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  • Опубліковано 24 гру 2022
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  • @marwasadaf8760
    @marwasadaf8760 Рік тому +19762

    Liz is like the big sister most of us never had

    • @yasmiranda.s
      @yasmiranda.s Рік тому +81

      fr girl

    • @laaleksandra3538
      @laaleksandra3538 Рік тому +253

      You are 100% right. I am the older sister in the family, and I give advice to my younger sister. But I always dreamed that someone would give me advice and share his life experience with me

    • @user-xb2bd6lu8l
      @user-xb2bd6lu8l Рік тому +28

      Saving this for when I go home ❤

    • @Alex_Is_Not_Here
      @Alex_Is_Not_Here Рік тому +40

      older subling traumas, fr

    • @manueladellon3641
      @manueladellon3641 Рік тому +4

      exactly

  • @jessrh24
    @jessrh24 Рік тому +3293

    “Sometimes I just stare at a wall. I like it.”
    I have never related to something more in my life, ever.

    • @Anaiba_frr
      @Anaiba_frr Рік тому +10

      Samee frr

    • @nursyazliana
      @nursyazliana Рік тому +7

      yes me too

    • @ZdravNaukKJV
      @ZdravNaukKJV Рік тому

      Proverbs 25:19
      Confidence in an unfaithful man in time of trouble is like a broken tooth, and a foot out of joint.
      Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light. (Ephesians 5:14)
      ua-cam.com/video/PpylUDKrHek/v-deo.html

    • @StPhere
      @StPhere Рік тому +4

      Wtf😂

    • @drunkcactus9237
      @drunkcactus9237 Рік тому

      litterally stole this from hamza
      m.ua-cam.com/video/H4VWDJUDHX0/v-deo.html

  • @luna-pt2gp
    @luna-pt2gp Рік тому +2092

    " The past doesn't exist. The past is only in your head." Thank you!

  • @emilycantplaygolf
    @emilycantplaygolf Рік тому +2611

    my notes!
    - Buy it mentality
    - Focus on what you can control, and not on what you can’t
    - Who are you not?
    - Shadow work
    - Create routines/systems
    - Make money
    - Learn the art of communication
    - Socialize
    - Start wearing sunglasses and looking people in the eyes
    - Do things you find cringe or uncomfortable in public
    - Body language
    - Become delusional
    - Listen to positive meditations, affirmations
    - Listen to music that makes you feel confident
    - Make decisions that are best for you
    - Use other peoples’ success as motivation
    - Create an aesthetic for yourself that you’re most comfortable with
    - Keep clean and well-groomed
    - Check environment
    - Become comfortable with your body
    - Take dance classes
    - Start practicing yoga
    - Be comfortable with your own company
    - Don’t hang out with people that constantly disrespect you
    - Don’t get offended/threatened easily
    - Give people their space
    - Realize that you’re the main character
    - Have expectations for yourself and others
    - Start doing a gratitude meditation
    - Realize that you create your own reality
    - Do what you can with what you have now
    - Realize that you’re a blessing
    - Make sure you become a satisfied old person
    feel free to add your own notes or anything i've missed!

    • @aureus2636
      @aureus2636 Рік тому +42

      Girl, your a life saver. Tysm!!!❤❤❤❤

    • @kirichnererwin1062
      @kirichnererwin1062 Рік тому +18

      "become delusional" y'all have issues

    • @kaiaaluvsuu
      @kaiaaluvsuu Рік тому +20

      uu dnt have 2 become delusional if uu dnt want 2 . dont call smbdy crazy over sumthn that uu dnt wanna du . lol .

    • @ilyesmaya5544
      @ilyesmaya5544 Рік тому +2

      just be a better person and open ur heart to others

    • @user-id5mc3jr3i
      @user-id5mc3jr3i Рік тому +21

      @@kirichnererwin1062becoming delusional makes you work your way to having the certain thing you’re delusional about lol

  • @hh-hx5kj
    @hh-hx5kj Рік тому +4440

    GIRL YOU CAN'T IMAGINE HOW MUCH I HAVE LEARNED IN ONE VIDEO

    • @ProgessivesBwhitetho
      @ProgessivesBwhitetho Рік тому +14

      dont take advice from someone whos so insecure they had to buy lips

    • @eli-io6uo
      @eli-io6uo Рік тому +291

      @@ProgessivesBwhitetho she can do whatever she wants with her own body, it doesn’t mean the advice she’s giving is wrong

    • @juanasofiarojasarcila1644
      @juanasofiarojasarcila1644 Рік тому +44

      @@eli-io6uo your so right.

    • @ryangodinez331
      @ryangodinez331 Рік тому +83

      @@ProgessivesBwhitetho I will receive advice whit someone who speaks facts 🥰💕💕

    • @ProgessivesBwhitetho
      @ProgessivesBwhitetho Рік тому

      @@eli-io6uo someone whos secure doesnt mutilate there body, and no she cant otherwise shes a covid spreader

  • @lisahdz8795
    @lisahdz8795 Рік тому +4910

    "you're not asking for too much, you’re asking the wrong person" 28:07
    you dont know how much I needed to hear that. thank you so much for your empowering words 🙏

    • @TheBiggestMoronYouKnow
      @TheBiggestMoronYouKnow Рік тому +40

      if you have to fight to just have basic access to someone's existence, it aint worth it

    • @entropy59122
      @entropy59122 Рік тому +5

      But what if everywhere I go, I'm lonely, alone and ignored.

    • @education9827
      @education9827 11 місяців тому

      Yeah she's amazing

    • @ke1th
      @ke1th 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@entropy59122as she said, date yourself. Be there for urself

    • @zainafelfelshata8477
      @zainafelfelshata8477 11 місяців тому

      In 2020 I thought that I was a nothing and there was that one girl who made my life a hell but in 2022 July when I first saw one of your vids I changed into this confident person tysm liz Ilyy

  • @goodvibesandhealing
    @goodvibesandhealing Рік тому +77

    “Your past does not exist” that’s all I needed.

    • @ohnomishkaa
      @ohnomishkaa 2 місяці тому +1

      Reminding myself it’s just a thought helps me so much.

  • @smahsan3431
    @smahsan3431 Рік тому +38

    It's crazy how a stranger on the internet can boost your confidence level!

  • @mafer_mv
    @mafer_mv Рік тому +8793

    👀 TIMESTAMPS:
    0:11 - Would you buy it mentality
    1:19 - Focus on what you can control
    2:28 - Don't focus on things you can't control
    3:32 - Who are you not?
    4:12 - Start doing shadow work
    4:31 - Create routines
    5:44 - Get your money up, not your funny up
    7:26 - Learn and practice the art of communication
    9:16 - Go out and socialize with people
    10:32 - Start wearing sunglasses and look people in the eyes
    11:27 - Start doing things you find cringe or uncomfortable in public
    12:06 - Body Language
    12:52 - Become delusional
    14:16 - Listen to positive meditations, affirmations
    15:20 - Listen to music that makes you feel confident
    15:53 - Start making decisions that are best for you
    17:45 - Use other peoples success as motivation
    18:42 - Create and aesthetic for yourself that you feel most comfortable with
    20:01 - Keep yourself clean and well groomed
    20:32 - You might be insecure because of your environment
    21:11 - Become comfortable with your body and realise that no one is perfect
    22:46 - Take dance classes: Heels dance, belly dance
    23:05 - Start practicing yoga
    23:35 - Become comfortable with your own company
    24:54 - Do not sit with people that constantly disrespect you
    25:59 - Don't get offended or threatened easily
    26:31 - Give people their space
    27:03 - Realise you are the main character of your life
    27:48 - Have expectations for other people and yourself
    28:41 - Start doing gratitude meditation
    29:11 - Realise that you create your own reality
    29:41 - Do what you can with what you have now
    30:27 - Realise that you are a blessing
    30:34 - Make sure you become a satisfied old person

    • @cleoreoy7549
      @cleoreoy7549 Рік тому +89

      Thank you sis😍

    • @mafer_mv
      @mafer_mv Рік тому +237

      @@_lwndo I did it because I know I'm not wasting my time, timestamps help me to be more organized

    • @dollifiedk1ss
      @dollifiedk1ss Рік тому +94

      @@_lwndofor people who wants to go back and reflect on what she said ? Like what

    • @_lwndo
      @_lwndo Рік тому

      @@dollifiedk1ss why r u getting upset? + i was asking mafer, not you

    • @_lwndo
      @_lwndo Рік тому +2

      @@mafer_mv oh yeah ur right

  • @adnaabdi7767
    @adnaabdi7767 Рік тому +1482

    Liz saved me! I love her so much I don’t think I’d be here without her

    • @aesinar
      @aesinar Рік тому +3

      same 💞

    • @adnaabdi7767
      @adnaabdi7767 Рік тому +46

      @Le Justicier du Net idk what u tryna say but she really did help me. I literally knew nothing ab confidence till I listened to her vids. Btw be more specific pls

    • @easterncollection973
      @easterncollection973 Рік тому +23

      You can live without her. She's just something that motivates you, however, you can actually achieve motivation through yourself.

    • @MichelleMuck555
      @MichelleMuck555 Рік тому +20

      She is so viciously honest and raw. Her content is so motivational.

    • @lauralaitinen
      @lauralaitinen Рік тому +2

      @Le Justicier du Net thing is, she gives this advice for free and it’s up to you if you decide to follow it. she’s not forcing her stuff on anyoen

  • @bruhhhhhhhhh.7
    @bruhhhhhhhhh.7 Рік тому +731

    Whenever I feel insecure or feel like I don't deserve something I immediately think "what would liz have done" or "how would liz have reacted". Can't thank you enough Liz. Much love❤️

    • @1person69races8
      @1person69races8 Рік тому +8

      Just make sure you wont become Liz but good job to you keep healing 👑

    • @AhmadLearns
      @AhmadLearns Рік тому

      bro wants to act like a female

    • @Lila17_
      @Lila17_ Рік тому +39

      @@AhmadLearns theres nothing wrong by being inspired by a woman while being a man. We’re more than just our gender. We’re a soul and it’s normal to be inspired by someone like Liz, she’s literally helping people find their worth and that’s beautiful, men need that too. So pls stop with that childish mindset

    • @AhmadLearns
      @AhmadLearns Рік тому

      @Mila Knows best you are a female

    • @Lila17_
      @Lila17_ Рік тому +17

      @@AhmadLearns Im a woman and proud to be one. Idk why you’re in Liz channel if you’re misogynistic, go find something better to do or something

  • @kim_meenu_thv
    @kim_meenu_thv Рік тому +29

    "You will lay down flat for people to walk over ypu and they'll still complain you're not flat enough"
    I needed this to hear ❤

  • @firebinder18880
    @firebinder18880 Рік тому +370

    25:59
    "Do not get threatened easily. Honey, if you know who you are, if you know what you're capable of, no one can threaten you. What will you do? Who are you? You think I'm afraid?"
    The way she said that gave me goosebumps. So empowering, I really need this.

    • @ayushi6247
      @ayushi6247 Рік тому +6

      I thought I was alone 💀

  • @sc4rs_10
    @sc4rs_10 Рік тому +1522

    as a teenager, i'm so lucky i found your channel this early. absolutely all the things you say make so much sense, all the posivity and confidence you irradiate it's so contagious, and all the advices and help you do are so, so helpful and motivating! tysm for doing these kind of videos because for people like me who sometimes feel lost in life and who really want to change a be a diferent and more confident person, you and your channel are a helpful masterpiece. 💗💗

  • @Arwen.undomi
    @Arwen.undomi 8 місяців тому +64

    “The past doesn’t exist” “it only exists in your mind” this is so true. Never go back in the past focus on the future. That’s why I’m becoming the new me that I am. Thank you Liz ❤

  • @tzla9344
    @tzla9344 Рік тому +90

    As a teen who is struggling a friend recommended your channel to me and I've never been more thankful. I watch your videos everyday in the morning to start my day with positive affirmations.... thank you liz❤❤❤

  • @arenagrenade9672
    @arenagrenade9672 Рік тому +194

    Does anyone else feel how bright her energy is in this video? She seems extra happy lately

  • @sleepyclover1978
    @sleepyclover1978 Рік тому +215

    "You will never miss out on what is meant for you"
    Love that.

  • @nicoledyer6707
    @nicoledyer6707 Рік тому +41

    I am having a hard time socializing because i lack self esteem and confidence. Thank you for all the words Liz, I really needed to her them.

  • @lorena-ol8dg
    @lorena-ol8dg Рік тому +64

    I feel so proud of you, i dont know you but i just love your energy liz , im 13 and i live in a toxic arab household so when i watch ur vids its like i start to believe more in myself that i can get myself out of here. And i use ur sucess and motivation, thank you so much liz

    • @japanluv
      @japanluv Рік тому +6

      You reminded me of that daughter of the rich Sheik from Dubai I think and her story portrayed by the reporter who tried to help her then no more news about the girl. If Lorena is your reap name, is your mom Romanian by any chance? I have a 7 year old daughter and a niece your age almost. If there is anything I can do to help, let me know.

  • @JacySanjunXiao
    @JacySanjunXiao Рік тому +1584

    It seems like youtube knows that I'm having a hard time and it shows me your video. Thanks for helping us trying to overcome our weaknesses and giving us good tips👍

  • @adrianjamesash
    @adrianjamesash Рік тому +189

    To anybody who's reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting you or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, the overthinking, and the doubt exit your mind, disappear. May clarity replace confusion. May peace and calmness fill your life ❤

    • @rxze_angel111
      @rxze_angel111 Рік тому +2

      Thank you so much 💖

    • @fathiatemitope2385
      @fathiatemitope2385 Рік тому +1

      Amen thanks so much❤️

    • @SheChoseHealing
      @SheChoseHealing Рік тому +1

      This is so kind of you! Thank you Adrian! And I wish you all the best too! You are an incredible soul ❣️

  • @eri7667
    @eri7667 Рік тому +22

    I love when she said ”I love my own confidence because I really think I am really amazing ” thT was beautiful

  • @joicykhaute9327
    @joicykhaute9327 11 місяців тому +12

    The fact that she's making this video standing is discipline and she genuinely wants us to have a better life.

  • @aysenurvurusgan2021
    @aysenurvurusgan2021 Рік тому +897

    My second sister ❤️🪄

  • @Jerrilynrene
    @Jerrilynrene Рік тому +144

    When Liz said, "You can go lie flat on the ground for people to walk all over you and those people will start complaining that you're not flat enough." I FELT THAT! Bc if you've ever gone through that, you know it sucks! You might as well put yourself first no matter what.

    • @SentinelAboson
      @SentinelAboson Рік тому +2

      Christmas Giveaway 🎄❣️Thank you for always watching and commenting on my videos, you’ve been selected. 👆Winners should contact me on telegram to claim their prize 💼🌺

    • @ngocvu8937
      @ngocvu8937 Рік тому +1

      Do you remember in which minutes it is ? Please I need to rewatch it

    • @yourthatbsf
      @yourthatbsf Рік тому +3

      @@ngocvu8937 3:05 :)

    • @Jerrilynrene
      @Jerrilynrene Рік тому

      @@margeryojije7862 I am doing the work. Thank you :)

  • @AyhamHowrd
    @AyhamHowrd 11 місяців тому +2

    I love people who use their confidence to empower people not to abuse them.
    That is what makes a difference between a confident good well-being and straight a bully

  • @dinesseprincesa9237
    @dinesseprincesa9237 10 місяців тому +5

    The "Hi. Can I have a table please?" was so cute hahahaha

  • @anjalishah2568
    @anjalishah2568 Рік тому +1073

    im in my healing and moving on period and you have helped me soo much. loads of love liz

    • @autumnsprite
      @autumnsprite Рік тому +37

      @Le Justicier du Net so it's weak to improve yourself now? Also she's not selling anything. For once in your life please try not to suck the joy out of everything

    • @callme_xe
      @callme_xe Рік тому

      @Le Justicier du Net if you're not interested then YOU ARE literally the one who's wasting time. You wrote that thing on every comment. How idiot is that?

    • @trxquu4025
      @trxquu4025 Рік тому +16

      @Le Justicier du Net well, atleast you also gave her the money she needed. take care x

    • @trxquu4025
      @trxquu4025 Рік тому +9

      @Le Justicier du Net she wouldn’t care either ab what you think of her either ways. Neither, why are you here then? Bc clearly this vid ain’t for you??💀

    • @autumnsprite
      @autumnsprite Рік тому +6

      @Le Justicier du Net not like people are giving her their money tho. So what if they're placebo words? If they're helping people then they're helping people

  • @ananya8775
    @ananya8775 Рік тому +212

    she is the queen she is the icon

  • @ar1tty
    @ar1tty Рік тому +6

    I really have severe social anxiety and anxiety.. U have no idea how I was so proud of myself for reading in class because I got confident from this video.

  • @identityrose693
    @identityrose693 Рік тому +38

    I’ve been watching her regularly like half a year ago and saw improvements in myself. Then i kinda stopped watching her videos idk why and I realised that I can’t go on with my life without her vids since she literally helped me to be more open and confident. Maybe sounds weird but she’s my therapy and I’m so grateful for that. Thank you Lizz

  • @Nymphoffduty
    @Nymphoffduty Рік тому +216

    Yesss mom has posted!! We’re getting fed today ❤

  • @mida-hg6jm
    @mida-hg6jm Рік тому +782

    you give me so much confidence it’s crazy because you exactly talked about the problems i have been dealing with

    • @SheChoseHealing
      @SheChoseHealing Рік тому +1

      Right? She’s so relatable ❣️

    • @fizzy8236
      @fizzy8236 Рік тому +3

      She is spreading powerful words from the heart. She has been sent from God to help people. Reminds me of Indigo intelligence. Messengers sent to help the people, an Angel.

  • @dogut6192
    @dogut6192 Рік тому +5

    “they can be better than me but they’re not me and that’s enough for me” I needed this so bad

  • @ezginurguvencli6481
    @ezginurguvencli6481 9 місяців тому +2

    Strongest woman i have ever seen go girl

  • @queene315
    @queene315 Рік тому +54

    Remember: confidence is an emotion, sometimes you feel confident, sometimes you don’t. HOWEVER, high self esteem is a mentality, that is what guides you from day to day life

    • @arth4r179
      @arth4r179 Рік тому

      100% true queen! Make sure to get a boob job and lip fillers to meet the society standards that you guys supposedly don't care about! Stay healthy queen!!!!!

    • @queene315
      @queene315 Рік тому +1

      @@arth4r179 tf are you on? When did i mention societal standards? If you’re ugly and butt hurt then thats you, but having a high self esteem is what I’M talking abt 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @aminahaliu6371
    @aminahaliu6371 Рік тому +104

    “Obviously I think I am generally an attractive person” 😌😌😌 this is the energy I need for 2023

  • @chiaracosenza4644
    @chiaracosenza4644 Рік тому +37

    While I was listening to your video and internalizing what you were saying, I was walking out of the gym, and a REALLY CUTE GUY asked for my number! Your videos really help me a lot especially since this week I was not feeling so confident but you really inspire me to take ownership of my reality and chose to feel confident and proud rather than a victim of my mood and attitude. Thank you Liz!

  • @saralynnech
    @saralynnech Рік тому +43

    This is all so well said and so important! I didn't even realize how poor my self confidence was for a really long time. The minute I started actively trying to improve it - by accomplishing even the smallest goal or reminding myself of something I'm good at - my entire life started to improve. I've always been friendly and a good communicator, but it never really got me anywhere because I didn't value myself enough to have real goals. When I paired the new self confidence with my communication skills, my entire life changed. Drastically and quickly. I love your channel, Liz. When I need some encouragement or a reality check, I just pop onto your channel and I always find something that gets me back on track. Thanks! 💚✌️☀️

  • @lumpiavegetariana2196
    @lumpiavegetariana2196 Рік тому +182

    18:59 THE CATT OMG SO BEAUTIFUL

  • @susuiu010
    @susuiu010 Рік тому +393

    This video is so good. I LOVE that you said that confidence is NOT a certain look, because it's not but many people think that it is (which is very sad). Even I thought that it is and I would always be sad because I didn't look a certain way.

    • @0178_rania
      @0178_rania Рік тому +14

      Me too. Keep flourishing as yourself because you dont look ugly, you look like you. “we are all born beautiful, the tragedy is being convinced we are not” - someone

    • @klmxts
      @klmxts Рік тому +1

      The problem isn't only in looks.
      The problem is that the second I enter the school everything getting worse - hair looks not the way it is, the skirt hurts, my books don't look and feel neat as it was at home - everything just feels like a mess there, and I know that this problem comes from me not being organized

    • @0178_rania
      @0178_rania Рік тому

      @@klmxts why are you not organised?

    • @klmxts
      @klmxts Рік тому

      @@0178_rania because no one in my family is

    • @divinity8102
      @divinity8102 Рік тому +2

      ​@@klmxts i'm not sure what your family situation is like, but you could still break that bad habit by keeping your personal space and life organized as much as possible, and maybe also trying to get your family to change their ways

  • @kc33337
    @kc33337 Рік тому +2

    needed that ‘do what you can with what you have’ i am constantly coming up with excuses to not recover from my mental illnesses and saying that i’m too young (it’s so stupid but it stops me everytime) or that i can wait a little longer and then get better

  • @serorla1775
    @serorla1775 Рік тому +18

    Thank you a lot Liz. Im doing a new routine thanks to you were i try to do one hour with podcast, im treating myself better. Im doing cold showers, im going to the gym even if i feel like i dont wanna go. I keep this discipline and that makes me love myself even more. All because of the way you talk. I was so desesperate other a situationship that didn’t respect my boundaries and kept disrespecting me. And i was sad the whole day. But now that i listen to you, i like him less and i love myself more and im an amazing person. I don’t waste people time so im not gonna let him waste my time and i will just continue with my routine because i deserve to be treated like the queen i am and im treating myself better.

  • @ICruz-vq1ze
    @ICruz-vq1ze Рік тому +81

    the fact ive been unconciously doing these ever since i left a toxic environment. proud of myself

  • @3pradaz
    @3pradaz Рік тому +48

    liz always snaps me back to reality fr

  • @dishitasoniagupta2862
    @dishitasoniagupta2862 Рік тому +4

    this girl literally changed me in every aspect of life....i love you Liz

  • @ai-chan5545
    @ai-chan5545 Рік тому +126

    Best 31 minutes I've spent on youtube today

    • @arth4r179
      @arth4r179 Рік тому

      you will change your mind once u see the guy piss in his dogs mouth and then the dog vomits in the guy-s mouth.. hmmmmm yummy

  • @user-xw5kw1be8q
    @user-xw5kw1be8q Рік тому +576

    Liz you have no idea how much you helped me in getting confident and motivated to continue my studies and cutting all the toxic people out of my life .i believe now that I'm going to be the strong independent woman i have always wanted to be.thank you so much 💖

    • @user-du4gw
      @user-du4gw Рік тому +12

      Yes gurl 👏 🙌 find ur happiness!

    • @marincater1603
      @marincater1603 Рік тому +1

      I’m so happy for you keep going girl❤️

  • @sultanaji3556
    @sultanaji3556 6 місяців тому +3

    I'm from indonesia, i'm litrely rewatch this vidio and another video in youtoube liz, becouse makes me confindent and make me learn samthing for myself, thanks liz, thanks you so so so much

  • @himanisethi521
    @himanisethi521 Рік тому +6

    Being a yoga instructor I totally agree with her about how it changes your life. I have seen many clients from being stressed and not knowing what their body is capable of to confident and comfortable with their body. Its incredible to watch.

  • @FutureFendiFsnista
    @FutureFendiFsnista Рік тому +58

    Divine timing! When Allah wants you to hear something, you WILL hear it. I was literally just crying about a lot of the things addressed in this video. I am facing many challenges, and it's taking a toll on me. Thank you for the much needed boost and helping us become better versions of ourselves. 💗

  • @Artlesbi
    @Artlesbi Рік тому +67

    "You're not asking for too much you're asking the wrong person" She's so powerful.

  • @houseofrashina
    @houseofrashina 11 місяців тому +2

    The looking people in the eyes sunglasses tip was amazing! So so true and so important.

  • @rosend3lo
    @rosend3lo Місяць тому +3

    I have just descovered that i sabotage myself like crazy

  • @f4irywinx08
    @f4irywinx08 Рік тому +469

    Liz, thank you so much for this video. I'm a 14-year-old girl who's on a journey to love herself, and heal her trauma- and you help me fulfill that wish. Seriously, I love you so much. 💗

    • @puaguard9985
      @puaguard9985 Рік тому +39

      Damn I wish I found Liz when I was 14 years old lol 😂
      You're off to great things girl!! 🥰💖

    • @julieperez7505
      @julieperez7505 Рік тому +18

      Yes I second that! ^^^ I’m 19 and I was watching similar stuff at your age, never let anyone tell you your too young to do this, your definitely on a good path for sure!! Good luck girl

    • @klxxver4763
      @klxxver4763 Рік тому +9

      going to be 14 this year and I'm so glad I found the best and the most adorable elder sister ever, keep going through your journey! we can do it!~

    • @fairytale7251
      @fairytale7251 10 місяців тому +19

      GIRLS, lemme tell ya something. I am 28 now, i have something to tell. ...
      1. Do not waste your 20's on Party, drinking and stuff. Invest your time in work and start invest early.
      2. Do not sleep with guys for free or because its "love"...go get yourself a good husband who will cherish you and Invest in you.
      3. Never NEVER !!!! Go for less..have your price, be a proud Lady.
      I can say you that because i made mistakes and good desicions. Now i have good life and Do not have to work.

    • @cortezconquistador
      @cortezconquistador 10 місяців тому +3

      Your fabulous remember this you are no one’s punching bags. And if I can give you some advice while your young if a man forces his way into your life whom you know you will never like don’t let him manipulate you into a relationship with him.
      You say no you are not allowed and you leave.

  • @JadeandtheCamera
    @JadeandtheCamera Рік тому +1051

    The amount of incredible advice and knowledge you put in even one video is amazing! Thank you for sharing your inspiration 💕💕

    • @daquaviousbingleton9763
      @daquaviousbingleton9763 Рік тому +2

      Stop taking advice from people you know nothing about on the internet 💞💞💞

    • @JadeandtheCamera
      @JadeandtheCamera Рік тому +5

      @@daquaviousbingleton9763 …well your commenting on the video aren’t you? So you must have clicked on it

    • @gyawn
      @gyawn Рік тому +5

      @@daquaviousbingleton9763 like your advice here?? ok❤❤❤

  • @elianese9319
    @elianese9319 Рік тому +9

    Thank you for putting this out there. Always a pleasure to see a young lady putting out some sensible thoughts and ideas.
    Everything you mentioned is spot on, especially about the past and lying flat for people

  • @Kaylaychay
    @Kaylaychay Рік тому +2

    im so happy i found ur channel because ive set alot of boundaries and people end up with disregarding them and i would do nothing then i started trying to act like them so the could like me then i lost my confidence after reflecting on it i found ur channel then i started putting everything into pratice and since then ive been feeling confident in myself thank u soo much Liz

  • @deific4025
    @deific4025 Рік тому +66

    No but listening to this while doing your shower routine + skincare is so powerful.

  • @teethghouls2423
    @teethghouls2423 Рік тому +147

    liz you help me so much in life with finding myself i appreciate your existence

  • @anjalijain2651
    @anjalijain2651 Рік тому +8

    As a teenager, I am really glad I found this channel. Really wanted to thank u with all my heart ❤️ 💙 💜
    U r like a big sister to me

  • @freedomastrology6567
    @freedomastrology6567 Рік тому +1

    a lot of people don’t have anyone in their lives to help them with these very practical things or to talk to about how to improve themselves …I respect the way you take the time to simplify and help people with these things ❤️❤️❤️

  • @syk0s115
    @syk0s115 Рік тому +75

    “i sit and stare at a wall” thats literally what a smart person do

  • @saniashakeel2413
    @saniashakeel2413 Рік тому +58

    this girl is the big sister we all needed

  • @fabliharoza7224
    @fabliharoza7224 Рік тому +7

    Thank you so much for this video Liz! I really needed this talk as I see how insecure and self-conscious I am around the guy I like and you said all the right things to get my confidence back!

  • @yaboiii4870
    @yaboiii4870 Рік тому +1

    she never misses omg. she’s the bigger sister i never had😭🙏💜💜

  • @mayography
    @mayography Рік тому +8

    the little "hi can i have a table please" is so cute pls😭

  • @rawiyahsphere
    @rawiyahsphere Рік тому +198

    I can listen to you teach all day!

  • @juliapawlicka2384
    @juliapawlicka2384 Рік тому +1

    This video helped me realised that I love myself and I’m more confident than I thought, thank you Liz!❤

  • @NadyaYzAngley
    @NadyaYzAngley Рік тому +3

    Can’t believe the hard time I ended up in my life- depression, confidence gone. I need to get out of this. I’ve never watched Liz’s videos until 3 days ago… now I need to watch these. I need to. Coz it’s gotten too far and I need to lift myself up. I can lift myself up! I can be confident. I lost it all, but let’s go! I can do it. If Liz did, we all can, you can and I can. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @aphroditesoul
    @aphroditesoul Рік тому +261

    Thank u for existing. Even tho these words we already know them and stuff but, when u repeat them it kinda hits different.. May Allah Bless u

    • @TrumpForPrison2023
      @TrumpForPrison2023 Рік тому

      Liz is a major red flag. The amount of bragging in her videos, constantly talking about herself, is a sign of insecurity, not confidence. This girl is the female equivalent of "toxic masculinity".

    • @user-mr4lz8kh3r
      @user-mr4lz8kh3r Рік тому

      Frr

  • @hunni8322
    @hunni8322 Рік тому +456

    timestampppssss!💓💓
    0:10- would you buy it mentality
    1:20- focus on what you CAN control ( attitude, view in life, self talk, etc )
    2:28- do not focus on things you can’t control ( your past, your future, others opinions, etc! )
    3:25- who you are not ( if you can’t define who you are, focus on things you aren’t- liz’s example: she knows she’s not lazy, revengeful, etc )
    - 4:04 write down on a piece of paper ‘who am i not’, to become more self aware
    4:13- start doing shadow work ( go on pinterest and write down shadow work questions, and answer them )
    4:31- create routines, to structure your life - have a morning and night routine
    5:44- get your money up, not your funny up (get a job and work, it doesn’t matter what it is- it doesn’t have to be your career just a source of money.)
    7:27- learn and practice the art of communication ( communication is what helps people be confident and successful- it’s very important) - books she recommends :
    1- the art of people, by dave kerpen
    2- how to read friends and influence people by dale carnegie
    9:18- go out and socialize ( you can’t act the same way with everyone, because people have different beliefs )
    10:33- start wearing sunglasses and look people in the eye ( if you look down, and avoid eye contact you will seem insecure )
    ( IM GONNA FINISH THIS LATER JUST GONNA TAKE A BREAK!!💓)

  • @lidianealves6355
    @lidianealves6355 Рік тому +3

    ''healthy from the inside, beautiful from the outside'' ohhh yessss girlll

  • @sasha-mo7dk
    @sasha-mo7dk Рік тому

    i am determined to make this summer my hot girl summer and i think that the number 1 step to that is being confident and being productive. Tysm for the people posting videos like this to help other people with confidence and all the other things that are really handy to know in life! If you’re this far reading this comment i hope you have a great day/night!☀️🌘

  • @mariefeaguilos540
    @mariefeaguilos540 Рік тому +38

    Watching this on New Year's Eve. Happy New Year y'all ✨

  • @elananova
    @elananova Рік тому +258

    18:59 look at the baby!! ❤️

    • @nnanaaaaaaa
      @nnanaaaaaaa Рік тому +8

      Hes so cuteee😭😭🫶🏽

  • @esponjita1796
    @esponjita1796 Рік тому +1

    This just popped out randomly in my recommendations and it's just what I needed to hear, lately i've been struggling with self esteem, or i suppose more accurately confidence issues, and when im around people at school i dont want to take my mask off or i feel like words don't come out, even though i think im beautiful and i have very interesting things to say, you're right, i need to start taking myself more seriously and become braver to face my life, thanks for the encouragement!!!!!

  • @Zarafzk
    @Zarafzk Рік тому +7

    I don’t think there is anyone out there that’s “prettier.” Like you said, everyone has different standards and everyone is beautiful in their own way!😊❤

    • @HITMEUP_
      @HITMEUP_ Рік тому

      Appreciate your audience for supporting I will share with you some beneficial insights let converse with the number above ❤📩🔁

  • @lyssaii
    @lyssaii Рік тому +157

    When I first started watching Liz, I thought the change she was talking about was pointless because it would just make me feel bad and take me out of my comfort zone. But now, all I want to do is change and adopt a completely different mindset than I had before. Liz is helping me every day to become a version of myself that I never thought I could ever become. Thank you for this, I am learning a lot

  • @bismuz
    @bismuz Рік тому +163

    Liz, watching your videos you changed my life, I've been watching you for a month and now I don't recognize myself, I'm a different person, new and above all now I have confidence, until a month ago I didn't have much confidence but now, now I have so much confidence that my friends ask me how do I have so much confidence, how can I be so beautiful and love myself, I tell her to follow you, and many of my friends have changed thanks to you. I don't have an older sister, and you are like an older sister for, I love you

  • @leyvab29
    @leyvab29 8 місяців тому +4

    Liz your a life saver, I've been dealing with really bad autoestime to the point where it affects school,my mental and physical health and my daily life,but with this video I feel a bit better. I want to improve and this motivates me to do so❤

  • @ShantaeGilbert
    @ShantaeGilbert Рік тому +7

    Your confidence is something we all dream to have. You go girl!

  • @sunnysideup7382
    @sunnysideup7382 Рік тому +210

    this is the only video that helped me on topic of confidence and self worth- I followed your advice on doing the shadow work prompt questions and had an actual breakthrough for the first time in my life. I was completely elated all day because of how good it felt! THANK YOU FOR YOUR WORK AND CONTENT

    • @daquaviousbingleton9763
      @daquaviousbingleton9763 Рік тому

      If your watching videos trying to boost your confidence and self worth I can see why it’s not working

    • @abelizzlexo9395
      @abelizzlexo9395 Рік тому

      @@daquaviousbingleton9763take your negativity elsewhere

    • @daquaviousbingleton9763
      @daquaviousbingleton9763 Рік тому

      @@abelizzlexo9395 I wasn’t being negative I’m just saying you should listen to how other people deal with it and find ways that help you, these people make money off insecure people it’s kinda mank. Try and find ways that actually make u feel better :)

    • @ayushi6247
      @ayushi6247 Рік тому

      @@daquaviousbingleton9763 she's literally telling how she dealt with it, yet you're out here hating (or whatever) on her, she isn't making all this up. You can tell someone when they're being authentic and when they're not

  • @irynadomoratska2115
    @irynadomoratska2115 Рік тому +17

    I never thought that a person from UA-cam would affect my consciousness so much. With each video of Liz, I feel better and better. Every word she says cuts into my mind. This queen is like a doctor for my soul

  • @Isa..02
    @Isa..02 9 місяців тому +1

    I’m 15. It’s my first time watching a full video of her, I really like it! Tysm!!

  • @callmesspresso
    @callmesspresso 3 місяці тому +1

    i love listening to you ❤️i’m a trauma survivor too. i was taught into addiction and for a long time i felt sorry for myself. but now i am taking my power back 🙏🏼

  • @jakeajg7
    @jakeajg7 Рік тому +87

    So much divine wisdom. You are the reason why my 2023 will be the most quintessential year ever :)

  • @EC1wJC
    @EC1wJC Рік тому +60

    We love you baby, good vibes only for all of us from this moment forth. I'm so thankful for you

  • @Maria-pj3pp
    @Maria-pj3pp 10 місяців тому +1

    You are my life mentor and I find you like 3 days ago. Since then - I listen video without reading a title. Just one after one I listen while working, cleaning, sleeping. You make me think of God... You made me to let go. I wish that I cloud be as good in my job as you in your mission! WISH YOU HAPPINESS, LOVE AND BILLIONS

  • @anitmariyamaji1099
    @anitmariyamaji1099 Рік тому +2

    OH MY GOD! I wish I watched this video before. You are the sister I never had. I’m in my finding and working on myself era, and this is what I needed to hear the most.

  • @ibrahimlovesblink
    @ibrahimlovesblink Рік тому +9

    She spoke thousands of words and every single word is powerful and inspiring. Literally.

  • @aubreeloveless2027
    @aubreeloveless2027 Рік тому +23

    “You will never miss out on what is meant for you.” What a powerful and positive message. Liz I am beyond thankful for your videos and the help you spread on this platform. I am a person absolutely brazen with anxiety, but you inspire me to keep trying even when it feels impossible.

  • @AwakenedSoul101
    @AwakenedSoul101 Рік тому +4

    Liz you are such an incredible human being. I’m always amazed by you and your mindset. Sending love and hugs to you. ❤

  • @calebombima2321
    @calebombima2321 Рік тому +2

    Came across this .....when I was at my worst...but then boom my confidence level boosted to 100%....thanks liz

  • @ornellabarca1868
    @ornellabarca1868 Рік тому +90

    I'm very very confident in myself now and I'm 100% my type of girl like I scream in the mirror everytime I look because of how pretty I find myself lol. But it was not always like this. anxiety and my environment made past me into a very socially unattractive, reclusive girl, who would hate herself and her looks and always be picked on by her looks, specially family. All that is in the past now, because as long as you find yourself attractive, your confidence will be too tall of a barrier for other's opinions to get inside your skin. Or at least, not as much. But we're not perfect and we're constantly working on stuff we need to get better at, and really i CANNOT stress enough how much of a fact it is for me, that in my environment and country I'm not attractive. No one in my family recognizes my beauty, no oe calls me anything because they're more shocked now, because I was completely different in the past. I think that people who know about what you've been in the past, or how your vibe and image was, cannot re-associate as quickly. I changed countries several times, and I was a goddess in other countries, wow, how much of a truth that is lol. And in asia my traits like very pale skin, big clear eyes, ginger hair are very charming, while in my country it's somewhat ugly, being very pale is not attractive, etc. It's really incredible tbh. I wish to work on my self concept more and everyday, so the poor recognition and the things that my own family and my environment said about me in the past, critizicing me, will not ever cross my mind again!

    • @pheyva
      @pheyva Рік тому +5

      so proud of you !

    • @yaeriin
      @yaeriin Рік тому +7

      so proud of you! don't ever let them dull your shine, gorgeous!

    • @ornellabarca1868
      @ornellabarca1868 Рік тому +3

      @@yaeriin thank you so much and i'm proud of you too!

    • @ornellabarca1868
      @ornellabarca1868 Рік тому +2

      @@pheyva I'm proud of you, too! :) thank you!

    • @kharbachifouzia4093
      @kharbachifouzia4093 Рік тому +2

      You are a beauty ♡ if you ever visited north Africa they ll be mesmerized by you because in here your type of beauty is rare

  • @thazinseinnnu3078
    @thazinseinnnu3078 Рік тому +206

    Liz,every your video gives me so much confidence. Thank for sharing your inspiration💗

  • @savagekimjen
    @savagekimjen 3 місяці тому +5

    Can't believe ppl actually make up so many dirty rumors about her when all she's trying to do is help others

  • @SuggestAUsernameForMe
    @SuggestAUsernameForMe Рік тому +17

    I love how she provides examples of her own life experiences. It makes me feel like I am included in the conversation and it is real. It triggers something in me that I can connect with her.

    • @arth4r179
      @arth4r179 Рік тому

      only advise u need: stop watching anime, go the gym and lose weight

  • @pvrn0id341
    @pvrn0id341 Рік тому +13

    18:58 the way the cat just popped up when liz was talking😂❤ so cute
    i always learn new things when i watch liz’s videos honestly. she’s always helping me grow