as far as communication is concerned. but this one was really a great speech. God bless you

  • @fennycruz6714
    @fennycruz6714 3 роки тому +1

    Impactful...interesting. i am grateful for your talent to speak from the heart mr conner. Follower from the philippines

  • @mustakizahzakaria6800
    @mustakizahzakaria6800 6 років тому +5

    Interesting indeed😊
    What i want to say and what you need to hear means a lot.

  • @abdirihmanabuuraas7831
    @abdirihmanabuuraas7831 4 роки тому +1

    cool and calmness is what drives me watch you more coner

  • @b4belteshazzar
    @b4belteshazzar 7 років тому +9

    I prefer longer videos like this that are richer in content than the recent short ones

    • @ruddin10
      @ruddin10 6 років тому +1

      i am with you - I like the longer video format. But often I could not summarize my understanding easily especially when the talk does not include slides with bulletpoints, mindmap or other visual cues. Conor Neill is not a boring, it is just our mind nowadays expect visual assistance / cues to organize messages better. I was hoping someone already summarize the key messages in the comment section. That helps me solidify my understanding better. For this long talk, I converted to mp3 and listen to it several times over several days on Sony mp3 player while I do my 6000 steps walk. That's why I wish someone already summarize it for me because it requires some efforts for me to internalize the key messages

    • @wgs8175
      @wgs8175 6 років тому

      repetition, repetition, repetition. that's the best way to learn through audio and visual cues. You could also make your own notes, which would reinforce the message so that you internalise it and own what you're hearing.

  • @KasujjaAli-c1j
    @KasujjaAli-c1j 3 місяці тому

    Hallo, am from Uganda, thatnks so much conor

  • @husseindhooma5816
    @husseindhooma5816 6 років тому +5

    Interesting story i decided to tell my wife what i wanted to say and not what she wanted to hear and I screwed my weekend and almost my marriage. You are so right its scary, thank you so much for this, I have a meeting with my boss tomorrow who wants to discuss my performance should i tell her what i want to say or what she wants to hear. Interesting indeed

  • @Burt177
    @Burt177 7 років тому +1

    Okay I’m totally persuaded.

  • @robinpal7920
    @robinpal7920 4 роки тому

    Huge love for you, from India 💞💞💞

  • @azzafiomar9983
    @azzafiomar9983 3 роки тому

    The most amazing video I have ever watched!

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  3 роки тому

      Welcome to the Rhetorical Journey!
      Kind words, thank you ;-)

  • @stanisgmi
    @stanisgmi 7 років тому +3

    You're a great storyteller but I personally feel like this talk was all over the place.
    Otherwise, the takeaway was really valuable. The quote "there are only a few more weekends" really opened my eyes

  • @learnfromit-ld3lw
    @learnfromit-ld3lw Місяць тому

    Wisdom 💯

  • @jonclark92
    @jonclark92 3 роки тому +1

    Very powerful...

  • @saulnamango2350
    @saulnamango2350 2 роки тому

    Good, very good

  • @Iamtheoverlander
    @Iamtheoverlander 7 років тому +2

    Interesting! :) thank you 🙏🏻

  • @DougHanson2769
    @DougHanson2769 6 років тому +4

    Interesting

  • @ojelanidi7923
    @ojelanidi7923 3 роки тому

    Interesting!

  • @rajeshs1396
    @rajeshs1396 6 років тому

    U said what I want to hear

  • @visitesenalsaceleilakopff2727
    @visitesenalsaceleilakopff2727 3 роки тому

    Brilliant!!!

  • @georgeb297
    @georgeb297 3 роки тому

    Conor .. thank you for great advice!! How about persuading different audience, .. I just find it hard to start with a story to connect if I am talking to a higher level executive or a board of executives

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  3 роки тому +4

      story doesn't need to be long... it can be a 10 second story like "I remember my first day in this company... I remember walking in to the building... I remember my hopes and aspirations... today we face challenges that can cause us to forget why we are all here."

  • @vishnunagendran332
    @vishnunagendran332 7 років тому +1

    You smart

  • @shunyabinduinteriors
    @shunyabinduinteriors 3 роки тому

    Interesting 🙏

  • @ManolisPolychronides
    @ManolisPolychronides 6 років тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this! What was the occasion? Where was it filmed and broadcast? And happy new year!

    • @fm7551
      @fm7551 3 роки тому

      Bucharest Atheneum.

  • @adelarsen9776
    @adelarsen9776 6 років тому

    What about telling the truth and saying Sorry ?

    • @Ghrainne
      @Ghrainne 5 років тому +2

      you did not get it

  • @pjsgmusical3991
    @pjsgmusical3991 4 роки тому +1

    If Apollo was able to grant the gift of prophecy and he was a God, he should've been able to see the future too .... But if that didn't happen it's like a God with no ability to see the future has given the gift of prophecy? I don't understand!

    • @alihaidari3160
      @alihaidari3160 4 роки тому +1

      In my understanding he was using that particular story to convey his message and tie into everyday situations that most of face most of the time, you need to look at the big picture and see what the message is. Mind you his is not a historian or teaches history, his more of a story teller to me.

  • @DougHanson2769
    @DougHanson2769 6 років тому

    Wasn’t it Daphne w/Apollo

  • @ElisaSSuter
    @ElisaSSuter 6 років тому +1

  • @RoflJoker1994
    @RoflJoker1994 6 років тому +4

    WHAT WAS THAT AT THE START LOL

  • @jamesticknor1134
    @jamesticknor1134 4 роки тому

    If her words would not be believed by anyone else, she should have just lied.

    • @starlord7526
      @starlord7526 Рік тому

      her words had no values. Lucky for her, she was one of the Royals, else she would have been burnt alive in cause of forecasting of ill future

  • @AntonioCostaAmaral
    @AntonioCostaAmaral 6 років тому

    Some Haydn persuation = ua-cam.com/video/3DM1eJxUT8k/v-deo.html

  • @mitchellmccauley160
    @mitchellmccauley160 5 років тому +1

    haha this is interesting

  • @spirosgal1885
    @spirosgal1885 4 роки тому +1

    Λόγος
    Ήθος
    Πάθος

  • @briancooley8777
    @briancooley8777 4 роки тому

    Logos never works with people. It should but people are stupid

    • @ricomajestic
      @ricomajestic 7 місяців тому +1

      Yea but people become smart when it is convenient for them so you have to be able to persuade them through reason.