You need to let his sorry a** go! Let him go!
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
- 3This video is about letting him go. Let him go...In this dating advice video, I will give you the reasons why you need to let him go. You may see these issues on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips, and be sure to watch the entire video.
Letting him go is necessary when you're dealing with the wrong man who doesn't belong in your life. Keeping him around will only block your blessings, and stop you from receiving the relationship that is truly best for you.
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“Rejection is the best gift some people can give us.”
-Kev hick
Amen
Rejection is God's protection.
“Rejection is re-direction”
"Some of y'all in the corner crying when you need to be in there praise dancing" 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Yes indeed, God doesn't make mistakes.
Super Amen!😂😂😂
Ouch...lol
@Nicole Pertillar..AMEN!!
I laughed so hard lol
A double minded man is unstable in all his ways! Boom 💥
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🎯This!!
Ruth is always looking for that Boaz, But sometimes Ruth has to look for Ruth. That man's rejection is God's protection.
Now that's Real Talk!! So very true.
Love it, Marie!!
Speak a Word Marie Hatch!!
To be CORRECT about the Word of God Ruth was NOT looking for Boaz. Boaz NOTICED her first and she ALSO had the FAVOR of God on her life. Boaz inquired about Ruth from other people BECAUSE he liked her. Ruth was minding her OWN business and also taking care of her mother in law. The FAVOR on Ruth's life caused everything to work out for her that in the end Boaz wanted and was willing to MARRY HER with NO manipulation on her part and from that she was in ABUNDANCE and NO LONGER in lack. Google it!!!!!!
@constance Reynolds , I know the book and the word. It's a metaphor . And if I may express My opinion. In today's word and culture Women are looking for the likeness of a Boaz. So instead of them looking and searching for a man , the women need do find themselves and their self worth . That's what I meant.
When they start treating you bad, they are asking you to get rid. They told you they want to leave with their behaviour long before they left. Don't wait for a guy to tell you with his mouth what he already told you with his actions.
Well said..
that is so true-- actions speak louder than words
Damn that's deep
And why wouldn’t he be able to tell it earlier? That’s just cowardly and ”comfortable”. I’ve been around for 45 years, and only once did I hang out with a poor guy who was afraid of confrontation. Also, why WOULD I be obsessed with being in a relationship?! In US, every woman seems to be fed the dream of ”the One” and a perfect wedding, and being fed unrealistic romantic movies ... It’s SO strange to a northern european. 🙈 I’m not dependent on the idea of having a man in my life; I have LOADS of things to do. And yes, I was married for ten years. I was happy, but became seriously ill and in the end that resulted in me divorcing my then husband. Who is still my best friend. I am ... well ... not that impressed. Also, he could probably be my son. Why should men dictate the rules? 😟😳
I am sorry if I have offended anyone, I don’t mean to. I just don’t get it?!
Communication usually works very well, indeed, if you don’t want to confuse the other part with guessing games. That’s actually very unfair, but probably it feeds a male ego .. ?
As a woman by personal experience I've walked away from guys I liked a lot! It may not be easy at first but it's Powerful. Walking away shows him I am not a bitch to be messed with; In Fact I'm Like No Other Bitch Period. He Always Comes Back Missing ME Immensely 24/7.....
The point is your self-respect should be stronger than your feelings. 💯
Amen! God removed him once from my life. And I let him beg his way back in SMH! The second time God removed him, I lock the doors.
I'm working on building up myself now...feel so much better now💕
Yes, I loved this comment. I grew up being the oldest sibling in my family and with two dependent parents lol. So...my empathetic ways made me unable to leave and put his feelings, wants, and needs before mine! But no more! He left! I'm free! ( when he calls for some sex I never answer). 😁
I don't know you but I love you for this because you spoke the truth Amen 💯💯💯💯
My weak ass ex still begs... 8 months after I dumped him! I just LOL because I always told him: Once you disrespect me, I will never ever be back. Take a hint!
@@daejtwist9552 You know being a responsible older sibling can not make you put others before yourself right 🤔... You chose to put others before yourself.
That trauma bond is a beast! But when you're finally healed and free, it feels so good!
I've had many disingenuous guys reject me over the past 5 years. The garbage took itself out. Good Riddance. Rejection is apart of everyday life, we get rejected by people, jobs we may apply to, ect. Learn to release disingenuous people for the greater good.
🗑 🗑 🗑!
I said goodbye to all the nonsense and closed the door. Honestly at this point I don't even care of the door to another relationship opens. I'm good by myself.
This is sad to read concerning your comment BUT don't give ANYONE that kind of power to stop you from wanting and receiving love that you desire to have.
My current mindset.....
You jus need to rest then get back up n fight/try again. It’s jus Life
I think you are being extreme. You need time by yourself to heal and focus on the good things in yourself and to be honest with yourself before you try another relationship.
You are not 💯 innocent. You contribute to every outcome in your life. Analyze what you could have done differently, what you learned from dealing with this person. Anything you don’t like? Change it.
Like Kev once said “some men ain’t shit, some women ain’t shit. That’s life. It’s foolishness to mishandle everyone you meet because of that”.
This is where I am mentally!!!!
“Sometimes they don’t even know why they’re walking out of your life but they know they have to” 👀 if that’s not God!!! 🙌🏾 👏🏾 God will save you from mess even when you don’t want to be saved. Listen ladies (and any gentlemen that may be watching), after that initial shock or hurt, feel those feels, cry it out, vent....then pray, put them big girl panties on, and move the f on! It was always for your good! Give space for the one who wants to be there for you 💯 and is a positive force for you.
Say it louder, for the people in the back! Keep the faith and keep it moving.
You are preaching ok! Thank you!
I want a stable relationship! Lord Please 🙏! I want a man who doesn't put me down, or willing hurt me! I want to treat "him" well too!
Start to ask in a positive and focus more on what you want….❤❤❤❤
This channel taught me not to chase men. Praise Kevin.
Words of wisdom, him walking out means the right one can now walk in🤗 All truth Kevin 🤜🤛
I stand and agree.
Super Amen!
Sometimes the right one may never come. you end up being the leftover woman
What's funny is the cliche "Look at God" but a lot of people are not even seeking Him and continue to do the same thing expecting different results.
rejection is protection 🤍
Great information!! You have to love yourself first. A broken spirit can smell another broken spirit! We focus so much on what we think we are losing instead of seeing what we are gaining! Been there done that, never again!
EXACTLY!!!
Hurt people hurt people!
Whewwwwwww
@@faceofglam That is so true! There is no way possible that you can truly love someone else if you don’t love yourself!
This was needed at the moment. It's a psychological thing after dealing with someones toxicity for so long to be sad however after that healing and growth, you realize that your are much happier and better off!💪🏽 Keep stepping and be true to yourself.
No doubt ma. Keep on being strong
Absolutely! Don't keep making the same mistake just because you've been making it for so long! ❤️
Me too sick of it
Im definitely happier tho
When I say this video was right on time!! “The wrong person” just walked outta me life today. A “toxic, mismatch, relationship”. This was needed in so many ways.
"look at God" PREACH
This is true. You have to think about yourself. I couldn’t handle being with someone that doesn’t want me.
It' s not worth it.
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Speak It brother. Don't pray for your downfalls....pray for your blessings. Simple as that.
I’m just giving up on dating it seems like men love to claims that they want to get to know me and every time things get serious and I finally opened up about being celibate they show their true intentions it started to make me think that men just after one thing smh and the sad thing I grew up as daddy’s girl so I don’t see why I can’t find a man that wants me for me instead of trying to use me for money or my body
Umm...I think you're confused on what it is. Dating coaches have spoke on people that choose to be celibate and dating celibate.
You have to understand...most ppl nowadays usually date but also want to have sex eventually. So its not that That's All They Want...but its just that they are not on the same page as you...in that regard.
So like they said...it may be a little more challenging for you...if you're waiting until a certain date. Idk. But hopefully you find the right 1 for you soon.
I've been celibate 4 years & have meet many disingenuous guys who ghosted me or played me to the left. The trash took itself out. Good Riddance.
I wouldn’t tell a guy that until about two weeks. It gives you time to see if you even like him. But not wasting time either. I would ask him his views on celibacy first. Then see his reaction to the question. If you lead by telling him your celibate first he might lie and say it’s fine. And later use that as a challenge or conquest. But asking him casually will show more of what he truly thinks.
@@Perfectlyradiant_ True
@Lori Joy Fine Art Channel You just gotta find someone for you...that can handle whatever type of relationship you want. Definitely don't recommend her to change for a guy. But you also can't ask a guy to change what works for him to work for her always...if he knows thats not him.
Like me personally, I don't have a problem waiting for a lil bit if I'm interested and we're getting to know each other on a personal basis. But me personally, I would have to have set with her before I fully commit to her...because I've experienced poor serial chemistry before...and it turned me off so much that I ended it with that woman. So yeah. Sex is cool and important for a lot of us...but Not the Foundation for a relationship. Friendship is. The sex should come after...after yall get to know each other more imo. But like I said, that's just me.
I think, sometimes the upset feelings have more to do with the past rather then a present situation. For example...beeing ghosted and rejected can evoke the old, deep seated, subconscious childhood wound of beeing, abandoned and that's why it's so painful. I was ghosted by someone, who I knew I was not compatible with and didn't want to be with, but still the old wound from parental rejection came up like a default response. When you were subjected to prolonged silent treatments or other emotional abuse from parents, there are trigger responses and false beliefs to work out because most probably you will blame yourself for someone ghosting you and think you are not lovable, etc. It's good to recognize triggers from the past.
I totally feel you in this
this is really insightful and makes a lot of sense. i just ended a year and half long relationship where his actions were not aligning with his words, my feelings were not being validated, i did not feel appreciated, i knew we were incompatible, there was no effort towards the relationship on his part etc etc AND i didn’t even trust myself that i liked him as a person 🤦🏻♀️ it’s like i was forcing myself to relive past wounds hoping for a different outcome and once it was over, i promised myself i would take care of ME so i know what signs to look out for next time and not keep falling into the same patterns. a lot of our romantic relationships are based on models from our parents, early friendships, interactions with authority figures (teachers, doctors, counselors, people we’re taught to respect and follow blindly even though THEY have their own baggage, project their own insecurities and fears onto others, and are still human at the end of the day) and we become conditioned to accept our circumstances as reality and fact. the best thing you can do is HEAL, recognize your faults and flaws, and do the work to respect and protect yourself. what you put out is what you receive, and it’s simultaneously scary yet liberating to know we have the capability to change so much about our lives. look inside, never stop learning, keep it moving, own your mistakes and always strive to do better. it’s not about attaining perfection, it’s about becoming conscious of your role in things and choosing to put your best foot forward even when the familiar is the most comfortable course of action you can take. allowing ourselves to grow is one of the best things we can do for ourselves ♥️
That's where mines came from...it was rarely the person in front of me..
Most of them i really didn't like
It was my ego was bruised from something in my past
Facts! "I need what only you can give: your absence."
🤣🤣🤣 That is a good one!
You saved me when you told me, " Deception doesn't disappear". That was it. I just kept repeating that.
"Some of y'all in the corner crying when you need to be praise dancing" LOVE IT!
You hit tur nail on the head!! I was in a situationalship about 2 years ago. He stopped talking to me and I didnt know what I did wrong. Now I realize God took him out of my life, at first I was crushed. I look back and I thank Him for it, it was the beginning of healing and building a closer relationship with God.
Being discarded is the perfect gift…Won’t HE DO IT!!! ♥️
"Won't he do it" yassss Kev say it..rejection is protection.
That’s right. A man that will add to my life. 👍
I'm glad that I saw this. I was struggling and holding on to the wrong person. Thanks for the reminder that it's a good thing that he is gone!!
Be happy if he leaves, my husband would not! My husband became verbally, emotionally, financially and finally last October Physically abusive! Divorce will be final next month! You are blessed if he makes it easy for you...Blessings to all!
How did you know I needed this 😳 I was just crying yesterday about being left by an A-hole
I swear this man always knows how to shift my thoughts and outlook! Always reminding me about the bigger picture. I always remember in one of your videos you stated “you got to separate your emotions with your standards” and I always try to live by that 💯🙏🏼 you’re a real 1
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Honestly ^^
I swear to god your videos are always so damn accurate, I’m sitting here wondering what to do and then I see this title.... man!! it’s incredible, you’re almost always my sign
🤣🤣" please take the gift from God!" made me laugh out loud.!You took it to church on this video, nothing but truth! Chase your peace of mind & happiness & Let them GO!!!
I am glad he left me. We both need to move on. God is So Great!! My ex is unstable . I don't need that in my life!!
I am so angry inside, at myself for not listen to my knowledge, intuition sooner. So now it’s like, I owe it to myself at this point.
I broke it off with my ex for the third time 3 weeks ago. My gut was telling me not even to go there this time and I didn't listen. He is a negative impact on me and my mental health and I definitely have backslid a little bit since I got into contact with him but I have not spoken to him for 3 weeks and I wish I would have just left him alone. Thank you for telling us what we need to hear and being really candid about it I think we get on the wrong track because we feel the need to see something in our person when in reality whatever we were choosing to see wasn't actually there.
How timely. Got ghosted by a guy I've been holding on to for almost three years now, despite having contemplated leaving in-between. Surprisingly I do feel relieved rather than saddened.
Unknowingly, I he just handed me my freedom
I felt sad at first because initially my heart wanted him but yes it is blessing that I'm not allowed by fate or supernatural forces to be with the wrong man who would've ruined my life anyway... it is actually a good thing undercover. Some other woman took him and maybe that protected me...
Spot on! When a toxic person walks out of your life it's a blessing!! You just dodged a bullet!
Sometimes when you can’t stand up for yourself...
^god will do it for you
^the universe will do it for you
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Powerful video, and so true!! Before my divorce, my ex drove me crazy, he was a real pain to me, then when he wanted to leave I didn’t want him to go. Then I thought about it 🧐 it was a blessing when he did leave!!
It’s crazy when the f boy would ghost or reject me i would feel hurt or like i was missing out on something i just didn’t understand why this was happening but now you shifted my perspective
let everyone go. good people don’t be messing you up. lol. stop.
Kevin this was well needed. I love it. Still hurts though. So badly 😢😫. So tired.
I needed to hear this, not everybody has people to talk too or friends, so thank you for posting these advice videos.
Yes, the universe will push you out. My mind was spinning bc I was so unhappy but didn’t know how to get out of it... that morning I woke up to a dream that my father was protecting his family, then that day my ex and I had a huge blow out and I moved out. I feel so much better!
I agree!! God has removed people because he heard conversations/ saw text messages that you didn’t! (Or didn’t see YET). Even if they are a doctor … they are not a good person!! All praises to the most high!!!
It's sooo trueee. I was just looking back on a lost situationship when this video popped up. Look at the timing!! God richly bless you
This guy makes me constantly evaluate my behavior and my decisions. THANK YOU!
If a Man wanted to leave me then he never was for me in the first place.
You seem really heated of late. I cannot say that I blame you. Some of the questions you've shared would cause fist fights if I were the one answering them. Thank you for the message here. My last beau was definitely wrong for me. This took some time to learn, as he seemed ok. He broke up with me because I'm "too healthy" and he couldn't handle not having a woman around who doesn't throw tantrums, call names, throw things, AKA acts like an adult. I really liked him. He showed his arse even more after I said that I wished him the best and hope that he finds what he's looking for. He told me that I never really loved him because I didn't fight to keep him. I burst out laughing. I reminded him that I told him that I'd never do that. I believe that anyone who wants to leave is free to go. Just remember that the door only swings out.
The wrong person will keep you down!! Stand up and walk away .
At 4:27 "You want peace and you're chasing some man who just jumped out of another woman and didn't even wash it off and came over your house." OMG, Kev. Vicious but so true.
This is such a great message. The best thing some people can do is walk out of your life. I remember wanting a particular guy so bad. Years later, I found out that his woman caught hell with him. I am glad they worked it out but looking at my personality, I don' t think I could have dealt with that guy for the long term. I remember praying for God to somehow give me the strength to walk away from this guy I was absolutely weak for who was no good for me. When he finally did, I felt completely rejected. But then I had to remind my self. Did I not pray this person would leave my life. I sure as hell was not happy with him and his toxicity being in my life. Now I am taking several seats and trying to work on myself so I won' t continue to attract or be attracted to the wrong person.
"Look at God" lol I fucks with Kev. Sometimes sarcasm is needed to some of these videos. U need to add travesty to tragedy sometimes
Kev is amazing
I've been praying the past 2 days for God to send me a sign. Why does my ex keep trying to come back? Can I interpret his persistence for love? Here's my sign. Thank brother
Persistence is often possession
YESSSS because those people will REAP ON WHAT THEY SOW so it is a BLESSING when they are no longer in your life PRAISE 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
The guys I've met are not in my life for a reason lol rather good or bad and I'm grateful for that.
Kevin preaching today 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I needed this forreal i had such a unreal connection he made me so happy but it wasnt sustainable no matter how much i tried thank you
Damn right!!! But a lot of us had always been in that type of bad relationship cycle to the point where we think it’s normal to feel that way, we can’t even see what’s right and what’s wrong because everybody seems to be like that in this world it’s a continuous cycle. Praise God that he gave you the gift to point that out to the ones that need you.❤️
Thank you! I needed this today.. been going back and forth between leaving and staying. I’m so tired of the on and off. Being supportive to someone who continues to hurt themselves. You’re right I know God is listening to my prayers and things are the way the are because they are supposed too. I deserve better, I was happy Alone before I met him. I know I can get back to that. Staying on my path.. what he wants to do with his life is his choice.
I am in this place now...did you leave him. Are you ok?
Exactly what I needed. This dude keeps calling me on my work phone on anonymous and It’s confusing me.
So lately I chose to focus on you as my entrainment .... and what is so sad is I turn u off because your truth makes me sad ... I knew this... but why am I so weak to keep letting it happen im woke.... but still watch myself allow this and that... if only you was my brother .... I would definitely move better... so your my youtube big brother... don't stop teaching.... im learning...
DAAAAAMMMMNNNNN!!!! That HURT, but that was 100% on POINT!! 🔥🔥🔥💯💯
I can’t think of anyone who ever said this better 💯
Ok, maybe I lied a little bit cuz Momz knew important things too. But Kevin H. is right up there in the wisdom dept. Man’s got all the equipment an audience needs ✌️
Thank you so much! My toxic ex dumped me a few weeks ago, and I now need to learn to see it as a blessing!
You hit it on the nail for me
This just happened to my best friend in a relationship with someone my friend would cry be stressed out, worried, she was afraid to tell this person to leave.I always thought she should tell them to leave yet it wasn’t my decision. The person LEFT HER. My friend will call me crying stressed out and grieving from the loss now months later she is at peace thankful her joy is back .I told her see ,that person blessed you by leaving ,it didn’t seem like it at first, but now you see that it is and she said yes.A lot of the fears my friend had , who will do this, who will do that, dealing with negativity and healthiness from this person ,God has answered and blessed her! EVERYTHING she was afraid of losing God has provided in another healthy person!
You are so funny because you are so real. I have completely given up on my situation. There is nothing worse than choosing the wrong family. I am bummed because you made this video short.
You’re funny, Kev, “Look at God! Won’t He do it?! “
😂🤣😂
Yesss and amen. That is why one of my daily affirmations is: That which is not for my highest good now fades from me and I no longer desire it." However, it or they fade is not up to me. I just know that it's going to happen and when it does, I don't question it.
I’m mad at myself for letting my ex breakup with me first. I was blindsided. I saw the flags waving in my face for months. I ignored them trying to be the good girlfriend. This went on for 3 years. Now, he calls me on my birthday to tell me he has been living with a woman for a month. He doesn’t want me back, and this cut deep. I invested 3 years of my life with him.
When I say you have just spoken a whole word Kev. I needed every one of these words. We as women need to completely embrace the tru meaning of being Happy, Healthy and Whole💯💯
💯 This Valentine’s 2022 and the rest to come, love and honour yourself enough to heal, grow, and move forward. Let go, let GOD. Believe that God has a perfect plan for each one of us. 🙏🏽 ♥️ 💫
Louder for those of us in the back Kev!!
Kev on fire lately!! I'm pretty sure I used to be one of these women....at least where the father of my kids was concerned. He kept me on an emotional rollercoaster. It keeps you in place because you think it's not all bad all the time. And kids! And you love him! Ugh. I had to get sick and tired of being sick and tired. Some people get addicted to the drama. But once you get to the other side where you can see clear, you will CRAVE peace and wholeness. LOVE DOESN'T HURT. Period. I may be alone, but it's a good alone. Love to any and all ladies who are currently struggling in a relationship 💜 you are not alone in it.🤗
Many of your “talks” can be difficult to hear, but very necessary. I so appreciate your wisdom and guidance and it matters not the age of the person receiving it.
My young queens just getting yourselves out into this world please heed this advice. It could save you a world of hurt, physically, mentally and spiritually. ❤️
You are absolutely right!!!! I have decided to finally end this adulterous marriage once and for all. Walking to peace, happiness and committed love.
And the sad part about everything.. They always try to come right back around smh! That’s why it’s important to know your self worth cause once you do realize your worth.. Ain’t no second chances & move on to bigger and better things 💯🙃💯
If you don't do it,God Will...
Thank you! Wow I needed to heard this, I’ve crying today over my husband not looking for the kids and he already move on with his ex. He’s an alcoholic abusive narcissist man.
This is the truth!! The rejection and loss are gifts!!
My intention are very clear when I meet a guy so when they decide to leave that's not my problem, I remain with my peace and that's the greatest thing in my life
Awesome vid, Kev! I tell people this too. It's a blessing when they leave, and your prayers and affirmations probably aren't being fulfilled because of YOU. The universe steps in and does it for you. EMBRACE IT. ❤️☀️👍🏿👍🏿
Dude. Where have you been all my life with these wisdom bombs?!! I love the way you delivered this! Powerful! Thank you!
Amen! The lord has definitely removed entities/ toxic people away me that ment me NO GOOD!!! 🤗🤗 Hallelujah!
Thanks for telling straight FACTS!!!💯💯💖
Amen! This is what I say to my clients...its not about "Is he gonna come back?" but why are you attracted to these low vibrational partners?
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Absolutely 💯% on point... Rejection God's Protection...❤❤❤
If you have that feeling in your gut and pain in your heart. LEAVE HIM because he will leave you. If he does leave see it as a BLESSING because your freedom and mental health are more important
Mannnnn this is literally right here when I need it!
I need to play this loud enough for my neighbor to hear, 🙄 sheesh Great message sir,thank you!
Thank you, I needed this. I need to hold myself accountable
U right. U absolutely are. And u say it direct, no bs, no sugar coating kinda way that I need. And I absolutely needed to hear every word in this exact moment and circumstance in my life. I'm taking that as a sign of divine intervention. Thank u 🙏🫶🏼
Mhmmm! YUP! 💯 Divine intervention.☝🏽🙏🏽✨
Rejection surely Is God's protection. 🙏❣️ God will protect you from the 🌪️🌩️⛈️ whirlwinds and storms of life.
Everything you've said in this video makes so much sense
This really helped .. I feel so broken.. he left me again..I was so good to him.. time to be good to me now .. thanks for this video ❤