Yeh chez! But in reality it's the opposite. they get a working woman who wants to pursue career and grow professionally but she is forced to stay in the house and work like a maid and serve the entire fuckin in laws.
Yes but the main problem is - how do you know her preference ? The only way is you ask her about it and explain your preferences (that whether you want a working woman or not). Problem is that in today’s day and age, people like Junaid Akram have made it a crime that a guy has a preference for a housewife Just like a girl has preferences, guys have preferences too.
For 1st email: my opionion to keep you wife at her parent house and tell her to find a job (assuming she will take 4/5 months to find a good job). In that 4/5 months save good amount for advance and after this go for rent home and then you along with your partner can earn enough to afford rent and daily household (obviously you would face some financial issues during this period). Do this for atleast a year and your mother might realize that it was at her fault. Rejoin your mother with a condition that she will not stop your wife to continue her job (obviously her stance k haath se nikal jayegi would be clear as your wife would already doing job for 6 months). Please note that this is my personal opinion as i found it the only way to not to loose any from your wife and mother and your mother may realize her mistake. May Allah help you 🙏
20 is not too young. Rather it’s the age when people have the maximum number of flings/relationships etc. it’s easy to fall in love due to raging hormones. So please do not discard or brush aside any such queries/emails by saying oh you’re too young to be in a relationship. It’s the time when people need guidance the most
which he gave eventually .. And He was right .getting in relationship because your hormones are in spike is the worst thing you can do to yourself.. 20 is age of building yourself and be high value. When you achieve this then you will eventually attract High value Men
The message is suggesting that the age of 20 is not too young to be in relationships. It mentions that at this age, people often have the most flings or relationships, as it's a time when hormones are strong and it's easy to fall in love. The author advises against dismissing or ignoring inquiries or emails about relationships by simply saying someone is too young. Instead, they emphasize the importance of providing guidance and support to people at this age, as it's a time when they need it the most.
Case#1 is an ideal situation for this couple to settle abroad, in places like the UAE or GCC in general. Work on a plan with a clear timeline in mind and just leave. Mom is mature enough to take good care of herself as she has someone to care for her plus the experience of a lifetime at her side, get out of the 'emotional blackmailing' scene ASAP.
This situation is perfect for the couple to move abroad, particularly to places like the United Arab Emirates or the Gulf Cooperation Council (GCC) countries. They should create a clear plan with a specific timeline in mind and then simply leave. The mother is capable of taking care of herself because she has someone to look after her, and she also has a lifetime of experience with her. It's important for them to quickly remove themselves from any emotional manipulation or pressure.
In Q 3 when you mentioned that we are not career driven - that's totally correct - and its not about sard illaqay - Indians are so focused and career driven compared to Pakistanis (men or women) - I work for one of the top 5 banks in the world - and I'll honestly say I stumbled upon the career I have, I never got to go in the field I wanted to, not because I couldn't get into it - only because I was a girl and building a career is not a major goal for a Pakistani girl. I have a colleague who has an Indian origin. Honestly, where she is was totally planned for her from the beginning, like she is living her goal and she has also planned for further goals and moving towards them. I, on the other hand, cant plan if I can go for my next exam this year or not cz I have to cater for my family first. I am lucky to have career at this point.
The person is expressing their observation that in their experience, Indians tend to be more focused and driven in their careers compared to Pakistanis. They mention that they work for a top bank and feel that they stumbled into their career rather than pursuing a specific field, partly due to societal expectations for Pakistani women. They contrast this with a colleague of Indian origin who seems to have had a more planned and goal-oriented career path. The person feels fortunate to have a career despite the challenges of balancing family responsibilities.
Junaid Bhai excellent work, I personally know many people who are in their late 30’s or in their early 40’s but they haven’t matured yet I’m sure majority of of people are like that so they need this kinda podcast where they can learn about different aspects of life
The message is a comment directed to someone named Junaid, praising their work and expressing the belief that many people in their late 30s or early 40s have not matured yet. The commenter suggests that a podcast discussing various aspects of life would be beneficial for such individuals.
It seems like someone is requesting a special episode for a live podcast where the host, Ganji Bhai, would take calls from people and they would share their problems. This would likely involve an interactive discussion where listeners can participate by calling in to the podcast.
55:30 I think, Pakistan me her banda apna kaam chorh kr dusre kam is lye krta hai kunke ke bachpan me apne interest ke mutabiq usko career choose nahi kerne diya jata, phir jab wo barha hota hai aur daikhta hai us ke pass capital hai aur system me koe accountibility nei hai to vo resources ko use kr ke apne mannpasand domain ki exective power le leta hai but kunke us ki professional education nei hoi hoti, is waja se us department ka berha garak kr deta hai lekin system me jawabdahi na hone ki waja se adamant rehta hai.
"I think, in Pakistan, every person leaves their own work and takes up other jobs because in their childhood, they were not allowed to choose a career according to their interests. Then, when they grow up and see that they have capital and there is no accountability in the system, they use resources to take executive power in their preferred domain. But because they do not have professional education, they end up causing chaos in that department. However, due to the lack of accountability in the system, they remain adamant."
The message is advising a girl who is caught between her ex-boyfriend and a potential new romantic interest. The speaker suggests that the girl should first focus on discovering her life's purpose and pursuing her goals and skills, rather than prioritizing romantic relationships. The use of "Bhen" is a colloquial term in Hindi meaning "sister," and is often used as a friendly or familiar form of address.
I also face this 60% and I am not take any Single dowry Its haram .. But I Support my Ife or tmhn hi Step lyna ha bhai Bivi ha support krO Yhi rishta Long Tream chalyga MAA Baap apni jaga unki Izat apni jaga .. Balance ka m n AB Alhamdulillah sb Aman hai
I would rather live as a 3rd tier resident in a well built infrastructural environment, good domestic policies and life full of social practices than live in Pakistan. I can't seem to wrap my head around that "my country" "apna mulk to apna hota hay", Allah didn't stamp your ass with a NADRA stamp. This whole world is for humans.
The statement expresses a preference for living in a place with strong infrastructure, good domestic policies, and a rich social life, even if it means being a lower-class resident there. The speaker suggests that they struggle to understand the sentiment of blindly loving one's country, as they believe that people are not inherently tied to a specific place by divine or governmental decree, and that the entire world is meant for all humans. Additionally, the speaker seems to express dissatisfaction with the situation in Pakistan.
Its quite surprising that the things Islam prioritises and give guidelines for, Junaid Akram is going completely against that For Junaid Akram - “Getting ILM” is free mixing with boys, making money etc. It is completely justified for a guy that his wife is not following and / or randomly messaging other guys on instagram
It is surprising that Junaid Akram is going against the priorities and guidelines of Islam. He seems to believe that "getting ILM" (knowledge) involves mixing freely with boys and making money. It is also justified for him to feel upset if his wife is not following Islamic guidelines and is messaging other guys on Instagram.
You missed his point completely. And rigid people who take the religious script and implement it without context are a HUGE reason behind Pakistan being a hellhole.
Ham parhtay parhtay aur suntay huy thak gy lekin ye society in ghatiyaan cheezon sy na nikal saaki toh junaid bhai aap bhi na thakna bs kaam jaari rakho
It seems like the message is expressing love and concern for someone named Junaid, and is asking him to consider doing a show with a doctor to raise awareness about the risks of cousin marriage and Thalassemia among people.
What you said about inheriting the business happened to me. Unfortunately, I was kicked out by my mean father, as he did not value me, even though "he" was the useless person and I increased the family business 3x. It has to do with his "akkad". To be honest, my father was an illiterate mean person. People thought I was his stepson, as I have a friendly personality. I see many people work, but don't calculate actual earnings, after expense or cost of work. I would suggest a young person to pursue a career, which is of interest to you and is in demand internationally. No use taking courses and having no job in the end. I understand recession and economy is not in our control, but taking software engineering, petroleum/power engineering, trades (electrician, plumbing, welding), medical studies and accounting are a few fields with good prospects. I have a degree, but am facing gender bias in my field. Ishq per zor nahin. "Pyar koshish se nahin milta, zamane mein kabhie, aap hi aap koi dil mein utter aata hain." Work-life-balance should be sustained in one's life.
Let's dive into the conversation about leaving Pakistan for a better life. If you're seeking a brighter future, go ahead and pursue it. But before you make that decision, take a moment to reflect on the ongoing struggles between Palestine and the Zionist movement. They're fighting fiercely for a land to preserve their identity. Imagine if Pakistan were no more tomorrow, and you found yourself living a comfortable life in the West. What you'd lose isn't just a geographical location, but your identity and a voice in any society about your beliefs. You'd have to conform to the norms of your new home. Yes, we acknowledge that politicians, the army, and bureaucrats have their flaws. However, the real root of Pakistan's challenges lies within the general public. It's time for us to take small steps and work collectively to fix our own house. Avoid earning money through unethical means, look out for your neighbors and society, refrain from stealing electricity or using unauthorized gas compressors. Spread positivity and actively prevent negativity around you. By doing this, you alone can contribute to the positive transformation of Pakistan. This is a remarkable nation, and all it needs is for each of us to play our part. Instead of solely blaming politicians, the army, or bureaucrats, let's take responsibility and work towards a solution. I've listened to countless podcasts highlighting our problems, but it's rare to find someone stepping up with a solution. Let's embark on a journey to restart our country with a fresh mindset. Together, InShaAllah, we can make a difference.
1. Rizwan kee tabligh se kia masala hai patah nahin. It should only be a problem if he was not doing his cricket properly. 2. Molvi na ghoomein? ya kerlia bayan toh may be Japanese Muslims want him to do it. What is the problem in that. Sometimes it seems you have a clear bias against religious personalities. I recommend you sitting down and talking with them if you haven't done that already.
@@anees419 Allah maaf keray. Woh aadmi fitna hai who denies tradition and current authority and academia on Islam. Kind of flat earther but for religion.
In second question the girl who have a confusion in relationship might catch up with me I think we have a same thought about our career and life partner.
"In the second question, the girl who is confused about her relationship might reach out to me. I think we have similar thoughts about our careers and life partners."
In the intro, you mentioned the Pakistani guy ready for fake sham gay marriage just to move abroad. It is so sad. I get people are depressed in the country, but these fake asylum cases will mean that in the future, Pakistanis will face even more restrictions on travel.
In the introduction, you mentioned a Pakistani man who is willing to enter into a fake same-sex marriage in order to move abroad. This is a very unfortunate situation. I understand that people in the country may be feeling depressed, but these fraudulent asylum cases will likely result in more travel restrictions for Pakistanis in the future.
Instilling half baked liberal ideas into young women that have failed the test of time through Western civilizations, and then selling them as the holy grail... kya scene hay bhai.. Have a daughter, raise her according to this doctrine, then see what happens. Disagree with your take.
This passage seems to express a critical viewpoint about the influence of certain liberal ideas on young women. It suggests that these ideas are not fully developed or well-founded, and have not stood the test of time in Western civilizations. The writer appears to be skeptical of these ideas being presented as the ultimate solution. The passage also seems to imply that if one were to raise a daughter based on these beliefs, the outcome might not be favorable. Finally, the writer is inviting a discussion by saying "Disagree with your take."
Commenting for episode 151 Listening to you junaid i seriously determine k ab sy time ki pabandi laazmi krni hai Today i hold a small business on which i try to organize everything including my time But back in university i remember i was the almost most late student but why ? This is imp junaida bhai Why ? Because hmari class hoti th consecutive 9-2 jismy sy 9-12 teacher had to be with us and then assignment alot kr k she'll do some other stuff like paper checking n all. But there teachers only came at 9 took attendence and move at 10:30 .to pickup their children or get some coffee or hangout with coullegues . And they only shared assignment related youtub tutorial nd we had to follow this just . Now being the person who hate sirf attendence k lie ana . I wanted to gain some spark lekin wahan hota nhi th kuch . I also hate being teacher her only responsibility was sharing yiutube tutprial for relevant assignment and so after an year i choose to wake up at 9 go uni at 11 , get some lunch and do my assignment formally ans submit it with an excuse of traffic because it was purposeless to get up for that teacher i felt. And i spend my night timming to rn my daraz store wich has turned now into a tote bag brand (small business ) but alhamdulillah am glad it my own thing . But in terms of time value i did not learnt anything and sometimes i hve to suffer with this . Because in business its all about right timmings. Please share youropinion in any ask episode. I'll follow for sure .
Reality is gonna hit that 20yo girl hard when she realizes that if her demands go drastically against cultural and religious norms then the man that will be with her will also have a similar mindset. To say she enjoys the loyalty, security, and the religiousness of the person she's currently with WHILE she's cheating on him and straightening things up with her ex before leaving the current one so she doesnt have a 'non-relationship gap' period is outrageously insane. The boy isnt a fan of feminism because this skewed version of feminism that made it to Pakistan has rightfully earned the bad reputation through young girls like these who have platforms to televise THEIR idea of feminism, which they learnt from bits and pieces picked up from social media, lacking the understanding of what the whole package of this noble cause was about. Pakistan needs some intellectual professionals that go around in different universities holding sessions that educate people about what the actual idea of feminism is and how to gradually implement and integrate that idea into our society, and not something picked up from a 19yo girl on social media.
I'm 28 years old, even I have watched this play featuring the billboard. I was sharing the story with my siblings a few weeks ago. Crazy storyline! My whole life, I couldn't look at portions/people living above commercial shops without thinking of this play.
Ganji bhaiya kin kamo mai time waste kr rhy hain Nibba nibiyon ko bata rhy hain dono mai se kis ko choose krna hai. You are the person who reminds us that we have bigger purpose in Real life than all this bullshit
No electricity, no fast internet, logu k gilay shikway, mazhabi fasadat, protests, roads ka band hona, mobile snatching, chori dakaiti, you feel unsafe when you go outside, dirty sorroundings, mulk ka koi Roshan mustaqbil nae, tow phr Kya jawaz banta hai Islami Jamhoriya Fojistan mai rehnay ka????
Classic male take, lol. Miss the point completely and attack the other gender. Yeah, that woman is a walking, talking red flag but that isn't the topic at hand.
Its on couple what they want If she wants a job Then live with a job If husband cannot compromise he must left her for his mental peace And if she dont want to leave her job theb kindly leave her husband for her mental peace Period Chikh chikh has no room in persons life
Put an alarm on your phone and write a note to you in the app explaining what the alarm is for. 😊 Secondly, dowry should not be demanded from the girl's parents. Follow the example of Hazrat Fatimah (AS), who was the daughter of our beloved prophet Mohammad (PBUH) !!!
Maulana sahab japan main tableeq ker rahe hain jahan na bemaini hai na chori chakari , na berozgari , na ghibat unko islam sekha rhe hain jo hum se ziada musalmaan hain 😢
It seems like the message is requesting someone to ask a specific person about the most fragrant segment, and to inquire about more information on men's dressing from a lady who previously emailed.
Would strongly disagree on Mufti Tariq Masood's part. He is doing his job, spreading dawa to other nations. Vlogs are source of income as well as source of knowledge which would influence his opinions on different matters that he discusses in his bayaan. He speaks different than other conventional mutfis and thats why many youngster's listen to him. Had he not gained any foreign exposure he would be talking without knowing reality. Finally using vlogs, it becomes easy to get visa on Pakistani passport thanks to its reputation that you have to use other means just to get visa.
I strongly disagree with the opinion about Mufti Tariq Masood. He is doing his job by spreading dawa (Islamic teachings) to other nations. His vlogs not only provide a source of income but also a source of knowledge, which influences his opinions on different matters that he discusses in his lectures. He speaks differently than other conventional mutfis, which is why many young people listen to him. If he had not gained any foreign exposure, he would be speaking without knowing the reality. Finally, using vlogs makes it easier to get a visa on a Pakistani passport, thanks to his reputation, which means you have to use other means just to get a visa.
Guy having a heading of "Personal Development & Traditional Values". He is clearly an aimed guy. These types of guys are rare in Pakistan. I'm doing so great in my career, but not into a relationship due to the typical Pakistani guys. Man, I'm advising you from my perspective as I'm a Pakistani girl. Although, I myself is a Pakistani girl, but you're thinking right that you shouldn't marry a Pakistani girl. Because, I rarely see Pakistani girls with high aim. I advise you to look for someone in Europe.
This passage appears to be discussing a man with the title of "Personal Development & Traditional Values" and how he stands out in Pakistan. The speaker mentions that while they are successful in their career, they are not interested in a relationship with the typical Pakistani men. They advise the man to continue thinking the way he does, as they believe it is the right mindset. The speaker also notes that they themselves are a Pakistani woman, but they agree with the man's perspective.
@@hannan_zaid That mail was from a guy, not from a girl. You're mixing the things. Anyways, I just gave sincere advise to him, that whenever he want to be in a relationship, avoid traditional Pakistani girl. There is limit of typing, otherwise I will define here that why I'm saying this. For the guy who sent the email "Hey brother, if you're reading this. You're on a right track, my sincere advise to you as a younger sister who are always in a company of girls is that, don't marry a mismatched woman due to your parents' pressure, you will regret it later".
It seems like a comment made on social media. The user @ranahassan4931 is telling someone that they themselves are a red flag, not the other person being referred to in the conversation. This could imply that @ranahassan4931 sees the person they are addressing as a potential problem or warning sign in a certain situation.
You should start a big bro guide for boys, I see many teenage boys are learning it the hard way. Maybe your experience help them navigate.
He doesn't have experience listen to Andrew Tate
@@nimfall Andrew Tate doesn't have experience, listen to Mufti Tariq Masood.
Ajeeb
@@Uninformed2.0ok
@@nimfall Andrew Tate is the worst person to get advice from 💀
If someone doesn't want to allow her wife to do a job then marry the girl who doesn't want to pursue her career. Simple as that.
La illah illallah hazrat asim munir rasool allah!!
@@iqratakreemsaeed2862 there is always a trade-off. The choice is theirs.
Yeh chez!
But in reality it's the opposite.
they get a working woman who wants to pursue career and grow professionally but she is forced to stay in the house and work like a maid and serve the entire fuckin in laws.
only women after you
Yes but the main problem is - how do you know her preference ?
The only way is you ask her about it and explain your preferences (that whether you want a working woman or not). Problem is that in today’s day and age, people like Junaid Akram have made it a crime that a guy has a preference for a housewife
Just like a girl has preferences, guys have preferences too.
19:40 "The young people think the old people are fools - but the old people know the young people are fools." - Agatha Christie
La illah illallah hazrat asim munir rasool allah!!
I vividly remember the Khalida Riasaat’s play. It was sad yet very insightful.
For 1st email: my opionion to keep you wife at her parent house and tell her to find a job (assuming she will take 4/5 months to find a good job). In that 4/5 months save good amount for advance and after this go for rent home and then you along with your partner can earn enough to afford rent and daily household (obviously you would face some financial issues during this period). Do this for atleast a year and your mother might realize that it was at her fault. Rejoin your mother with a condition that she will not stop your wife to continue her job (obviously her stance k haath se nikal jayegi would be clear as your wife would already doing job for 6 months).
Please note that this is my personal opinion as i found it the only way to not to loose any from your wife and mother and your mother may realize her mistake.
May Allah help you 🙏
The video quality is epic Junaid bhai
from 1 Mobile to now a proper studio
20 is not too young. Rather it’s the age when people have the maximum number of flings/relationships etc. it’s easy to fall in love due to raging hormones. So please do not discard or brush aside any such queries/emails by saying oh you’re too young to be in a relationship. It’s the time when people need guidance the most
which he gave eventually .. And He was right .getting in relationship because your hormones are in spike is the worst thing you can do to yourself.. 20 is age of building yourself and be high value. When you achieve this then you will eventually attract High value Men
The message is suggesting that the age of 20 is not too young to be in relationships. It mentions that at this age, people often have the most flings or relationships, as it's a time when hormones are strong and it's easy to fall in love. The author advises against dismissing or ignoring inquiries or emails about relationships by simply saying someone is too young. Instead, they emphasize the importance of providing guidance and support to people at this age, as it's a time when they need it the most.
@@NorazeAshfaqBolo Jai Shree Ram
Gay Shree RAm chal shabash nikl ab
@@manjunathmnm
@@manjunathmnmeww disgusting
Always waiting for ask Ganjiswag❤
32:53 Such mature way to say it, without saying it. RESPECT.
Congratulations ❤❤❤ 150th therapy session for us 🎉
If you need him for therapy you need a life
Joint family is the reason for half the unhappiness in the subcontinent
True but not everyone can buy a house
Exactly
@@ArslanAli-cs1be then be able to afford rent at least before committing to another person.
Only Pakistani UA-camr i watch
Best of luck dude
Another great video, thank you!
Case#1 is an ideal situation for this couple to settle abroad, in places like the UAE or GCC in general. Work on a plan with a clear timeline in mind and just leave. Mom is mature enough to take good care of herself as she has someone to care for her plus the experience of a lifetime at her side, get out of the 'emotional blackmailing' scene ASAP.
Ankle don't misguide
@homecoder7816 absolutely true
This situation is perfect for the couple to move abroad, particularly to places like the United Arab Emirates or the Gulf Cooperation Council (GCC) countries. They should create a clear plan with a specific timeline in mind and then simply leave. The mother is capable of taking care of herself because she has someone to look after her, and she also has a lifetime of experience with her. It's important for them to quickly remove themselves from any emotional manipulation or pressure.
Then they should behave not any behavior should be tolerated @homecoder7816
@@hannan_zaid
Leave wife not mother
In Q 3 when you mentioned that we are not career driven - that's totally correct - and its not about sard illaqay - Indians are so focused and career driven compared to Pakistanis (men or women) - I work for one of the top 5 banks in the world - and I'll honestly say I stumbled upon the career I have, I never got to go in the field I wanted to, not because I couldn't get into it - only because I was a girl and building a career is not a major goal for a Pakistani girl. I have a colleague who has an Indian origin. Honestly, where she is was totally planned for her from the beginning, like she is living her goal and she has also planned for further goals and moving towards them. I, on the other hand, cant plan if I can go for my next exam this year or not cz I have to cater for my family first. I am lucky to have career at this point.
Sister I request you to consult a scholar of Islamic jurisprudence regarding whether your job is allowed in Islam or not. May Allah bless you.
@@SyedShaheerBinHussain I work in shares - that’s allowed
The person is expressing their observation that in their experience, Indians tend to be more focused and driven in their careers compared to Pakistanis. They mention that they work for a top bank and feel that they stumbled into their career rather than pursuing a specific field, partly due to societal expectations for Pakistani women. They contrast this with a colleague of Indian origin who seems to have had a more planned and goal-oriented career path. The person feels fortunate to have a career despite the challenges of balancing family responsibilities.
Alarm wala masla mere sath bhi horha hy lately. Also, ma alarm jis time ka bhi lagata hun, ussy 2 mint pehle khudi uth jata hun lol idk how
Excellent answers Junaid Bhai.
Junaid Bhai excellent work, I personally know many people who are in their late 30’s or in their early 40’s but they haven’t matured yet I’m sure majority of of people are like that so they need this kinda podcast where they can learn about different aspects of life
The message is a comment directed to someone named Junaid, praising their work and expressing the belief that many people in their late 30s or early 40s have not matured yet. The commenter suggests that a podcast discussing various aspects of life would be beneficial for such individuals.
Suggestion: A mega episode 2 or maybe 4 hours will be Absolutely fun ! Best of luck ✌️
yayyyyyy yesssssssssssssssssssssss
Some parts you said na Junaid bhai, I felt like you were talking directly about me. Thank you for the valuable talks.
55:30 😀😀😀 Rizwan & Tariq masood be like-- mujhe kyu tora
Man that thing of yours "waking up and just dismissing the alarm for not realizing what I set the alarm for is so relatable to me" 😂😂😂😂
This background looks more beautiful..Please don't change it
Everyone who sees this: You’re beautiful, and never give up your dreams, you are on this world for a reason!💝
FOR GANJI BHAI :
For special episode plz do live podcast where you take calls from people and they tell u the problem
It seems like someone is requesting a special episode for a live podcast where the host, Ganji Bhai, would take calls from people and they would share their problems. This would likely involve an interactive discussion where listeners can participate by calling in to the podcast.
@@hannan_zaid stop copy pasting from chatgpt
These podcasts should be available on Spotify
Congratulations for 150th episode
55:30 I think, Pakistan me her banda apna kaam chorh kr dusre kam is lye krta hai kunke ke bachpan me apne interest ke mutabiq usko career choose nahi kerne diya jata, phir jab wo barha hota hai aur daikhta hai us ke pass capital hai aur system me koe accountibility nei hai to vo resources ko use kr ke apne mannpasand domain ki exective power le leta hai but kunke us ki professional education nei hoi hoti, is waja se us department ka berha garak kr deta hai lekin system me jawabdahi na hone ki waja se adamant rehta hai.
"I think, in Pakistan, every person leaves their own work and takes up other jobs because in their childhood, they were not allowed to choose a career according to their interests. Then, when they grow up and see that they have capital and there is no accountability in the system, they use resources to take executive power in their preferred domain. But because they do not have professional education, they end up causing chaos in that department. However, due to the lack of accountability in the system, they remain adamant."
how can I ask question?
35:11 To the girl who’s stuck between ex & next: Bhen! Find the purpose of your life first & chase some motive with skills then chasing guys.
Best comment.
The message is advising a girl who is caught between her ex-boyfriend and a potential new romantic interest. The speaker suggests that the girl should first focus on discovering her life's purpose and pursuing her goals and skills, rather than prioritizing romantic relationships. The use of "Bhen" is a colloquial term in Hindi meaning "sister," and is often used as a friendly or familiar form of address.
Listening to your podcasts is kinda therapeutic for me...
I also face this 60% and I am not take any Single dowry Its haram .. But I Support my Ife or tmhn hi Step lyna ha bhai Bivi ha support krO Yhi rishta Long Tream chalyga MAA Baap apni jaga unki Izat apni jaga .. Balance ka m n AB Alhamdulillah sb Aman hai
just name your alarm. like when it rings at 3pm it appears as groceries alarm
I would rather live as a 3rd tier resident in a well built infrastructural environment, good domestic policies and life full of social practices than live in Pakistan.
I can't seem to wrap my head around that "my country" "apna mulk to apna hota hay", Allah didn't stamp your ass with a NADRA stamp. This whole world is for humans.
The statement expresses a preference for living in a place with strong infrastructure, good domestic policies, and a rich social life, even if it means being a lower-class resident there. The speaker suggests that they struggle to understand the sentiment of blindly loving one's country, as they believe that people are not inherently tied to a specific place by divine or governmental decree, and that the entire world is meant for all humans. Additionally, the speaker seems to express dissatisfaction with the situation in Pakistan.
Its quite surprising that the things Islam prioritises and give guidelines for, Junaid Akram is going completely against that
For Junaid Akram - “Getting ILM” is free mixing with boys, making money etc.
It is completely justified for a guy that his wife is not following and / or randomly messaging other guys on instagram
Thank you for pointing that out
It is surprising that Junaid Akram is going against the priorities and guidelines of Islam. He seems to believe that "getting ILM" (knowledge) involves mixing freely with boys and making money. It is also justified for him to feel upset if his wife is not following Islamic guidelines and is messaging other guys on Instagram.
You missed his point completely. And rigid people who take the religious script and implement it without context are a HUGE reason behind Pakistan being a hellhole.
I came to this podcast after 6 months. The questions and advice are still the same. Only names have changed.
Hello.. for alarm issue you tell us. You can save a note with the alarm so you can see why you set it. I hope it will help you. God bless
Ganji swag breaking limits 👊
Ham parhtay parhtay aur suntay huy thak gy lekin ye society in ghatiyaan cheezon sy na nikal saaki toh junaid bhai aap bhi na thakna bs kaam jaari rakho
I like the attitude of Ganjiswag.. Love from India.. Khalli Balli❤❤
Good job 👏
Love you junaid bai Plz do show with a doctor regarding cousin marriage risks , and Thalesemia awareness amongst ppl
It seems like the message is expressing love and concern for someone named Junaid, and is asking him to consider doing a show with a doctor to raise awareness about the risks of cousin marriage and Thalassemia among people.
48:55 best line MashaAllah
Who's allah?
Your imaginary friend?😂
What you said about inheriting the business happened to me. Unfortunately, I was kicked out by my mean father, as he did not value me, even though "he" was the useless person and I increased the family business 3x. It has to do with his "akkad". To be honest, my father was an illiterate mean person. People thought I was his stepson, as I have a friendly personality. I see many people work, but don't calculate actual earnings, after expense or cost of work.
I would suggest a young person to pursue a career, which is of interest to you and is in demand internationally. No use taking courses and having no job in the end. I understand recession and economy is not in our control, but taking software engineering, petroleum/power engineering, trades (electrician, plumbing, welding), medical studies and accounting are a few fields with good prospects. I have a degree, but am facing gender bias in my field. Ishq per zor nahin. "Pyar koshish se nahin milta, zamane mein kabhie, aap hi aap koi dil mein utter aata hain." Work-life-balance should be sustained in one's life.
23:30 thats wrong family is best friend so teach your child either biy or girl that do what ever they like hut in halal boundry and with family.
Let's dive into the conversation about leaving Pakistan for a better life. If you're seeking a brighter future, go ahead and pursue it. But before you make that decision, take a moment to reflect on the ongoing struggles between Palestine and the Zionist movement. They're fighting fiercely for a land to preserve their identity. Imagine if Pakistan were no more tomorrow, and you found yourself living a comfortable life in the West. What you'd lose isn't just a geographical location, but your identity and a voice in any society about your beliefs. You'd have to conform to the norms of your new home.
Yes, we acknowledge that politicians, the army, and bureaucrats have their flaws. However, the real root of Pakistan's challenges lies within the general public. It's time for us to take small steps and work collectively to fix our own house. Avoid earning money through unethical means, look out for your neighbors and society, refrain from stealing electricity or using unauthorized gas compressors. Spread positivity and actively prevent negativity around you. By doing this, you alone can contribute to the positive transformation of Pakistan.
This is a remarkable nation, and all it needs is for each of us to play our part. Instead of solely blaming politicians, the army, or bureaucrats, let's take responsibility and work towards a solution. I've listened to countless podcasts highlighting our problems, but it's rare to find someone stepping up with a solution. Let's embark on a journey to restart our country with a fresh mindset. Together, InShaAllah, we can make a difference.
32:07 that girl herself is a red flag. So whoever on the other hand is, stay away from her 🤣
The self development guy sounds like a male version of me-and yes I am pakistani.
1. Rizwan kee tabligh se kia masala hai patah nahin. It should only be a problem if he was not doing his cricket properly.
2. Molvi na ghoomein? ya kerlia bayan toh may be Japanese Muslims want him to do it. What is the problem in that.
Sometimes it seems you have a clear bias against religious personalities. I recommend you sitting down and talking with them if you haven't done that already.
U should listen to engineer Muhammad Ali mirza ❤
He's talking about Asif Munir
@@anees419 Allah maaf keray. Woh aadmi fitna hai who denies tradition and current authority and academia on Islam. Kind of flat earther but for religion.
@@anees419fitna bro don't watch his video
@@meanmachinejimiofficial that's what they tell you
Are you wearing an Orient Bambino watch?
Junaid Akram - While I was eatling!
Me who was listening to the podcast, pausing my work to see "bhai kia kha rehe they"? 😅
whats the name of the play
1:06:45 wrong. I am lahori and left long time back due to same problems you mentioned. Threat to life
You have meta quest 2 in the background.
In second question the girl who have a confusion in relationship might catch up with me I think we have a same thought about our career and life partner.
"In the second question, the girl who is confused about her relationship might reach out to me. I think we have similar thoughts about our careers and life partners."
As an educated Indian bro u love your country I know but India sab ke range ke bahar hay.
WhatsApp link is not valid in bio.
31:36 the twist😂
In the intro, you mentioned the Pakistani guy ready for fake sham gay marriage just to move abroad. It is so sad. I get people are depressed in the country, but these fake asylum cases will mean that in the future, Pakistanis will face even more restrictions on travel.
In the introduction, you mentioned a Pakistani man who is willing to enter into a fake same-sex marriage in order to move abroad. This is a very unfortunate situation. I understand that people in the country may be feeling depressed, but these fraudulent asylum cases will likely result in more travel restrictions for Pakistanis in the future.
The girl is trying to settle down on her terms with a back up boyfriend, she is the wrong choice.
But landay kay liberals will not see that
The girl is attempting to establish a relationship on her own terms with a backup boyfriend, but she is not the right choice.
How to email him?
You can't, he makes up these emails.
Instilling half baked liberal ideas into young women that have failed the test of time through Western civilizations, and then selling them as the holy grail... kya scene hay bhai.. Have a daughter, raise her according to this doctrine, then see what happens. Disagree with your take.
Finally someone said it.
This passage seems to express a critical viewpoint about the influence of certain liberal ideas on young women. It suggests that these ideas are not fully developed or well-founded, and have not stood the test of time in Western civilizations. The writer appears to be skeptical of these ideas being presented as the ultimate solution. The passage also seems to imply that if one were to raise a daughter based on these beliefs, the outcome might not be favorable. Finally, the writer is inviting a discussion by saying "Disagree with your take."
Zaberdast maza aa gya, examples main 😂
Commenting for episode 151
Listening to you junaid i seriously determine k ab sy time ki pabandi laazmi krni hai
Today i hold a small business on which i try to organize everything including my time
But back in university i remember i was the almost most late student but why ?
This is imp junaida bhai
Why ?
Because hmari class hoti th consecutive 9-2 jismy sy 9-12 teacher had to be with us and then assignment alot kr k she'll do some other stuff like paper checking n all.
But there teachers only came at 9 took attendence and move at 10:30 .to pickup their children or get some coffee or hangout with coullegues .
And they only shared assignment related youtub tutorial nd we had to follow this just .
Now being the person who hate sirf attendence k lie ana . I wanted to gain some spark lekin wahan hota nhi th kuch . I also hate being teacher her only responsibility was sharing yiutube tutprial for relevant assignment and so after an year i choose to wake up at 9 go uni at 11 , get some lunch and do my assignment formally ans submit it with an excuse of traffic because it was purposeless to get up for that teacher i felt.
And i spend my night timming to rn my daraz store wich has turned now into a tote bag brand (small business ) but alhamdulillah am glad it my own thing . But in terms of time value i did not learnt anything and sometimes i hve to suffer with this .
Because in business its all about right timmings.
Please share youropinion in any ask episode. I'll follow for sure .
Reality is gonna hit that 20yo girl hard when she realizes that if her demands go drastically against cultural and religious norms then the man that will be with her will also have a similar mindset. To say she enjoys the loyalty, security, and the religiousness of the person she's currently with WHILE she's cheating on him and straightening things up with her ex before leaving the current one so she doesnt have a 'non-relationship gap' period is outrageously insane. The boy isnt a fan of feminism because this skewed version of feminism that made it to Pakistan has rightfully earned the bad reputation through young girls like these who have platforms to televise THEIR idea of feminism, which they learnt from bits and pieces picked up from social media, lacking the understanding of what the whole package of this noble cause was about. Pakistan needs some intellectual professionals that go around in different universities holding sessions that educate people about what the actual idea of feminism is and how to gradually implement and integrate that idea into our society, and not something picked up from a 19yo girl on social media.
I'm 28 years old, even I have watched this play featuring the billboard. I was sharing the story with my siblings a few weeks ago.
Crazy storyline!
My whole life, I couldn't look at portions/people living above commercial shops without thinking of this play.
Ganji bhaiya kin kamo mai time waste kr rhy hain Nibba nibiyon ko bata rhy hain dono mai se kis ko choose krna hai. You are the person who reminds us that we have bigger purpose in Real life than all this bullshit
I have the same situation... beter to keep your mom separate..
You should keep your wife..ignore your mom if she is wrong...
No electricity, no fast internet, logu k gilay shikway, mazhabi fasadat, protests, roads ka band hona, mobile snatching, chori dakaiti, you feel unsafe when you go outside, dirty sorroundings, mulk ka koi Roshan mustaqbil nae, tow phr Kya jawaz banta hai Islami Jamhoriya Fojistan mai rehnay ka????
17:30 true
Second Caller - The Girl itself is a big RED FLAG 🚩
@Junaid Bhai, I want you to have a podcast with Julie. I hope you recognize her
Isliye me ye nhii karra par thumbnail bhii lagaliya😅
Mannat Murad starting from 10 minutes lol
00:24:00
And then Pakistan banta hai =D literally nailed it
Special with Dr Solangi
Question 1: Real life manat muraad drama
More difficult times should lead to more evolved humour. Ye kya thoda time kharab hua to show ka agenda hi badal diya 🙃
First case sounds like Mannat Murad drama.
Jai shri ram junaid bhai love from Bharat🇮🇳🙏🏼
Khaaton ke red flags bhi unko bata den
Sirf larke ki burayan
"Also tell them the red flags of relationships
Not just the flaws of the boy"
Classic male take, lol. Miss the point completely and attack the other gender.
Yeah, that woman is a walking, talking red flag but that isn't the topic at hand.
good
Its on couple what they want
If she wants a job
Then live with a job
If husband cannot compromise he must left her for his mental peace
And if she dont want to leave her job theb kindly leave her husband for her mental peace
Period
Chikh chikh has no room in persons life
Junaid I can sit there and from 150 episodes the amount you swear. I've never heard you say anything about drinking alcohol but swearing yes
Sorry for being late. To the Developer guy on 1st email. Please send me your CV. I'll help you find a job here in Dubai
Put an alarm on your phone and write a note to you in the app explaining what the alarm is for. 😊
Secondly, dowry should not be demanded from the girl's parents.
Follow the example of Hazrat Fatimah (AS), who was the daughter of our beloved prophet Mohammad (PBUH) !!!
👑
Unpopular opinion: The girl in section 3 is herself a red flag. 🚩
nah, that's a pretty popular opinion.
Maulana sahab japan main tableeq ker rahe hain jahan na bemaini hai na chori chakari , na berozgari , na ghibat unko islam sekha rhe hain jo hum se ziada musalmaan hain 😢
PLEASE VERY IMPORTANT! ASK NUMBER 136 MOST FRAGRANT SEGMENT, ASK LADY WHO EMAILED TO GIVE MORE INFO ON MEN DRESSING PLEASE!!!
It seems like the message is requesting someone to ask a specific person about the most fragrant segment, and to inquire about more information on men's dressing from a lady who previously emailed.
The unnecessary fake American accent is very distracting. If possible please reconsider using it in future videos
Would strongly disagree on Mufti Tariq Masood's part. He is doing his job, spreading dawa to other nations. Vlogs are source of income as well as source of knowledge which would influence his opinions on different matters that he discusses in his bayaan. He speaks different than other conventional mutfis and thats why many youngster's listen to him. Had he not gained any foreign exposure he would be talking without knowing reality. Finally using vlogs, it becomes easy to get visa on Pakistani passport thanks to its reputation that you have to use other means just to get visa.
I strongly disagree with the opinion about Mufti Tariq Masood. He is doing his job by spreading dawa (Islamic teachings) to other nations. His vlogs not only provide a source of income but also a source of knowledge, which influences his opinions on different matters that he discusses in his lectures. He speaks differently than other conventional mutfis, which is why many young people listen to him. If he had not gained any foreign exposure, he would be speaking without knowing the reality. Finally, using vlogs makes it easier to get a visa on a Pakistani passport, thanks to his reputation, which means you have to use other means just to get a visa.
Andrew Tate ke ilawa yahan ke maulvi he yehi bolte
Sad
Junaid bhai Assalamu elaikum
10:40 this mama's boy needs to grow a spine and establish boundaries.
Guy having a heading of "Personal Development & Traditional Values". He is clearly an aimed guy. These types of guys are rare in Pakistan. I'm doing so great in my career, but not into a relationship due to the typical Pakistani guys. Man, I'm advising you from my perspective as I'm a Pakistani girl. Although, I myself is a Pakistani girl, but you're thinking right that you shouldn't marry a Pakistani girl. Because, I rarely see Pakistani girls with high aim. I advise you to look for someone in Europe.
This passage appears to be discussing a man with the title of "Personal Development & Traditional Values" and how he stands out in Pakistan. The speaker mentions that while they are successful in their career, they are not interested in a relationship with the typical Pakistani men. They advise the man to continue thinking the way he does, as they believe it is the right mindset. The speaker also notes that they themselves are a Pakistani woman, but they agree with the man's perspective.
@@hannan_zaid
That mail was from a guy, not from a girl. You're mixing the things. Anyways, I just gave sincere advise to him, that whenever he want to be in a relationship, avoid traditional Pakistani girl. There is limit of typing, otherwise I will define here that why I'm saying this. For the guy who sent the email "Hey brother, if you're reading this. You're on a right track, my sincere advise to you as a younger sister who are always in a company of girls is that, don't marry a mismatched woman due to your parents' pressure, you will regret it later".
For the second question. Bro you yourself are a red flag not the guy😂
Landay ka angrez won't see that though
It seems like a comment made on social media. The user @ranahassan4931 is telling someone that they themselves are a red flag, not the other person being referred to in the conversation. This could imply that @ranahassan4931 sees the person they are addressing as a potential problem or warning sign in a certain situation.
Kindly stop normalizing it by saying him Bechara! @Junaid Akram
Shadi k sawal anay do!