To the boy who wants to kill his father, firstly, I am very sorry to hear your story. My heart goes out to you, especially when you said you look at other families and hurt inside. I know this pain well. What I want to tell you is that, please unleash your inner rebel and channelise it in constructive things like work, self improvement, fitness, hobbies, art, music, dance etc. Do not let the darkness win by giving in to their demons. It's your job to rise from the ashes like a phoenix. You deserve to live fully and to outgrow your past. Do not deprive yourself now. Start fresh with what you have. You can do it :) I believe in you!!
"You deserve to live fully and to outgrow your past. Do not deprive yourself now. Start fresh with what you have. You can do it. I believe in you!" - This was motivational even for me, and I'm saving it for myself. Thank you for saying this.
For the last question, please think of this as coming from a big sister. Think about how much joy you bring to your mother. And once you get older, you would know that having a family is a wonderful thing and you have a lot of time to start a family. You will find joy having a healthy partner & kids. And all of this will bring hapiness to your mother too. Your mom never killed herself because she wanted to be happy with you. And she probably is happy with you. As for your father, there are ways to take revenge that is not illegal. You could see how he is doing. Is he doing well, or is he a sad, lonely person now. Once you are older, you can always confront him, demand your property share etc. But then again, you don't know his kids and what they can do. Whatever you do, make sure you and your mom are safe.
Last Email brother I hope you get my comment, just want to say I totally feel the grief and rage as I share a bit of that situation but need to think that what actions will make our Maa happy now it’s in our hands and she looks forward to us. We her light of hope and if we just let go we’d be leaving our mothers in the dark alone for rest of this miserable life
Hello Junaid Bhai, great to know you met Biswa. Just for context, Biswa is an engineer from IIT Kharagpur so top 1% student, and he has made a lot of serious and thoughtful content about the school system for Amazon Prime/Netflix(other than his specials). He is pretty cerebral and philosophical in his approach. And in his new avatar he is a really powerful producer for comedy shows/ specials / OTT programs . One of the stalwarts of the Indian comic scene who has contributed to professional organization of the sector
To the boy who wants to kill his father. Here's something I want to tell you. You're loved and you're taken care off. You're wanted and you're a miracle. Not everyone is wanted, loved or a miracle. Understand that out of all the people there could've been Allah decided your mom needed a you. You've probably been the biggest source of joy to her and you probably have never known. Give yourself and your life a chance. I promise you it will get better and keep on praying and keep on praying. If you ever need someone I'm here and you can always talk to me. You're not alone and you never will be. Lots of love bachay bohat khayal rakhna hai Tumne apna.
For the last email I would like to say, that your story is quite similar to DAVID GOGGINS. I recommend you to read his book CANT HURT ME. He is literally the most influential motivational speaker today. You will surely get the courage to move forward.
IMPORTANT! Dear Junaid, you should have given some trigger warning or something before the last email about that extreme level of ruthless domestic violence. Man, you have no idea how much people in your fanlists would have been triggered. I myself feel sick to my stomach even though I JUST started listening that particular email... Had to hit emergency breaks to park my car to resuffle/move on to the next podcast in my list. Much disturbed and triggered because of SO MANY valid reasons to be triggered. Hope you got the point. Stay blessed man. Huge inspiration!
Same experience I had in last April. One desi family with British passport. They were 6 in total, and we had connected flights from Thailand to Pakistan. The whole family parents and their teenagers were laud and rude.
When I went to US to Afghan restaurant. I was treated very well just because of I was Pakistani and the restaurant owner was an Afghan from Paktia province. Afghan and Pakistanis are like brothers. Laanut to those who spread hate between Pakistanis and afghans.
44:12 Psychopaths undeniably exist in our society, but those who resist therapy are numerous. Despite the evident need for intervention, mental health is often overlooked, with a lack of evaluation for such individuals. Reflecting on my childhood, I recall instances of severe mistreatment in school, where teachers, akin to psychopaths, inflicted physical harm on students. It's a distressing reality, emphasizing the urgent requirement for therapy in addressing these issues.
One of the biggest mistakes one can do as a parent is think “I never had this or that (e.g. Sega / pS) but now I earn enough so my Son would not have this issue” While initially this thinking seem however, if a child gets everything he ever wanted on Day 1, he looses importance of things. He looses sense of hardwork to achieve something
In the last email he said that his mother accidentally told him about his father than how im the world he went to court his entire childhood and didn't knew about the reason going there
For those Pakistanis that feel strongly that only arranged marriages are the way to go… don’t forget how the Prophet (SAW) got married to Hadhrat Khadija. He worked for her and she asked for his hand in marriage and he accepted.
O boy if you really love your mother please don't think about suicide, never ever again. If you want to take revenge from your father just forget about him and be successful in your life giving your mother a peaceful and quality of life. That will be your best revenge and let the KARMA do the rest to your father. Eventually he will get what he deserves. In the drama Zindagi gulzar hai, Samina Pirzada daughter takes the same revenge from her father by removing all the sorrows from her mother's life with such a confidence and dignity. Take a lesson from her role in that drama. You and your mom will always be in my prayers. Stay strong brother.
To the boy who wants to kill his father, look I am 18 too and I completely understand these rebellious emotions. first of all please please please get your kidney operated as soon as possible. jaan hai to jahan hai, dont overthink about the future everything will eventually fall into place. And even if you didn't have a loving family you can create one remember that. As you are earning enough already I would suggest moveout of Pakistan to better countries with free education and more facilities. Just move away from all the negativity. You are created for a purpose don't let your intrusive thoughts win over . You are not a cause of your mothers suffering you were are and always be her choice. Your birth gave her the courage to leave that shitty man so you are the point from where her live got better look at it this way. and if you ever need anyone to talk too I am always here. warm regards, duaa.
10:25 Emirate have worst in cabin service and very rude staff offers some people food twice and tell others that food is finished. No other airline has food shortages than this stupid airline. Too over priced and overhyped.
Junaid bhai i am just feeling ap mujhse bat krhe ho only itna relaxing feel hota ha iss yar you are an angel on earth love you stay blessed ❤apki wife bht lucky women ha jisko junaid mila ha❤
Junaid Akram my prayers with you when I heard you’re son wants you to stay with him. Allah Kareem blessly settle you down in the happy place. Ameen Sum Ameen.
I do paid tickets since 2 years and its crazy to be there. Too much crowd and pushing by being in lines in 5 hrs. Indians Middle Eastern people pushing people even pregnant people. Terrible rush outside tubes and 4 hrs in car even stuck in traffic with partial view of fireworks.
51:42 that's unfair to men.....why not the other way around like women give money to men and also fulfill all other responsibilities meanwhile men just enjoy their lives with children at women's cost??
Junaid sir explains very well bcos he talks with basic logic about how to do things or should be done i know life is giving everyone a different experience everyday there are many many challeneges to fight. and the stories discussed in this video i wish u all happiness success and please dont do anything stupid that will harm u and others around u. and the last thing i want to ask is if i want to send email to be shared and given some advice on it where can i email u sir. thanks
To the guy who wants to kill his father: 1. Don’t ever think of suicide. Allah chose to give you life, even with your mother’s health issues. You are here because Allah wanted to. He gave you life and he will take it away when it is time. Don’t meddle with gods affairs please. Second think from your mother’s perspective. She had such a bad life. And only good she have us you. Please don’t take that away. 2. Your father was an evil man and there should be consequences for what he did. But who would take a better revenge? You or Allah? Let him complete his course of life aur Allah jo pakore banaye ga na un k. Do you think Allah unhe aise hi chhor dega? Do think allah aap ko insaf nahi de ga? He is al Adil, the most just. Let him do the best justice. 3. Seek therapy man. Your mind is messed up. The life that you have lived has left deep scars on your mind. And you need to heal. You have a lot of trauma and you deserve a good life. Go to a psychiatrist. Talk to him. You will feel better
19:58 shukar karen kah aap ka pher bi apna ghar tha 27 saal aap nay apnay ghar main guzaray main kai familes ko janta hon jin ka aaj tak apna ghar nahi hai aur salon say woh kirayeh kay ghar per rah rahai han aur her koch saal baad kisi sastay ilaqay main move hona parta hai onko kiyon kah os ilaqay ka rent baharjata hai her saal
To the boy who wants to kill his father: So soery to hear your background. Please please do not commit suicide. You would not only be killing yourself but also killing your motger's hope. Make sonething of yourself, believe me you can. Then take your motger far away from her toxic marriage.
On topic of Gay marriage Maryam Nawaz son is gay and he married a woman and then recently got divorce and this is person who is running for Prime minister.. I mean its speechless. No wonder this country is in the gutter.
@@anjala101 LOL the whole world know. The ex wife was threatened by Maryam Nawaz that if she speaks she will be murdered like Arshad Sharif.... If you want you can google the wild parties Maryam nawaz's son has in a flat in central london !!!!
59:24 kuch nahin hota sir. Sab nikal jaate FIR bhi ghayab ho jati. Yeh pakistan hai. Mere maarne wale abhi bhi azadi se ghum rahe Koi jail nahin jata. Lahore police is worst in the world
23:16 Bro if you did suicide you won't even meet Allah, Allah will won't like to see you then so if you want to see Allah happily with you then don't take such suicide attempts, give your mom a new happy lfie by supporting her in harsh time
To the boy who wants to kill his father, firstly, I am very sorry to hear your story. My heart goes out to you, especially when you said you look at other families and hurt inside. I know this pain well. What I want to tell you is that, please unleash your inner rebel and channelise it in constructive things like work, self improvement, fitness, hobbies, art, music, dance etc. Do not let the darkness win by giving in to their demons. It's your job to rise from the ashes like a phoenix. You deserve to live fully and to outgrow your past. Do not deprive yourself now. Start fresh with what you have. You can do it :) I believe in you!!
This was the most wholesome and heartful response to the question that I've ever seen under a Pakistani UA-camr's video.
@IbrahimShaikhh hahahaha I try! Thank you for saying this, you made my day :)
@@nida1090 have a great day and take care.
"You deserve to live fully and to outgrow your past. Do not deprive yourself now. Start fresh with what you have. You can do it. I believe in you!" - This was motivational even for me, and I'm saving it for myself. Thank you for saying this.
I'm so glad Saad! It's a reminder to myself too. Let's rise above 💪
For the last question, please think of this as coming from a big sister. Think about how much joy you bring to your mother. And once you get older, you would know that having a family is a wonderful thing and you have a lot of time to start a family. You will find joy having a healthy partner & kids. And all of this will bring hapiness to your mother too. Your mom never killed herself because she wanted to be happy with you. And she probably is happy with you.
As for your father, there are ways to take revenge that is not illegal. You could see how he is doing. Is he doing well, or is he a sad, lonely person now. Once you are older, you can always confront him, demand your property share etc. But then again, you don't know his kids and what they can do. Whatever you do, make sure you and your mom are safe.
These series will forever me favourite 😊
Love this series❤ THANK YOU FOR BRINGING BACK THE INTRO.
Last Email brother I hope you get my comment, just want to say I totally feel the grief and rage as I share a bit of that situation but need to think that what actions will make our Maa happy now it’s in our hands and she looks forward to us.
We her light of hope and if we just let go we’d be leaving our mothers in the dark alone for rest of this miserable life
Thanks
Hello Junaid Bhai, great to know you met Biswa. Just for context, Biswa is an engineer from IIT Kharagpur so top 1% student, and he has made a lot of serious and thoughtful content about the school system for Amazon Prime/Netflix(other than his specials). He is pretty cerebral and philosophical in his approach. And in his new avatar he is a really powerful producer for comedy shows/ specials / OTT programs . One of the stalwarts of the Indian comic scene who has contributed to professional organization of the sector
To the boy who wants to kill his father. Here's something I want to tell you. You're loved and you're taken care off. You're wanted and you're a miracle. Not everyone is wanted, loved or a miracle. Understand that out of all the people there could've been Allah decided your mom needed a you. You've probably been the biggest source of joy to her and you probably have never known. Give yourself and your life a chance. I promise you it will get better and keep on praying and keep on praying. If you ever need someone I'm here and you can always talk to me. You're not alone and you never will be. Lots of love bachay bohat khayal rakhna hai Tumne apna.
Another great video as always 🎉
To answer such sensitive questions with humor involved is an art which only junaid bhai posseses.
Yeh episode Ask nahi TellGanjiswag hogaee 😂
For the last email I would like to say, that your story is quite similar to DAVID GOGGINS. I recommend you to read his book CANT HURT ME. He is literally the most influential motivational speaker today.
You will surely get the courage to move forward.
USE THIS AS THE "THANK YOU FOR BRINGING BACK THE INTRO BUTTON" 😍
mashAllah now video quality looking a lot better thanks.!!
We love intros.
Your explanation videos are nice.can you try that more?
I CAN HEAR JUNAID BHAI ALL DAY LONG IF I HAVE TIME....
HIS VOICE IS SO MOTIVATING...❤
Like your cameraman affirmation ❤ good to have like minded people
Thank you for you introooooo💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝
MashaAllah. Good program and your family life story. Good job Junaid Akram and you’re team work. MashaAllah and Alhumdulilah.
Thank you for this show.
Ahh finally introoo sunne ko mila ❤❤
IMPORTANT!
Dear Junaid, you should have given some trigger warning or something before the last email about that extreme level of ruthless domestic violence.
Man, you have no idea how much people in your fanlists would have been triggered. I myself feel sick to my stomach even though I JUST started listening that particular email... Had to hit emergency breaks to park my car to resuffle/move on to the next podcast in my list.
Much disturbed and triggered because of SO MANY valid reasons to be triggered.
Hope you got the point.
Stay blessed man. Huge inspiration!
Itna khusra na ban, khusri
😂 Grow some balls don't be such a snowflake
Salaam brother Junaid your advice to the boy was Really good and on point
MashaAllah, you’re all shows are healers. Alhumdulilah.
Junaid bhai how are you?
Please make some program on narcissistic people and their behaviour. Thank you
2 saal se even i am an Uncle. Turning 40 this June bhai. Unable to avoid the being 40 feeling.
Great work
Same experience I had in last April. One desi family with British passport. They were 6 in total, and we had connected flights from Thailand to Pakistan. The whole family parents and their teenagers were laud and rude.
Another landay ka angrez with inferiority complex
When I went to US to Afghan restaurant. I was treated very well just because of I was Pakistani and the restaurant owner was an Afghan from Paktia province. Afghan and Pakistanis are like brothers. Laanut to those who spread hate between Pakistanis and afghans.
😂 Awesome way Junaid is describing cousin marriage 😂
His thought process is inspiring
Pls add timestamp for that instance
Bro true h
Damn the question what state of mind would he be to say such things...💔🥶
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This is the first time in Junaid's ASK series that the intro is more interesting than the questions.
44:12 Psychopaths undeniably exist in our society, but those who resist therapy are numerous. Despite the evident need for intervention, mental health is often overlooked, with a lack of evaluation for such individuals. Reflecting on my childhood, I recall instances of severe mistreatment in school, where teachers, akin to psychopaths, inflicted physical harm on students. It's a distressing reality, emphasizing the urgent requirement for therapy in addressing these issues.
Second that.
I love this sires ❤❤❤
Specially ask ganji swag
And Junaid Akram sense of humor 🎉
I wish you and your family alot of health and happiness
Big hands for junaid ganjinswag
6:48 6:50 6:54 6:59 😅😅 7:03 7:07 😅😅 7:12 8:18 Junaid Bhai Kia Batain Sikha Rahain Hain😂😂😂😂😂
Best show on youtube for me
🤡
8:06 sara secret out kerdia bhai ne🤦♀️
One of the biggest mistakes one can do as a parent is think “I never had this or that (e.g. Sega / pS) but now I earn enough so my Son would not have this issue”
While initially this thinking seem however, if a child gets everything he ever wanted on Day 1, he looses importance of things. He looses sense of hardwork to achieve something
Junaid bhai ppl getting seats at the back of the plane also get to board the last. So maybe the technique doesn’t work that well.
Slaam!
Thanks
Always New topic With interesting and informative Knowledge While doing my work or having dinner or breakfast 😁😅
last story was insane.
In the last email he said that his mother accidentally told him about his father than how im the world he went to court his entire childhood and didn't knew about the reason going there
Please show us you’re old neighborhood( Muhala). You are a super brave person. MashaAllah.
Spy Game is a cult classic but unfortunately very underrated.
Operation dinner out
For those Pakistanis that feel strongly that only arranged marriages are the way to go… don’t forget how the Prophet (SAW) got married to Hadhrat Khadija. He worked for her and she asked for his hand in marriage and he accepted.
Junaid bhai quality better se better horhe hai
Don’t worry boys speak late same with my son, my daughter is way ahead of him already 🙏🏼
I think u should report the revenge guy he is definitely not in the right state of mind and needs help.This is like something bad is waiting to happen
Can't report because he's patreon
28:10 he's just following Prophet Mohammed example. Don't blame him, blame the religion.
MashaAllah, for you’re son. Alhumdulilah.
last story was like im watching a documentary
O boy if you really love your mother please don't think about suicide, never ever again. If you want to take revenge from your father just forget about him and be successful in your life giving your mother a peaceful and quality of life. That will be your best revenge and let the KARMA do the rest to your father. Eventually he will get what he deserves. In the drama Zindagi gulzar hai, Samina Pirzada daughter takes the same revenge from her father by removing all the sorrows from her mother's life with such a confidence and dignity. Take a lesson from her role in that drama. You and your mom will always be in my prayers. Stay strong brother.
To the boy who wants to kill his father, look I am 18 too and I completely understand these rebellious emotions. first of all please please please get your kidney operated as soon as possible. jaan hai to jahan hai, dont overthink about the future everything will eventually fall into place. And even if you didn't have a loving family you can create one remember that. As you are earning enough already I would suggest moveout of Pakistan to better countries with free education and more facilities. Just move away from all the negativity. You are created for a purpose don't let your intrusive thoughts win over . You are not a cause of your mothers suffering you were are and always be her choice. Your birth gave her the courage to leave that shitty man so you are the point from where her live got better look at it this way. and if you ever need anyone to talk too I am always here.
warm regards,
duaa.
I live in St Albans
Junaid bhai when you will you visit South Africa.
Junaid sir please Apne 1st ghr ka zaror walk-around karwana we would love to watch ❤❤
Biswa Kalyan Rath is one of my favorite comics, he's one of the funniest guys in there, I'm so glad you got to meet him !!
Shitty comedian 😊 biswa
Junaid Bhai tussi great ho ❤
10:25 Emirate have worst in cabin service and very rude staff offers some people food twice and tell others that food is finished. No other airline has food shortages than this stupid airline. Too over priced and overhyped.
Junaid come and see Brampton in Ontario you will not recognize if this is Canada 😀😀 Brampton is naya puniab
Agree with you Bhai your father every Monday he's coming to my father shop and your father always seaport you ❤
Glass maar donga khench kay. 😂😂😂. @Junaid. You are awesome
Got some hope
Junaid bhai i am just feeling ap mujhse bat krhe ho only itna relaxing feel hota ha iss yar you are an angel on earth love you stay blessed ❤apki wife bht lucky women ha jisko junaid mila ha❤
What’s the email address for asking Questions.?
Junaid Akram my prayers with you when I heard you’re son wants you to stay with him. Allah Kareem blessly settle you down in the happy place. Ameen Sum Ameen.
I am 25 and feel like 40ish. also feel good when some random kids say me uncle.
Akele bande ne poore family ki life set kar di........Obviously baap flex karega hi yaar
I do paid tickets since 2 years and its crazy to be there. Too much crowd and pushing by being in lines in 5 hrs. Indians Middle Eastern people pushing people even pregnant people. Terrible rush outside tubes and 4 hrs in car even stuck in traffic with partial view of fireworks.
From where we can ask you questions and from where I can get ganjiswag email
I’m surprised after earning from so many channels you are still not flying business class !!
Sir which camera are you using?
police muqabley paiada ho kay dekhe lol pareshan tha for some reason hansi nikal gayi sun kar
WHY IT IS NECESSARY TO SAY FUCK IN EVERY SENTENSE
the last story is disturbing. This is most likely a police issue. someone needs to contact authorities and the hospital ...
JAZAKALLAH SIR JUNAID
51:42 that's unfair to men.....why not the other way around like women give money to men and also fulfill all other responsibilities meanwhile men just enjoy their lives with children at women's cost??
Junaid sir explains very well bcos he talks with basic logic about how to do things or should be done i know life is giving everyone a different experience everyday there are many many challeneges to fight. and the stories discussed in this video i wish u all happiness success and please dont do anything stupid that will harm u and others around u. and the last thing i want to ask is if i want to send email to be shared and given some advice on it where can i email u sir. thanks
kahan meet up kia tha? 😅
“zor zor se bolke sab logon ko scheme bata de…”
Usually cousins marriages end up in divorce 🫠🫠🤦🏻♀️
1000% wrong. Show me statistics or don't spew misinformation.
@@human_hopecorrect . Cousin marriage are better than outside marriage .
To the guy who wants to kill his father:
1. Don’t ever think of suicide. Allah chose to give you life, even with your mother’s health issues. You are here because Allah wanted to. He gave you life and he will take it away when it is time. Don’t meddle with gods affairs please.
Second think from your mother’s perspective. She had such a bad life. And only good she have us you. Please don’t take that away.
2. Your father was an evil man and there should be consequences for what he did. But who would take a better revenge? You or Allah? Let him complete his course of life aur Allah jo pakore banaye ga na un k. Do you think Allah unhe aise hi chhor dega? Do think allah aap ko insaf nahi de ga? He is al Adil, the most just. Let him do the best justice.
3. Seek therapy man. Your mind is messed up. The life that you have lived has left deep scars on your mind. And you need to heal. You have a lot of trauma and you deserve a good life. Go to a psychiatrist. Talk to him. You will feel better
31:24 ye kon hai ??? Agar kisi ko pata hai to please batao mujhy b
19:58 shukar karen kah aap ka pher bi apna ghar tha 27 saal aap nay apnay ghar main guzaray
main kai familes ko janta hon jin ka aaj tak apna ghar nahi hai aur salon say woh kirayeh kay ghar per rah rahai han
aur her koch saal baad kisi sastay ilaqay main move hona parta hai onko kiyon kah os ilaqay ka rent baharjata hai her saal
Move to the America and open your own channel, same like NBC etc. InshaAllah tala.
Yes this kind of family really annoying i hate that too
31:48 Aik hi mind may ati hay woh hay Actress Hina Altaf. I am 90% sure of it.
Or sana javed
@@sarahshahzad9071 recently Hina Altaf was sick and she is kind of a bubbly girl.
Umair jaswal
To the boy who wants to kill his father:
So soery to hear your background. Please please do not commit suicide. You would not only be killing yourself but also killing your motger's hope. Make sonething of yourself, believe me you can. Then take your motger far away from her toxic marriage.
mind you this guy can easily afford business class
Watch 10:35 sec
Mein ny meetup b kia LUND mein 😂
On topic of Gay marriage Maryam Nawaz son is gay and he married a woman and then recently got divorce and this is person who is running for Prime minister.. I mean its speechless. No wonder this country is in the gutter.
What's your source of news he doesn't look zesty at all lol
@@anjala101 LOL the whole world know. The ex wife was threatened by Maryam Nawaz that if she speaks she will be murdered like Arshad Sharif.... If you want you can google the wild parties Maryam nawaz's son has in a flat in central london !!!!
Modiji is gay too
59:24 kuch nahin hota sir. Sab nikal jaate FIR bhi ghayab ho jati. Yeh pakistan hai. Mere maarne wale abhi bhi azadi se ghum rahe Koi jail nahin jata. Lahore police is worst in the world
Music instrument is haram, make your kid a scientist.
His plain to kick his kid out of home at the age of 18 that’s why he’s saying
23:16 Bro if you did suicide you won't even meet Allah, Allah will won't like to see you then so if you want to see Allah happily with you then don't take such suicide attempts, give your mom a new happy lfie by supporting her in harsh time
Bro stop being sarcastic its a way of love apa showing to his sons
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
28:46