It’s obviously not ideal to be a mother at such a young age, but they have stayed together and love their son which is more than a lot of older people do.
@Jordan Kelemen True, but you have no idea how hands on the parents are. You also don't know if the parents are making them pay for a place to stay, because of the extra mouth to feed. Diapers alone cost thousands per year, even the reusable ones that's constantly need cleaning. Then not to mention other things for the child.
People like to separate being a mom from having a kid. There are a lot of people I know that had kids very young and their parents paid for everything and took care of it most of the time. Being a mom is a lot harder when you have your own place to take care of, a job, bills, etc so that's probably where the judging comes from.
I have a ton of respect for the dad, there are guys twice his age who would’ve bailed in an instant just because of an unplanned pregnancy. That’s a man right there.
What a world we live in 😔 Guy stays around after knocking up a girl got the respect when that should (must) be his responsibility. That being said, I adore this couple a lot.
No matter who is disappointed, I'm very proud to see that you guys stayed together and keep the baby, you gave the baby a life a lot of babies don't have :')
@@hbsupreme1499 who says they were forced? They appear to be happy and do not appear to have a toxic relationship. What is toxic is assuming that all couples shouldn't marry when they are pregnant. Marriage does offer emotional support in a way nothing else can if the couple doesn't just have a wedding, but instead enter into a marriage partnership.
@@hbsupreme1499 Absolutely not!! If it's an abusive toxic relationship then you do NOT want a child to grow up in that enviorment. They take up behaviour like a sponge, and trauma stays for life. My mom only stated with my biological father for 4 years and it was enough to scar me for life, even 20 years later. I have vivid memories of domestic abuse. It's much better if a child grows up with one healthy parent than in an abusive home. Not saying the couple in the video is abusive but what you said was utter bullshlt.
@@maggyhamada2560 Are you Christian? Shouldn’t you believe we are all sinners? Shouldn’t you know our God is forgiving of our sins? Do you not recall Jesus meeting the woman at the well? Please stop being ignorant. Christians are supposed to love and forgive and praise; all glory to God. None of your judgement phases me, only He has the ultimate say. He knows my heart. Please show some humility, Maggy.
@@catalinamccullough9777 I'm not a Christian and I do in fact believe we are all sinners. But that doesnt mean we can all celebrate and encourage sins. I just found it strange how people here are so critical of the age factor and completely dismiss the fact we have all normalized fornication like it's nothing to be ashamed of. It's strange that when I speak about the moral part of it related to God's laws, I get attacked. But when hundreds of other comments speak about the age (which isn't even a huge issue so long they are happy and married) then everyone agrees and don't make comments like "don't judge". I know God is forgiving, but we can't abuse that. We try to live according to God's laws as much as we can. Yes we may slip and yes we may commit major sins, but we are encouraged to repent. I have many Christian friends who either have children out of wedlock or just sleep with their boyfriends using protection and it just strikes me as odd how much fornication is no longer a taboo or "something bad"
@@maggyhamada2560 I don’t believe I am encouraging sin nor do I believe others in these comments are. I feel encouragements for where I am NOW, not for what I have done. Why put down young parents saying they have sinned? You don’t think they know that? It’s counterproductive. When I am cradling my baby in my arms, I don’t need the stares or comments. What’s done has been done. I am well aware the tough situation I put myself, my son, my husband, and both our families in. But I am not ashamed for being a mother, I know in my heart that I am doing the best I can. This video is a testimony that although we may be young, we can overcome the adversity put before us, and to encourage young parents to not give up on themselves or their children. Religion is personal, and whatever choices you, your friends and family, or a stranger on the internet make is between THEM and GOD, and I am keeping it that way. He knows my heart. And I clearly am not one to judge on other peoples choices, I choose everyday to be a positive light no matter a person’s situation and I hope you can find peace to do the same. Thank you for commenting, have a nice day.
@@MisterDawn-p1x Having a child at 15 was immature. She’s matured since that and you could tell she is devoted to her child. Secondly, this has made her stronger. We all have trials and tribulations in our life in which we have ABSOLUTE NO RIGHT to judge. I myself have made a lot of stupid and immature decisions that have served me as lessons in my life. Thanks to them I’ve reached so many goals I never thought imagine-able. Many of these accomplishments have been things that most people won’t accomplish in a lifetime. However, I still have to do a lot of personal work that perhaps to others it comes more natural to. I’m a very prideful person and hold grudges. Being prideful, has led a lot of my accomplishments go downhill only to learn the lesson again.... PRIDE. Look within yourself and ask yourself when have you made mistakes? Were you immature? Do you have still immature tendencies? (Even as an adult) Are you kind? Are you humble? Are you honest? You know your faults. It might take some time to reflect but nonetheless, you know what you need to work within yourself.
@@khzkhz5986lit nobody said that… the mistake was having sex that young, as they probably weren’t educated enough. But they accepted the responsibility of the consequences of their actions are are turning it into a great life.
Far from fine. Yea she did what she needed to do but this is far from a fine or even good situation. Those who feel this way should refrain from pro creating.
They seem like better parents than most adults twice their age. Once that little boy is well taken cared of that is all that matters at the end of the day.
From the way they talk about their experience as parents and the patience Cat shows to her son really speaks volumes. He seems taken care of and loved.
I was 15 as well when i got pregnant just turned 16 when my daughter was born. Im 54 now and my daughter is 37..im was single parent. She's a college graduate with 4 degrees couldn't be more proud🤗
Pregnant at 15 is not mature at all lol... Love and attraction is 2 different thing.. We should not promote such things.. 99.9℅ teens are not lucky like this teen and destroy their future..
@@PK0000 you can feel love at 15 idk what hole you're caught up in and it already happened, these shows are to bring awareness not promote teen pregnancies. Maybe look at the statistics where these shows lowered teen pregnancy rates.
@@LeahHasRoses lol they really need to show how tough it can be having a child then. In all honestly they’re probably still going through the ringer, but they’re very lucky they have both sides parents supporting and helping out.
@@PK0000 OP isn't promoting it, what? Lmao. They just said they were being very responsible in a situation where most would be irresponsible. And it does seem like her husband cares for them both despite being young. It sucks but it's done and there's no way to go but forward. Good for them for taking responsibility for their actions
@@PK0000 The body is actually physically ready to have a child at that age, why do you think women usually get their periods at 12/13 years old! I don't know if they are promoting it because it looks like she learned her lesson. She didn't say that she was exicted to repeat what they (yes they as it takes two) did! And yeah, love and attraction are two different things for sure, but you gotta admit, some men would run with this kind of news sadly!
@@anna-sg4oj i also usually watch my kid having tantrums... I don't react to it, i don't engage in it, but i'm scared to leave him alone (at this particular time) so he won't hurt himself.... I just wait there till it's over then i hug him, give him something to drink and then we go to play...
@@iguana580 i think that rewarding would be to give him what he wants to get by having a tantrum- for example sometimes it's because i won't give him snack, cause it's 15 minutes till lunch- so giving him snack would be rewarding, but not watching him without giving him the snack (hope it makes sense). Or sometimes he wants to play with something that can be dangerous for him (like sharp scissors or power socket) And he throws a tantrum cause i say no- again, i watch him (but really just standing there like a figurine, no emotions, no attention, just supervising), but i won't give him what he wants- so i believe i'm not revarding this behaviour. But that's just my way, i'm not saying it's the one true approach for everybody ;)
I had my daughter when I was 17. It’s definitely not easy raising a child when you are still one yourself. However, nothing is impossible I was able to finish high school, go to college and I have a solid career. I wish these two the best moving forward.
aww that is so beautiful! Me and my husband had kids late in life, and we are now trying to be as healthy as possible, so that when they are older we can be there for them, and see our grand kids. I don't regret it because I'm glad that at least I had children, but I never thought about this aspect of it at all.
My mom had me when she was 38. She will be 52 soon and I just turned 14. My mom had me late and my father left when I was 2. At least that kid has a father to look up to. Lol
@Censorship Sucks so u dont wanna help them even stepped up to overcome their mistake? i wish no one comes to help u either when u want to overcome ur mistake no matter how big mistake u made 😑😑
@Censorship Sucks u don't want to help them to overcome their mistake? Fine i hope no one comes to help you when you want to over come your mistake. No matter how big mistake you make.
She’s so well spoken and seems like such a wonderful mum, better than a lot of “normal” aged mums out there. They are going to raise a fantastic little human.
@Nakulyou're missing op's point. op said both of them were responsible parents. They might have made irresponsible choices before they became parents, but look at them now. They loved and took care of their mistake (which was the baby) despite all of their shortcomings. Not all of people their age have the capacity to do that. Hell, even older couple (or should i say, legally aged parents) were not guaranteed to be responsible parents. Your argument for bringing the facts that the couple were too young doesn't negate the facts they were amazing parents to their kid.
@@winidepuh4868 I agree with you for the most part. The only thing I don't agree with you on is the baby is not the mistake. Having sex when they weren't ready to deal with a potential pregnancy was the mistake. Other than that I fully agree with you. My husband works in a field where he sees the outcome of adults neglecting kids all the time. It's nice to see loving suppirt and growth in a difficult situation. I wish nothing but the best for this little family taking care of each other.
Yes, they are and they didn't try to glamorise teen pregnancy. They owned it and didn't let it affect their careers, Completed their high school, college, and are full-time employees. And for me, the best is that they didn't end up as teen UA-cam family bloggers👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
They made their bed when they had unprotected sex, now their lives, like all good parents will revolve around the child. So as long as the child is well taken care of that’s all that matters.
This child is blessed with loving caring parents, his parents and grandparents are doing well for him. I hope they always be connected and happy and with good health.
Everyone praising Grant in the comments for staying to take care of his own child... He’s a great dad, yes, but it just goes to show how often boys and men leave their children.
@tentedkarma 746 Men leave their children at an astronomically higher rate than mothers do. And no, there is no excuse to leave your child. Just like in this video, fathers are praised endlessly for staying, but the mother never is, because society doesn't expect men to take care of their own children, and many don't, even when they do stay.
@tentedkarma 746 That has nothing to do with the topic of absent fathers. If a man is an abuser he's more likely to stay just so he can abuse people, absent fathers are just deadbeats, not abusers. Don't make excuses for it.
@@Nimish204 Right, so the government should do a lot more to trap them legally. At the end of the day, it takes 2 to make a child so both should be EQUALLY responsible for their creation. The man paying $70/week for child support while the mother wakes up, feeds, clothes, drives, soothes, etc. the child every second of the day is not equal. Women's reproductive and bodily autonomy rights are always being argued while men not only don't have to go through pregnancy and their rights being questioned, but they also get to run away from all of their responsibilities largely with no consequences. I think it's pathetic that the government even has to get involved at all, when did it become a matter of opinion whether you should take care of your own kids or not?
You did not fail your daughter. She's very mature for her age and luckily seems like both grandparents are involved. If this didn't happen, that cute little boy wouldn't exist.
Teens are often irresponsible, but these two were raised by amazing parents, who taught them how to take care of a family. 5 years later they are still together and going strong. I mean at this age so many relationships would not last till the end of the pregnancy and look at these two amazing parents. :O Hats down to them! Good job, grandparents.
Another example is the Radfords in the UK. They started off as parents when she was 14 and now they have 22 kids..just to say not always young parents split up
@@theperson431 I agree, these people who praise young people who are young parents are encouraging other young people that it’s okay 😂 meanwhile the reality sucks and it’s not the best experience for these kids who have kids.
@@midnightcity2591 Yesss!! It's not something a child should have to go through. Being a parent sucks (and yes you love your kid, but it still sucks). Especially if you're a child, you don't know how the world works, you are not financially independent, you have no experience. You can't protect yourself, how you gonna protect anyone else!?
Kudos to them for raising their child! When they hold hands, you can tell they care about each other. And kudos to their parents for being so supportive! This is why "family" is so important. I wish them the very best and pray that they are able keep the love.
@@zoetovar1564 the baby-parents probably feel irresponsible and even more of a burden on their parents. I don't think we should normalize this type of behavior.
It's fine ! Not having kid for whatever reason be it your choice or medical reasons it's okk! Being a parent should not be a goal (though many have and that is upto them) but a part (not for all).
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@@JordynPdoc I wasn't saying the baby is a mistake. But teenage pregnancy because of lack of sex education is. Understand the context bro. Things could go very wrong in such situations, the person who suffers the most is the child and the teenage mom. We have to be supportive to them, but also discourage younger children from making this mistake.
@@kaberigomes2117when I say my mistake I don’t mean my daughter I had her at 15 . People tend to misunderstand that huh. I mean , the mistake of not waiting , the mistake of not preventing it. I regret the timing but I don’t regret her . I could’ve provided a better childhood for her . She’s 17 now . So I get what you are trying to say .
@@raquelpk2 I understand completely. Children are always blessing from God. But we must be ready and prepared to provide them with a decent life. As teenagers need protection and guidance themselves, without any outside support, two lives are at stake.
I think that is because there´s no physical evidence to tell if a teen is having sex or not. But let me tell you, there´s a lot of teens who have been ridiculed-judged-bullied in public for buying condoms, pills, etc.
@@micaelapizarro1597 exactly. there’s really no winning- if you go to buy protection, you’re judged. if you don’t buy protection and end up having a baby, you’re also judged. and if you’re abstinent, then you’re judged for that
"Everybody knew what you did when you were pregnant too"...Nailed it That "friend"really showed her true colours in the test of time!! There is nothing you can do but weed her out.
I’m a 15 year old mom and I love my son more than anything he saved my life I was in a dark space he is the light in my life he makes me want to do better. Props to her keep doing good girl🥰
Im 30 with a 2 year old and its so hard for me at times I can't imagine being 15. I think they are doing the best of their situation and the boy looks well taken care of
Being a parent is absolutely one of the most shocking adjustments I've ever made in my latter thirties. I can't imagine what it's been like for this teen couple. I have so much admiration for their maturity and patience at such a young age. Way to go!
Even as a 19 year old boy, I don't want to have kids after 40.I will get older and physically weaker.and it will be too much for me to take such huge responsibilities.So I will have babies in early twenty's.because thats the pick age.after 30,taking care of children starts becoming difficult.i will be more vulnerable to deseases,i can't give childrens enough time.i can't take them to vacation,playing every week which is important for every childrens.maybe i will be financially independent and more mature.But my aging won't let me use the maturity and wealth properly.there is a proverb going-health is wealth.without good health, maturity is also not that usefull
@@proudexmuslim2354 you say you will have them at early 20s but a lot of people have a plan and sometimes you arent in the right relationship to have children until later.
I would imagine it is probably the same but for them they are still figuring out who they are. You pretty much know yourself in your thirties. It's great that they both supported each other though
Just imagine the situation in India. No one will support them neither the society nor their parents . 😔😔 Edit -To all of those who are saying that I am blaming our culture and our law please read my comment again . When I said that ,it's your perception. What I meant is simply that if someone commit such mistakes rather than cutting them from society or punishing them ,we should help them that's it. Even I respect that both our culture and law don't promote such stuff.
That's because our culture doesn't approve of kids being born out of wedlock and that's not a bad thing. Kids who are born out of wedlock overwhelmingly grow up in single mother homes. Marriage brings stability so I'm happy my culture prioritises marriage first before having kids
Just Imagine , if that comes true ,won't our population double every 10-12 yrs or so? How would you accommodate them? Who would earn them roti?The girl's parents? or that of the boy's ? Kahaan India aur kahaaaaan America , Indian culture is unparalleled .
Its not its bout giving them help if they dont have the money to help themself a rich person can help plus we r not comparing culture or anything she is just how ppl r unkind nowadays before judge someone walk a mile in their shoe. Im muslim ik this kind of thing is allowed in my religion but that dosent mean i wont support who needs help. If they commit their mistake im willing to help Main thing we r not someone to judge We should try our best to understand the persons situation Lets not hate someone who hasnt trown their child in the trash after having sex
Still we r not someone to judge if someone does that we should help them to overcome their mistakes. Having sex is not a good thing in little age but we shouldn't judge them we should try to help them
If she hadn’t gotten pregnant at the age she did her child wouldn’t exist. Teenage pregnancy isn’t ideal but in this case her child is happy, and that’s why she wouldn’t change it.
No need to crucify them for a mistake they admitted to, but a life is a life and I'm so happy for them to be proactive parents with lots of love and support 💗
She’s way more mature then a lot of older parents I know. You can tell she was raised right. To her mother: you did not fail her, just look at who she’s became. You can tell she’s a good person who’s intelligent and just a beautiful person in general. She was blessed with a baby before she wanted to become a parent but she’s doing one hell of a job. I guarantee you she will do just fine.
I was pregnant at 15 years old had my son 2 months after my 16th birthday, I'm now 35 an my son just turned 19 years old.. I worked full time put myself through school, and had my own apartment and raised my child alone! Got alot of nasty looks and words but I showed everyone that being young doesn't make you a bad parent!! My son graduated high school and has an amazing career with huge car company!! So proud of the child I raised and being a young parent wasnt easy but I never let any situation hold me down for to long, you get up and hold your head high and say I can do anything!!
Thank you so much!! It's hard having child and being a child still but it was honestly the best thing in my life.. my son brought so much joy and happiness to my family and friends.. we grow up with each other in our own ways, we have best relationship and we did so many fun things and we still do!! Being young having sex and children isn't the best thats a no brainers and I will be the first person to say and tell other young person's to finish school get life experiences but if it does happen just make the best decisions for your child!! Thank you for your support!! 💗
🙂 Well she looks an extremely young 16 (looks about 13) , so I am sure the average person with good eyesight would KNOW she is a young mum. She does however have maturity beyond her years and seems to be doing a good job with an amazing attitude.
The mother’s friend that came up to her and told her: “now everybody knows what you’re doing behind closed doors”, as she didn’t do any of it at the same age (and it’s so rude, how dare she to be so judgemental and don’t mind her own business!). It’s just that this girl got pregnant and others don’t, but having sex doesn’t have to be shameful. On top of it they seem loving caring parents, taking responsibility and knowing they’re lucky for the support of their families, acknowledging that it’s hard but working harder for their kid’s sake. Good luck to them ❤️
pattrip82 true sex shouldn't be shameful. Did this 15 year old child confront her mother's friend or just throwing shade behind her back? Not clear. But not everyone becomes teen mothers so obviously not everyone is doing the same thing ...
This girl seems to be a better parent than most moms in the small town I was raised in. Congratulations for taking responsibility and becoming a genuine mature adult at an accelerated rate. Your story causes me to think about where I need to take more responsibility. Your small family is definitely going to make it and I wish all the best to you three!
The mother of the Daughter is the one I love in this video. She took responsibility of her daughter, and that enabled her daughter to take responsibility for her son.
She looks so beautiful and flawless! Whenever I had my babies I look ridiculous for a little over a month because I bloat afterwards, but honestly I don't care about that in the end because it's so worth it, there is more to celebrate than a few awkward moments
The point is to not have sex so young and get pregnant. They have made their life harder with having a child but they have taken on the responsibility to raise their child with help from the parents.
I was pregnant at 15 and my son is 24 years old now. He is the best and he made my life so much better. It was scarey but I turned my life around and became an awesome person.
You have a beautiful kid . Don't be bothered by this stupid society . Most of these people criticising you themselves had parents who had kids super young so they can't judge you themselves. ❤️ Work hard get rich and live happily.
@@MissAngelic1993 it’s very upsetting that she and so many others got pregnant at such a young age. However, if they’re good parents I wouldn’t worry too much.
@@queerbotanicalqueen I don't think anyone has an issue with them being good parents at this age. The issue stems from them being so young. So yes, if you're pregnant at 15 and step up to take care of the kid, awesome. But nobody should be surprised that people are disappointed to hear a child is having a child. The grandmother is almost made out to be the villain here because she dared be honest about being upset that her 15 year old was pregnant. That's a scary turn in our society. These kids shouldn't necessarily be shunned, but they shouldn't have been given praise either.
I had my child at 16 and been happily 😊 married for 50 yr. and have 2 great sons that are highly educated and most of all, they are kind,giving and wonderful men. Always remember true love and working together will enable you to surpass anything.
Please turn to Jesus! Repent (apologize for your sins and turn away from them) and trust Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior!! I'm telling you this out of love and as someone who used to practice yoga. STOP PRACTICING YOGA!! It's satan/demon worship. God came to earth in human form around 2,000 years ago, and lived a perfect sinless life. He died on the cross for YOU and for me! And on the 3rd day he rose and ascended into Heaven. He said at the end of the age he would return for his kingdom(true believers). And now it's the end of the age! This is God calling you out and giving you one last chance before he returns. Repent and believe in Christ before it's too late!
@@gabriellameattray9778 Actually, Jesus's teachings and the teachings of India/yoga are more alike than you think. Let's stop dividing over religions. There are different paths but they all lead to the same God, none of them is better and none id worse than the other.
@@ExtremerZocker284076 No, we don't all worship the same God. That's a lie from Satan. They're obviously different things. Jesus is very different from any other deity in any other religion. In what ways were his teachings similar to yoga's?? Because he would never endorse demon worship. Please watch this video that explains that we don't all worship the same God. You sound exactly like the woman who is speaking within the first 30 seconds of the video. ua-cam.com/video/grp1w7n3_1g/v-deo.html
@@gabriellameattray9778 What makes me sad is that all saints preach unity, but then people with their egos claim that their religion is superior to the others and the "only real one". Why can't it be about loving God instead of dogma?
Correct point 👍. But the thing was that the father was way more older than the mother. Girls pregnant at 15 years were very common before 100 years due to forcibly marrying a girl to a uncle aged type man! Kudos to all the social reformers who put efforts and stopped this child marriage.👏
@@__SihabShararSamanta Child marriage is when they are under 18, because you become an adult legally at 18, whether you've gone through puberty or not. Puberty has no bearing on the subject, some girls get their period at 9 and some at 17 and this doesn't have any correlation to their maturity. You are a child until you turn 18.
Teen pregnancy isn’t ideal, but their child is here now and they are doing the best they can. It’s harder for them but some teen parents do step up to the plate and do an amazing job.
Ehh I was 14 when I got pregnant and had my oldest at 15. Fast forward a few years I graduated highschool at 16, earned a bachelor's, my husband started a business and are making our way through life just fine. Is it ideal no, can it be done yes.
My mom was 15 & my dad was 17, when I was born - I am now 53 years old; I have a 32-year-old daughter and she's married w/3 children of her own, now. 💗 God bless your little family.💗xoxo
They act like adults, which used to be normal. It's too bad our culture encourages youth and young adults to be so immature that young adults acting like adults is an unusual sight.
What a horrible thing for your Mom’s friend to say! A true friend would have opened her arms wide and given you and your Mom a big hug. She would have been there for your Mom as a good listener and encourager. You and your husband were both were reared very well because you are both doing whatever it takes! I’m proud of you both for being great parents!
I literally love it when something like this happened and the boy don't leave her neither their parents instead they do accept it together and love eachother equally as they love their child.... I literally love it that she is not a single mom like most teens are
I wish her little family the best! I got pregnant at 17 and gave birth at 18, I am now 23 and my son is nearly 5. My partner has always stuck by us and we are still together to this day. We have been together nearly 7 years. I don’t regret anything, our son changed our lives for the better! I don’t remember being judged by anyone but I didn’t really look for it 😅 love from the UK! 💕
It’s obviously not ideal to be a mother at such a young age, but they have stayed together and love their son which is more than a lot of older people do.
I agree :)
Not to mention they have energy to deal with a busy baby boy
@Jordan Kelemen True, but you have no idea how hands on the parents are. You also don't know if the parents are making them pay for a place to stay, because of the extra mouth to feed. Diapers alone cost thousands per year, even the reusable ones that's constantly need cleaning. Then not to mention other things for the child.
They stayed together, for now. chances they will still be together in their thirties are pretty low.
Just saying as long as that boy gets the care he needs. Has two stable parents that love him and they love eachother. I think they'll be just fine ✌😉
It's a lesson....
But her husband did not left her after knowing that she is pregnant...
This what we call a guy a man.
Be a man
Bhal na
Yes..He has character!!
They’re married?
@@flyingrover9022 yes
Yes mistakes teach us lesson :) n hes a nice man 4 staying with her
" I sacrificed my body for 9 months and I went through childbirth yet people still make me feel like I'm less of a mom" -wow
That hit hard
@@Sunflower_that_loves_you it did
Man I definitely understand how that feels I was pregnant at 15.
Wow
People like to separate being a mom from having a kid. There are a lot of people I know that had kids very young and their parents paid for everything and took care of it most of the time. Being a mom is a lot harder when you have your own place to take care of, a job, bills, etc so that's probably where the judging comes from.
The maturity of this girl is astounding.
True 👍🏼☺️
I agree. I wish them all the best!
Its normal when you raise youre children right.
It is easy to show maturity in front of camera and hard in real life.
@Simon Pedersen
Um hello are you totally forgetting about the sweet Angel Adalia rose?
They made a mistake, they accepted and they're making it better. The girl speaks like a mature person.
Having child isn't mistake and in teenage certainly not.....
idk about mistake but they made it work
Exactly
@@ABDULLAH-od8dn Its not a mistake but it makes life much harder to provide so young
@@ABDULLAH-od8dn, it is a mistake, especially when underage.
I'm very impressed that they admitted to it and stood up to be responsible parents. Yea they're young but their family supported them and that's great
Leslie-ann Jones
Absolutely right u r
Bcz this age give u many opportunities
Not to discredit the work they put to parenting, but they seem to be quite well-off financially, which probably really helps.
*She’ll turn 30 when her kid finishes high school bruh thats a dream come true for any parents. They didnt abandon the kid so they got my support*
how?
🤨
Typically you graduate highschool somewhere between 16-18, so I'm not sure how his graduating and her being thirty would correlate?
@@lelulollie the math really wasn't adding up for me. I got 14
@@victoriahuerta4757 late 30s? She’ll be 30/31 when he turns 14/15. damn did you skip 7yrs.
@@joyboy6535 yup she would be like 33
Me at 25 : Making paper boats, sailing them in the rain water and clapping...
If that makes you happy go for it
Really
Jesus lovessss youb
im trying to balance the light in the fridge.
I just finish the whole serial of dragon ball, i am 25 to
they both look so young and so old at the same time
They look “old” probably bc of their height. They both seem tall.. and also the way they dress.
Lol 😂
@@cinnamon88 yeah ur right i think they dress quite mature too
Come va mia amica
Like tall 13 year olds lol-
Props to the guy for staying by her side and not just leaving her as soon as he found out
Yes you’re right but it’s sad that we have to congratulate people for the right thing since a lot just go missing
@@analea6531 I know. : (
ugh that's what my ex did.
now I'm a single mom without getting any child support
@@mayaj2354 I'm really sorry about that. I'll keep you in my prayers.
@@mayaj2354 I hope you’re doing good🙏🏾
I have a ton of respect for the dad, there are guys twice his age who would’ve bailed in an instant just because of an unplanned pregnancy. That’s a man right there.
She definitely got lucky. Most teens in that situation don't have that amount of help.
What a world we live in 😔 Guy stays around after knocking up a girl got the respect when that should (must) be his responsibility. That being said, I adore this couple a lot.
@@trangthuta5120 I know what you are saying and I agree to it.
Yess!!☺️☺️
How old is he
No matter who is disappointed, I'm very proud to see that you guys stayed together and keep the baby, you gave the baby a life a lot of babies don't have :')
You should br forced to stay in a romantic relationship just for kid there is sucj thing as co parenting in order to not bring toxcity
@@hbsupreme1499 who says they were forced? They appear to be happy and do not appear to have a toxic relationship. What is toxic is assuming that all couples shouldn't marry when they are pregnant. Marriage does offer emotional support in a way nothing else can if the couple doesn't just have a wedding, but instead enter into a marriage partnership.
@@hbsupreme1499 Absolutely not!! If it's an abusive toxic relationship then you do NOT want a child to grow up in that enviorment. They take up behaviour like a sponge, and trauma stays for life. My mom only stated with my biological father for 4 years and it was enough to scar me for life, even 20 years later. I have vivid memories of domestic abuse. It's much better if a child grows up with one healthy parent than in an abusive home. Not saying the couple in the video is abusive but what you said was utter bullshlt.
You can tell from the way she talks that she’s very intelligent, mature and dedicated to her child. More power to her. She’s awesome.
Aren't you a Christian? Doesn't your faith speak against fornication and having a child out of wedlock?
So why are you supporting such abominable act?
@@maggyhamada2560 Are you Christian? Shouldn’t you believe we are all sinners? Shouldn’t you know our God is forgiving of our sins? Do you not recall Jesus meeting the woman at the well? Please stop being ignorant. Christians are supposed to love and forgive and praise; all glory to God. None of your judgement phases me, only He has the ultimate say. He knows my heart. Please show some humility, Maggy.
@@catalinamccullough9777 I'm not a Christian and I do in fact believe we are all sinners. But that doesnt mean we can all celebrate and encourage sins.
I just found it strange how people here are so critical of the age factor and completely dismiss the fact we have all normalized fornication like it's nothing to be ashamed of.
It's strange that when I speak about the moral part of it related to God's laws, I get attacked. But when hundreds of other comments speak about the age (which isn't even a huge issue so long they are happy and married) then everyone agrees and don't make comments like "don't judge".
I know God is forgiving, but we can't abuse that. We try to live according to God's laws as much as we can. Yes we may slip and yes we may commit major sins, but we are encouraged to repent.
I have many Christian friends who either have children out of wedlock or just sleep with their boyfriends using protection and it just strikes me as odd how much fornication is no longer a taboo or "something bad"
@@maggyhamada2560 I don’t believe I am encouraging sin nor do I believe others in these comments are. I feel encouragements for where I am NOW, not for what I have done. Why put down young parents saying they have sinned? You don’t think they know that? It’s counterproductive. When I am cradling my baby in my arms, I don’t need the stares or comments. What’s done has been done. I am well aware the tough situation I put myself, my son, my husband, and both our families in. But I am not ashamed for being a mother, I know in my heart that I am doing the best I can. This video is a testimony that although we may be young, we can overcome the adversity put before us, and to encourage young parents to not give up on themselves or their children. Religion is personal, and whatever choices you, your friends and family, or a stranger on the internet make is between THEM and GOD, and I am keeping it that way. He knows my heart. And I clearly am not one to judge on other peoples choices, I choose everyday to be a positive light no matter a person’s situation and I hope you can find peace to do the same. Thank you for commenting, have a nice day.
@@MisterDawn-p1x Having a child at 15 was immature. She’s matured since that and you could tell she is devoted to her child. Secondly, this has made her stronger. We all have trials and tribulations in our life in which we have ABSOLUTE NO RIGHT to judge. I myself have made a lot of stupid and immature decisions that have served me as lessons in my life. Thanks to them I’ve reached so many goals I never thought imagine-able. Many of these accomplishments have been things that most people won’t accomplish in a lifetime. However, I still have to do a lot of personal work that perhaps to others it comes more natural to. I’m a very prideful person and hold grudges. Being prideful, has led a lot of my accomplishments go downhill only to learn the lesson again.... PRIDE. Look within yourself and ask yourself when have you made mistakes? Were you immature? Do you have still immature tendencies? (Even as an adult) Are you kind? Are you humble? Are you honest? You know your faults. It might take some time to reflect but nonetheless, you know what you need to work within yourself.
I got pregnant at 17 and still have her.. She's now 31 and I have three grandkids from her. My daughter changed and saved my life.
That's lovely :D
Love it
@Unit3 GAMING 🤔🤣❤️
@Hi Hello no, her first child was at age 24
Stability is key... My husband adopted her at age 3 and raised her as his own... Were still married almost 28 years ❤️
This young mum comes off as mature and grounded :o
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Yes now thy are mature and after long time his kids are looking young as like parents
Yup it happens when you are a young parent jeje
@@Princessaalexxx then what happened
Very!
kind of forced to mature rather quickly being a young parent
They both made a horrible, irresponsible mistake, but owned up and took responsibility for their actions. Respect.
So it’s okay to have sex in that age but not to get pregnant 😵 what a joke
@Rino PW
Wow, that's deep.
Oh shut up
@@khzkhz5986lit nobody said that… the mistake was having sex that young, as they probably weren’t educated enough. But they accepted the responsibility of the consequences of their actions are are turning it into a great life.
no it's really not 😭 what has this world come to
If she is raising her child, along with her husband, while having a supportive mother, and also not affecting her school life, then it is fine.
I agree as well.
Far from fine. Yea she did what she needed to do but this is far from a fine or even good situation. Those who feel this way should refrain from pro creating.
Husband?
@Ꮶαƚѕuƙi βαƙugօ I support a mature mind first
@Lilac Tiger yh but it's not like we can stop them? It's their choice because we have no say 😂 whether we hate it or not
They seem like better parents than most adults twice their age. Once that little boy is well taken cared of that is all that matters at the end of the day.
That's exactly what I was thinking.
Yes
💯
From the way they talk about their experience as parents and the patience Cat shows to her son really speaks volumes. He seems taken care of and loved.
Looks like you never had good parents
I was 15 as well when i got pregnant just turned 16 when my daughter was born. Im 54 now and my daughter is 37..im was single parent. She's a college graduate with 4 degrees couldn't be more proud🤗
congrats for her and you for being a wonderful mother :)
🤩🤩🤩
Congratulations
why you people got pregnant without marriage?
@@sanashiraz7860 obviously it's people's choice. Don't get butthurt LoL.
She is a great mom at 16. She told her mother about it and is raising a child. Her husband should be the most loyal and loving person in the world.
Pregnant at 15 is not mature at all lol...
Love and attraction is 2 different thing..
We should not promote such things.. 99.9℅ teens are not lucky like this teen and destroy their future..
@@PK0000 you can feel love at 15 idk what hole you're caught up in and it already happened, these shows are to bring awareness not promote teen pregnancies. Maybe look at the statistics where these shows lowered teen pregnancy rates.
@@LeahHasRoses lol they really need to show how tough it can be having a child then. In all honestly they’re probably still going through the ringer, but they’re very lucky they have both sides parents supporting and helping out.
@@PK0000 OP isn't promoting it, what? Lmao. They just said they were being very responsible in a situation where most would be irresponsible. And it does seem like her husband cares for them both despite being young. It sucks but it's done and there's no way to go but forward. Good for them for taking responsibility for their actions
@@PK0000 The body is actually physically ready to have a child at that age, why do you think women usually get their periods at 12/13 years old! I don't know if they are promoting it because it looks like she learned her lesson. She didn't say that she was exicted to repeat what they (yes they as it takes two) did! And yeah, love and attraction are two different things for sure, but you gotta admit, some men would run with this kind of news sadly!
I laughed at her staring at her kid having a temper tantrum on the floor. Its was such a funny and accurate depiction of being a mother/parent lol.
She should’ve waved and walked away.
me too 😂😂 thats what i do
@@anna-sg4oj i also usually watch my kid having tantrums... I don't react to it, i don't engage in it, but i'm scared to leave him alone (at this particular time) so he won't hurt himself.... I just wait there till it's over then i hug him, give him something to drink and then we go to play...
@@terezacervenakova3512 isn’t that like kind of rewarding I don’t wanna be disrespectful but I thought we weren’t supposed to do that
@@iguana580 i think that rewarding would be to give him what he wants to get by having a tantrum- for example sometimes it's because i won't give him snack, cause it's 15 minutes till lunch- so giving him snack would be rewarding, but not watching him without giving him the snack (hope it makes sense). Or sometimes he wants to play with something that can be dangerous for him (like sharp scissors or power socket) And he throws a tantrum cause i say no- again, i watch him (but really just standing there like a figurine, no emotions, no attention, just supervising), but i won't give him what he wants- so i believe i'm not revarding this behaviour. But that's just my way, i'm not saying it's the one true approach for everybody ;)
Okay, I'm not promoting teen pregnancy, but NO ONE has the right to judge them.
Point. Blank. PeRiOd.
Back in the day women had kids at 13 to 16.
@@oxjuliaaaxo and like 20 kids
I agree.
@@oxjuliaaaxo An estimated 70 000 adolescent mothers die each year because they have children before they are physically ready for parenthood,
He is a real man because he didnt leave her after knowing she is pregnant
That’s the bare minimum
And she is real woman she didn't leave the child
@@elianacove yeah.
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Yess
I had my daughter when I was 17. It’s definitely not easy raising a child when you are still one yourself. However, nothing is impossible I was able to finish high school, go to college and I have a solid career. I wish these two the best moving forward.
Blessings.
respect :)
Take the pill have the guy wear a condom it’s really that simple or just don’t have sex you pervert
A los 17 años ya no eres un niño.
Me too buddy, married and had kid at 17 . Got a job at 20. Now at 42 , planning to have an early retired life since my kid is about to start working.
I don’t have a problem with it at least they both took responsibility and stepped up
Um YES there IS a problem! Those 15 year olds wont be able to be kids anymore...
@@Diamondr11Blue yes. What is wrong with people. Lol when it hits his home he'll have a problem then, I bet
@@Diamondr11Blue oh shut up .
Normalizing grooming?
@@trouperfrades7490 elaborate pls how is this grooming they were both minors and now they're both adults
My mom had me when she was 16. Now she is going to be 79 and I will be 63. We are so close now.
Lol😂😂
aww that is so beautiful! Me and my husband had kids late in life, and we are now trying to be as healthy as possible, so that when they are older we can be there for them, and see our grand kids. I don't regret it because I'm glad that at least I had children, but I never thought about this aspect of it at all.
My mom had me when she was 38. She will be 52 soon and I just turned 14. My mom had me late and my father left when I was 2. At least that kid has a father to look up to. Lol
@Elijah i am laughing at the fact that both mom and daughter are so close in thier age gap😂
in the past it was normal to get a child at young age, now you can live a long life with your mom
No one is talking about how rude people are to young teen parents. It’s none of your damn business, they know they messed up and they stepped up.
@hyrulphicsound yeah I didn’t even think about it that way but it’s true. People are so judgmental as if they’re perfect themselves
@@biancasadventure ikr its none of their business thats y we say
Before u judge someone walk a mile in their shoe
@Censorship Sucks so u dont wanna help them even stepped up to overcome their mistake? i wish no one comes to help u either when u want to overcome ur mistake no matter how big mistake u made 😑😑
@Censorship Sucks u don't want to help them to overcome their mistake? Fine i hope no one comes to help you when you want to over come your mistake. No matter how big mistake you make.
@Censorship Sucks lol
I got pregnant at 23 and I still got comments from people saying I was too young. I can't imagine at 15, but these two are champs. Congratulations :)
She’s so well spoken and seems like such a wonderful mum, better than a lot of “normal” aged mums out there. They are going to raise a fantastic little human.
They have supportive parents too. That baby is growing with a lot of love and support. 😇
I don't care how old they are, they seem like responsible and loving parents despite their age. I wish them all the best!
@Nakulyou're missing op's point. op said both of them were responsible parents. They might have made irresponsible choices before they became parents, but look at them now. They loved and took care of their mistake (which was the baby) despite all of their shortcomings. Not all of people their age have the capacity to do that. Hell, even older couple (or should i say, legally aged parents) were not guaranteed to be responsible parents.
Your argument for bringing the facts that the couple were too young doesn't negate the facts they were amazing parents to their kid.
@@winidepuh4868 That's exactly what I meant, thank you 😊
@@aneta7027 you are welcome!
@@winidepuh4868 I agree with you for the most part. The only thing I don't agree with you on is the baby is not the mistake. Having sex when they weren't ready to deal with a potential pregnancy was the mistake. Other than that I fully agree with you. My husband works in a field where he sees the outcome of adults neglecting kids all the time. It's nice to see loving suppirt and growth in a difficult situation. I wish nothing but the best for this little family taking care of each other.
everything not as it seems
While having sex without any precautions is irresponsible, these two handled having a kid at such a young age with grace. I commend them
They handled it and don’t regret it because they don’t have their own house they don’t pay their own bills so it’s actually no that hard on them.
@@naninanina1112 please tell more about how you know so much about these kids you've never met🙄
@@crazylizze98 oh yeah sure just go to their social media’s they share everything there you will find all the information you need your welcome.
That sums it up!
@@naninanina1112
I see nothing on their social media. I dont think they even have a social media presence which makes sense.
Its obviously wrong to have a child when you’re so young yourself. But they look responsible and atleast they’re still together. It’s beautiful.
Yes, they are and they didn't try to glamorise teen pregnancy. They owned it and didn't let it affect their careers, Completed their high school, college, and are full-time employees. And for me, the best is that they didn't end up as teen UA-cam family bloggers👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Agreed.
@@TheImaginarY_ESCAPES. truu family vloggers🤡
Agree god bless those parents😌😌😌😌❤️❤️❤️❤️😢😢🍻🍻
Its wrong to have children when you are passed 30 its unnatural
Supporting teen parents is different from supporting teens to be a parent .
Exactly
Well said
YUP
Yessir
Couldn't have put it better!!!
She seems like such a genuinely mature and kind person. The baby is in good hands.
So long as that baby is taken care of that’s what matters.
Uh no, those kids no longer have a childhood they're now adults ..
They made their bed when they had unprotected sex, now their lives, like all good parents will revolve around the child. So as long as the child is well taken care of that’s all that matters.
@@Diamondr11Blue they are happy enough with that so what’s the issue
This child is blessed with loving caring parents, his parents and grandparents are doing well for him. I hope they always be connected and happy and with good health.
Everyone praising Grant in the comments for staying to take care of his own child... He’s a great dad, yes, but it just goes to show how often boys and men leave their children.
@tentedkarma 746 Men leave their children at an astronomically higher rate than mothers do. And no, there is no excuse to leave your child. Just like in this video, fathers are praised endlessly for staying, but the mother never is, because society doesn't expect men to take care of their own children, and many don't, even when they do stay.
@tentedkarma 746 That has nothing to do with the topic of absent fathers. If a man is an abuser he's more likely to stay just so he can abuse people, absent fathers are just deadbeats, not abusers. Don't make excuses for it.
@tentedkarma 746 any proof that people who leave are most likely abusive?
It's more of a case of men aren't trapped by biology to take care of the child.
@@Nimish204 Right, so the government should do a lot more to trap them legally. At the end of the day, it takes 2 to make a child so both should be EQUALLY responsible for their creation. The man paying $70/week for child support while the mother wakes up, feeds, clothes, drives, soothes, etc. the child every second of the day is not equal. Women's reproductive and bodily autonomy rights are always being argued while men not only don't have to go through pregnancy and their rights being questioned, but they also get to run away from all of their responsibilities largely with no consequences. I think it's pathetic that the government even has to get involved at all, when did it become a matter of opinion whether you should take care of your own kids or not?
You did not fail your daughter. She's very mature for her age and luckily seems like both grandparents are involved. If this didn't happen, that cute little boy wouldn't exist.
Teens are often irresponsible, but these two were raised by amazing parents, who taught them how to take care of a family. 5 years later they are still together and going strong. I mean at this age so many relationships would not last till the end of the pregnancy and look at these two amazing parents. :O Hats down to them! Good job, grandparents.
Agreed, what matters is what they do for their son together.
Another example is the Radfords in the UK. They started off as parents when she was 14 and now they have 22 kids..just to say not always young parents split up
They got pregnant at 15, their parents did go wrong somewhere..
@@theperson431 I agree, these people who praise young people who are young parents are encouraging other young people that it’s okay 😂 meanwhile the reality sucks and it’s not the best experience for these kids who have kids.
@@midnightcity2591 Yesss!! It's not something a child should have to go through. Being a parent sucks (and yes you love your kid, but it still sucks). Especially if you're a child, you don't know how the world works, you are not financially independent, you have no experience. You can't protect yourself, how you gonna protect anyone else!?
Kudos to them for raising their child! When they hold hands, you can tell they care about each other. And kudos to their parents for being so supportive! This is why "family" is so important. I wish them the very best and pray that they are able keep the love.
If the child is taken care of, it’s literally no one else’s business. That little boy seems loved and that’s wonderful!
Exactly
Problem is the children can't take care of their baby without putting a lot of strain on the families. Not cool!
@@jacquelinefitzpatrick2405 how do you think it feels for the parents?
@@zoetovar1564 the baby-parents probably feel irresponsible and even more of a burden on their parents.
I don't think we should normalize this type of behavior.
@@jacquelinefitzpatrick2405 how is not being a dbag normalizing?
The fact that their parents were ready to give their full support,it made them know they could stand anything
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my mom was 15 when she was pregnant with me in the late 70s. now its weird realizing how young that really is now that im 44 with no kids .
It's fine !
Not having kid for whatever reason be it your choice or medical reasons it's okk!
Being a parent should not be a goal (though many have and that is upto them) but a part (not for all).
Jamie Johnson
Osm bcz know u r looking young same as like like ur mom age
@Maja Hanžek that nice
Ur uncle is great man
He hv geart heart
Thy want to give u love as a good parents
@Maja Hanžek where u from
I assure u ur uncle give u love care whole life
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Despite the ages they're better parents than most people twice their age.
They matured and responsible compared to some older parents..
She's 15 but her spirit is already 25 it's not age but it's the spirit and ur confidence.
amazing
Technically she's 18 now
@@queenjayjay5828 do you know her Instagram
Body matters.... basically you are saying if she is 10 her mind is like 20....she can still get pregnant.... isn't it??......MORON
O_O that would they wont get pregnant but there might be possibility of death if they do it properly at a little age
She is so mature and well spoken, congrats to both of them for turning a “bad situation” into positive.
Yes. Totally agree. She is very articulate and mature with her outlook
hi Laura 😉
Guys please take note. This is what being a man means.
Take care of your family. And take responsibility of your mistake.
That baby isn’t a mistake he’s a surprise
@@JordynPdoc I wasn't saying the baby is a mistake. But teenage pregnancy because of lack of sex education is. Understand the context bro. Things could go very wrong in such situations, the person who suffers the most is the child and the teenage mom. We have to be supportive to them, but also discourage younger children from making this mistake.
@@kaberigomes2117when I say my mistake I don’t mean my daughter I had her at 15 . People tend to misunderstand that huh. I mean , the mistake of not waiting , the mistake of not preventing it. I regret the timing but I don’t regret her . I could’ve provided a better childhood for her . She’s 17 now . So I get what you are trying to say .
@@raquelpk2 I understand completely. Children are always blessing from God. But we must be ready and prepared to provide them with a decent life. As teenagers need protection and guidance themselves, without any outside support, two lives are at stake.
They live at there moms house how are they being responsible
The little boy seems very loved. Many children aren’t. In that way, he’s blessed.
Lol
@@Drehgab that’s something to laugh about :/
She my have been a careless teen by getting pregnant but she is a mature and strong young woman and mom now.
THEY must have been careless. Come on now takes 2
@@ghfamghgam1172 I think OP is very specifically talking about Cat.
@@piratesswoop725 go away
@@ghfamghgam1172 no
@@ghfamghgam1172 You're childish and should be embarrassed.
teens aren’t judged for having sex until there’s an unplanned pregnancy. that’s when the judgements start rolling in
Not fully true
@@Dylan94488 you’re right, but for the most part teens aren’t ridiculed and bullied in public until they’re pregnant or parents
@@kayleighdavis4946 yeah but that also may have to do that people can't really tell if they had
I think that is because there´s no physical evidence to tell if a teen is having sex or not. But let me tell you, there´s a lot of teens who have been ridiculed-judged-bullied in public for buying condoms, pills, etc.
@@micaelapizarro1597 exactly. there’s really no winning- if you go to buy protection, you’re judged. if you don’t buy protection and end up having a baby, you’re also judged. and if you’re abstinent, then you’re judged for that
It is quite young age for being parents ..but the way their family and you both managed to escape out of criticism is incredible ❤
"Everybody knew what you did when you were pregnant too"...Nailed it
That "friend"really showed her true colours in the test of time!! There is nothing you can do but weed her out.
I’m a 15 year old mom and I love my son more than anything he saved my life I was in a dark space he is the light in my life he makes me want to do better. Props to her keep doing good girl🥰
awe 🥺 happy for you and your son mamas and i hope all is well! ☺️💜
So cute!
I wish u both the best of luck 🥰
All the best to you and your little boy ❤
I don’t even know you and I feel so proud of you. You chose life and that’s the most amazing thing you could’ve ever done for your baby.
She's so well-spoken! Such inspiring young people.
the mom is so proud of her daughter's accomplishments despite the hardship of bearing a child then raising him. i teared up that was so precious omg.
We love supporting parents.
Yes
Who aren't middle schoolers...
@@delvinmallory3427 ??
Being a young mom myself I can say these 2 teens are unselfish and very caring parents. That little boy is lucky to have you both and your parents
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@Souhailla D sdfu
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@ANNIKA NAAH good comeback lol
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Im 30 with a 2 year old and its so hard for me at times I can't imagine being 15. I think they are doing the best of their situation and the boy looks well taken care of
I am 30 years old man . I am unmarried . I am jobless . I have decided to stay single whole life .
@@biswajithalder3144 lmaoo
@@biswajithalder3144 people end up meeting their loves when they least expect it. Stay strong and keep taking care of yourself
Being a parent is absolutely one of the most shocking adjustments I've ever made in my latter thirties. I can't imagine what it's been like for this teen couple. I have so much admiration for their maturity and patience at such a young age. Way to go!
Even as a 19 year old boy, I don't want to have kids after 40.I will get older and physically weaker.and it will be too much for me to take such huge responsibilities.So I will have babies in early twenty's.because thats the pick age.after 30,taking care of children starts becoming difficult.i will be more vulnerable to deseases,i can't give childrens enough time.i can't take them to vacation,playing every week which is important for every childrens.maybe i will be financially independent and more mature.But my aging won't let me use the maturity and wealth properly.there is a proverb going-health is wealth.without good health, maturity is also not that usefull
@@proudexmuslim2354 you say you will have them at early 20s but a lot of people have a plan and sometimes you arent in the right relationship to have children until later.
@@missld6856 yeah.maybe in late 20s or early 30s then if i get the right partner.
I would imagine it is probably the same but for them they are still figuring out who they are. You pretty much know yourself in your thirties.
It's great that they both supported each other though
I think is worst at 30's because you get used to be selfish with your time, energy, things, money...at 15 you are not used to nothing
Just imagine the situation in India. No one will support them neither the society nor their parents . 😔😔
Edit -To all of those who are saying that I am blaming our culture and our law please read my comment again . When I said that ,it's your perception. What I meant is simply that if someone commit such mistakes rather than cutting them from society or punishing them ,we should help them that's it. Even I respect that both our culture and law don't promote such stuff.
But we can support them :) if they dont have bad intention ppl like us can support them
That's because our culture doesn't approve of kids being born out of wedlock and that's not a bad thing. Kids who are born out of wedlock overwhelmingly grow up in single mother homes. Marriage brings stability so I'm happy my culture prioritises marriage first before having kids
Just Imagine , if that comes true ,won't our population double every 10-12 yrs or so? How would you accommodate them? Who would earn them roti?The girl's parents? or that of the boy's ?
Kahaan India aur kahaaaaan America ,
Indian culture is unparalleled .
Its not its bout giving them help if they dont have the money to help themself a rich person can help plus we r not comparing culture or anything she is just how ppl r unkind nowadays before judge someone walk a mile in their shoe. Im muslim ik this kind of thing is allowed in my religion but that dosent mean i wont support who needs help. If they commit their mistake im willing to help
Main thing we r not someone to judge
We should try our best to understand the persons situation
Lets not hate someone who hasnt trown their child in the trash after having sex
Still we r not someone to judge if someone does that we should help them to overcome their mistakes. Having sex is not a good thing in little age but we shouldn't judge them we should try to help them
An adult mind can see the difference between wishing that she didn't get pregnant at a young age. But not wanting your child erased.
If she hadn’t gotten pregnant at the age she did her child wouldn’t exist. Teenage pregnancy isn’t ideal but in this case her child is happy, and that’s why she wouldn’t change it.
@@niawohl3377 she also doesn't seem to be struggling
No need to crucify them for a mistake they admitted to, but a life is a life and I'm so happy for them to be proactive parents with lots of love and support 💗
Having a kid young tend to make u do that
*She is so cute, I sure as hell wouldn't have pulled out either.*
She’s way more mature then a lot of older parents I know. You can tell she was raised right. To her mother: you did not fail her, just look at who she’s became. You can tell she’s a good person who’s intelligent and just a beautiful person in general. She was blessed with a baby before she wanted to become a parent but she’s doing one hell of a job. I guarantee you she will do just fine.
They both are very mature and resilient. They will be good parents, even under the circumstances.
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I was pregnant at 15 years old had my son 2 months after my 16th birthday, I'm now 35 an my son just turned 19 years old.. I worked full time put myself through school, and had my own apartment and raised my child alone! Got alot of nasty looks and words but I showed everyone that being young doesn't make you a bad parent!! My son graduated high school and has an amazing career with huge car company!! So proud of the child I raised and being a young parent wasnt easy but I never let any situation hold me down for to long, you get up and hold your head high and say I can do anything!!
I don't know you but I'm proud of you and happy for you and your son!
Thank you so much!! It's hard having child and being a child still but it was honestly the best thing in my life.. my son brought so much joy and happiness to my family and friends.. we grow up with each other in our own ways, we have best relationship and we did so many fun things and we still do!! Being young having sex and children isn't the best thats a no brainers and I will be the first person to say and tell other young person's to finish school get life experiences but if it does happen just make the best decisions for your child!! Thank you for your support!! 💗
@@balajitimothy6961 weirdo
I have a lot of respect for them for taking full responsibility of their kid. Many adults can’t even do that. Cuddos to you guys.
How are kids made
the fact that they're ten times cuter together than other couples made me one step closer to believing in true love
I would be her friend, she seems so nice and mature
Me too!
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If they didn’t mention their ages, I would think that they’re normal adults raising child. They’re so mature
Mature people don't have kids at 15.
🙂 Well she looks an extremely young 16 (looks about 13) , so I am sure the average person with good eyesight would KNOW she is a young mum. She does however have maturity beyond her years and seems to be doing a good job with an amazing attitude.
She's 18 but I thought she was still 15
@@TheSangheili000 Having kids young not mature but choosing to take the responsibility for your own actions is mature.
"I take a day with my son over anything" she's very young but she is more mature than most girls her age or even older women.
Your story gave me chills- the good kind. God bless you all.
It’s good that they admitted that it was irresponsible, but I’m happy that they’re good parents. Their boy is cute!
The mother’s friend that came up to her and told her: “now everybody knows what you’re doing behind closed doors”, as she didn’t do any of it at the same age (and it’s so rude, how dare she to be so judgemental and don’t mind her own business!). It’s just that this girl got pregnant and others don’t, but having sex doesn’t have to be shameful. On top of it they seem loving caring parents, taking responsibility and knowing they’re lucky for the support of their families, acknowledging that it’s hard but working harder for their kid’s sake. Good luck to them ❤️
Karens
pattrip82 true sex shouldn't be shameful. Did this 15 year old child confront her mother's friend or just throwing shade behind her back? Not clear. But not everyone becomes teen mothers so obviously not everyone is doing the same thing ...
Ikr? Why is it so important to some people knowing other's sex life?
@ZarkZyrian lol why?
that girls so damn mature for her age, after i heard her story, of how she overcame her challenges and to see where she is now, its incredible
This girl seems to be a better parent than most moms in the small town I was raised in. Congratulations for taking responsibility and becoming a genuine mature adult at an accelerated rate. Your story causes me to think about where I need to take more responsibility. Your small family is definitely going to make it and I wish all the best to you three!
Mom: no, dont throw! Don't throw!
Kid: *Throws ball*
That's toddlers for ya.. Always testing your inner ganster😅
The mother of the Daughter is the one I love in this video. She took responsibility of her daughter, and that enabled her daughter to take responsibility for her son.
I really appreciate how both their parents were disappointed but did give them full support which is really important to them!!
There’s absolutely nothing wrong I see here. People should really mind their own business.
She looks so pretty in that picture the day she gave birth to her son like who looks like that after giving birth
I thought the same! Cause i sure didn't lol
i know oh my god 😭 she looks like a painting
She looks so beautiful and flawless! Whenever I had my babies I look ridiculous for a little over a month because I bloat afterwards, but honestly I don't care about that in the end because it's so worth it, there is more to celebrate than a few awkward moments
My face looked bloated in pictures. 😆
Which one? Time stamp please!! 🤍
The point is to not have sex so young and get pregnant. They have made their life harder with having a child but they have taken on the responsibility to raise their child with help from the parents.
I was pregnant at 15 and my son is 24 years old now. He is the best and he made my life so much better. It was scarey but I turned my life around and became an awesome person.
So glad that you chose life for your precious son; proud of both of you for being loving parents 🥰
This is similar to our story ❤️
wowww bro!
congrats to you..
am 15 and will be 16 on 23april... .. soo have a really nice day.. this video just gave me a baby fever
:)
I'm so proud of your family. Sending all my love ♥️
@@are_you_serious_or_youre_a905 no I’m
You have a beautiful kid . Don't be bothered by this stupid society . Most of these people criticising you themselves had parents who had kids super young so they can't judge you themselves. ❤️ Work hard get rich and live happily.
„Stupid society“ that thinks a 15-year-old should be pregnant?? -Yeah... STUPID society😂😂🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
@@MissAngelic1993 it’s very upsetting that she and so many others got pregnant at such a young age. However, if they’re good parents I wouldn’t worry too much.
@@queerbotanicalqueen I don't think anyone has an issue with them being good parents at this age. The issue stems from them being so young. So yes, if you're pregnant at 15 and step up to take care of the kid, awesome. But nobody should be surprised that people are disappointed to hear a child is having a child. The grandmother is almost made out to be the villain here because she dared be honest about being upset that her 15 year old was pregnant. That's a scary turn in our society. These kids shouldn't necessarily be shunned, but they shouldn't have been given praise either.
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You should say healthy baby
I had my child at 16 and been happily 😊 married for 50 yr. and have 2 great sons that are highly educated and most of all, they are kind,giving and wonderful men. Always remember true love and working together will enable you to surpass anything.
I'm glad that you've lived a great life.
Even Mistakes turns into wonders when you have your family's support through tough times
My mom had me at 15 and it definitely wasn’t easy. However, this girl seems level headed and very much responsible.
Please turn to Jesus! Repent (apologize for your sins and turn away from them) and trust Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior!! I'm telling you this out of love and as someone who used to practice yoga. STOP PRACTICING YOGA!! It's satan/demon worship. God came to earth in human form around 2,000 years ago, and lived a perfect sinless life. He died on the cross for YOU and for me! And on the 3rd day he rose and ascended into Heaven. He said at the end of the age he would return for his kingdom(true believers). And now it's the end of the age! This is God calling you out and giving you one last chance before he returns. Repent and believe in Christ before it's too late!
@Nihal H if you find that amusing, please watch this video. I'm so serious
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@@gabriellameattray9778 Actually, Jesus's teachings and the teachings of India/yoga are more alike than you think. Let's stop dividing over religions. There are different paths but they all lead to the same God, none of them is better and none id worse than the other.
@@ExtremerZocker284076 No, we don't all worship the same God. That's a lie from Satan. They're obviously different things. Jesus is very different from any other deity in any other religion. In what ways were his teachings similar to yoga's?? Because he would never endorse demon worship. Please watch this video that explains that we don't all worship the same God. You sound exactly like the woman who is speaking within the first 30 seconds of the video. ua-cam.com/video/grp1w7n3_1g/v-deo.html
@@gabriellameattray9778 What makes me sad is that all saints preach unity, but then people with their egos claim that their religion is superior to the others and the "only real one". Why can't it be about loving God instead of dogma?
People 100 years ago:
"Is it even a matter ?"
Correct point 👍.
But the thing was that the father was way more older than the mother.
Girls pregnant at 15 years were very common before 100 years due to forcibly
marrying a girl to a uncle aged type man!
Kudos to all the social reformers who put efforts and stopped this child marriage.👏
@@afsanaahamed9996 A human child is a human who didn't yet reached puberty ...
@@__SihabShararSamanta it depend, in the U.K. your classes as a child until 16 years old. It’s different across the world.
@@__SihabShararSamanta Child marriage is when they are under 18, because you become an adult legally at 18, whether you've gone through puberty or not.
Puberty has no bearing on the subject, some girls get their period at 9 and some at 17 and this doesn't have any correlation to their maturity. You are a child until you turn 18.
Waiting fr such a day in India!!
My mother was 14 when I was conceived, 15 when she had me. Speaking from the other side of things, children should not have children.
im gonna wait
Teen pregnancy isn’t ideal, but their child is here now and they are doing the best they can. It’s harder for them but some teen parents do step up to the plate and do an amazing job.
@@niawohl3377 agreed
@@niawohl3377 yeah
Ehh I was 14 when I got pregnant and had my oldest at 15. Fast forward a few years I graduated highschool at 16, earned a bachelor's, my husband started a business and are making our way through life just fine. Is it ideal no, can it be done yes.
My mom was 15 & my dad was 17, when I was born - I am now 53 years old; I have a 32-year-old daughter and she's married w/3 children of her own, now. 💗
God bless your little family.💗xoxo
They seemed like old souls in young teenage bodies. As a toddler mama myself hats off to her for her patience to her child. Seems well looked after.
Even in the way they dress and speak huh lol
They act like adults, which used to be normal. It's too bad our culture encourages youth and young adults to be so immature that young adults acting like adults is an unusual sight.
Cat is a legend. Very few people are that strong... Grant is a real man. He could have easily left them of. He chose to be a father instead.
Priti D BtCFs-29 Legend? _Okay_
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It’s an expression. Just saying how she was so amazing for being strong.
I'm just happy at how responsible they are
What a horrible thing for your Mom’s friend to say! A true friend would have opened her arms wide and given you and your Mom a big hug. She would have been there for your Mom as a good listener and encourager.
You and your husband were both were reared very well because you are both doing whatever it takes! I’m proud of you both for being great parents!
I literally love it when something like this happened and the boy don't leave her neither their parents instead they do accept it together and love eachother equally as they love their child....
I literally love it that she is not a single mom like most teens are
I admire every single one of these people, they both are doing a great job.
I wish her little family the best! I got pregnant at 17 and gave birth at 18, I am now 23 and my son is nearly 5. My partner has always stuck by us and we are still together to this day. We have been together nearly 7 years. I don’t regret anything, our son changed our lives for the better! I don’t remember being judged by anyone but I didn’t really look for it 😅 love from the UK! 💕
I can see that inner pain still in kat's mom's face.