Amen, Lady V! You will get there my sister…. I think it’s a lot easier when we catch on to them FIRST and cut those ties FIRST because when it’s over we’ve already worked through the process. You will get better. You just have to work through the process. Keep in mind who he is not who you wished he was…. That helps me so much. Who he is I would NEVER miss or go back too. Who I wanted him to be it would be like a finding a straw in a haystack odds of that happening, so that keeps me safe. I can’t get over the FACT that he wanted to leave but didn’t want me to move on and was too coward because of shame so he wanted me insane or dead. I can’t get over that. I forgive for me but I will always remember that. Love you sis! Stay true to the FACTS! Let go of his illusion. 😞❤️🙏
If you were the “ Grade A Supply “ , you best believe they are thinking about you & talking to the new supply about you- funny how what they talk about is the good things about you - now that you are GONE. This typically is for the Grade A supply. A horrible position to be in but when you leave they will never completely replace you . They can’t and they KNOW it …
Yep! If you think about it’s the same when they were with you…. Mine used to brag about me and talk good about me to others but never told me…. He would buy cards that perfectly fit the person I am but would not treat me like I was that person…. They are some very conflicted individuals. The devil has a real hold on them; yes, he does! 😞🙏
@@Glitter504 Yeah, my narc number one stalked…. There is a probability narc number two may do some stalking too because he did show a little of the traits when we dated and when we first got married that I didn’t catch as stalking because I had a fool with narc number one so I thought it was weird but didn’t connect it with stalking until now. He does seem to want to be in control more now so I do have some concerns he might stalk after the divorce but I’ll handle it. Not going to let it slide like I did with narc number one; I am contacting the authorities.
"Grade A Supply" is not a compliment. It means you were a doormat and they regard you as such. They believe they can always go back to you because you tolerated and coddled them through the abuse they dished out. Its seen as encouragement for them to continue doing it. Stop glorifying "grade A supply." There is absolutely no dignity in it.
@@gx_1 Well, I was with mine for almost 35 years. Have children with him too…. There was a wedding… So…. I’ve got a lot of pictures with nice fake smiles. 😞🤷♀️
And most importantly our LOOSH our energy. Protect your LOOSH at all costs. Even from them NARC Demons in Power. They survive on fear turn that Tel A Vision off. It is like a Narc and brainwashing machine. This is Spiritual Warfare 🙏🆘💯❤️
The Narcissist and The Empath is a battle of the soul; Armor up! Rise above and ascend, Never break only bend, This is not the beginning not the end, Open wings 🪽 then fly again. Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️
Hario I love when it's just you talking like back in the day...I will definitely support you by purchasing your book because you whether I wanted to hear some things or not, laugh or cry, you are one of the few that got me to where I am today....thank u.
My brother you are so true,i dealt with a narc for 16 years,on my situation all of them are narcs,father met the mother of my previce spouce who also a narc,they got three children of two women and one boy,the boy is ok but the two daughters very narc anf their parents,what i noticed on these videos explaining what transpire about narcs,they follow same petten it amazing and it shows there is one devil behind them who makes them this mess
Hario you re so rigth the narc keep trying to hovered , send me his family to harrasing me and blocking my peace, im here just laughing out loud thinking, they must be so boring with their life ,and miserable, im so busy with my kids raising them by myself and enjoy my peaceful life,with them, that I don't have the time to waste on a clown ,smh!
Can you please make a video about what to do if they have private pictures of you. Though he is not blackmailing but what if he does in future. I am just paranoid about this thought that he will leak someday. What to do about that?
Be strong in the Lord sis! I am in the mist of mine too. Still in the house with mine at least for the few hours he comes to rest his head to get under my skin. He doesn’t live there for real and has started changing his address to his mom’s address to things that will cost me more money like our auto insurance to make me have to pay more money…. All it’s doing it’s ensuring I have cut ALL ties from him when those papers are signed. He won’t even go with me to close our joint account or get his life insurance from being auto draft from the account so it can keep going overdraft twice a month when those go through so I would have to give him some attention and put a note up about it…. All he’s doing is giving proof of how childish he is to the judge. Not going to give him another note. I am sure he gets notifications. It happened today. I just went online and printed out the proof and putting it with the other documents. It hard in the middle of it; yes it is. I have my moments and counseling is good! It does help having someone that understands. I have a therapist and she’s nice but I do think my experience would be better if it was with someone that has experienced narcissistic abuse themselves… Love you and stay strong in the Lord! 😞❤️🙏
Truth 💯
They are never satisfied, never peaceful, never loyal. What a miserable way to live. Although im grieving, im grateful hes gone
Kudos sweetie 🌺
Amen, Lady V! You will get there my sister…. I think it’s a lot easier when we catch on to them FIRST and cut those ties FIRST because when it’s over we’ve already worked through the process. You will get better. You just have to work through the process. Keep in mind who he is not who you wished he was…. That helps me so much. Who he is I would NEVER miss or go back too. Who I wanted him to be it would be like a finding a straw in a haystack odds of that happening, so that keeps me safe. I can’t get over the FACT that he wanted to leave but didn’t want me to move on and was too coward because of shame so he wanted me insane or dead. I can’t get over that. I forgive for me but I will always remember that. Love you sis! Stay true to the FACTS! Let go of his illusion. 😞❤️🙏
If you were the “ Grade A Supply “ , you best believe they are thinking about you & talking to the new supply about you- funny how what they talk about is the good things about you - now that you are GONE.
This typically is for the Grade A supply. A horrible position to be in but when you leave they will never completely replace you . They can’t and they KNOW it …
I know that's right
Yep! If you think about it’s the same when they were with you…. Mine used to brag about me and talk good about me to others but never told me…. He would buy cards that perfectly fit the person I am but would not treat me like I was that person…. They are some very conflicted individuals. The devil has a real hold on them; yes, he does! 😞🙏
They never leave you alone ! You’re hoovered , stalked etc
@@Glitter504 Yeah, my narc number one stalked…. There is a probability narc number two may do some stalking too because he did show a little of the traits when we dated and when we first got married that I didn’t catch as stalking because I had a fool with narc number one so I thought it was weird but didn’t connect it with stalking until now. He does seem to want to be in control more now so I do have some concerns he might stalk after the divorce but I’ll handle it. Not going to let it slide like I did with narc number one; I am contacting the authorities.
"Grade A Supply" is not a compliment. It means you were a doormat and they regard you as such. They believe they can always go back to you because you tolerated and coddled them through the abuse they dished out. Its seen as encouragement for them to continue doing it. Stop glorifying "grade A supply." There is absolutely no dignity in it.
We helped them get the new person with our fake happiness and smiles on pictures…
Most definitely! They get them while still faking with us.
😂never even took one picture with the one I was supposedly with.
@@gx_1 Well, I was with mine for almost 35 years. Have children with him too…. There was a wedding… So…. I’ve got a lot of pictures with nice fake smiles. 😞🤷♀️
@@gx_1I never posted them he was always camera ready I couldn't fake it
And most importantly our LOOSH our energy. Protect your LOOSH at all costs. Even from them NARC Demons in Power. They survive on fear turn that Tel A Vision off. It is like a Narc and brainwashing machine. This is Spiritual Warfare 🙏🆘💯❤️
The Narcissist and The Empath is a battle of the soul; Armor up!
Rise above and ascend,
Never break only bend,
This is not the beginning not the end,
Open wings 🪽 then fly again.
Stay alert!
Stay alive!
Stay strong!
Peace ✌️
I love THIS!!! Thank you for sharing it with us ♥️
Truth!!
When I was the new supply. Covert narc was continuously talking down about his ex.
Correct!! Look at Cassie and Diddy now😮
My ex narc has a std now.. she’s so gross 🤢 she’s sleeping with everyone.
Hario I love when it's just you talking like back in the day...I will definitely support you by purchasing your book because you whether I wanted to hear some things or not, laugh or cry, you are one of the few that got me to where I am today....thank u.
EVERYTHING IS COMING TO HIM. THE GIRLS THE HANDSOME dude sporty ONE. AND IM HERE IN PAIN
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Hey hey Hario congrats sir on your book!!! How do I get an autographed copy your not touring Oklahoma City??
The narcissist-psychopath in my life walked out on me and our 6 children.
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My brother you are so true,i dealt with a narc for 16 years,on my situation all of them are narcs,father met the mother of my previce spouce who also a narc,they got three children of two women and one boy,the boy is ok but the two daughters very narc anf their parents,what i noticed on these videos explaining what transpire about narcs,they follow same petten it amazing and it shows there is one devil behind them who makes them this mess
Excellent
Hi everyone, happy Friday
Hario you re so rigth the narc keep trying to hovered , send me his family to harrasing me and blocking my peace, im here just laughing out loud thinking, they must be so boring with their life ,and miserable, im so busy with my kids raising them by myself and enjoy my peaceful life,with them, that I don't have the time to waste on a clown ,smh!
Right on 👍
Can you please make a video about what to do if they have private pictures of you. Though he is not blackmailing but what if he does in future. I am just paranoid about this thought that he will leak someday. What to do about that?
Great question! I would like to know, as well.
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Hario...I need a session with you. How do I request? This thing I am in has taken a different turn. I need your expertise
Be strong in the Lord sis! I am in the mist of mine too. Still in the house with mine at least for the few hours he comes to rest his head to get under my skin. He doesn’t live there for real and has started changing his address to his mom’s address to things that will cost me more money like our auto insurance to make me have to pay more money…. All it’s doing it’s ensuring I have cut ALL ties from him when those papers are signed. He won’t even go with me to close our joint account or get his life insurance from being auto draft from the account so it can keep going overdraft twice a month when those go through so I would have to give him some attention and put a note up about it…. All he’s doing is giving proof of how childish he is to the judge. Not going to give him another note. I am sure he gets notifications. It happened today. I just went online and printed out the proof and putting it with the other documents. It hard in the middle of it; yes it is. I have my moments and counseling is good! It does help having someone that understands. I have a therapist and she’s nice but I do think my experience would be better if it was with someone that has experienced narcissistic abuse themselves… Love you and stay strong in the Lord! 😞❤️🙏
Mine is supposed to be here tomorrow. ❤
@HarioOvadtop how sure are yu about what your saying on this video about the Narc? Cuz I’m not gonna lie it sounds good!