We're Raising Our Kids With No Gender | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY
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- Опубліковано 22 гру 2020
- A THROUPLE are bringing up their two-year-old baby as 'theyby', a term that refers to gender neutral parenting where the baby isn't outwardly identified by its parents as either a boy or a girl. Baby Sparrow follows in the footsetps of their 10-year-old sibling, Hazel, who was initially brought up as a girl but came out themselves as non-binary aged just four. Hazel and Sparrow are looked after by three parent figures: Ari, Gwendolyn and Brynnifer, who themselves are either non-binary and/or transgender. While the family, from Orlando, Florida, lives within a supportive community, online critics have argued it’s no wonder the children are ‘confused’ about their gender.
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“We don’t care about gender, it’s not a big deal in our lives” while also simultaneously making it the biggest deal in their lives.
I know it's fun to laugh at them, but that's clearly not what they meant by not caring. It's more "I don't much care about current gender assignments, so we're doing it our way"
You can identify as whatever you want. No one has to respect it and you are what your genetics made you. Can't change that, you can deny it but a lady man is still a man and a man lady is still a lady.
this fruitcake family makes the munsters normal
@@longebane it means they're idiot narcissists with zero self awareness.
EXACTLY.
They are so open minded that their brains fell out.
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Friiiiick yeah
lol exactly
I SCREAMED
@Odd Gaming hH
Why interview the kid? She is only regurgitating her environment. She's been robbed of her biology. This is criminal.
@stardust931 - Yes 💯 exactly what you said! It's all too weird and disturbing. It should be a crime playing with kids heads like that!. Just the look of the "parents" is enough, seriously?!. Those poor kids ...
how is this robbing anyone of their biology? gender has nothing to do with the biological aspect
Those poor kids have been socially cruel making the the od ones out . If you have seen the part where the mom says that the children want to be home schoold .this proves that they will have trobel forming relethionships with people
Those poor kids have been socially cruel making the the od ones out . If you have seen the part where the mom says that the children want to be home schoold .this proves that they will have trobel forming relethionships with people
@@georgisergeew349 blame society for how they treat people who are different, dont blame these people
Those poor kids are going to need so much therapy
I would be traumatised too if I had their parents 😭😭😭
They get to choose who they want to be without having anyone force them to be something they don't want.
Hiding the like/dislike ratio is a clear sign this is wildly unpopular.
Agreed 100%
Most of the videos don't show them lol (I actually think they do this to all the videos)
@@ghostlyvel nah they only turn off like ratio on the videos that are controversial (like this one)
It also gives me hope that most of mankind still has it's scruples and many of us aren't falling for this 🐃💩
FAXX DOEE
For people who don’t care about gender, they are bringing a lot of attention to it
I think it’s because they’re doing a video on that topic specifically and they’re explaining themselves and they’re beliefs.
@@dontshityourself ya but even by purposely avoiding it in their household it kinda highlights the whole topic in my opinion
👏👏👏
You took the words out of my mouth.
But how are you gonna get respect from people when they thing you’re a ‘freak’? Prejudice comes from lack of empathy and knowledge. They’re just showing who they are so people can understand that they’re human beings just like everyone else.
It’s funny how they say that clothes etc don’t have a gender yet also say they look more “feminine” by wearing dresses and more “masculine” by wearing trousers. Also, coming from a 13 year old, we are wayyy too young to be dealing w stupidity like this💀💀
I agree I'm fourteen and this video is very messed up
As a 14 year old, I agree
I'm 34 yep still super messed up 😮
I'm closer to 50, and...
Why is the report button mostly hidden by some weird supposed glitch? the dislikes have been removed even though youtube already did this... I use an app that shows dislikes anyway and they STILL don't show up. This is the only video I have come across that does not show dislikes when using a dislike add on that shows it for EVERY video. Something is extremely off here...
Original message: "Only girls can play with dolls and only boys can play with trucks!"; Later message: "Boys and girls can play with dolls or trucks, it's all fine!"; Current message: "If you play with dolls you're a girl, and if you play with trucks you're a boy, or neither, or both, or maybe a cat or something"
😂😂😂😂
Made more sense than the alphabet brigade 😂
💯 nailed it!
Yes lololol🎉
My son is 42 , he loved dolls until he hit around 4 and decided he liked trucks and bikes - I put it down to the children who lived next door, little twin girls who always had a doll in hand - he learnt what he saw ? I don’t believe that most parents push any particular gender affirming toys on their kids , they will play with what appeals to them ! However if you brainwash your child with all this ? Life is hard enough why complicate it further, it’s torturous to watch this because I remember being 13 years old and all the feelings that came with being 13 years old now add gender to that complexity- these parents are not clever and hip they are irresponsible!
They, “don’t care about gender?“ They are literally obsessed with it.
@Philip Kirby yeah this video hurts to watch
EXACTLY
@Philip Kirby Notice how they turned off the dislikes lol. A lot of people probably disliked this
YES!!!!!
@@kutie216 You do realize youtube turned off the dislikes to EVERY video on this app right?
Also these parents aren't deranged or obsessed with gender, their just raising their kids with a different set of beliefs than others. What's so wrong with that?
You can obviously tell that the oldest child is confident in themselves and that their a happy family. 😊
Just because they were on a video SPECIFICALLY talking about gender, doesn't mean that that's all they think about. Stop letting your disdain and disagreement with the "Gender Ideology" prevent you from recognizing a happy family.
All kids deserve parents, but not all parents deserve kids..
these kids get 3!!
The only thing missing here are rubber noses and rainbow wigs.
100%
@@user-ws9ec9bq1c Jesus is alive, and He is sitting on the right hand of His Father.
Like every human is 3 part being, so is GOD in 3.
THE 3 parts OF 1 GOD: (NOT 3 gods)
FATHER
SON
HOLY SPIRIT
THE 3 parts OF 1 HUMAN
SPIRIT = me
SOUL = my consciousness
BODY = my house or clothing
THE IMAGE OF GOD = Being created in/with 3 parts.
Being SPIRIT BEING, (everlasting being)
having consciousness, being able to understand good and evil.
and living in a body = human aka complete living soul.
We worry that among the living is 10 billion souls, therefore it = 10 billion souls, created in the image of GOD.
10 billion spirits who are conscious and who dwelling in a body, and who are all named ADAM.
Genesis 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
Genesis 5:2 Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created. Don+t forget, BIBLE, which is the WORD OF TRUTH, MUST BE RGHTLY DIVIDED.
Dividing:
Male and female created he them; = answering how the body got created, in genders.
Remember, SPIRIT IS GENERLESS.
and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created. = letting us know, that we didn?t just get created, we also got named.
So God created man in his own image, = The SPIRIT MAN got created. (1st part)
in the image of God created he him; = The conscious SPIRIT MAN got created. (2nd part)
male and female created he them.= the body got created. (3th part)
= 1 being with 3 parts.
How is Spirit genderless? because it is created so. For what a everlasting being does being in gender? gender aka being male or female comes useless.
Mark 12:25 For when they shall rise from the dead, they neither marry, nor are given in marriage; but are as the angels which are in heaven.
GOD is genderless (GOD IS SPIRIT)
Angels are genderless (ANGELS ARE SPIRITS)
humans are genderless , cause all are SPIRIT BEINGS. (HUMANS ARE SPIRITS)
Trans movement is a lie, cause we entering either as males or as females into this world , is taken care by GOD.
There is nothing confusing nor unanswered, if a boy born then boy born,
if girl born then girl born.
GOD Himself saying that He is the one who forms our bodies in the womb and then give it to us, to live in that body.
Jeremiah 1:5 Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations.
It is GOD who formed us to be either males or females, and it is satan who comes to confuse and saying that it aint so. Thats how we got the trans movement. The confusing and laying parts, satan does.
Therefore whoever "feels they to be trans" - souls, GOD has given us a power to rebuke all evil. therefore say to satan, GET BEHIND ME, SATAN, NEVER TEMPT ME AGAIN.
Well what was the temptation here? - souls got and get tempted to go and destroy their temple of GOD, their bodies.
1 Corinthians 3:16 Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
1 Corinthians 3:17 If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.
That`s how you learn to understand the bible, through dividing the word of truth.
Do these people identify as parents? They're making the kids make all the decisions...
Just because they are confused doesn't mean they should confuse those kids. It's clear to anyone with eyes that it's 2 men and a woman with 2 little girls it doesn't matter how you dress you were born either a male or female. This is clear abuse.
The best thing about heaven you won't ever have to see this disgusting behavior again. No I'm sorry Best thing about heaven is God and thank goodness he is completely pure. This just makes me love God more
how is this abuse? this is actually more beneficial because the children will grow up being themselves, rather than feeling like they have some forced expectations due to gender roles
Sounds to me like this has made you more judgmental about things that are different from you.
I won't even waist my time responding to the comments saying abuse!
@bippy9881 hahahha yeah having mental patients for guardians will be great for these kids!
@@melissamorgan1389lmfao wow. I mean if we’re talking about god, they are men and woman. Not gays. They just dress like the opposite sex. So why would they go to hell?
We are not assigned a gender. We ARE a gender.
We are a sex. What does gender even mean?
@@P.viridis the characteristics associated with a sex
@@P.viridis you're negative IQ if you can't even figure out something so simple, it's biology, you don't choose, you're just born the way you're born.
@@edensessentialsnaturalwell8564 wrong. Gender was never used to refer to sex until only recently. When I was growing up in the 70s and 80s it was NEVER used to refer to human sexuality; we had two sexes: male and female. Whenever someone posed it as a question, they would ask, "What sex are you?" or "What's your sex?" (in a document or an application, for instance, where you had to specify). And in science class we never spoke of human genders; only human sexes.
@@AlyoshaKaramazov. thousands of genders is just CRAP
Why can't kids just be kids.
They can't be anymore. It's really a sad thing.
forcing kids to conform to traditional gender roles isnt much better lolll
I couldn’t just be a kid when I was experiencing crippling gender dysphoria. I’m much happier now that I’ve transitioned, and I wish I could’ve done it earlier so I could truly just be a kid like all the other who were living as their real genders.
@@lga7134 yeah, but they are sort of MAKING these kids transition and not even letting these kids BE a gender
@@lga7134 "iving as their real genders." so stop lying to yourself
She doesn’t realize that she’s actually OBSESSED with gender.
Quite literally all they talk or think about in that household I guarantee it
Exactly.
They. The parents that spoke most uses they/them pronouns
@@gloristef who cares what she uses
@@user-ff4pb2co9mrespect other people
SNL is getting better, this is hilarious. I didn’t even recognize Bill Hader as Brynnefer.
this comment is everything 🤣
And Rachel Maddow as guest.
lmaoooo best comment
🤣
So we're really supposed to sit here and act like this is totally normal?
They are raising their kids the way they wished they themselves would have been raised. The problem is these kids are NOT them. You can't rewrite history with different kids.
yess
YESSSSSSSS
Thank you
I would have loved for my parents to raise me that way
They aren't forcing their kids to live this way. They are happy with it and they let them choose what they want to be.
What that goes for every parent😭
"I want to look and dress like a girl (and am one), but she/her pronouns don't fit me" is 100% not something a 10 year old comes up with on their own.
I agree
Uhh.. yeah, it absolutely could be? I know multiple trans people, even ones with VERY conservative households who felt dysphoric at a young age. Also hate to break it to you, there will always be influences outside of the home where kids learn things.
I’d say it’s not 100%. I know an 11 year old who identifies as a gender that is not the one he was born with. Sure, kids at that age are more likely to mistake something else for dysphoria, but there’s also a chance it’s real. In this case, though, I’m a bit more skeptical because of how they’re being raised
@@pokipineapple5377 the way in which she articulates herself makes clear that she is regurgitating phrases and sentiments uttered by her parents. Her way of conceptualising identity is absolutely not what we would expect of a 10 year old who has been left to decipher these ideas alone
For contraditory that it may be, those kids may rebel against their caregivers when they reach puberty, and that means that they may turn out to be good christian girls 😁
Ari said Quote on Quote “It’s what they want and we’re always going to follow their lead on that” That goes against all parenting rules
i really hope you dont become a parent lol
In any other context, this would be unquestionably described as a cult. Plain & simple.
Let’s get an update in 10 years
Right! Exactly! Let’s see how much their kids resent them!!!
@@laurenagetstein2761 yep 100%
Yess please!
100% but a I’m certain they’d decline lol
Unfortunately for that little baby boy she's *intentionally choosing* to dress feminine, in 10 years he's going to have a complex about his identity and believe he needs to change and mutilate his body to match his personality. It's all downhill from here.
You're just forcing them to be genderless. How's that any different from assigning kids gender at birth?
true..
Just like how genders were forced to people, please respect their decisions as parents.
@@harryjames7117 it could be argued that the foundations they are raising their kids upon could lead to much more adversities than the alternative. I only mentioned it because they brought it up as one of their points.
What if they later disagreed with being raised as genderless then resent their parents for doing as such? Isn't that the same problem? I'm just saying this doesn't solve anything.
Truth
@@harryjames7117 Meanwhile you’ll find the parents of Toddlers and Tiaras worse than the two families.
This is child abuse
This is obviously about the adults.
It isnt controversial, its abuse, fetish. Why this is legal is unreal.
"fetish"
seriously?
you know asexual trans people exist? meaning they have no fetish in the first place
Why not just raise the children as their "assigned" gender? If they turn out to be transgender, which is very unlikely anyway, they could just transition when the time is right.
I agree
The little one is intersexual, biologically they have no assigned gender.
@@greenzo6036 precisely, biology is the one that provides the gender.🤦🏼♀️
I agree, plus you were born a specific gender. If you choose to change it when you are older then I guess that's your choice... But raising kids gender less is just confusing... But again this world has become confusing in general :/
@@artsybella4389 You don't choose your gender identity.
Please do a “where are they now” series of all these folks in like 10 years
100% sure they'll all have blue hair screaming about how things aren't fair.
@@mattfischertt “I’m not a millionaire, not because I don’t work but because discrimination “
In 10 years they’re gonna end up in 5 D’s. Divorce, drinking, depression, disappointment and despair.
@@mattfischertt no, 100 percent sure they’ll have a great family and great lives,
@@yellowswagmuffin920 Sorry to hear that. Me too.
With 'parents' like this, these poor children are certain to be confused about their own identity.
These "parents" completely brainwashed these poor kids! They don't deserve to have kids
By “not caring” about gender it is all they care about.
@@EverybodyLovesSarah imagine how disappointed they’ll be if their kids just ended up a plain boring girl.
@@ggpc5156 They just don’t wanna push a gender on them, I’m sure if their kid just turned out to be a regular cis girl they’d be fine.
@Book E Because they are. At least, right now, their identity might change sure, but right now yeah they identify as nonbinary and I think we should respect that.
@Book E Sir just do your research look into “sex vs. gender”, “the gender spectrum”, and “intersex” because science proves nonbinary identities and frankly I don’t have time to educate you today but there are plenty of scientific studies you can find on it. Happy researching!
Gender norms are very toxic.
In trying not to force a lifestyle on their kids, they force a lifestyle on their kids.
Parents who refuse to raise their children will allow someone else to do it for them.
Of course!
Very clever
Now this i agree with
true.
But it's also literally a reaction to other people being forced a lifestyle upon them.
i mean, they literally address that in this video.
It's like saying, "Indoctrination is bad, and no one should experience it" - which is essentially a form of indoctrination.
The tall masculin man with the grandma dress lol
That is clearly child abuse, and you cannot convince me otherwise.
You can still raise a girl or a boy without actually forcing them to follow gender stereotypes. Raise a girl, if she was interested in cars as an example, then let her. You don’t have to change her gender. Praying for these kids
My wife has told me that when she was younger she was quite the tomboy. But that she grew out of it. And if you saw her
you would admit she is every bit of a woman and very beautiful. What's happening in our society today it is so disturbing and you know what the saddest thing is? We are never going to go backwards. Never. This is only going to get worse.
True
I did this as a kid, I ended up gravitating to things like makeup or girls clothes and shoes after a long time, like til I was a teenager. My mom didn’t genderize my toys but I could make my Barbie dolls play with robots cause it was fun. I found it nice to grow up this way, I think it’s actually helped me loads growing this way instead of being pushed into one thing or another.
True!! My mom told me that I was interested in cars and was not interested in dolls... but she did NOT even think that I should change gender! I didn't even knew what Halloween was before I was 8 years old! :D
The parents didn't force it the kids told the parents what they feel like when thier ready whats wrong with that? If anything it shows those parents want the best for thier kids and if thier kids feel like they don't fit in they let them know they are valid. I see nothing wrong with thier way of parenting and calling someone stupid just because they do patenting differently is not nice.
Just because a man is feminine doesn't mean they are all of a sudden a women. Just because a women is more masculine doesn't mean shes male. My problem is is that they mistake they're gender for they're personality and traits. For example, I'm a women and I can be into pretty masculine things sometimes. But sometimes i enjoy a lot of feminine things. This doesn't make me gender fluid though. 🤦♀️
Yeah
Exactly. It's like they expect men and women to fit into this tiny little box of what you can and can't like, and if you differ from that you're something else entirely. Women can like masculine things and men can like feminine things, but it doesn't mean you're trans, or something "in-between", it just means you're a unique human being.
I 100% agree with this! No hate, you are biologically born with natural traits. What your character is does not define ur gender.
these ppl are 100% crazy!
I was boyish when I was a kid til I was a teenager, if they were my parents I’d probably have taken hormones to become male lol
CHILD ABUSE !!!! PLEASE RESCUE THESE KIDS
Sparrow is a boy. Ari slipped up 1 minute into the theyby interview and said "his" and then quickly backtracked by saying "this baby".
He looks male like a little toddler with long hair but his face is male
The worst thing about this is the name Brynnifer. Idc about the rest.
😂
I too cringed at that name
Omg totally!! 🤣🤣🤣💯 I want to punch that name in the face!
XD
Yes it is AWFUL! Maybe her name is a combination of Bryan and Jennifer😊
One of the most dangerous things a parent can do is try to live their life through the children they have.
Exactly. So why they use them as little dress up dolls and make them play sports or learn skills they have no interest in is beyond me. Don’t force your child to conform to your ideals. I used to be a little girl smothered in pink - I can’t stand pink now. My brother wanted to play with my dolls, and he’s now a great father. Let kids be kids and turn out based on who they are rather than who you expect them to be. I’m sure these kids will be confident and well-adjusted humans, who ever they turn out to be.
@@nerissarowan8119 💯 % agree
@@nerissarowan8119 trying to make a child comfortable when you were not is not that
Yepvi say the same thing about mothers who put there kids into child padgents ........this is no differint.
I agree with this family. I love that they don't choose there kids gender, and that the kids can decide it them self. I find what they are doing is really meaningful and out right the best thing anyone can do. I am growing up in a homophobic and transphobic household and I am pansexual and non binary, and I can't tell my family that I am non binary without risking me being kicked out of the house. Do you know how many times people have committed suicide because of those reasons, over 70% of suicide is people that identify in the LGBTQ+ community. And I personally know how it feels like having suicidal thoughts, because I get them a lot. If my family excepted who I am I would have no problems.
The title should be: “We abuse our kids by projecting our neuroses onto them!” 🙄🙄🙄
Child abuse! The parents should be arrested.
we asked the kids if they wanted to go to school they said no. as would any kid in the history of ever.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Brah😂😂
My kids want to go to school. As an educator, I personally prefer unschooling, but I’m letting my kids choose now.
@@tuankrab7475 ???
Perfect analogy. Sorry but every child wants to be special, and if you present them with this magical concept of gender changing then of course they're going to take it
I love how they act like they haven’t indoctrinated their kids into this.
They definitely hold daily meetings to brainwash them
@Morgue VØID well I thought those things were kind of baked into the pie as well when I said indoctrination but yes, you’re correct
This is child abuse.
It’s truly upsetting.
Yeah, somehow they fail to realize that it's not just coincidence that all of their kids conform precisely to how they expect them to be, and how they view the world. Or maybe they do fully realize it, and are doing it on purpose.
These disgusting “parents” should be in jail for life.
Absolutely! Sick!
What laws have they broken?
The law of nature, old and new testament and all of the world's history. Leave it to citizens not doing thier jobs that created the worst of us to succeed in winning political offices and run our government! Well are you going to keep voting the same way or not vote at all?
@@rickdoe111I'm against what they're doing bc it's akin to brainwashing. But as a conservative libertarian, registered Republican to vote in primaries...I detest your comment. There's separation of church and state for a reason. That is all.
There’s a therapist rubbing their hands together thinking of those kids. You’re providing a really bad and confusing environment for them. You don’t deserve to be parents
This is a hot mess of confusion. I feel like the older girl wouldn't feel that way if they didn't influence the thought.
Yeah she seems as if she’s just feminine but because how her parents are she’s like..uhh well I just won’t pick quite yet lol
exactly!!
Thee biggest mess. Wow
That part, I was gona say something but I didn’t want anyone to think I was against the LGBTQ community when I’m bisexual myself.
100% influenced by the parents. Sad.
I feel like they are making their kids life more confusing than what it has to be. This whole video annoyed me
how is letting them choose, how long their hair is, what they wear, what they go by and so on making their life more confusing in any way? by letting them have more options??
@@finneganaj81 are you seriously going to reply the same statement on every comment that doesn't fit with your opinion?
@@parisinthe30sx I did that 2 times and the second time that I did it I changed it
@@parisinthe30sx got a problem? I don't see you trying to argue against it so what's your point?
@@parisinthe30sx if the argument stated applies to something that I already said, then say it again I will until I agree with someone who has taught me otherwise, and nobody has so?
Families then: Hello son/daughter!
Families now: Hello non gender confirming child!
They’ve made these kids whole life about Gender.
So they're labeling their kids in an attempt to not label them?
@RJ no they don’t label them. Hazel deliberately chose to be non-binary and Sparrow hasn’t decided yet. Labeling them would be telling them they’re a boy or a girl, and that’s not what they’re doing.
Calling their child (the young one) with non-binary pronouns isn’t labeling them, it’s accepting the ambiguity of gender.
hazel chose to be non binary
@@k.d8671 no The younger one has a chosen yet
Right!? The older one just said she’s non-binary because she knows the adults would probably shun her for identifying as her biological sex. Welcome to the “stunning” and “brave” family 😂😂😂😂😂
@@bippidyboppidyboo4428 no? that's quite an assumption. also they know*, them*
Masculinity and femininity aren't "feelings".
True
@Nick no, what they are saying is defining masculinity and femininity as gender specific traits is a pointless and clearly flawed principle of gender politics
Masculinity and femininity are concepts created by humans. It’s not real.
@@sage1355 100% false. It is real. Men and women serve different roles and purposes across thousands of species on earth, and have for thousands of years. It’s not a coincidence that men on average are what, 30%+ physically stronger than women. That wasn’t a decision anybody made.
@@Rberg1105 we live in a civilized society in the year 2020. Your argument is invalid.
Poor kids have no chance to be normal...
So, the mother is the dad & the 2 crossdressing men are the mothers? They can still be crossdressers but be the fathers they're supposed to be. At the end of the day, this is all the way it is just because the parents are attention seeking.
I no longer hate the phrase “I was born in the wrong generation”
Sameee
I really wish I grew up in the Reagan era aka 80s
I’m just glad im not the only one this is gross
True
Same
Nice way to label your kids while trying to “not label them”
@@stevendalipis1176 No. Non-binary means a confused neutered entity.
@@jankrynicky I applaud you.... I thought it was a spectrum of gender identities that are not exclusively male or female... trying to understand the confusion....
@@stevendalipis1176 that’s still a label 😂😂
@@AllAboutPurple great to know
@@jankrynicky ok
You need to be prosecuted
maybe people react so strongly because this family deviates from the norm in sooo many ways: 3 adults in a relationship, two guys in dresses, kids homeschooled , the insistence that kids choose their own gender, and by implication: everyone else is doing it wrong...
Wow….it must be tiring to be so overwhelmingly obsessed with gender and labels.
Fr
It's become their religion.
Right
Facts
Right? I mean for people who say they don't like labels, they try to label everything. Also, IMO, this is psychological abuse. The children, wanting to please their parents are going to exhibit behavior they know will make their parents happy at the expense of their own feelings.
A classic example of how parents force their children to be like them
No!!
You meen like EVERY family Christian family’s race there kids Christian, Muslim families raise ther kids Muslim this family chose to raise ther family there way
@@imnotfromthisworld5054 yes exactly they say they aren’t forcing their kids but are doing the exact same thing as religions
Don’t bring religion into this bro :|
How they are allowing they’re children to pick which pronouns they wanna go by
Call CPS ASAP before the children are permanently damaged.
Imagine going through all of that to dress like a 75 year old woman shopping the Coldwater Creek clearance rack.
"How and why did you decide to come out as non binary"
Because my parents talk about it 24 hours a day and I was easily influencd
Yet they just said it's hardly what they talk about. Did you even watch the video
And Hazel said themselves they are non binary that's why they came to this way of parenting
LMAOOOOO FR
lmao
Better be influenced to be a men or women.
They are also raising them without a true education, as well. This limits their choices far more than just the gender.
They said they would integrate them back into public school if the children wanted. Honestly, being born in the U.S. has already limited their education exponentially especially if they go into the regular school system.
@@dontshityourself I would think a lot of private schools in the US would be limiting in life as well though
@@dontshityourself like a lot are Christian but more white and I doubt they teach whole world views there
I personally believe that homeschooling isn't limiting children(if don't correctly)
Exactly! I don't see how they allow their kids to make choices on schooling. They are the parents and are supposed to guide them in the correct direction on everything but especially education and social skills. They are horrifying as so called parents.
The kids aside, I'm just completely puzzled by the whole relationship dynamic between the three of them
I don't care where you sit on the political fence, but this is how society literally falls apart. This is truly tragic and if you don't believe me, pick up a history book and find out for yourself the last vestiges of civilization in decline is when that civilization becomes overly fixated on sex, transsexualism and self gratification.
All children deserve a parent.
Not all parents deserve a child.
👏👏👏
Seems you don't deserve parents, and I feel so sorry that they have to cope with this chlid of theirs that does not know that it is not good to hate on people unrelated to you just because they're not living by the typical religion-influenced and toxically binary sorted society.
Yes you don’t
@@yamakensama7595 Well too bad because I’m probably having one soon with my GF, don’t worry he won’t end up like these poor children in a gender neutral brainwashing.
@@fabiospasiano9885 yeah instead brainwash the child with stupid gender roles and norms weirdo, good job 👍
No hate, I just don’t understand.
Neither who’s is biologicaly the kids Mum / dad
I don't understand either and I don't want too.
@@its_me_lucy3355 we know the mom. Possible they don't even know who's the father as they are in a threesome relationship.🤷🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
@@ayrenbethancourt9379 eehm, didn't u notice that one of the moms is a he? So possibly he is the father
@@aylinchenbienchen7047 is this supposed to be a joke
I just started appreciating my parents a whole lot more
Only two genders in this world 😊
@@heroicflawzyt3610 non binary isn't a gender, it literally means they don't have a gender, that doesn't mean mean they don't have a sex (what body parts or chromosomes) just the gender (and social) identity that follows the binary of male/ female, which doesn't even always work genetically cause intersex people exist or people with different chromosome groupings
@@12345natcat having a sex is literally the same as having a gender
@@kokoindisguise8350 literally look it up (world health organisations) gender is just a construct, yes biological sex absolutely exist no but it's not the same
Also if sex only matters what about intersex people and people with different chromosome mixes
“We let our kids decide what they want”
Proceeds to force every personal belief system on them
Worst part they’ve been in this environment long enough that they don’t know what’s actually happening, what there parents are doing. They will be bullied and what will the parents do then ? Blame the schools and not there parenting habits.
They’re not doing that at all if the kids want to identify as exclusively a boy or a girl they’re allowed to do so we see plenty of times kids who are indoctrinated within a certain religion from a infancy yet rarely does anyone say that that’s forcing a personal belief
More like giving them the support and option to choose who they want to be.
@@precious6727 Not true. That is why they stopped forced morning prayers in school, for example. Besides, most religions does not include major, extremely damaging physical altercation to a child's body.
And that one's that do include that, are generally despised.
This form of child abuse is instead APPLAUDED by the Leftists.
@@erikjohnson8031 I wasn’t talking about religion in school I was talking about when parents make their kids go to church every Sunday since birth put them in youth groups and bible camps essentially grooming them to be apart of a religion before they can even form thoughts. I don’t necessarily think this is a bad thing I myself have been a catholic since birth. I bring up religion because what religious parents do is no different to what these parents are doing. I don’t know why you’re talking about physical changes the children haven’t been forced to undergo any physical changes. These parents are doing what many others don’t, they’re giving their kids a choice and I don’t see the problem with that.
This is precisely what’s wrong with current society.
This is abuse. Unequivocal child abuse.
*hides the like/dislike ratio*
Comment section: "Fine. I'll do it myself."
I don't get the joke 😅🤷
@@fatonyalmitchell3281 they disabled the like dislike ratio, so people are commenting instead. They took a half measure
@@VitoScaletta2024 Ahhhh...thanks for telling us that. I was wondering why my dislike button wasn't working. I guess it's kinda like "everyone's a winner. Everyone gets a trophy!" No opposing emoji...sad.
@domenique devon the shouldnt 😑
@@justatransdudett7009 Nothing wrong with being a part of the LGBTQ community...but everything in this video gave me predator vibes. These people are not right in the head. At all. And people are allowed to have an opinion that doesn't match yours.
At this point I’m glad my parents are boomers
Same
What's it going to be like when you're a boomer?? What will the younger generations be doing then...
@@foreveryactionthereisacons1683 You literally cannot become a boomer if you weren’t born one. Smfh
@@damienmansfield3308Lol. well you get what they mean.
@@opalmermaid9265 But their misunderstanding changes the premise of the question. Most Zoomers have either Gen X or early millennial parents. They’re thankful that their parents are older than the parents of their peers.
These people are really toxic parents.
2 men 1 female. So 2 dads 1 mom? But the dads are moms and the mom is a dad. Got it.
Welcome to 2020.
It's MaA'AM!
@@kennymun899 ???????????
@@kennymun899 🤣🤣🤣🤣 gEt iT rIGhT nExT tIMe!!!🤣🤣🤣
2020 / white people / america in a nutshell
Imagine loosing the child in a mall and begging for help... "What age? A boy or a girl?" "WE DON'T KNOW!!!"
I can see it right now on an SNL skit. Dan Aykroyd and Gilda Radner play the parents and Jon Belushi plays the security guard.
@@brandonallen3808 😂😂😂
Or using the they/them pronouns and all of a sudden security is thinking they have lost multiple children...
@@bethw7686 😂
that’s stupid, they would obviously describe their child’s appearance and have a picture, would they not?
This should be considered child abuse!!
Child abuse, take the kids away.
This is child abuse.
Yes
No it isnt. It's questionable. Forcing stereotypes on children is child abuse.
@@eatingrainbowsgaming6717 you’re deranged! What they’re doing is 100% abusive on a physiological level and results in the children having life long struggles. So, yeah, that’s considered abuse. Just like these people admitted that they won’t even expose them to public school because, god forbid, the children make choices outside of the influences instilled by this freak show of a wannabe family.
Y’all are crazy 🤣 these children have been told “be whoever you want” and y’all think that’s abuse? 😂
@@chrisjenkins203 how is this traumatic? I think neither assigning a gender or not is not traumatic.
Some people really shouldn't have kids...
I agree
Agreed
@Olivia Kirkby because there not treating them like kids should be treated. There not teaching them anything and other reasons are in the comments
@Olivia Kirkby don’t you understand that not allowing children to have gender while growing up is child abuse?
@@echoman4202 Kids should be able to figure out their sexualities without parents trying to decide for them. The only thing a parent can do is be supportive. There's a difference between allowing your kid to figure out their sexualities and straight up forcing them to be someone they're not. Some kids come out as being non binary and that completely fine, it would be a lot different if the parents forced their kids to be non binary.
Extraordinary is a nice way to say something else entirely.
Sick. I feel so bad for how screwed up these kids will be.
This isn't "no gender", this is hyper gender. They're obsessed.
PERFECTLY STATED.
Yess! Their whole life is about genders and all...about men acting feminine and women acting like men which is impossible in nature..we shouldn't be hyped about it as it's decided by god female and male bodies functions a little bit differently but we are same anyways as we are homo sapiens..more like female are the child bearing in human species..everyone has a purpose on earth..except thinking about a nasty things..
@@moumita9277 Yes, they are more like transgenders than " gender-free" .
@@moumita9277 Ew, keep your religion to yourself. God fandom, gender fandom - y'all are both toxic.
As a genderfluid demipan, who doesnt think about my label everyday, I agree. This is obssession...
this is the perfect example of how every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child
Yeah, these kids are being brainwashed 😢
I think the most confusing part for the kids is having a group as parents. It's kinda off
@@tayalves3461exactly. this ‘polyamorous’ family is the definition of what is wrong with our society as of today.
I don’t get what the harm of this is tbh
@@luke1582 It's similar to politically or religiously influencing your kids. That's basically what these parents are doing, instead of letting them be they put labels on them
This is abuse. These "parents" belong in an institution.
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So I'm not straight, but also...this seems just, too extra. Raising your child in an accepting environment should be good enough, but like having your child think about gender at that early of an age? This seems just like for show.
This 👌🏻
but that's the thing,,,trans kids DO often think about gender when they're young.
@@mxraeditz5597 i dont get what harm yall are seeing. the 2 year old doesn't know yet, so they decided to treat them as genderless until they eventually figure themselves out. its not like they're being taken to do surgeries or hormones or smth lol. its just letting kids express themselves without binary/cis-centric barriers.
Way in the past parents didnt differentiate their children by gender until they were older. That's why boys would wear the same clothing as girls. Nowadays, baby clothes are extremely gendered when it's not necessary.
Kids know so much more than adults think. Kids can see the difference in a man or woman. And see how people react to that.
While seeing all the other reactions people are scared to what happens with these children. While over the world nobody has got it right. Every parent screws something up. Just be open for al the different styles of parenting. And give critic/feedback in a respectfull way
I am sorry. As politically incorrect as it sounds, this is the other end of abuse. Please don’t normalise this behaviour
I Agree it is abuse though ! They are living their lives through their children ! It’s sick and narcissistic and absolutely child abuse !!
It’s demonic behavior!
Didn’t see anything here but love. What is abusive is indoctrinating children into religion, telling them they are going to hell or are terrible sinners, or worse, denying their gender iD or sexuality. So much trauma because of strict, religious upbringing.
These "parents" are one big LARP
@@down-to-earth-mystery-school sweet, you're sick
This is a crime.
Who wouldn't be confused growing up in a family like this? It's not unthinkable to me that the older daughter worries about disappointing her parents if she comes out as a normal girl. It may feel like challenging the delusions of her parents if she did. An easy way out, psychologically speaking, may be to identify as non-binary, as a peacekeeping strategy.
So they isolate their kids from fitting in with their peers and homeschool them. Their kids are gonna need therapy in 20 years.
Exactly
More like 5/10 years
""homeschool""
Yeah, that combo just seems like a recipe for becoming a social reject.
@@evelynrea8860 .. Maybe sooner
Ten years ago this would’ve been a bad SNL skit
Very Portlandia
Lmaoooooo
So true. I hope these idiots read every one of these comments and get heavily depressed about it
@scooter0114 Doubt it. Troons got mad at Fred Armison for doing drag in Portlandia. Men doing drag is an insult to transwomen, yet transwomen appropriating womanhood isn't an insult to women? What a joke.
Watching this as a bad snl skit makes this 100% better lol
Why threaten them and their children for doing something you don't agree with? Makes no sense. Pray for them.
It's so crazy because you can literally let the kids do what they're doing now... not conforming to a gender outwardly, but still let them know that they're either a girl or a boy. A she/him. Idk what world people have been living in when they literally make their gender, their personality.
I personally just think this type of situation would be confusing for a child of young age
how is letting them choose, how long their hair is, what they wear, what they go by and so on making their life more confusing in any way? by letting them have more options?? what's confusing about it? oh oh no I don't know if I should wear a dress or pants have mercy!!! I won't know who to play with on the playground because I'll be in a dress and have short hair that I choose myself and wasn't given to me like the other kids OH NO!!
@@finneganaj81 calm down keyboard warrior I was referring to the parents situation they have going on in addition to the parenting style it would be a bit much for any child let alone one that’s very young the gender choosing and such should come later when they’re older and have a better understanding of who they are toddlers believe they can fly if you tell them they can so no they really shouldn’t be deciding what gender they are or identify as for all you know they’ll say they’re a cheeseburger
It’s confusing for me as a grown man because I’m not an insane person.
@@nachobusiness8985 cheeseburger isn't a gender kids may lack knowledge but they know that it's not possible to be a dead cow on bread cover in ketchup and mustard, and so your saying we should just continue GIVING them a "gender", gender meaning gender expression like how long your hair is what you wear and you name, you know the thing that aren't permanent and are supposed to represent who you are
@@CouchMan88 of course it would be confusing/unfamiliar to you because you did not grow up around it, it's not insanity to let your kids pick what they want to wear and how long their hair is and what their name is
I'm a 34 year old Liberal and this video makes me feel like I'm 78 year old Conservative. I worry for those kids.
I was born into the children of God.
It didn't end like you think.
We had no rules
No names
No age
I'm 45 not sure about who I am
@Bdjdidjj Jdjdjsbbsbd you people 😂
also 34 and see it the same way
In the beginning God created them male and female
Genesis 1:27
Ohh God have mercy on your creatures
They need help for they know not what they are doing
@@barbarakilman271 read the Holy book called the bible
Genesis 1:27
Those two guys look like Doris from Shrek !
Hulking autogynephile beasts
This is one of the saddest things I've ever watched. 😭
Why can't they just say "OK, you're a girl/boy, but you can dress however you like and have your own interests
That’s what I thought this was about
Exactly obviously let kids dress how they want but stop being over obsessive ab labels
Because people are crazy. So they turn themselves into child psychologists.
Not part of the radical left narrative.
If I ever have kids I will let them be themselves
When my son was 3, 4 years old he wanted his nails painted. He dressed up in his sisters play clothes. He loved it. It was fun. However, not once did I think - nor did he - that this meant he was actually a female. It was just a kid...being a kid...playing around. Doing things he saw his sister and I do - and wanting to take part. He is now 16, has a girlfriend, plays football and very much identifies as a male. I cannot imagine the extent of the damage thats done to children who are encouraged to transition at such a young age because they showed interest in something that is considered to be a male or female thing.
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sammirolo SAMEEEE im so proud of you!! When i was a little girl i was more into the colours blue, black and green, so when i went shopping with my mum i always loved to buy the boys clothes, bc the clothes for girls has always been pink, yellow, white, i wasnt into that "girly" stuff... And she let me buy without ever telling me that this was for boys and i shouldnt wear it. This is just one example, today im 21 i love pink and i love being a woman, i think it was the best thing of my parents just let me do, so you did a great job with your son i bet hes handsome👍👍👍
Wow, a sensible and unbiased comment? Shocking
My mom told me that I once tried to pee standing up when I was about 3 years old…she corrected me/taught me that I don’t have the boy part because I am a girl and that I should sit to pee….I had an older brother 1 year older than me…so yeah, I wanted to do the same things he did. Yes, it is sad how kids are influenced to make such a life changing decision at such young age for what is most likely a temporary like or interest or curiosity. In my example, I was a child wanting to copy her sibling and do other stuff like her older brother with whom she spent most her 3 years of life with. As to games and toys, I was never told anything for playing with toy cars, being a bit “rough” lol (I mostly had boy cousins). I was a bit of both lol. Never once heard parents make the distinction of activities…my mom only pointed out the peeing incident because…well…it would have been messy lol. 🤷🏻♀️
True.
It’s ironic how this lady spends her entire life thinking about these kids genders and claims that gender doesn’t matter, I’m glad I have two straight parents.