How Relationships Change You

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  • Опубліковано 16 тра 2024
  • How relationships change you. Explore the fascinating ways in which relationships change us with Coach Craig Kenneth and Coach Victoria. From adopting our partner's interests to experiencing shifts in our personality, relationships have a profound impact on our lives. Don't miss out on their expert insights - subscribe now for more engaging content
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  • @kursengamer4699
    @kursengamer4699 Місяць тому +7

    After some tough breakups it’s hard for me to trust anyone anymore. I’ve gone from anxious to avoidant 😞still trying for that middle ground.

  • @canis556
    @canis556 Місяць тому +3

    Depression, low self esteem, isolation, avoidance, not being present, numbness, more awareness about psychology and relationships in general. That's the effects after on and off relationship with avoidant for two years.

  • @foreveryoungpisces7426
    @foreveryoungpisces7426 Місяць тому

    Trying to forget him but what I am now is a lot of his doing. The music and films he introduced me to, a video game which I love, his culture, how he stimulated my creative mind. 6 years LDR, 2-90 day visits, connected more than I ever have been with a man. We're both over 50 so we're adult enough but it all went awry his last visit and I've shut him off now 9 months. He reaches out but I don't respond or just give a quick Thank you, like on my birthday. I am at a loss of what to do. A day at a time.

  • @roseclimbpaintcont
    @roseclimbpaintcont Місяць тому

    With all the help help I got from your courses, I'm basically just trying not to be overly demanding trying to instead of critique like oh, these dishes weren't cleaned well enough. Just washing them myself because he already does so much anyway

  • @LeoJr-rk4km
    @LeoJr-rk4km Місяць тому

    Great article 💎

  • @jaysgone2020
    @jaysgone2020 Місяць тому +1

    I'm a widow, I have changed sooooooooo much!

  • @roseclimbpaintcont
    @roseclimbpaintcont Місяць тому +1

    Compromise can be hard when you used to being single

    • @foreveryoungpisces7426
      @foreveryoungpisces7426 Місяць тому

      And older. We are both set in our ways and clashed. I've been alone so long, but really want a love before I die. Sounds morose I know but it's true.

    • @captcraig7325
      @captcraig7325 Місяць тому

      ⁠@@foreveryoungpisces7426very true. I’m 56 and 8 months out of a 16 year relationship with a woman who blindsided me with the breakup. It’s been so tough, but I’m healing and doing much better. I think I’m ready to start dating again, as I have a lot of life left and want to share that with someone. Give yourself time and let yourself heal. You’ll come around if you’re kind to yourself. If you ever want to talk, please feel free to reach out. I’m happy to share what worked for me and my journey. I’m in South FL (US) if that matters. Either way hang in there, things will get better, I promise ya.

  • @Zemohc
    @Zemohc Місяць тому

    Hasnt really changed me all that much. Tend to keep to myself as usual. Im usually initializing social interactions so i pick my battles.

  • @BruceJC75
    @BruceJC75 Місяць тому +1

    More cynical than I’ve ever been. Just when I thought love had finally softened my heart, it turned out to be a lie.

  • @breatheliveandthrive7404
    @breatheliveandthrive7404 Місяць тому

    How? You will learn.

  • @katiebennett6086
    @katiebennett6086 Місяць тому

    I kno people while I been in my 20s people normally were normally settled down at my age and now it's people in there 30s and older while when use to people in there 20s use to have fun and enjoy life been young even late 20s but some reason every age I get or time I normally am not in with the age that's actually popular I mean I'm 32 I act 23 and am until it comes to kno my age then I'm 32 so I'm 32😊😊😊

  • @alpdarici6825
    @alpdarici6825 Місяць тому +3

    I can tell how my relationship is change me, 1 i lost joy of my life 2 i lost my faith there is no god! nothing! 3 i lost everything what believe! 4 i had lenfomia cancer just starting two months after my ex dumped me ! this is my changes and there is no love in this world

    • @YouNolf
      @YouNolf Місяць тому +3

      Give your ex a place in your heart, tell them in your mind that you are thankful for what has been and what they gave you, and you take your part of responsibility for the end of the relationship, because you chose them even unconsciously. And don't treat them like they are your father/mother. They aren't, and they don't deserve the same amount of blind faith we put on our parents, which are obligated to take care of us. Our partners (and exes) are NOT.

    • @Dad_Brad
      @Dad_Brad Місяць тому +1

      @@YouNolfgood advice!

    • @YouNolf
      @YouNolf Місяць тому

      @@Dad_Brad I know! XD

    • @J3ff687
      @J3ff687 Місяць тому

      We pray for you, and your complète heal and restauration 🙏

    • @Wildanimal864.
      @Wildanimal864. Місяць тому

      @@YouNolfthat’s nonsense

  • @jagriffin1
    @jagriffin1 Місяць тому

    6 years of slow gradual change and I had to lose her to realize it

  • @mahmoudm.3nani802
    @mahmoudm.3nani802 Місяць тому

    depression, insomnia , more trust issues, buy money so we can tell me to move on

  • @MonsterTomten
    @MonsterTomten Місяць тому

    In a few weeks it's one year since I was dumped and monkey branched from. By someone who was one of my closest friends for 4 years prior to becoming a couple and we share alot of common friends. I was completely ignored during this time when I was at an all time low, I lost not only her, but also her kids and cat and dog. All of which I had a great connection with. I feel better but I am still not 100%
    For the past year I have tried to have a positive attitude towards life and keep a light mood. But alot of the time it's tough, I'm growing tired, I feel like I am in a rut.
    My personality right now is a bit like Ryan Goslings gloomy characters

  • @oliparkes1591
    @oliparkes1591 Місяць тому

    I can't even look at couples holding hands or showing affection in public, because all I see is my ex and her boyfriend she betrayed me for. It makes me think love is toxic.

    • @Raadestdude
      @Raadestdude Місяць тому

      I’m sorry I can relate to you tho. I’m going through something similar.

    • @oliparkes1591
      @oliparkes1591 Місяць тому

      @@Raadestdude I'm sorry too mate. I am realising how common betrayals are unfortunately.

  • @roseclimbpaintcont
    @roseclimbpaintcont Місяць тому

    My boyfriend's name is Tommy and we do have an age Gap. I'm 6 years older but that's just funny cuz of your joke

  • @Wildanimal864.
    @Wildanimal864. Місяць тому

    I’ve become 10x smart and much colder that’s about it……Craig let’s get real.

  • @kursengamer4699
    @kursengamer4699 Місяць тому

    Another change of personality can come from a death. Similar to break up and or divorce

  • @roseclimbpaintcont
    @roseclimbpaintcont Місяць тому

    Lovely blouse Victoria

  • @jahant7
    @jahant7 Місяць тому

    I feel like I have become more avoidant! Lol

  • @moneypenny3050
    @moneypenny3050 Місяць тому

    For my taste, you guys stare at each other too much while you are talking. Look more at the camera (audience).
    No disrespect intended ... I'm just saying