Good quick review. I like that he asks us to moderate our own expectations on a one-year old. Don't task too much or use the authority device. This helped validate some of the things we were already doing. Thanks!
This didn't help at all. I DO intend to change my child's behaviour. He is 1. Excellent walker. Walks off, looking back grinning at me thinking it's a game to make me chase him over and over in inappropriate arenas (bus, train, church, strange places). If I restrain him in any way (buggy, holding him), he screams and writhes trying to escape. That is not fun for any of us. I want him to stay calm when restrained OR stay in the same general area as his parents without running off half way down the carriage giggling. I want to know how to achieve that. We have a great relationship, he is happy most of the time and generally seems very happy to explore. I don't think he needs more encouragement or understanding, he needs to learn sometimes he can't explore everything, sometimes he's got to be quiet and relatively contained. There's got to be balance here!
You do realize he’s one year old right? The problem here is your unrealistic expectations, not your child. Children that young dont undestand it’s fine to run around in certain scenarios and in others they need to be calm. You need to have developmentally appropriate expectations. 1 year olds have a very short attention span and do not like to be restrained. You will need to get creative and find other ways to distract/divert their attention when it’s necessary to maintain safety or order in public places since physical restraint alone isn’t working
Hi everyone ,if anyone else wants to uncover how to discipline toddlers try Loctavan Teaching Toddler Strategy (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my partner got great results with it.
Good quick review. I like that he asks us to moderate our own expectations on a one-year old. Don't task too much or use the authority device. This helped validate some of the things we were already doing. Thanks!
Wonderful video. Thank you
This didn't help at all. I DO intend to change my child's behaviour. He is 1. Excellent walker. Walks off, looking back grinning at me thinking it's a game to make me chase him over and over in inappropriate arenas (bus, train, church, strange places). If I restrain him in any way (buggy, holding him), he screams and writhes trying to escape. That is not fun for any of us. I want him to stay calm when restrained OR stay in the same general area as his parents without running off half way down the carriage giggling. I want to know how to achieve that. We have a great relationship, he is happy most of the time and generally seems very happy to explore. I don't think he needs more encouragement or understanding, he needs to learn sometimes he can't explore everything, sometimes he's got to be quiet and relatively contained. There's got to be balance here!
Sophia Marsden ooooooooo i so feel you.. exactly whar i want to achieve as well.
Sophia Marsden any updates on his progress?
You do realize he’s one year old right? The problem here is your unrealistic expectations, not your child. Children that young dont undestand it’s fine to run around in certain scenarios and in others they need to be calm. You need to have developmentally appropriate expectations. 1 year olds have a very short attention span and do not like to be restrained. You will need to get creative and find other ways to distract/divert their attention when it’s necessary to maintain safety or order in public places since physical restraint alone isn’t working
@@mariachristina55 Agreed
Hi everyone ,if anyone else wants to uncover how to discipline toddlers try Loctavan Teaching Toddler Strategy (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my partner got great results with it.
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